Why I'm So FRUGAL
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- WHY am I so frugal - and am I WASTING my life by being extremely frugal? Today I'm sharing the reasons I love saving money and practicing frugal living, the hard lessons about personal finance that have changed my life, and how frugality fits into our simple life as a minimalist family.
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ABOUT A TO ZEN LIFE
Along my journey to let go of 30 years of clutter, I accidentally became a minimalist and it was life-changing.
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I'm all in!😁🤍✨ I can't thank you enough for this video you did because I've been struggling recently with my level of spending, and this will help me to be more frugal ❤️😊 I'm super excited to see your next video, and I hope you are doing well and have an absolutely amazing day!💕🤗✨🤍☕🌅 Take care, and stay safe. You got a new follower too!🤗 (Me)
A to Zen life must be frugal as God has put her in this position to teach us. We can be an extension of her. I learned self control so I have more time for what truly matters. That is FAMILY. I use my intuition. When I'm in a store and want to buy something but my stomach feel sick guilty and anxious then I know not to purchase that item
I love this. To go slow and have time for me or my family
We all think you are amazing. You do all the work and pass it along while we reep the benefits. You get mother of the Year award. Your fam is blessed to have you.
People will buy something they do not need because they luv the price
There is great quote "Earth has plenty for everyone's need but not enough for their greed.''
To me, money is security. My bills get paid, I have a roof over my head, food on the table. I sleep easy knowing that I can provide a safe harbour for my family 🥰
Putting your security in money is pure foolishness. Money comes and goes at the drop of the hat. I'm 65 years old and can tell you this from multiple experiences. Learn to be self sufficient without money. The more skills you have , the more you don't depend on anything. That's security.
I agree 100%
@@leroy7513 I mean no offense, but that's probably easier to say and live by when, let's say we all live to be 100. So you have 35 more years to support yourself, while my 22 year old daughter has 78 more years to pay for, and just thinking of the inflation in the next 35 years makes me ill, let alone the next 78. The economy is in a free fall. People with half-decent job still can't afford their rent and food.
I'm not saying your generation had it easy, but your generation could actually support yourself and live reasonably well on a minimum wage job. Today, people working for minimum wage are going to bed hungry!! Do you see the difference?
And not to mention, I'm 49, and university was much more expensive for me than it was for my parents. Yet today, my daughter's university tuition is insane. Even though we saved for her education from the time she was three months old, she will still graduate with significant debt. When I was younger, being a student wad expensive, yes. But today, tuition rates are prohibitive. My daughter has friends working so many part time jobs that they don't have time to sleep. Let alone study!
LOL.INTIL ONE DAY,YOU HAVE TO COPE,WITH OUT IT
Personal I find knowledge/skills is security as it can help you make money and save it as more traditional man iv leaned a few buildings skills iv learned to hunt and grow food for me that security as money is only so good when people accept it plus its worth can be manipulated by the powers that be
When I graduated from college and got my first job my mom said to me.
" Money can't buy you happiness but it can buy you solutions to your problems."
She also said "Buy the best that your money can buy so you don't have to replace it."
I never forgot this.
Buy cheap, buy twice.
I only buy if really needed. My stuff almost bought at Goodwill store, I have no credit card debt except my mortgage. I try to save up and do not have any debt at age 50, because if I got lay off, it is hard to find jobs at age 50+.
That certainly was true years ago, and may still be true in many cases, but not so much in others. Technology is advancing so fast, and even "the best" is often cheaply made, designed to last only a few years. It is very easy to overspend. Don't buy at all if you don't NEED it! My wife always says, "I don't care what kind of 'bargain' it is, the one and only way that you 'save' money is by not spending it!" If you do need it, look for value. Don't automatically buy the most expensive. Most of the time the only real difference between the most expensive and a mid priced substitute is the brand name.
Wise mom!
Buying brands that 30 or more years ago were considered “the best” are mostly resting on their former reputation now. When I needed a larger riding lawn mower, I looked at the new models and I was very disappointed in the quality of the product for the money. In the end, I bought and rebuilt at 20 year old machine, for less than a quarter the cost of a new machine, that should last me as long as I am willing to maintain it and take good care of it.
