My husband passed away 7 years ago and we had no children. I am alone but you are not you still have a wife and a child. Please spend some time with them because you don't know what you have until it's gone.
I noticed you don't drink alcohol when you have dinner and at home after work. Good man. Drinking alcohol is the number one reason for all ailments found in middle age men.
Wow there are a lot of kind of negative comments on here. This msn works and has a total of at least 3 hours of total commute. He has to take his meals out of the home before and after work. By the time he gets home from work, it’s late and his family is asleep. It’s very understandable why he feels lonely. Maybe his wife feels lonely too He is out making a living for his family. She is taking care of their son and the household I’m sure it’s very difficult on him and his wife. These are the things that must be done to take care of a family, but it doesn’t mean it’s easy. Yes, do the best you can. I don’t think his titles are whiny or click bait. And there could be a difference in the translation. We all have to work hard at life and make sacrifices but they’re not always pleasant and wonderful.
The night when you will come home just to find the door locks replaced is rushing towards you like a freight train, Daddy-sama. Keep behaving like a teenager!
None of us know what is truly going on in his home. He shares with us what he wants to share, all of the chastisement and presumptions is truly not necessary. Different cultures and what they teach can be viewed as both bad and good. We have no idea what truly goes on behind his closed doors.
I don't have the right to judge you or your wife. Not to mention giving you advice on what's right and wrong about your marriage life because im not the one who's in your shoes. I just hope that your family will overcome everything and start anew 😊. I wish you a wonderful Christmas holidays 🍀🍀🍀.
Perhaps go to the library and read about new topics, As your wife out to go for a walk, make a list about what brings you joy. Find an activity your child enjoys. Just breathe.
I deeply understand the pain many of you here are expressing. I recently lost my best friend, who was like a little brother to me, and not even two weeks later, I lost three family members. This is the first Christmas I've spent completely alone. Despite everything, it brings me some comfort to see the kindness and encouragement in this comment section. It's a reminder that even in the hardest moments, there are people out there willing to uplift others with their words. To anyone else struggling this holiday season, I hope that by next year, your pain is replaced with the warmth of friendship, family, happiness, and serenity."
Samurai Dad I am also a mid age dad with a 10 year old daughter, and like you marriage has its ups and downs, I as married for ten years and what I learned from it is “Try to be happy” sound silly but trust me it’s not, if you are no happy you can’t make anyone happy, and if people around you are not happy you won’t be happy so please be happy do anything you like try new things make yourself happy, life is short be happy. We love you and it is sad to watch you suffer so take care of yourself life is good ❤
Yikes, some of these comments are so judgy but we truly never know what’s going on in someone’s life based on a video or two. My fiancé and I (and my cat, he intently watches with us) truly love watching your videos. I can really sympathize with you, I always feel lonely despite having family and friends around me. I am the black sheep so I’ve grown used to being lonely but that doesn’t mean I either hate it or love it, it is what it is 😓 I truly believe no one deserves to feel lonely but some of us get the short end of the stick and are just loners. I hope you enjoy your holiday whether you spend it with your family or alone🎄. Tokyo looks so beautifully decorated! 🥰 (oh also this video reminded me of how I got lost for an hour in Tokyo Station. it’s truly a maze in there 😅)
Great video. Enjoy seeing the Christmas time in Japan. I apologize for the other comments here. They seem to be making a lot of assumptions about you. Please continue uploading!
Merry Christmas 🎄 This is a solo one for me as well, everyone is too busy and I have a slight cold. I am remembering Christmas from the past and thinking of the future. I hope you share the joy all your followers send to you. I know some don’t understand, but everyone has a different perspective. ゆっくり休んでおねがいね
Take care and try to do more with your family if not weekdays then on the weekends You always find interesting place to see and eat at See you in next video ❤❤❤
Wow, so many hateful women on here try to tell Samurai what to do n how to do it even though we know only a few details of his life. We do know that his wife doesnt want to b recorded. But, what yall fail to realize is that life goes on when the cameras arent rolling. Theres things that go on while the cameras r off... Y dont u just b grateful he shares with us!
Your videos are actually very relaxing. Don’t listen to all the negative comments. Nobody understands the life you live but YOU. Japan I have heard, is a lonely place to live even if u have a family. Just stay focused on you and your family, you can push through whatever. Much peace into the New Year
The lights are very beautiful, thank you for showing them. I hope you can find some joy this Christmas, even if very small. It's important to appreciate the tiny victories while we can.
I haven't watched the entire video yet but it was nice to actually eat breakfast with someone else -- even if it was only virtual and at different times. I just wanted to say, thank you for having eggs with me!🥚🍵 edit: Merry Christmas, SD!🎄
I suggest that you tell your wife genuinely that you truly miss spending time with her, and try to take care of the child in your free time so that she can have sometime for herself to refresh and charge energy.. Don't let the negative feelings overwhelm you samurai daddy, you have a beautiful life and some challenges,and I'm sure you can overcome the chalenges.. Never let the negativity prevent you from seeing the blessing in your life Revive the love and harmony between you and your wife and son and always remember that there are many worse cases out there.. nomatter what happens, you're still blessed
I know this is tough, but the burdens given to us never exceed our abilities. I believe you can overcome this test of life, Samurai Daddy. The first step might be difficult, but the rest will flow with ease. Sincerely praying for you from afar.
I am your new follower - l just came back from a 2 weeks vacation in South Korea and Japan! I was happy to visit Japan and love Tokyo - l want to go back and spend more time there! I live in NYC and l feel it - feel lonely is commom many times in crowed places ! I also have a very busy life in NYC! I like the way you show every day life style! And l hope you also find a way feel less lonely! Life gave you a family, that’s already a gift! Wishing you and your family and the whole world Happy Holidyae and Peace!!❤️🎄❤️🙏🙏💥
How Tokyo Station has changed in the decades since I've been there. I remember the joy of walking underground from Tokyo Station to Hiibiya on a very cold winter morning. Christmas alone is something I'm very familiar with as it's been that way for me for most of my life, but if you have a family that's way different. Wishing you well, Samurai Daddy.
why not try to communicate with your wife and have a heart to heart conversation you will understand her more, give her your attention she will open up to you..... i wish you and your family well and happiness
Because you brought him into the world, your first responsibility becomes your son, on par with yourself. This goes for your wife as well. You mentioned in a previous video that you try to stay involved in your son's life through his school activities. But besides your involvement on these occasions, what kind of life are you and your wife modeling to him, for how relationships should be, for how husbands and wives communicate, and what constitutes a good life? As a child he notices and processes EVERYTHING. I'm sure you imagine what his future might be like, and how it would be if he follows in your and your wife's footsteps since that's what he's learned from his earliest years.
