Tus viv ncaus mim koj mas thiaj txawj txiav ncaj zaj no mas tus tij laug thiab tus kwv nkawv ua tsi ncaj rau cov nyob nrab lawm nws yog tij laug los nws twb tsi poob ib qho li kij ua tij los tau ntau hos tus kwv twb tau niam thiab txiv qhov nyiaj koob hmoov ntau ua luaj es ttseem faib thiab mas koj los tsi txawj ua tij thiab ua tsaug rau cov lus no ua ib qho rau peb tau kawm viv ncaus mim ❤❤❤❤
What I think the most important part of the story is the amount of money it takes to do our Hmong funerals. $60k is not acceptable. We need to find a way to make it more affordable. How much is it to do it overseas? Do they spend the same amount? I understand the cost of things will be different, but it can’t be equal to $60k usd. This makes no sense!
What your youngest brother did was unacceptable. I hope your deceased parents will bring them karma. What you did was not fair to your other siblings. Based on the amount of contributions they contributed for the funeral expense, you were not fair to divide the sunshine. Your parents should’ve put all you brothers as beneficiaries, equally. That’s what I just told my parents to do with their life insurance, to list all their sons as beneficiaries.
Koj ua tij mas koj yeej ua g nca rau koj ob tug kwv ua pab koj ib leeg kaum txhia no más koj yuav tsum faib kom ntau rau ob tug pab koj mas thiaj yog nawb yog tias koj tus kwv ntxawg twb g pab li koj ho faib rau nws ho ob tug pab koj es koj ho muab ib yam xwb no más koj ua g nca rau koj ob yug kwv ua pab koj lawm nawb koj cov nyiaj yog 30 phav xwb es cov nyiaj tshav ntuj twb tau tsaj koj qhov lawm na es koj faib li no rau koj ob tug kwv ua pab koj ib leeg kaum txhia no más nkawv yuav chim xwb vim yog li no ces koj twb g poob ib qhov nyiaj li koj tseem tau tsaj nkawv lawm na koj tseem tau tsaj 5 txhia lawm ho nkaw poob kaum txhia ne ces kkj ua tij mas koj yeej ua g nca kiag li koj txhob qhua tiag koj ua yog no
40g, you should've gave 5g each to the brothers who put in. Give 2500 to sister and you keep 25k. Your not right also vim koj twj tsi poob dabtsi. Koj twb tau koj qho money back keeping the 30k. You and the baby brother is no different!
Tiag mas koj txawm g faib ntau rau ob tug kwv pab koj ib leeg kaum txhia no más koj yuav tsum g muab ntau los koj muab nkaw ib leeg 5 txhiab mas thiaj yog nawb mas koj thiaj li poob me22 nrog nkaw ho kuv muab ib txhia xwb es koj twb g poob ib qhov li koj tseem tau 5 txhia tsaj ne es nkawv yuav ua cas thiaj g chim txawm yog leej twg los yuav chim ib yam koj lam ris lub nqe tabsi koj qaum tag cov nyiaj tsav ntuj lawm koj g muab kom ntau zog ob tug pab koj na koj txhob qhua tias koj ua nca no koj yeej ua g nca kiag li
Koj niag kwv ntxawg ces ua hnav tiab hos nws niag poj niam hnav ris lawm es koj niag kwv ntxawg thiaj li qos ncauj nrees tsis kam lees tias nej niam nej txiv muab rau nkawv cia li lawm siab phem siab dub noj luag tej nyiaj xav hais tias yuav nplua nuj tiam sis yav tom ntej muab tej nyiaj ntawv siv tsuag2 tag ces haj yam yuav kov huam ntag hos. Yeej tim nej niam nej txiv nkawv thiab tsis muaj qhov muag pom tias tus tub twg thiaj li yog tus yuav noj taus hais taus es thaum tsis muaj nkawv los thiaj li tau nyiaj los ua nkawv lub pag lub xau pob es yuav muab tej nyiaj kiag rau niag tub tais maum tuav xwb ces thaum kawg nej yog cov poob nyiaj dawb xwb siab phem li neb niag kwv ntxawg nkawv es nej tsis muaj cai yuav faib cov nyiaj tshav ntuj rau neb niag kwv ntxawg nkawv 2 niam txiv siab phem ntawv hlo li na
You split the money wrong. U have to think that u put 10k in because your two middle brothers both put 10k in each, sisters put 5k each. Since you had to chip in 30k, you can reimburse yourself back for the 20k. So 40k-20k=20k will be leftover from sunshine money. So the split should have been 5k for each of the three brothers that put in 10k. And 2500 each for the two sisters. And the younger brother should have gotten zero. What you did, because you kept 35k, means that u contributed zero to the funeral while your two brothers and two sisters contributed. Very unfair. This is why they are mad at you. You taking your dad home is a non issue and should not have even factored into the sunshine money. U are wrong here as well.
