Dating a Cancer...Everything You NEED to Know About your Lover

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  • @tianichelle13
    @tianichelle13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    Hearing an Aquarius talk about how Cancers bottle up how they feel as if they don’t do the same thing is hysterical.

    • @liliana933
      @liliana933 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      She has a Cancer rising so... Yeah she's really not talking mess.

    • @henryballester4516
      @henryballester4516 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Literally

    • @gleffler9313
      @gleffler9313 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      As an Aquarius myself you ain’t wrong

    • @romedeleon1715
      @romedeleon1715 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yea how dare you?

    • @letmedarling4452
      @letmedarling4452 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That is not a good match because Aquarius is non emotional and will ghost you in a heartbeat.

  • @KharismaBrown
    @KharismaBrown 3 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    As a Cancer I agree with most of what you are saying. One thing I notice about Cancers though, people tend to ignore or minimize our emotional needs, therefore we often decide to stop complaining about it. Like, "No one is listening anyway," so we stop trying to communicate the same stuff over and over again. We are not good at letting go of people we love or care for even when they are toxic, so we keep trying to make it work anyway. That's why you get the "sudden" snapping. There were probably lots of signs and messages relayed before that occurred.

    • @latishawilliams4605
      @latishawilliams4605 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Exactly! Most people seem to not understand that. But I will say that once a cancer evolves and learns how to express their needs etc and if it is not being received then they will walk away after they have had their limit. Speaking from experience I used to bottle things up and then explode which back fired on me. So now I vow to express what is bothering me. I’m still a evolving cancer

    • @CeceNaturalful
      @CeceNaturalful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Whew! My sister is a Cancer and this described her to the T! One thing I can say is when she's done with someone and gets in that mind frame to leave, there's no going back

    • @emmanuelmelendez9869
      @emmanuelmelendez9869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      very true!!!!!!

    • @dadrienedavis
      @dadrienedavis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I literally was thinking the same thing! My thing is that a lot of people don’t like being called out on their BS so once you confront them about it they get mad because they know what they did was wrong. Then they play victim and say we’re overreacting and excuse the way we feel about it all together.

    • @isaiahcarter9788
      @isaiahcarter9788 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      EXACTLY

  • @aabayside91
    @aabayside91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    My boyfriend is a cancer and he is absolutely amazing. So affectionate caring loving I am a Scorpio and he is my absolute soulmate.

    • @ennilozada1580
      @ennilozada1580 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Funny how you say this when I JUST texted my boyfriend (scorpio) about this video, and I’m a cancer woman.

    • @raymondtaylor4395
      @raymondtaylor4395 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      That's because Scorpios are Cancers evil twins 😂😂😂 i'm a cancer and absolutely LOVE Scorpio's. Us Cancers understand you guys

    • @brandilocs4657
      @brandilocs4657 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I've been searching for one positive comment 😭😭😭😭 Female Taurus trying with a Male Cancer

    • @janaybradley7768
      @janaybradley7768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Awwww 🥰 I’m a Scorpio and my boyfriend is a cancer we’ve been together for 5 years and I swear we are sooo emotional lol arguments will be about food or something little and it will go from 0 to 100 then we’ll hug it out and laugh lol I love my teddy bear 🐻🥰💘

    • @nito209
      @nito209 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@raymondtaylor4395 faxxx

  • @beachbumsocal
    @beachbumsocal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I haven't dated a Cancer. I have been friends with them. They're really caring, go above and beyond for you once they've trusted you...and agree about them being moody They're crabs and their pinchers can come out. Haha. I agree that they are motherly (nurturing) and good cooks. They're closer to their families, especially their Mom. I think they can be stubborn, like a Cappie ( I'm a Capricorn).

    • @emmanuelmelendez9869
      @emmanuelmelendez9869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      im that way

    • @brandilocs4657
      @brandilocs4657 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Craaaaabs. I totally forgot their symbol is a crab.

    • @tkolb2745
      @tkolb2745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Im a cappie too its good with my cancer 70 good 30 bad

  • @casebycase7750
    @casebycase7750 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    This is true. A cancer could be so lovey and cuddly with you and not give a sh** about you. It's true.

    • @tzaddihamel2326
      @tzaddihamel2326 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wait it’s true ???????

    • @letmedarling4452
      @letmedarling4452 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely horrible

    • @island661
      @island661 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ewww

    • @soniagil7453
      @soniagil7453 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tzaddihamel2326😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢I
      I ko

    • @qwertzuiopasdfish
      @qwertzuiopasdfish 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      No worries cuz Pisces too

  • @MarceleJones
    @MarceleJones 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    All so spot on !! Especially the ending. We really might not gaf about you, not intentionally though 😭

    • @sandyaraujo5222
      @sandyaraujo5222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤙🏻👍🏿☺️🇲🇽🇺🇸💛🖤😘😍🥰♎️🙏🏿🙏🏻

    • @Quise3.0
      @Quise3.0 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Istg if I’m lonely I’ll give the ugly girl all my time n attention make her feel like the only girl in the world. Whole time I’m still trynna find my love. I b bored.

  • @TheMizmhe
    @TheMizmhe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Sometimes I hate being a Cancer 😔😥😅 Hate being moody 😔

  • @Courtney-of1po
    @Courtney-of1po 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I'm a Capricorn that's been with a Cancer for many years. Most of what she said it accurate. My boyfriend's affectionate side is what drew me to him. Before we were even dating he felt so warm and comforting to me. He does have two sides, the quiet, reserved side then at home the talkative, lovey, cuddly side.

