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  • @CaptainNick
    @CaptainNick  ปีที่แล้ว +1334

    Ab Tak it wasn’t necessary but aaj kuch logon ko yeh video samaj ne mein difficultly horahi hai.
    Let me write the video concept also since video ke through yeh kuch log abhi bhi nahi samaj pa rahe.
    The idea of this video is really simple -
    1.It is against the negativity of society, jo 4 log aapke ghar ki baatein bahar discuss karte hain, and rumours spread karte hain.
    2. Jab family, unnecessarily aapke private family matters ko relatives Tak extend karti hain, jahan se woh baat dusre relatives tak jaati and aise hi sabko aapke ghar ki baat pataa chal jati hai.
    3. Shaadi ki umar na nikal jaye bas isliye, bina background check kiye ladki ki shadi karva dena.
    Although, being feminist is not a wrong idea, but mere videos ke through I’ve never said ki bas career banao, shadi mat karo, akele raho, men are bad or anything like that, cz I don’t believe in these ideas to promote them in the very first place.
    I make videos jahan 10 out of 8 times my only message is, ki family ki baat family tak rahe, bahar waale toh bolenge hi, unke darr se apne ghar ka mahol na bigaadein.
    🙏

    • @niharikagupta1085
      @niharikagupta1085 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      So.. Much right Niharika didi❤you are best nd your opinion videos are so.. Good ❤‍🔥love you di🖤

    • @fashion_with_komal
      @fashion_with_komal ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Its true dear.

    • @lostandfound504
      @lostandfound504 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same situation going with me, real life 😘

    • @richasingh547
      @richasingh547 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Meri to 30 nii hui h didaa phir b life me un so called char logo ki wajah se jingi narak ho rkhi h🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ family b nahi smjhti yarr apki to phir b understanding h!!!🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ Bs paisa dekh lete log to fek do ldki ko uske yha....
      Pta ni kb un char logo ki maut aayegi

    • @richasingh547
      @richasingh547 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ekdm dil se nikala h na di?!!!!
      Smjh rhi mai jbb aap mataji ko smjha rhe the tb

  • @vaibhavk0084
    @vaibhavk0084 ปีที่แล้ว +3558

    Maturity is realising that this is not only funny content.
    The truth of society and message for society included in video 🥰

    • @promitapal9609
      @promitapal9609 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Agreed from the core of my heart

    • @sharmilidatta2263
      @sharmilidatta2263 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes

    • @nj-vl3ke
      @nj-vl3ke ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tanujajoshi1362 what's ur age?

    • @madhurikumari7302
      @madhurikumari7302 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True

    • @parsisimran4095
      @parsisimran4095 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You missed one truth and message about marriage (for my life my rules girls) : difficult to find good grooms for marriage due to overage ( they realise marriage is important after 35 and being ready for marriage but eligable grooms aren't available and boys want yonger girls for wedding)....

  • @AMARSINGH-sg8el
    @AMARSINGH-sg8el ปีที่แล้ว +1997

    Hats off to you Niharika....... your way of demonstrating evil social practice and telling it's harsh reality is epic..........This really gave me chills in the backbone

    • @nishatsvlog01
      @nishatsvlog01 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Evil practice?

    • @ayushibiswas6557
      @ayushibiswas6557 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Shruti ka story mein boli naa... forced marriage,extra marital affairs... her mental health getting neglected...

    • @adithirao3901
      @adithirao3901 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@aelenak no....extra marital affairs are.....

    • @ManishaKumari-ie1sr
      @ManishaKumari-ie1sr ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Practical bt boli h😑😑😑😑

    • @riseshinehub1805
      @riseshinehub1805 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes really, I have seen her 1st time..
      Each and every things was so particular and correct things..
      So real.. these things really happens...

  • @rituahmed2875
    @rituahmed2875 ปีที่แล้ว +1197

    As a 31 year unmarried girl I can relate this so much !!! I literally cried

    • @shweta2299
      @shweta2299 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      As a 32 year I m also unmarried bahot tress hota hai rona bhi ata hai kya karu samaj nahi ata bahot frustration hota hai

    • @diyamoni563
      @diyamoni563 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      Aur yaha 18 ki hu or family aise karte hai jaise 30 ki hu 😫😭😭

    • @bangtangirl8784
      @bangtangirl8784 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@diyamoni563 SAME am 23 and rishta aate h said no to them..meri masi mami mujhe haa khne k lia smjhate h but we do not know anything about the boy....my mom and relatives say " when u cross 19 and become 20 u r already old"..."abhise ldka dekhna shuru krna chaye"..etc etc....good marriage is good luck

    • @Snata93
      @Snata93 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same. I can totally relate.

