🚩How to survive the holidays with toxic family dynamics 👿 Baiting you to act out 🤯

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  • @catherinecrow5662
    @catherinecrow5662 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I chose not yo go to a weekend in a family home, where I would be bullied at some point and not being able to leave without being called too sensitive , etc.
    I can almost feel the fight or flight response that would ensue.
    Not my happy place
    Being able to be goofy at my own Holiday is priceless.
    Merry Christmas Wendy 🎉❤

  • @Diane-r3p
    @Diane-r3p 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Thank you, Wendy. I am behind enemy line and you are correct, I'm being silent amongst emotional idiots.

  • @kristinloucks6325
    @kristinloucks6325 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    My son and i are celebrating at home just the two of us. I'm not dealing with toxic individuals at all anymore. Idc who they are family or not. It's not worth compromising our mental or emotional health.

  • @jonathanhayter1085
    @jonathanhayter1085 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Alone for the first time and it's fine!

  • @slickchick8292
    @slickchick8292 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    You just told the story of my current holiday situation. Thank you for the sage advice. I will act in my highest good. Sending u love and light this holiday season. ❤

  • @Twinklez63
    @Twinklez63 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Just remember folks, you don't have to spend your holidays with toxic families. It's a choice.

  • @honeybabiekawaii5597
    @honeybabiekawaii5597 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Merry Christmas, Wendy 🌲
    Thank you, for being you ❤

  • @jennifergraham5615
    @jennifergraham5615 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I actually feel well rounded today and able to deal with immaturity.
    I got over the sticky feelings.
    I’m not allowing people to use me as a scapegoat:)
    I have responses ready for it but have to be ready for the punch.
    Wow thats a blizzard thing to say are you okay? Like it.
    I never thought about being shaky but yes thats something that could happen, having to put someone back in their spot.
    I say it’s annoying some one using you to self soothe.
    Mainly because a lot of people do it and it feels icky.
    I’m taking control of my life again.
    Past the exhaustion phase of dealing with this energy with hardly any breaks.
    This is how we roll is what they say in these family dynamics.
    It’s funny because I hardly remember them anymore.
    Just stay at a surface level with them.
    Thanks for the read. It’s a great way to get prepared for the unconsciousness of others.
    Very best wishes:)

  • @rosewagner4018
    @rosewagner4018 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You know my in-laws!!! lol. Thank you for this and I wish you a Happy Holiday! 🌟🎄❤️

  • @simoneturner1111
    @simoneturner1111 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow! This was so relevant. Thank you Wendy. Another mind blowing reading. 🙏❤️

  • @kathrynfrank4291
    @kathrynfrank4291 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks for your reading, I am watching your video in Australia on Christmas day before I make the trip to see my toxic family. You are a treasure and I am so glad I found your channel. Wishing you a merry Christmas and happy New year.

  • @suzanneauret9638
    @suzanneauret9638 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The "catch" here is I am a lovingvgiving petson and cannot give and love to no one in my sitiation here. I am inviting new people into my life ❤❤

  • @madisonmcmanus2734
    @madisonmcmanus2734 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It's my birthright and she's my birthright ❤

  • @innerstream
    @innerstream 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Oh boy did this ever save me from more confusion today….got caught in the cross fire of two family members arguing today, sadly they were the only family members I was to spend Christmas Day with today…..I didn’t get involved, but they left….and I was alone…and sad….it really brought me down…..and this message is helping me try to tread above it……but it was just so disappointing and sad, as I’m their mom. Im Going to listen to your next video……

  • @Joao-en1mh
    @Joao-en1mh 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Very accurate. Thank you. Very insightful with whats going on.

  • @NKiani
    @NKiani 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you. You’ve just revealed something to me.

