I personally don't like sharing my misery lol i soothe myself while i digest the thing... talking doesn't bring me anything in those moments, when it's too heavy or too depressive... In these moments of desperation i discovered i can authentically let go of control and leave everything to a bigger force... sometimes that's how it finds resolve... i don't like putting people in situations where they will feel helpless... helpless to help me... Aqua's care about people... they intuitively know that sometimes it's good to not share everything... i see with my dad, for instance... we usually don't need to talk... just a few words... tears... a big hug... we get each other... no need to talk, nor to explain... i have a Sagitarius friend (Leo rising) who gets me too... some people feel you... they went through the same kind of shit... and they are ok to hold the space for you...❤ those people are gold
I'm an Aquarius. I feel like I have to act a certain way around people, like I can rarely be the true me. It's exhausting so I isolate. Even my partner doesn't understand me a lot of the time.
I NEED ISOLATION TO RECHARGE MY BATTERIES FROM DEALING WITH STUPID PPL Aka THE NON-TRIBLE PPL! LOL NOT BEING MEAN BUT IM ALWAYS MISUNDERSTOOD EVERYWHERE WITH EVERYTHING. BUT IM GOOD JUST NEED A TIME OUT FROM TIME 2 TIME! 💖🤗💯 GREAT VIDEO SIS!
I'm considered the "weirdo" in my family. So I'm very choosy with whom I bond with. And don't get me start on the unintelligent, ugh, drives me crazy at times.
This is me. An aqua with no friends. Not because people don't like me but because I am not that into them. Too exhausting. My best friend skypes with me regularly but she lives on the other side of the world. She constantly tells me I need to be more social but I just haven't found my kind of people in the city where I live.
Ivory I was also into natural geographics. My small circle of friends and I would walk around with critter cages just incase we caught anything interesting lol.
You know i dont think we isolate ourselves because we feel misunderstood or for any particular reason. I think its just our make up. Its just how we are. We spend a lot of time in our thoughts, thinking and we are very comfortable doing that. Its just a natural thing. Its who we are.
100% me... I have came to realize that I am the one who has to make the effort to be found and heard. I absolutely love being unique!! I love being alone but I do love being with people and I will find my tribe.
IDK Queen but the moment I found your channel, I felt a very positive kind of vibe and your eyes are just full of honesty. Your videos made sense about Aquarians. You are showering us with so much enlightenment and your words are just lit. We, aquarians really have a warrior blood in our veins. We never tolerate any form of disrespect and bullshit because we are the QUEEN OF JUSTICE. This channel is just so empowering. Watching your videos always makes me smile. I wish you more success, Queen! Love and light! From Philippines, with ❤️❤️❤️💋💋💋
Can relate to this. I think, when I have feelings that people may find me weird or...other, it's in my head, but maybe not. I'm approachable and have often endured empty talks with persons. But I'm often alone and when I want to be around people it's usually in a public space, and even then, my nose is in a book or I'm concentrating in the gym. My concern at this time in my life when I can use a partner, is after I've made a connection with someone particularly a hottie, I've gotten in the practice of testing the waters by throwing out the hooks, then I'll take the hooks back before they barely bite. I guess my behavior is little deeper than that or it's the 'ol Aquarian way. Tryin' to get better.
Just broke up w my Aquarius last night . I’m very sad bc he was always isolating in the house . I always tried to understand him and bee compassionate for his Aquarius-ness, but he just wouldn’t really open up - I mean dead silence not respond OR he would just go off on me about the most random things within an argument to the point where my eyes were wide open and I’d be so lost . He would spin EVERYTHING on me and I literally couldn’t take his constant contradictions . Based on this video it’s apparent he didn’t think I was understanding him or he would think I had no sense . He would always say I can’t keep up w the conversation or I wouldn’t stay on topic but it was quite the opposite . He was crazy and made me feel crazy .
I'm sorry ❤❤ Breakups suck! What wasn't he opening up about? Did he mention why he's been isolating? I isolate frequently to get clarity and to work through what's bothering me, but I *always* tell my loved ones why. Did he mention anything before the isolation?
