this is no way platonic, i think luca was trying to show is how caitlin and fraser were still trying to discover their sexualities and realised labels doesn't matter. that kiss was them finally realizing their feelings for eachother since the beginning.
This is the most original, relevant and powerful love story i have seen in a long time. Relevant, cause it's made for this generation. Luca is the best in creating love stories .
This is one of the best endings I’ve ever seen. In a world where everyone is trying to figure out who they are. He truly loved her for who she actually was. Not who she was trying so hard to be or figure out to be. This is so poetic.
In the whole series their relationship was platonic, i didn't expect it this at all, i thought it'll stay platonic, i didn't expect much of a plot development or twist in this episode, kept my expectations low and just wanted to enjoy the concert tbh , i believe Luca's works are more characters and settings driven, this ending was very unexpected, and i think it is perfect . Love this, I cried in this scene, i don't even know why, something about being young and confused is the most beautiful thing ever.
It was such a perfect ending. I feel it wasn’t a sexual thing them kissing but more they went through so much together and the connection they had is something they will take with them for the rest of their lives. And them touching each other and kissing was just them knowing that. Loved it💙💙
I cried too but because it felt like their confusion their lonliness their otherness was all gone and they saw each other and accepted each other and loved each other and it was just powerful to me
i cried my soul out in the end, it really made me realize that wait i really exist as a person with complex feelings like these two characters that i love so much
That kiss had so much love understanding and happiness in it, I didn't even think it was possible. Imagine being understanding and loving of someone so complexed as either of these characters Caitlin saw Fraiser apathy to other people's grief his hate towards his mother she never judged him and Fraser saw Cate's gender dysphoria and was just there to accept her and love her..I just it was beautiful
Harper realized she didn't want to be a boy, she did it to make Fraser like her. In fact in the whole series they are getting to know each other and the point of the series is that sometimes we are wrong about our identity and that's fine ❤ He thought he was searching for a boy and she tought she was searching to be a boy but in actuality they were just searching for each other✨
I feel like that story isn't told enough. I'm only 23 but went thru the exact same feelings as harper when I was 16-18. I hope you guys know how lucky you are to have media such as this for you to see at your age. I wish shows like this were around when I was in high school. it would have made things much easier. I feel like these stories of exploration and discovery needs to be explored more in media. my favourite part was also when the trans backup singer for blood orange turned around and smiled at harper before returning onto stage.
I think Caitlyn wanted to be more masculine because she grew up around such strong male figures (like her brothers and her dad and men on the military base) that did the things she wanted to do and barely had any representation of strong women figures. I don't think it had anything to do with Fraser at all. And honestly I interpreted the scene of her washing off her beard and running off from the bartender to be because she didn't like how she wasn't passing completely as a male. I think it threw her off when the bartender could sense that she was a female to male trans person and I think she wanted to just pass as a cis male. I don't think it's that she doesn't want to be masculine anymore. I could be wrong but that's how I interpreted it. Also in my opinion Fraser and Caitlyn's relationship was never romantic and honestly I don't think it ever will be romantic. I think the ending kissing scene was supposed to be symbolic of how deeply they cared for and supported each other and a simple hug couldn't express that fully. Or maybe it was suppposed to be romantic. who knows. I loved the show though this ending scene made me cry so much
@@graceli6182 I liked your opinion, although I don't understand english very well. I wanted to leave you the explanation of the episode, I think you will like it th-cam.com/video/ueBFhN4UmQk/w-d-xo.html
@@graceli6182 I agree with you the bartender upset her the same way her first girl she kiss upset her as she was told"I know your a girl" and "you are trans right". I dont know if she has gender dysphoria but imagine having that and being clocked or told what gender you are biologically are when you have tried so hard to mask yourself it's heartbreaking. What I do think though is that she sees her mother as weak she wants to be like her Dad she has been groomed by him to be macho and tough and she just sees that as desirable traits and wants to fit that mold. So she goes of and creates Harper so she could be the full embodiment of what she sees on her friends and her Dad. I do think there is more than friendship love between her and Fraser I do not kiss my friends like that lol. I think Caitlin did explore this trans journey a little bit more because Fraser came into her life and Fraser was smitten with her the very first time he saw her. Remember when he talked about his imaginary friend how he stared at the boy he wanted to the point he got creepd out he did the same thing with Caitlin just that she didn't get creepd out. There were hints throughout their journey that showed they had more feelings towards each other Caitlin git mad that Frasier kissed a girl for eg, it just caught as by surprise because the viewers made up.in our minds that Fraser was gay and Caitlin was trans and liked girls. Yet they both never said these things about themselves. It's our faults for just painting their sexuality in one box, they are still discovering it themselves.
@@bel9678 i think them no come back to the base , but they staying Together Forever , was a Happy and Satisfied Ending , now Fraser and Caitling are Together Forever
By the end of the show, I wasn't rooting for Fraser and Caitlin to be together; I was just rooting for them to be happy, even if only for a moment. So to see her smile after he kisses her, to see genuine happiness etched on her face after she spent so much of the season wandering around lost and confused, that was something really lovely.
This!!! Obviously it's debatable what the kiss means for them, but I think the goal was to see Frase & Cait finally find a place where they could be at peace with someone they truly trusted
The title of the show is one of the most accurately executed titles I’ve came across. Us viewers trying to depict this scene and these characters, wanting to label their sexuality, preferred pronouns, love interest etc. While leaving a lot of those things up in the air. But this scene I believe tells you, it doesn’t matter what “you” think because to them “we are who we are” and that’s all that matters.
when i first started watching i thought the show would basically help caitlin thru her trans journey and fraser realize hes gay, but throughout the episodes you could see that the only people there for them were each other. all this time i thought "we are who we are" meant caitlin was trans and fraser is gay but in reality its destroying those stereotypes and loving each other, regardless of what society thinks.
ikr it's addictive😂 I loved this ending though, i thought it was just as revealing yet just as cliff-hanger feeling. At first I said "GOD I NEED TO KNOW WHAT HAPPENS!" but now i realize that mabye, it's how it was supposed to go. They run away, and the story isn't over, but it is as far as we're concerned. Now they don't even know what to do or where to go, which refelcts onto the aspect of their discovery process still incomplete. What a show i mean, so short but so flawless.
