What Puerto Ricans Think About Dating Gringos 💋

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  • @goseemekah
    @goseemekah ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Awww that young man just warmed my heart. Idk how I even got here, but I'm happy I'm here. ❤

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad you enjoyed 😌 Thanks for stopping by

  • @Mistaking03
    @Mistaking03 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    My wife is from Puerto Rico. We have 2 kids together. Im a gringo 😅. I absolutely love the culture..

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤️

    • @adamlopez3561
      @adamlopez3561 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I used to think Puerto rican women were like that nice actress from the Wedding Planner but I was wrong.

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @adamlopez3561 haha what do you mean

    • @adamlopez3561
      @adamlopez3561 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@dougkalagian Thought Puerto Rican girls were like Jennifer Lopez from Wedding Planner but I don't think they are.

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @adamlopez3561 haha dang I haven’t seen it. What was her character like ?

  • @coreysmith2774
    @coreysmith2774 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I'm a gringo and I have been married to my beautiful Puerto Rican wife for over 13 years, and wouldn't change it for the world. Best part is sharing the traditions and foods.

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Love it, thank you for sharing!

    • @jrx2662
      @jrx2662 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      you'll one bless guy!

  • @hippiewithacowboyhat
    @hippiewithacowboyhat ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Man, that last guy brought a tear to my eyes. The lines on a map dont matter, we are much bigger than that. Well said !!!

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  ปีที่แล้ว

      💯 agree, I teared up while filming 🥲

  • @jungulbuny3159
    @jungulbuny3159 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm a man from Mayaguez Puerto Rico and I've been married to my American wife for 28 years and we have 2 wonderful kids. I absolutely love my wife and she loves me. We are going to be grandparents in a few months and life is great. Love can found and if you do, please don't be afraid to compromise and make sacrifices as both have to make sure we provide a good life for our kids and us.

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s great! Thanks for sharing. Did you guys end up living in PR or the mainland?

    • @jungulbuny3159
      @jungulbuny3159 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We live in the mainland but we visit the island every 2 years or so. We like to keep our kids close to family from the island and we enjoy the culture.

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @jungulbuny3159 awesome! I’m a gringo and my fiancé is boricua. When we have kids we’re thinking the same thing, to at least take them for a month out of the year if possible so they can identify with the culture

    • @jungulbuny3159
      @jungulbuny3159 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @thenearhorizon Hope you have a long happy and exciting life together. Thank you for the kind words.

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @jungulbuny3159 igualmente! Gracias! 🙏🏻

  • @dianegron
    @dianegron ปีที่แล้ว +10

    We do intermarry A LOT and shamelessly. If you’re nice to us, you have a marriage for life. If you don’t, hide.

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  ปีที่แล้ว +3

    • @dianegron
      @dianegron 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@andrew.kusuma It means we will actually have a genealogy, generations to live on. It means our culture will enrich the world and will be enriched by other’s. It means we will survive and thrive while others opted out. Basically , the world is ours.

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @andrew.kusuma this response brought to you by ChatGPT 🤣

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@dianegron I hid him from the channel, which hides all his past and future comments. I 100% support healthly dialogue and conversation, which is why I make content - but he admitted to having chatgpt type out his multi-paragraph response which to me is spammy, and then he used profanity to insult me lol.

    • @dianegron
      @dianegron 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@dougkalagian 😯 Thought it was you being weird. My apologies.

  • @echohunter4199
    @echohunter4199 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I’m a typical white American man and fell in love with a Puerto Rican lady 33 years ago, we’re still happily married and we made two daughters together. I went to Spanish language school at night to learn Spanish to better understand her family and culture.

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That’s a very sweet story, thank you for sharing!!

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Have you become fluent in Spanish?

    • @echohunter4199
      @echohunter4199 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@dougkalagian it depends on who I speak with since there’s a LOT of different dialects and they often use different words that confuse the hell out of me but, with Puerto Ricans and Cubans I understand them just fine. I’d place myself at around 40% fluent but when I’m in PR or Spain and I’m surrounded by Spanish speakers it pushes me to learn and speak more Spanish and I don’t have a typical guero accent. Watching TV commercials where some white guy is speaking Spanish horribly is like listening to fingernails on a chalkboard.

    • @anactaneustheeleventh2542
      @anactaneustheeleventh2542 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @echohunter4199
      👍 Nice!!!