Tus viv ncaus mim koj mas thiaj txawj txiav ncaj zaj no mas tus tij laug thiab tus kwv nkawv ua tsi ncaj rau cov nyob nrab lawm nws yog tij laug los nws twb tsi poob ib qho li kij ua tij los tau ntau hos tus kwv twb tau niam thiab txiv qhov nyiaj koob hmoov ntau ua luaj es ttseem faib thiab mas koj los tsi txawj ua tij thiab ua tsaug rau cov lus no ua ib qho rau peb tau kawm viv ncaus mim ❤❤❤❤
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Tus viv ncaus mim koj mas thiaj txawj txiav ncaj zaj no mas tus tij laug thiab tus kwv nkawv ua tsi ncaj rau cov nyob nrab lawm nws yog tij laug los nws twb tsi poob ib qho li kij ua tij los tau ntau hos tus kwv twb tau niam thiab txiv qhov nyiaj koob hmoov ntau ua luaj es ttseem faib thiab mas koj los tsi txawj ua tij thiab ua tsaug rau cov lus no ua ib qho rau peb tau kawm viv ncaus mim ❤❤❤❤
Suab zoo thiab hais tau meej tshaj li os, phooj ywg!
Ua tsaug koj cov lus txhawb siab os mog.
Viv ncaus mee hais yog kawg lawm
Ua tsaug os mog.
Peb ua neeg ce yog le no xwb tiag. Xaa ce hurt so much nawb. Kv nyiam kj cov lus kj haas rau lawv cov nyiaj tshav ntuj nawb, yog lus kawg niam laus Mim. 😢😢😢😢😂
kuv nyuam qhuav los caum koj ,kuv pom hais tias koj hais lus meej hua ib txhia coob 2 hais, kav tsij continue li no mus nawb Txhob hloov ov..
thaum koj pib Txhob tso music ntev 2 li pem hauv ntej li txoj no..
Tsim nyog tus txiv no yuav tau sau rau ntawm Kab benefitiary tias”divide equally to all of my living children”
What I think the most important part of the story is the amount of money it takes to do our Hmong funerals. $60k is not acceptable. We need to find a way to make it more affordable. How much is it to do it overseas? Do they spend the same amount? I understand the cost of things will be different, but it can’t be equal to $60k usd. This makes no sense!
Hmong funeral is too crazy expensive. Need to figure a way to lower cost. Makes it hard for the living.
Yes, Hmong funerals are very expensive these days.
Koj yog tsis ncaj ncees. Koj yog tus phem txeeb cov nyiaj tshav ntuj. Thaum kawg koj tsis xiam dabtsi, koj tseem tau $5000 profit.
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zoo kawg mas tais tab sis koj muab koj qhov introduction 4 minutes no mas ntev dhau lawm tso me ntsis li 1 minute xwb
Yog lawm lauj tais. ntev dlau lawm os yom. Mam li kho kom tsis txhob ntev ntev lawm os. Ua koj tsaug os mog.
Why took too long to start your stories? Don't show your plants too long
Thank you! I won't do too long introduction in future videos.
Viv ncaus mee koj coj li cas koj cov khoom yuav ua luaj kuv hauv thoob li ko tsis zoo li os.
Kuv siv cov organic soil yuam pem Home Depot los cog xwb os.
What your youngest brother did was unacceptable. I hope your deceased parents will bring them karma.
What you did was not fair to your other siblings. Based on the amount of contributions they contributed for the funeral expense, you were not fair to divide the sunshine.
Your parents should’ve put all you brothers as beneficiaries, equally. That’s what I just told my parents to do with their life insurance, to list all their sons as beneficiaries.
Tos lawv tus siab rau koj los koj kuj yuam kev lawm thiab koj fab nyiaj tsis ncaj ncees lawm thiab muab hais los koj thiab koj tus kwv ntxawg neb zoo ib yam xwb tsis txawv lis .