    • @shreyosibala9648
      @shreyosibala9648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Are Capricorn and cancer compatible

    • @tkolb2745
      @tkolb2745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@shreyosibala9648 im engaged to a Cancer . He's sweet but can be the biggest jerk a Jekyll and Hyde for sure.

    • @1beatsbytdot
      @1beatsbytdot 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Spot on . Passion kings ♋️

    • @savannahjoseph4968
      @savannahjoseph4968 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@shreyosibala9648 i a Cancer womn married to a Capricorn man for many years

    • @helensanderson7092
      @helensanderson7092 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm going out with a Cancer man and I'm a Capricorn woman and it's been the most wonderful relationship I've ever had

  • @CatherineBarajas
    @CatherineBarajas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    As a cancer woman this is so spot on 😭
    Definitely know my dark aspects of my moon and really trying hard to work on this because I’ve realized the moods I get into (unintentional) really affect those around me and I had no idea it was that powerful 😭🥺 just thought it was us brooding alone and working through our feelings and humanity but energy definitely transcends so working on this hard! Also with manipulating this is so true and it’s the ego aspect of the sign, once we break that down we can really use it for a common good instead and I’ve learned it goes hand in hand with manifesting. We can really manifest anything because of it! Also as the mood manipulators when we’re really doing well we can help others do better. Hopefully more cancers grow into the developed sign because it’s all love they wanna give!🤍🤍🤍

  • @lillinarose420
    @lillinarose420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I honestly feel like this video was the most accurate description of a cancer. Most videos explain cancers to be like big cry babies but the truth is that they are sensitive just like others. They are humble but don’t fuckem over and you’ll always have a best friend.

  • @georgeluisgarza287
    @georgeluisgarza287 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I get what u are saying. The reason we don’t tell u what’s wrong right away is because we are biting our tongues. It’s protecting you out of love for u. A cancer is like a tidal wave or a tsunami when annoyed, upset, irritated or angry. When we unleash our tongues onto others. It is to destroy with extreme prejudice, despite where it is our love ones, or other people in equal. We hold our tongues and try to have patience that u don’t have. We try to be understanding and not allow your attitude to trigger us. Our instincts is to protect ourselves from others who want to use us, the ones who say that they loves us as punching bags with verbal abuse or threats. At times we are understanding and do everything in our power to deescalate the situation out of love for u. We care more and love way more you can fathom. Always remember most cancers, ones u are in a relationships with, will always warn you to stop it before it goes too far. We tell you this because we feel where this is going and want a peaceful solution rather than ugly one. We can be destroyers with out remorse in the moment. But hate it because we wanted a different outcome and we tend to tell you before it happens, especially to the ones we love with everything. As for me I am like a cat, it just my nature. Don’t misunderstand we can learn and we can grow. Good luck to you all. Peace

  • @richardredick7515
    @richardredick7515 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    #1 Rule regarding Cancerians: We explore EMOTION. Sometimes that can feel very warm, intimate, and personal; a high detail of care. Every coin has 2 sides. The flip side is detachment. How do you think we can be SO caring? It is because we have plenty of periods of detachment (think wax-on, wax-off). To you know-it-all Aquarians we Cancerians are moody, even manipulative. If you wish to call making sure that the person I have shown compassion to does not come to expect that as a constant "manipulative," then, yes, we are manipulative. We are not constantly flowing with "milk and honey" and compassion. I breathe in, and I must breathe out.
    Rule #2: Don't piss us off. Don't F with us. Abuse of trust is SO OFFENSIVE. If you do that, we are going to yell at you like a monster, and wash our hands of you. Done. Never revisiting that decision. Excommunicato.

  • @sarahcroy6212
    @sarahcroy6212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    My new 10-year older Cancer guy takes care of me. Food, cooking together, gives me money without asking. Super-sweet man. Kinda like a sugar daddy. Never seen the dark, side, though. A little manipulative, but I'm a Virgo woman, so it's a very compatible match. Comfort zone.

    • @siesiechampion
      @siesiechampion ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love bombing

    • @ayshashakur2775
      @ayshashakur2775 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Girl.. hold onto that tightly honestly.. everyone has flaws even you.. but if hes taking responsibility of you and providing for you and being in his masculine energy allowing u to be in ur feminine hold onto that honestly

  • @tamrynmcgear4742
    @tamrynmcgear4742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    As a cancer this video is 1000% accurate. Lovelovelove❤ all the way from South Africa

  • @henchdan1
    @henchdan1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I'm a Cancer man and this is spot on, I apologise for us, we are very loving but confusing 😔

    • @carlousmagus5387
      @carlousmagus5387 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      There's absolutely nothing to apologize for.

    • @anishibi6948
      @anishibi6948 ปีที่แล้ว

      @henchdan1 may I ask you some questions about cancer men in relationships?

  • @asu2633
    @asu2633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I am cancer ♋️ and I date an Aquarius ♒️ for one year now.
    It’s literally the most beautiful relationship I have now.
    He accepts all my moods and is caring also gives me the reassurance I want or I need. He really is understanding and makes me feel loved 🥰 I couldn’t be any happier.🥰 As you can see I am a cancer and I am moody most of the time especially when it’s the season of full moon 🌕🤣 but even though he is still trying to making me calm down and making me feel at ease so I should not worry or freak out😂
    He is so so understanding!
    Cancer and Aquarius know both exactly what they want in relationships and both are dickheads if they get along with the terms they can get so along and have a happy relationship🥰🥰🥰

    • @mooneymagic4521
      @mooneymagic4521 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Interesting, this gives me hope!

