Love this stroy. Thanks for sharing. Hmong parents need to listen to this story, it's a lesson and educational how important to build and balancing work and family bond.. Glad to hear that this parent in this story seek for professional counseling to help them. Hmong parents or family do not believe NOR seek for professional help, perhaps these Modern days I hear and know many many young adults and teenagers especially new generations are committing suicide, having depression and anxiety because lack of love, attention interaction and communication. Please seek for help you need it. It's not a embarrassment to seek professional counseling, it's a healthy lifestyle to help yourself.
Your family only talked and cared about money. Money cannot buy time, happiness, love, and/or health. Money could only buy materials. Don’t judge others by their financial status. A simple life may be the happiest life. A parent’s financial status does not define their children’s behaviors. Parenting plays a big role in children’s lives. Buying kids things and giving them money will not create memories that lasts forever. Spending time with kids is the memory that will always stay with kids. As long as your bills are paid and you have food on the table then you need to enjoy your time with your love ones.
A good lesson to learn from. Purpose, love, success, family, laughter, happiness, passion. All those things contribute to a full life. Money certainly helps but it cannot buy health, real love, cure loneliness. You do have to have connection, heart to heart conversations with people, a reason for living, a larger vision of your life.
To the owner of the story - you are still very ignorant to think poor families have children who are gangsters and do drugs --- you still failed to see that so many amazing and powerful men and women grew up in poor working class neighborhoods but are now Justices, doctors, surgeons, powerful attorneys, CEOs, etc... you may sound like you realized money cannot buy happiness etc... but your way of thinking has not changed at all because you still judge your son in law and his family and money is still your idol.
This is similar to my story. I thought I'm the only person struggled about family affairs. It is truth that money can't buy happiness and it can't make we success.
Money is not everything. You have one thing but you don't have another. Just because you don't have money does not mean that you can not be happy!!! To me , having my family together, their health, love, and myself are very important to me but not money.
I’m blessed to be able to pick jobs I want to work at. I pick jobs/careers where I can be there for my child, be able to take time off to be with my child, be home during my child’s vacation, yet I am able to provide/love/support/live in the moment with my child. I’m not making banks, but I’m living comfortably.
Money is good to have but it’s always good to have a good relationship with your family.. don’t look at money more important than the people who loves and care about you!! You need to pay good attention to your children when they’re still young.. attention is everything to kids..
Kids always want the attention from their parents or just spending time. My family we always sit and eat as a family. Simple things means a lot to kids.
Life needs to be a balanced lifestyle in both money and family value. Tsis muaj nyiaj kiag los yuav tsis zoo ib zaug….muaj nyiaj pua kev ua txhua yam thiab muas kom tau meej mom xwb los yuav tsis zoo thiab….. Peb txhua tus yeej xav kom muaj nyiaj thiaj li sib txheeb kev kawm, kev khwv, thiab txoj hauj lwm zoo, tabsis yog tsis txawj coj thiab tsav yus lub neej ces….muaj nyiaj los neej yuav puas ib zaug…..txom nyem los hos yuav mus ua neeg liam thiab…… Your daughter got everything without a sweat……that’s why she doesn’t appreciate money. However, because your daughter doesn’t value money…it doesn’t mean that we don’t need to get an education and a good job to make a living. Neb tus ntxhais twb siv neb cov nyiaj phij cuam mus tsav nws lub neej ne….yog nws tsis siv neb li nyiaj mas hais li ko los yog…
The daughter had severe depression. Its not related to $. Thats why rich n famous people turn to drugs behave erratically n commit suicide. Many people think that just telling their kids/family to snap out of it will solve the problem but in reality they need meds therapy acceptance n support.
Looks like your family have communication issues. I don’t know anyone who rather be poor than rich! Money can’t buy happiness but it buys chicken n eggs n feed you lol n that’s good enough to me! I rather be rich!
This is so true brother. Money cannot buy everything. You need to balance everything. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. Good lesson for everyone to learn.