  • @willusmaximus6985
    @willusmaximus6985 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Puerto Rico! Stand up, rise up. Wake up. Stop getting into car accidents sleeping on your smart phones! Being loud on your motorcycles and with your music! Puerto Rico, drop your pride, and enter a state of humility. Act like the true Christians you claim to be. Stop putting up a superficial front. Drop your pride. Drop your pride. Drop your pride. Your children are watching you.

  • @731fault
    @731fault ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What do you mean when you say gringo? Is a white European or a person that speak English from the united States Regardless of color?

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great question! We made a video on that very topic: th-cam.com/video/QxaHA3aQBsY/w-d-xo.html

    • @dianegron
      @dianegron 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@731fault Gringo is a foreigner (usually English-speaking, but it could speak Greek, Russian, Chinese, etc.) that doesn’t speak Spanish or can’t be understood by Spanish speakers.

  • @joa1469
    @joa1469 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    No bad experience with Americans never again I stay with my Hispanic born in the island 🏝️!

    • @user-ub8uc8gq7r
      @user-ub8uc8gq7r ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You wouldn’t date us Hawaiians?

    • @Ramonwise716
      @Ramonwise716 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I feel the same way. The value system is different. In the Island we put family over everything. In the U.S and most other places, the object is to leave as soon as possible and the in laws are shunned and treated like crap. They act like they have to pick a side for everything. We have massive family get togethers flr everything. They do it once a year and call it a family reunion. There is no warmth or culture in the US it's a gender war, and life is work, home, work home, work, home u til you are old and grey. Hell no. Give me my Puerto Rican woman with nice nalgas who can cook, and we can take our family to the placita to party and enjoy the holidays instead of being stuck working on the holidays.

    • @Ramonwise716
      @Ramonwise716 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-ub8uc8gq7r Sure. Same island warmth!;-)

    • @Toxic_Diamonds
      @Toxic_Diamonds 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm half Puerto Rican and half Canadian. Idk what to say to that tbh. I said the same thing when I had a bad experience with an African American guy (I'm a girl). I was like never again, sorry. I don't hate the race, but I just wouldn't date one again. He cheated on me and some other things I can't even say here.

    • @joa1469
      @joa1469 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Toxic_Diamonds is the culture is different and if they didn’t have example even worse

  • @JahLives
    @JahLives ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Gringo is a term that is used to describe American Citizens. Puerto Ricans are also American citizens.

    • @alejandroangel5908
      @alejandroangel5908 ปีที่แล้ว

      now its used against white americans

    • @hectormunoz7966
      @hectormunoz7966 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Puerto Ricans with statutory citizenship. It's like telling a Sicilian that he's Italian. We represent Puerto Rico as it's own entity during world games, etc. blessings.

    • @coquireport
      @coquireport 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @JahLives No! Gringo mean foreigner

    • @James-i3r5g
      @James-i3r5g 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jah is JAH mi vida I love Puerto Rico esse fantastico... nevermind I'm a crazy diamond

    • @James-i3r5g
      @James-i3r5g 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hehe

  • @e.rivera4251
    @e.rivera4251 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Take note in PR "gringo" is the same as "American" or "from the states" or the north. We like to put short names to everything to describe their origin. Do not associate this term with something bad.

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      👏🏻💙🌟

  • @aztecmayatainowarrior
    @aztecmayatainowarrior 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Me personal as a taino to each of there own i wouldnt we are completely different and its unequally yoked i stay to my own

  • @KevenCulp-m9m
    @KevenCulp-m9m ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The girl at the 1:27 mark is beautiful.. wow

  • @wattacatch3040
    @wattacatch3040 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    No, no and no. Relationships are already difficult, stay within your own culture, beliefs, values, etc.. . .everyone can relate and be much happier.generally. I love my Puerto Rican culture, the people, the music, our identity our love for our land can only truly be shared and understood by and with another Puerto Rican. Que viva mi gente, mi cultura y mi tierra, PAN, TIERRA Y LIBERTAD!

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for sharing!

  • @reneeracine2240
    @reneeracine2240 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Id rather just have them only to breed with each other so the race won't wipe out.

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  ปีที่แล้ว

      So no marrying gringos?

    • @reneeracine2240
      @reneeracine2240 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dougkalagian probably not to be on safe side

    • @Billy-qv7dc
      @Billy-qv7dc ปีที่แล้ว

      ​​@@reneeracine2240Are you ignorant or stupid?Or both?The overwhelming majority of Puerto Ricans are racially mixed.To various degrees.Nothing is worse than ignorance....Read....

    • @JahLives
      @JahLives ปีที่แล้ว

      Puerto Rican isn't a race.

