A few signs I've always noticed when growing up was: They tell people who are close to them about you. Friends, family, etc. They think about you when your not around. They will try to get physically close to you when possible Finally, they will always try to get your attention, if you haven't already noticed them. You walk into a room full of people, they are likely the 1st person to say hi or approach you.
You seem very observant! These are great tips that people can keep in mind. In your opinion, if you notice that someone feels this way about you, what is the best way to approach them?
@Psych2Go I'd say approach is always the toughest, even if your 99% sure there is always the 1% doubt, but if they seem interested, then being directed is always the best route. This is true if you whether you reciprocate those feels or not. Something else I noticed as a teen is that love can actually be expressed as a mathematical equation. Love= (exposure/time) +/- experience. In other words, it's more likely feelings will develop based on the amount of time you spend around an individual and if those experiences you've had with that person are positive or negative.
None of that ever happens. I walk into a room and people just continue on with what ever they'er doing like I wasn't there. Just as well, they don't bother me, I won't bother them.
I agree with the 2nd one, I always think about mine. I don't talk to anyone about it bc i cant trust anyone and I try not to talk to them bc Im scared.
@@Pxeaer_ Your not alone. I feel the same way about people too. It has a lot to do with my abusive father and that I was bullied by nearly every kid at school every day and no body did anything about it, ever!
Timestamps 1). Is it hot in here or is it just you 0:21 2). No auto-tune needed 1:24 3). What big eyes you have 2:24 4). Partner see, partner do 3:04 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
@@Psych2go How to read the signals that your own subconscious tries to send to you. One way that I know of is through projection, but I'm sure that there are others too.
Sexual attraction is both beautiful and simultaneously scary. Nevertheless, it's a part of what defines the human experience, and I like to believe that it's something that makes life better. :)
For having experience in the field, the best experiences you will have are with persons that don't try to impress you because the ones who do most of the time want just a one night thing or just to get your validation or attention. Don't be too upfront and most of all take your time to know the person, with time and experience, you'll understand when it's the right time to act and when to let it go. Sometimes, the attraction you feel for someone is what you have built up in your mind (this goes for men and women). Sometimes you might see signs that are just the expression of the person you're interacting with. I had too many experiences with girls falling in love with me just because I was helpful, upfront, assertive, not taking any crap (regardless of my attraction towards the girl). Sometimes you could have all the signs and get a flat out no. Sometimes you could have none and end up having an enthusiastic yes. People like you and I are way too different to trust "signs". Trust yourself and don't beat yourself up if it doesn't work out. Have fun and enjoy folks. Before I forget. Communication is the most important aspect. No time for mind games. Ditch those who are unsure about how they feel about you, it will just make you suffer and keep you hoping.
If you’re feeling bad about yourself because of that, please realise that even if it seems that NOBODY would ever want you it’s more than likely way untrue. Your own perception of yourself definitely affects what you’ll see when others interact with you. I thought I was ugly in school and I was pretty damn depressed, so whenever people were nice to me I thought they were faking and when they were mean I thought it was just natural for them to be that way to me. If I think I’m ugly and stupid, why wouldn’t anyone else?… Got older, that shit was a LIE. I was super smart. And super cute!!!! Which is so weird because if someone said that to me then, when I was looking at that face in the mirror, I would have looked at them like they were on something!! And suddenly a lot of memories I had about school suddenly made more sense… There were a lot of people who were mean to me because they thought I believed I was better than them. I didn’t give them that impression on my own. They saw the good things about me and assumed I already knew them too! They wanted to ‘knock me down a peg’ before I even opened my mouth… That’s what older folks mean when they say stuff like “oh, those bullies are just jealous”. It always sounds crackpot but then you get older and realise it was true!! And even if there’s only one person at school who has a crush on you for like a week or just finds you pretty, you won’t realise they did until you find yourself pretty too. In your mind someone finding you pretty might not make any sense, so you won’t interpret somebody else’s actions as “because they think i’m pretty” yk?? Even if afterwards you figure out… wait… that person totally liked me!! Or at least they thought you had a cute face somehow. I mean, in the end, whether random people have a crush on you or not doesn’t determine your worth. But believing that nobody you’ve met has ever been attracted to you is also… v unlikely. Even if you personally wouldn’t be attracted to you. Lmao. Who says you have to be your own type?? This is the second time I have written a novel in this comment section so I’m going to put my phone down and go outside, but anyways I hope my rant helped you even a tiny 1% bit;; bye!
@@prettyrat. thanks for the uplifting words I really appreciate it :) Ik its unlikely that everyone in the entire world finds me unattractive but it’s easy to fall in to that type of thinking when I’m a bit too mean to myself everyday😓 and like you said a part of that is me not loving myself enough. I’ve recently been trying to love myself more (the reason why im on this channel in the first place) but it’s hard not to compare myself too my peers and see how they’ve already have had their first relationship or are currently in one while I’ve never even had my first kiss yet. Ik I shouldn’t compare and that everyone goes through these things in their own pace but I can’t stop thinking that there is something about bad me that makes girls not to be with me romantically. I have no problem being friends with girls or talking to them but for some reason when it comes to romance I just can’t get it right. Maybe it’s my personality or I’m bad at flirting but the reason I chose to believe was that I’m just ugly. I realized soon that way of thinking isn’t going to get me a girlfriend anytime soon and had a little pep talk with a close friend and promised her that I would at least try to love myself more and here I am on this channel stumbling through their videos and over sharing in their comments to strangers lol. Idk even where I was going with this it’s 11:55 pm and it’s a school night so I should probably go to bed already. Anyways sorry for rambling and I hope that some what made sense. Thanks again for your kind words and reading this long comment kind stranger 😊
I've always had a deeper voice for a female. If my voice gets higher when I'm speaking to you, it doesn't mean I find you physically attractive. It means I'm speaking to you in my retail voice because I'm not comfortable enough to speak to you in my real voice. When I like someone, I won't have to act different. I just treat them like we're close friends and if they can do the same for me, then it's likely that it will turn into something more.
I appreciate you saying that! I'm sort of the equivalent opposite. I'm an (almost) 21 yr-old male and definitely don't have a super deep voice. Of course, my voice deepened after puberty (which I actually underwent a bit early) but it didn't really get as low as some of my classmates at the time. Nonetheless, there's a huge difference when compared to my kiddie voice, lol! 😂 Anyway, I think sometimes needing to sound a certain way based on "norms" for each sex can be frustrating, from a purely vocal standpoint and quality. I went through a point of needing to fit in desperately and it damaged me in a sense because my voice wasn't as deep as some of the other guys, while some of them still had their prepubescent voices. Thankfully, I began to find strength in my own being and was able to find my first romantic partner in a girl once high school came around and we shared quite a few classes together, so sometimes things like that seem superficial and the quality of the person at heart, their intentions and their interests and values become most attractive, at least to me. I agree with you! ❤
I’m the exact same! My voice is on the deeper side but when it comes to someone i don’t know in say customer service, my voice also becomes higher as I don’t want them to think I’m trying to be rude with my normal voice as my tone and octave can be mixed.