This scene was so powerful, i mean, it shows that the kiss wasn’t something sexual but an expression of tenderness, like when you got so many feelings for someone and it kinda overflows, only words or hugs or even kisses wouldn’t be enough to demonstrate how you love that person, how you appreciate that person in your life, how you glad to have that person. I love Guadagnino and really hope for an second season cause there’s so many subjects to continue and discuss, and would worth it
I really loved this show. Specifically, Caitlin and Fraser's journey individually and together. From episode 1, I just kept trying to define things and to pin point what was happening (i'm an overthinker) but then it hit me that this show literally depicts life. And life can be whatever it wants to be. We label things to try and understand them to our limited knowledge but what's the point if life will just do it's own thing? Caitlin and Fraser's journey depict that. When they kissed, it was like a moment of letting go of labels and expectations but just allowing the love ,they have for each other, to lead them. It's brave how they unapologetically show themselves to the other but at the same time they're still figuring out who they are. It's a beautiful and hard thing, to just be whoever or whatever we are with the person or people we love. The possibilities for their relationship are endless. And I love that. Not everything in life has to be just one thing. This really was a coming of age series. The way Luca filmed this, I literally felt like I was walking alongside with them throughout it all.
this ending was perfect in my opinion. i believed it was clique to put them together at first but as the show went it was so unexpected for this scene to happen but it was perfect. people automatically assumed fraser was gay because of the way he carried himself but i truly don't believe it is that. gender anr sexuality are a spectrum and fraser and caitlin really showed that. i see some people saying that caitlin and fraser's relationship is platonic and i just can't agree with that. i say this because fraser always knew that their was tension between them. never have i had to clarify to a friend of mine "we won't kiss," fraser knew something was going to end up happening between them, but at the time he couldn't fathom it. a lot of people are confused by fraser and caitlin's characters, as well, but i believe fraser is on the autism spectrum and caitlin isn't transgender, but was finding herself. episode 8 is when you can finally see that the two characters realized they have feelings for each other. the whole season they tried to distract themselves with other people and things, and it was those last ten moments in episode ten where fraser and caitlin realized they don't need anyone else, but each other, and they didn't have much time left together because caitlin was leaving. their kiss was intimate, was nothing platonic, there was so much passion behind it compared to other kisses that they shared with separate characters on the shows. that is just my perspective on episode 8. :)
Perfect interpretation I hate how people are downplaying the kiss like it's just a friendship like Caitlin dint get mad when Fraser kissed a girl or Fraser wasn't enamored with Caitlin from the moment he saw her and that iPad video call was lovely.
AGREED 100% u just cant say something is platonic when they are just literally holding back not saying it, they knew they were the only ones for each other, simple as that.
What I love about this show is the fact that everyone has its own way of seeing it.Some see their realationship as platonic, some as romantic, but the point is : It is what it is...No less,no more... They are who they are
Since ep 1 I was rooting for them because when Fraser saw her he really "saw" her if you know what I mean, then they became friends and accepted, supported and love each other like no one else in their lives did. Sam told Caitlin, Craig said "they are soulmates" he was so damn right. When they kissed it wasn't a surprise for me bc I knew they had to realize by themselves after all those adventures they had with other people, they couldn't feel the same with them bc they were in love with each other. This is the best "best friends to lovers" storyline I've ever seen, their kiss was so passionate, sweet, pure & full of joy. ✨Masterpiece✨
i could watch this for eternity, the way he kisses her head and all over face literally fills my heart w joy. such a young actor but he knows exactly how to make the entire room feel the love
@@thegentleassassin Luca actually wrote “a bible” for Season 2. Like he legit wrote the entire 2nd Season with the other writers over lockdown. I think it’s definitely possible they shoot it. The time jump makes sense
I was waiting for this ever since the first trailer dropped 😭 btw, dang, this song was playing when fraser saw Caitlin at the beach Side note, dang Eddie from IT really knows how to kiss. O.o brilliant actor
When I watched this the night it aired I was sobbing so badly my husband was like did someone die? "I was like no they kissed I'm so happy" LOL. I feel like my response was really weird, but so many emotions hit me at once the whole season built-up to that moment (The Kiss). They thought they were looking for other people to love them and something in themselves but they didn't have to change at all at the end they accepted themselves and fell in love with each other that was beautiful to me 😍😭.
Saw this in a review from Ben Travers for IndieWire, where he articulated my exact thoughts and I quote "Fraser and Caitlin will not be dictated to; their actions aren’t determined by anyone else, and their choices are their own. They didn’t kiss for our benefit. They kissed for theirs. Whether you read the title as a defiant declaration (“We are who we are, damn it!”) or a shrugging catch-all…it’s unapologetic and honest, open-minded and well-intentioned." I want to praise Luca Guadagino for making this tender moment that made me cry and listen to Prince's "The Love We Make" for days. Also according to the article, Guadagino's writing team already wrote an outline for Season 2, and they’d very much like to continue these characters’ stories.
we saw them kiss other people without any passion for 8 episodes and then they accepted that they like each other and they kissed and aaaah! AAAAH! IT'S LIKE THERE ARE FIREWORKS EXPLODING IN MY HEART!!!
I watched this today and absolutely freaked out!! I was shocked that Fraser even kissed Caitlyn bc he made a deal that they wouldn’t ever kiss and then boom they did
This was the perfect ending imo. The way the kids was portrayed really showed what we were looking for throughout the whole series. I don’t think it was platonic; but I also don’t believe it was “sexual” yk? I think it was just where they truly found the answer, and they were grateful for that.
So, this seems very nice, if I'm perceiving it correctly, is that Caitlin doesn't have to be defined as trasgender. She doesn't have to present herself as a feminine standard in society and is able to like "guy things." She can still be a girl, and it feels reassuring
I don’t think the kiss was platonic in any way because the whole series and episode was both Caitlin and Fraser realising they’ aren’t who they’ thought they were. She realises she doesn’t wanna be a trans and Fraser realising he isn’t gay that’s why they both walked out on who they kissed in the episode. Their stories mirrored each other perfectly. The kiss was both of them accepting their feelings for each other imo
They truly love each other unconditionally and accept each other just as they are, like can you blame them for wanting to kiss? kissing it's a way of expressing the emotions that you feel that are going to burst out of your chest, we can all see the love in the kiss it's not passion it's pure love and excitement, yes It was unexpected but it wasn't wrong, because I don't think anyone it's surprised that they love each other (if we take away the labels and judgements that we made about them during the movie) that's exactly the point of the movie, let people be who they are, feel what they want to feel, without having to label them or them having to explain themselves. they don't have to explain to us why they suddenly realized they love each other and why they were confused and clueless of what's going on. we all are clueless most of the time, but we don't try to discover ourselves to the extend that they both did, they are young and they are in their self discovery journey, and they are unapologetic about not following guide lines, the whole series made us expect just a platonic relationship, but if they feel romantic about each other who are we to tell them what they feel or not based on behavior, there is not certain way people should behave to fulfill expectations, they are characters but they represent so many people, based on the negative comments I wonder how many people in real life have suppress their feelings just they were against "expectations" like dude let people live, even if it's random, like the fact that you don't understand them, doesn't invalidate their feelings or who they are. so yeah I don't think this movie is about trans or bi representation, it's just about people embracing who they are even if they don't know who they are. like read the the title of the series and try to understand the message that they were trying to give with the ending, they were just honoring the tittle.