    • @shweta2299
      @shweta2299 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@diyamoni563 25 tak shadi kar lena varna ager der ho gayi to der hi hoti rahegi

  • @katysmakeup222
    @katysmakeup222 ปีที่แล้ว +293

    “Saare ache ladake nikal jaayege”this line is fited in every girl’s life…😢😢😢

  • @aman_dhiman8823
    @aman_dhiman8823 ปีที่แล้ว +1480

    Niharika's obsession for shaadi contents 🗿
    Edit : I have never got these many likes.. Thank you so much 🤪💖

    • @saikik3073
      @saikik3073 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      She slays it everytime so why not?

    • @meow5692
      @meow5692 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Kyuki bhai wahi chalta hai 😭also this is my favorite topic

    • @improveyourself1654
      @improveyourself1654 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Gher wale sach me shadi shadi hi krte rhte hain

    • @aman_dhiman8823
      @aman_dhiman8823 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@improveyourself1654 true AF

    • @notdiscreet957
      @notdiscreet957 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hope it never leaves her tbh

  • @tanularis7693
    @tanularis7693 ปีที่แล้ว +896

    She is damn talented.
    Huge respect for her.
    How beautifully she brings out society norms.
    Hatts off to her hard work and great contents.

  • @Mkalita
    @Mkalita ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Today I've realised one thing that youtubers are also contributing so much to the society ❤....and Niharika di has done her part through this video...🙏🤗... And I request the parents and families please keep things to your immediate family only and don't bother by others...🙏

  • @ombhosle9270
    @ombhosle9270 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    "Shruti aapko call kyun nahi karte "?
    That silence was really loud dude.

  • @krishnasahoo4598
    @krishnasahoo4598 ปีที่แล้ว +708

    I honestly cried a little bit after watching your monologue....more than 3 years..daily ka struggle hai bhai..sahab....daily ...my question changed from "kab sudhregi ye duniya?" to "nhi sudhregi ye duniya "...I just accepted the fact.

    • @nidhi4360
      @nidhi4360 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same ..

    • @NavgunKhurana
      @NavgunKhurana ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same here

    • @Fiaaaaa323
      @Fiaaaaa323 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      More power to you. You’ll get a good guy InshaAllah dont worry

    • @Muzz374
      @Muzz374 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same here😞

    • @kcb_baebae5885
      @kcb_baebae5885 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Us bro us

  • @minaldange383rdyr6
    @minaldange383rdyr6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This is exactly what happens in every household. The part where you got serious in the conversation, trying to communicate with mom. And also the words ' kya me bojh lagti hu' really touched me. Lots of love to you❤️.

  • @sumanjethwany4379
    @sumanjethwany4379 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I literally cried , i m 31 this year nd fat , photo se reject hona nd attitude dikha rhi is common hurtful things i listen everyday 😭

  • @lakshmirani3898
    @lakshmirani3898 ปีที่แล้ว +611

    That line about break of girls confidence when girls are rejected by their photos........it hits me so hurt......... I'm facing all the these shit about more than 3 years 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @shamalabs9527
      @shamalabs9527 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      who are seeing only looks for marriage are most stupid people.... wether its girl or boy.... looks is just temporary when we love any person he or she automatically looks beautiful

    • @deekshadwivedi4507
      @deekshadwivedi4507 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Sending a very tight hug to you. Stay strong. Things will get better for us. We will come out from this shit, stronger and better. But I'm gonna be honest, society's bitterness is highly contagious like I feel irritated becuz of these standards all the time.
      Their rejections leaves us guessing what's wrong with us. I totally get u. I wish all the girls dealing with similar situations get a non-toxic partner soon.❤️

    • @lakshmirani3898
      @lakshmirani3898 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@deekshadwivedi4507 Thankyou so much dear ❤️❤️❤️

    • @importfun7192
      @importfun7192 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@lakshmirani3898 its the biological law by nature for straight persons which is a women is primarily a beauty object for men and men are primarily a success object for women. So not only women got rejected for their look , men also rejected based on their financial capabilities in a huge manner , mainly during arrange marriage system.

    • @anniemidha3371
      @anniemidha3371 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bro it's their fault who are rejecting you. You are beautiful in a unique way.

  • @tamalikaadhikary1710
    @tamalikaadhikary1710 ปีที่แล้ว +194

    Maturity is when you realise that this video was made out of frustration and the daily situation that a girl faces everyday. Thanks for sharing and making a video on this topic.

  • @shalutekriwal6102
    @shalutekriwal6102 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Tbh the part where u were discussing with ur mom, i literally was crying, big heart to u ma'am. U spoke everything which I m just keeping inside me

  • @itsrakshithaks
    @itsrakshithaks ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Hats off to you captain ❤️
    No words to say how damn relatable this is.. the pressure and the emotional blackmailing..
    The way you brought the frustration out of all the girls, Respect 🙌

  • @stillwithyou_kookie2977
    @stillwithyou_kookie2977 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    You said everything I wanted to say... I have been in this situation for th past 2-3 yrs where I used to fight with my parents almost everyday. I wish I could have expressed my feelings better like you. But finally my time came and I found a guy and everything is falling into places slowly. I think we as parents will behave better than our parents generation. We can't do anything about this society now.