    • @lalo6442
      @lalo6442 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I advise you to run away. Aquarius are going to hurt you for sure!

    • @letmedarling4452
      @letmedarling4452 ปีที่แล้ว

      Until the non emotional Aquarius decides you are no longer needed and drop you suddenly like trash.

    • @AxlZie
      @AxlZie 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Any updates??? 😊

    • @asu2633
      @asu2633 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AxlZie we are three years and three months together we have our up and downs but we both need to learn a lot more of each other and in every argument we try to understand each other. We are not perfect at all and as a cancer I am more emotional as he is so I need to accept that I must speak out about the needs we want and think of and not think he is a mentalist who can do magic and read my mind 😆 Also he is strict and has his plans and needs to be sometimes spontaneous that’s what he is working on. He tries to fix also his habits as much as he can. We are on a good way and we love and respect each other ☺️ we are doing great so far☺️

  • @asu2633
    @asu2633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    We cancers tend to overthink that’s why we already Moody🥺 and yes we want that reassurance and it’s totally like you said we don’t wanna talk but we want to feel loved smth like that.
    Agree with all u said 🥺

  • @serenityserenity9829
    @serenityserenity9829 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Married to one they are very sweet and caring will definitely take care of you and your whole family ...if they love you but when they get angry they can be the most vindictive,sarcastic,sneaky people....but if you stand your ground they quickly return to their sweet selves.They will manipulate you with all your favorite things and shower you with affection which I actually like because I didn't get a lot of that growing up so it kinda works for us I'm a Saggitarius so yeah it gets interesting

    • @cdosby43
      @cdosby43 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Good to hear a Sag and a Cancer can make it work.

  • @Gyoi0p
    @Gyoi0p ปีที่แล้ว +7

    As a pisces woman - no they don't want you to dug and dig until you find out what they want. No! They want an partner that can simply, UNDERSTAND!

  • @kalimbaayinde25
    @kalimbaayinde25 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    😂😂😂😂 married to a cancer and there is different levels to them. YOU HAVE TO REALLY BE A STRONG MINDED PERSON to deal with Cancer ♋️. The are moody, crazy. manipulative, sneaky, stalkers, clingy, and sweet. Just be careful with them. All facts.

  • @GhettoJohnWick
    @GhettoJohnWick 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You forgot to mention how we're naturals on the dance floor. I know how to ballroom dance without ever taking a single lesson.

    • @hellosunshine3647
      @hellosunshine3647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We're pretty good at alot of things the first time around lol. I can cook blind 🤣

  • @chavonvolcy6040
    @chavonvolcy6040 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    All of it is spot on. Just made me think of everything. Smh that's all. I Love watching your content. I'm a Cancer and my partner is a Scorpio.

  • @QueenEspeon96
    @QueenEspeon96 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    My fiance is a Cancer, but he's very social. On the other hand I'm a Gemini and I'm an introvert. We're the odd couple and that's ok.

  • @latishawilliams4605
    @latishawilliams4605 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I’m a cancer dating a cancer woman and she is my twin flame/soulmate (not just the fact that she is the same sign) but she literally mirrors me down to the way we think/life commonalities. You hit everything on the nose! Very accurate description of us. The only issue is even though I’m 7 years younger 30s .. she 40s .. I believe I have evolved more than she has when it comes to emotional maturity. I express appropriately and she doesn’t.. she becomes mean and disrespectful/manipulative/deflecting when I try to communicate with her. I feel she has carried her past experiences/ abusive relationships and how people have treated her onto me. I’ve learn to try to have patience with her but I tell you it’s tough at times cuz she can be very stubborn. Other than that it’s a awesome relationship sweet, caring ,loyal, Giving , loving ,fun and deep on both ends . I’m huge on accountability and self reflection. I’ve done a lot of healing and soul searching to better my actions etc. Its definitely a journey that I am proud of because I have come a long way with how I handle situations. I don’t bottle up and explode anymore. I’ve become very direct maybe too direct for some people now. I have learned that we teach people how to treat us. Setting Boundaries are also new to me .So I’m trying to incorporate that into our relationship along with effective communication.

    • @breesechick
      @breesechick 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Baby doll. Your sweetheart good benefit from the right therapist. Because I used to do that until I learned what I was doing and how it was hurting the person that I loved and advertently because I was not communicating using words instead I was communicating using my feelings and that was coming across as hostile toward my person.

  • @mirnacalderon2793
    @mirnacalderon2793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    So on point!!!! I’m a Leo and I’ve known this cancer guy so many years , totally a different person when we’re on private such a teddy bear how you describe it , but omg very moody !!!

  • @SL-sc5vu
    @SL-sc5vu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    It’s all TRUE. They are super caring but I Cannot Stand them. They are so bipolar,very insecure, super toxic, and most of all VERY CONTROLLING! I’ve Dates ONE for almost 5 years. What a fucking waste of time.NEVER AGAIN

    • @Wildfire4496
      @Wildfire4496 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That's mostly the men

    • @janetadesida5556
      @janetadesida5556 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lmao easy there wildfire

    • @casebycase7750
      @casebycase7750 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not all are that way.