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I love this show so much. When i was growing up I felt confused about my identity, sexuality and gender. But growing up in a dominican household i was always told to hide my feelings or "Man up". I remembered as a kid i would asign different genders to house hold items like washers and dryers. I feel like if I had the freedom to explore my stuff like Frasier did. I wouldn't be Bipolar with General anxiety. This show does alot with letting people know that these things should be allowed to be explored without judgement. Its the minds and feelings of people needing that.
Was Lucas real right before Fraser ran off to get Caitlin? Did anyone else notice he disappeared like a ghost after Fraser hugged him? Also I think Caitlin realized that she didn’t want to be a he/him. I felt she was jealous of the attention Fraser gave Lucas when they were in the car. Also in the earlier episode where they were looking at each other through iPads. I knew some feelings were goin on there.
I think Lucas may have been an interpretation of Mark, which would explain why Caitlin made no mention of Lucas, and sort of just stared at Fraser the entire car ride. Probably because she probably saw him talking to no one in the car👀
@@zell06 wow this actually makes sense I didn’t think of this theory bcecause cati was talking to him but that makes sense, she was looking at Fraser “talking to Luca” and replying like it was normal for Fraser.
@@zell06 i also think that this all may be something from fraser's mind. when they first see each other, fraser is taking pictures and stalking harper, just like he did to mark. and the fact that harper said that he didn't exist kinda makes this theory solid.
this may just be my interpretation (and maybe i need to go back and rewatch the show) but i remember this ending seeming mildly platonic to me. after everything that happened fraser and caitlin were celebrating the state of authenticity and autonomy that they had both reached in their lives. and they celebrated by kissing each other because it was just the ultimate way to express their feelings; happiness and pride in themselves and for each other. we’re no longer meant to question what their sexualities are or whether or not caitlin is trans (or questioning or fluid) we’re just supposed to celebrate the calm they’ve reached.
i read a comment say that this show is so good because everyone interprets it in their own way and i think that is so true! to me, this show doesn’t necessarily have a storyline, it is so natural like how life actually is. realistically, you don’t have a beginning, middle and end during your lifetime, you just let things happen naturally, and this is what the show captures. there are so many bumps, so many things that leave the audience confused or sad about, but it all happens so smoothly and naturally that you can be mad, you just roll with it too. and that’s why i love this show after watching it, because when i was actually watching it i didn’t understand it at all, but now i do after watching intervenes and reading comments like these. my absolute dream is to be in a movie/show like this, and to be one of these people you you can just realate to do much. ugh, this show is just so incredibly perfect.
I honestly adored this show but I can't help the fact that I wasn't a huge fan of the ending and it makes me feel sad, because I thoroughly enjoyed this show. I think it may be because I saw a spoiler online. I think I really enjoyed their friendship and that I wanted it to remain platonic and not turn sexual and once they kissed, I thought their amazing friendship would turn into something more. I would like to think that the kiss was more symbolic of how much they both mean to each other and that they truly do love each other and it doesn't have to be sexual. I prefer having a show of a boy and girl becoming best friends than lovers. I think they are soul mates, but it doesn't necessarily have to be anything sexual. But otherwise, I loved this show and I'm definitely going to re-watch it soon and I feel like I will really enjoy it double the amount. ❤️ P.S. I also wanted to see all the other characters in the last episode and what they are up to. But I suppose it's left for the imagination. There is honestly so many questions I still have about.. Well, everything and everyone. 😂
YESS!! Omg we literally need to be best friends. I agree 100% on everything you said. I said something like this on a Instagram post and I got attacked.
@@marvy204 that's really sad and I'm sorry that you got attacked for your own opinion. The show is literally called We Are Who We Are, which is quite self-explanatory to the meaning behind the title. I would hope people watching the show are super open-minded, meaning that you would respect other people's opinions, even if you don't agree with them. Just because you didn't like a certain element of the television show, doesn't mean you're stating it is bad and even if you don't like show, that's okay. 😂 We Are Who We Are = can't change our thoughts and feelings.
when i watched the ending first time i really thought that it was just a way of showing affection and they were soulmates, i didn't think it was sexual. Once, I kissed my best friend and told her "you are my best friend" right after so watching this scene was really emotional for me. i really dont want to read it any other way. i think they had a speacial friendship.
I waited for this part the entire show and when it finally arrived I had some feeling of happiness as they kissed but then slight sadness as I’m not sure that this kiss was meant to be passionate/sexual I’m guessing it’s just a thankful kiss of knowing each other and finally feeling as though they know themselves but I’m happy either way🤎
This may be a minor opinion, but for me, this kiss was a surprise that I haven't expected...ever. I mean, I've always seen Caitlin and Fraser as friends with different desires and even different spectrums of sexuality. I think they never showed any interest towards each other (if I'm wrong and there was a hint then I'm open to know what it was :)) and for me, it was kinda a random ending for a show. I expected Jonathan and Fraiser's relationship to go deeper...but it wasn't totally a real thing for me too (many people were talking about the age difference). Anyway, I realised that Caitlin's third kiss was the one that was finally good for her...well, third time lucky. But, on the other hand...is there anybody better for Fraiser here in Italy & for Caitlin too? They know each other well and they're connected because of music. But wasn't Caitlin supposed to leave the base? Or maybe it was just a kiss, without any further consequences? I like to discuss and this seemed like a great opportunity to talk about things. Any thoughts?
It's a major opinion actually :'''''), thank you. For me there was no real secret about the intimacy between Fraser and Caitlin it was so such like his earlier movie CMBYN where there no real secrets everybody knows the truth but keep it in his small personal perspective.....I don't know about the fact if they were the best for each other and the series keeps it curiously open but still, the kiss was a surprise and added joy to me probably like anyone who watch the episode and it touched me how the episode was a memorial for Lucas father at the end.