We have greatly confused needs vs wants. The US is the most over-consumer on earth! I am convinced it's a serious addiction that we gloss over as just having too much stuff. If we declutter then don't minimize the stuff coming back into the home, it will be a never ending cycle of waste. I enjoy all your content. You walk the walk, not just the talk, like so many other y tubers do.
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@@AtoZenLife another brilliant thing I luv is how a to zen life can move anywhere a make her fam feel right at home
Here from Africa the USA's idea of poor looks pretty wealthy. I will never understand, for example, why obese people are allowed to claim for disability and not work!
@@jeannehunter5344 sorry you are misinformed. USA does not allow for disability simply based on obesity
Try walking the talk (acting instead of merely talking.)
Not only am I frugal with my money, I am frugal with my time
Several years ago, a news reporter had discovered a supposedly homeless woman living inside an airport, making free use of bathrooms and WiFi facilities.
She was found to be renting out her downtown apartment and collecting monthly rental income of about $2,000 and having a bank savings account of more than $100,000.
Now that’s an extreme savings hack 😂
Thinking of clutter as roommates not paying rent is spot on. I think of clutter as things that aren’t serving me; I’m serving the things with my time, mental attention, and physical energy.
So true!
"To get energy, you must spend energy." "The more you do, the more you can do."
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Your time.... "What do you want to do? Who do you want to do it with?" - (the two great questions in life.)
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I do not want one more thing around that needs regular care, although I love animals and plants.
It costs you money to keep all of those things. If you had less stuff you could live in a smaller home that would be cheaper to buy and maintain. And don't forget all those people that pay for storage units that store junk that they never use.
@@jeannehunter5344 I definitely agree with your thoughts 💭
You are so right! I would like to add these to your list:
8) avoid as far as possible to buy anything new,
9) avoid buying anything that cannot be sold at an auction,
10) buy the best quality you can afford,
11) maintain and repair your possessions.
I agree with all you said, and I would also add one more. My husband and I live a frugal life because we just don't want to be a part of using up resources and filling landfills.
This is a great point and definately can be another motivator to consider, Seeing the sensless use of packaging and how it affects the environment and wildlife is really something that needs constant reminding
All of us end up in a landfill some day.
@@randymillhouse791 Ha! I guess that is one way to look at it! But while I'm still alive, I try to reduce, reuse, and recycle.
@@randymillhouse791 That landfill will be our planet earth that we are continuing to fu*k up as most people only think of themselves, and not our grand kids down the road. Planet earth would be much better off without the human species. We thump our chests and say how great we are and all the “progress “ we have made all the while continuing to f**k up the plank.
Same Here!!!! 100%!!
Wealth are time, health and love.
I did a no-spend for 6 months, back a few years ago. Was really helpful to stop bad habits and get myself out of debt! Also, tracking your spending so you can see where your money is going. It can be quite surprising how much we spend on the little stuff. 5 bucks here, 5 bucks there
What did you do when your power went out and you eventually got evicted?
It now costs a whopping 6 dollars 💵 for a latte at Starbucks
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Make coffee with at home.
It's a no-brainer.
Starbucks is a rip-off.
True, during the Pandemic shut down I saved tons. Lol.
What a wonderful post. I became a minimalist about 20 years ago. I never looked back. The real epiphany came about 10 years ago. I realized that the real minimalist doesn't end with material minimalism. We all have hard luck friends, and family, who add nothing to our lives. By slowly and courteously distancing myself from them, my journey was complete.
YES, great observations 🙏
What a great comment. I second this, it is exactly what I have done in my life. Minimalism but with family and friends 😁
Depuis deux mois je n ai plus rien hacheter, quel SOUS économie
100% on agreement. Life is all about making the best choices for your own good. I recall when a realtor came to see my house and she was shocked when she saw only a bed and a nightstand in a HUGE bedroom. I was selling my house to move to a smaller one. And I have also downsized when it comes to the people I allow into my life.
You are rich if you have a bed - I am sleeping on the floor like Japanese and Indians. :) It's the best sleep you can get. And I get my room to be really empty so I have a lot of space to move around. No clutter.@@exceptionaltalentspc4954
To have almost nothing is the new luxury. Great work!!!
Great video. I used to stuff my refrigerator when certain grocery items are on sale. Now I buy things only after they ran out. I enjoy the emptiness of my surroundings so that I have more space to fulfill my dream.