Hi Samurai Daddy, I've been experiencing some anxiety lately and your videos are really calming me down. Thank you so much for that. Keep it up!! Greetings from Israel! ❤
Since you asked (12:00 mark): Anything by Studio Ghibli makes me happy. In My Neighbor Totoro, my favorite character is actually the house. I would love to live in an old house like that. I know it wasn't the point of the film but I love architecture. I actually loved all the characters in Spirited Away. Despite the slightly dark content, all the characters felt so relatable. But! My absolute favorite from Ghibli is Grave of the Fireflies. It made me cry like a baby. For a non-Ghibli character I liked Satoru from Erased, aka Boku dake ga Inai Machi. The many defeats he repeatedly faced in all of his lives felt so close to home.
Do any of you negative people posting hateful and hurtful comments understand Japanese life and culture? I believe not, or you wouldn't post ignorant comments about Samurai Daddy-san. どうもありがとうございます。
Foff, I lived 4.5 years in Japan, and it’s blessed with too much confort to use the word miserable especially at Christmas Which my the way is a normal working day. It’s new year that is considered special in the land of the rising 😊 sun
All I can say is that Im glad you have uploaded a new video & fun watching it. Im so happy today, I can watch simultaneously coz my other following also uploaded a new video 😊
Good day. Wish you have a merry Christmas. Your video purpose is show an ordinary Japanese life. Just do follow your heart. Gambadeh, Mr Samurai Daddy 🎄
You live in a first world country, you have a roof over your head, you travel and eat in restaurants, you have no reason to say a miserable xmass . There are places now where the homeless are freezing in the cold with not even a pot to piss in. Thank god for what he gave you and appreciate what you got
Also there's people with mental health problems who can't help but feel miserable sometimes. I know you didn't mean to leave those people out but yeah.
What a beautiful illumination. My neighbor Totoro is also my favorite character and I have a small figurine on my desk at work. I wish you a Merry Christmas, joyful Hanukkah and a Happy New Year 🌷🌷
Вітаю Samurai Daddy! Дякую за Ваше чергове цікаве відео! Мені дуже подобається, коли Ви показуєте нам вулиці Токіо. Мені здається, що це - неймовірно красиве місто. Особливо, коли воно прикрашене до свята. Але, якщо відверто, заставка Вашого відео зробила мене сумним. Особливо слова "Miserable Christmas". Мені б дуже хотілося, щоб Ви гарно провели це свято, добре відпочили. Дуже сподіваюсь, що так і буде! Я, скоріше за все, зустріну Різдво наодинці. Можливо Ви пам'ятаєте, що моя родина зараз далеко, і я дуже сумую за нею. Звісно я міг би зустріти Різдво у компанії друзів. Але чомусь в мене немає для цього настрою... Щоб не завершувати свій коментар на сумній ноті, я хотів би спитати у Вас: який з брендів комбіні Вам подобається більше за все - 7/11, FM або Lawson? Чи Вам байдуже, і вони Вам здаються однаковими? 😊 Як завжди, щиро бажаю Вам та Вашій родині усього найкращого! Near Marry Christmas!
All of Samurai Daddy's salary goes to supporting the household. Let him be, in peace. I enjoy this channel very much as it is. Without the Karen Johnny Somalis.
the CHRISTMAS LIGHTS look so beautiful just looks like it is brutally COLD.....was coming over in JAN/FEB...but told to wait until MARCH when weather is better so can do some sightseeing
I'm always waiting for your video per week. Hope you can release different content of your video, beacuse the new year's approaching! Take care yourself in this winter.😊
You say a lot that you are lonely and things are miserable, I feel so sorry for you 😢 Life is hard with so much work and a family to do not feel supportive. Please がんばって!💪🏻
I understand what you’re going through, your wife is a dictator at home and you want to avoid the disharmony. The only way it changes is if you go home set boundaries, and make it know you aren’t your wife’s tool. If it doesn’t work, leave her, nothing is worth that level of misery. As for the detractors who say you should obey your wife, or the others who say they don’t believe your wife and child exist, these are people who have already been left by men they drove away, don’t follow there advice or you’ll be lost in misery for the rest of your life.
It’s a lonely Christmas for me too. I have my husband and his family in Tokyo but my families are in the States. Christmas is not a holiday in Japan. It’s a work day for my husband 😢
Hope you are well anyway, Yui. No, xmas is not a holiday in Japan. It is like a fake holiday just like Halloween, what ever that is. New Year in Japan is very calm and family oriented, almost all is closed and people stay at home. For some hard working people xmas etc can be similar in Europe. One of my best friends here in Romania only has xmas day off, on NY she goes to a party, but have to bring her laptop and work until midnight in a separate room! Hard life for salarymen and women all over the world.
I enjoy your videos. However, I can see working long hours, days could reduce with family, thus making one feel "lonely." But, keep pushing through, it will be ok! 👊😊
Le luci di Natale sono belle e anche i bar e i ristoranti, pero’ in tutto ciò’ vedo tanta solitudine, freddezza tra le persone, un Natale senza anima. C’è’ una grande differenza con l’Italia, qui c’è’ un grande senso della famiglia, le tavolate con i parenti, i giochi con i bambini. I giapponesi che vivono qui, li vedo diversi, assomigliano a noi italiani, chiacchieroni e sorridenti, si vede che vivendo insieme a noi hanno assimilato la ns. cultura, il ns. modo di vivere. Ti farebbe bene una bella vacanza in Italia, magari a Napoli, insieme alla tua famiglia. Buon Natale e buon anno 🥂🎄
If your not happy þhen do something about it!!! I divorced my husband of 36 years 12 years ago. YES its lonely but better than being with him. Dont know your circumstances but why stay in a situation if your not happy???