@@adhamnassar6219 Oh, I saw the memorial too. For me Luca's art is often without a significant plot, somebody even said that "he lets things happen". Also, I wish we saw Sarah and Maggie in this episode. I hope there will be another season...maybe things will get more clear!
@nobodyimportant. I think you are downplaying the intimacy and soulmate-like connection Fraser and Caitlin have. Their connection was far beyond just music. No, I don’t think there is someone “better”for each of them. I think at this point in their lives they each understand each other better than anyone else. That doesn’t mean that fact may change one day. But at this particular junction, they have found each other. And by the way I don’t think having music in common is a trivial connection, anyways. music is a form of communication. How else is someone supposed to know what’s on our minds if we don’t communicate? Everyone is having a singular experience in life. But if people connect through music, for a moment they understand each other and inhabit the same world. I don’t know if this makes sense
@@herroyalpeachness No no, "music" in my monologue was one of the examples of things that connects them, I think that was the first thing that got into my mind when I was typing this. Of course they have a bond because of their talks, spending time and even those phone messages, they were cool to read. But I think that this music fact was a main thing in the finale. This song etc.
Yeah it was clear to me. From the very beginning Fraser would stare at Caitlin / Harper at school and at home. He took pictures of her and later m--------ed to them if I remember correctly. And then the promise that they would never kiss and how defensive he was about people thinking they were dating, but they would watch each other fall asleep via video call while Caitlin was grounded. That seems more intimate than something you'd do with platonic friends. And Caitlin / Harper seemed passive about their relationships. But they texted Fraser the entire time they were hunting with their dad. And their dad seems to hate that they're growing up and becoming more distant from him and closer to Fraser. The passion that Fraser kisses Caitlin / Harper with and in the second kiss Caitlin / Harper pulls Fraser in for a kiss, reciprocating. He said before he didn't have the nerve with Mark but he actively went for Harper, followed him to the bar, accommodated his transness even though he felt conflicted at times about it, told him about trans stuff, used he / him pronouns for Harper in the car, cut Harper's hair (a big deal for trans men) gave Harper his clothes, which clothes are pretty important to Fraser. I think there is a message of it doesn't matter your sexuality or gender identity so much as long as you connect and love that person for who they are now. (But gay trans men exist, I am one and I think I wanted to see that. )
I think Fraser is definitely attracted to guys but still trying to find out if his also attracted to girls. Caitlin/Harper is the only “girl” he feels drawn to in the entire series, and since the beginning they (Cate/Harper) were not very feminine. Unlike Britney and Sole who were clearly feminine and do things a girl is supposed to do, Fraser wasn’t attracted to them when they try something. As for Caitlin/Harper, they might be trans or non binary, it was clear that they were not comfortable being seen as a girl, but felt confuse because they like guys (they def felt something for Fraser through the series) and was trying to like girls as a man is supposed to. At the end I think bot realised that, as the title says, We are who we are, Fraser and Cate/Harper are still trying to find themselves but that’s okay. They don’t need to rush.
can we normalise calling him harper please because thats his name. i havent seen a single "we are who we are" related video where we actually acknowledge that harper is trans
i watched a behind the scenes and as i understand it, caitlin in the end didnt necessarily want to be trans but was instead just exploring gender identity, which explains the scene where they ditch the bartender and go to the bathroom. in the end caitlin decided against a label - aka we are who we are
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this is no way platonic, i think luca was trying to show is how caitlin and fraser were still trying to discover their sexualities and realised labels doesn't matter. that kiss was them finally realizing their feelings for eachother since the beginning.
Agreed they're soulmates and they finally realized who they are.
true i saw people saying this kiss meant nothing and i'm like hello...did we watch the same show??? they always had feelings for eachother
Fraser literally pulled her in and sucked her face what's not sexual about that and why was there a second kiss if they were just friends
@@ramonaflowers2813 exactly my thought and some have the nerve to say that was platonic like are we watching the same show...?
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The passion in this kiss is just a chefs kiss
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This is the most original, relevant and powerful love story i have seen in a long time. Relevant, cause it's made for this generation. Luca is the best in creating love stories .
the fact that fraser said: “we never gonna kiss” 👀💓
And he's the one who kissed her first 🤣
FRRR I was like that’s definitely foreshadowing
Looks like him break his promise because he likes her , this was a Happy Ending , now Fraser and Caitling are Together Forever , i liked so Much
@@gabrielfreire7261 not really tho isn’t Cait moving?
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This is one of the best endings I’ve ever seen. In a world where everyone is trying to figure out who they are. He truly loved her for who she actually was. Not who she was trying so hard to be or figure out to be. This is so poetic.
In the whole series their relationship was platonic, i didn't expect it this at all, i thought it'll stay platonic, i didn't expect much of a plot development or twist in this episode, kept my expectations low and just wanted to enjoy the concert tbh , i believe Luca's works are more characters and settings driven, this ending was very unexpected, and i think it is perfect . Love this, I cried in this scene, i don't even know why, something about being young and confused is the most beautiful thing ever.
It was such a perfect ending. I feel it wasn’t a sexual thing them kissing but more they went through so much together and the connection they had is something they will take with them for the rest of their lives. And them touching each other and kissing was just them knowing that. Loved it💙💙
@@movieboyguy at that moment they realized they had feelings for eachother
I cried too but because it felt like their confusion their lonliness their otherness was all gone and they saw each other and accepted each other and loved each other and it was just powerful to me
@@ramonaflowers2813 wow yeah, very well put description
i cried my soul out in the end, it really made me realize that wait i really exist as a person with complex feelings like these two characters that i love so much
That kiss had so much love understanding and happiness in it, I didn't even think it was possible. Imagine being understanding and loving of someone so complexed as either of these characters Caitlin saw Fraiser apathy to other people's grief his hate towards his mother she never judged him and Fraser saw Cate's gender dysphoria and was just there to accept her and love her..I just it was beautiful
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Harper realized she didn't want to be a boy, she did it to make Fraser like her. In fact in the whole series they are getting to know each other
and the point of the series is that sometimes we are wrong about our identity and that's fine ❤
He thought he was searching for a boy and she tought she was searching to be a boy but in actuality they were just searching for each other✨
I feel like that story isn't told enough. I'm only 23 but went thru the exact same feelings as harper when I was 16-18. I hope you guys know how lucky you are to have media such as this for you to see at your age. I wish shows like this were around when I was in high school. it would have made things much easier. I feel like these stories of exploration and discovery needs to be explored more in media.
my favourite part was also when the trans backup singer for blood orange turned around and smiled at harper before returning onto stage.