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Being frugal for me is stocking up on food when it's on sale, it has saved me a small fortune over the years
Finally, a person who represents EXACTLY how I feel. I retired after a 32 year teaching career at age 55. I feel sorry for my teacher friends who are way beyond retirement age, but they feel that they won't be able to sustain themselves. It's not that hard. Just don't buy much. Don't compare yourself to another. We disappoint the salespeople by living that way, but outsmarting our consumer culture is actually what I live for.
“Outsmarting our consumer culture is actually what I live for” - Very well said! Check out Richard Wolfe and Democracy Now. I think you will find him interesting… 👍
So happy you live in Germany now too. On January 6th I broke my ankle bouldering (sounds familiar? :D) and thanks to our health care system I could call an ambulance, have two operations, get still paid by my job and can take the time I need to rest and recover. Without worrying about debt. These are the moments I‘m truly grateful for the country I have been born in. It‘s a privilege.
I'm so glad my dad taught me the value of a dollar and how to save. I wish he was still around so I could thank him.
Great video! Almost nobody speaks about this things. I value more my free time as money. A lot of people in my life think that I'm not ambitious or I don't have goals. But this is not true. My goals are to live slowly, with enough stuff (minimal) and to have free time for hobby's and family. Money is just a tool, not a goal. Big bravo! 👏Greetings from Bavaria Germany!
lovely comment
Great comment YN!!
Not only is your house minimal, you have a great sense of style. The items you do have really pop.
Thank you 🙏
Agreed, I particularly love the Zen family house dining chairs!
I’m very frugal. Ive always colored my own hair, do my own manicures and pedicures, clean my own house, cook delicious meals at home. Also buy most of my clothes at thrift stores. I just like living this way and being debt free
Being frugal allows me to be a stay home wife, which brings balance and peace to my home. We eat and altogether live better by spending less. It's wonderful.
I will be 54. Next month. I don’t have the same energy. Working in the health field. Takes a toll on my body. I want to work part time. That’s my goal for next year. ❤
Thanks for the work that you do
I retired as a nurse at 56. I was sick of the sick.😅 im lucky.
@@peterc8979 thanks
@@mvnorsel6354 technically I can retire this year. Makes my 20th year at the hospital. Let’s see. What happens 🤷🏽♀️
Same here . Get get up or down with the same vigor . Feel a bit breathy it a bit after climbing 3 flights of stairs
All good points! But so true, if your partner doesn’t share your financial philosophy, the relationship is doomed.
Your description of cheap vs frugal is absolutely hitting the nail on the head for me. I believe I'm frugal but I cannot abide cheapness. There's a definite difference.
Reminds me how lucky we are to have the NHS in the UK. Freedom from worries over health care provision is a true Freedom indeed.
I hope the USA will someday be like the U.K.
NHS is shite, just like Canadian system.
More likely the UK will end up like the US. Especially if the Tories get their way
Agreed. I’m a minimalist and frugal by choice now. When I was younger this was a necessity. I’ll be retiring early and travelling more as a result.
This is the trouble with our consumer society, buy buy stuff you don’t even need, so true then ending up with too much clutter, simplicity is the key.
Financial compatibility is a big one in a relationship, marriage especially. It’s not talked about enough considering conflicts about saving and spending have existed for generations.
As a person who lives in Germany, it is terrifying for me to hear you could not get/afford basic medical treatment after your climbing accident 😧That's insane!
Yes! I found that full on as well. I can’t imagine not being able to go to the emergency department for fear of the bill! I live in Australia.
Yep...Welcome to America where you can die of cancer just because your insurance denies your claim. There is only so much money in the pot and if they say "yes" to someone they have to say "no" to someone else. And that "no" could literally be the difference between life and death.
True story.
Thats american dream
In America the Emergency Rooms always have to treat everyone.
Yes, I am from Spain and it was shock for me too 😮
I relate to this video so much. I didn't grow up with a lot of money and when I was younger and on my own, I was in a lot of financial trouble. Fortunately I was able to drag myself out of it. Living debt free and not having to maintain a lot of physical stuff while knowing you can afford it if you need to is just priceless freedom.
I really like your house, from floor to ceiling, very spacious, also the significant number of furniture, everything looks functional.
Being frugal has given us freedom!
