Picking a Partner

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ต.ค. 2024
  • Welcome to the First Episode of Shop Talk, where Adeolu Adefarasin along with guests Lynxxx and Stan Nze talk about what they are looking for in a partner as well as what they expect of themselves

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  • @amandaebieme4893
    @amandaebieme4893 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow, I thought that haircut was never going to end lol.

  • @MichaelEMJAYJohnson
    @MichaelEMJAYJohnson 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lynnx sounds like someone you'd want to have as a friend. Dude is cool and insightful.

  • @sylviasworld9397
    @sylviasworld9397 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    The woman they are describing, are they preparing themselves for her? She will also have the type of husband/ life partner she wants. Are you that? They should not assume just because they are make they qualify. The guy in the barbers chair especially. Lynxx is already working on himself and you can tell.

  • @holyfariankido
    @holyfariankido 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Lynxxx always speaking the honest truth as usual. I enjoyed the episode with all your different perspectives.

  • @adesuaadebo-young5836
    @adesuaadebo-young5836 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Looking forward to more ! , It's good to know that there are men who look beyond the physical and realize that a solid foundation with Christ should be the basic criteria for picking a partner.

  • @Funmi_Richards
    @Funmi_Richards 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Watching this in 2022 and I'm happy Stan Nze got what he wished for a friend, he was not forming for 😁 Blessing

  • @tayoabereoje4289
    @tayoabereoje4289 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yes, please let’s talk about that submission thing. Guys are throwing around that word these days like it’s their right. Whol’ up! You be my papa? You send me go school? You give me food? So I no know you from nowhere bhet I go throw my brain and all my years of self-development in the bin because you think submission from me is your right?? Oga, you dey dream o. Submission is earned. In a marriage. And by the way, he who wants to be the first must be the last. When you’re ready to make sacrifices for your family, you can expect submission.

    • @princesshephzibah5894
      @princesshephzibah5894 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Preach to me honey, pls...
      Get up to par, then we can know whether submission will hold water.

  • @coolcat4life2000
    @coolcat4life2000 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is truly amazing. However, I must say I was left wanting. Maybe 17 mins is not enough time to truly portray your thoughts but there were many times when the guys were sharing great thoughts and advice but were interrupted or cut short by the guy asking the questions. I especially wanted to hear where the gentleman in pink was coming from when he was building up his views on dating a person within the entertainment industry.
    All in all, this was a breath of fresh air. I was about to pour me a glass of wine when all of a sudden, it was over. 17 mins? We want more please. I'd love to use the episodes for my girls' sleepover post-discussion fun topic. God bless you all.

  • @hatigal
    @hatigal 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg! Watching this again after watching Stan Nze’s marriage story 😃😃😃

  • @JemimaOmoA
    @JemimaOmoA 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This was great, enjoyed watching it, tho I wish guys would also talk about 'loving' their women as that to me is an even greater responsibility than 'submission'. Great job! x

    • @Memkoh
      @Memkoh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OMG!!! I was literally saying this to my friend! It's something I really need to touch on in my videos. Men need to remember that to love is a greater responsibility than for a woman to submit. Plus, if you love a woman the way Christ loves the church, she will move the earth for you (in my friend's words).

  • @oojewole8349
    @oojewole8349 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Lynxx is a beautiful guy and he speaks facts man!! 😍

  • @danielxbentley
    @danielxbentley 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    If my Barber Shop was as fresh as this ehn. I'd cut my hair every week.
    Asides that, Love this show! The idea, the set & the conversation.
    Big ups.

  • @sisilara801
    @sisilara801 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Eye-opener!!! This for me is the best episode so far. Their realness cut through like a knife. Lynxxx, Stan and Adeolu, my kind of men, nothing beats being real, keep it up guys!!!

  • @roxkeke2607
    @roxkeke2607 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Grown men talking👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Datcoolgaffy
    @Datcoolgaffy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    proud of you Adeolu

  • @funmilayooshunwusi2962
    @funmilayooshunwusi2962 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is real talk. I hope a lot of guys get to see this. Well done.

  • @teecee3250
    @teecee3250 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank God there is still hope! People still get sense like this...these days you can't even have an intelligent conversation. Clap for yourself y'll. Lynx anytime he talks👏👏👏 God indeed changed you.

  • @eyewuenemurphy-akpieyi2623
    @eyewuenemurphy-akpieyi2623 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So i sent my sister this youtube video and this was her reply, ''Lynxxx sounds finally grown up
    The moderator too is mentally mature
    The one cutting hair I wouldn't touch with a pool stick''..... Which is true. #myopinion

  • @Luludzie
    @Luludzie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I came back to this! This episode was refreshing.

  • @GracefullyKaren
    @GracefullyKaren 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Conversation 👌🏿✨☺️. Life partner is never perfect. Always a work in progress 👏🏾👏🏾. .