Koj ua tij mas koj yeej ua g nca rau koj ob tug kwv ua pab koj ib leeg kaum txhia no más koj yuav tsum faib kom ntau rau ob tug pab koj mas thiaj yog nawb yog tias koj tus kwv ntxawg twb g pab li koj ho faib rau nws ho ob tug pab koj es koj ho muab ib yam xwb no más koj ua g nca rau koj ob yug kwv ua pab koj lawm nawb koj cov nyiaj yog 30 phav xwb es cov nyiaj tshav ntuj twb tau tsaj koj qhov lawm na es koj faib li no rau koj ob tug kwv ua pab koj ib leeg kaum txhia no más nkawv yuav chim xwb vim yog li no ces koj twb g poob ib qhov nyiaj li koj tseem tau tsaj nkawv lawm na koj tseem tau tsaj 5 txhia lawm ho nkaw poob kaum txhia ne ces kkj ua tij mas koj yeej ua g nca kiag li koj txhob qhua tiag koj ua yog no
I believe it’s your parents fault to give everything to one son.
40g, you should've gave 5g each to the brothers who put in. Give 2500 to sister and you keep 25k. Your not right also vim koj twj tsi poob dabtsi. Koj twb tau koj qho money back keeping the 30k. You and the baby brother is no different!
Tiag mas koj txawm g faib ntau rau ob tug kwv pab koj ib leeg kaum txhia no más koj yuav tsum g muab ntau los koj muab nkaw ib leeg 5 txhiab mas thiaj yog nawb mas koj thiaj li poob me22 nrog nkaw ho kuv muab ib txhia xwb es koj twb g poob ib qhov li koj tseem tau 5 txhia tsaj ne es nkawv yuav ua cas thiaj g chim txawm yog leej twg los yuav chim ib yam koj lam ris lub nqe tabsi koj qaum tag cov nyiaj tsav ntuj lawm koj g muab kom ntau zog ob tug pab koj na koj txhob qhua tias koj ua nca no koj yeej ua g nca kiag li
Tus kwv thiab tus niam ntxawm no mas yuav tsis vam Meej li. So selfish 👎😭
Koj niag kwv ntxawg ces ua hnav tiab hos nws niag poj niam hnav ris lawm es koj niag kwv ntxawg thiaj li qos ncauj nrees tsis kam lees tias nej niam nej txiv muab rau nkawv cia li lawm siab phem siab dub noj luag tej nyiaj xav hais tias yuav nplua nuj tiam sis yav tom ntej muab tej nyiaj ntawv siv tsuag2 tag ces haj yam yuav kov huam ntag hos. Yeej tim nej niam nej txiv nkawv thiab tsis muaj qhov muag pom tias tus tub twg thiaj li yog tus yuav noj taus hais taus es thaum tsis muaj nkawv los thiaj li tau nyiaj los ua nkawv lub pag lub xau pob es yuav muab tej nyiaj kiag rau niag tub tais maum tuav xwb ces thaum kawg nej yog cov poob nyiaj dawb xwb siab phem li neb niag kwv ntxawg nkawv es nej tsis muaj cai yuav faib cov nyiaj tshav ntuj rau neb niag kwv ntxawg nkawv 2 niam txiv siab phem ntawv hlo li na
You split the money wrong. U have to think that u put 10k in because your two middle brothers both put 10k in each, sisters put 5k each. Since you had to chip in 30k, you can reimburse yourself back for the 20k. So 40k-20k=20k will be leftover from sunshine money. So the split should have been 5k for each of the three brothers that put in 10k. And 2500 each for the two sisters. And the younger brother should have gotten zero.
What you did, because you kept 35k, means that u contributed zero to the funeral while your two brothers and two sisters contributed. Very unfair. This is why they are mad at you.
You taking your dad home is a non issue and should not have even factored into the sunshine money. U are wrong here as well.
Tus viv ncaus mim koj mas thiaj txawj txiav ncaj zaj no mas tus tij laug thiab tus kwv nkawv ua tsi ncaj rau cov nyob nrab lawm nws yog tij laug los nws twb tsi poob ib qho li kij ua tij los tau ntau hos tus kwv twb tau niam thiab txiv qhov nyiaj koob hmoov ntau ua luaj es ttseem faib thiab mas koj los tsi txawj ua tij thiab ua tsaug rau cov lus no ua ib qho rau peb tau kawm viv ncaus mim ❤❤❤❤
Dam her👎 Dam the niam nrxawm. Tus niam ntxawm no mas lim hiam tiag2 li, 2 tug no ces yuav tsis tau 1 qho koob hmoob li os.
Tham tu siab ua luaj
Ruam tsab ntse ces yog li no