  • @swapnilbondade1503
    @swapnilbondade1503 ปีที่แล้ว +366

    I am 26 year old ,married..feel bad for those who have to hear shitty things from society about marriage.. beacause just getting married is not important but getting married to right man or right woman is more important.. otherwise living peaceful alone life is better..🙏

    • @cyclosporine-a2829
      @cyclosporine-a2829 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Khud married ho aur dusro ko salah de rhe ho .mat kro.....waah didi waah

    • @DrRohiniM
      @DrRohiniM ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@cyclosporine-a2829 she probably found right person early

    • @bsachdev492
      @bsachdev492 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@cyclosporine-a2829may b she understood the consequences of marriage early🤭, anyway jokes apart, i think u didn't get the comment she never said shadi mat karo she said shi insan se kro , there's a difference between them baki to sab apni marzi h ap chaho to 16 sal me karlo shadi

    • @cyclosporine-a2829
      @cyclosporine-a2829 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bsachdev492 are koi na dii....Maine toh aaise hi faltu me comment kr Diya tha 😁😁......waise Mera mann'na hai ki Hari 🙏 hme manpasand chij nhi dete h Jo milta hai usse khush rehna chahea

  • @godsunfailinggrace1988
    @godsunfailinggrace1988 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    For the first time she made me emotional. Yes, I did cry...very relatable. Reality exposed with a realistic acting. 💗

  • @dipikamistry1994
    @dipikamistry1994 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I am 29 and getting married next month. That line "meri umar nikal gai aur sab achhe ladke shaadi karke bachhe paida karne me lage hai" I felt that😅 ab jo bacha hai usse kar rahi hu shaadi🤣

    • @niharikabisht769
      @niharikabisht769 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same happen with me.. at the age of 28 . Jab koi ladka mujhe pasand nhi aaya to jo ladka meri family ko shi lga use se kar rhe h. Jbki wo ladka merko acha nhi lga..lekin bina mere puche rista pakka kar diya.

    • @meetu7817
      @meetu7817 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Are you guys doing ok? i am in a similar situation. i found a guy, who is a good man, but I don't like him that much. We have no connection,but just because I know he will not turn out be abusive, I am thinking maybe this is it! Too tired of waiting for the right guy.

  • @vipratiwari9275
    @vipratiwari9275 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    Am a mother of a teenage girl - must say u prorated me to deal with such sensitivities 🙏🏻. U r a gem niharika

    • @CaptainNick
      @CaptainNick  ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Means a lot 🙏❤️ thank you

  • @tee26_05
    @tee26_05 ปีที่แล้ว +329

    The mother-daughter conversation over marriage in the beginning felt like it's me and my mom 🙂

    • @sathimallick2932
      @sathimallick2932 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Us bro us🥲🥲🥲

    • @knoor8866
      @knoor8866 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same here

    • @iffat9896
      @iffat9896 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here
      Being 25 and unmarried is too difficult.

    • @asmaparveen9562
      @asmaparveen9562 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same Mei guarantee chiki hu is truma se....
      By God's grace now I'm happily married...Alhumdullilah

  • @jyotirai4714
    @jyotirai4714 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    i didnt get a single smile while watching it .
    its very heart wrenching reality!!!
    i faced all this at the age of 23 and *the worst inhuman thing in whole toxic process is when girls is getting rejected for any nonsense reason, girls family also start blaming their own daughter*

    • @Disha_J06
      @Disha_J06 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is so true!!😔

    • @jyotirai4714
      @jyotirai4714 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Disha_J06 i can feel it personally!! you should be strong Disha.

  • @ms009
    @ms009 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    So relatable.I got bit emotional.Being into a family of four daughters,I can completely relate this.Even though My parents tried their best to obstruct the societal pressure of marriage ,at times it became so difficult for them and it’s really heartbreaking to see your parents so helpless 😢

  • @ananditakumari5249
    @ananditakumari5249 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    7:45 the part where you got serious and tried having a simple conversation with your mom but she ended up dragging you back to square one was so infuriatingly relatable.
    I admire you a lot for your talent of conveying a strong message while entertaining us at the same time, Nick!

  • @learners_zone007
    @learners_zone007 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    Its so relatable..I am in my 30s and same issue..reject hote hote self confidence ki dhajjiyan ud gyi..Thankgod my parents are not pressurising me and I am doing my Ph.D successfully..really need break from "shaadi" thing 😒 Really appreciate your content🙌🙏

    • @sydneydiaries8470
      @sydneydiaries8470 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hope u will meet your special one soon ❤

    • @learners_zone007
      @learners_zone007 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@sydneydiaries8470 thanks dear but mere parents hi interested nhi hain 😅 khud hi dhundhna padega koi 😢

    • @importantstuff3370
      @importantstuff3370 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@learners_zone007 omg same kind of issue with me

    • @learners_zone007
      @learners_zone007 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@importantstuff3370 all the best dear

    • @learners_zone007
      @learners_zone007 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@importantstuff3370 focus on your career and then find someone..that's the option we have 😅

  • @anushka9166
    @anushka9166 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm just grateful for my parents, they're the coolest ever. They've never told me that marriage is compulsory or anything, always have put my career and studies first, taught me to be independent. Shaadi is totally on me and completely my choice.