  • @salt2420
    @salt2420 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm not surprised to see comments about being "submissive" I'm convinced I'm not like most women my age seeing that this word has such a negative connotation among my age group. While they abhor the idea of being submissive to a man, I actually understand it 🤷🏾‍♀️. I mean, being submissive actually comes naturally when you are in love or care for someone, it manifests in the little things we do, we just overlook it. Simple things like doing him a favor, performing small tasks he asks you to do, just the little things and of course the more obvious such as ironing his shirt, cooking for him etc. ( because we're at "whipped" stage). It's just innate for us women, we are nurturer, "womb"men, mothers. Maternal instincts kick in when the love bug bites. The fear and resistance, I think, comes from being submissive to the wrong type of men which is justifiable, no woman wants to submit to a dictator. I can only speak for myself, as a woman submission would be sort of like a "love language" for me personally, to Express my appreciation to a good man who has proved himself trustworthy of my vulnerability. My submissiveness would also mean that I'm not afraid to be lead by him because I see leadership qualities and God in him. (Security) Submission can be a deep and spiritual thing, which is why I believe the Bible instructs us to practice it with each other (husband and wife) so be careful in choosing your partner

  • @tonkatonka2
    @tonkatonka2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I find myself nodding to every point raised. wow.... beautiful! real talk, grown men. good stuff. there's hope 😆

  • @Luludzie
    @Luludzie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved this! Watching it for the second time.

  • @ese4741
    @ese4741 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    PREACH LYNXX PREEEEEACH... Too many shallow minded fellas out there missing out on GOOD WOMEN because she's not a "SLAY QUEEN" ...shop talk is a good one.

  • @amakachigbue
    @amakachigbue 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is great!!
    So 2 eps in and there’s still the running theme of “knowing yourself first!”

  • @eunicebello7330
    @eunicebello7330 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh wow! This is really nice 👍. I like that there's a shift

  • @nellyjoseph2857
    @nellyjoseph2857 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    They all look for the flesh, all of them and when you try to tell them to be more spiritual and abstain. They all run... They all say they want more than the physical but its all crap. I may just be single for a while.. Sobs

  • @liyahweh
    @liyahweh 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ice cream factory!!!!! My God. I've been watching all of them videos. I'm happy I subscribed to this channel ❤️

  • @ladymayy
    @ladymayy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This show💜💜Waiting for the episode where you guys will invite ladies😉😁 Can I get an Amen!!

  • @thisisfifi247
    @thisisfifi247 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not Stan saying that and being married to an actress now😂. He definitely called it.

  • @thefleetfooted
    @thefleetfooted 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    But most serious lifters don't gym for gyal. It's for us. We want to look the best we can and be the strongest we can be. It might be your motivation at the start, but it typically doesn't last. The effect that weights have on your body and the positive experience of chasing and achieving goals is what keeps a lot of us going.

  • @ifeomajenny4475
    @ifeomajenny4475 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely love this. I hope a lot of people get to see it.

  • @iibiikata6108
    @iibiikata6108 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Finally!!! The show is ON. PS: lynxxx was dropping great points right there

  • @nkybaby3839
    @nkybaby3839 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    lynxxx really do hate this hair net thing. he talks about it all the time😂😂😂

  • @marriagefamilythewordtv3025
    @marriagefamilythewordtv3025 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this guys.. please keep it up!

  • @bukolasolanke4627
    @bukolasolanke4627 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    .... buh the inside the AC no dey work😂😂...

  • @Boluwatifebig
    @Boluwatifebig 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lovely job guys! On a lighter note though, this bros hair nor dey gree lower?

  • @tobithelma2039
    @tobithelma2039 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finally!!! I've been waiting for this. Well done.

  • @amei150
    @amei150 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow thank you guys

  • @Pendiscorner
    @Pendiscorner 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very very good.👏👏👏

  • @jhevmc
    @jhevmc 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Interesting how they skillfully moved the focus away from the question of what constitutes a submissive woman.

  • @peggyezumah6363
    @peggyezumah6363 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is an awesome funny but indept show. Big ups Adeolu, Lynxx and the guy cutting his hair

  • @feykem7459
    @feykem7459 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Most times you don't find the content you need in the spec you want"- WORD

    • @mickaellep.f.3955
      @mickaellep.f.3955 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It goes both ways chiiile..women get passed on and so do men..based on this very fact. There is are a lot of mismatches out there because too often the specs take over the substance especially in the younger years 20's and early 30's.

  • @amakabeibe
    @amakabeibe 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This hair ,them no dey barb am finish?