Brittany Cooper he would never really open up completely about a lot of things- almost everything. He played video games waaaaayyy too much and would deny that as if I wasn’t in the House witnessing it. He’s an artist so sometimes he’d draw for a while which I don’t have a problem with but the video games would get on my nerves especially since he’d be talking to all his friends on there and when we’re together hardly anything. I suspect he was more of a fearful avoidant in his attachment style for relationships . I initiate everything with him from saying I love you to trying to figure out what to go do outside of the house . He rarely went out with me to do stuff . His contradictions were getting too crazy too .. he loved to ague too . Just not attractive. I couldn’t take it anymore. It’s obvious he was using me and I was enabling him to isolate in an unhealthy way .
👏 Queen!! As an Aquarius 🌙 i love to b alone to gather my thoughts and weigh out where i am @ the moment...but the opposite of Aquarius is Leo so ya gotta get out and b seen 4m time to time. Ive collected all kinds of ppl i had to get rid of but u cant get n2 tht dark side Aquarius ish where now ur mind is the end all b all of life...b original b you but damnit go out and find some folk to SHARE all tht with...ppl wont always get it all the time but deep down they will love and respect it. Aquarius has the universal right to show its "freak flag" so hey...👀
I feel like the people who I have in my life don't understand me, you are right I do want Hangout with them, I have less to say because I'm not good at dealing with ignorant 😡
soooo true!!!!! but I have one guy in my life (my twinflame) whom I don't need to tell anything, just be silently around him and he knows everything...it feels like I am naked in front of him and unable to hide anything...he just knows..my mirror...and I feel like a woman just with him..he's Sagittarius...but with other people I feel like some weird creature with body from Saturn and mind from Uranus and nobody understands how I function xDD
commenting 2 minutes in hahaha - my l.i.f.e. s.t.o.r.y. - but I can admit that I just choose to stay isolated because I don't like people anymore 😂 it's a love hate kinda thing honestly. I want to and do help, but I get either misunderstood, accused of being crazy or selfish, taken advantage of, orrr just overwhelmed. however a lot of time, those latter things are of my own doing -_- lol But, yeah. . I love being alone. Also, my struggle is that I am hiiighly senstive to energies and have yet to really figure out how to deflect others' off me .
I'm an Aquariusa also, I never isolate my self, thats the way I'm growing up, just in the house if im not wirking or nothing important to go out and doing things. My parents never let me spoil go around or do something not important. When I'm young we can play but infront of the house only. Parents are so protected so for me not isolated its just not important dont go out stay in the house and do something. I'm happy for that. When I grow up we never let go to nieghbor and gossiping. Not my parents. Must stay in the house so it is safer.
I got my Taurus and my dang Capricorn....we wine and dine together and laugh our troubles off. They really help me to get out of myself and be part of the world. Thank you for this video!
My best friend is An Aquarius and I'm an Aquarius myself. We tend vibe more than our friend circle. Actually, I notice most of my friends are only Aquarius and air signs. Do air signs attract more to each other than other signs? There's 3 signs I never met in life or have the privilege to befriend. Scorpios, Leos and Pisces.
Peace and love Queen..I just “forced” myself yesterday to search social groups in my area. I moved to a new city and state without knowing anyone. Although I do love my alone time.. I know I need one or two people/friends to talk/hang out with sometimes. Thanks for the affirmation ☀️ Now if I could actually sign up & show up 🤦🏽♀️ Lol
Am with you on this one. Am married to 1 who wibt even speak to his friends, his family, me, stranger nobody... At what point do you class it at a mental illness and not just a zodiac trait ? I’ve also a Aqua friend who’s always am fine am fine, then out the blue after a drink been like I’ve been thinking about hanging myself but who would watch the kids just randomly comes out with it it’s a concern for me this isolation behaviour, some people do want to put it right they do want to hear you, nurture you and listen.