Yo espero que pases navidad con tu familia,. Lo ideal sería que trabajarás cerca de tu casa para que no pases tanto tiempo fuera! Y también sería bueno que tú esposa se despierte a recibirte a menos que también trabaje
Several videos now, you say you are alone and lonely. It is good that you recognize this. So, now, what are you going to do about it? Do you know what you really want? It appears you spend most of your day outside of the home. Your scenery changes, you interact with lots of different people, someone else cooks your meals, varied and nice meals, and cleans your dishes. You say your relationship with your wife is strained. What does your wife's day look like? We do not need to see her day, but do you? What does she see everyday? Who cooks your wife's meals, what does she eat and who cleans her dishes? As a mother she spends her time interacting with a child. She is an adult, do you think she longs for adult interaction that is more than functional conversation? Could it be you are both lonely in the home, but in different ways? Also, remember, she is providing you with free labor. Do you think this is fair? If you had to hire someone to do all of the jobs that she does, what would it cost you? How would you feel if you had to live at your workplace, and work for free? You lament you are not as close with your son as you would like, and distance will only get farther as he grows. Who is choosing this? In previous videos you have already stated the solutions to your problems. The question is: Are you wise enough and brave enough to follow your own advice?
It sounds like you're projecting your own life onto his wife and your comment is really accusatory. He's good enough to share this with us. Why would you want to attack him in this way?
This comment is a little bit harsh indeed, but if you look at it from another angle it can wake you up! Let's put ourselves in other people's shoes and be wise and not let our feeling of sadness and loneliness overwhelm us, Samurai daddy's life might be more blessed than he thinks, if he changes the way he looks at things, he'd feel much better. I wish the best to him and to everyone 🌻
It prolly never even crossed ur mind that he n his wife have conflicting work schedules. We know he has a strained relationship with his family n he misses them deeply. U don't have to b alone to b lonely! Stop projecting ur problems on other ppl. Y dont u try being helpful instead of hateful?
Hellouu! Thanks for share the beatifull Christmas lights of Tokio😻, so qute the Totoro store I will buy all also in the Super Mario store😅 🙈, Have a very nice and Happy Holidays with your wife and son ✨️🎄 greatins and a warm hug from Barcelona😊 Spain
When you come home and your wife and son are already sleeping …is that only on filming days or this is your work days too? I used to wait for my husband in the living room (I usually would be snoring on the sofa 😂) but once he was home I would make sure he ate and took a shower etc,…I used to do that when my dad would return home from drinking. He was happy drinker so it was more to make sure he ate a meal, drank water and was safely home. I have to admit that loss of sleep was bad for me but I think the relationship for both my dad and my husband was stronger because of that. My husband was working 24/7 on call or he had a second job when we were younger. If you are coming home daily on work days and everyone is sleeping I can see why it’s lonely. 😢 sending you and your family love and healing …always. ❤
I hope you and your family have a nice holiday Samurai Daddy 😊 I’m not sure of your religion but I am praying for you and your family and that 2025 will be a great year for you. 😊❤
Hello again from the UK-England...i`m 64 now living alone,i`ve hated xmas for the past 30 or so years.To me it brings nothing but misery and despair.Like most introverts/weirdos i`ll be doing over xmas what i do every year,sitting in my underpants,getting drunk and shouting at the television.I wish you all the best.
I have to admit, I had similar views as those who have left upvoted, negative comments. I think that Samurai Daddy mentioned in another video, that he stays back in Tokyo after work to make content for TH-cam. In other words, his life is not like this when the cameras are off. And it's funny how many women are blaming him and men for "unhappiness" in their families, but don't think about how moms/wives can contribute to a bad relationship. smh. You guys need to watch more of his videos before leaving comments
The lonley tag is just to get clicks . No need give him advice. Most Japanese men enjoy being outside, that’s why the wife is called Kanai, inside home, the women don’t want them at home they are called Sodai Gomi big rubbish. It’s a generational thing slowly changing but the tiny homes, strict neighbourhood associations, long work hours , competitive schooling all adds up to the husband working and staying out the way of home life. They get a hobby and for this guy his hobby is making very dull diary’s that anyone in Japan sees this life everyday . But he will never invite you into his real house or work .
Merry Christmas. Holidays can be a lonely time of year. I’m sorry you’re going through it man. Where did you learn to become fluent in English? Have you lived abroad or do you use English at work often. You must have worked really hard.
Дивлюсь відео і хочу сказати що виглядаєте як дуже незріла людина мені здається що ви ревнуйте свою дружину до своєї дитини мені здається що ви не готові ще мати сім’ю насправді мені взагалі незрозуміло навіщо ви одружилися якщо ви не здатні бути дорослим бути чоловіком бути батьком і мені дуже дивує що ви не бажаєте нічого зробити для своєї сім’ї щоб їм було приємно чи принести шматочок торту чи ще що-небудь я не знаю мені здається ви самі робите все для того аби зробити неймовірно великою пропасть між вами та вашою сім’єю😢
Marriage is not a 50/50 thing. Most of the time you need to do more than 50%. Happiness happens when you allow yourself to be happy. It comes from inside. Do not wait for your wife or family to make you happy.
I am a 74 year old single man. No drugs, don’t drink or smoke, love good coffee and like my own company enough to want to stay single. Loneliness is just feeling self pity for your life choices. I choose be alone and enjoy the freedom and am not lonely at all.
Я прошу прощения, Говард,но в вашем посте три противоречия:1-е,это заявление,о здоровом образе жизни сейчас,а как было?,2-е,хочу остатся одиноким??, Вы уже одиноки,ведь вам 74,а не наоборот,3-е одиночество -жто чувство жалости к себе?? ЗАЧЕМ жалеть,если это ваш собственный выбор.Удачи Вам!!😊😊
Cher Papa Samuraï, Je te remercie pour tes vidéos. Je suis allé au Japon en 2008, le meilleur voyage de ma vie. Tes vidéos, me rappelle tous ces bons souvenirs merci à toi. Concernant ta situation, il est évident que tu fuis la maison, en restant dehors jusqu'à très tard, tu retardes ou redoute le moment de rentrer pour retrouver ta famille. Peut-être pour éviter de croiser ou éviter une confrontation avec ta femme. Il y a de toute évidence un malaise. Si tu pense et que tu veux sauver ton couple, pourquoi ne pas essayer une thérapie familiale avec un professionnel ? Il pourra certainement détecter le problème et donner des pistes à suivre pour améliorer la situation. Il n'y a aucune honte à avoir. Je crains que tu te sentes encore plus triste et misérable si vous divorcez, car si cette situation continue, cela va arriver. Tu as encore une chance de sauver ton couple. Si vous restez mariés pour votre fils, mais que vous ne vous entendez plus, c'est une souffrance pour vous deux que vous ne pouvez pas endurer éternellement. Peut-être qu'à la naissance du petit, ta femme a pris de la distance, peut-être que la liberté de célibataire te manques et que tu essayes de compenser... Je sais qu'être divorcé au Japon donne une mauvaise étiquette mais certains passent par ce choix pour revivre. À toi de voir ce que tu veux pour ta vie. Faire une thérapie familiale avec un professionnel dans un 1er temps me paraît un bonne idée. Profites et apprécie les bons côtés de la vie en attendant, de délicieux plats au restaurant par exemple, ici en Europe impossible d'aller au restaurant toutes les semaines avec l'inflation horrible et les salaires minables. Je te souhaite bonne chance, merci pour les vidéos. Avec toute ma bienveillance.
