Moving? What changed and Whats Next | Tamara Kalinic

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  • @JB-ec2bo
    @JB-ec2bo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +236

    Tamara please let me give you some advice. Buy a house or flat (anywhere) and have it completely secured; alarm system, security door, security windows, cameras, hidden alarm buttons that alert the police, a door with code lock for your dressing room or a lockable cupboard for your handbags (for example with a hidden button to unlock), ect... Our house is secured this way and I feel safe the moment the door closes behind me. I hope you too can feel safe in your home again.

    • @blue4u2054
      @blue4u2054 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I so agree! Security alarms and motion sensored cameras/lights really do help a lot!

    • @Persian-Sammy
      @Persian-Sammy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I’m actually surprised she didn’t have an alarm with all those valuables in the house.

    • @hollywoodcole4046
      @hollywoodcole4046 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      exactly its common sense. You put your entire life on the internet...then act surprised when this happens? I don't understand people's brains.

    • @fehyndana7725
      @fehyndana7725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@hollywoodcole4046 especially when you where already robbed multiple times before like her…

    • @coral6770
      @coral6770 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I whach many tims the video, but guys how they take out all the bags? And nobody see it, i dont think she live in ghetoo that nobody see it, still a lot of stuff , and she didant have alarm or something, i only have 10 luxury bags and some expensiv thinks, but still i move in a flat whit alarms and guard

  • @dyssa
    @dyssa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I really admire that there is absolutely no drama on your channel, no victim mentality from your part, no trash talking other people. You are such an inspiration and watching your videos always makes me more focused and energized. Best of luck! 🤗

  • @robertaomari4417
    @robertaomari4417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    So what if you showed your house!! This can happen to anyone, am glad you are strong and moving on ❤️

  • @mizzmolly7649
    @mizzmolly7649 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    You should go all over social media and post every stolen bag and its serial number. That will make the thieves and potential buyers very nervous.

    • @flavialm1
      @flavialm1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Police must be tracking them alread

  • @rozalba8634
    @rozalba8634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    I would suggest you to start your bag collection by buying totally new ones that will get you excited :). If you feel you really miss any of the bags you used to have, than buy it/them. Good luck! And you look amazing!

    • @melodiechartier5173
      @melodiechartier5173 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      it's bags!!!! i am dire there are more i t'oyant things for her in her life then bags!

  • @kimsaysso3615
    @kimsaysso3615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    Have you ever tried searching for your bags on resale sites? (Or maybe the police are already doing that) I just searched for the purple Constance and saw one was sold from France recently. Also Vestiaire Collective Paris has one for sale. Wondering if any of those could’ve been yours and traced 🤔 Really hope those trash robbers get caught.

    • @kiimjol4889
      @kiimjol4889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think it’s impossible I saw a yellow chanel with blue inside it was several month before this happens to Tamara and it was a site from Germany

    • @laelakarimi
      @laelakarimi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I saw that same constance that sold this past week... it said it came with box and receipt. So im curious if the theives stole the boxes too... for resale.
      Ironically, that's the first bag that came to mind when Tamara said everything was stolen. My heart dropped the most for that purple suede. 💜

    • @sunnyray4065
      @sunnyray4065 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I doubt highly criminals would leave electronic traces/transactions on websites. I reckon pawn shops or dodgy dealers.

  • @DieBenPike
    @DieBenPike 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Maybe is the time for you to start design your own Bag brand. I would buy. You have a exquisite taste and I believe is what we need in the Fashion Industry.

  • @bibit3856
    @bibit3856 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    We should go back to the times when people use to engrave their bags with their initials or even full names. Sometimes people even engraved just one item several times in different places. Even accessories like belts, hats, umbrellas etc etc

  • @chanelsimone6072
    @chanelsimone6072 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Victim blaming is real especially when the victim is a woman. Take all the time you need and continue to enjoy your life.

  • @anasepulveda2889
    @anasepulveda2889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    You are truly so incredible!! About purchasing the bags again, i would try to get things as i need them/miss them in my collection. So if you feel like you're missing a Chanel flap or a cute clutch, then get that, and before you notice your collection will be rebuilt and better than ever!!

    • @Scream2005PV
      @Scream2005PV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@annedelacroix1134 You are so miserable with all your disgusting comments on this channel it is even funny

    • @luv22119
      @luv22119 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@annedelacroix1134 you know criticizing Tamara won’t make you feel better about yourself? You may feel better and self righteous in the moment, but I know you’re still feeling that self hatred at night.