QueenAusetHeru 😢 I really want to help and understand these types of Aquarians this is why so many people give up on them as they end up clapping with 1 hand 🤚 All that oppressed kept in emotion can result in future health problems trapped energy blocks the meridians and many aquas I no suffer with joint pain in legs, knees and ankles. They’s not much you can do if someone don’t want let you in.
all us aquarians should create a facebook page thats for aquarians only, to come together
I'VE "ALWAYS" SAID I CAN "DO GOOD" BY MYSELF!😁I ACTUALLY "FLOURISH" WHEN I'M ALONE!😳 WHEN HURT, I GO "INWARD"! (Me against The crazy World).😅
I personally don't like sharing my misery lol
i soothe myself while i digest the thing...
talking doesn't bring me anything in those moments, when it's too heavy or too depressive...
In these moments of desperation i discovered i can authentically let go of control and leave everything to a bigger force... sometimes that's how it finds resolve...
i don't like putting people in situations where they will feel helpless... helpless to help me...
Aqua's care about people... they intuitively know that sometimes it's good to not share everything... i see with my dad, for instance... we usually don't need to talk... just a few words... tears... a big hug... we get each other... no need to talk, nor to explain... i have a Sagitarius friend (Leo rising) who gets me too... some people feel you... they went through the same kind of shit... and they are ok to hold the space for you...❤ those people are gold
I'm an Aquarius. I feel like I have to act a certain way around people, like I can rarely be the true me. It's exhausting so I isolate. Even my partner doesn't understand me a lot of the time.
you have to find/draw your tribe to u......
This is me all the way
I cant hang with people the shit be to exhausting.
LOL
I NEED ISOLATION TO RECHARGE MY BATTERIES FROM DEALING WITH STUPID PPL Aka THE NON-TRIBLE PPL! LOL NOT BEING MEAN BUT IM ALWAYS MISUNDERSTOOD EVERYWHERE WITH EVERYTHING. BUT IM GOOD JUST NEED A TIME OUT FROM TIME 2 TIME! 💖🤗💯 GREAT VIDEO SIS!
ty love!!!
I agree with you 100%
I'm considered the "weirdo" in my family. So I'm very choosy with whom I bond with. And don't get me start on the unintelligent, ugh, drives me crazy at times.
People hardly understand me. I like to isolate myself honestly
Agree. I'm around people but no one understands or wants to try. It's exhausting to try or to explain myself all the time.
I LOVE BEING ALONE, I so agree!
This is me. An aqua with no friends. Not because people don't like me but because I am not that into them. Too exhausting. My best friend skypes with me regularly but she lives on the other side of the world. She constantly tells me I need to be more social but I just haven't found my kind of people in the city where I live.
Ever since I've found you and a couple other aquarius on here that I've been feeling better about myself. Its really nice to connect.
Im glad to hear that! I feel the same way!
It's worse in the black community because intelligent thoughts are considered "lame" or if you're not into sports you're weird.
true!!!
Ivory I was also into natural geographics. My small circle of friends and I would walk around with critter cages just incase we caught anything interesting lol.
You know i dont think we isolate ourselves because we feel misunderstood or for any particular reason. I think its just our make up. Its just how we are. We spend a lot of time in our thoughts, thinking and we are very comfortable doing that. Its just a natural thing. Its who we are.
many of us beg to differ....maybe thats why u do it....
Opening anything is hard at this loint
Point
That's true..I'm always misunderstood for sure
So true ...Im aqua cause I know to face my struggle and handle on my own...an aqua always have a solution what ever it is
100% me... I have came to realize that I am the one who has to make the effort to be found and heard. I absolutely love being unique!! I love being alone but I do love being with people and I will find my tribe.
I love my own company
IDK Queen but the moment I found your channel, I felt a very positive kind of vibe and your eyes are just full of honesty. Your videos made sense about Aquarians. You are showering us with so much enlightenment and your words are just lit. We, aquarians really have a warrior blood in our veins.
We never tolerate any form of disrespect and bullshit because we are the QUEEN OF JUSTICE. This channel is just so empowering. Watching your videos always makes me smile. I wish you more success, Queen!
Love and light!
From Philippines, with
❤️❤️❤️💋💋💋
Hey love! Welcome!!! Ty for watching and commenting! Love and light!