Twb xav tias cov neeg nplua2 nuj mas thiaj nyob kaj siab lug tsis zoo li peb cov pay check to pay check no es yuav yuav dabtsi los saib ntsoov yug lub bank saib pos muaj txaus txog lwm pay check. Pom cov muaj2 nyiaj mus travel thiab noj mas lawv ib pluag mov uas yug cov txom nyem twb yuav tau 4-5 pluag lawm es xav tias tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab li peb cov no li no
Hahaha muaj tseeb just enough to live with its fine. Maum manly vwm lawv pab pawg mas dag tshaj plaws g muaj txiv poj niam menyuam and friends los tsuav muaj nyiaj xwb ces happily ending lies xwb
Hahahah.. so you couple think money is always buy happiness.. This is what happened when you two too focus on money huh.. No knowledge about life deep from within life and loves is much more precious than money. 😁😆😅 "At the moment, lying on the sick bed recalling my whole life..I realized that the recognition and wealth I took so much pride in. Have paled becoming meaningless in the face of impending death.You can employ someone to drive your care for you, but you cannot have someone to bear the sickness for you. Lost material things can be found, but there is one that can never be found when it lost life. Whichever stage in life we are right now. with time , we will face the day when the curtain comes down. Treasure for you family, love for your spouse, love for your friends." Steve Jobs. So much to it only realized when you are down to your last breath.
Money can't buy everything, but imagine the stress the daughter would be in if the parents were having financial hardships. Just because you don't have money doesn't mean you have good family values. Sometimes poor families are worst, always talking about being broke. Or talking about how this or that can't be afforded. Good family value is where it's at, regardless of money.
Yes, cov mes nyuam niam txiv muaj nyiaj yog ib qhov pom sij vim ntshai ntxoov tsam muab nyiaj saib hlob es mus uas lwj uas liam. My advice is never expose to your kids how much you have and how much you saved for them. Just tell them not to worry that you will take care of their needs the best you know how. The way I see it Neb muab khav teeb dhaus lawm vim neb muaj nyiaj xwb. Lesson learned.
Mental health issue is a known disease in these modern days. Balance, communication, compassion, affectionate and passionate are keys to success. Showing love is power. Thanks for a wonderful story!!
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Yes, money cannot buy happiness. I'm glad you've learned from your daughter's experience. Mental health is more important than we know!
Love this stroy. Thanks for sharing. Hmong parents need to listen to this story, it's a lesson and educational how important to build and balancing work and family bond..
Glad to hear that this parent in this story seek for professional counseling to help them.
Hmong parents or family do not believe NOR seek for professional help, perhaps these Modern days I hear and know many many young adults and teenagers especially new generations are committing suicide, having depression and anxiety because lack of love, attention interaction and communication. Please seek for help you need it. It's not a embarrassment to seek professional counseling, it's a healthy lifestyle to help yourself.
Your family only talked and cared about money. Money cannot buy time, happiness, love, and/or health. Money could only buy materials. Don’t judge others by their financial status. A simple life may be the happiest life. A parent’s financial status does not define their children’s behaviors. Parenting plays a big role in children’s lives. Buying kids things and giving them money will not create memories that lasts forever. Spending time with kids is the memory that will always stay with kids. As long as your bills are paid and you have food on the table then you need to enjoy your time with your love ones.
A good lesson to learn from. Purpose, love, success, family, laughter, happiness, passion. All those things contribute to a full life. Money certainly helps but it cannot buy health, real love, cure loneliness. You do have to have connection, heart to heart conversations with people, a reason for living, a larger vision of your life.
To the owner of the story - you are still very ignorant to think poor families have children who are gangsters and do drugs --- you still failed to see that so many amazing and powerful men and women grew up in poor working class neighborhoods but are now Justices, doctors, surgeons, powerful attorneys, CEOs, etc... you may sound like you realized money cannot buy happiness etc... but your way of thinking has not changed at all because you still judge your son in law and his family and money is still your idol.