I don’t think she did it to make Fraser like her she was doing this before him
I think Caitlyn wanted to be more masculine because she grew up around such strong male figures (like her brothers and her dad and men on the military base) that did the things she wanted to do and barely had any representation of strong women figures. I don't think it had anything to do with Fraser at all. And honestly I interpreted the scene of her washing off her beard and running off from the bartender to be because she didn't like how she wasn't passing completely as a male. I think it threw her off when the bartender could sense that she was a female to male trans person and I think she wanted to just pass as a cis male. I don't think it's that she doesn't want to be masculine anymore. I could be wrong but that's how I interpreted it. Also in my opinion Fraser and Caitlyn's relationship was never romantic and honestly I don't think it ever will be romantic. I think the ending kissing scene was supposed to be symbolic of how deeply they cared for and supported each other and a simple hug couldn't express that fully. Or maybe it was suppposed to be romantic. who knows. I loved the show though this ending scene made me cry so much
@@graceli6182 I liked your opinion, although I don't understand english very well. I wanted to leave you the explanation of the episode, I think you will like it
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@@graceli6182 I agree with you the bartender upset her the same way her first girl she kiss upset her as she was told"I know your a girl" and "you are trans right". I dont know if she has gender dysphoria but imagine having that and being clocked or told what gender you are biologically are when you have tried so hard to mask yourself it's heartbreaking. What I do think though is that she sees her mother as weak she wants to be like her Dad she has been groomed by him to be macho and tough and she just sees that as desirable traits and wants to fit that mold. So she goes of and creates Harper so she could be the full embodiment of what she sees on her friends and her Dad. I do think there is more than friendship love between her and Fraser I do not kiss my friends like that lol. I think Caitlin did explore this trans journey a little bit more because Fraser came into her life and Fraser was smitten with her the very first time he saw her. Remember when he talked about his imaginary friend how he stared at the boy he wanted to the point he got creepd out he did the same thing with Caitlin just that she didn't get creepd out. There were hints throughout their journey that showed they had more feelings towards each other Caitlin git mad that Frasier kissed a girl for eg, it just caught as by surprise because the viewers made up.in our minds that Fraser was gay and Caitlin was trans and liked girls. Yet they both never said these things about themselves. It's our faults for just painting their sexuality in one box, they are still discovering it themselves.
I Was Waiting for this Moment , i ship Fraser and Caitling so Much , They kiss was What i needed , i Love Happy Endings
Gabriel Freire
That's what i felt .
I love happy endings todo and i'm SO happy 💟
@@bel9678 i think them no come back to the base , but they staying Together Forever , was a Happy and Satisfied Ending , now Fraser and Caitling are Together Forever
@@gabrielfreire7261 Yeah! I think so! That's beautiful, Gabriel ❣️
why is everyone saying caitlin? isn't his name harper?
This brought me so much joy I didn’t know I needed
By the end of the show, I wasn't rooting for Fraser and Caitlin to be together; I was just rooting for them to be happy, even if only for a moment. So to see her smile after he kisses her, to see genuine happiness etched on her face after she spent so much of the season wandering around lost and confused, that was something really lovely.
This!!! Obviously it's debatable what the kiss means for them, but I think the goal was to see Frase & Cait finally find a place where they could be at peace with someone they truly trusted
The title of the show is one of the most accurately executed titles I’ve came across. Us viewers trying to depict this scene and these characters, wanting to label their sexuality, preferred pronouns, love interest etc. While leaving a lot of those things up in the air. But this scene I believe tells you, it doesn’t matter what “you” think because to them “we are who we are” and that’s all that matters.
when i first started watching i thought the show would basically help caitlin thru her trans journey and fraser realize hes gay, but throughout the episodes you could see that the only people there for them were each other. all this time i thought "we are who we are" meant caitlin was trans and fraser is gay but in reality its destroying those stereotypes and loving each other, regardless of what society thinks.
THIS IS MY FAVORITE SCENE
This had me all in my emotions. Such a beautiful scene.
We need another season with them I don’t want it to end 😫
ikr it's addictive😂 I loved this ending though, i thought it was just as revealing yet just as cliff-hanger feeling. At first I said "GOD I NEED TO KNOW WHAT HAPPENS!" but now i realize that mabye, it's how it was supposed to go. They run away, and the story isn't over, but it is as far as we're concerned. Now they don't even know what to do or where to go, which refelcts onto the aspect of their discovery process still incomplete. What a show i mean, so short but so flawless.
Nah!! It’s fine the way it ended, why ruin a good ending? It’s called a limited series for a reason
This scene was so powerful, i mean, it shows that the kiss wasn’t something sexual but an expression of tenderness, like when you got so many feelings for someone and it kinda overflows, only words or hugs or even kisses wouldn’t be enough to demonstrate how you love that person, how you appreciate that person in your life, how you glad to have that person. I love Guadagnino and really hope for an second season cause there’s so many subjects to continue and discuss, and would worth it
I really loved this show. Specifically, Caitlin and Fraser's journey individually and together. From episode 1, I just kept trying to define things and to pin point what was happening (i'm an overthinker) but then it hit me that this show literally depicts life. And life can be whatever it wants to be. We label things to try and understand them to our limited knowledge but what's the point if life will just do it's own thing? Caitlin and Fraser's journey depict that. When they kissed, it was like a moment of letting go of labels and expectations but just allowing the love ,they have for each other, to lead them.
