This has been me, awareness is everything! Now dating another who is also aware with bpd.. I do laugh it’s been two years and I have found out that relationships aren’t the high I thought they were after all! However finding another whom you can AUTHENTICALLY relate too it’s been game changer and has been very confusing! It became apparent that I have in my 42 years been truly in love and I am changing my prospectives on what love actually is! I do miss those high highs… but I know they are not sustainable! I am in a bit of a dissociative state… still getting my head around it all! But it’s been so very very valuable in my progress! We will never truly know someone’s intentions or prospectives and that’s why communication is everything! It does mean becoming your own psychologist too!! Which is getting boring now! It’s massive changes… and massive integration work! Thank you 🙏🏻
Excelent Job, best advices for people who get involved with persons with BPD and NPD, my two last relationships were with a NPD and then a BPD. Have to look for myself now.
This has been me, awareness is everything! Now dating another who is also aware with bpd.. I do laugh it’s been two years and I have found out that relationships aren’t the high I thought they were after all! However finding another whom you can AUTHENTICALLY relate too it’s been game changer and has been very confusing! It became apparent that I have in my 42 years been truly in love and I am changing my prospectives on what love actually is! I do miss those high highs… but I know they are not sustainable! I am in a bit of a dissociative state… still getting my head around it all! But it’s been so very very valuable in my progress! We will never truly know someone’s intentions or prospectives and that’s why communication is everything! It does mean becoming your own psychologist too!! Which is getting boring now! It’s massive changes… and massive integration work!
Thank you 🙏🏻
Excelent Job, best advices for people who get involved with persons with BPD and NPD, my two last relationships were with a NPD and then a BPD. Have to look for myself now.
Thanks again! 👍 Excellent!
Thank you too!
I never considered love bombing could happen past the honeymoon phase. Better grab me a drink to process this one…