I agree Mr Aquarian works 12 hours a day...omg even weekends sometime.
smdh
We don’t want to...
Period!
Yep!
This is the most accurate explanation I’ve heard in my life 😭
Love the makeup color
ty!!
Yw
Can relate to this. I think, when I have feelings that people may find me weird or...other, it's in my head, but maybe not. I'm approachable and have often endured empty talks with persons. But I'm often alone and when I want to be around people it's usually in a public space, and even then, my nose is in a book or I'm concentrating in the gym. My concern at this time in my life when I can use a partner, is after I've made a connection with someone particularly a hottie, I've gotten in the practice of testing the waters by throwing out the hooks, then I'll take the hooks back before they barely bite. I guess my behavior is little deeper than that or it's the 'ol Aquarian way. Tryin' to get better.
Spoken from a true aquarius. All facts
The nail on the head again!!
Exact reasons i couldnt go next door tonight.
I need to refresh my thoughts
Thank you.
yvw!
Just broke up w my Aquarius last night . I’m very sad bc he was always isolating in the house . I always tried to understand him and bee compassionate for his Aquarius-ness, but he just wouldn’t really open up - I mean dead silence not respond OR he would just go off on me about the most random things within an argument to the point where my eyes were wide open and I’d be so lost . He would spin EVERYTHING on me and I literally couldn’t take his constant contradictions . Based on this video it’s apparent he didn’t think I was understanding him or he would think I had no sense . He would always say I can’t keep up w the conversation or I wouldn’t stay on topic but it was quite the opposite . He was crazy and made me feel crazy .
I would have left him too. Yall not compatible.
QueenAusetHeru thanks Queen . I still don’t know if he was grey or dark or whatever but he sure loved to argue .. so yeah . I’m done .
I'm sorry ❤❤ Breakups suck! What wasn't he opening up about? Did he mention why he's been isolating? I isolate frequently to get clarity and to work through what's bothering me, but I *always* tell my loved ones why. Did he mention anything before the isolation?
Brittany Cooper he would never really open up completely about a lot of things- almost everything. He played video games waaaaayyy too much and would deny that as if I wasn’t in the House witnessing it. He’s an artist so sometimes he’d draw for a while which I don’t have a problem with but the video games would get on my nerves especially since he’d be talking to all his friends on there and when we’re together hardly anything. I suspect he was more of a fearful avoidant in his attachment style for relationships . I initiate everything with him from saying I love you to trying to figure out what to go do outside of the house . He rarely went out with me to do stuff . His contradictions were getting too crazy too .. he loved to ague too . Just not attractive. I couldn’t take it anymore. It’s obvious he was using me and I was enabling him to isolate in an unhealthy way .
thank u sweetie that helped me i always isolating myself u r right there’s a lack of interest comes from being misunderstood
I approve of this message. This is my current situation.
👏 Queen!! As an Aquarius 🌙 i love to b alone to gather my thoughts and weigh out where i am @ the moment...but the opposite of Aquarius is Leo so ya gotta get out and b seen 4m time to time. Ive collected all kinds of ppl i had to get rid of but u cant get n2 tht dark side Aquarius ish where now ur mind is the end all b all of life...b original b you but damnit go out and find some folk to SHARE all tht with...ppl wont always get it all the time but deep down they will love and respect it. Aquarius has the universal right to show its "freak flag" so hey...👀
This video is my whole life.
Yup, that is me right now. Don't have anyone and I am by myself dealing with a breakup from an 11 year relationship.
Im so sorry!
FACTS
I feel like the people who I have in my life don't understand me, you are right I do want Hangout with them, I have less to say because I'm not good at dealing with ignorant 😡
I totally understand.
