Recently I was thinking about word reputation for a while,(like self talk) what it is really,why does it matter etc. Then a phrase pops in my head like " what is reputation? Just a community of people with similar opinion of you negative/positive,attacking you or showering you with love" like Is it really worth questioning yourself based on that when you know the reality? Like not every one has same level of awareness,outlook?then why would there be one reputation of you?- like reputation jesa kuch hai hi nhi!- sab alag sochte hai just because they are maybe collectively around or the comment section doesn't make it the only opinion that is true. As you said focusing on you, this would really make way to reach to your people. Like minded people do exist out there,it just requires you to be authentic to identify. Like even though i know all this,but to phrase it out that phrase came to my mind :D Felt to share :>>
People's comments matter, from an evolutionary perspective. We are evolved to feel good when someone appreciates us, giving us a dopamine hit. This is why it is so hard to ignore people. Everything that gives us a dopamine hit is hard to ignore and control.
Yeah, who doesn't feel nice when they're complimented or appreciated but it becomes a problem when that external source of validation is the only source of the pleasure or acknowledgement you seek. One should first find it within.
@@SB-tq2xj yea, like when we know ourself like have our reality check,then its easy to identify which are genuine and which are not im saying in that sense( by focusing on you)
@eeshadhawale8310 Got it. Like to add one other thing. Hard-wired psyche is the reason most self-help content seldom work - it is hard to go against evolutionary instincts. We are all one short morality gap away from civility and anarchy.
Recently I was thinking about word reputation for a while,(like self talk) what it is really,why does it matter etc. Then a phrase pops in my head like " what is reputation? Just a community of people with similar opinion of you negative/positive,attacking you or showering you with love" like Is it really worth questioning yourself based on that when you know the reality? Like not every one has same level of awareness,outlook?then why would there be one reputation of you?- like reputation jesa kuch hai hi nhi!- sab alag sochte hai just because they are maybe collectively around or the comment section doesn't make it the only opinion that is true.
As you said focusing on you, this would really make way to reach to your people. Like minded people do exist out there,it just requires you to be authentic to identify.
Like even though i know all this,but to phrase it out that phrase came to my mind :D
Felt to share :>>
So true!!! I love the mindful insight u have, it's wonderful ❤️🩹❤️🩹
People's comments matter, from an evolutionary perspective. We are evolved to feel good when someone appreciates us, giving us a dopamine hit. This is why it is so hard to ignore people. Everything that gives us a dopamine hit is hard to ignore and control.
Yeah, who doesn't feel nice when they're complimented or appreciated but it becomes a problem when that external source of validation is the only source of the pleasure or acknowledgement you seek. One should first find it within.
@@SB-tq2xj yea, like when we know ourself like have our reality check,then its easy to identify which are genuine and which are not im saying in that sense( by focusing on you)
@eeshadhawale8310 Got it. Like to add one other thing. Hard-wired psyche is the reason most self-help content seldom work - it is hard to go against evolutionary instincts. We are all one short morality gap away from civility and anarchy.