It's brave how they unapologetically show themselves to the other but at the same time they're still figuring out who they are. It's a beautiful and hard thing, to just be whoever or whatever we are with the person or people we love. The possibilities for their relationship are endless. And I love that. Not everything in life has to be just one thing. This really was a coming of age series. The way Luca filmed this, I literally felt like I was walking alongside with them throughout it all.
this scene living in my head rent free 24/7
this ending was perfect in my opinion. i believed it was clique to put them together at first but as the show went it was so unexpected for this scene to happen but it was perfect. people automatically assumed fraser was gay because of the way he carried himself but i truly don't believe it is that. gender anr sexuality are a spectrum and fraser and caitlin really showed that. i see some people saying that caitlin and fraser's relationship is platonic and i just can't agree with that. i say this because fraser always knew that their was tension between them. never have i had to clarify to a friend of mine "we won't kiss," fraser knew something was going to end up happening between them, but at the time he couldn't fathom it. a lot of people are confused by fraser and caitlin's characters, as well, but i believe fraser is on the autism spectrum and caitlin isn't transgender, but was finding herself. episode 8 is when you can finally see that the two characters realized they have feelings for each other. the whole season they tried to distract themselves with other people and things, and it was those last ten moments in episode ten where fraser and caitlin realized they don't need anyone else, but each other, and they didn't have much time left together because caitlin was leaving. their kiss was intimate, was nothing platonic, there was so much passion behind it compared to other kisses that they shared with separate characters on the shows. that is just my perspective on episode 8. :)
Perfect interpretation I hate how people are downplaying the kiss like it's just a friendship like Caitlin dint get mad when Fraser kissed a girl or Fraser wasn't enamored with Caitlin from the moment he saw her and that iPad video call was lovely.
AGREED 100% u just cant say something is platonic when they are just literally holding back not saying it, they knew they were the only ones for each other, simple as that.
What I love about this show is the fact that everyone has its own way of seeing it.Some see their realationship as platonic, some as romantic, but the point is : It is what it is...No less,no more... They are who they are
Since ep 1 I was rooting for them because when Fraser saw her he really "saw" her if you know what I mean, then they became friends and accepted, supported and love each other like no one else in their lives did. Sam told Caitlin, Craig said "they are soulmates" he was so damn right.
When they kissed it wasn't a surprise for me bc I knew they had to realize by themselves after all those adventures they had with other people, they couldn't feel the same with them bc they were in love with each other.
This is the best "best friends to lovers" storyline I've ever seen, their kiss was so passionate, sweet, pure & full of joy. ✨Masterpiece✨
the way fraser keeps pulling caitlin to him 🥺🥺
daaaaaamnnnnn that kiss was intense and so full of emotions
i could watch this for eternity, the way he kisses her head and all over face literally fills my heart w joy. such a young actor but he knows exactly how to make the entire room feel the love
Luca is a genius and knows how to hit the spot.
Perfect ending! I didn't think the kiss was sexual at all, more of just showing each other how much they mean to one another. So sweet.
I'm still not sure if I like this show but this was perfect
they really are soulmates they connection is totally there and i'm happy they ended up together
I’m so upset that we won’t be getting a season 2 😭😭😭😭 this show had so much potential
Why don’t we get season two?
@@emmaw5923 HBO decided to renew The Industry, which took We Are Who We Are time slot.
why would you want a season 2 ??? this was a limited series, the narrative was already totally wrapped up here
@@thegentleassassin Luca actually wrote “a bible” for Season 2. Like he legit wrote the entire 2nd Season with the other writers over lockdown. I think it’s definitely possible they shoot it. The time jump makes sense
This scene made me so happy. The way she started smiling after he kissed her as if she was waiting for it.
I was waiting for this ever since the first trailer dropped 😭 btw, dang, this song was playing when fraser saw Caitlin at the beach
Side note, dang Eddie from IT really knows how to kiss. O.o brilliant actor
Imaooo
When I watched this the night it aired I was sobbing so badly my husband was like did someone die? "I was like no they kissed I'm so happy" LOL. I feel like my response was really weird, but so many emotions hit me at once the whole season built-up to that moment (The Kiss). They thought they were looking for other people to love them and something in themselves but they didn't have to change at all at the end they accepted themselves and fell in love with each other that was beautiful to me 😍😭.
YOU SAID IT SO WELL
i felt just like this, i couldn't stop crying because i was so so happy with this ending
I was UGLY CRYING 😭
I felt so overwhelmed
This is the best comment
Saw this in a review from Ben Travers for IndieWire, where he articulated my exact thoughts and I quote "Fraser and Caitlin will not be dictated to; their actions aren’t determined by anyone else, and their choices are their own. They didn’t kiss for our benefit. They kissed for theirs. Whether you read the title as a defiant declaration (“We are who we are, damn it!”) or a shrugging catch-all…it’s unapologetic and honest, open-minded and well-intentioned."
I want to praise Luca Guadagino for making this tender moment that made me cry and listen to Prince's "The Love We Make" for days. Also according to the article, Guadagino's writing team already wrote an outline for Season 2, and they’d very much like to continue these characters’ stories.
we saw them kiss other people without any passion for 8 episodes and then they accepted that they like each other and they kissed and aaaah! AAAAH! IT'S LIKE THERE ARE FIREWORKS EXPLODING IN MY HEART!!!
I watched this today and absolutely freaked out!! I was shocked that Fraser even kissed Caitlyn bc he made a deal that they wouldn’t ever kiss and then boom they did
I am so here for this ship!
My heart literally stopped at this scene😭❤
promise never kept but what fueled the fire to begin with
The way he kissed his forheaddd
This was the perfect ending imo. The way the kids was portrayed really showed what we were looking for throughout the whole series. I don’t think it was platonic; but I also don’t believe it was “sexual” yk? I think it was just where they truly found the answer, and they were grateful for that.
This is romantic as heck, don't know if they are together. Still can't wait for season 2
they're not together, they're really good actors though!
It’s crazy how you can finish a Luca masterpiece feeling so full of cathartic emotions. I remembered feeling so alive after watching this series.
That forehead kiss felt so intimate
I’ve never seen this show before, but this scene alone-without context makes me wanna cry, in a good way😊it makes me feel warm.
So, this seems very nice, if I'm perceiving it correctly, is that Caitlin doesn't have to be defined as trasgender. She doesn't have to present herself as a feminine standard in society and is able to like "guy things." She can still be a girl, and it feels reassuring
I don’t think the kiss was platonic in any way because the whole series and episode was both Caitlin and Fraser realising they’ aren’t who they’ thought they were. She realises she doesn’t wanna be a trans and Fraser realising he isn’t gay that’s why they both walked out on who they kissed in the episode. Their stories mirrored each other perfectly. The kiss was both of them accepting their feelings for each other imo
I love this show sm it's a masterpiece
they made each to each other 🥺
They truly love each other unconditionally and accept each other just as they are, like can you blame them for wanting to kiss? kissing it's a way of expressing the emotions that you feel that are going to burst out of your chest, we can all see the love in the kiss it's not passion it's pure love and excitement, yes It was unexpected but it wasn't wrong, because I don't think anyone it's surprised that they love each other (if we take away the labels and judgements that we made about them during the movie) that's exactly the point of the movie, let people be who they are, feel what they want to feel, without having to label them or them having to explain themselves. they don't have to explain to us why they suddenly realized they love each other and why they were confused and clueless of what's going on. we all are clueless most of the time, but we don't try to discover ourselves to the extend that they both did, they are young and they are in their self discovery journey, and they are unapologetic about not following guide lines, the whole series made us expect just a platonic relationship, but if they feel romantic about each other who are we to tell them what they feel or not based on behavior, there is not certain way people should behave to fulfill expectations, they are characters but they represent so many people, based on the negative comments I wonder how many people in real life have suppress their feelings just they were against "expectations" like dude let people live, even if it's random, like the fact that you don't understand them, doesn't invalidate their feelings or who they are. so yeah I don't think this movie is about trans or bi representation, it's just about people embracing who they are even if they don't know who they are. like read the the title of the series and try to understand the message that they were trying to give with the ending, they were just honoring the tittle.
