Do you ever feel like you need a PhD in Telecom to understand your phone plan? Well, we've got a shortcut for you - Airtel #SmartPlans! Dial *100*6# and be the smartest Mum on the block! Now let's talk teenagers! What were you like as a teen? Come through to the beautiful Golden Tulip this Sunday for the scrumptious brunch to celebrate life with your family. ADULTS UGX 90,000 KIDS 60,000 Dont forget to like and subscribe to our channel. Comment below what you'd love to hear from us on this segment in the future.
Miss Pumla for Governor, I agree...I love everyone's story 🤣🤣. I was a rule follower, and I still am. I do not like living on the edge. I can have fun in my own way but within the limits of what is acceptable in the environment I am in. I was really grounded as a teenager because my dad is a communicator, in words, and what he could not teach, he would bring me something to read or watch a program. Let us just say I find rebellion so exhausting, I am lazy on that part, zero energy for heart palpitations. Hahaha So, my take-home is seamless communication first then that part; a brain thriving on emotions but without the capacity to regulate. 1. Let us just guide them because they are fighting for independence and trying to find an identity (Pumla). 2. Respect the teenage stage as you do all the others (Manuela). 3. Be patient(Racheal). 4. Listen, and be more curious than critical (Angie)...
I was the small gal who caused trouble at home,quarrels etc but the most hard working and very stingy.. My mom is very shocked now that I am the most generous. 😂.my dad loved me too much that my siblings thought they were not my true siblings, I hanged out lots with boys and always wanted to dare them especially in class..........I was a late bloomer in some aspects .I wet my bed till was 19..but also started my Ps at 19....then at some point I became a church gal... I was those gals who lie about coaching at bat valley and we spent whole day roaming in town..😂😂😂😊 But my relationship with my mom is now strong.
I wish this episode is in Luganda and send to mama before run mad our 4th born ended up in police cells @15yrs teens years🙌🙌 mama was Naye mwana gwe nze nkuzaala bakulubo ngatebantuusa wano💔💔
I saw in your IG stories that a new one was out.. when I came here there was no update. You don't want to know how many times I have refreshed this page😂😂. Anywhooo. Let's dive in
Angie’s statement of we can do this together hits me hard b’se i remember someone back in 2017 told me that we’re in this together and everytime she pisses me off i remember that statement and calm down 🫂
_I remember in my teens being raised by a collection of maids , dad and a step mom i was very stubborn in that the whole kamwanyi zone😂 and Nsambya Kabalagala combined knew me and i was untouchable b’se my dad was and still respected by the whole community b’se of his being mukambwe naye nze namugonza and i remember i was the 1st to call him Muzeeyi and my elders where like 😳 naye nze nali community champion being a footballer i would be in place like katwe where i adopted habits like using drugs but my dad didn’t know about it except my peers naye am grateful nti i was there, i was tested but came out strong and my family and community is proud of who i am right now🙏 I give thanks and praise to God and my never getting tired of me Dad_. Continue resting in peace mama 🫶🏻🕊
This show reminds me of how my mom shed tears and told me she wouldn’t come to my wedding simply because I had plaited dreadlocks. Guys! I was even done with campus. Chronicles of an only child.
What A Time To Be Alive! An episode that is a major bittersweet trigger...these are the kind of shows we needed during the dark ages of the 90s when the parental rule book dictated that children are only seen but never heard. Banange, u learn something new everyday, hence note to self," call ma therapist for a session(s) to unpack some teenage era overload." On the point of giving teenagers space,that's a tightrope many parents are navigating/wrestling with but good luck to all & Aluta Continua! Rosette,those braids/style are so becoming on u! Angie, u wrapped up the episode so well. #curiousnotcritical Merci! Bump❤!
The most important statement from my 15 yr old niece was " Auntie, as much as we might be looking at the same picture, the fact is we are seeing totally two different images. So, in a nutshell, as much as you adults want us to learn from your world/experience, you also need to get into our world and understand that what am experiencing is totally different from what you experienced. So, instead of trying to pull me to your world, let's find a middle ground.
Pumla, I've admired your hair for some time now. I hope it's allowed to ask where you do it from 😊. You know women we are the true definition of benchmarking. Otherwise, thanks for the show, the first thing I always do before starting to watch an episode is to like, even before I decipher the topic.