Wish you a Merry Christmas. Acts of Random Kindness. I hope to see you take a walk in a nearby park, or go to Yokohama Akanako Warehouse and take in the scenery and people on the road. Blessings from Taiwan. ☺ メリークリスマスをお祈りします。 ぜひ近くの公園を散歩したり、横浜赤レンガ倉庫に行って道行く景色や人々を眺めてみてください。 台湾からの祝福。☺
I have been married for 27 years to a Japanese man. I totally understand for your wife and your son. I personally do not blame on her at all. I was in her situation in the past. The blame would be on you. I don’t mean bashing you, but I truly DO NOT sympathize for you. I’m more sympathize for your wife and son. Mostly, feel sympathize for the wife. YOU do not spend enough time with your wife. Mostly, I would say the Japanese cultural of Japanese men spending time go out drinking and entertaining bosses etc. They would frequently say “ I work for my family “ yet it’s true fact, but also need to balance life and family too. Also, I would say it’s just excuses. Most of Japanese men put too much time and extra efforts at work more than theirs family. Therefore, there is often and always lack of communication or misunderstanding at home. As a wife, she is waiting endlessly at home. We women again as a wife, we have certain tolerance. I have been in her shoes and feel really really really deeply for her. I won’t be surprised if she’ll move on someday if you don’t fix this issue ASAP.
Hello again, Samurai Daddy. Wow, so many opinons, assumptions and guesses about your channel and your life and purpose. Mostly from people who have never lived in Japan. Now you have feminists and anti-feminists and all kinds of religious people telling you what to do. Did you expect this when you started? :-)) I lived in Kyushu for +15 years. I have friends who are salary men, small restaurant owners/cooks and even yakuza. Western holidays like xmas and halloween etc are nothing in Japan. Just a commercial jippo. Keep posting and I wish you luck with all. Akemashite omedeto gozaimazu.
Yay, another video! I love you Samurai Daddy ❤ ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Keep trying your best! Things will get better as soon as you figure out what needs to be done and what HAS to be done. Happy Holidays from Brooklyn, NY. I am a fairly new subscriber to your channel and I enjoy all of your videos. We all go through ups and downs and have to make a realistic change somewhere somehow. Always say a prayer for you and your family before sleeping. ❤❤❤
It doesn’t seem you’re “lonely Christmas routine.” You seem like you have good time eating out while wife and son maybe waiting at home. Again, they’re waiting for you endlessly at home. You should have been hurry up rushing home after work instead stopping at Ramen. You should have rushing home enjoyed dinner with your family instead of stopped at different places. If you really love and care for your wife or respect from her, try to rush home as soon you out of work. I’m sort disappointed of this video.
My husband passed away 7 years ago and we had no children. I am alone but you are not you still have a wife and a child. Please spend some time with them because you don't know what you have until it's gone.
Your story is real. This one is not. It's a youtube game to make money.
you can still have a family but feel alone though..
@@smoochdawg4547 Please explain.
I noticed you don't drink alcohol when you have dinner and at home after work. Good man. Drinking alcohol is the number one reason for all ailments found in middle age men.
Wow there are a lot of kind of negative comments on here. This msn works and has a total of at least 3 hours of total commute. He has to take his meals out of the home before and after work. By the time he gets home from work, it’s late and his family is asleep. It’s very understandable why he feels lonely. Maybe his wife feels lonely too He is out making a living for his family. She is taking care of their son and the household I’m sure it’s very difficult on him and his wife. These are the things that must be done to take care of a family, but it doesn’t mean it’s easy. Yes, do the best you can. I don’t think his titles are whiny or click bait. And there could be a difference in the translation. We all have to work hard at life and make sacrifices but they’re not always pleasant and wonderful.
The night when you will come home just to find the door locks replaced is rushing towards you like a freight train, Daddy-sama. Keep behaving like a teenager!
None of us know what is truly going on in his home. He shares with us what he wants to share, all of the chastisement and presumptions is truly not necessary. Different cultures and what they teach can be viewed as both bad and good. We have no idea what truly goes on behind his closed doors.
He says it's just made up for you tube.get it??? 😅😅😅😅
I don't have the right to judge you or your wife. Not to mention giving you advice on what's right and wrong about your marriage life because im not the one who's in your shoes. I just hope that your family will overcome everything and start anew 😊. I wish you a wonderful Christmas holidays 🍀🍀🍀.
Perhaps go to the library and read about new topics, As your wife out to go for a walk, make a list about what brings you joy. Find an activity your child enjoys. Just breathe.
I deeply understand the pain many of you here are expressing. I recently lost my best friend, who was like a little brother to me, and not even two weeks later, I lost three family members. This is the first Christmas I've spent completely alone.
Despite everything, it brings me some comfort to see the kindness and encouragement in this comment section. It's a reminder that even in the hardest moments, there are people out there willing to uplift others with their words.
To anyone else struggling this holiday season, I hope that by next year, your pain is replaced with the warmth of friendship, family, happiness, and serenity."
I pray that your life will change soon 🤲🤲 Nobody deserves to feel lonely
Samurai Dad I am also a mid age dad with a 10 year old daughter, and like you marriage has its ups and downs, I as married for ten years and what I learned from it is “Try to be happy” sound silly but trust me it’s not, if you are no happy you can’t make anyone happy, and if people around you are not happy you won’t be happy so please be happy do anything you like try new things make yourself happy, life is short be happy. We love you and it is sad to watch you suffer so take care of yourself life is good ❤
That breakfast looks sooo good
Yikes, some of these comments are so judgy but we truly never know what’s going on in someone’s life based on a video or two.