Why am I smiling like their proud mamma🤣😍
cylia is typing..........................................................................................................................................................................................
I'm going to cry 😭
I NEED A SEASON 2!!!!
Fraser still has a lot to figure out, but at least he figured this one thing out.
Yeah he’s need to handle his family situation
I love this show so much. When i was growing up I felt confused about my identity, sexuality and gender. But growing up in a dominican household i was always told to hide my feelings or "Man up". I remembered as a kid i would asign different genders to house hold items like washers and dryers. I feel like if I had the freedom to explore my stuff like Frasier did. I wouldn't be Bipolar with General anxiety. This show does alot with letting people know that these things should be allowed to be explored without judgement. Its the minds and feelings of people needing that.
The sounds lol but I SUPPORT ittttt!!!!
Was Lucas real right before Fraser ran off to get Caitlin? Did anyone else notice he disappeared like a ghost after Fraser hugged him? Also I think Caitlin realized that she didn’t want to be a he/him. I felt she was jealous of the attention Fraser gave Lucas when they were in the car. Also in the earlier episode where they were looking at each other through iPads. I knew some feelings were goin on there.
I think Lucas may have been an interpretation of Mark, which would explain why Caitlin made no mention of Lucas, and sort of just stared at Fraser the entire car ride. Probably because she probably saw him talking to no one in the car👀
@@zell06 wow this actually makes sense I didn’t think of this theory bcecause cati was talking to him but that makes sense, she was looking at Fraser “talking to Luca” and replying like it was normal for Fraser.
@@zell06 I think he was real in the car ride because he answered Cait's question but he wasnt real from.the time they got the beers
@@zell06 i also think that this all may be something from fraser's mind. when they first see each other, fraser is taking pictures and stalking harper, just like he did to mark. and the fact that harper said that he didn't exist kinda makes this theory solid.
Oh wow I did not pick up on this but that really makes so much
This show is sick
I wish I could find a relationship like this 🥺
The fact they they agreed they were “never gonna kiss” and then this scene. I thought it was so cute
Ok but just imagine how this feels behind the scenes xD
Fraser has a lot left to figure out. But he does care for Caitlin.
I’m lovin how I’m seein all these detail paragraphs about how wasn’t sexual it was just passionate be me, I’m just thinking “that boy WENT FOR IT!”
this may just be my interpretation (and maybe i need to go back and rewatch the show) but i remember this ending seeming mildly platonic to me. after everything that happened fraser and caitlin were celebrating the state of authenticity and autonomy that they had both reached in their lives. and they celebrated by kissing each other because it was just the ultimate way to express their feelings; happiness and pride in themselves and for each other. we’re no longer meant to question what their sexualities are or whether or not caitlin is trans (or questioning or fluid) we’re just supposed to celebrate the calm they’ve reached.
I love this ending
i hope we will get season 2
yeah i definitely don’t come back to this video because i want someone to kiss me the way fraser kisses caitlin no way not me....
same tho
Euphoria is overhyped while this is so underrated
While I don't agree with euphoria being overhyped, I do agree that this show is so, so underrated. But I think that's okay.
Over hyped??? But yeah, this show needs to be talked about more. It resonates so much with me
i read a comment say that this show is so good because everyone interprets it in their own way and i think that is so true! to me, this show doesn’t necessarily have a storyline, it is so natural like how life actually is. realistically, you don’t have a beginning, middle and end during your lifetime, you just let things happen naturally, and this is what the show captures. there are so many bumps, so many things that leave the audience confused or sad about, but it all happens so smoothly and naturally that you can be mad, you just roll with it too. and that’s why i love this show after watching it, because when i was actually watching it i didn’t understand it at all, but now i do after watching intervenes and reading comments like these. my absolute dream is to be in a movie/show like this, and to be one of these people you you can just realate to do much. ugh, this show is just so incredibly perfect.
Who allowed this level of chemistry in one scene?
I'm *dying* over here
I need a season 2 of them dating
*shivers in covid-19*
I honestly adored this show but I can't help the fact that I wasn't a huge fan of the ending and it makes me feel sad, because I thoroughly enjoyed this show. I think it may be because I saw a spoiler online.
I think I really enjoyed their friendship and that I wanted it to remain platonic and not turn sexual and once they kissed, I thought their amazing friendship would turn into something more.
I would like to think that the kiss was more symbolic of how much they both mean to each other and that they truly do love each other and it doesn't have to be sexual.
I prefer having a show of a boy and girl becoming best friends than lovers.
I think they are soul mates, but it doesn't necessarily have to be anything sexual.
But otherwise, I loved this show and I'm definitely going to re-watch it soon and I feel like I will really enjoy it double the amount. ❤️
P.S. I also wanted to see all the other characters in the last episode and what they are up to. But I suppose it's left for the imagination. There is honestly so many questions I still have about.. Well, everything and everyone. 😂
YESS!! Omg we literally need to be best friends. I agree 100% on everything you said. I said something like this on a Instagram post and I got attacked.
@@marvy204 that's really sad and I'm sorry that you got attacked for your own opinion. The show is literally called We Are Who We Are, which is quite self-explanatory to the meaning behind the title.
I would hope people watching the show are super open-minded, meaning that you would respect other people's opinions, even if you don't agree with them.
Just because you didn't like a certain element of the television show, doesn't mean you're stating it is bad and even if you don't like show, that's okay. 😂
We Are Who We Are = can't change our thoughts and feelings.
i really wished they stayed friends too.
when i watched the ending first time i really thought that it was just a way of showing affection and they were soulmates, i didn't think it was sexual. Once, I kissed my best friend and told her "you are my best friend" right after so watching this scene was really emotional for me. i really dont want to read it any other way. i think they had a speacial friendship.
