This was very necessary to talk about kashmiri culture.People should understand this not everyone can afford expenses. Poor people like us get stuck nd forced todo formalities.. luxurious kashmiri weddings have become a trend nd everybody gets inspired by them and becomes obliged to spend such expenses..
Marriages should be simple and should follow sunnah's of prophet mohammad s .a.w .i appreciate your content which is a most need of our society as it builds pressure on both sides ,mostly bride's side.
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Nice step 1 should think of everyone including poor or middle class Don't go against sunnah or hadees My request to everyone spread this videos to everyone
Good job mam. You must visit to hawal.their nikkha is totally simple.they have their own rule for nikkha.like only 4 items in wazwaan.nothing from Dulhan side nothing. Even till now they all are following their rules. Proud for them.
Much of this lavish is driven by percievd mindset n social expectations rather than personal desires nd likings ,causng unnecessary stress among peopl ,,,, display of wealth has become increasingly common ,..leading to competition among kashmiris...To conclude Best Marriage iz one which is easiest😊....
And what about the demands from girl side ,govt nokri gasii aasun yeh kya eeman aur sunnat ka hisa ha yeh ladeeni and dunivaiye laalch hai isliye nikah nhi horhay
The tradition if weddings we had. Love, brother hood amazing ng neighbors used to be more prioritised over theykeh theykeh. If not that simple ,Let weddings be atleast that simple we used to have. Women folk singing and blessing(this way we had a hold upon our culture and tradition) i'e wanwun. In the awe of dj's our new generation lost the interest and love for our culture and language. Wazwan, the only prevailing authenticity in our culture is being filthed by bla bla. The pherans embroidery we used to be a source of income for kashmiri artisans. Since we stepped towards belly button revealing lehengas the elegance of heritage us lagging behind,,,, heritage is at verge of extinction due to multiple visible political forces that have been in play since decades now at this time if we went for the outside lavishes the essence of kashmir will be completely lost!!!!! To think about these matters we won't recieve angels from neighboring places we have to take steps for safeguarding the heritage by our own...
Aakh mindset Diya hai society nai ke Jo cheezai shaddi kai time ladke ko milai Ga woh phir nhi mil sakta ...this is the reason ladke kuch fazool cheezai lati hai aur jahan aakh Cheez LAGai ge waha doh lati hai 🤦🤦🤦
Usually these type of marriages end up into divorce. Aisi shadiyo me koi barakat nhi hoti , jisme haaram kaari or biddat shamil ho. Barkat to sirf saada simple wale nikah me hoti h, I've seen couples jinhone simple nikah kiya vo aaj boht khush or sukoon ke sath zindagi guzar rahe hain.
Sirf masjid me nikah pado or dulhan ko ghr le jaao apne sath not even ladki walo ke ghr pr chai bhi nhi . Islam ne ladki walo ko 1rupee bhi nhi kharch krne ko bola nhi h. That's how our beautiful Islam made marriages simple. But we made it complicated nd just for showoff..
Lavish weddings have become a curse in Kashmir, draining resources and overshadowing the true essence of nikah. Instead of hosting 200 guests and spending extravagantly, couples should focus on simpler weddings and invest in meaningful experiences, like traveling the world together. In a time when adultery seems cheaper than marriage, it’s crucial to uphold the sanctity of nikah by prioritizing love and simplicity over societal expectations. Correct me if I’m wrong
There are other reasons too like boys being unemployed in our society and not taking their career seriously. Nobody wants to see their daughters suffer after marriage atleast basic necessities must be met. Secondly, the demands from boys side of the family is also a big issue. Thirdly, this social media has ruined our mind set everyone around us is in a “relationship” which has f**ked up peoples perspectives about a partner in comparison to the people back in 90’s.
Women should also start earning. Men are overburdened nowadays with expectations. Rest I agree. Society is fu***d up here. If you're still unmarried... Spend little on weddings and more on experience. Masjid is a wonderful place to have a nikah in.
No that is nt the case . Everyone tries to make sure that he earns as much as he can help his family get going. But girls have turned into more greedy ones . Even if a boy is well mannered n earns sufficent to feed his family, the girl still doesnt let her ego to agree upon this. Moreover , the parents on either side have sick mentality, paricularly from girl's side. i have seen n observed it myself, thiugh there r exceptions.
Nobody talks about the demands from the Girls side ,inko Eeman and yakeen he nhi rab pay ,inko barosa ha Toh Govt ki bokri pay . Kirdar say yeh Compromisee kar rahy hai ,lekin Paise and paishy say nhi . Jisko yeh job security ka naam dai rahay woh laadeeni ki pehly manzil ha ...
Hum na in se contact kiya....humsafar...... Wahn pa inhoo na bola ladka kya job karta hai kaamata hai ki nhii... It z gud but Allah says... Do nika and i vill make u ganiii.... Yeh iss pa amal kartay hai...