  • @creationrecreation527
    @creationrecreation527 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    I am 30 and unmarried and now decided to be like that coz I knw it’s not possible to make everyone understand my point of view and what I want.
    I live my life I do my work I pursue higher studies and I am happy.There is no point of getting married just because everyone is doing that.Jab tak samajh me na aaye mat karo.Peacefully rehna is more important.
    It is not easy for people to understand ki sirf package k liye shadi nahi ki jaati hai.Everyone is earning well these days.

    • @user-drspace
      @user-drspace ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly my point yaar

    • @zeenatkhan2358
      @zeenatkhan2358 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      me bhi boht torture jhelti shadi ko lekr.. me khud success hona chahti hu

    • @nehabhatia1885
      @nehabhatia1885 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great 👍 thought

    • @chandrimamandal5060
      @chandrimamandal5060 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Very well put up
      Even I am about to be 30 and yet pursuing UPSC CSE
      And well...i am happy this way😎

    • @parsisimran4095
      @parsisimran4095 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jab budhapa ayega tab ye earning bhi kam nahi ati jitna life partner kam ata he... end me tum dono hi reh jaggery...pese dene par do din koi kam karne ayega badme pese Udine par bhi koi nahi milta budhe logo ke Kan ke liye ...abhi young he to hath per chal rahe he jab hath per nahi chalenge sahi se to ek iodex bhi nahi laga paogee khudse isliye wakt rehte achhe riste karlo.. married girl...

  • @crazy_relativestories
    @crazy_relativestories ปีที่แล้ว +691

    I think this is what goes on in every household that has an unmarried girl in the age group of 27-35. Thank u for putting this out for us. Sending it to mum and mamaji ASAP. And that cousin angle is damn spot on. Thanks a ton.
    This video really left me thinking about it for hours. Why aren't we able to find the so called true love like our elder siblings did? And why aren't we even ready to settle for something less than that like our parents did? Alike many others, I too have tried and failed. So even when I want to settle with someone, why am I too lazy to look for that someone, and if I do then why can't I find the one? I finally realized that the 90s kids are basically undergoing a collective form of disillusionment! We are aware of the impending dystopian world that is dawning upon us. We don't want to bring children in a world that's polluted, filled with crime and might end soon! We also don't want to compromise because why would we? We don't need anyone to rely on. We have bought ourselves comfortable lives and houses. So, altogether I feel that we are aware of the need to find someone, but too lazy to look or too lazy to work towards making it happen. If we try, we are not ready to compromise or let someone into our comfort zone. This hyper independence combined with the feeling of not wanting to settle for less or the awareness of the world nearing it's worst can be a reason that we want to be able to enjoy whatever life we have left on this planet in peace. And I think it's true for all genders alike.
    #fragments of my thoughts.

    • @madhumitaPaul1998
      @madhumitaPaul1998 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Bahi mei 24 ki ho phir v pareshan ho gyi hu

    • @crazy_relativestories
      @crazy_relativestories ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@madhumitaPaul1998 that must be such a pain. Forward this video to them to slap some sense into their stubborn heads.

    • @ritujain2411
      @ritujain2411 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      True, I'm 26 now... Me and my parents daily have these conversation, words are exactly the same in this videos..

    • @kruparajanita1425
      @kruparajanita1425 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      jitna agree karu utna kam he!

    • @shrutijain6767
      @shrutijain6767 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly

  • @bubblebratart1298
    @bubblebratart1298 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    The way this girl made our life so much better

  • @saumya6312
    @saumya6312 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Aap har baar hasaa deti ho.. Aaj rula diya!! 🥺🥺

  • @surbhichattkara9138
    @surbhichattkara9138 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I have had a similar conversation with my 'mama' years ago. And with my mom too. I could identify with all the points in the video. Very recently, I was arguing with a friend who mentioned 'ladkiyan bohot nakhre kartee hain...they keep rejecting boys" And my response was "why not. If boys can reject girls because well, their eyes are brown (type reasons). Why should girl not have the right to reject for things she does not like" Really good content!