Ppl don't listen.and misunderstood.you hot it on the nose.i think you are a beautiful person and you know me well.VERY VERY WELL. always misunderstood
True.. I’m so good by my self I love it 🥰
soooo true!!!!! but I have one guy in my life (my twinflame) whom I don't need to tell anything, just be silently around him and he knows everything...it feels like I am naked in front of him and unable to hide anything...he just knows..my mirror...and I feel like a woman just with him..he's Sagittarius...but with other people I feel like some weird creature with body from Saturn and mind from Uranus and nobody understands how I function xDD
That's perfectly fine
Literally binge watching all your videos I could cry cause everything your saying is sooooo on point! love that I came across your videos ❤️❤️
I am so glad!
commenting 2 minutes in hahaha - my l.i.f.e. s.t.o.r.y. - but I can admit that I just choose to stay isolated because I don't like people anymore 😂 it's a love hate kinda thing honestly. I want to and do help, but I get either misunderstood, accused of being crazy or selfish, taken advantage of, orrr just overwhelmed. however a lot of time, those latter things are of my own doing -_- lol But, yeah. . I love being alone. Also, my struggle is that I am hiiighly senstive to energies and have yet to really figure out how to deflect others' off me .
Because we dont trust easy either
Love your makeup in this video ✌ I need to work on my lone wolf syndrome.
ty!!!
Omg i isolate myself
Queen I want to say thank you so much for your words of wisdom.
yvw
👸🏽 As always you are on point👸🏽
I'm an Aquariusa also, I never isolate my self, thats the way I'm growing up, just in the house if im not wirking or nothing important to go out and doing things. My parents never let me spoil go around or do something not important. When I'm young we can play but infront of the house only. Parents are so protected so for me not isolated its just not important dont go out stay in the house and do something. I'm happy for that. When I grow up we never let go to nieghbor and gossiping. Not my parents. Must stay in the house so it is safer.
That's how I feel about my community here where I live..either they get us ir they don't
I got my Taurus and my dang Capricorn....we wine and dine together and laugh our troubles off. They really help me to get out of myself and be part of the world. Thank you for this video!
yvw!
Hey Queen Im loving this look today xoxo
My best friend is An Aquarius and I'm an Aquarius myself. We tend vibe more than our friend circle. Actually, I notice most of my friends are only Aquarius and air signs. Do air signs attract more to each other than other signs? There's 3 signs I never met in life or have the privilege to befriend. Scorpios, Leos and Pisces.
We like ppl who understand us of any element. I do attract a ot of air ppl.
Gosh your so right 😁
Peace and love Queen..I just “forced” myself yesterday to search social groups in my area. I moved to a new city and state without knowing anyone. Although I do love my alone time.. I know I need one or two people/friends to talk/hang out with sometimes. Thanks for the affirmation ☀️ Now if I could actually sign up & show up 🤦🏽♀️ Lol
The mid heaven of Aquarius is scorpio.
Please explain this to. I didnt understand
That's right
Thank you 😊 I appreciate your honesty enjoy your day
u 2 love!
Thank you ❤️
You’re welcome 😊
On point ✨💚
I like this Video Queen!
ty sweetheart!!
¥ou hit the ⭕spot ...
Queen, how do I use the law of attraction to attract persons like myself? Could you do a video on this please?
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Ill address it specifically in a future video :)
Am with you on this one. Am married to 1 who wibt even speak to his friends, his family, me, stranger nobody... At what point do you class it at a mental illness and not just a zodiac trait ? I’ve also a Aqua friend who’s always am fine am fine, then out the blue after a drink been like I’ve been thinking about hanging myself but who would watch the kids just randomly comes out with it it’s a concern for me this isolation behaviour, some people do want to put it right they do want to hear you, nurture you and listen.
it starts off as a zodiac trait, but becomes a mental illness if it goes on too long....at that point it's usually depression
QueenAusetHeru 😢 I really want to help and understand these types of Aquarians this is why so many people give up on them as they end up clapping with 1 hand 🤚 All that oppressed kept in emotion can result in future health problems trapped energy blocks the meridians and many aquas I no suffer with joint pain in legs, knees and ankles. They’s not much you can do if someone don’t want let you in.
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Lolol.
Can't fool us..❤❤👍👍👏👏👏🤣🤣🤣🤣
Love you
Girl, same!
True!
❤
PERIODTT!!!!!
How can I find a Tribe?
law of attraction
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STOP revealing Secrets...
LOL! Ppl need to know!!
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