    • @shyguyx1219
      @shyguyx1219 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wouldn’t that be considered a relationship if you’ve dated them for 5 years lol

    • @latifahshakur5466
      @latifahshakur5466 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I don’t talk to my dad because the bad outweighs the smidgen of good 😂

  • @hellosunshine3647
    @hellosunshine3647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is hilarious lol I have to say as a cancer female, you are spot on. Lol as far as the bottling things up I've come to learn this about myself and I'm working on it. 🤦🏽‍♀️ Cancers really don't like to argue or fight so they will do that because sometimes they love you so much, they don't want to lose you by hurting your feelings and or saying the wrong things. When cancers get upset, it is not pretty.. 🤦🏽‍♀️ So they will say nothing. If they value you, they will say nothing lol. Unfortunately it does spill out over time.🤦🏽‍♀️ Because all humans get frustrated. With you saying how considerate and generous cancers are, even though it's their own doing to serve and love others, cancers don't necessarily want reassurance, they want reciprocation. Remember my birthday like I do yours, or make me a cake sometime. Got dang! 🤣❤

  • @lisasims1652
    @lisasims1652 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I've seen your other dating videos for other signs but I am a cancer and have been waiting on this video

  • @elizabethharkins2684
    @elizabethharkins2684 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m a cancer and these things are all so true! As far as cancers bottling things up, we totally do and it is not fair to others most times. Personally, I sometimes forget that other people aren’t as aware of how they come off to people or as aware of other people’s feelings as I am, because I read others so well and the first thing I’m always doing is reading others and making sure they’re good and happy in every scenario, so I sometimes don’t understand not everyone reads a room or a person that well. Something I do try to work on for sure, but I also feel annoying when I’m calling people out on something that pissed me off cuz I wonder if I’m overreacting or something along those lines! Such a struggle! Lol thank you for this video!

    • @melc7858
      @melc7858 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well at least you admit it. Most Cancer people I know will never admit it. They rather fight you first,then blame you for what they're doing. That's the first step to healing, is to first admit you have a problem. Best wishes to you, thanks for sharing 🙋🏾‍♀️

  • @YahhGirlJazz
    @YahhGirlJazz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I haven’t dated a cancer but I did mess around with a few and they are freaks like ughh I haven’t met one who isn’t hyper sexually yet it’s like they crave intimacy but I’m not complaining they do know how to please they partner

    • @maryjanney1361
      @maryjanney1361 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My heart is full of joy and excitement , Dr RORPOPOR HERBAL is truly the son of his father the medications I order from him can testified to that , A BIG thanks to you doctor Cancer cured ❣️

  • @yumijiang0312
    @yumijiang0312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I didn’t understand why my ex was so controlling, even installed location tracking app in my phone while I didn’t know that(it was very creepy,right). Now I learn a lot about Cancer, I totally understand the reasons. Because of him, I started to believe Zodiac, I wish I learned it years ago, at least there would be less conflict and more understanding between me and him. I’m Pisces.

    • @ej13012010
      @ej13012010 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you bring up controlling off of water signs your wrong I've delt with controlling signs that's not even a water sign everyone has different traits no matter which signs they are

    • @MrChangeordie
      @MrChangeordie ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry to hear that... maybe u have a lot of guy friends or just so friendly interns of talking to guy 👀

    • @yumijiang0312
      @yumijiang0312 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MrChangeordie I was as out going as him and friendly to others. But never cross the line

    • @civilifier
      @civilifier 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@yumijiang0312as a cancer when in relationship he will try his best ignoring every other girl just do you without you saying so he will expect the same from you it’s way of showing loyalty he will get hurt ass soon as he knows some random guy or your friend having your time cancer is like baby he wants time of his mother or partner

  • @naomih4716
    @naomih4716 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I like your driving videos and don't really mind the lighting changes because I usually just listen to it in the background while multitasking

  • @moniquee1302
    @moniquee1302 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Anyone interested in a long-term relationship with a Cancer, please be aware that the act of kindness and consideration a Cancer portray is only temporary! I personally think Cancers make better friends than romantic partners.
    If you want to live a life of manipulation/mind games, gas-lighting, one-sided/selfishness, constantly unhappy, and blaming you for everything....then a Cancer is the one for you.
    Everybody loves a Cancer until you have been in a romantic relationship with one for a long time. Don't get fool by their charming personality at the beginning; it is only a put on to catch you. Because of their charming persona; when you start to complain about them, no one will believe you because they are extremely great manipulators and pretensive.
    If you choose to entertain a Cancer for long-term commitment, good luck and be strong, because you are going to need it all!

    • @julianfleming5627
      @julianfleming5627 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Must have been a woman you dated or a super sensitive, insecure man that wasn’t completely in love with you.

    • @moniquee1302
      @moniquee1302 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@julianfleming5627 No, it was a man!
      Cancer people would say anything to make themselves seem like a great person to be in a relationship with, hence why people would think they found their soul mate or hit the jackpot when the relationship is new or a few years in. I see it quite often to know. I can't be wrong if lots of people feel the same way I do 😊. Y'all f**kers a pain in the ass!! Unfortunately, you won't know that until many, many, many years later in the relationship.