  • @rishikasinha1101
    @rishikasinha1101 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    7:00 I literally cried after seeing this scene 🙃

  • @Wonder_Voice
    @Wonder_Voice ปีที่แล้ว +259

    3:13 that photo dekhkar rejection wali bat hitted very hard 😥😥 No matter how many people tell me that looks don't matter, I know that they do. Throughout my life, my family has constantly reminded me that I'm not attractive which has caused me to have low self-confidence even though I have achieved great things in my life such as being a topper in school, having three years of job experience, writing a mystery thriller novel that has gained 170k+ reads, and coming second in a national essay writing competition where 40k+ students participated. Despite all this, at the age of 21, I still feel like no boy will be interested in me because of my appearance.

    • @dikshasuman
      @dikshasuman ปีที่แล้ว +19

      What ! Your parents are forcing you to marry at the age of 21 ! Behen apne parents ke chakkar me apni life kabhi mat kharab karna. Isse accha koi job dundo aur alag raho apne parents se.

    • @Wonder_Voice
      @Wonder_Voice ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@dikshasuman After my graduation exams were over, I was able to secure a job with TechMahindra within 4 days of last exam. Unfortunately, after working there for 3 months, I was forced to leave the job by my family. To stay afloat, I am currently doing internships and part-time work without informing them, as they do not want me to work.

    • @Homosapiens0804
      @Homosapiens0804 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You are too young dear, don't let these kind of experience pull u down.
      Society wants everything in a girl, Beauty with brains as well as money.....if it will be beauty then also chances are not good may be better than the so called non-attractive ones(acc. to society), then also there is possibility for girl facing difficulty in marital life.
      You just focus on your part, I hope u get to meet someone who in many ways will suit u well.
      Don't leave you financial opportunities for anyone....fight for ur life dear girl., no one comes for help in difficult situations, God help those who help themselves try to stick with it.

    • @nevermind7383
      @nevermind7383 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You know what these things are even forbidden in islam . Watch nouman ali khan lectures and try to make your parents understand that through them ............

    • @saminaparveen5394
      @saminaparveen5394 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Wonder_Voice beauty lies in the eyes of beholder!!! Always remember this. Allah created everything and everyone beautiful. No one is worthless . Every person born on this earth has a meaningful purpose.Stay strong girls.

  • @kdramaaddaoppaunnie6592
    @kdramaaddaoppaunnie6592 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    💯💯💯
    On point Niharika..
    I'm 30.. you put my thoughts in words.. also, we are two sister.. my younger sis is just 16.. i want to support (financially/physically/emotionally) my parents all my life.. never been in a relationship.. so want to fullfill that aswell..
    But apart from what you said,
    I would point out ..
    1. Dowry was like lumpsum, now they need salaries of Wife/DIL as dowry in emi/instalments
    2. No freedom in upbringing the child..the thought of school we want to inculcate in them.. we can't..
    3. No freedom of living life as the lady wants.. whether she want to work or be a homemaker..

  • @ritujaiswal7493
    @ritujaiswal7493 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Believe it or not....ekdummmmm simmilar things happening with me....even the line " main ghar chor dungi" ,"am i burden to u"😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 ...I can relate perfectly... Every facts are exactly the conversation I had with parents 💜💜💜👍👍

  • @drishtee8994
    @drishtee8994 ปีที่แล้ว +373

    You literally portrayed my life Nick.😂😂

  • @jiyamehta1628
    @jiyamehta1628 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    Niharika, you are doing a great job. Marriage is not a necessity, it's just an option. Girls are not a pressure to family and settling with a guy is not an only motive of girl's life. Thank you for discussing this topic in this way.. thank you so much ❤️

    • @Sunflower_Diary670
      @Sunflower_Diary670 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree with you and totally support your thoughts .....bt today's family and society doesn't understand this 🥲 they all are ready to throw the girls into their so called reputation and all those nonsense thinks...😔

    • @torque7742
      @torque7742 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah
      Marriage is not necessity
      It's just an option.

  • @hafizamonaseher1085
    @hafizamonaseher1085 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    As a 30 years old, I can relate to it. 😢
    Love from Pakistan 🇵🇰

    • @marryangel9212
      @marryangel9212 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tu bi kuwari hai kya Mulli tu log to apne bhai se shaadi kar leti ho hahahaha 🤪🤪😁🤣

  • @salonibaid9652
    @salonibaid9652 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I really don't know how you spoke everything that a girl wants to voice out so easily❤️

  • @palakthakur4050
    @palakthakur4050 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    She literally cried explaining the whooleeeee situation to her mom
    👀💖

  • @divya_raushan_1829
    @divya_raushan_1829 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    Being a girl I can say each and every word u said is so damn true...that picture one which boys put on profile of 8-10yrs old is damn true...being a girl we put latest pictures but men don't..

    • @BhaktManomandirVihariniUma
      @BhaktManomandirVihariniUma ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Men have to be rich.. who have generational wealth .. proper job.. "sarkari naukari".. it's not like boys have it easier

    • @paraathakare1851
      @paraathakare1851 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@BhaktManomandirVihariniUma no one is saying that bro. We agree that both men and women have to face these stereotypical implementations that women should be pretty and men should be wealthy. Pls dont see this as an attack

    • @BhaktManomandirVihariniUma
      @BhaktManomandirVihariniUma ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@paraathakare1851 I am just clarifying.. because nowdays Men hate is trend lol..