I remember the struggles of being poor and working and going to college. I have a profound sadness about that time in my life but a fierce pride as well that I got my BA degree and later after I was married and a mom went back and got a master's degree. But I remember actually telling friends at age 20 that I was dieting when we'd go out and I couldn't afford a meal in the restaurant. So I'd sip a soft drink. Go back to my apartment afterwards and have oatmeal and powdered milk. So being frugal at this point in life doesn't seem so harsh by comparison.
Well you didn't have a choice at that time and you learned to adapt by force
I had almost same experience..I left my friends at university saying that I am goung to mom for dinner, and that was always a lie
Oatmeal? Soda? What’s that? It was Ramen noodles and kool aid! The rich kids could afford soda! J/k….being poor in college, working while going to school….valuable life lessons.
I often tell people that I’m not that busy even though we have 9kids (7 at home) but I’m lazy so I don’t have a ton of stuff and it’s somewhat simple too keep up.
Your place looks great. No clutter, lightly decorated, but every item has a real purpose. Easy to clean. No need to shift things back and forth while cleaning. Way to simplify your life
Thoughtful and much appreciated. I like that you approach this topic with clarity and kindness without being preachy and dogmatic. 🙏🏼
"The empty promises of stuff" Such a great expression for this concept. Insecurity sells.
I appreciate you explaining the difference between cheap and frugal. I’ll use that the next time someone calls me cheap simply because I refuse to buy souvenirs when vacationing (my photos ARE the souvenirs) or because I’m clear I don’t need to buy clothes every year when my size hasn’t changed, keeping my perfectly working cell phone for over 4 years, etc etc.
It's not cheap. It's just being smart & not being a consumer. I haven't bought clothes in 5 years. I still wear some clothes which I've had for 20 years (since high school!) I fit into them, why not wear them? I dont buy souvenirs unless I see something truly amazing that is worth it. And why buy a new cell phone if yours works well? I agree
So glad that you are back here ♥️ Just love your channel! So much inspiration 🤩
Thankyou for being real!!💜
With your family and your UPS and Downs in life of Decluttering.
I have been following you for a couple of years now.
Just watching you grow.
Has been very inspiring to me.
Please keep producing videos.😊💜
Quality is what matters. Material possessions are spiritual objects. Choose wisely.
Thank you for making this content. I look forward to the rest of the month.
OK, gotta pause the video here just to say you absolutely nailed it with point #2. Society and companies aren't the only ones though - we lie to ourselves.
Thank you for another thought-provoking and good counsel video!
I’ve been on a self improvement journey and I’m here to tell you it’s easy to over do it on signing up for classes and online summits too. Those are products too with the promise that it will be exactly what you’ve been missing in your life.
I truly appreciate what you do and how much you put into your videos I want to thank you for all the hard work and extremely kind way you come across
Thanks so much and glad to have you here, Lori!
@@AtoZenLife It’s always been THE Dark Side of the Moon now. Mandela Effect.
From the UK, this video is an eye opener a blessing which I have needed. U R amazing and doing amazing things for your family and yourself. Can't wait to see the videos U have in store. X
Hello from Munich ❤ Love your journey🎉 I do have more stuff but I have an amount I feel comfortable with plus I declutter regularly. Best feeling ever
I’m so ready for this no spend challenge. Let’s gooooo!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Bravo!! Round of applause please! Great thinking, unafraid and full of wisdom. Thanks a lot!
Most normal and down to earth video I've watched on youtube in a long time. Keep up the good work :)
Love your videos, so helpful in making good choices! Thank you for all you do.
Thank you girl for this video and these words, thats exactly how I feel. I was more happy with less materialistic stuff than now, Im tired of clutter.
Enjoying your videos! You make some really good points!
Drove right by losing both parents passing before end of college…often hardships forge the strongest of humans… Thanks for sharing, great content!