When we joined high school, our dad never missed sitting us down and talking to us as teenagers.... telling us the bad things and what is important for us. I swear my father's words saved me throughout highschool. Whenever I was exposed to a confusing situation., My father's words would echo in my mind and I would not go on to do a bad thing. Parents talk to your children
Oh ladies!❤❤ I must confess that I’m always looking foward to Fridays ao that I get to learn and laugh😊. But y’alls have made this soo fruitful. Pumla and Angie’s parts have been soo outstanding, then the lessons from our guest😊😊😊guys I’m saving this for when my daughter reaches the stage😂 lol😂
Kantagarasi for me from Madam Rosette and then Pumla I can't stop lafing from whatever u went thru in yo teens.....thanks sooo much ladies for sharing yo stories....Madam Pumla Hau I wish the president appoints u as our Govnor.....God Bless u ladies and the visitor
When i listen to Pulma and how rebellious she was, am encouraged not to write off your children regarless of how tough the journey gets.Keep guiding them nothelesss. See how she turned out now. Brilliant lady well rounded with wisdom and the right vibes🇰🇪
I feel the more rebellious you be during your teen years..the better you learn from it most especially when you have a circle to criticize and guide.. And you really do better in your later years cause almost you have seen it all
Awwww Glad to see my "big sis" on this show. Hope you are such an inspiration to many young pple.keep the fire burning and may God continue using you. You are Loved
Thank you so much ladies for all the beautiful episodes you server us every Friday. Am now gonna be a better mum, I have been so much on my daughter but I think I will do better now. I look forward to Friday every week. Lessons thanks.. and for the dress code it's just mwaaaaaaaaaaah.
Kale I was one of those teenagers that wasn't free with mom especially when it came to talking about boys and relationships coz in my S1, you know at that time we didn't have phones so I gave my friend Julio my mom's number to communicate during the holiday, you people the guy sent a message, I don't know what was in that msg but she got a mulawo from boiling bunyebwa and chased me around the house to beat me. She kept asking what gift did you promise to give that boy nga I can't even say yet Bambi I had promised to give him. Bigbom sweet when we got back to school, that real got me off. Surprisingly she is such a good counselor, many of my friends testify to that, but me, I always think twice before talking to her, I know I should have gone past it but owaaye I just go slow. Anyway thanks for the show, now that am a mom too, I pray to do better. Also I commend Pumla for educating herself about the topics, banage she can pour data from research, we appreciate.
Thank you so much for this topic, it took me down the lane of my teenage years, I lost my mom as a teenager and became so unruly, but my aunties and uncles not onetime did they give up on me even with rebellious ways. And just like Pumla, I was crazy and all but there are certain things I would never do because I always remembered that eh how will my relatives hear about this. A firm foundation is very important.
thank you so much I took on parenting after my mum passed on at the age of 28 years and I have teenagers but thank u for this particular show thank u so much. point to take home listening ohh thank u
Very Informative episode! I am only mum to a 1yr old.😀 But I am so grateful for this information. With these nuggets we keep getting from Bump Love, we shall get there when we know better. The bit where Pumla’s mum helped her study for her F6 exams without discussing her expulsion at all and the bit where Asante gave the Angie feedback got me teary. Those were very deep moments!❤
Big up Bump Laduu 4 ur experiences. Meanwhile mine was I had cafew, our Mummy was more of soldier than a Mummy 🙄, I wld escape to swim, plus play with the neighbors wen she had gone to teach & lastly Sunday skool singing practices helped b easier to hve fun! So I've been more of Church person to date by God's Grace coz it's were I got real Joy and comfort
At times parenting is like marriage once u feel like giving up naye when u look back at how far u’ve come again u energise and go back to the battlefield 😃🤣
Thank you ladies...been watching u thru motherhood...u have really nurtured me to b a good mum to my lito psalms... My teen life...omg was so hmmm But thank u for the good job. Kisha 🇦🇪
I sincerely agree with you Pumla, the worst happened when I was going for my final exams and my guardian abused me verbally to the core. All my esteem was gone. Rest in peace my mother. I know what it's feels like not to protect others psychologically
Thanks bumpers for the sweet and encouraging talks, i wish you could bring a full topic about listening and speaking to teenagers. Myself i have witnessed this where i grew up with my mum but we were not free to speak to each other. Then one day, i was listening to a radio at an age of 13 and they spoke about signs and symptoms of STIs where i realized that i was experiencing some of them. Speaking to mum, she jumped into conclusion that i had started sleeping with men which was not the case. Ever since then, i never spoke to her about any matter concerning my love life nor sexual conditions which has led me to seek information and advice from outsiders.