My fiancé and I (and my cat, he intently watches with us) truly love watching your videos. I can really sympathize with you, I always feel lonely despite having family and friends around me. I am the black sheep so I’ve grown used to being lonely but that doesn’t mean I either hate it or love it, it is what it is 😓 I truly believe no one deserves to feel lonely but some of us get the short end of the stick and are just loners.
I hope you enjoy your holiday whether you spend it with your family or alone🎄. Tokyo looks so beautifully decorated! 🥰
(oh also this video reminded me of how I got lost for an hour in Tokyo Station. it’s truly a maze in there 😅)
I truly hate the Holidays...... I can't wait until it's all over !!!! 😊
Thank u for sharing your day with us! Merry Christmas to u and ur family!🎉
Great video. Enjoy seeing the Christmas time in Japan. I apologize for the other comments here. They seem to be making a lot of assumptions about you. Please continue uploading!
Merry Christmas! Thank you for the great video ! Love to see your country. Have a nice day! 😊🎄🎉🎁🇨🇦
Merry Christmas 🎄 This is a solo one for me as well, everyone is too busy and I have a slight cold. I am remembering Christmas from the past and thinking of the future. I hope you share the joy all your followers send to you. I know some don’t understand, but everyone has a different perspective. ゆっくり休んでおねがいね
Take care and try to do more with your family if not weekdays then on the weekends
You always find interesting place to see and eat at
See you in next video ❤❤❤
Wow, so many hateful women on here try to tell Samurai what to do n how to do it even though we know only a few details of his life.
We do know that his wife doesnt want to b recorded. But, what yall fail to realize is that life goes on when the cameras arent rolling. Theres things that go on while the cameras r off... Y dont u just b grateful he shares with us!
True that, thank you
Have you considered moving closer to your place of work? So many hours spent in trains that could be spent in more life affirming activities. ❤
Your videos are actually very relaxing. Don’t listen to all the negative comments. Nobody understands the life you live but YOU. Japan I have heard, is a lonely place to live even if u have a family. Just stay focused on you and your family, you can push through whatever. Much peace into the New Year
Why don't you go home earlier to spend time with your family?
サムライダディさん、クリスマスが穏やかでありますように。あなたが長時間労働をされていることは理解しています。会社員は家族を養うために一生懸命働いています。私は富士通で働いていましたが、上司は東京出身でした。徳さんがどれだけ一生懸命働いていたかは忘れられません。徳さんは週6日、平日は夜遅くまで働いていました。徳さんは私にとても優しく、私は唯一の外国人従業員でしたが、徳さんは優しく、あなたのように寂しがり屋でした。彼はいつも朝に私を待っていて、2階のデスクまで連れて行ってくれ、夜はいつも車まで歩いて行ってくれました。徳さんは東京出身の大きな上司でした。私は今年はクリスマスをまったくしません。何年もやっていないです。投稿をありがとうございました。
I wish u peace this holiday season Samurai Daddy!
It’s not just Japanese fathers that have a lonely Christmas. Take care and I’m sending a hug and best wishes to you and your family. 🤗🎄
Thank you Samourai Daddy for this new video. I wish you a very good Christmas week with your family 🙏🌺. Take good care of you.
The lights are very beautiful, thank you for showing them. I hope you can find some joy this Christmas, even if very small. It's important to appreciate the tiny victories while we can.
Lot's of ❤ from India..
Merry Christmas to U and your family 🎄💕
I haven't watched the entire video yet but it was nice to actually eat breakfast with someone else -- even if it was only virtual and at different times. I just wanted to say, thank you for having eggs with me!🥚🍵
edit: Merry Christmas, SD!🎄
I suggest that you tell your wife genuinely that you truly miss spending time with her, and try to take care of the child in your free time so that she can have sometime for herself to refresh and charge energy..
Don't let the negative feelings overwhelm you samurai daddy, you have a beautiful life and some challenges,and I'm sure you can overcome the chalenges..
Never let the negativity prevent you from seeing the blessing in your life
Revive the love and harmony between you and your wife and son and always remember that there are many worse cases out there.. nomatter what happens, you're still blessed
I began to wonder if he even miss his wife and son. Does he love them, or he sees them clearly as a responsibility.
Lmao you’re falling for the clickbait. The guy is using his sob story for more views
@@officebear4637 LOL! It's working. You are here.
@@officebear4637 I'm not even trying to be rude but I was starting to wonder if this whole thing was a bit. Like this feels weird to me, you know?
I know this is tough, but the burdens given to us never exceed our abilities. I believe you can overcome this test of life, Samurai Daddy. The first step might be difficult, but the rest will flow with ease. Sincerely praying for you from afar.
私は正直にあなたの気持ちを理解しています。あなたは一人ではないことを覚えておいてください。お願いします。あなたのチャンネルであなたに対して何人かの人々が残酷なコメントをしているのを見ました。それらを無視して、強く生き続けてください。西洋人は日本人、人生、文化を理解していません。投稿を続けてください🙏🏽。どうもありがとうございます。
I am your new follower - l just came back from a 2 weeks vacation in South Korea and Japan! I was happy to visit Japan and love Tokyo - l want to go back and spend more time there! I live in NYC and l feel it - feel lonely is commom many times in crowed places ! I also have a very busy life in NYC! I like the way you show every day life style! And l hope you also find a way feel less lonely! Life gave you a family, that’s already a gift! Wishing you and your family and the whole world Happy Holidyae and Peace!!❤️🎄❤️🙏🙏💥
How Tokyo Station has changed in the decades since I've been there. I remember the joy of walking underground from Tokyo Station to Hiibiya on a very cold winter morning. Christmas alone is something I'm very familiar with as it's been that way for me for most of my life, but if you have a family that's way different. Wishing you well, Samurai Daddy.
why not try to communicate with your wife and have a heart to heart conversation you will understand her more, give her your attention she will open up to you..... i wish you and your family well and happiness
Because you brought him into the world, your first responsibility becomes your son, on par with yourself. This goes for your wife as well. You mentioned in a previous video that you try to stay involved in your son's life through his school activities. But besides your involvement on these occasions, what kind of life are you and your wife modeling to him, for how relationships should be, for how husbands and wives communicate, and what constitutes a good life? As a child he notices and processes EVERYTHING. I'm sure you imagine what his future might be like, and how it would be if he follows in your and your wife's footsteps since that's what he's learned from his earliest years.
Go to the Philippines See how people and families live there. I am sure when you get back it will change your perspective.
