Story Time! I Dated A Married Man!

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 14 ต.ค. 2024
  • As a Mature woman I speak to you from the heart. What I went through with this guy was so hurtful and I still especially after doing this video hurt from all that happen. When I view some of the videos and I hear people speaking of people in such disrespectful tones...it saddens me. I wonder if they really ever spoke to the person involved, do they know the answer to the question of did she/he know. Why are you so angry with the other person? Even if they did actually know and cheated anyway...harassment to them why? Have respect for your self... discuss and walk away. I personally have been cheated on several times (and remember there are various ways of cheating) I have had conversations with the people involved but each time I remained cool and I prove myself to be the better person. Why people cheat is a mystery one of which may never be solved because for each person the reasons vary. I'm not here to judge if you have cheated, why you cheated it's truly not my place. I will ask that you think and think carefully before you do something that you can't take back...yes you can be forgiven but you can't undo it. To the people that feel it's ok to lie about their relationships...why? How far will that get you? So you may have sex a few minutes of fun times with the person but the pain and destruction you leave behind...do you know just what that can cause??? We're not perfect...I have made many mistakes in my life and in relationships but I own up to anything I have done. As I have gained wisdom with my age and experiences. I know that all things aren't black and white the color gray is real. I know the reality of the gray area. Things do happened...do we....we must learn from them...yes people can change. You may be wondering as I know many do...the thin area between I'm separated but not legally divorced...what does that mean?? We'll in an honest discussion between the people involved you decide...key word being honest!! Can a person cheat and still be a good person?? Yes they can...it's how you handle the situation that makes all the difference in the world....remember none of us are perfect! This information is based on how I view things not that I claim to know any or all of the answers...I'm just sharing. Please comment and share any experiences you may have had there is power in speaking...Love each and everyone of you...God Bless

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  • @_ladiosanegra
    @_ladiosanegra ปีที่แล้ว

    pure gold. youre such a sweetheart and honorable woman. youdidint owe her anything!🧿

  • @thegoose263
    @thegoose263 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You tried your best to keep any drama away from your son and it still creeped in. Like you said learning experience, but also for your son as well. Once he's all grown up he'll know what not to do.
    Although no guarantee, but women need to enforce wearing the ring at all times. I see so many excuses why not to wear the ring. My wife on it quickly if no ring on my finger. Hopefully you've healed, as you look distraught still telling the story.

  • @diannaedwards7805
    @diannaedwards7805 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sounds like my story. He was an attorney, she was an attorney and there were 3 kids. He hurt me as I was not the side chick I was one of multiple side chicks. I was hurt but I made the decision to walk away.

  • @eemeekable
    @eemeekable 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    That noise is terrifying! Literally scared me. I was already feeling some type of way though, listening to your story... anywho 💕

    • @meekmeeek
      @meekmeeek 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      eemeekable it scared me to kml

  • @thelmajohnson4819
    @thelmajohnson4819 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    First things first, I so love the hair. It is so very pretty. Now, the story, I was in somewhat of the same situation where the guy lied about his status. The female never wants to stand up to the man and confront them , it is always the other person's fault. I guess it is just hard for them to think that the guy would do anything against them.

    • @inner2outerbeauty101
      @inner2outerbeauty101  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thelma johnson yes it seems easier to blame the female...thanks I'm loving my hair these days 🤗

    • @danieldeluca4936
      @danieldeluca4936 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      In polygyny, there is no blame to be thrown around. Just love.

  • @ezapatazz
    @ezapatazz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The "self destruct sequence activated" totally threw me into a panic mid story. Lol!

    • @20808228
      @20808228 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lilu lol did that too and threw my phone away thinking its going to self destruct....

  • @arentUlovely
    @arentUlovely 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, Sheila, this is truly a story of strength on your part. Fortunately, our hiccups in life can make us stronger and can be used to help others get through similar situations.

  • @meekmeeek
    @meekmeeek 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for your story I've been through this as well very horrible feeling

  • @grandmaven3752
    @grandmaven3752 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great story time...I admire your decision to move on. Tough lesson but you seem to have been made stronger for the experience.

    • @inner2outerbeauty101
      @inner2outerbeauty101  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TheBohemianSol yes it was a tough thing to go through but I'm stronger and wiser for the experience!

  • @kindnessmoments
    @kindnessmoments 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful story and you're such a beautiful person. Bless you for sharing your experience. ❤️

  • @jenniferamelia5589
    @jenniferamelia5589 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing.. Women like us must be strong!

  • @isanaallday9744
    @isanaallday9744 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great story! You demonstrated great strength. 👍🏽

  • @rhonawilliams8677
    @rhonawilliams8677 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He will deceive that wife again.Some of these women too blind to see their husband is wrong.Their marriage in serious problems.

    • @danieldeluca4936
      @danieldeluca4936 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      There is no deception or wrong in concurrent polygyny. The only thing wrong is serial polygyny, because it rips apart the fabric of the home that he has with wife #1.

  • @immonica8734
    @immonica8734 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, you handle that situation well.

  • @mecca115able
    @mecca115able 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gf I fixed my ex.. karma we all been there, see everyone bash us. Not the stinking man. My trust level right now . I can't stand , dating. So many of these human wreckage out there it's sad. See I called his ex we had a good talk. Like u said the story is not what it seems. Put it this way I got paid.. took him to court.

    • @danieldeluca4936
      @danieldeluca4936 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you and the Ex get along so well, why can you not both be married to the same man?

  • @carljrmommy
    @carljrmommy 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great story!

  • @marysutton434
    @marysutton434 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just remember it wasn't your fault.

  • @ayopryor8498
    @ayopryor8498 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Went ugly because you were too foward. Assumption is a terrible thing. You should have let her in and then watch.

  • @AsiaticDisciple
    @AsiaticDisciple 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was just wondering if you are married now? I know a quality gentleman the would love to get to know you.

  • @leniyemsvictorero2360
    @leniyemsvictorero2360 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I. Believe you
    You are a.good person

  • @purplet72walker72
    @purplet72walker72 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great story

  • @dequadrewalton2582
    @dequadrewalton2582 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    cute older lady