Lol I misunderstood that first sentence at first. I thought you meant "I've always used a deeper voice when around a female". Anyway, I'm kinda the opposite as a male. I have a slightly higher tone when speaking to friends because I'm talking faster and am often excited. When I talk to family, strangers, or someone I'm attracted to, I talk in my normal voice, because I'll probably be talking slower (talking to family/strangers) or "excited in a different way" (talking to someone I'm attracted to)
@@vibaj16 Honestly all the guys I've known that have had higher voices have always been so much nicer and more approachable than guys with deeper voices. I wonder if guys feel that way about girls with lower voices?🤔
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Can you guys do a video on how to let someone down gently or how to give someone hints that you aren’t attracted to them, with out being mean, especially for someone you’re worried might not take it well? I feel like rejecting someone is one of the most difficult social interactions you can have, because you don’t know how they’ll take it.
I have a few things to say. One, these videos are so very soothing and actually interesting AND they've helped me identify many many things about myself. Two, do you have any community for the fans of the channel? Like a facebook group or a discord server? Three, thank you so much for pumping out all of this content, it really does help and I'm sure many others agree that it's absolutely amazing.
@@Psych2go Hi, if you could make a video on what to do if we start experiencing monotonocity in our life? How to make everyday interesting?, Also maybe on how to deal with a professional failure? Thank you for asking me this question, it shows how much you care for your viewers 🪷
Absolutely! Attraction isn't strictly sexual and can certainly be romantic without feeling sexually attracted to someone. Thank you for pointing it out! :)
Never give up hope, just focus on being the best version of yourself and you may one day find yourself being authentically charming and sweet with someone who enjoys these things about you. Trust me, I always struggled, but now, whether I'm single or dating, things are good. I'm comfortable with myself and treat people with genuine kindness and fun and I've noticed that it's magnetic to many people. Some people don't get it or won't care, but that's okay, I just allow them to be themselves and move on, no hard feelings.
Can you do a video about how to engage with someone you like to see if they are interested in you, and how to ask them on a date? For those of us who are socially challenged, like me.
@@Psych2go I have social anxiety, and it is so hard for me to approach women I am attracted to. I have no dating skills due to lack of hardly any dating. So maybe the basics of how to approach someone you’re attracted to, with the goal of ask them out. Even though I’m 32, I have the dating skills of a 14 or 16 year old probably tbh. I missed out on a lot and how to date and the like. Very, very little practice! Also, maybe places where people with social anxiety, and introverted personalities can meet people too. I would like to be able to approach a girl that I am attracted to at a store or well anywhere. Maybe it’s too much to ask for in a video?
@@theoutsider1020 i am in totally same condition.... The girl i like idk if she likes me or not and I am too shy to ask and we just talk about random things a video about this would really help😊
Have you ever seen the air pick up dust and spin it in a tiny whirlwind at your feet? The twirling particles reveal the current. Without this demonstration, the wind might remain invisible and whir by unnoticed. Your habits demonstrate self-respect in the same way. Your inner regard is made manifest through your actions. The next time you sense a breeze upon your face, let it remind you of the power within. Remember each time you follow through on a habit, you’ve just given form to the current of self-respect that stirs inside.
Thank you so much for subtitles in video! As a non-english speaker, I always turn them on but it often blocks some information. But now everything is just perfect💜
@@Psych2go i remember watching these videos at night with my brother to see what we should come to expect in the future. we both think your channel is helpful no matter what kind of topic we watch!
@@Psych2go i'm a bit tone def at times, but people mostly just comment on my look, outfit, hair etc. I don't immediately recall if their pupils were dialated or if they were sweating, but they normally seem rather focused on me, even if only a bit
Thx 4 the great vid i have noticed the 3rd point as a universal sign of attention to some one u like cuz it allows u take in as mutch info on there facial expiration to see if they like u back the same way the reason your face gets red is because to get more blood to your brain to allow u 2 think better (only my personal theory)
No way, I just realized that my friend started picking up some of my things, like saying "epic" and structuring a similar steam page description to mine-
also just saying if anyone does confess to you. try to calm down, even when u dont like them back. I made the mistake of being scared and didnt give the best response : (
I have they just space out I notice like when I’m talking I don’t think they like me and their not thinking about me also I was walking and they saw me they laughed with their friends I feel like they see me as a joke and their entertainment I feel played and messed with they always switch on me
A possible one is that they stare at you and this also applies for girls too as I've had a girl look at me from a distance multiple times in her house and she even told me something really personal even though I hadn't known her for a while
@Nawang Sangchoju I think it applies to all that when we stare at someone and it's automatic, we are sexually attracted to them but only for a while. Sometimes you think about them again afterward or you just say "meh" and forget about it.
Thank you so much for telling us! We want to ask, why do you feel that Psych2Go is a safe space? What have we been doing and can be doing in the future that can create a safer space for everyone?
@@Psych2go and thank you.. really.. for replying.. well.. i feel Psych2Go is a safe space because like.. the channel is like a 'good parent', always there for you in every situation, telling you what to do, telling you who you are [the 'which personality are you' typed vids], warning you stuff [like the toxic friends video] and also with a gentle approach if you're doing something wrong yourself [like the toxic friends video but here, you're being toxic] and also videos on how to fix stuff like that and to be better, and very good advices and like this video too, telling you how to know if someone wants you and such.. the animations i feel are also a big part of making people feel safe watching the vids as it's kind of peaceful.. ofcourse humans can be good no doubts but animations hit different as they're cute most of the time and can be used in multiple ways , which is really a notable feature you've been doing for a loong time that makes people feel safer and also that the voiceover isn't dark nor too loud and like, the accents too, the voices are really really calming which is also a good thing for the future though, i feel you can make the channel a safe space for more people by simply existing.. seriously, there's nothing more to do with all these perks, if i think a lot and kind of analyse though, maybe there can be occasional videos on no specific topics but rather just comforting words and such.. i think I've seen atleast one video like this before and you could continue doing that.. [ like showing appreciation and reassuring everything's gonna be ok and other such comforting words, just like motivational stuff ]
@@Psych2go i hope my reply isn't too big xD and once again, thank you so much for existing.. , Psych2Go :) i really hope all of you are going through good times
funnily enough me and 3 of my closest friends all share at least a few signs of attractions, although for 1 of them it's just how close we are that makes it seem that way, for another in particular though we both know about our sexual tension for each other and we do absolutely all of these lol (in short these signs either mean you're close in general or you're totally down for that person)
are you able to make a video about Do's and Dont's in a Polyamorous Relationship? I had recently joined one and don't know anything on what I should do and what I shouldn't do.