Hi Samurai Daddy, I've been experiencing some anxiety lately and your videos are really calming me down. Thank you so much for that. Keep it up!! Greetings from Israel! ❤
@@Cube_193 Shavua tov, mishpocha, kn?
@justmeVann thank you!! and i don't understand what it's mishpocha.
@@Cube_193 שלום, אתה ישראלי בתל אביב? האם אתה בטוח? אני כמוך, מבין? אבל, אני בארה"ב. אתה יכול לדבר איתי באנגלית, העברית שלי לא טובה.
יִשׂרְאֵלִי?
@@justmeVann oh yeah im good nice to meet you שלום
Since you asked (12:00 mark): Anything by Studio Ghibli makes me happy. In My Neighbor Totoro, my favorite character is actually the house. I would love to live in an old house like that. I know it wasn't the point of the film but I love architecture. I actually loved all the characters in Spirited Away. Despite the slightly dark content, all the characters felt so relatable. But! My absolute favorite from Ghibli is Grave of the Fireflies. It made me cry like a baby.
For a non-Ghibli character I liked Satoru from Erased, aka Boku dake ga Inai Machi. The many defeats he repeatedly faced in all of his lives felt so close to home.
Do any of you negative people posting hateful and hurtful comments understand Japanese life and culture?
I believe not, or you wouldn't post ignorant comments about Samurai Daddy-san.
どうもありがとうございます。
Foff, I lived 4.5 years in Japan, and it’s blessed with too much confort to use the word miserable especially at Christmas Which my the way is a normal working day. It’s new year that is considered special in the land of the rising 😊 sun
All I can say is that Im glad you have uploaded a new video & fun watching it. Im so happy today, I can watch simultaneously coz my other following also uploaded a new video 😊
Good day. Wish you have a merry Christmas. Your video purpose is show an ordinary Japanese life. Just do follow your heart. Gambadeh, Mr Samurai Daddy 🎄
You live in a first world country, you have a roof over your head, you travel and eat in restaurants, you have no reason to say a miserable xmass .
There are places now where the homeless are freezing in the cold with not even a pot to piss in.
Thank god for what he gave you and appreciate what you got
First world country, food, work and family do not equal happiness. Either you have never had such experience, or you know how to enjoy little things.
@@yakov1evv
If he is unglued, tell him to see a shrink
Also there's people with mental health problems who can't help but feel miserable sometimes. I know you didn't mean to leave those people out but yeah.
What a beautiful illumination.
My neighbor Totoro is also my favorite character and I have a small figurine on my desk at work.
I wish you a Merry Christmas, joyful Hanukkah and a Happy New Year 🌷🌷
La vida es corta....... sean felices.....Gracias por todo! Feliz Navidad!
What do you do on your weekends when you don’t have to go to work? Surely you must spend some time with your wife and son?
Вітаю Samurai Daddy!
Дякую за Ваше чергове цікаве відео! Мені дуже подобається, коли Ви показуєте нам вулиці Токіо. Мені здається, що це - неймовірно красиве місто. Особливо, коли воно прикрашене до свята.
Але, якщо відверто, заставка Вашого відео зробила мене сумним. Особливо слова "Miserable Christmas". Мені б дуже хотілося, щоб Ви гарно провели це свято, добре відпочили. Дуже сподіваюсь, що так і буде!
Я, скоріше за все, зустріну Різдво наодинці. Можливо Ви пам'ятаєте, що моя родина зараз далеко, і я дуже сумую за нею. Звісно я міг би зустріти Різдво у компанії друзів. Але чомусь в мене немає для цього настрою...
Щоб не завершувати свій коментар на сумній ноті, я хотів би спитати у Вас: який з брендів комбіні Вам подобається більше за все - 7/11, FM або Lawson? Чи Вам байдуже, і вони Вам здаються однаковими? 😊
Як завжди, щиро бажаю Вам та Вашій родині усього найкращого! Near Marry Christmas!
Kanashi desu 😢 tonikaku wish you a merry christmas, from🇫🇷🎄
If you are feeling lonely, volunteer at a soup kitchen. Meet everyone. Then feel good about doing something for others.
В Японии единственная радость людей - это поесть любимую еду. Других радостей там нет..
All of Samurai Daddy's salary goes to supporting the household. Let him be, in peace.
I enjoy this channel very much as it is. Without the Karen Johnny Somalis.
🇮🇹Grazie Samurai per il tuo bel video. Super Mario è il più simpatico. Auguro a te e alla tua famiglia un Sereno Natale. Buona giornata!🇮🇹
the CHRISTMAS LIGHTS look so beautiful
just looks like it is brutally COLD.....was coming over in JAN/FEB...but told to wait until MARCH when weather is better so can do some sightseeing
Always looking forward to see your video. Wow, that late snack dessert chifon cake with cream.....soooo delicious.
Wish you a Merry Xmas. 🎅🎄🎁
I'm always waiting for your video per week. Hope you can release different content of your video, beacuse the new year's approaching! Take care yourself in this winter.😊
You say a lot that you are lonely and things are miserable, I feel so sorry for you 😢 Life is hard with so much work and a family to do not feel supportive. Please がんばって!💪🏻
I understand what you’re going through, your wife is a dictator at home and you want to avoid the disharmony. The only way it changes is if you go home set boundaries, and make it know you aren’t your wife’s tool. If it doesn’t work, leave her, nothing is worth that level of misery.
As for the detractors who say you should obey your wife, or the others who say they don’t believe your wife and child exist, these are people who have already been left by men they drove away, don’t follow there advice or you’ll be lost in misery for the rest of your life.
excelsior cafe, one of tokyo's greatest cafes.
It’s a lonely Christmas for me too. I have my husband and his family in Tokyo but my families are in the States. Christmas is not a holiday in Japan. It’s a work day for my husband 😢
Hope you are well anyway, Yui. No, xmas is not a holiday in Japan. It is like a fake holiday just like Halloween, what ever that is. New Year in Japan is very calm and family oriented, almost all is closed and people stay at home. For some hard working people xmas etc can be similar in Europe. One of my best friends here in Romania only has xmas day off, on NY she goes to a party, but have to bring her laptop and work until midnight in a separate room! Hard life for salarymen and women all over the world.
Como española, y es de sobra conocido lo ruidosos que somos; me asombra el silencio en el tren y el metro. La gente no habla entre sí ni por teléfono.