Thanks dear ladies, you enlight me everyother time, indeed we have done crazy things during our teenage life but God brought through those times were we would have gotten harm to now responsible people, thanks for hosting that lady she has the knowledge to share to us parents, Asante
Thank for the show ladies This show has challenged me i have a 2yr old who has always gone to the potty so well does no 2 calls you to clean him up😊 today after using the potty he instead smeared poo on himself. I couldn't believe what i was seeing he had poo from head to toe😢. Like Pumla said we need to educated ourselves about the different stages of growth in our children. I had a teenager helping but you could see an empty head in most of her actions. Today you're kawa the next minute she doing the opposite and your like oba what do I do to this one Telling lies, not owning her mistakes nga kwegamba olemwa Thanks for this beautiful show
This topic makes me reflect on the Kenyan couple .. Mumbus TH-cam channel (Judy Nyawira). I feel like they have raised their teenage daughter in a free space where she can tell her parents anything ❤
Concerning smartphones and technology, I’d love to help your parents learn how to make computers, tablets and phones more secure. It’s something that I’ve been successful with in our home.
The day I meet Pumla I will have achieved one of my life goal but I agree on so much with your perspective n our lives r exactly similar….can’t wait to see the best governor to come
I can relate to Manuela's teenage story when a friend lured me to go to kidongo in our O level *Fortunately or unfortunately, I had no party clothes* No sooner had they jumped over the fence than role call went on🙄 Thank you God
Love you gals for always encouraging us on how to become good mothers and women of substance, am always waiting for your new episodes ❤️ much love ma boss ladies
Lots to learn.... thank you for the show ladies. My first born is 4yrs... When Angie talked about Asante telling her to stop... Hmmm.... I just imagined my little one telling me to stop... eh! May God give us life🙏
Woow extremely informative, one of my best bump love shows ever🙏♥️♥️♥️♥️I was glued on the whole time, I so much related to everything especially as a deputy parent to my siblings as a first born in my family. Thank you so much for the show, It has really shade so much light to me, I will surely do better moving forward 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤lots of love for you ladies
The issue is that we magnify the bad side over the good side. We emphasize the don'ts over the dos which prompts these young ones to check in and confirm. For Example if we are talking about mobile phones, emphasize why phones are important, they may end up not addicted than when you limit and they are saying that the day I will get a phone I will sleep with it in my hands.
Dear bump ladies,I am so humbled and eager to always listen in on all your parenting episodes.kindly enlighten me on how best to co-parent my teenage girl with my Ex
I am kinda happy am not a mom yet I am learning much from bump love thank you so much ladies. Naye Pumla Nabachwa 😂😂 you really gave your mom headache.
U pipo i feel like recording,..guys i was dat rebellious Teenager through out my teenage years..my mum used every kind of punishment and i was left to be taken to KAMPIRINGISA cuz nali "NALEMAA "🤦♀️...And the worst came wen she took me to my dad 🤪..guys i didn't many silly things and the worst stupid thing was refusing to go sit my FORM 4 EXAMS yet i had finished "registration"...🤦♀️at first it didn't hit me,.i was like i want to have fun with my hommies cuz bo bali TEBASOMA nga mbegba 😂 they do what they want!..now every time when am alone i start to regret y didn't go and sit my EXAMS cuz every thing was set 😢!..kinuma naye negumya and am like,..what was i thinking?😢..nebeli nesigulilako bona babula simanyi jebada 😅...right now i have a little girl and i always pray for her cuz it's only God to interven am so scared about her..sagala abela nga nze banaye..my mum beat me, burnt my feet with candles 🕯, denied me food, tied me with ropes, threw stones, bricks at me naye NALEMAA!..until she handled me over to my father ate tht made it worse !..guys it's a long story to tell 😢 naye teenage stage yetaga KATONDA YEKA...u can talk and talk naye nga Omwana Tawulila 😂!
Thank you so much bumplove for this show u guys are truly the unsung heroes on this general life journey we surely do learn alot.. questions if we have suggestions on topics we want to be discussed how to we reach it to you.
Ssoo insightful as I step into the season. I resonate sooo much with Pumla and Angie i love the combination of strength and meekness. Angie looking effortlessly elegant and breathtakingly beautiful,
The best way to deal with a teenager is being honest with them ,like solid honesty. Secondly ,listen and listen and do more listening and ask more questions . Don’t shout at them ,be respectful,they are semi -young adults .