You might also want to just ask the other people in the relationship. I'm not in one so idk but I'm pretty sure asking will make everything much easier
I have a crush on someone(a coworker of mine) but unfortunately he’s taken. He’s a bit of a flirt though because there was one day that I was subbing for a colleague of mine and after I said hi to another co-worker (who I look up to like an older brother), when he saw me, his eyes widened and his face lit up. He then said in Spanish “It’s so great to see you!”, he pulled me close to hug and kiss me on the cheek, I almost fell on my back but he picked me back up to prevent me from falling and we continued hugging (This guy is really tall around 6’5 or something). There are two female coworkers that are like all over him ( I don’t blame them, he’s incredibly handsome) so I usually keep my distance when he’s with them but sometimes when I keep my distance, he won’t want to talk to them, he’ll want to talk to me.
@@Psych2go not really 🤷♂️ here in Reno NV, there aren’t too many single women around my age. No joke, Hinge is now showing me women 50+ (I’m 25 fyi lol)
I have noticed I have been experiencing point 1, a rise in body temperature and also heart rate increasing when I know a girl I like is nearby… So, I take the train everyday to work and there’s this pretty girl I see almost everytime on the way to and back. Occasionally I see her looking in my direction but being a nervous person I try hard to not make it obvious I look at her sometimes too. We’ve spoken like fewer than 10 words over the months 😅 Shall I just say screw it and talk to her? If so, after we get off the train in the morning, before the train arrives in the evening, or on the train?
Thank you for watching our videos! And we want to ask, how come? Why don't you feel like you would ever need advice when it comes to intimate relationships?
HELP, MY FRIEND TOLD ME SHE ALWAYS NOTICES MY HALLWAY CRUSH LOOKING AT ME WHENEVER WE WALK PAST HIM, AND HE NEVER LOOKS AT HER, AND ONE TIME WHEN WE SAW HIM IN THE CITY, HE EVEN STARTED SMIRKING WHEN HE SAW US, I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO THINK THIS COULD LITERALLY MEAN ANYTHING AAAAAAAAAA I'M SO CONFLICTED
Now even if this stuff is not 100% true or what ever, it's still fun to watch and gain some dating knowledge. And heck I know many others have said this, but the audio is ASMR to the ears.
Comparing my husband to my past boyfriends (a few): it took the least amount of “effort” with my husband. No mind games, no guessing, and DEFINITELY no waiting around to see who would make the first move or whatever. None of that stuff. We just would talk (we worked together at a retail store) and I would literally never feel awkward around him. But, I was extremely interested in getting to know him much better, so we were friends first, but would send emails like we were already dating (more risqué talking) Nothing was more obvious to just go out on that first date 😂 The rest is history and 24 years later we’re still excellent communicators. YOU’LL JUST KNOW. Even at 18…I knew.
i am taking a psychology class and my teacher makes me hate the subject. they arent good at teaching it and rather we research subjects they didnt even properly explain to us at all. watching your videos keeps my love for psychology alive
I used to experience the sweating back in high school. Had to actually change me shirts often. Looking into this, it was mostly a electrolytic imbalance.
@@Psych2go Both, I would say. This was quite common for me during high school as I was an avid athlete back then. I would say poor diet, being active and a teenager was a trifecta of this particular issue.
Never felt that for anyone, just romantic feelings. Always thought it was some exaggerating thing from the movies until my husband told me "yeah it's a thing"
Absolutely perfect now i can cut anyone out in my life that shows these signs. I don't have time to deal with love. I'm on the grind to be the best version of myself.
Could you do a video on how introverts/really shy people do and act. idk if u alr did a vid on this, I think that this would be a really idea. I have been someone whos really shy since I was young, and I find that sometimes some of the points are not relatable for me or solutions are something I can't do or am too scared to do. Videos like that would be really helpful for me. thank you for your time. Oh and also what are some signs of knowing when I really really REALLY like someone to a point I should tell them if I find out that they have the possibilities of returning feelings bc I feel like I have reached that point but I am unsure.
I agree, shy / introverted people act differently. They stare from afar, they blush, they "ignore" you, if you talk to them they panic / they seem startled and then embarrassed... avoid direct eye contact... etc.
Do you do the audio, and animation!?!?!? I always notice that the animation style is different, and you put so much effort and research into your videos, and you post regularly. Is it really just you?
When your crush looks strait into your eyes and you can see her pupils gets huge. Me knowing psychology that she has a crush too, OMG that feeling. Love you lady ❤❤
I still can't think of sexual things about my highschool crush and that was some 25 years ago, some of us see love and sex as two completely separate things. This is a hard pill to swallow to most women, because most women think sex is all we care about, sometimes we use sex to forget we're not in love.
Something that helped me get over both of my exes was realizing that they were valuable learning experiences for me. I can go into the next relationship with a better perspective and strategy. Of course, some would say rationalizing everything takes the fun out of relationships, but I'd argue that it's important to strike a balance between rationality and irrationality.
Being in top physical condition, durable, and athletic, mean nothing if one is rectally ugly. That unfortunate description has fallen upon me. However, I realise this. With that most depressing of knowledge, I know that absolutely nobody could ever be sexually attracted to me nor attracted to me for any reason at all, unless it is to use, betray, and then painfully abandoned me. There is no reason to even consider if someone finds me attractive. The answer will always be the same. Thus, I do not even notice the way others look at me. It would pose no relevance to notice the way others perceive me.