This is similar to my story. I thought I'm the only person struggled about family affairs. It is truth that money can't buy happiness and it can't make we success.
Money can’t buy love brother. All she wanted was time, attention and love. Valuable lesson in life
Money is not everything. You have one thing but you don't have another. Just because you don't have money does not mean that you can not be happy!!! To me , having my family together, their health, love, and myself are very important to me but not money.
I’m blessed to be able to pick jobs I want to work at. I pick jobs/careers where I can be there for my child, be able to take time off to be with my child, be home during my child’s vacation, yet I am able to provide/love/support/live in the moment with my child. I’m not making banks, but I’m living comfortably.
Money is good to have but it’s always good to have a good relationship with your family.. don’t look at money more important than the people who loves and care about you!! You need to pay good attention to your children when they’re still young.. attention is everything to kids..
Having money is good but always make time for your kids as well. Especially when they are young.
Listening to this Song “ buy me a Rose 🌹 “ by Kenny Rogers.. .. That all the good women want!! Not the gold diggers…
Money can't buy happiness. My parents treated us similar to this girl's story while growing up. Wish they would have just spent time with us instead.
Kids always want the attention from their parents or just spending time. My family we always sit and eat as a family. Simple things means a lot to kids.
Life needs to be a balanced lifestyle in both money and family value.
Tsis muaj nyiaj kiag los yuav tsis zoo ib zaug….muaj nyiaj pua kev ua txhua yam thiab muas kom tau meej mom xwb los yuav tsis zoo thiab…..
Peb txhua tus yeej xav kom muaj nyiaj thiaj li sib txheeb kev kawm, kev khwv, thiab txoj hauj lwm zoo, tabsis yog tsis txawj coj thiab tsav yus lub neej ces….muaj nyiaj los neej yuav puas ib zaug…..txom nyem los hos yuav mus ua neeg liam thiab……
Your daughter got everything without a sweat……that’s why she doesn’t appreciate money. However, because your daughter doesn’t value money…it doesn’t mean that we don’t need to get an education and a good job to make a living.
Neb tus ntxhais twb siv neb cov nyiaj phij cuam mus tsav nws lub neej ne….yog nws tsis siv neb li nyiaj mas hais li ko los yog…
The daughter had severe depression. Its not related to $. Thats why rich n famous people turn to drugs behave erratically n commit suicide. Many people think that just telling their kids/family to snap out of it will solve the problem but in reality they need meds therapy acceptance n support.
Yes yu are absolutely rt 100%
Looks like your family have communication issues. I don’t know anyone who rather be poor than rich! Money can’t buy happiness but it buys chicken n eggs n feed you lol n that’s good enough to me! I rather be rich!
This is so true brother. Money cannot buy everything. You need to balance everything. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. Good lesson for everyone to learn.
Money isn’t everything. Sometimes yus txoj hmoo tsis duav qhov yus muaj nyiaj. Money can never buy health, wellness, happiness, love and time.
Money can not buy happiness, joy, love and health. You are happy to be rich but you have no happiness at all.
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The daughter bought her in laws love with her money lol.. which in turn also bought them some happiness
She's crying for a little bit of moral support.
Kev muaj nyiaj yuav yog neb lub yeejkoob yeejhuam duav nyiaj kub. Muaj nyiaj npluas nuj txhob kh ac. Theeb. Neb twb tsis tsas ncej nyiag ncej kub ncej tub ncej kis ncej niaj txiv tsav neb lub hwjchim kom sib txhig sib luag nrog rau nyiaj kub sib puag nyob ib cuab kom haumxeeb hais lus kom sib xws nes. Nej lub hwjchim meejmom nqis nyiaj kub lub hwjchim siab siab ces nyiaj yuav kiv kom neb nplooj siab nplooj plawv nyob tsis tiaj tsis tus kom neb sib tshom sib cav sib ceg sib khawb khawm kom tis txhas sib ceg kom ib tug yuav tsum tau yas tawm ho.