This was so educative, especially how we tend not to trust the process forgetting that we have been raising them for the independence. May God help us to trust Him and the process. Sometimes being a mother is so overwhelming that we want to do everything,as Pumla says,we can do better. Educate ourselves as much as we can,and do it with them! #Asante Thank you for gracing our screens,you all are so versatile with your dress code... Jesus!❤
Being a single mother,I always tell my daughter that when ever she is going to do something out of line to first think of me,that the pain comes straight on me,to think much more if she still needs me or not😊😊I can see that she got that Pumula force as a teen but I love the fact that she be like "but my mother" It kind humbles her abit. Thank you ladies for the show❤❤❤❤
@@pumlanabachwa8668 I meant like being informed gives me more knowledge about certain behaviours,how to approach and also being so intentional about the motherhood journey,I appreciate the show soo much because it has made me better.Iam truly doing better madam Pumla,thx🥰 ❤ 💐
Thank you, thank you so much for bringing such an important topic and discussing it in a way everyone can understand. Am yet to be a teenage mom but everything made sense. Thanks again to you Ladies
Tovtell the truth I beg God to make this' teenage experience skooth giz Indimukowu! First born syndrome of having raised my sibblings....I got tired before ever having children
Honestly, I needed this,. It came at the right time. I have shared this information it's very powerful especially for us with teenagers. Long live bump love. Each of you spoke to someone struggling out there❤
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Now let's talk teenagers!
What were you like as a teen?
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Angie's look on this particular episode is heavenly..
😂😂😂 why
I mean dahhhhh. So lovely
Of late she's been up there 🤔
I agree Carol
Miss Pumla for Governor, I agree...I love everyone's story 🤣🤣. I was a rule follower, and I still am. I do not like living on the edge. I can have fun in my own way but within the limits of what is acceptable in the environment I am in. I was really grounded as a teenager because my dad is a communicator, in words, and what he could not teach, he would bring me something to read or watch a program. Let us just say I find rebellion so exhausting, I am lazy on that part, zero energy for heart palpitations. Hahaha
So, my take-home is seamless communication first then that part; a brain thriving on emotions but without the capacity to regulate.
1. Let us just guide them because they are fighting for independence and trying to find an identity (Pumla). 2. Respect the teenage stage as you do all the others (Manuela). 3. Be patient(Racheal). 4. Listen, and be more curious than critical (Angie)...
You have finished the topic.......
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I was the small gal who caused trouble at home,quarrels etc but the most hard working and very stingy..
My mom is very shocked now that I am the most generous. 😂.my dad loved me too much that my siblings thought they were not my true siblings, I hanged out lots with boys and always wanted to dare them especially in class..........I was a late bloomer in some aspects .I wet my bed till was 19..but also started my Ps at 19....then at some point I became a church gal...
I was those gals who lie about coaching at bat valley and we spent whole day roaming in town..😂😂😂😊
But my relationship with my mom is now strong.
Racheal's rebelling in school was when she listened ko to aka secular music😂😂😂am still on the floor ladies and gentlemen
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That’s an Angel 😂😂😂😂
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Thank u mothers for this discussion, am a young father of two but am learning so much with parenting from u ladies,thank u so much.
Effective communication, avoid jumping to conclusions, learn to apologise, Give children space once in a while, always compliments them. 🤝Hope
I wish this episode is in Luganda and send to mama before run mad our 4th born ended up in police cells @15yrs teens years🙌🙌 mama was Naye mwana gwe nze nkuzaala bakulubo ngatebantuusa wano💔💔
You can translate for her. Hehe
I saw in your IG stories that a new one was out.. when I came here there was no update. You don't want to know how many times I have refreshed this page😂😂. Anywhooo. Let's dive in
Waoooo thanks ladies
Every Friday,just be expectant,there is no any other day
😂😂😂😂😂 but bumplovers.
Have arrived late but have managed to kwenyiga ku front desk😀😃
I could listen to Angie talk all day!
Angie’s statement of we can do this together hits me hard b’se i remember someone back in 2017 told me that we’re in this together and everytime she pisses me off i remember that statement and calm down 🫂
_I remember in my teens being raised by a collection of maids , dad and a step mom i was very stubborn in that the whole kamwanyi zone😂 and Nsambya Kabalagala combined knew me and i was untouchable b’se my dad was and still respected by the whole community b’se of his being mukambwe naye nze namugonza and i remember i was the 1st to call him Muzeeyi and my elders where like 😳 naye nze nali community champion being a footballer i would be in place like katwe where i adopted habits like using drugs but my dad didn’t know about it except my peers naye am grateful nti i was there, i was tested but came out strong and my family and community is proud of who i am right now🙏 I give thanks and praise to God and my never getting tired of me Dad_. Continue resting in peace mama 🫶🏻🕊
We are grateful that finally you turned out great.