Recently, a guy (gay and 32) and I (gay man and 25) vibed very well in person. He said I am handsome, sweet, and attractive. He asked to kiss me after we met and chatted for an hour and we then made out passionately nd aggressively. He felt my bulge and he grabbed my hand to feel his. I asked him on a date and he said he has been in seven relationships and needs time for himself and to be single. He said we can be casual friends and move slowly. After some text messages to ask to hang out and perhaps fool around, he said he was going to relax last Friday. Yesterday, after sending nudes, he said I was not his type. I am aware of my abandonment issues and working with a therapist. However, I thought he was romantically and sexually interested...until this occurred. Today was the first day of large depression settling in. I hope to be stronger daily.
being able to know these signs is helpful, I think, for both knowing what to spot from someone you want or like and it can also be helpful, i think, to be able to use these and use them for yourself in order to show whoever you like that you are attracted to them. nevertheless, this was a super informative video❤
Im really careful not to put the cart before the horse. I have a crush 🥰. He's very kind, soft spoken, shy, wise, and more 😊. We met on a dating app and again when he found me on another. He has a job where he has fans but lately ive noticed when he talks, it has changed. When he is on screen, talking to his fans. Its very up played, sensual, getting people's attention. And he use to talk like that a bit with me during our private chats. We both know we are interested in each other but a bit unsure where to take it. I decided to take a leap of faith and called him sunshine as well as wishing him and his cat a good morning. I decided on sunshine as a cute way to address him. Not ranchy, not to much. Something cute and safe. Well, the recent audio recording he sent me, i immediately noticed a chance in his voice. It was far more relaxed, he wasnt preforming. He was calm and even laughed a bit. He sounded so different than when he is streaming. I dont if its just my ears or he really is starting to warm up to me. He's also allowed himself to be vulnerable with me too. I will play it by ear, stick to being kind and wait out a few more month. But i can tell that calling him sunshine definitely had a positive reaction in him so ill find other cute names and sprinkle them in every week. Im thinking 'Dewdrop' for next week. Or how about 'Honeydew'? Maybe 'Honey Bee'?😊
I don't think it works that way but if you keep doing it and they start copying you I think yes that might be a sign. I started copying stuff my crush was saying and started acting more like them. I started copying them like intentionally but I think that somethings I copied unintentionally.
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. It seems like it's impossible for men and women to emotionally connect with each other. I heard that gay and lesbian couples are happier than straight couples are, and I heard that gay and lesbian relationships are healthier than straight relationships are. The more similar you are to someone, the more easier it is to bond and connect with them. People of the same sex/gender understand each other more easily, and there are no inbuilt societal power imbalances as there are between opposite-sex couples. Gay and lesbian couples understand each other better than straight couples do (due to them being the same gender as each other). I heard that most straight couples are not happy being together, and I heard that people who are straight are much happier and much better off being single than they are being in a romantic relationship.
It's happened over a several years span... Am I the only one to wait years because it wasn't allowed??? There's a couple more, her crossing her legs or biting her lips... Okay, the last one happened to me as well... The part about having her explicit consent is obvious I'd never force myself on her, or on anyone else
How do you show that you are attracted to someone?
I like to show subtle signs through hugs and touches
You can tell them
Straight forward is always the way to go!
I talk non-stop for two hours
Get naked and make your move, that should make it clear to the person that you’re sexually attracted too.
A few signs I've always noticed when growing up was:
They tell people who are close to them about you. Friends, family, etc.
They think about you when your not around.
They will try to get physically close to you when possible
Finally, they will always try to get your attention, if you haven't already noticed them. You walk into a room full of people, they are likely the 1st person to say hi or approach you.
You seem very observant! These are great tips that people can keep in mind. In your opinion, if you notice that someone feels this way about you, what is the best way to approach them?
@Psych2Go I'd say approach is always the toughest, even if your 99% sure there is always the 1% doubt, but if they seem interested, then being directed is always the best route. This is true if you whether you reciprocate those feels or not.
Something else I noticed as a teen is that love can actually be expressed as a mathematical equation. Love= (exposure/time) +/- experience. In other words, it's more likely feelings will develop based on the amount of time you spend around an individual and if those experiences you've had with that person are positive or negative.
None of that ever happens. I walk into a room and people just continue on with what ever they'er doing like I wasn't there. Just as well, they don't bother me, I won't bother them.
I agree with the 2nd one, I always think about mine. I don't talk to anyone about it bc i cant trust anyone and I try not to talk to them bc Im scared.
@@Pxeaer_ Your not alone. I feel the same way about people too. It has a lot to do with my abusive father and that I was bullied by nearly every kid at school every day and no body did anything about it, ever!
Timestamps
1). Is it hot in here or is it just you 0:21
2). No auto-tune needed 1:24
3). What big eyes you have 2:24
4). Partner see, partner do 3:04
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Thank you for the timestamps!
@@Psych2go not a problem happy to help
@jhskhfdjsdf hgfdhfghdfghdfg okay but I never talked about it
Yoooooooooooooo my bru! You are from SA!
@@Grave_of_the_Sea Yes why
Never stop we love u
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Agree❤
@@Psych2go have anything about seizure psychology/neurology?
@@Psych2go How to read the signals that your own subconscious tries to send to you. One way that I know of is through projection, but I'm sure that there are others too.
Sexual attraction is both beautiful and simultaneously scary. Nevertheless, it's a part of what defines the human experience, and I like to believe that it's something that makes life better. :)
I love how you wrote your comment❤in a funny way this gave me “future hope “ ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
@@ashleighnicole5075 The old addage of "no risk, no reward" is true in a lot of cases, but especially with regards to loving someone.
@@ashleighnicole5075 Sure, sometimes it doesn't work out, but not trying at all is far worse.
Every girl who sees this comment begs to differ
A very beautiful insight!
She could walk straight up to me and say, "I'm interested in you," and I would still have no idea.
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Same
For having experience in the field, the best experiences you will have are with persons that don't try to impress you because the ones who do most of the time want just a one night thing or just to get your validation or attention. Don't be too upfront and most of all take your time to know the person, with time and experience, you'll understand when it's the right time to act and when to let it go.
Sometimes, the attraction you feel for someone is what you have built up in your mind (this goes for men and women). Sometimes you might see signs that are just the expression of the person you're interacting with.
I had too many experiences with girls falling in love with me just because I was helpful, upfront, assertive, not taking any crap (regardless of my attraction towards the girl).
Sometimes you could have all the signs and get a flat out no. Sometimes you could have none and end up having an enthusiastic yes. People like you and I are way too different to trust "signs". Trust yourself and don't beat yourself up if it doesn't work out.
Have fun and enjoy folks.
Before I forget. Communication is the most important aspect. No time for mind games. Ditch those who are unsure about how they feel about you, it will just make you suffer and keep you hoping.