    • @CaptainNick
      @CaptainNick  ปีที่แล้ว +61

      @the fear files - it’s been since decades, but this video is not intended towards any kind of hate for men.
      It’s in general for “society” and the video is from feminine view point because I’m a female and I could portray this better bas.

    • @dikshasuman
      @dikshasuman ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@BhaktManomandirVihariniUma bhai men are mocking and hating women by memes like women ☕ & glorifying eve teasing, perverts, harassment against women by memes like "men will be men", I have seen hateful comments by men even on periods related content. Hm women ko defend nhi kar rahe par Hate to bhai men hi phaila rahe hai.

  • @tabs12
    @tabs12 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm going through same situation...you literally put my situation in this video... unfortunately i can't send or show this video to my mother because I'm not talking to her for just same quarrel like tujhe koi psnd h to bolde ya fir humn jisko psnd kiya h usise kr... keep it up nick... every mother should take a look at this video seriously for sake of their daughters.

  • @preetiarya9498
    @preetiarya9498 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dam this made me cry it's so true and relatable , Parents consider society first then their own kids

  • @Ukiyo0423
    @Ukiyo0423 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    I like how she brings a serious topic in a funny way ❤️✨

  • @__Neelam_2
    @__Neelam_2 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    Being 18 year old girl i think this video was totally a good message to our so called society

  • @snehachintala9080
    @snehachintala9080 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Your content is totally disclosing our societial structure and there behaviour towards youngsters. It may also help in the changing the thinking process and behaviour of old minded people.
    You are amazing diii 👏👏👏
    We want more videos on societial evil practices.
    Love you di
    ❤️‍🔥🤩🥳
    Thank You

  • @aayushmajerung3831
    @aayushmajerung3831 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I felt the frustration when she was trying to convince her mother. Iknow this day is gonna come soon for me

  • @Alishaan26
    @Alishaan26 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Niharika di frustration dil se nikla tha aisa lag raha h 😂 mast video ek ek baat sach the har family mei same scenes 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻😂

  • @gunjansharma6853
    @gunjansharma6853 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    it's 101 percent relatable to my situation right now, it literally felt like she just came to about my life and nailed it here ..... but still there is no choice left at the end , everything is just and fair for sake of marriage according to Indian society

  • @dhwanigohil5267
    @dhwanigohil5267 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I can't describe how accurately you have expressed the emotion of a woman! Matlab seriously...Kudos to your acting! Legit amazing! 👏

  • @shamimakter6549
    @shamimakter6549 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Harsh reality , the monologue is the actual feelings of mine and many more 🥺 , lots of respect to you Nick ❤️

  • @merilamendes
    @merilamendes ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Loads of respect and love Nick 💗💗💗💗💗 literally the same arguments at home everyday n yes M 32 and literally koi ladka nahi bacha hai iss duniya main mere Umar nikal gayi for the society 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @NishaKumari-pd2qo
    @NishaKumari-pd2qo ปีที่แล้ว +50

    7:35 totally real story of Indian society....truth said brutally

    • @aqsasiddiqui28
      @aqsasiddiqui28 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Pakistanis also have to face the same situation..😥

  • @MissRose807
    @MissRose807 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    First time i cry while watching your videos ❤

  • @prerana.shenoy
    @prerana.shenoy ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Very nice video, you have blended your creativity, wit and humour to bring out the hypocrisy of the mindset society is carrying about the marriage. I hope everyone finds a partner they are truly compatible with even if it's a little late in life. Let's not forget Blessings are always on TIME. ❤❤❤

  • @mastiwithfriends1285
    @mastiwithfriends1285 ปีที่แล้ว +248

    I knew you couldn't live without marriage content😂❤

  • @shrutigupta4252
    @shrutigupta4252 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Damnnnnnn, was waiting for thisss only. 😍😍This is what weekends feel like, laughing and spreading happiness by sharing this with everyone....

  • @mufismaldar1921
    @mufismaldar1921 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hats off to you Nick ❤️ thanks for choosing this concept I think 90 % of girls are struggling with this

  • @shivanirai2870
    @shivanirai2870 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is so relatable to me because i am 28 now and all this conversation goes on daily basis in my house. I don't even visit my hometown because of the relatives.

  • @missmamatapatil9355
    @missmamatapatil9355 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    Literally cried and laughed in this video.. Such a outstanding acting and voice.. Hats off to you niharika di.. You are such a talented actress.. Lots of love ❣️❣️❣️❣️

    • @CaptainNick
      @CaptainNick  ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Lots of love to you to ❤️🙏 Thank you

  • @surbhibajpai7611
    @surbhibajpai7611 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I wish i could show this video to my parents such a brilliant message i feel like crying and also having tears.. facing same issues..