  • @yvonneoshea6748
    @yvonneoshea6748 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you Wendy. Mixed emotions. ❤

  • @mariaornelas4939
    @mariaornelas4939 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm Saggitarius Sydney
    Happy Christmas to you .
    This Christmas no toxic around me 100%.
    ,,love & light ❤❤❤

  • @martemacdougall1985
    @martemacdougall1985 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you, Wendy ✨️ Have a blessed Christmas Eve. I won't say what the toxic ex wrote on my Christmas card. No energy will be added to that insult. We live in the same apartment building, so I returned the card BACK UNDER HIS DOOR. End of story(I ended the relationship almost 4 years ago. I am attending Holy Christmas Eve service this evening and about to lay down for a wee nap to refresh my heart and mind and soul. ❤ Love to you.✨️💖✨️💖✨️💖✨️💖✨️💖✨️

  • @sayusayme7729
    @sayusayme7729 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Merry Christmas Wendy 🎄🎆❄️🤍🌌💃🏻🥁🐢🐾

  • @Spiderzs888
    @Spiderzs888 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks Wendy wing👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

  • @jillconyers2710
    @jillconyers2710 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I needed this today ,your spot on ❤

  • @adrianbaumgartner5719
    @adrianbaumgartner5719 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Merry Christmas!🎄 look, I’m getting rid of my toxic family as fast as I can, puhlease!!!😂

  • @ravindradp
    @ravindradp 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Precisely accurate👍👌

  • @OoSpellheartOo
    @OoSpellheartOo 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am not playin ... im just not interested in games . Thank you Wendy .. 🎄✨️🎄 .. from my home to yours .. Merry Christmas !

  • @Jeff-v5i
    @Jeff-v5i 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hi Wendy ..i find u always have me happy 😊 Great 5 months w you🎉

    • @Jeff-v5i
      @Jeff-v5i 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      After receiving my 3rd eye chockra I become ill with full force level orange schizophrenia.. Took me 9 hrs to return the situation 🤕😳🤪😂Merry Christmas

    • @Jeff-v5i
      @Jeff-v5i 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Your amazing! That situation tried sitn on my lap til he could hear this Divine mesg. I'm now in hiding ..is this reading ever going to end? Yours always while alive, Jeff 🎄🐒*underthetree🤫🤨

    • @Jeff-v5i
      @Jeff-v5i 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      OMG I thot you knew me better 😳got 411 on hold 🙄😋😘

  • @stevecook5842
    @stevecook5842 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Merry Christmas, Wendy... 🎄

  • @LakhbirSingh-vs3sb
    @LakhbirSingh-vs3sb 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Dear Ma'am Happy Merry Christmas🎉

  • @KominidAzmolds
    @KominidAzmolds 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    HAPPY CHRISTMAS 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😊

  • @whoisonline8888
    @whoisonline8888 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I like being the first on Wendys vids 🎉❤

  • @madisonmcmanus2734
    @madisonmcmanus2734 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am silent here too

  • @madisonmcmanus2734
    @madisonmcmanus2734 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hi good too see u many blessings ❤

  • @belleofthelight
    @belleofthelight 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Merry Christmas my teacher and guide ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @deliachilds2300
    @deliachilds2300 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You're so right thank you?❤

  • @emmanuelhernandez6685
    @emmanuelhernandez6685 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yess i was stuck at home and i dont wanna see anyone 😅

  • @PalepossumZQ
    @PalepossumZQ 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

  • @madisonmcmanus2734
    @madisonmcmanus2734 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Haha exactly ❤

  • @richardsmith6741
    @richardsmith6741 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi Wendy!

  • @corinnerathbun2579
    @corinnerathbun2579 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Luckily I don't see any of them

  • @earthmotherdragon4572
    @earthmotherdragon4572 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Christmas holidays are not for me. Staying away from people. My mother is a narcissist and have done all in her life to spite me, put me down, gossip about me my whole life. She have destroyed my family when it instead could have been so good. She sent dad to an early grave, spoken ill of me and treated me so unfair. Over the whole year I hear nothing, but over Christmas she wants me to know how she is celebrating with my siblings, making sure I know. Childish and petty and she is into her 'revenge' or vendetta on me, when I have never done her anything, rather the opposite. She is pure evil and no one in my family speaks up or say anything. Pure evil egotistical and selfish person. Just don't get it. Much rather be on my own than being around her. Told her why a few years back why I don't want to be around her but guess that did not sit well with her. She will never look at what she has caused this family. I stay away, not going to be their punch bag no more. It hurts yes, but not interested in being judged for having feelings or for wanting peace. x

  • @donaldhenderson9918
    @donaldhenderson9918 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    🙏🕊❤️☀️👑💫

  • @HummingLight_27
    @HummingLight_27 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    #222🪽 Likes