I ain’t reading that
Hey thank you man that makes sense to me
i love these friendly reminders that no one is attracted to me :)
Me too 🥲
If you’re feeling bad about yourself because of that, please realise that even if it seems that NOBODY would ever want you it’s more than likely way untrue. Your own perception of yourself definitely affects what you’ll see when others interact with you. I thought I was ugly in school and I was pretty damn depressed, so whenever people were nice to me I thought they were faking and when they were mean I thought it was just natural for them to be that way to me. If I think I’m ugly and stupid, why wouldn’t anyone else?…
Got older, that shit was a LIE. I was super smart. And super cute!!!! Which is so weird because if someone said that to me then, when I was looking at that face in the mirror, I would have looked at them like they were on something!! And suddenly a lot of memories I had about school suddenly made more sense… There were a lot of people who were mean to me because they thought I believed I was better than them. I didn’t give them that impression on my own. They saw the good things about me and assumed I already knew them too! They wanted to ‘knock me down a peg’ before I even opened my mouth… That’s what older folks mean when they say stuff like “oh, those bullies are just jealous”. It always sounds crackpot but then you get older and realise it was true!! And even if there’s only one person at school who has a crush on you for like a week or just finds you pretty, you won’t realise they did until you find yourself pretty too. In your mind someone finding you pretty might not make any sense, so you won’t interpret somebody else’s actions as “because they think i’m pretty” yk?? Even if afterwards you figure out… wait… that person totally liked me!! Or at least they thought you had a cute face somehow.
I mean, in the end, whether random people have a crush on you or not doesn’t determine your worth. But believing that nobody you’ve met has ever been attracted to you is also… v unlikely. Even if you personally wouldn’t be attracted to you. Lmao. Who says you have to be your own type??
This is the second time I have written a novel in this comment section so I’m going to put my phone down and go outside, but anyways I hope my rant helped you even a tiny 1% bit;; bye!
@@prettyrat. thanks for the uplifting words I really appreciate it :) Ik its unlikely that everyone in the entire world finds me unattractive but it’s easy to fall in to that type of thinking when I’m a bit too mean to myself everyday😓 and like you said a part of that is me not loving myself enough. I’ve recently been trying to love myself more (the reason why im on this channel in the first place) but it’s hard not to compare myself too my peers and see how they’ve already have had their first relationship or are currently in one while I’ve never even had my first kiss yet. Ik I shouldn’t compare and that everyone goes through these things in their own pace but I can’t stop thinking that there is something about bad me that makes girls not to be with me romantically. I have no problem being friends with girls or talking to them but for some reason when it comes to romance I just can’t get it right. Maybe it’s my personality or I’m bad at flirting but the reason I chose to believe was that I’m just ugly. I realized soon that way of thinking isn’t going to get me a girlfriend anytime soon and had a little pep talk with a close friend and promised her that I would at least try to love myself more and here I am on this channel stumbling through their videos and over sharing in their comments to strangers lol. Idk even where I was going with this it’s 11:55 pm and it’s a school night so I should probably go to bed already. Anyways sorry for rambling and I hope that some what made sense. Thanks again for your kind words and reading this long comment kind stranger 😊
I thought so too until I had someone that reciprocated back the same feelings♡
I've always had a deeper voice for a female. If my voice gets higher when I'm speaking to you, it doesn't mean I find you physically attractive. It means I'm speaking to you in my retail voice because I'm not comfortable enough to speak to you in my real voice. When I like someone, I won't have to act different. I just treat them like we're close friends and if they can do the same for me, then it's likely that it will turn into something more.
Glad to see I'm not the only one
I appreciate you saying that! I'm sort of the equivalent opposite. I'm an (almost) 21 yr-old male and definitely don't have a super deep voice. Of course, my voice deepened after puberty (which I actually underwent a bit early) but it didn't really get as low as some of my classmates at the time. Nonetheless, there's a huge difference when compared to my kiddie voice, lol! 😂
Anyway, I think sometimes needing to sound a certain way based on "norms" for each sex can be frustrating, from a purely vocal standpoint and quality. I went through a point of needing to fit in desperately and it damaged me in a sense because my voice wasn't as deep as some of the other guys, while some of them still had their prepubescent voices. Thankfully, I began to find strength in my own being and was able to find my first romantic partner in a girl once high school came around and we shared quite a few classes together, so sometimes things like that seem superficial and the quality of the person at heart, their intentions and their interests and values become most attractive, at least to me. I agree with you! ❤
I’m the exact same! My voice is on the deeper side but when it comes to someone i don’t know in say customer service, my voice also becomes higher as I don’t want them to think I’m trying to be rude with my normal voice as my tone and octave can be mixed.
Lol I misunderstood that first sentence at first. I thought you meant "I've always used a deeper voice when around a female".
Anyway, I'm kinda the opposite as a male. I have a slightly higher tone when speaking to friends because I'm talking faster and am often excited. When I talk to family, strangers, or someone I'm attracted to, I talk in my normal voice, because I'll probably be talking slower (talking to family/strangers) or "excited in a different way" (talking to someone I'm attracted to)
@@vibaj16 Honestly all the guys I've known that have had higher voices have always been so much nicer and more approachable than guys with deeper voices. I wonder if guys feel that way about girls with lower voices?🤔
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this is so beautiful¡
Thx homie
Thanks so much because I need it to read. That made my day. ❤
Bro took years to write this comment 😂 love this guy
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Can you guys do a video on how to let someone down gently or how to give someone hints that you aren’t attracted to them, with out being mean, especially for someone you’re worried might not take it well? I feel like rejecting someone is one of the most difficult social interactions you can have, because you don’t know how they’ll take it.
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The longer you wait the more it will hurt. Sometimes you must be cruel to be kind
just tell them u r not
Yea, especially that is a friend of yours, how should one gently give subtle hints of rejection without harming the friendship?
me rn
Amanda's voice is pure silver. Gorgeous.
I have a few things to say. One, these videos are so very soothing and actually interesting AND they've helped me identify many many things about myself. Two, do you have any community for the fans of the channel? Like a facebook group or a discord server? Three, thank you so much for pumping out all of this content, it really does help and I'm sure many others agree that it's absolutely amazing.
Yup, I’ve agreed and honestly they’re so interesting!!!
Absolutely love everything about your vidoes, the concepts, the animation, the audio.. everything! Please keep going 💖
Thank you so much for your feedback! We will definitely keep this up, what other videos would you like to see from us?
@@Psych2go Hi, if you could make a video on what to do if we start experiencing monotonocity in our life? How to make everyday interesting?, Also maybe on how to deal with a professional failure?
Thank you for asking me this question, it shows how much you care for your viewers 🪷
Attraction isn't necessarily sexual, these signs can easily apply to someone who's romantically attracted, and not sexually
Absolutely! Attraction isn't strictly sexual and can certainly be romantic without feeling sexually attracted to someone. Thank you for pointing it out! :)
@@Psych2go romance is sexual ever read a romance novel
@@nathanpoirier7200
As a Human, i can confirm.