Thanks for the show ladies ... Angie has a way she always brings "mature" to this show...she's the embodiment of obukadde magezi...
This show reminds me of how my mom shed tears and told me she wouldn’t come to my wedding simply because I had plaited dreadlocks. Guys! I was even done with campus. Chronicles of an only child.
What A Time To Be Alive!
An episode that is a major bittersweet trigger...these are the kind of shows we needed during the dark ages of the 90s when the parental rule book dictated that children are only seen but never heard.
Banange, u learn something new everyday, hence note to self," call ma therapist for a session(s) to unpack some teenage era overload."
On the point of giving teenagers space,that's a tightrope many parents are navigating/wrestling with but good luck to all & Aluta Continua!
Rosette,those braids/style are so becoming on u!
Angie, u wrapped up the episode so well. #curiousnotcritical
Merci! Bump❤!
The most important statement from my 15 yr old niece was " Auntie, as much as we might be looking at the same picture, the fact is we are seeing totally two different images. So, in a nutshell, as much as you adults want us to learn from your world/experience, you also need to get into our world and understand that what am experiencing is totally different from what you experienced. So, instead of trying to pull me to your world, let's find a middle ground.
This is so perfectly put.
Your mother’s, ladies are the ones who need to tell these stories!
They don't remember shit. I consulted mine and she said that I was the best child in the world 😂😅😂
@@pumlanabachwa8668 😂😂😂😂😂. Mums will say that.
@@pumlanabachwa8668 😂😂
Teenage kids are such a rollercoaster. Thanks ladies for helping us navigate the waters.
Pumla, I've admired your hair for some time now. I hope it's allowed to ask where you do it from 😊. You know women we are the true definition of benchmarking. Otherwise, thanks for the show, the first thing I always do before starting to watch an episode is to like, even before I decipher the topic.
When we joined high school, our dad never missed sitting us down and talking to us as teenagers.... telling us the bad things and what is important for us.
I swear my father's words saved me throughout highschool.
Whenever I was exposed to a confusing situation., My father's words would echo in my mind and I would not go on to do a bad thing.
Parents talk to your children
Parents talk to your children ❤
Oh ladies!❤❤ I must confess that I’m always looking foward to Fridays ao that I get to learn and laugh😊. But y’alls have made this soo fruitful. Pumla and Angie’s parts have been soo outstanding, then the lessons from our guest😊😊😊guys I’m saving this for when my daughter reaches the stage😂 lol😂
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Oh Angie
Your calmness is just so kind
I relate Angie and Reachel are so down to earth
Pumla ❤ you are a force to reckon with, the world is not ready. Great episode as always ladies ✨
Oh thank you. Blessings received. P
I absolutely agree with you @ Musinare Pumla Pumla …. let me not find you sleep walking again 😅😅😅
Lady in red looks amazing..red looks good on you. Thank you for the insightful topic
I can really resonate with Pumla's submission. Sali mwangu yadde
Kantagarasi for me from Madam Rosette and then Pumla I can't stop lafing from whatever u went thru in yo teens.....thanks sooo much ladies for sharing yo stories....Madam Pumla Hau I wish the president appoints u as our Govnor.....God Bless u ladies and the visitor
Governor blessings received 🙏. Thank you Iryn
When i listen to Pulma and how rebellious she was, am encouraged not to write off your children regarless of how tough the journey gets.Keep guiding them nothelesss. See how she turned out now. Brilliant lady well rounded with wisdom and the right vibes🇰🇪
Exactly. As long as they don't hurt themselves beyond recovery, rebellious children can also make it very big in life ❤
Oh YEEEEEEEESSSS! Don't write off your children. Wirh proper guidance, they grow up to be the best human beings.
Thanks Wambui.
I feel the more rebellious you be during your teen years..the better you learn from it most especially when you have a circle to criticize and guide..
And you really do better in your later years cause almost you have seen it all
Awwww Glad to see my "big sis" on this show.
Hope you are such an inspiration to many young pple.keep the fire burning and may God continue using you.
You are Loved
Pumla u are always full of surprises 😂😂 but we love you.
Hahahaaaaa! Just keep loving me kubanga love is always the solution 😅
Bambi can we have more than one episode in a week 😂
Please....more episodes
Bambi, I'm sure they would, too, but remember they have jobs, families, and other responsibilities.
Kyoka banange 😅. Ekikulu the comment section is another episode of its own. Era for now concentrate here 😂
Thank you so much ladies for all the beautiful episodes you server us every Friday.