I enjoy your videos. However, I can see working long hours, days could reduce with family, thus making one feel "lonely." But, keep pushing through, it will be ok! 👊😊
Le luci di Natale sono belle e anche i bar e i ristoranti, pero’ in tutto ciò’ vedo tanta solitudine, freddezza tra le persone, un Natale senza anima. C’è’ una grande differenza con l’Italia, qui c’è’ un grande senso della famiglia, le tavolate con i parenti, i giochi con i bambini. I giapponesi che vivono qui, li vedo diversi, assomigliano a noi italiani, chiacchieroni e sorridenti, si vede che vivendo insieme a noi hanno assimilato la ns. cultura, il ns. modo di vivere. Ti farebbe bene una bella vacanza in Italia, magari a Napoli, insieme alla tua famiglia. Buon Natale e buon anno 🥂🎄
If your not happy þhen do something about it!!! I divorced my husband of 36 years 12 years ago. YES its lonely but better than being with him. Dont know your circumstances but why stay in a situation if your not happy???
Yo espero que pases navidad con tu familia,. Lo ideal sería que trabajarás cerca de tu casa para que no pases tanto tiempo fuera! Y también sería bueno que tú esposa se despierte a recibirte a menos que también trabaje
Several videos now, you say you are alone and lonely. It is good that you recognize this. So, now, what are you going to do about it? Do you know what you really want? It appears you spend most of your day outside of the home. Your scenery changes, you interact with lots of different people, someone else cooks your meals, varied and nice meals, and cleans your dishes. You say your relationship with your wife is strained. What does your wife's day look like? We do not need to see her day, but do you? What does she see everyday? Who cooks your wife's meals, what does she eat and who cleans her dishes? As a mother she spends her time interacting with a child. She is an adult, do you think she longs for adult interaction that is more than functional conversation? Could it be you are both lonely in the home, but in different ways? Also, remember, she is providing you with free labor. Do you think this is fair? If you had to hire someone to do all of the jobs that she does, what would it cost you? How would you feel if you had to live at your workplace, and work for free? You lament you are not as close with your son as you would like, and distance will only get farther as he grows. Who is choosing this? In previous videos you have already stated the solutions to your problems. The question is: Are you wise enough and brave enough to follow your own advice?
It sounds like you're projecting your own life onto his wife and your comment is really accusatory. He's good enough to share this with us. Why would you want to attack him in this way?
@@CleoHarperReturns very well said...who are we to judge and forced him ....he knows his life better...
This comment is a little bit harsh indeed, but if you look at it from another angle it can wake you up! Let's put ourselves in other people's shoes and be wise and not let our feeling of sadness and loneliness overwhelm us, Samurai daddy's life might be more blessed than he thinks, if he changes the way he looks at things, he'd feel much better.
I wish the best to him and to everyone 🌻
It prolly never even crossed ur mind that he n his wife have conflicting work schedules. We know he has a strained relationship with his family n he misses them deeply.
U don't have to b alone to b lonely!
Stop projecting ur problems on other ppl. Y dont u try being helpful instead of hateful?
You don't understand Japanese life or culture.
どうもありがとうございます。
The tv showed 1130 ish when your at home thats 5 1/2 hours after work, what time would you have gotten home without all that wandering?
Hellouu! Thanks for share the beatifull Christmas lights of Tokio😻, so qute the Totoro store I will buy all also in the Super Mario store😅 🙈, Have a very nice and Happy Holidays with your wife and son ✨️🎄 greatins and a warm hug from Barcelona😊 Spain
linda agenda y las luces en los arboles están geniales
When you come home and your wife and son are already sleeping …is that only on filming days or this is your work days too? I used to wait for my husband in the living room (I usually would be snoring on the sofa 😂) but once he was home I would make sure he ate and took a shower etc,…I used to do that when my dad would return home from drinking. He was happy drinker so it was more to make sure he ate a meal, drank water and was safely home. I have to admit that loss of sleep was bad for me but I think the relationship for both my dad and my husband was stronger because of that. My husband was working 24/7 on call or he had a second job when we were younger. If you are coming home daily on work days and everyone is sleeping I can see why it’s lonely. 😢 sending you and your family love and healing …always. ❤
I hope you and your family have a nice holiday Samurai Daddy 😊 I’m not sure of your religion but I am praying for you and your family and that 2025 will be a great year for you. 😊❤
I like Christmas lights in Tokyo... please do more walking there👍
Merry Christmas to all
Hello again from the UK-England...i`m 64 now living alone,i`ve hated xmas for the past 30 or so years.To me it brings nothing but misery and despair.Like most introverts/weirdos i`ll be doing over xmas what i do every year,sitting in my underpants,getting drunk and shouting at the television.I wish you all the best.
More illumination please ✨
Have you ever heard of Noozles? Koala anime kids show from the 80's. I lovvvvvvvvvvved that ❤❤❤❤
Amazing ❤
I would be fine in Japan because Iam a introvert
I have to admit, I had similar views as those who have left upvoted, negative comments. I think that Samurai Daddy mentioned in another video, that he stays back in Tokyo after work to make content for TH-cam. In other words, his life is not like this when the cameras are off. And it's funny how many women are blaming him and men for "unhappiness" in their families, but don't think about how moms/wives can contribute to a bad relationship. smh.
You guys need to watch more of his videos before leaving comments
I watched one a few months old, and his son was shown doing his homework. It made me wonder what had changed in so short a time.
The lonley tag is just to get clicks . No need give him advice. Most Japanese men enjoy being outside, that’s why the wife is called Kanai, inside home, the women don’t want them at home they are called Sodai Gomi big rubbish. It’s a generational thing slowly changing but the tiny homes, strict neighbourhood associations, long work hours , competitive schooling all adds up to the husband working and staying out the way of home life. They get a hobby and for this guy his hobby is making very dull diary’s that anyone in Japan sees this life everyday . But he will never invite you into his real house or work .
Merry Christmas. Holidays can be a lonely time of year. I’m sorry you’re going through it man.
Where did you learn to become fluent in English? Have you lived abroad or do you use English at work often. You must have worked really hard.
What app are you using to tap pay?