@@nathanpoirier7200 have some recommendations?
Except for aces
Multiple of these definitely apply to people I know, definitely 100% not a doubt on my mind
I smell sarcasm
Like I've said before, bro reminds that I am single in every possible way😭
Same here, lol
You're not alone there.
Never give up hope, just focus on being the best version of yourself and you may one day find yourself being authentically charming and sweet with someone who enjoys these things about you. Trust me, I always struggled, but now, whether I'm single or dating, things are good. I'm comfortable with myself and treat people with genuine kindness and fun and I've noticed that it's magnetic to many people. Some people don't get it or won't care, but that's okay, I just allow them to be themselves and move on, no hard feelings.
@@davearvelo thanks brother.
@@dharshansenthilkumar9492 Good luck and have fun!
Happy Wednesday everyone hope you had a good day and if you didn’t tomorrow will be better!
Thank you for much! We are wishing you an amazing Wednesday too
Can you do a video about how to engage with someone you like to see if they are interested in you, and how to ask them on a date? For those of us who are socially challenged, like me.
Interesting idea! If we were to make a video on this, what would you like us to cover? What points would you like to see?
@@Psych2go I have social anxiety, and it is so hard for me to approach women I am attracted to. I have no dating skills due to lack of hardly any dating. So maybe the basics of how to approach someone you’re attracted to, with the goal of ask them out. Even though I’m 32, I have the dating skills of a 14 or 16 year old probably tbh. I missed out on a lot and how to date and the like. Very, very little practice! Also, maybe places where people with social anxiety, and introverted personalities can meet people too. I would like to be able to approach a girl that I am attracted to at a store or well anywhere. Maybe it’s too much to ask for in a video?
@@theoutsider1020 i am in totally same condition.... The girl i like idk if she likes me or not and I am too shy to ask and we just talk about random things a video about this would really help😊
Have you ever seen the air pick up dust and spin it in a tiny whirlwind at your feet? The twirling particles reveal the current. Without this demonstration, the wind might remain invisible and whir by unnoticed.
Your habits demonstrate self-respect in the same way. Your inner regard is made manifest through your actions.
The next time you sense a breeze upon your face, let it remind you of the power within. Remember each time you follow through on a habit, you’ve just given form to the current of self-respect that stirs inside.
Thank you so much for subtitles in video! As a non-english speaker, I always turn them on but it often blocks some information. But now everything is just perfect💜
You speak English perfectly fine wtf
@@shouldbageneral2456 thank you!!
Congrats on 10 mil!
Thank you so much for your support and being apart of the community!
CONGRATULATIONS ON 10M EVEN THOUGH IT HAPPENED A WHILE AGO!!! i could never...
Thank you for being a part of our journey! Have you been following us for a while? What topics/videos do you like from our channel?
@@Psych2go i remember watching these videos at night with my brother to see what we should come to expect in the future. we both think your channel is helpful no matter what kind of topic we watch!
A lot of girls have told me that i'm pretty attractive, i personally don't see it but i guess it's my personality.
That's definitely a great sign when people tell you that you're attractive! Did you find any of the points in the video relatable?
@@Psych2go i'm a bit tone def at times, but people mostly just comment on my look, outfit, hair etc. I don't immediately recall if their pupils were dialated or if they were sweating, but they normally seem rather focused on me, even if only a bit
Some of these signs can be a bit deceiving. I mean looking at someone and making eye contact is just a sign of respect.
2:35 so, cartoon characters are SEXUALLY attracted to pies? lol
Thank you for making these videos ❤❤❤
You are so welcome! What other videos would you like to see from us?
(Signs school is stressing you out)
i could fall asleep to your voice, it’s so soothing, makes me so relaxed.
Thx 4 the great vid i have noticed the 3rd point as a universal sign of attention to some one u like cuz it allows u take in as mutch info on there facial expiration to see if they like u back the same way the reason your face gets red is because to get more blood to your brain to allow u 2 think better (only my personal theory)
No way, I just realized that my friend started picking up some of my things, like saying "epic" and structuring a similar steam page description to mine-
Narcissists also do this
I guess no one’s ever been attracted to me because I don’t recall ever seeing any of these signs. Can’t say I’m surprised
Real
maybe that person just doesnt show these signs or ur not looking hard enough
also just saying if anyone does confess to you. try to calm down, even when u dont like them back. I made the mistake of being scared and didnt give the best response : (
I have they just space out I notice like when I’m talking I don’t think they like me and their not thinking about me also I was walking and they saw me they laughed with their friends I feel like they see me as a joke and their entertainment I feel played and messed with they always switch on me
I like these they talk about this stuff in such a mature manner
We can talk about this maturely because our audience is also very mature! :)
I like this channel, makes me feel calm
Thank you! What about our videos make you feel calm?
@@Psych2go I think is just your voices and how you guys talk.
A possible one is that they stare at you and this also applies for girls too as I've had a girl look at me from a distance multiple times in her house and she even told me something really personal even though I hadn't known her for a while
Do you mean that if girls stare at you this means they're attracted to you in that moment?
@Nawang Sangchoju I think it applies to all that when we stare at someone and it's automatic, we are sexually attracted to them but only for a while. Sometimes you think about them again afterward or you just say "meh" and forget about it.
I'm saying possible because I don't know if this counts
I've really felt this channel is kind of a safe space.. thank you psych2go for everything..
Thank you so much for telling us! We want to ask, why do you feel that Psych2Go is a safe space? What have we been doing and can be doing in the future that can create a safer space for everyone?
@@Psych2go and thank you.. really.. for replying..
well.. i feel Psych2Go is a safe space because like.. the channel is like a 'good parent', always there for you in every situation, telling you what to do, telling you who you are [the 'which personality are you' typed vids], warning you stuff [like the toxic friends video] and also with a gentle approach if you're doing something wrong yourself [like the toxic friends video but here, you're being toxic] and also videos on how to fix stuff like that and to be better, and very good advices and like this video too, telling you how to know if someone wants you and such..
the animations i feel are also a big part of making people feel safe watching the vids as it's kind of peaceful.. ofcourse humans can be good no doubts but animations hit different as they're cute most of the time and can be used in multiple ways , which is really a notable feature you've been doing for a loong time that makes people feel safer and also that the voiceover isn't dark nor too loud and like, the accents too, the voices are really really calming which is also a good thing
for the future though, i feel you can make the channel a safe space for more people by simply existing.. seriously, there's nothing more to do with all these perks, if i think a lot and kind of analyse though, maybe there can be occasional videos on no specific topics but rather just comforting words and such.. i think I've seen atleast one video like this before and you could continue doing that.. [ like showing appreciation and reassuring everything's gonna be ok and other such comforting words, just like motivational stuff ]
@@Psych2go i hope my reply isn't too big xD
and once again, thank you so much for existing.. , Psych2Go :) i really hope all of you are going through good times
The more I watch these videos, the more excited I get but I’m also getting mixed signals..?
funnily enough me and 3 of my closest friends all share at least a few signs of attractions, although for 1 of them it's just how close we are that makes it seem that way, for another in particular though we both know about our sexual tension for each other and we do absolutely all of these lol (in short these signs either mean you're close in general or you're totally down for that person)
are you able to make a video about Do's and Dont's in a Polyamorous Relationship? I had recently joined one and don't know anything on what I should do and what I shouldn't do.