  • @justjuliejohnston
    @justjuliejohnston 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    This wasn’t your fault! Don’t let anyone make you feel like it was. Maybe you should make a list essentials and start there. Hope we see your new Hermes bag soon, so thoughtful of your boyfriend! Thank you for continuing to share your story with us.

    • @qwertyyxoxo
      @qwertyyxoxo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@annedelacroix1134 nowhere did she say that, no need to hate. if you save, you too can buy one babe :)

  • @beccavry
    @beccavry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    Tamara, pardon my "Mommy Moment" now (I have teens, still wearing those shoes), but I feel it's important to say this to you - I know that Paris is the home of your favorite brands, etc. You can always go there for a weekend jaunt or short stay, but I don't know how anyone, who has gone through what you have, could live there again without experiencing anxiety about who might be tracking you, watching you, etc. Those memories would be triggered so often...a certain street, smell or sensory memory could bring you back into a negative place. I realize that you may be watched no matter where you land your feet next...but I don't know if it would be emotionally healthy to live in the place this happened to you, anymore. When you're in your emotionally "even" place, please consider your long-term enjoyment of life, and what it will mean for you to you build a new sanctuary where you can not only enjoy life, but truly thrive. Adjustment often comes with the necessity for change. I think now may be your time to capture broadening happiness and new adventure. I hope you can always keep your inner peace, and happiness, no matter what you decide - maybe now's the perfect time to capture La Dolce Vita? Italy's been calling out to you for a while now. Perhaps this is the moment you chose to listen and embrace it?

    • @nikajazz6226
      @nikajazz6226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree 💯

    • @sarahk.vieira5956
      @sarahk.vieira5956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agree!!!

    • @sarahjames1143
      @sarahjames1143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I agree, I have been to Paris a few times to visit some friends who live in France. Paris is not safe. I purposefully did not bring anything of high value with me based off of the advice of my friends and their families. I would never want to live there permanently.

    • @iwanchica69
      @iwanchica69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agree!! Its not safe at all!! Never liked France and never had any desire to visit!

    • @fehyndana7725
      @fehyndana7725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@sarahjames1143 Paris was a nice safe and elegant City in the 50‘s/60‘s. Now it’s just a huge ghetto with a small remaining wealthy/beautiful area. But the ghetto side is of course getting into the other one…not worth it for me

  • @aivah07
    @aivah07 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Funny thing is God works in mysterious ways. He will bless you 10x more! Everything happens for a reason.

  • @andreamyers6144
    @andreamyers6144 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was not home when our house was robbed. It takes a long time to overcome that feeling of your personal space being invaded by strangers. I send you a hug because there is nothing I can say to help you through this time.

  • @leahspringer7706
    @leahspringer7706 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I totally get why it would feel strange to purchase the same item, the many items you've already purchased. The excitement of receiving it the first time is the exciting part. That feeling wouldn't be the same.
    Your attitude is why I started following our channel and IG. The fashion and luxury was the second reason.
    You're amazing. 🤗

  • @therawarren2422
    @therawarren2422 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Purchase new bags when your heart tells you to. Buy something when you see something that makes you feel happy. Don't force it. You won't love your bag if you buy it when your heart is not in it.
    You are so strong and positive 💛
    We have no doubt you will have clarity on what to do moving forward.
    We are all rooting for you ❤

  • @stinaspace728
    @stinaspace728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So happy to hear you are embracing your happiness! Every morning I wake up I say "Relationships, relations, relationships" . I have a stressful job in fashion but I always want to make sure I put my relationships first and not the clothing I work on or the money I make. This is what truly makes us happy just like you said. I totally understand you not being ready to start purchasing bags yet BUT I can't wait till you do. I never thought you purchased bags to make you happy. Like you say it's your job and you have incredible taste and that's why you do what you do and share it with us xx

  • @sallyball4813
    @sallyball4813 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    You don’t have to justify anything that has happened, this is your life and the fact that you choose to share a part of it is fantastic for us.
    I hope you can see beyond the horrible incident and live your life. Just remember there are many people who wish you well, ⭐️