I AM GRATEFUL for your podcast and the REALITY that it's ok that it takes TIME maybe even 5 years to get through boxes of STUFF & MEMORY'S. I watch plenty of minimalists and if your life's time is full of work, grandchildren, caregiver to friends and loved ones going through cancers and leukemia, and just squeezing in some joyful moments for yourself; the overwhelming piles of stuff and boxes can send you over the edge. Retreat and never get through them. Your compassion to a busy person's life is an inspiration and I have been finally able to tackle through 1 pile at a time and ITS OKAY. 🌺🌄💜 smds florida
Marissa,I respect so much your value for yourself! You journey and search for making your life to support you, not to distract you. I follow you because I get inspired from you! Many people hold and buy things just to not address their real problems or daemons, or they just afraid to live their dreams. I truly believe your videos awake so many people ❤❤❤Thank you much love from Moscow Russia❤
Wow! That was such a powerful statement about what money gives you. I was like you in not having health insurance for my family when our kids were young. That is frightening. To be in fear of a medical emergency is the worst but being vulnerable to those who would take advantage of your situation is something I dealt with, too. I'm just in the process of getting my mind around being more minimalist. I think I tend to collect things because I didn't have them when I was a kid or a young wife/parent. I can see the trap that I've fallen into. Very interesting video. Thanks for sharing.
I love this. It's so refreshing to hear this point of view because I'm of the same mindset, but still struggle a bit with the constant pressure to have more, because that's what is expected of me. But then I'm reminded every once in a while, how ridiculous it is to try and impress other people with material things, especially those who don't even know me! Not that there's necessarily anything wrong with having certain things if you can afford them. But if you're stressing out about not having them, it's a waste of precious mental and emotional energy. Thank you so much for posting this!
💕 your frugality and your quotes on economic virtues. The truth is- that the frugal can be generous.
Excellent points, as always. You're like my affirmation that my decisions about how I do frugality (4 kids in the house,1.5 incomes, rented apartment) prefering experiences and family time over stuff and more stuff, were right and OK! 😊
#4 (4:12) is so key to making the minimalist life work without stress. Best to have friends who are living the same type of lifestyle to provide support when you feel the need to compete. Great video.
I can totally relate to everything that you said! Amen sister ❤ I learned this lesson late in life but thankful for people like you that share the good news of being frugal!
'I learned this lesson late in life'
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Love this video :) My partner and I have focused on frugality these last few years and it's been amazing.
OMG! I have been running into this myself. I have been told that I am so cheap but I see it as freedom. I would rather look for the best possible value or even not have it at all if it means that I have to spend 8-10 hours making money doing something that I don’t like. Besides my husband, I haven’t met a single person who understands that. They all look at me like I am crazy 😂 but then these same people are envious of that same freedom 🤔 😂😂
Finding your husband was a good win though ✌️😁
@@AtoZenLife So true!! ❤🎉
Same!
I totally agree with every thing you have said.i follow many super frugal blogs and they all have this view so your not alone.blessings to you😀🌈☀️
I buy new, excellent quality and energy saving cars. I then drive that car for 15-20yrs. I maintain that car so it runs longer and better. I had a boyfriend who thought I should get a new car as he traded his car for new every 2 years. Good looking and built but no depth, we broke up shortly after his criticism.
You are my favorite TH-cam channel! Thank you for being so inspiring!🫶
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I’ve been trying to decluttee and stop my spending habits, but it is so hard. This helps
Thank you for your insights. Very much appreciated.
My sister has broken her feet, sprained her ankles and knee many times and didn't always go to the doctor. For her it was about stubbornness and not insurance, but I mention this to say that it could've been many possibilities in your foot, and wow, isn't it amazing how the body is able to heal itself (especially when young)! Glad your foot was ok in the end, though that must've been quite the healing process you went through!
Sadly we’re close to retirement and it’s not so much frugal as it is lack of income. You can’t spend what you don’t have. But often it is so stressful trying to make ends meet. We’ve both been self employed, rent, no kids, no debt but no real retirement. Such is life.
Wonderful thoughts about how we can all live happier, simpler lives. Another benefit of cutting back on clutter is that when you DO move, there is less crap to sell, give away, recyle and toss. I'm getting ready to move now and trying to give away as much as I can to avoid moving things unnecessarially.
You have a great way of putting things into perspective, enjoy your site
And learn so much🌹
Thank you for this video, I really needed some of these reminders 🤔
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As a long time viewer, i have never even thought of you as cheap. If anything I subconsciously assumed you may even be kind of well off (financially comfortable) because of minimalism. In my observation you buy well so that you don’t have to buy often. That’s goals to me❤
luxury!
I love this! On my journey with this and will get there!
I love you! You are a true example and I admire you for what you give us! Pure education! I wish we learned the important things in life in school. But I guess its better late than never! Thank you dear!