Yes of course! We can definitely do that for you :)
You might also want to just ask the other people in the relationship. I'm not in one so idk but I'm pretty sure asking will make everything much easier
The first and most important don't is to not join one
I needed it ! Thanks ^^ !
You are very welcome! What did you learn from this video?
@@Psych2go that even though sexual attraction is good , it can end up bad tho! It's why we should be careful
(Just a small fact)
This animation style is the best style ive ever seen, i remember when the team of Psych2Go used it 2 years ago ;)
Wow we are so happy to hear that! It seems like you really keep your eyes out when it comes to our animation
@@Psych2go hell yeah!
I'm always coming back to these videos when I have a crush on someone
Yeah same
Yup, im sleeping alone till the end of time watching your videos.
I'm glad i don't need autotune. So, i thought my voice sounded weird around my crush, but it didn't
new subtitles, your channel is getting better !!
He does all of these guys!!!
I have a crush on someone(a coworker of mine) but unfortunately he’s taken. He’s a bit of a flirt though because there was one day that I was subbing for a colleague of mine and after I said hi to another co-worker (who I look up to like an older brother), when he saw me, his eyes widened and his face lit up. He then said in Spanish “It’s so great to see you!”, he pulled me close to hug and kiss me on the cheek, I almost fell on my back but he picked me back up to prevent me from falling and we continued hugging (This guy is really tall around 6’5 or something). There are two female coworkers that are like all over him ( I don’t blame them, he’s incredibly handsome) so I usually keep my distance when he’s with them but sometimes when I keep my distance, he won’t want to talk to them, he’ll want to talk to me.
I’ve never felt this single😂😂😂 absolutely no one does this to/with me😂😂😂
You can try this on someone else! Is there anyone that you're interested in that you can try these strategies on?
@@Psych2go not really 🤷♂️ here in Reno NV, there aren’t too many single women around my age. No joke, Hinge is now showing me women 50+ (I’m 25 fyi lol)
I have noticed I have been experiencing point 1, a rise in body temperature and also heart rate increasing when I know a girl I like is nearby…
So, I take the train everyday to work and there’s this pretty girl I see almost everytime on the way to and back. Occasionally I see her looking in my direction but being a nervous person I try hard to not make it obvious I look at her sometimes too. We’ve spoken like fewer than 10 words over the months 😅
Shall I just say screw it and talk to her? If so, after we get off the train in the morning, before the train arrives in the evening, or on the train?
Yeah you should go talk to her!
maybe try waving at her and making your way up from there! establish a friendly relationship
I actually saw these signs to them and he confessed to me that he has feelings to me 😭
That’s great
damn, that luck
I could dream for someone to be attracted to me...
You can make your dream into a reality
@@Psych2go i hope so!
Most likely never gonna need this advice but I love watching your videos anyway.
Thank you for watching our videos! And we want to ask, how come? Why don't you feel like you would ever need advice when it comes to intimate relationships?
The f.r.i.e.n.d.s reference was too perfect
who tf out here sexually attracted to a pie 💀
uh me?? Piesexuals exist out there you know, what you said is homophobic.
@@odenkozukii oh no forgive me of my deadly crimes
“Why is there a hole in the pie?” ☠️☠️
Your voice is so good! Tbh your videos like lullaby with your charming voice, so thanks for this!
Thank you for making videos! It heps me to understand psychology better
Thank you for watching the videos! What other topics/videos would you like to see in our channel?
@@Psych2go, how to know if your friends are fake ? If you already have video like this please give a link
HELP, MY FRIEND TOLD ME SHE ALWAYS NOTICES MY HALLWAY CRUSH LOOKING AT ME WHENEVER WE WALK PAST HIM, AND HE NEVER LOOKS AT HER, AND ONE TIME WHEN WE SAW HIM IN THE CITY, HE EVEN STARTED SMIRKING WHEN HE SAW US, I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO THINK THIS COULD LITERALLY MEAN ANYTHING AAAAAAAAAA I'M SO CONFLICTED
Now even if this stuff is not 100% true or what ever, it's still fun to watch and gain some dating knowledge. And heck I know many others have said this, but the audio is ASMR to the ears.
Comparing my husband to my past boyfriends (a few): it took the least amount of “effort” with my husband. No mind games, no guessing, and DEFINITELY no waiting around to see who would make the first move or whatever. None of that stuff. We just would talk (we worked together at a retail store) and I would literally never feel awkward around him. But, I was extremely interested in getting to know him much better, so we were friends first, but would send emails like we were already dating (more risqué talking) Nothing was more obvious to just go out on that first date 😂 The rest is history and 24 years later we’re still excellent communicators.
YOU’LL JUST KNOW. Even at 18…I knew.
i am taking a psychology class and my teacher makes me hate the subject. they arent good at teaching it and rather we research subjects they didnt even properly explain to us at all. watching your videos keeps my love for psychology alive
I used to experience the sweating back in high school. Had to actually change me shirts often. Looking into this, it was mostly a electrolytic imbalance.
Was the sweating also related to romantic feelings? Or was it mostly involuntary due to the electrolytic imbalance?
@@Psych2go Both, I would say. This was quite common for me during high school as I was an avid athlete back then. I would say poor diet, being active and a teenager was a trifecta of this particular issue.
i know this definitely isn't me but i couldn't help but be really curious reading the title of the video
Never felt that for anyone, just romantic feelings. Always thought it was some exaggerating thing from the movies until my husband told me "yeah it's a thing"
Absolutely perfect now i can cut anyone out in my life that shows these signs. I don't have time to deal with love. I'm on the grind to be the best version of myself.