    • @igajarzebkowska4284
      @igajarzebkowska4284 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Damn, some cancer has hurt you so badly. Not all of us are like that tho

    • @moniquee1302
      @moniquee1302 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@igajarzebkowska4284 you are right, a Cancer man did hurt me bad; but guess what, so have many people in my life time. Every adult have been disappointed and hurt by people at some point in their life.
      I have interacted with men of all the zodiac signs, and have come to the realization that Cancer men are the worst. I can't personally speak for the women because I have never been romantically involve with one nor am I very close friend with any, on the contrary, I do know a few men who have entertained a Cancer woman, and they too share my feelings about Cancerians.
      I have seen a few videos on here where the astrologer indicated that Cancerians are the worst zodiac sign, and in reference to my personally experience and interactions, I agree! Every Cancer man I know in a relationship, their woman have the same observation and complain as I; every comment I read about a woman's bad experience with a Cancer man, it relates to what I already know; when astrologers describe the good and bad of a Cancerian, it relates to what I already know; it cant be coincidence!
      Cancer men play too much mind-games, like to gas-light people too much, emotionally selfish, too moody, and just straight up a pain in the ass!
      If a man wants to turn me off on the first time we talk, he just needs to say he is a Cancer! 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

    • @_Milcah_
      @_Milcah_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Even as friends they exhibit the toxic traits you described (the low-vibrational ones).

  • @angelasambrano1013
    @angelasambrano1013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Dating a Cancer.. never on time for anything. Gonna be a deal breaker for this sweet n needy Libra 😘

  • @Phillyhippie215
    @Phillyhippie215 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Aries sun
    Libra rising
    Moon In Scorpio here.
    Cancers at first tend to tread lightly with me once I say I’m an Aries lol. But they realize my moon in Scorpio and balanced Libra rising is far more present in my personality. I get along so great with Cancers. My longest relationships are with cancers.

    • @sydtia3976
      @sydtia3976 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m an Aries sun, Leo moon, and scorpio rising. My Aries placements spice up my cancer bf’s life 🤣😭 (he’s my first bf too) I attract so many cancers/am surrounded by them. They’re insane people but I like it!

  • @KINGLDZ
    @KINGLDZ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    IM A SCORPIO, I THINK ME AND CANCER ARE THE MOST COMPATIBLE.. ACTUALLY I KNOW.. LOOKING FOR A CANCER IN MY LIFE AS WE SPEAK.

    • @cancergirl3785
      @cancergirl3785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Have you been in a relationship with a cancer woman before and how was it cause I find scorpio men so intense and inpatient it’s overwhelming sometimes

    • @onlyforme8453
      @onlyforme8453 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      There’s definitely a natural understanding I have with Scorpio men as a cancer girl

    • @lionelfinley6956
      @lionelfinley6956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm a Cancer with a Scorpio woman you're right we are the most compatible it's like our signs just get each other without even trying when I first met her it was instant connection

    • @Ruthf93
      @Ruthf93 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m a Cancer and I’ve dated a Scorpio for going on 4 years. He was my high sweetheart. Highly compatible. You’ll find that Cancer soon.

    • @jaydabyrd6609
      @jaydabyrd6609 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cancergirl3785 so true I been with one

  • @samuraispiritsx
    @samuraispiritsx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    LOL that shit you said about them being hot and cold is true. If we are upset with you, we want you to chase us A LITTLE makes us feel wanted. And also, we don't expect you to know what we are feeling, but we want understanding. Let them vent to you because it means they trust you.

  • @qwan630
    @qwan630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yeah i agree w a lot of what you said about us ♋️ Me personally, i like confrontation lol but maybe that’s cause of my rising (Scorpio ) or something 🤷🏾‍♂️ thanks for making this video! Looking forward to more of this series!!

  • @emmanuelmelendez9869
    @emmanuelmelendez9869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    its true very true, as a cancer i love to cook for people i love i like to be so kind thats why all my firends never forget me becuse i give them food ,, but yes im little manipulate because im sensitive and i would never do something that you can do

  • @TheDeerpark243
    @TheDeerpark243 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m a cancer, a lot of the things you said were true, but as you know everybody’s different, as far as me I’m older and think I evolved out of some of those traits. One thing is for sure I like to stay at home. To give you a hint, I bought my car in 2018, it had 15 miles on it, as of today I have 11,500, and 4,000 of those miles were in the first month.

  • @gennesiededios9761
    @gennesiededios9761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    OMG! You literally the one person understand me. Wow! That's bullseye for both bad and good. Sorry I can't help it.

  • @savagesweetheart2372
    @savagesweetheart2372 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    If You dont have EVERY single one of these traits you're not a true CANCER.. Big up all Cancerians❤❤❤

    • @julianfleming5627
      @julianfleming5627 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Only super sensitive and insecure cancer men would have all.

  • @jaydenmckissick448
    @jaydenmckissick448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I met a few cancers someone’s not all need reassurance.

  • @veeem4665
    @veeem4665 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i was so excited when i got the notification !!

  • @Aquariangirl126
    @Aquariangirl126 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    As an Aquarius ♒️ no Cancers for me, too moody, insecure and I don’t like walking on eggshells.