Twb xav tias cov neeg nplua2 nuj mas thiaj nyob kaj siab lug tsis zoo li peb cov pay check to pay check no es yuav yuav dabtsi los saib ntsoov yug lub bank saib pos muaj txaus txog lwm pay check. Pom cov muaj2 nyiaj mus travel thiab noj mas lawv ib pluag mov uas yug cov txom nyem twb yuav tau 4-5 pluag lawm es xav tias tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab li peb cov no li no
Vim yog yus txoj kev khav theeb es tsis txawj cob qhia me nyuam thiab yus tsis txawj tswj yus lub cuab yeg thiaj tau txais txoj kev nyuaj siab ntxov plawv ntag lauv...Yus yuav tsum txawj communication nrog tej menyuam yus tsis txawj fwm each other yus tej menyuam thiaj ces kawg tau txais kev nyuaj xwb...Yus tsev tib neeg loj loj lawm yuav tsum muaj meeting very two weeks thiaj pab tau yus os.
But I'll be happier with more money
Hahaha muaj tseeb just enough to live with its fine. Maum manly vwm lawv pab pawg mas dag tshaj plaws g muaj txiv poj niam menyuam and friends los tsuav muaj nyiaj xwb ces happily ending lies xwb
I has heard many riches peoples their kid become gang or drug , also many riches peoples their divorce because you don’t have time together and love .
Childrens are so difficult to understand
Koj yog cov ntsej muag khav theeb muaj nyiaj sav. Money can't buy happiness, you self proclaim POS!!
Another hmoob noj quav nyuj ... khav theeb with no deep love... so ruam...
Hahahah.. so you couple think money is always buy happiness.. This is what happened when you two too focus on money huh.. No knowledge about life deep from within life and loves is much more precious than money. 😁😆😅 "At the moment, lying on the sick bed recalling my whole life..I realized that the recognition and wealth I took so much pride in. Have paled becoming meaningless in the face of impending death.You can employ someone to drive your care for you, but you cannot have someone to bear the sickness for you. Lost material things can be found, but there is one that can never be found when it lost life. Whichever stage in life we are right now. with time , we will face the day when the curtain comes down. Treasure for you family, love for your spouse, love for your friends." Steve Jobs. So much to it only realized when you are down to your last breath.
Nyob zoo o Viv ncaus tuaj ntxhaw nqa koj lm o tuaj nias lub tswb koom kuv thb ntxhaw nqa kuv thb o ua tsaug
Money can't buy everything, but imagine the stress the daughter would be in if the parents were having financial hardships. Just because you don't have money doesn't mean you have good family values. Sometimes poor families are worst, always talking about being broke. Or talking about how this or that can't be afforded. Good family value is where it's at, regardless of money.
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Yes, cov mes nyuam niam txiv muaj nyiaj yog ib qhov pom sij vim ntshai ntxoov tsam muab nyiaj saib hlob es mus uas lwj uas liam. My advice is never expose to your kids how much you have and how much you saved for them. Just tell them not to worry that you will take care of their needs the best you know how. The way I see it Neb muab khav teeb dhaus lawm vim neb muaj nyiaj xwb. Lesson learned.
Money can not buy you love and happiness
This dude always brag about his money. 🤦♂️ 🤦🏻♀️
Money is never enough
I treat $100 is $100 lol
You funny money don’t make happiness
Happiness is have love and peoples around you love u
True thoughts
Zoo heev li neb zaj dab neeg yog ib txoj kev kawm pub rau peb pom yeej muaj tseeb tseeb li neb hais ua tsaug nawb neb zaj dab neeg
Wow zoo li neb ob niam txiv es khwv nyiaj los khav theeb xwb es los.
Mental health issue is a known disease in these modern days. Balance, communication, compassion, affectionate and passionate are keys to success. Showing love is power. Thanks for a wonderful story!!