Best of wishes from Bulgaria! ❤
Thanks so much and happy to have you here! Waving from Germany 🇩🇪 👋
Very well presented. I agree with your approach to frugality. I have lived most of my 65 years to similar lifestyle solutions. One thing I would add to this is learn how things work and try to make your own repairs. And to further that point by taking preventive actions will far out weigh how many repairs you will need to make. I would love to share with anyone how well things are for me today, but I would be bragging.
So true and it is never too late to start living frugal at any age or stage of life. Starting at age 69 and getting out of a relationship are the best opportunity to practise this.🎉
Needed to hear this!!! Thank you!!!
Just stumbled across your channel. Love your mindset and presentation. I love being frugal. I can do a lot better but now I'm subscribed I can hopefully learn some lessons from you!
Love your message! so true. I can love something that I see in the store and be happy to just not get it if I don't need it. I love beautiful things and places but I don't feel the need to have it. Probably, because, like you I grew up with money just for the basics, maybe also because it was 40 years ago (in France) and there wasn't as much stuff and pictures and no social media all around!
Thank you for everything you do. my husband and I were able to get out of credit card debt. we are shopping intentionally now, since we are moving soon, we noticed the bed was breaking as well as the recliner and the couch so we went and picked out a new bed and a new couch that will replace the old couch and recliner. even though they were expensive they are quality and won't have to be replaced for a long time. also your story for your move from America to Germany was so inspiring that for my move across country i am getting rid of 80% of my items. it feels so good not having to worry about all that stuff i got rid of, now I can slow down and enjoy life even more.
Yes and enjoy living with less! It is truly freeing and feels great. Do Not Replace the Items and Do Not Buy More stuff or you'll be back to where you started!
@@bellalerman9359 only replace the items you are actually using if they need replacing. this doesn't mean impulse buying! taking the time to find a quality replacement for an item that you can afford can be tricky but worth it in the end.
Thank you for sharing your life story. I admire your strength and you are a great person.
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YOU BLEW my mind when you said (paraphrased), "Stuff is like roommates that don't pay rent."
BANG ON!!!
Just starting my decluttering journey in earnest. It's slow going. Mainly because I don't have a timeline. Plus, I don't want to feel anxiety or pressure of "I have to get this alllllllll done by Saturday."
My long-term goal is to live in a tiny house.
Thank you for your videos!!
My aunts would spend hours ‘window shopping’. They would go to a mall and wander around looking at things. They rarely bought anything but had an enjoyable and frugal day.
I'm in my 70's, and have never owned a dryer. My mom used indoor and outdoor air drying racks and I do the same. Never paid for a dryer, don't pay the energy costs to run it. When my wet laundry dries indoors, it humidifies the air. Also, I only use the shortest wash cycle, which gets everything perfectly clean. And I make my own dry detergent. My clothes are 95% thrifted or home made, and my local thrift stores are the venues for my books, dvds, cds, shoes (why do people buy, then donate NEW shoes?), pet supplies, and household items. I purchase with cash only, and keep tabs on how much I have to spend each month. It's a great teacher. One note on healthcare - I also cannot afford insurance, and when I broke my wrist the hospital sent a state/federal aid rep to my bed in the ER, and she got me signed up for emergency health care funds right there. So, being poor won't necessarily mean you are denied care.
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Less is definitely more! I've really minimized my side of the closet, keeping only what I love and wear all the time. Now it's easy to clean and no longer gives me anxiety (as long as I don't look at my husband's side 🙃).
Do you have any tips? I get so overwhelmed when I try to declutter my clothes because I have so many
@@gameplaygirl3268 I would say wash whatever you have around that you havent worn for about 3-6months..treat it as if its still used..then as it is in neat state pack it in a box or bag' protecting it from any ruining ' and put away..Now focus on what you are using and see how you feel ..what you 'really might need to add, and enjoy the clarity and ease of seeing less 'stuufff' .If you miss anything ..you can open bag and check it again. Or you might be ready to release it . Hope this is helpful.
Same and my husbands clothes take most of the space in the closet
Each time I wash clothes, I hang them on the left side of my closet,. Over time, what I wear weekly emerges. The clothes rotate to the left as the seasons change. The clothes that are never worn go into the "just in case closet." They just hang there. All alone, forlorn. Begging to be worn some sweet day.