    • @julesprtlz8623
      @julesprtlz8623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm a Capricorn sun and even I can't stand their moodiness, I know they're a fairly okay sign & we're compatible...but once you get into a relationship with one(from own experience) you realize they can have the stupidest logic ever in arguments I'm not hating I swear, but the guy I had a fling with in the past would be like "it's not even about being real it's how what you say makes me feel" another iconic line from him "it's not about what you think is right for you it's about how sometimes you don't even care" (This is a time he wanted me to drop everything for him) my life which (mind you) I had before him should halt for his Highness! they're so entitled and needy. You also literally feel like you're walking on eggshells around them when you say no or try to be realistic or try to keep healthy boundaries...also they ocassionally use their neediness to manipulate you. And if you don't fall for it they take it personally. Too busy being moody and insecure to be levelheaded.
      I'm a very fend for yourself type of person and always kept my shit together so this all was suffocating to a point. Babysitting somebody's mood swings is not what I signed up for. Personally I don't think water signs are compatible with me... my best intimate relationships so far have been with Taurus and a Libra

    • @Ruthf93
      @Ruthf93 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m a Cancer and I currently date an Aquarius. I’ve learned to control my moodiness. All in all Cancers and Aquarius just needs to learn how to understand each other. We sit and have deep conversations for hours. I know Aquarius’s hate random/emotional outbreaks so I made sure he understood me from the beginning of the relationship. Dating Aquarius’s helped me learn how to not be as emotional. He is my 3rd Aquarius. 😬 I’ve also come from a family who is outspoken and my friend is pretty blunt so I rather people tell me how it is rather than walk on eggshells. But I see where you are coming from cause I hate emotional Cancer men. Lol.

    • @PJ-po6xy
      @PJ-po6xy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@desmonclark1896 can u read?

  • @T.Sumpter
    @T.Sumpter ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hey, about the hot and cold aspect of being a cancer, the part when you said we don't know if we want to be consoled or not, here's my point of view: if a cancer hasn't accomplished a level of self awareness that may be very true. In relationships I am difficult to get out of moods when I get in them. But I always tell my woman I'm dating the key to winning me over. That's the self awareness part, knowing yourself and being honest with you. For me, talking doesn't work when me and my lady have conflicts. Reason being, women often try to slip in something that's not reassuring-meaning they add to the fire, either on purpose or inadvertently.
    Example: we are arguing because of social media and likes.
    I shut down and won't talk.
    My lady apologies, and keeps talking after the apology.
    Most likely, the woman will try to rationalize 1 minute into me getting comfortable.
    I get irritated, because I'm not looking for excuses or conversation, I've already seen it for what it is and accepted her.
    So I always tell my woman if I'm in a funk, just hold me and shut up... They do not listen, they try to make me see their point once we both get comfortable. To me, actions speak louder than words. If I don't agree with something my partner does, then I can leave or accept it. So for me cuddling is all I need, not conversation.
    P.S. I understand other zodiac signs like to talk things out. I will when I'm ready, but if I'm in the wrong I will ASAP.

    • @SammyJ96
      @SammyJ96 ปีที่แล้ว

      " Cuddling is all I need , " do you realize how selfish that whole thing sounded ? What if the woman in question has a different emotional need ? What if talking about the issue is what makes HER feels better ? That is why COMPROMISE is important in relationship. Kmft.

    • @T.Sumpter
      @T.Sumpter ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SammyJ96 I don't know what that kmft shit means and don't care to look. I listen very well, when I'm selfish, I'm selfish. I agree. When I'm caring, I'm caring. Plus I'm a boss, with my shit together, so I have standards. Most women little girls. Good day though 😁

    • @SammyJ96
      @SammyJ96 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@T.Sumpter Typical dusty bandit.

  • @nezuko_turtle3589
    @nezuko_turtle3589 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yes! We need reassurance. If you don't get that, we will see that and won't waste our time.

  • @nikki2112
    @nikki2112 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Cancer is the roller coaster sign..friggin psychopaths

  • @brooke-lynnxo
    @brooke-lynnxo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Cancer with my Venus in Gemini they never see me coming

  • @KenyetteMorris
    @KenyetteMorris 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I dated a cancer. I would never ever date one again mood swings 😢 they think they know it all they can tell you about you, but when it comes, you telling them about them self all hell brake out they're user they want to know all your business but, Don't tell their business. Also, live in the pass

  • @janettehernandez1384
    @janettehernandez1384 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Next summer i will be marring my Cancer man. Everything that you talked about in his video is so true. They are sweet and kind they are like teddy bears and even call my Cancer man boo bear & he loves it when i call him that or i call him my sexy king because that's what he is to me.

    • @maryjanney1361
      @maryjanney1361 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My heart is full of joy and excitement , Dr RORPOPOR HERBAL is truly the son of his father the medications I order from him can testified to that , A BIG thanks to you doctor Cancer cured ❣️

    • @marliesluyten8686
      @marliesluyten8686 ปีที่แล้ว

      What is your sign

  • @couderioussanders1182
    @couderioussanders1182 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm Gemini ♊ man I'm dating a Cancer ♋ she so very caring and everything 🤞🏽🤍🥰 she shy but she love me its funny too me but I love it and I love her too 🤞🏽🤍

  • @totrigo6834
    @totrigo6834 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Not directly related to the video but just wanna get this out there, as an astrology enthusiast I find really annoying this trend of replacing zodiac signs with someone birth month.

  • @shadywiskerz
    @shadywiskerz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Can’t wait for dating a Leo

  • @boochieyoung644
    @boochieyoung644 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This me all day ! Hit it right on the dime

  • @JoshNexy
    @JoshNexy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Cancer ♋️ sun here. Not true for me. I don’t do shit for others unless i really want to. Libra ♎️ moon. Scorpio ♏️ rising. I find myself being one of the coldest signs. 🤷‍♂️. You are really off here. We don’t need any validation. We just need to know you’re worth all this Magick we give. We like to check on our investment periodically. I hate cuddling. I like touch and sexuality but I also need depth to feel attraction. We are actually really shrewd investor types. But what we offer is so great that the price is high. We are expensive. You can’t find our intuition any where else. We already know how you feel about us, that’s why you’re getting the treatment you’re getting. Why would we need validation, with 6th sense level intuition? Fire signs shit on this idea 💡, but we know how you feel. So don’t be surprised when we call you on your shit. You CANNOT FAKE IT with a cancer ♋️. Be real or get out.
    Also I can’t cook for shit 🤷‍♂️. I don’t wanna take care of you and nurture your soul. I want you to come with me to a higher level, or get the fuck out the way.