    • @Toxic_Diamonds
      @Toxic_Diamonds 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@reneeracine2240Puerto Rican is an ethnicity, not a race!

  • @7Forest7
    @7Forest7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very romantic

  • @Aliensgoboom94
    @Aliensgoboom94 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would absolutely love to date a Puerto Rican my gooodness I would love them forever . 😮 seem like such down to earth nice warm people. I love how they all put the high perspective on love !! 💕 ❤❤❤❤ and not so much race !

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah love is what matters in the end 😌

  • @relaxionlife9200
    @relaxionlife9200 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wait are puerto ricans not Americans?

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They are Americans and have US citizenship, but have limitations on their rights while living in Puerto Rico. For instance, they can’t vote in US presidential elections. But if they moved to the mainland they would have all the same privileges.
      Even though they have citizenship, many Puerto Ricans don’t consider themselves Americans.

  • @Areasur6
    @Areasur6 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I always dreamed of marrying a gringa but they always rejected me 😅

  • @fnsilly8983
    @fnsilly8983 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aka wht guys

  • @sunnyzaman
    @sunnyzaman หลายเดือนก่อน

    Trump has really polluted a video like this. It seems like a beautiful culture.

  • @jrx2662
    @jrx2662 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    remember puerto ricans are american's too!

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The Complexity of Puerto Rico and U.S. Identity
      th-cam.com/video/9pUUeQcTTp0/w-d-xo.html

  • @elicordero4019
    @elicordero4019 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What the hell is a gringo?

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good question! We made a video on that topic. Puerto Ricans define the word gringo and then explain their feelings:
      th-cam.com/video/QxaHA3aQBsY/w-d-xo.html

    • @luketornblad4605
      @luketornblad4605 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      To put it simply, it's a foreigner. But if you're from Mexico, specifically, due to some American units during the Mexican-American War (1836-46) wearing green uniforms, they were called Gringos

    • @leighcoto2658
      @leighcoto2658 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😆

  • @leslielajaeee
    @leslielajaeee 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why is this a thing 😂 ppl are ppl

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Haha I agree. My fiancé is Puerto Rican and I’m a gringo. Love is love 😁

  • @SOSenterprise
    @SOSenterprise หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video is a complete waste of time

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Are you sure? Maybe watch it a second time

  • @scotmarq
    @scotmarq ปีที่แล้ว

    Can we show the worst example of P.R. women? wow!

  • @TheBeautyofKarma
    @TheBeautyofKarma ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Dating Americans? We ARE Americans

    • @marcotorres8779
      @marcotorres8779 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Are you from Puerto Rico? Or the USA

    • @TheBeautyofKarma
      @TheBeautyofKarma ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@marcotorres8779 I was born in Puerto Rico

    • @raulvazquez6594
      @raulvazquez6594 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The United States is in America, the Caribbean is in America. We are all Americans.

    • @warriorshedge6772
      @warriorshedge6772 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@raulvazquez6594 then you know nothing about race and culture, to think an all mighty unbeatable people are equal to those they can influence with ease, will respect the notion of being called American.. As if its an open title, granted, only those who face hardship from foreigners, sill come to understand the importance of your own.

    • @raulvazquez6594
      @raulvazquez6594 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@warriorshedge6772 and you my man are on a trip. Thanks for the troll.

  • @teddydavis2339
    @teddydavis2339 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Puerto Ricans general ove white gringos. Black gringos, not so much.

    • @Toxic_Diamonds
      @Toxic_Diamonds 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah because I had a bad experience with an African American. I'm not against the ethnicity, just wouldn't date em.

  • @amgooder
    @amgooder ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love is love...but stop mixing and diluting our culture😑😄
    Gringos are "white Americans" I don't like to use the term... I was born & raised in U.S.
    So that makes me a Puerto Rican American not a Caucasian.

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Interesting! I thought Gringo referred to all Americans, not just whites?

    • @amgooder
      @amgooder ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@dougkalagian Not sure if you know ...but Gringo...actually means "green go" When White Americans would invade territories , natives did not speak English...so they saw soldiers dressed in their green military uniforms...and would yell at them🗣 green go!!!!➡️

    • @JoshuaBall-p5j
      @JoshuaBall-p5j ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are Caucasian like the rest of us and probably more European than most white Americans. If your a white Puerto Rican your ancestors came from SPAIN which is Europe. Viva conquistadors !

    • @coralarroyo2329
      @coralarroyo2329 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@dougkalagianpersonally I experienced racism so much from gringos so i definitely wouldn't but thats just my opinion

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @coralarroyo2329 can I ask what happened?