  • @shreyashidey9590
    @shreyashidey9590 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I can relate... I'm lucky that my parents never forced me but neighbours relatives had lost their sleep just to marry me off.. almost every Durga puja reunion they have one same question " kire kobe bie korbi...boyes to chole jache" (when you'll get married? You're getting older) another most annoying thing is telling to marry just because of status.. it's just so frustrating that now I stop visiting my relatives on any occasion.

  • @priyanshimathur2702
    @priyanshimathur2702 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Didi u r absolutely an amazing actor plus script writer..... Can feel every single word of yours 🙂🙂

  • @subhalina8606
    @subhalina8606 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Oh man, I am around your age, and I literally hear all these experiences from my friends and cousins! Hats off to you! I have been following you for so long, you have grown so much! Lots of love!❤

  • @khushisavlani1610
    @khushisavlani1610 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This content is soooo relatable, same exact same conversation between my parents and me. I am 24 and this is what i face everyday in my home. Finally someone said it loud. Kuddos to you! ❤

  • @anksee2488
    @anksee2488 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    100% reality check, very realistic content...

  • @arokiamary2603
    @arokiamary2603 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Exactly. Shadhi nai hoi tho shadi ka frustration. Shadi ke baad pregnancy bache bacha ka future 😂 so much of frustration 😂😂😂😂

  • @payalsavla6956
    @payalsavla6956 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Conclusion- don't take stress of marriage,just let it go 🤣🤣😂

  • @nipumoniboruah9150
    @nipumoniboruah9150 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    True🥺 so relevant at the age of 29 I can totally relate to this ❤️

    • @rnv6261
      @rnv6261 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @kalyanigajbhiye6720
      @kalyanigajbhiye6720 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same.how you are dealing with this?

    • @rnv6261
      @rnv6261 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bahot zyada tough hain.mere younger siblings ki marriage ka pressure bhi muj pe aa raha hain.

    • @CynicalRealist8488
      @CynicalRealist8488 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@rnv6261 Same situation as mine

    • @deepikasaini8550
      @deepikasaini8550 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same yr 27

  • @aksharagurav146
    @aksharagurav146 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Oh my god!! You made me cry and laugh at the same time.😃
    Felt like you expressed my feelings..
    exactly relatable.

  • @nayanaraykar9343
    @nayanaraykar9343 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awesomeeee,,,, it's just awesome.. no other words.. its exact the reality,, I think out of 10 , 9 (9/10 )ladies can relate this story to der own. Almost 90-95% ladies face this in der life.. Niharika ji u r just great 🙏

  • @jyotipandey8877
    @jyotipandey8877 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Thoda emotional ho gya mere liye......I hope every parent should watch this episode. Lovely Niharika di.. 😘

  • @syedsaba5210
    @syedsaba5210 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This video has spoken on behalf of tens of thousands of girls across world....u raised the standard of this platform.... A piece of art.... take a bow queen!!!! 👑

  • @littleartpills6949
    @littleartpills6949 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Woah😳... Exactly the same is happening to me.. how relatable your video is 💯💯..

  • @poojaagarwal4871
    @poojaagarwal4871 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is so true. Proves that not every girl is a gold digger.
    And even guys are demanding not just girls.
    And sach bola toh jyada bolti hain.
    Ppl just want ho jaye bas and baad main, ' beta jhel le thoda, chalta rehta hain'.

  • @tipsy_tina25
    @tipsy_tina25 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This is what exactly happening with me.. Dialogue to dialogue, world to world, situation to situation and emotions to emotions... Everything ditto on point.. You know how to connect with people's hearts ❤💞. Just love your work.. Thoda samadhan mila video dekh ke😌

  • @mipbeacon81021
    @mipbeacon81021 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Niharicka you portrayed the problem of generation gap & marriage related stereotypes in such a realistic & relatable way. Amazing yaar! ☺🌻

  • @pooja554
    @pooja554 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hats off di..What u have show cased in this video is the reality... Almost while watching half of the video am crying... I have shared this video to my family too... hope they understand this. generation

  • @mayamishra8052
    @mayamishra8052 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of the best video . Reality check portrait very well ... amazing work Captian Nick.

  • @kiranKumari-qf8xc
    @kiranKumari-qf8xc ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Literally tears in my eyes... Totally releatable reality..... Going to show it to my family... Hope they understand ✌

  • @aayushisatle1149
    @aayushisatle1149 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    The way you described it..every unmarried girl can relate..you did it very well Niharika 🔥

  • @svm1848
    @svm1848 ปีที่แล้ว

    Niharika lot of love.. aapne kitne acche se hum sab ki is situation ko beautifully convey kiya h👍 thnx..