  • @shaunware2023
    @shaunware2023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Am I cancer ♋ man 💕 and I'm in a relationship with a cancer ♋ women

  • @spike16965
    @spike16965 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Never ever would I date a Cancer. Too emotional

    • @Wildfire4496
      @Wildfire4496 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Someone like you wouldn't deserve a Cancer anyways...

    • @fericel5971
      @fericel5971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Just because we are emotional doesn’t mean we cry 24/7. we actually hide our feelings and we don’t want to be seen crying

    • @acresy
      @acresy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Wildfire4496 ohhhh 🔥

    • @acresy
      @acresy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @blue jay agree I have a friend that only date with her compatible zodiac sign which is so stupid 🙄

    • @brandilocs4657
      @brandilocs4657 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @blue jay that's thee only reason I'm continuing to deal because these comments are discouraging but I came looking🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @tebogomsimanga9456
    @tebogomsimanga9456 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My little sister is cancer I'm an aquarius, we stay together omg it's frustrating how moody they can get, but I'm aloof I spend most of my time doing my own thing🙏

  • @jerseyd408
    @jerseyd408 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are great. Thank you for the video. The lighting was fine. your so on point with cancers. Yes more content. Maybe break down signs into different categories family life love money health if you haven't done so already I'm new to your channel. I'm searching for videos to send to a Scorpio about cancer women.

  • @uniquejordan1138
    @uniquejordan1138 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You're soo on point im cancer dating a cancer just starting but I'ma bout to drop that nigga

    • @maryjanney1361
      @maryjanney1361 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My heart is full of joy and excitement , Dr RORPOPOR HERBAL is truly the son of his father the medications I order from him can testified to that , A BIG thanks to you doctor Cancer cured ❣️

  • @brittanyj7547
    @brittanyj7547 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I'm a virgo I was dating a cancer for 5 years he broke up with me out the clear blue sky that shit left me crushed I don't know if I'll ever trust another cancer with my heart

    • @terrycroker7815
      @terrycroker7815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You and me both .. Not nice .
      . I decided never another cancer .. That really hurt ..

    • @SL-sc5vu
      @SL-sc5vu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same dude !!!same

    • @terrycroker7815
      @terrycroker7815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sounds like cancers need to grow up ..

    • @briasandifer210
      @briasandifer210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s just astrology lmao it’s not that deep.

    • @gabriellegarner7364
      @gabriellegarner7364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      what month was his birthday june or july?

  • @karettearmstrong647
    @karettearmstrong647 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I talking to a cancer I met him online on a dating site been talking since January and all the time I be asking him to come and see me he never show up he don't talk to me on the phone he just text me all the time

  • @inayssimplerecipe7772
    @inayssimplerecipe7772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is really helpful for someone like me that are just so curious to Cancer Zodiac

  • @angelicrhawkins
    @angelicrhawkins 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    On point!!! I’m a cancer and I totally agree 💯

  • @Phantom-Histories
    @Phantom-Histories 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If were ever in a mood just make us laugh. Its really that simple

  • @timothytaylor5709
    @timothytaylor5709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow! I just learned so much. The whole time I thought it was me.

  • @aiimsdelhi226
    @aiimsdelhi226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It's totally resonate with me ❤️
    ♋ cancerian 🎉

  • @Olivia-gh2nk
    @Olivia-gh2nk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes I love this series please finish it 🔥🔥

  • @TheBlueKnitter
    @TheBlueKnitter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m cancer sun with Aquarius moon! I think my Aquarius side takes over a lot in love cause I HATE taking care of other people’s shit! But at the same time I never tell my man how I feel, he should know, lol!

    • @dadrienedavis
      @dadrienedavis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m a Cancer Sun Aquarius moon too

  • @dungtruong4105
    @dungtruong4105 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cancer is your spiritual mentor. Forget about fast love , to a Cancer, love is not food to have a fast food.
    It's more about the journey, everlasting journey to the end of the universe itself.
    As long as you enjoy the journey, you can envolve and learn many precious things to uncover yourself, too.
    Of course, for an unevolved cancer, it's disgusting to date with. His emotion is unstable.

  • @jenneatsyoursoul
    @jenneatsyoursoul 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As a cancer with a sagittarius moon😬😬😬 I never relate to most cancer things and idk if that's part of it buuuut 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

  • @Sativamarie122
    @Sativamarie122 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this is so true its kinda scary lmaoooo like did we fw the same guy lol🤣

  • @Ruthf93
    @Ruthf93 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Spot on 😬♋️ I also date an Aquarius ♒️

  • @laciedufrene3708
    @laciedufrene3708 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why is this so true 🤣 I’m a cancer 🦀 girl you hit the nail on the head 100 %

  • @anabelsalcido3400
    @anabelsalcido3400 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've been waiting for the Cancer video! ♋
    Great video Ashley! ❤
    I would love to learn more about Mars signs 😊

  • @rymfrigui9251
    @rymfrigui9251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this series ❤️🙏