Danke für die schönen Stadtansichten ❤
Дивлюсь відео і хочу сказати що виглядаєте як дуже незріла людина мені здається що ви ревнуйте свою дружину до своєї дитини мені здається що ви не готові ще мати сім’ю насправді мені взагалі незрозуміло навіщо ви одружилися якщо ви не здатні бути дорослим бути чоловіком бути батьком і мені дуже дивує що ви не бажаєте нічого зробити для своєї сім’ї щоб їм було приємно чи принести шматочок торту чи ще що-небудь я не знаю мені здається ви самі робите все для того аби зробити неймовірно великою пропасть між вами та вашою сім’єю😢
Marriage is not a 50/50 thing. Most of the time you need to do more than 50%. Happiness happens when you allow yourself to be happy. It comes from inside. Do not wait for your wife or family to make you happy.
Joyeux Noël à toutes la famille😊
Well, you didn’t seem miserable, you ate good and chill. I think your wife and son are the real miserable ones😢😢😢
Je voulais vous demander. Si vous dejeunez à 12h?
Hi. What was in your breakfast sandwich please? I thought it was cheese on toast at first
I am a 74 year old single man. No drugs, don’t drink or smoke, love good coffee and like my own company enough to want to stay single. Loneliness is just feeling self pity for your life choices. I choose be alone and enjoy the freedom and am not lonely at all.
I agree, I made the same choice. I'm happy
Я прошу прощения, Говард,но в вашем посте три противоречия:1-е,это заявление,о здоровом образе жизни сейчас,а как было?,2-е,хочу остатся одиноким??, Вы уже одиноки,ведь вам 74,а не наоборот,3-е одиночество -жто чувство жалости к себе?? ЗАЧЕМ жалеть,если это ваш собственный выбор.Удачи Вам!!😊😊
You should ask 7 eleven to sponsor your videos
my favorite character is Ace from one piece and also Shanks. I am watching like 4 anime right now I like Blue Exorcist
Cher Papa Samuraï,
Je te remercie pour tes vidéos. Je suis allé au Japon en 2008, le meilleur voyage de ma vie. Tes vidéos, me rappelle tous ces bons souvenirs merci à toi.
Concernant ta situation, il est évident que tu fuis la maison, en restant dehors jusqu'à très tard, tu retardes ou redoute le moment de rentrer pour retrouver ta famille. Peut-être pour éviter de croiser ou éviter une confrontation avec ta femme. Il y a de toute évidence un malaise. Si tu pense et que tu veux sauver ton couple, pourquoi ne pas essayer une thérapie familiale avec un professionnel ?
Il pourra certainement détecter le problème et donner des pistes à suivre pour améliorer la situation. Il n'y a aucune honte à avoir. Je crains que tu te sentes encore plus triste et misérable si vous divorcez, car si cette situation continue, cela va arriver. Tu as encore une chance de sauver ton couple.
Si vous restez mariés pour votre fils, mais que vous ne vous entendez plus, c'est une souffrance pour vous deux que vous ne pouvez pas endurer éternellement.
Peut-être qu'à la naissance du petit, ta femme a pris de la distance, peut-être que la liberté de célibataire te manques et que tu essayes de compenser... Je sais qu'être divorcé au Japon donne une mauvaise étiquette mais certains passent par ce choix pour revivre. À toi de voir ce que tu veux pour ta vie.
Faire une thérapie familiale avec un professionnel dans un 1er temps me paraît un bonne idée.
Profites et apprécie les bons côtés de la vie en attendant, de délicieux plats au restaurant par exemple, ici en Europe impossible d'aller au restaurant toutes les semaines avec l'inflation horrible et les salaires minables.
Je te souhaite bonne chance, merci pour les vidéos. Avec toute ma bienveillance.
Wish you a Merry Christmas. Acts of Random Kindness.
I hope to see you take a walk in a nearby park, or go to Yokohama Akanako Warehouse and take in the scenery and people on the road.
Blessings from Taiwan. ☺
メリークリスマスをお祈りします。
ぜひ近くの公園を散歩したり、横浜赤レンガ倉庫に行って道行く景色や人々を眺めてみてください。
台湾からの祝福。☺
i've loved ramen.😁
I like that big black cat I saw on display when you were in the character area of Tokyo Station. What name does that cat have?
I have been married for 27 years to a Japanese man. I totally understand for your wife and your son. I personally do not blame on her at all. I was in her situation in the past. The blame would be on you. I don’t mean bashing you, but I truly DO NOT sympathize for you. I’m more sympathize for your wife and son. Mostly, feel sympathize for the wife. YOU do not spend enough time with your wife. Mostly, I would say the Japanese cultural of Japanese men spending time go out drinking and entertaining bosses etc. They would frequently say “ I work for my family “ yet it’s true fact, but also need to balance life and family too. Also, I would say it’s just excuses. Most of Japanese men put too much time and extra efforts at work more than theirs family. Therefore, there is often and always lack of communication or misunderstanding at home. As a wife, she is waiting endlessly at home. We women again as a wife, we have certain tolerance. I have been in her shoes and feel really really really deeply for her. I won’t be surprised if she’ll move on someday if you don’t fix this issue ASAP.
How do you feel about the new 4-day workweek in Tokyo?
Hello again, Samurai Daddy. Wow, so many opinons, assumptions and guesses about your channel and your life and purpose. Mostly from people who have never lived in Japan. Now you have feminists and anti-feminists and all kinds of religious people telling you what to do. Did you expect this when you started? :-)) I lived in Kyushu for +15 years. I have friends who are salary men, small restaurant owners/cooks and even yakuza. Western holidays like xmas and halloween etc are nothing in Japan. Just a commercial jippo. Keep posting and I wish you luck with all. Akemashite omedeto gozaimazu.
HOLA QUE ME EQUIVOQUE ES TH-cam QUE ME RECOMENDADO TUS VOLGS 🤭🤭🤭☺️☺️☺️
Yay, another video! I love you Samurai Daddy
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Keep trying your best! Things will get better as soon as you figure out what needs to be done and what HAS to be done. Happy Holidays from Brooklyn, NY. I am a fairly new subscriber to your channel and I enjoy all of your videos. We all go through ups and downs and have to make a realistic change somewhere somehow. Always say a prayer for you and your family before sleeping. ❤❤❤
yeah, lets listen to the christian...
It doesn’t seem you’re “lonely Christmas routine.” You seem like you have good time eating out while wife and son maybe waiting at home. Again, they’re waiting for you endlessly at home. You should have been hurry up rushing home after work instead stopping at Ramen. You should have rushing home enjoyed dinner with your family instead of stopped at different places. If you really love and care for your wife or respect from her, try to rush home as soon you out of work. I’m sort disappointed of this video.