Didn’t he say they weren’t gonna kiss 💀 oh well it was cute 🥺
I waited for this part the entire show and when it finally arrived I had some feeling of happiness as they kissed but then slight sadness as I’m not sure that this kiss was meant to be passionate/sexual I’m guessing it’s just a thankful kiss of knowing each other and finally feeling as though they know themselves but I’m happy either way🤎
i hope they picked up their hats
This may be a minor opinion, but for me, this kiss was a surprise that I haven't expected...ever. I mean, I've always seen Caitlin and Fraser as friends with different desires and even different spectrums of sexuality. I think they never showed any interest towards each other (if I'm wrong and there was a hint then I'm open to know what it was :)) and for me, it was kinda a random ending for a show. I expected Jonathan and Fraiser's relationship to go deeper...but it wasn't totally a real thing for me too (many people were talking about the age difference).
Anyway, I realised that Caitlin's third kiss was the one that was finally good for her...well, third time lucky.
But, on the other hand...is there anybody better for Fraiser here in Italy & for Caitlin too? They know each other well and they're connected because of music. But wasn't Caitlin supposed to leave the base? Or maybe it was just a kiss, without any further consequences?
I like to discuss and this seemed like a great opportunity to talk about things. Any thoughts?
It's a major opinion actually :'''''), thank you. For me there was no real secret about the intimacy between Fraser and Caitlin it was so such like his earlier movie CMBYN where there no real secrets everybody knows the truth but keep it in his small personal perspective.....I don't know about the fact if they were the best for each other and the series keeps it curiously open but still, the kiss was a surprise and added joy to me probably like anyone who watch the episode and it touched me how the episode was a memorial for Lucas father at the end.
@@adhamnassar6219 Oh, I saw the memorial too. For me Luca's art is often without a significant plot, somebody even said that "he lets things happen". Also, I wish we saw Sarah and Maggie in this episode. I hope there will be another season...maybe things will get more clear!
@@Ursorion of course i wish also there will be another season...I am curious to see the rest of the coming of age journey between those two.
@nobodyimportant. I think you are downplaying the intimacy and soulmate-like connection Fraser and Caitlin have. Their connection was far beyond just music. No, I don’t think there is someone “better”for each of them. I think at this point in their lives they each understand each other better than anyone else. That doesn’t mean that fact may change one day. But at this particular junction, they have found each other. And by the way I don’t think having music in common is a trivial connection, anyways. music is a form of communication. How else is someone supposed to know what’s on our minds if we don’t communicate? Everyone is having a singular experience in life. But if people connect through music, for a moment they understand each other and inhabit the same world. I don’t know if this makes sense
@@herroyalpeachness No no, "music" in my monologue was one of the examples of things that connects them, I think that was the first thing that got into my mind when I was typing this. Of course they have a bond because of their talks, spending time and even those phone messages, they were cool to read. But I think that this music fact was a main thing in the finale. This song etc.
If someone doesn't kiss me like this I don't want to it
they kissed for 1:13 minutes 🤣!!
Yeah it was clear to me. From the very beginning Fraser would stare at Caitlin / Harper at school and at home. He took pictures of her and later m--------ed to them if I remember correctly. And then the promise that they would never kiss and how defensive he was about people thinking they were dating, but they would watch each other fall asleep via video call while Caitlin was grounded. That seems more intimate than something you'd do with platonic friends. And Caitlin / Harper seemed passive about their relationships. But they texted Fraser the entire time they were hunting with their dad. And their dad seems to hate that they're growing up and becoming more distant from him and closer to Fraser. The passion that Fraser kisses Caitlin / Harper with and in the second kiss Caitlin / Harper pulls Fraser in for a kiss, reciprocating. He said before he didn't have the nerve with Mark but he actively went for Harper, followed him to the bar, accommodated his transness even though he felt conflicted at times about it, told him about trans stuff, used he / him pronouns for Harper in the car, cut Harper's hair (a big deal for trans men) gave Harper his clothes, which clothes are pretty important to Fraser. I think there is a message of it doesn't matter your sexuality or gender identity so much as long as you connect and love that person for who they are now. (But gay trans men exist, I am one and I think I wanted to see that. )
I only know this show cause of tiktok
I have the doubt if Jonathan was attracted to Fraser
Who else.is 13, not aloud to watch tv mature, and wants to watch this so bad
My favorite serie
I think Fraser is definitely attracted to guys but still trying to find out if his also attracted to girls. Caitlin/Harper is the only “girl” he feels drawn to in the entire series, and since the beginning they (Cate/Harper) were not very feminine. Unlike Britney and Sole who were clearly feminine and do things a girl is supposed to do, Fraser wasn’t attracted to them when they try something.
As for Caitlin/Harper, they might be trans or non binary, it was clear that they were not comfortable being seen as a girl, but felt confuse because they like guys (they def felt something for Fraser through the series) and was trying to like girls as a man is supposed to.
At the end I think bot realised that, as the title says, We are who we are, Fraser and Cate/Harper are still trying to find themselves but that’s okay. They don’t need to rush.
Watching this made me fell so single
THIS WAD SUCH A PLOT TWIST
this was beautiful and unexpected. WHOLESOME AHH i can cry happy
I LOVE THAT SCENE ITS SO CUTEE
this made me tear up and i haven’t even watched it yet
BRO I HELD MY BREATH 4 THAT KISS AND NEARLY PASSED OUT HOW DID THE ACTORS DO IT??!??!?!?!??!?!??!
i miss this show so very much
This is even better than the Reylo kiss from TRoS
The Meloncello in Bologna!
Great location, love the place and the stairway up to san luca
Hope to visit someday! :)
My stomach right now : 🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋
i want to love someone as openly and as passionately as this. i want to love without holding anything back.
UGHHHHHHH THIS IS WHY IM SO IN LOVE WITH HIM🥺
Oh my God, they're so cute 😩😍😍
can we normalise calling him harper please because thats his name. i havent seen a single "we are who we are" related video where we actually acknowledge that harper is trans
i watched a behind the scenes and as i understand it, caitlin in the end didnt necessarily want to be trans but was instead just exploring gender identity, which explains the scene where they ditch the bartender and go to the bathroom. in the end caitlin decided against a label - aka we are who we are