  • @adrianaayala8326
    @adrianaayala8326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    5th! Can you upload it earlier cause I’m bored and currently talking to a cancer hehe

  • @guelleshah3207
    @guelleshah3207 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Anyone help?:
    I am a libra sun, Pisces rising, libra moon, he is a Cancer
    I have known him for like 10 years, but we started seeing each other almost 3 months, not daily basis, long conversations, lot of fun, took intimacy slow and caring, not lustful
    I thought I could never feel love again, it ferls as if though he healed me, made me feel safe, loved, protected, worthy..maybe first time in my 47 years of life I feel this way..
    Now I read the comments and watched this video: "They make you feel lovey dovey, affectionate, cuddly, but may not give a f@ck..." -" Manipulate you".. etcetera.
    Now this triggers my anxiety from the past.. How can I know or trust this then? It is something I seems worth trying, investing time and energy,, and trusting.. Any advice anybody? Thanks in advance❤

  • @tinacampbell327
    @tinacampbell327 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m a cancer and your on point but not with the manipulative part not for me

  • @needyasf3949
    @needyasf3949 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Maybe it's just my moon in sagg but whenver i'm upset with someone yes I get quiet but afterwards I would talk it out with the person just give me few days and some space for me to get my thoughts right and even if the person wasn't sincere if their fault or etc I would just move on since its better than having bad vibes between this other person just becoz of a small misunderstanding plus holding grudges is tiring I used to do that shit but growing up i'd rather just let go

  • @ladysnow3444
    @ladysnow3444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love your videos!

  • @Naeyola
    @Naeyola 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lawd i’m a aquarius talking to a cancer woman, now i’m nervous

    • @mochiiqueen3616
      @mochiiqueen3616 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m an Aquarius woman talking to a cancer man, lemme tell you...just be patient if you really love that person.

    • @Naeyola
      @Naeyola 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mochiiqueen3616 😅I’m trying, me & her really vibe together so i’m hoping we work out. I am starting to notice a couple things mentioned in the video tho

  • @dyannayancey1177
    @dyannayancey1177 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just started going out with a cancer. Our dates have been amazing. He's a great listener and provider. Makes me feel good, very affectionate and attentive to my needs. Have not seen the mean side of him, but I have a friend that is a Cancer and he gets upset bc he doesn't get the same in return when he helps others (basically, doesn't like to get played or feel played). Looking forward to our next few dates. I'm a Virgo and we are compatible. Love his energy and how he doesn't let stuff bother him. I like how I can be me and he accepts it all. I don't wear lashes, nails, makeup, etc and he's fine with that. Very intelligent and manages money well. I like the chivalry. Opening car doors, carrying my bags, holding hands, etc. I got a good one and hope we can strengthen our relationship into something more serious in the future.

  • @JamieBleu
    @JamieBleu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like this series a lot.

  • @Quanmccorry1002
    @Quanmccorry1002 ปีที่แล้ว

    Her being cancer rising like me this is on point

  • @ricardohanson7010
    @ricardohanson7010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Can you make a dating a Scorpio video next

  • @gilliannicole328
    @gilliannicole328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so true girl 😭

  • @sashavoyles979
    @sashavoyles979 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this series

  • @wwefigurefights5438
    @wwefigurefights5438 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm a cancer n u described me to a "T"

  • @madisonspruill6340
    @madisonspruill6340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Ashley! Pleaseee do Libra next ☺️🥺

  • @raimonestarks3747
    @raimonestarks3747 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really love cancer

  • @Bella-lw2ni
    @Bella-lw2ni 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Me and my fiancé are both cancers

  • @MiyahZ
    @MiyahZ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i love how accurate this is😹😹.

  • @melc7858
    @melc7858 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think it's a sin to expect someone to read your mind 24 -7, even if they can n then get mad when that same person gives up for getting worn out trying to figure you out. Even if we play this hellish game with them and guess right. We are still wrong and expected to keep trying 🙅🏾‍♀️It has to be so exhausting being that way, because it's murder she wrote having to be on the receiving end of such madness. Cancers need to get their minds right and this is coming from a mother of a crab. That child is still giving me the same hell she did growing up. So manipulative and grimy. I can't believe I birth such a demon. She can be sweet as well,but ion trust it anymore. It's always a knife 🔪 waiting to stab me in the back both literally and figuratively. All because she refuses to speak up, stop talking about people behind their backs and silence when they are around,take accountability, stop living in the past and make up scenarios in her head based on it, jumping to conclusions before getting the whole story first, and being a big cry baby for mostly no reason. Lying to get her way. A real life crabby patty 😤 I love her but 🙌🏾 nosey and sneaky at the same time 🙄

  • @Astrologcomedy
    @Astrologcomedy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They are too extra for me. They remind me of Geminis. They switch up too much. It scares me as an Aquarius and it is perceived as emotional instability. Most of them are conflict avoidant which annoys me to no end.

  • @lu1ianaAndom
    @lu1ianaAndom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm a Scorpio and my crush is a cancer

  • @Phantom-Histories
    @Phantom-Histories 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im an cancer and I approve this message

  • @emmanuelmelendez9869
    @emmanuelmelendez9869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thank you for telling me things i coudt see in my self,,,, but i always say sorry if i hurt someone i promise, very real wqith my feelings but maybe its to late when i can be real...!!!

  • @SammyJ96
    @SammyJ96 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    3:40 I do NOT have the patience for that crap. That sounds like caring for a spoil brat . Ugh !