  • @tracylucera1409
    @tracylucera1409 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I said I wasn’t going to comment any longer because I didn’t feel like you or anyone else saw or looked at my comments. I hope you see this one.
    I think this video broke my heart even more in the first one I saw about what happened. I just feel so badly for you not only about all of the things that were stolen but that you are now displaced from the home that I truly believe you loved.
    Just know that you were not alone and when I say I know how you feel I truly do because this happened to me not once but twice. It happened in 2005 and it also happened this January. I am not on social media so like you said social media has nothing to do with it.
    Oh about buying your new bags I know for me when I went to replace the things that were stolen I did buy some of the same things again many of my things were also limited edition and I was not able to purchase the same thing with some of the things that I was able to re-purchase every time I looked at it all wore it all I did was remind me of what happened.
    Unfortunately I ended up returning them because I did not want to be reminded every single time that I wore something that it was a replacement of some thing that someone stole.
    What I did and I hope that this gives you some good ideas is I bought replacements but just a little bit different.
    It was very difficult for me to do because of course I don’t have the same connections with the fashion houses as you do but I was able to replace a few things just in different variations.
    Just for example your Green Kelly. I know how much you love that bag in that color, get it again but just have it customized maybe with a tan flap i’m handle just as an example.
    I am very excited to see all the new pieces that you purchase.
    Just know that we all love you and will be supporting you 110%. You are such a strong woman if anyone can get through this you can!!
    You are in my prayers xoxo

    • @cooky75015
      @cooky75015 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tracy your message is so thoughtful! I am sorry that you had to go through such a horrible thing twice and hope you are in a better place now 💗💕💗💕 I will keep you in my prayers 🙏🏾💫 Amicalement, Christine

    • @tracylucera1409
      @tracylucera1409 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cooky75015 thank you so much Christine that’s so sweet of you I really appreciate your kind words and prayers!!

  • @linafalkinstein561
    @linafalkinstein561 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I went through the same situation, my home was broken into. Many valuable and sentimental things were taken. I felt so violated and relate to what you are going through. Unfortunately, there are no locks for thieves. It’s still very raw for you. It took me a while to rebuild and buy things, because I didn’t even want to buy anything for a while. Time heals everything and you are absolutely wonderful for having a positive outlook on life and your relationships. All the very best wishes.

  • @MargeryHannah
    @MargeryHannah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    No victim blaming here, but you have to know that ALWAYS wearing luxury makes you a mark, be it to the greedy or the needy. Times are hard everywhere; the world is basically a ghetto, so try to be a little low key sometime. What is it that makes a person want to flash their wealth all the time? It's your prerogative to do so, but just be careful. Karl Lagerfeld spoke about this... best to you, Tamara.

    • @Rumenova146
      @Rumenova146 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah that’s right. I live in Bulgaria 🇧🇬 and constantly feel the envy. So it’s never safe …. And sometimes even hypocritical flashing so much luxury with so much wars and famine. Young people should be aware that big fortune normally comes at expense of poor people

  • @carolcalicott1464
    @carolcalicott1464 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I think you should wait on purchasing bags until something really catches your heart. Meanwhile carry the ones you have❤️

  • @amb7412
    @amb7412 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I still hope you get your things back. I hope they get caught stealing is wrong. I wish you nothing but the best and thank you for sharing this experience. Please do not feel that you have to justify your actions.

  • @fashionandluxury101
    @fashionandluxury101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You are so strong!! This wasn’t your fault. You went to a fashion show, and you got robbed. It’s a terrible crime! It’s ok to feel upset about your items being stolen! You worked very hard for this items.
    We support you. 💕

  • @minavamp2811
    @minavamp2811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    exactly someone lives locally where she is knows her working as an influencer on social medias, i'm not surprised if someone robbed her that turns out to be someone she knows.

  • @bernitajenkins3180
    @bernitajenkins3180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I think the way you are handling this experience is admirable, Tamara. 👏❤️

  • @AESTHETICALLYPLEASED
    @AESTHETICALLYPLEASED 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think you should find a secure house/flat that makes you feel safe and sparks joy, then once you’ve settled in, then start re-exploring which pieces you want ❤️❤️❤️

  • @stavroulastaikou7709
    @stavroulastaikou7709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    To me you are grieving and it is natural. Most of the pieces missing represented something and sentimental you were attached as we all do when buying something and being proud of or if something was a gift or whatever feeling. You can't replace because you did not initially buy it just to own it or to show it off. Take your time and trust me quoting SATC with a paraphrase. When something is really really an item you want you will feel the same and buy it. Sending positive energy

  • @rrh1690
    @rrh1690 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The way I would describe it is that your grieving because what you have gone through is traumatic, your personal space was invaded, items that had sentimental attachment were stolen … it’s what they have taken away from you as a person… your still processing everything …it will take time but you will get there and you will find the strength to move forward because your a fighter and you will come back stronger than ever!!! Much love xx

  • @NYC_MomOf2
    @NYC_MomOf2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We were in the same restaurant yesterday in Milano for a late lunch. I was happy to see that you had a beautiful Birkin bag with you. Good luck on your new ‘beginning’, wishing you beautiful things on your way. Italy has been good to you, think about that. Xx

  • @jmessiaen419
    @jmessiaen419 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Your new bag/jewelry choices will be so special when you are ready, and I can't wait to be inspired.