Ham kyu bhool jaate h ki ham muslamaan h hamare liye ideal Islam h nabi saw ki sunnat h hame usi ko follow krna h. Lekin nhi hame sirf dusro ko follow krna h bs
I think it's ones personal choice to spend as much as we want. If a person is rich why wouldn't he spent? If a person is not financially stable he must refrain from spending money on unnecessary things. Simple.
In Islam, the concept of worship and connection with Allah (God) is not limited to physical structures or grand mosques. In Islam, Allah is considered to be omnipresent, infinite, and beyond human comprehension. Therefore, the idea of needing a grand mosque to connect with Allah may seem paradoxical. Mosques play a vital role in Islamic communities, serving as centers for prayer, education, socialization, and charity. They provide a sense of belonging and unity among Muslims. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) emphasized the importance of humility and simplicity in worship. He even performed prayers in simple, unadorned space.The Quran teaches that true worship is about cultivating inner purity, sincerity, and devotion, rather than focusing solely on external rituals or grand architecture. So assertion is totally illogical and is based on your wicked perspective. it is a problem with the people of every religion that they are building grand architectures for worship. Moreover in islam whole earth is a mosque for you. u can pray wherever you can if space is pure...
In our society adultery has become cheaper than nikah.
This was very necessary to talk about kashmiri culture.People should understand this not everyone can afford expenses. Poor people like us get stuck nd forced todo formalities.. luxurious kashmiri weddings have become a trend nd everybody gets inspired by them and becomes obliged to spend such expenses..
Marriages should be simple and should follow sunnah's of prophet mohammad s .a.w .i appreciate your content which is a most need of our society as it builds pressure on both sides ,mostly bride's side.
Behtareen topic . Good work .
My Favorite Teacher, Dr. Naira Mam
Thank you for challenging me to think critically, encouraging me to pursue my passions, and providing me with the tools I need to succeed not only in university , but in life. I will always remember your dedication, patience, and kindness! I'm so proud to say I learned from you. 🥰
Nice step
1 should think of everyone including poor or middle class
Don't go against sunnah or hadees
My request to everyone spread this videos to everyone
Good work... Allah bless you
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Wonderful initiative
Good step
True esteemed people like Fayyaz Ahmad zaroo sahib is very right and far sighted ulema. We need to reconstruct our society on the right path
This issue must be highlighted...
Wonderful initiative 🤞
Good job mam.
You must visit to hawal.their nikkha is totally simple.they have their own rule for nikkha.like only 4 items in wazwaan.nothing from Dulhan side nothing.
Even till now they all are following their rules.
Proud for them.
Much of this lavish is driven by percievd mindset n social expectations rather than personal desires nd likings ,causng unnecessary stress among peopl ,,,, display of wealth has become increasingly common ,..leading to competition among kashmiris...To conclude Best Marriage iz one which is easiest😊....
Right ......chlo ksi ne baat tou ki ...KYA KARI KORI MOEL ....NARAS DEYA NARI MOEL 😢😢
..(My fvrt Maria ma'am ❤)
And what about the demands from girl side ,govt nokri gasii aasun yeh kya eeman aur sunnat ka hisa ha yeh ladeeni and dunivaiye laalch hai isliye nikah nhi horhay
Good program.keep going.
This is a burning issue 🔥😮
Finally some took stand against it😢
You people are doing very good job....
Omg mehak.. Good job.. Dear❤
Very nice content❤
Wow really appreciated ❤
This type of content is need of the hour❤❤❤
Right daulat ke namoish
Awesome concept
Finally kisi nai baat ki
Bilkul sahi fazool karchi musibat hai
100% Right😢😢😢😢😢
The tradition if weddings we had. Love, brother hood amazing ng neighbors used to be more prioritised over theykeh theykeh.
If not that simple ,Let weddings be atleast that simple we used to have. Women folk singing and blessing(this way we had a hold upon our culture and tradition) i'e wanwun.
In the awe of dj's our new generation lost the interest and love for our culture and language.
Wazwan, the only prevailing authenticity in our culture is being filthed by bla bla.
The pherans embroidery we used to be a source of income for kashmiri artisans. Since we stepped towards belly button revealing lehengas the elegance of heritage us lagging behind,,,, heritage is at verge of extinction due to multiple visible political forces that have been in play since decades now at this time if we went for the outside lavishes the essence of kashmir will be completely lost!!!!!
To think about these matters we won't recieve angels from neighboring places we have to take steps for safeguarding the heritage by our own...
Nice to hear this programme. But no body has the real solution.