Could you do a video on how introverts/really shy people do and act. idk if u alr did a vid on this, I think that this would be a really idea. I have been someone whos really shy since I was young, and I find that sometimes some of the points are not relatable for me or solutions are something I can't do or am too scared to do. Videos like that would be really helpful for me. thank you for your time.
Oh and also what are some signs of knowing when I really really REALLY like someone to a point I should tell them if I find out that they have the possibilities of returning feelings bc I feel like I have reached that point but I am unsure.
I agree, shy / introverted people act differently. They stare from afar, they blush, they "ignore" you, if you talk to them they panic / they seem startled and then embarrassed... avoid direct eye contact... etc.
Yay! The artstyle is bac!!!
Do you do the audio, and animation!?!?!? I always notice that the animation style is different, and you put so much effort and research into your videos, and you post regularly. Is it really just you?
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Hey, that's Jay from Lookism!
Well, a nice video to end my day
We are happy to hear that our video ends your day!
I am watching these vids hoping that I may recognize some behavior but I have yet to se a single human soul to show me these signs💀
Can you imagine watching this video at work?
I just did
@@Jk-oz5qn nice
The Orange scarf Man is back... Dark empath!!!
idk what to get out of this vid but second character in the thumbnail is too cute
We hope you can use this video to keep on the lookout in case someone is attracted to you!
I'm looking back over my life and seeing some stuff that happened and now those memories have this deafening whooshing noise...
When your crush looks strait into your eyes and you can see her pupils gets huge. Me knowing psychology that she has a crush too, OMG that feeling. Love you lady ❤❤
I still can't think of sexual things about my highschool crush and that was some 25 years ago, some of us see love and sex as two completely separate things. This is a hard pill to swallow to most women, because most women think sex is all we care about, sometimes we use sex to forget we're not in love.
Maybe you’re asexual or demi sexual
I am sexually attracted and in love with my crush, and i think my crush does too
Here I was singing Hellfire whenever I found someone attractive! 😅
Bro, he’s so much more different when we’re calling
I've never been attracted to anyone sexually before so this was... intresting
Before you get attracted and enter into a relationship make sure to prepare your mind...
What if they leave ?
There is always a possibility but keep a positive and open mind
Something that helped me get over both of my exes was realizing that they were valuable learning experiences for me. I can go into the next relationship with a better perspective and strategy. Of course, some would say rationalizing everything takes the fun out of relationships, but I'd argue that it's important to strike a balance between rationality and irrationality.
I've never had a girl do any of this to me.
Being in top physical condition, durable, and athletic, mean nothing if one is rectally ugly. That unfortunate description has fallen upon me. However, I realise this. With that most depressing of knowledge, I know that absolutely nobody could ever be sexually attracted to me nor attracted to me for any reason at all, unless it is to use, betray, and then painfully abandoned me. There is no reason to even consider if someone finds me attractive. The answer will always be the same. Thus, I do not even notice the way others look at me. It would pose no relevance to notice the way others perceive me.
Recently, a guy (gay and 32) and I (gay man and 25) vibed very well in person. He said I am handsome, sweet, and attractive. He asked to kiss me after we met and chatted for an hour and we then made out passionately nd aggressively. He felt my bulge and he grabbed my hand to feel his.
I asked him on a date and he said he has been in seven relationships and needs time for himself and to be single. He said we can be casual friends and move slowly.
After some text messages to ask to hang out and perhaps fool around, he said he was going to relax last Friday.
Yesterday, after sending nudes, he said I was not his type.
I am aware of my abandonment issues and working with a therapist. However, I thought he was romantically and sexually interested...until this occurred. Today was the first day of large depression settling in. I hope to be stronger daily.
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being able to know these signs is helpful, I think, for both knowing what to spot from someone you want or like and it can also be helpful, i think, to be able to use these and use them for yourself in order to show whoever you like that you are attracted to them. nevertheless, this was a super informative video❤
Im really careful not to put the cart before the horse. I have a crush 🥰. He's very kind, soft spoken, shy, wise, and more 😊. We met on a dating app and again when he found me on another. He has a job where he has fans but lately ive noticed when he talks, it has changed. When he is on screen, talking to his fans. Its very up played, sensual, getting people's attention. And he use to talk like that a bit with me during our private chats. We both know we are interested in each other but a bit unsure where to take it. I decided to take a leap of faith and called him sunshine as well as wishing him and his cat a good morning. I decided on sunshine as a cute way to address him. Not ranchy, not to much. Something cute and safe. Well, the recent audio recording he sent me, i immediately noticed a chance in his voice. It was far more relaxed, he wasnt preforming. He was calm and even laughed a bit. He sounded so different than when he is streaming. I dont if its just my ears or he really is starting to warm up to me. He's also allowed himself to be vulnerable with me too. I will play it by ear, stick to being kind and wait out a few more month. But i can tell that calling him sunshine definitely had a positive reaction in him so ill find other cute names and sprinkle them in every week. Im thinking 'Dewdrop' for next week. Or how about 'Honeydew'? Maybe 'Honey Bee'?😊
Me realizing I do these things yet I’m asexual and do this thinking most people do that to people they like *platonically*
*frick*
Yeeeee, no one's attracted to me. That's probably fine though. Doubt I'm ready.
I sweat when I’m uncomfortable
So stand with your hands in the air, if someone does the same then they like you.
I don't think it works that way but if you keep doing it and they start copying you I think yes that might be a sign. I started copying stuff my crush was saying and started acting more like them. I started copying them like intentionally but I think that somethings I copied unintentionally.
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. It seems like it's impossible for men and women to emotionally connect with each other.
I heard that gay and lesbian couples are happier than straight couples are, and I heard that gay and lesbian relationships are healthier than straight relationships are. The more similar you are to someone, the more easier it is to bond and connect with them.
People of the same sex/gender understand each other more easily, and there are no inbuilt societal power imbalances as there are between opposite-sex couples. Gay and lesbian couples understand each other better than straight couples do (due to them being the same gender as each other).
I heard that most straight couples are not happy being together, and I heard that people who are straight are much happier and much better off being single than they are being in a romantic relationship.
It's happened over a several years span...
Am I the only one to wait years because it wasn't allowed???
There's a couple more, her crossing her legs or biting her lips...
Okay, the last one happened to me as well...
The part about having her explicit consent is obvious
I'd never force myself on her, or on anyone else
I really enjoyed this video I wish she went in more detail as the sons of sexual attraction because for everyone the science are different
Yup, nobody is attracted to me
bold to assume anyone is attracted to me in any way
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This voice is making me think devious things
I’m attracted to this video
Wheee I loved getting to see the human versions of the cute chibi avatars we know \^v^/