    • @SkidCudi
      @SkidCudi 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      that hair na actor once is finish is over actor no dey die 4 movies

    • @daviddaini9351
      @daviddaini9351 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol

  • @chubbokobah5601
    @chubbokobah5601 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like the show; the simplicity of it. I'd def follow it

  • @amakaanne302
    @amakaanne302 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was really interesting! Next episode please!!

  •  7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this Great show 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 lynxxx is too honest 😍

  • @asiyaali5083
    @asiyaali5083 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    i like Stan Eze. Great actor.

  • @adefioyesururah1778
    @adefioyesururah1778 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice topic

  • @xxmamaxxable
    @xxmamaxxable 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Looool! Really loved this!!

  • @onyinyechijioke
    @onyinyechijioke 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this show! Love it!

  • @LLeemahscorner
    @LLeemahscorner 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    These guys are smart and seem well grounded and while they are all eye candies, lynxxx mehn! My kinda guy...just fyne anyhow, sabi God and con get 6packs! Choi...lol

  • @tomilolaolotu880
    @tomilolaolotu880 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ahhh loved this so much! It is so refreshing to hear real talk from a guy's standpoint :), when is the next episode out??

    • @adeoluadefarasin
      @adeoluadefarasin 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      tomi olotu a new episode will drop this Friday.

  • @nownow3672
    @nownow3672 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just wonder why a barbershop would have that type of flooring.

  • @onukwubirieberechi8594
    @onukwubirieberechi8594 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love d discussion.....

  • @hakeemlamidi1816
    @hakeemlamidi1816 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    YO.I FUCKS WITH LYNNX MAN. You just have to know and understand yourself first before anything.. That just sums it up.

  • @okeoluwabunmi2384
    @okeoluwabunmi2384 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love love love this

  • @thefleetfooted
    @thefleetfooted 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Man like Lynxxx ya kna!

  • @cherylmason3274
    @cherylmason3274 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am willing to be summit to.my husband

  • @seesha31
    @seesha31 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is too much handsomeness in one room.

  • @adefioyesururah1778
    @adefioyesururah1778 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Having ur hair cut at d same time talking. Is it healthy?

  • @princesshephzibah5894
    @princesshephzibah5894 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    No woman will want to be ordered around. We, women are Also looking for substance.
    @lynxx the submission of Stan Ike's context isn't going to work.
    Even if get married to a woman who is a submissive person...one day she will rebel...everyone has got to work on themselves

  • @Omangozika
    @Omangozika 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Any guy that mentions “submissive, submission “, there’s a high chance that he’s a narcissist!!!! Trust me I’ve been there😄😄😄
    People need to know that submission isn’t a physical thing, it’s a spiritual thing....

  • @akpevwe__o
    @akpevwe__o 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the sure already 😀

  • @marianasamu1478
    @marianasamu1478 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This guy don dey cut hair since aha

  • @jenniferobiakor2691
    @jenniferobiakor2691 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    How is it possible that the barber didn't smile

    • @cutesnubable
      @cutesnubable 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jennifer Obiakor 💁🏾girl my thoughts exactly

    • @pearlstewart8991
      @pearlstewart8991 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      No joy very dry

  • @15jenifa
    @15jenifa 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    dear Lynxxx...........

  • @gingerb9997
    @gingerb9997 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Who’s the guy in glasses...?i like him....Mr if you read this message n u single .....then say hi..:)))

  • @chiamaka_barbara4820
    @chiamaka_barbara4820 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is one long haircut!

  • @keniizuka
    @keniizuka 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why put FIFA on the screen and not play it??? Was teasing me the whole time. I reckon everyone in that room can easily beat Adeolu

  • @shirlsshirls8594
    @shirlsshirls8594 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Who is the man with the glasses?

  • @chibaby0306
    @chibaby0306 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lynx I'm your wife, find me biko loll

  • @chibaby0306
    @chibaby0306 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    My goodness lynxxx I'm born again but im sorry I u r freaking hot😍😂😂

  • @mimaesthetic2517
    @mimaesthetic2517 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mm, usually mankind is quick is ignore and disobey God, but I see every culture on earth totally agrees about the submission thing... Which makes me think that the submission we talk about is totally ungodly and not God's definition. God's path has always been the narrow road that People don't want to travel on, yet all almost the entire male population want to obey God is the submissive wife department... Mm.

  • @ayomikunoguntola7058
    @ayomikunoguntola7058 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lynxx😍😍😍

  • @giovannasonni770
    @giovannasonni770 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What?

  • @giovannasonni770
    @giovannasonni770 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Submission? For what for him? He dreams obviously one really woman doesn't see him I have not words. The only intelligent is lynxxx

  • @dekemidiaries5646
    @dekemidiaries5646 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @ogasontop
    @ogasontop 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So non married guys talking about choosing a partner lol

  • @morolakemomodu6171
    @morolakemomodu6171 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Stan Nze is shallow