A while back I started immediately donating any clothing or accessory item that when put on or worn made me feel uncomfortable for Any reason; too hot, scratchy, lose, tight, low cut, made me feel awkward, etc. I don’t buy any replacements. I keep to simple classic jeans, solid classic quality T’s in colors that look good on me and red, Kelly green, and orange for seasonal wear, a chambray denim shirt, a few other striped T’s and button down shirts in white, plaids , and prints, to wear alone or over the T’s. I have a denim and a black skirt, and a black dress. I have a black fitted blazer, denim jacket, a few cardigans, and a classic winter coat that can be worn casual or dressed up. I use scarves or jewelry to accessorize simply.
Great video. I am an emotional hoarder bc i dont want to lose the memories that things hold, but what has happened is that those things end up owning me and make me miserable. I am on the process of really letting go and i can feel the weight lifting off my back every time a box or bag of stuff leaves the house
You could take pictures of the items so you don’t forget them or the memories attached to them
@@Jlisa21 thanks for the tip! I do take some pictures but honestly i do need to learn to let go. Also i am trying to declutter my digital stuff so it makes me really evaluate the thing itself and also if i would want it as a photo. If i dont want the pic then i definitely do not want the thing
L. I do empathize with you on this. I had 4 generations of inherited items. So much that my house had become a museum. There was no me in it at all.Everywhere I looked was someone else’s things.
I gave myself 5 years as a goal. Slowly using and moving things from room to room. I creatively repurposed things. I put stuff in garage and storage. If I didn’t miss the item , it was donated so someone could truly love it..
I asked family members if they wanted pieces. Amusing, but they didn’t , yet were upset when I said I was donating them. Do not allow inanimate objects to steal your joy. I get it. I’ve lost all but 3 members of my family and held so tightly to things . I can say honestly, yes I still have a lot BUT I have curated it to the most precious pieces. Good luck on your journey and be kind to yourself along the way.
@@kandy7581 thanks for sharing. You know whats funny? In the summee my house got broken into and i got stolen many sentimental items with no real market value (class ring for example) so now they're forever gone and i my life hasnt really changed so i am doing as you and really only keeping a few very special things and also knowing they could be gone anytime so i am learning to enjoy them today
The Key is Do Not Buy & Do Not Replace the stuff!!! That is #1!!!
I have been trying for years to get anyone i care about to minimize the things in their life. They really don't understand the, the more things you owe the more things you have to maintain equation.
Best part is the comment that money gives you choices, this is true and why its best saving for the important things and not spending on useless consumer crap
You are a wonderful, sympathetic woman with a wonderful voice. Love your vlogs and the content!
A rare voice of wisdom in our materialistic culture. She gets it.
The stuff we own ends up owning us. Saw that quote somewhere, so true.
Very good video, makes 💯 sense. You're saying a lot of what people fundamentally know/feel deep down. Thanks for the reminder 😊
Great advice!
Talking about challenges, I've been doing my own which is "less than $50" a week for groceries etc. So far so good, today I'm picking up groceries for the week and my total is $49.97 🙃.
This is also (starting tomorrow) week 19 going vegan.
Just wonder, for how many people is your budget?
We are plant based and it is amazing for our budget!
@@ukrsun just me. (And 3 rescue dogs lol)
@@terkfranks1538 good job! 👍
Bravo! I re-committed to veganism a few yrs ago. living this principle and lifestyle w passion! Sharing this in my training and education work! We adopted two amazing doggie friends from the Dominican Republic over a yr ago and they have adjusted to vegan food right away. Love the vegan dry kibble and home made food. If I saved two doggies, I don't want other chickens, cows, fish and beings be treated w cruelty.
Thich Nhat Hanh wrote a moving letter about compassion for animals and all beings. It's on Plum Village's website. In a YT video, Thay talked about the importance of veganism, and commented that it is not perfect. Probably Thay humbly meant that living beings like insects and plants could be affected, hurt in farming and the process. I love the doc film Hope: What You Eat Matters, the book Dr Pitcairn's Natural Guide for Dogs & Cats, which advocates veganism for people and pets. Sending love and blessing!🥰😸
Ur story is more the norm in America. I think ur point about money giving choices is spot on. Some are forced into “minimalism
You are so right dear !!!