  • @rosemarycardenas2756
    @rosemarycardenas2756 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Totally agree with you Tamara, the most important thing in life is the relationship one can forged with others. I’m so glad you are diving deep through this turmoil and rising back! So proud of you!

  • @natasa1730
    @natasa1730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Draga Tamara, velika si inspiracija, divno je videti da jedna devojka iz Srbije je toliko uspešna.
    Divim ti se na tolikoj pozitivi, uprkos svemu što si prošla. Zaslužuješ sve najbolje, i drago mi je što si nastavila da snimaš.
    💗💗💗

  • @missanajit
    @missanajit 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tamara is such a power house! I believe the reason she is handling this like a champ is the experience she had in her childhood. Her family had to escape the war and leave many Possessions/Proprety/businesses behind and rebuild their lives again. So I think she saw her parents facing and going through much more difficulties and challenges and she learned at a very young age how to be strong and keep on going!

  • @strawberriesncandii
    @strawberriesncandii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s not your fault. I know people who have been burglarized and they’re private people with no social media. I know you’re no stranger to this. Ever since I saw your St.Tropez and apartment videos I’ve taken a lot more precaution with the security of my own house. You’re a trooper and such a positive woman. You’ll build a collection again even better than before. Tamara you’re a good person and you’ll be blessed with so much more than you lost.

  • @paulonsantos0102
    @paulonsantos0102 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    would love to see how you refresh your handbag collection, maybe a few key pieces for now (croc mini kelly for evening? 🤪) but if you do plan to stay in paris, better find secure place with security and stuff. also pro tip, you should buy Airtags for your bags and store fine jewelry at the bank 💘

    • @ericalgibson
      @ericalgibson 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is actually amazing advice

  • @yvette4933
    @yvette4933 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Someone was arguing with me about you showing your house in a video and it’s social media, people get robbed everyday , it has nothing to do with your social media, I’m just happy you are ok , you will get more than you lost because you work hard and has a good heart

  • @steflonesome6262
    @steflonesome6262 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Like I said before, I'm so sorry this happened. This world is in trouble. You don't have to buy the same bags and things again. Buy when you feel ready and buy different bags, different things. Replace slowly but let this "thing" change you. You are a beautiful person inside and out, YOU ARE LOVED. Always remember that, 🌻

  • @Alinanais
    @Alinanais 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Of course you were in shock, of course you feel vulnerable, you've been violated. ..and everything you will do is to protect yourself, that's how people become overly cautious but once you feel better I strongly recommend you a RTT session, you will love it and give you clarity like no other therapy in the world:)

  • @Poppyy2021
    @Poppyy2021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think this has hit me hard and made me so heartbroken for you because I also have a big luxury bag collection, the thought of all my shelves being empty is just gutting, you are such a beautiful person with strength and gracefully grateful for everything you still have, there is no complaining or self pity, even though it’s unlikely these vile people will get caught I’m sure one day karma will catch up with them, the first bag that I thought of was the gorgeous yellow Chanel with blue lining that your wonderful friend gave you for your birthday , it’s like they stole this one twice , they stole from you but also they stole it from your friend as she paid for it, and knowing how expensive they are and not at all easy to get, my heart hurts for both of you, keep doing what your doing and continue to live your best life ever. Lots of love ❤️

  • @royadehkordi8147
    @royadehkordi8147 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awww so sweettttttt❤️❤️❤️ towards the end you were getting emotional when you said thank you for the love and comments ... that was priceless 🥰🥰🥰🙏🏼I love you tam tam

  • @julies508
    @julies508 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I would start fresh and only repurchase things that were “needs” for you or signature items for you. I think you may be feeling like this because you know these things are just material items that can come or go. They are not your heart and soul.

  • @ApplesThatRead
    @ApplesThatRead 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So so beautiful! I realize it "feels" like forever in social media time, but it hasn't even been a MONTH since you were robbed in a home invasion. That's traumatic, and I hope you can take your time to process things. Just glad you're well and physically all safe/healthy.