Am now gonna be a better mum, I have been so much on my daughter but I think I will do better now.
I look forward to Friday every week. Lessons thanks.. and for the dress code it's just mwaaaaaaaaaaah.
Kale I was one of those teenagers that wasn't free with mom especially when it came to talking about boys and relationships coz in my S1, you know at that time we didn't have phones so I gave my friend Julio my mom's number to communicate during the holiday, you people the guy sent a message, I don't know what was in that msg but she got a mulawo from boiling bunyebwa and chased me around the house to beat me. She kept asking what gift did you promise to give that boy nga I can't even say yet Bambi I had promised to give him. Bigbom sweet when we got back to school, that real got me off.
Surprisingly she is such a good counselor, many of my friends testify to that, but me, I always think twice before talking to her, I know I should have gone past it but owaaye I just go slow.
Anyway thanks for the show, now that am a mom too, I pray to do better.
Also I commend Pumla for educating herself about the topics, banage she can pour data from research, we appreciate.
Banange the mulawo 😂😂😂😂😂
I also learned from her. Now in most situations I also educate myself. It actually helps alot.
That mulaawo is unforgettable
Thank you so much for this topic, it took me down the lane of my teenage years, I lost my mom as a teenager and became so unruly, but my aunties and uncles not onetime did they give up on me even with rebellious ways. And just like Pumla, I was crazy and all but there are certain things I would never do because I always remembered that eh how will my relatives hear about this. A firm foundation is very important.
A firm foundation us very important. May your mom keep resting peacefully ❤
@@pumlanabachwa8668 Thank you.❤
thank you so much I took on parenting after my mum passed on at the age of 28 years and I have teenagers but thank u for this particular show thank u so much. point to take home listening ohh thank u
You guys have become so successful!!! It's about time the intro video also changed...what do you think!? ❤
Naye Nabackwa is another personality.......at 12 you want to be your own self. Wow this is so amazing.
Imagine 😂😂😂
Very Informative episode!
I am only mum to a 1yr old.😀 But I am so grateful for this information. With these nuggets we keep getting from Bump Love, we shall get there when we know better.
The bit where Pumla’s mum helped her study for her F6 exams without discussing her expulsion at all and the bit where Asante gave the Angie feedback got me teary. Those were very deep moments!❤
A lot of African parents need to listen to this.
The guest is so graceful.
It was beautiful listening to her.
She is very insightful too and informative.
Big up Bump Laduu 4 ur experiences. Meanwhile mine was I had cafew, our Mummy was more of soldier than a Mummy 🙄, I wld escape to swim, plus play with the neighbors wen she had gone to teach & lastly Sunday skool singing practices helped b easier to hve fun! So I've been more of Church person to date by God's Grace coz it's were I got real Joy and comfort
Bigup Bump love ladies (correction)
Pumla Plumla Pumla ..I simply cant have enough of your honesty
Just trying to help moms with problematic teenagers out there
At times parenting is like marriage once u feel like giving up naye when u look back at how far u’ve come again u energise and go back to the battlefield 😃🤣
This is true
Thank you ladies...been watching u thru motherhood...u have really nurtured me to b a good mum to my lito psalms...
My teen life...omg was so hmmm
But thank u for the good job.
Kisha
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I sincerely agree with you Pumla, the worst happened when I was going for my final exams and my guardian abused me verbally to the core.
All my esteem was gone.
Rest in peace my mother.
I know what it's feels like not to protect others psychologically
Awww Angie❤❤❤ that was a powerful way to close!!
Thanks bumpers for the sweet and encouraging talks, i wish you could bring a full topic about listening and speaking to teenagers.
Myself i have witnessed this where i grew up with my mum but we were not free to speak to each other. Then one day, i was listening to a radio at an age of 13 and they spoke about signs and symptoms of STIs where i realized that i was experiencing some of them. Speaking to mum, she jumped into conclusion that i had started sleeping with men which was not the case. Ever since then, i never spoke to her about any matter concerning my love life nor sexual conditions which has led me to seek information and advice from outsiders.