  • @travelisthani
    @travelisthani ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Reading all the comments is soooooo damn relief 🥺🥺🥺single community zindabaad❤️

  • @shridancediaries
    @shridancediaries ปีที่แล้ว +110

    This is exactly my situation at home right now. All i did was cry looking at this , because i cannot talk any of this infront of my parents. I really feel like all my hard work , efforts, achievements everything is not even seen or appreciated just because i do not agree to get married right now.
    EVERY SINGLE DAY i just listen to this and feel like a burden at home.

    • @Abhilasha.Ever95
      @Abhilasha.Ever95 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here dear😭😭😭😭

    • @hurricane19
      @hurricane19 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just move on from your home 💀

    • @shridancediaries
      @shridancediaries ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hurricane19 I wanna stay here and be there for my parents, Yes I'll eventually go when things are better here. I don't hate them , but i would love to have some appreciation that's all.

    • @be-spoke7712
      @be-spoke7712 ปีที่แล้ว

      I also didn't agree to get married and now I regret every bit of it.

    • @mukubeautyworlds5201
      @mukubeautyworlds5201 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here 😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @meghadixit1276
    @meghadixit1276 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Disclaimer - This channel is very addictive.
    Love you niharika di 💖💖

  • @shrabanimandal8842
    @shrabanimandal8842 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So true ....so relatable..nice to see I am not the only one stuck in this situation...thank you ❤

  • @rishitabawa8496
    @rishitabawa8496 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I literally cried watching this video....u r too gud🥺

  • @kka08
    @kka08 ปีที่แล้ว +242

    Its a harsh reality and another mental torture..love you nick for bringing this to table❤️❤️

  • @kratikavarshney3034
    @kratikavarshney3034 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    As a 26 year unmarried girl, I can relate to this... I want to send this to my mother

    • @easylearning4132
      @easylearning4132 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      31 unmarried

    • @himania8229
      @himania8229 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      26 only 🙄🙄

    • @bookshoot1653
      @bookshoot1653 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Only 26??your family is obsessed with your marriage??

    • @ituxsoni
      @ituxsoni ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Turning 30 this year and shaadi woh kya hoti hai?? 😂😂

    • @bookshoot1653
      @bookshoot1653 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ituxsoni same,and still not ready for marriage.

  • @dr.himani5841
    @dr.himani5841 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fantastic video. Touched my heart. I was almost 😢 & had bouts of hearty laughter as well. You have put across such a sensitive topic so beautifully.
    Hats off

  • @kushdeoprajapati399
    @kushdeoprajapati399 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    33 unmarried. Can feel your pain bro!!

  • @debasmitapattnaik9295
    @debasmitapattnaik9295 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm so blessed in this matter so so so blessed.... I'm 30 and still struggling in my carreer and ofcourse my parents wish me to get married.. but they never never forced me or nagged me for marriage... They even say if you don't wanna get married no problem just be happy ni matter what.

    • @sk-fp9md
      @sk-fp9md ปีที่แล้ว

      In middle class family noone says so,☹️😭

    • @debasmitapattnaik9295
      @debasmitapattnaik9295 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sk-fp9md that's why I thank God for blessing me with so understanding parents despite being middle-class

    • @sk-fp9md
      @sk-fp9md ปีที่แล้ว

      @@debasmitapattnaik9295 Really u r much blessed...since 3 years my parents have made so much pressure ki i don't know what to do😭..

  • @suchayeetachakraborty3530
    @suchayeetachakraborty3530 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I was expecting something funny but this is actually eye opener for some people..... love you Niharika Di 💝

  • @vijayarana6931
    @vijayarana6931 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    As a 30 year unmarried girl, I can relate to this so much !!

  • @sheetalrauthan2128
    @sheetalrauthan2128 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm just 22 and my family started looking for a guy with this reason that it takes to find a good guy ...I literally feel tortured every time they ask to say yes with these phrases that we will not force it is up to you 😢

    • @Pradnyasabale22
      @Pradnyasabale22 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I can understand your situation dear I am in same situation 😢

  • @monikavaid5083
    @monikavaid5083 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    All 25+ girls can relate to this 😂

    • @cosyappy7115
      @cosyappy7115 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You meant women not girls

    • @priyaparul
      @priyaparul ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cosyappy7115 shut up

    • @surbhimishra1649
      @surbhimishra1649 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@cosyappy7115 lol. Do you know the difference between a girl and a woman?

    • @cosyappy7115
      @cosyappy7115 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@surbhimishra1649 😊

  • @abhipsamishra6189
    @abhipsamishra6189 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Comedy k sath sath aap k video main sikhne ko bhi milta hai ..salute to you di .you are the great .

  • @priyankasolanki2915
    @priyankasolanki2915 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Im 31 ... Its so relatable 😢😢.. parents needs to understand

  • @careeroutofcube3489
    @careeroutofcube3489 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This line really sums up evertything, jyda handsome ya bohot high packagae wala nahi chahiye bas genuinely acha ladka chahiye. Is this too difficult to understand?