Keep it up❤
Aakh mindset Diya hai society nai ke Jo cheezai shaddi kai time ladke ko milai Ga woh phir nhi mil sakta ...this is the reason ladke kuch fazool cheezai lati hai aur jahan aakh Cheez LAGai ge waha doh lati hai 🤦🤦🤦
Yup😂
Usually these type of marriages end up into divorce. Aisi shadiyo me koi barakat nhi hoti , jisme haaram kaari or biddat shamil ho. Barkat to sirf saada simple wale nikah me hoti h, I've seen couples jinhone simple nikah kiya vo aaj boht khush or sukoon ke sath zindagi guzar rahe hain.
Naira maam humko oe padhati hai 😊 university mein
100 dishes?
Sirf masjid me nikah pado or dulhan ko ghr le jaao apne sath not even ladki walo ke ghr pr chai bhi nhi . Islam ne ladki walo ko 1rupee bhi nhi kharch krne ko bola nhi h. That's how our beautiful Islam made marriages simple. But we made it complicated nd just for showoff..
What about bride and groom pay for there own weddings
This is because people don't know the real meaning of the marriage that is why the divorces are common because of this immodest culture
Jitna sunnat se dur hunge utni Allah ki laanat utregi
Lavish weddings have become a curse in Kashmir, draining resources and overshadowing the true essence of nikah. Instead of hosting 200 guests and spending extravagantly, couples should focus on simpler weddings and invest in meaningful experiences, like traveling the world together. In a time when adultery seems cheaper than marriage, it’s crucial to uphold the sanctity of nikah by prioritizing love and simplicity over societal expectations. Correct me if I’m wrong
There are other reasons too like boys being unemployed in our society and not taking their career seriously. Nobody wants to see their daughters suffer after marriage atleast basic necessities must be met. Secondly, the demands from boys side of the family is also a big issue. Thirdly, this social media has ruined our mind set everyone around us is in a “relationship” which has f**ked up peoples perspectives about a partner in comparison to the people back in 90’s.
Women should also start earning. Men are overburdened nowadays with expectations. Rest I agree. Society is fu***d up here.
If you're still unmarried... Spend little on weddings and more on experience. Masjid is a wonderful place to have a nikah in.
No that is nt the case . Everyone tries to make sure that he earns as much as he can help his family get going. But girls have turned into more greedy ones . Even if a boy is well mannered n earns sufficent to feed his family, the girl still doesnt let her ego to agree upon this. Moreover , the parents on either side have sick mentality, paricularly from girl's side. i have seen n observed it myself, thiugh there r exceptions.
Nobody talks about the demands from the Girls side ,inko Eeman and yakeen he nhi rab pay ,inko barosa ha Toh Govt ki bokri pay .
Kirdar say yeh Compromisee kar rahy hai ,lekin Paise and paishy say nhi .
Jisko yeh job security ka naam dai rahay woh laadeeni ki pehly manzil ha ...
Dil k bat bole apne lkin ispe koi bat nii krta hai
Hum na in se contact kiya....humsafar...... Wahn pa inhoo na bola ladka kya job karta hai kaamata hai ki nhii... It z gud but Allah says... Do nika and i vill make u ganiii.... Yeh iss pa amal kartay hai...
Kya kahay gai log sab sai bada rog .Allah ko razi karni ki koshish karo na ki logu ko
Ham kyu bhool jaate h ki ham muslamaan h hamare liye ideal Islam h nabi saw ki sunnat h hame usi ko follow krna h. Lekin nhi hame sirf dusro ko follow krna h bs
I think it's ones personal choice to spend as much as we want. If a person is rich why wouldn't he spent? If a person is not financially stable he must refrain from spending money on unnecessary things. Simple.
You have a very narrow vision.. you can afford drug it's still a menace
Are you rich😅? Kashmir is largely poor.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
What , ap has ku rahe ho ?
Why no one is talking about 5 star mosques being built in every corner of kashmir. When god wants 5star mosques why can humans not want luxury. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
In Islam, the concept of worship and connection with Allah (God) is not limited to physical structures or grand mosques.
In Islam, Allah is considered to be omnipresent, infinite, and beyond human comprehension. Therefore, the idea of needing a grand mosque to connect with Allah may seem paradoxical. Mosques play a vital role in Islamic communities, serving as centers for prayer, education, socialization, and charity. They provide a sense of belonging and unity among Muslims.
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) emphasized the importance of humility and simplicity in worship. He even performed prayers in simple, unadorned space.The Quran teaches that true worship is about cultivating inner purity, sincerity, and devotion, rather than focusing solely on external rituals or grand architecture.
So assertion is totally illogical and is based on your wicked perspective. it is a problem with the people of every religion that they are building grand architectures for worship. Moreover in islam whole earth is a mosque for you. u can pray wherever you can if space is pure...
Andbhakt chukh
@@rayeeseconomics cxe ayaa samaj be kya aouses ems wanna
Totally wrong...
Iam 26 year old unmarried iam happy girls love rich boys 😢😢😢😢😢😢😂😂😂 mein shadi kabhi nahi karo ga
Our so called maulanas are not talking about such serious issues...
And pakistani copy bollywood