Thanks dear ladies, you enlight me everyother time, indeed we have done crazy things during our teenage life but God brought through those times were we would have gotten harm to now responsible people, thanks for hosting that lady she has the knowledge to share to us parents, Asante
I have loved the words of Ms.Nankunda
Thank for the show ladies
This show has challenged me i have a 2yr old who has always gone to the potty so well does no 2 calls you to clean him up😊 today after using the potty he instead smeared poo on himself. I couldn't believe what i was seeing he had poo from head to toe😢. Like Pumla said we need to educated ourselves about the different stages of growth in our children. I had a teenager helping but you could see an empty head in most of her actions. Today you're kawa the next minute she doing the opposite and your like oba what do I do to this one
Telling lies, not owning her mistakes nga kwegamba olemwa
Thanks for this beautiful show
Pumla always real and candid ! i love you Pumla
Thanks for being here ❤
I can't wait for my son to share his story...thank God we hv been fully equipped to support him
This topic makes me reflect on the Kenyan couple .. Mumbus TH-cam channel (Judy Nyawira). I feel like they have raised their teenage daughter in a free space where she can tell her parents anything ❤
Wooow
Thank you for this episode ladies💖
I can relate to Pumla’s story but when we grow up and have kids is when we understand what our parents were going through
Kids can humble you mazima 😅
Wat are powerful conversation indeed parenting is nt easy I may say and big thx to Counsellor Hope she's gud in da teenage field liked her teaching
Yap she’s good and have driven her point home
I laughed SOO HARD at Pumla’s story about pretending to sleep walk. You guys are awesome!!
Pumla is another comedy store 😂
Concerning smartphones and technology, I’d love to help your parents learn how to make computers, tablets and phones more secure. It’s something that I’ve been successful with in our home.
@@kamwanyizone1136 yes she is. They all are
Am telling you 😂
@@pmugarura u should have written the solution in yr reply
The day I meet Pumla I will have achieved one of my life goal but I agree on so much with your perspective n our lives r exactly similar….can’t wait to see the best governor to come
Hahahahaaaaa! Marie...we will meet for sure ❤
Thanks ladies for the great insights, the guest gave us beautiful tips!
Today mine is just sharing coz this needs to reach to parents across the a country 👌👌♥️♥️♥️
I can relate to Manuela's teenage story when a friend lured me to go to kidongo in our O level
*Fortunately or unfortunately, I had no party clothes*
No sooner had they jumped over the fence than role call went on🙄
Thank you God
Bwahahahahahahahaha indeed every thing works in our favor
Always here for kb...my mum had me as a teenager..let me listen in and enjoy as always
My children are still toddlers but I enjoyed this episode so much. Looking foward to applying some of the learnings. Thank you ladies
These ladies are a whole vibe 😂
Love you gals for always encouraging us on how to become good mothers and women of substance, am always waiting for your new episodes ❤️ much love ma boss ladies
Lots to learn.... thank you for the show ladies. My first born is 4yrs... When Angie talked about Asante telling her to stop... Hmmm.... I just imagined my little one telling me to stop... eh! May God give us life🙏
Hahaha! 10yrs from now, she'll be a whole different person 😊
Woow extremely informative, one of my best bump love shows ever🙏♥️♥️♥️♥️I was glued on the whole time, I so much related to everything especially as a deputy parent to my siblings as a first born in my family. Thank you so much for the show, It has really shade so much light to me, I will surely do better moving forward 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤lots of love for you ladies
Wow wow ❤ am sooooo overwhelmed 😢 at the end, effective communication is keyyyyy..... thank you ladies 😊. May your hearts be filled
Wow, I love you ladies
Always looking forward to yr new episode.
The issue is that we magnify the bad side over the good side. We emphasize the don'ts over the dos which prompts these young ones to check in and confirm.
For Example if we are talking about mobile phones, emphasize why phones are important, they may end up not addicted than when you limit and they are saying that the day I will get a phone I will sleep with it in my hands.
I admire rosette alot. How she juggles motherhood and career I should copy
Dear bump ladies,I am so humbled and eager to always listen in on all your parenting episodes.kindly enlighten me on how best to co-parent my teenage girl with my Ex
I love how Angie parents her kids🙂
Bump love , can you please talk about parent~child conflicts
I second you
Me too
Me too awaiting for it.very many people are passing through it Bambi
That would be a good one.
Or toxic parenting and how to heal from it.
Thank you mama,s for always giving us educative information, I feel by the time my 2yrs reaches an adolescent am more than ready.
Wow...wow ladies....
Every single word shared, I resonate bulungi either as once teen and now as a mum to a 5th one soon in July
Pumla, my heart beats for your mum. That part of your form six exams. Pure love.
Pure Love ❤
I am kinda happy am not a mom yet I am learning much from bump love thank you so much ladies. Naye Pumla Nabachwa 😂😂 you really gave your mom headache.
I gave her such headache for sho!
I was a teenager like Racheal 😅 I loved and still love peace
Pumla you have really grown as a moderator 🎉🎉. Keep soaring ❤
Oh thank you. It's not my forte but we're all trying to be better 😊
Great great show. Thank you Ms Hope for the nuggets of wisdom
U pipo i feel like recording,..guys i was dat rebellious Teenager through out my teenage years..my mum used every kind of punishment and i was left to be taken to KAMPIRINGISA cuz nali "NALEMAA "🤦♀️...And the worst came wen she took me to my dad 🤪..guys i didn't many silly things and the worst stupid thing was refusing to go sit my FORM 4 EXAMS yet i had finished "registration"...🤦♀️at first it didn't hit me,.i was like i want to have fun with my hommies cuz bo bali TEBASOMA nga mbegba 😂 they do what they want!..now every time when am alone i start to regret y didn't go and sit my EXAMS cuz every thing was set 😢!..kinuma naye negumya and am like,..what was i thinking?😢..nebeli nesigulilako bona babula simanyi jebada 😅...right now i have a little girl and i always pray for her cuz it's only God to interven am so scared about her..sagala abela nga nze banaye..my mum beat me, burnt my feet with candles 🕯, denied me food, tied me with ropes, threw stones, bricks at me naye NALEMAA!..until she handled me over to my father ate tht made it worse !..guys it's a long story to tell 😢 naye teenage stage yetaga KATONDA YEKA...u can talk and talk naye nga Omwana Tawulila 😂!
Wow what an interesting and eye opening topic. That’s ladies.
Thank you so much bumplove for this show u guys are truly the unsung heroes on this general life journey we surely do learn alot.. questions if we have suggestions on topics we want to be discussed how to we reach it to you.
I needed this.Thank you ladies.
Ssoo insightful as I step into the season. I resonate sooo much with Pumla and Angie i love the combination of strength and meekness. Angie looking effortlessly elegant and breathtakingly beautiful,
Wow what a refreshing educational video I love this thanks so much Africa to the world ❤
The best way to deal with a teenager is being honest with them ,like solid honesty.
Secondly ,listen and listen and do more listening and ask more questions .
Don’t shout at them ,be respectful,they are semi -young adults .
Good insight thanks bump love
Wow! Thank you for this! And thank you for bringing us Hope.
This was so educative, especially how we tend not to trust the process forgetting that we have been raising them for the independence. May God help us to trust Him and the process. Sometimes being a mother is so overwhelming that we want to do everything,as Pumla says,we can do better. Educate ourselves as much as we can,and do it with them! #Asante
Thank you for gracing our screens,you all are so versatile with your dress code... Jesus!❤
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Thank you Gift. For sure we must do better.
Being a single mother,I always tell my daughter that when ever she is going to do something out of line to first think of me,that the pain comes straight on me,to think much more if she still needs me or not😊😊I can see that she got that Pumula force as a teen but I love the fact that she be like "but my mother" It kind humbles her abit.
Thank you ladies for the show❤❤❤❤
Speak more about the true consequences than making yourself the focal point. Single moms shouldn't sell themselves as victims. Lets be better. ❤
@@pumlanabachwa8668 I meant like being informed gives me more knowledge about certain behaviours,how to approach and also being so intentional about the motherhood journey,I appreciate the show soo much because it has made me better.Iam truly doing better madam Pumla,thx🥰 ❤ 💐
Thank you, thank you so much for bringing such an important topic and discussing it in a way everyone can understand. Am yet to be a teenage mom but everything made sense. Thanks again to you Ladies
Thank you so much ladies.
Tovtell the truth I beg God to make this' teenage experience skooth giz Indimukowu!
First born syndrome of having raised my sibblings....I got tired before ever having children
Banage pumla eeeehhh me salute but glory be to God yo now such an amazing en gorgeous human being love u bingi lady's mwemusinga
It was a rough journey. Thank you 😅
Thank you so much ladies for the discussion. I will refer to it and my notes when my children become teenagers. Angie I really want to be like you.
This is really beautiful. Thank you my dears❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Honestly, I needed this,. It came at the right time. I have shared this information it's very powerful especially for us with teenagers. Long live bump love. Each of you spoke to someone struggling out there❤
The long awaited show....😂 thanks for sharing with us...
Ladies thank you so much for this episode 👌👌❤️
Agie today you served us looks 👌👌👌👌 the sneakers the dress the hair the make up were all 👌👌💯💯💯
ladies thank you ladies. you are always on point ❤️💪💪💪❤️