  • @meya187
    @meya187 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sweet strong Tamara , no one will be able to really blame you for how your feeling, you loved your place but now you don’t want to live there, you want to be in Paris but you don’t want to , you want to move but you don’t want to pack. I can’t imagine how it feels like but you are strong. Consider this, you bought loved and wore your items and now it’s time to renew and give birth to a new collection that will remain with you while being safe and happy in a new place a new chapter in life . Be positive and happy always 😊❤️

  • @marieroo
    @marieroo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tamara, you are INSPIRING. And this makeup is absolutely stunning on you. Brings out your natural beauty. You are rising above this and you’re inspiring every young woman out there to overcome whatever tribulations they encounter.

  • @jessica5657
    @jessica5657 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are so strong! You got this!Just take it day by day and do the things you feel like doing each day and are excited about. When you get excited about buying a bag again , you will. And there are so many to chose from. You can create and explore a completely new collection that is just as unique. The journey is always the best part. When you’re ready, you will know. Everything always happens in it’s proper timing. Healing takes time and you are doing so well! It will all become clear when you’re ready. 💕

  • @elisabethsteel3382
    @elisabethsteel3382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are so lucky to have great relationships, because not everyone has these kind of relationships! I’m very glad for you! I hope you stay strong and stay happy! Thank you for sharing! Have a wonderful day Tamara! 🤗😍

  • @iveagh3256
    @iveagh3256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are a breath of fresh air and a total lady. xx. Your safety is paramount so thankfully you were not home when this robbery happened.

  • @PrettiteLife
    @PrettiteLife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    U are so aligned with my world view on items and luxury and everything basically. Being vulnerable and being even sad is fine for material things as you worked for it, and you worked hard.. every loss is difficult. But having the perspective on what matters is only what few can do.
    Thank you for this video and thank you for always inspiring my little youtube content too

  • @sparklefarter
    @sparklefarter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are an amazing example for all of us on what is most important in our lives. I think we all believe in you in moving forward and striving to be even better than before. Thank you 💞

  • @meme_bonbon9717
    @meme_bonbon9717 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank God you (or boyfriend) were not physically harmed. Just surreal I’m sure. I’ve been collecting luxury bags since 2000 & can’t fathom losing all the rare bags I’ve collected over the years. But, your health & safety is paramount. God bless 🙏🏽

  • @joanheney1855
    @joanheney1855 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are one hell of a strong person and wise behind your years,. I am so so sorry for what happened to you and what you’re going through but I have no doubt that you’ll come out of all this even stronger. Also you are so lucky to have so many in your corner and the best thing about that is, that you realise it and show gratitude 🙏. I truly wish you all the best and be bold and be blessed. 🌈☘️🌈☘️

  • @dyejessica35
    @dyejessica35 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think you can reinvent yourself, I know how you feel re-buying stolen items. It would remind me of the terrible time even though, they are new same items. I think push on and keep growing. Thank you for letting us hear your thoughts. Sending Love to you. ♥️🦋

  • @sounsliti4055
    @sounsliti4055 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pls Tamara don’t regret your beautiful things... You did enjoy them... I know it is not easy but pls be strong ... You ll continu to grow and you ll build a new beautiful collection of bags and jewelry... Wishing you the best always ❤️

  • @TheNadatata
    @TheNadatata 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Tamara, I recently lost my Cartier just un clou bangle and was so upset about it:( watching you so normal after all that was stolen from you I felt ashamed! Thank you so much for this I feel much better

  • @rosannadasilva9134
    @rosannadasilva9134 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I think that you are having a hard time thinking about repurchasing/replacing the same bags/items because they are now attached/connected to an extremely horrible event in your life. You are wise in going slowly.... take one day at a time. Sending you many happy thoughts from💗🇨🇦💗

  • @chantelledicapi007
    @chantelledicapi007 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are such a humble loving and grounded woman . I’m so glad you have your man by your side . Babe you will get more than you deserve u may not get the rare bags but I know you will receive more in other ways . You have the most important things in your life , your family, friends and your man ! Stay blessed baby girl sending love n blessings from Sydney Australia ❤️❤️❤️

  • @cristinamac-kay7175
    @cristinamac-kay7175 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tamara, What an amazing , strong, beautiful soul you have. Don’t ever give up or change angel. You already have the most important wealth in your heart!!!! Plus you are gorgeous inside and out and no one can take that away from you. You do you. Love you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ivzaragoza
    @ivzaragoza 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I believe you could start with your “classics”, but ultimately, you should do/get whatever makes your heart beats faster, sings. Nothing is a “must have”, first your happiness as always you have shown. Helping others get what’s “in” fashion but spending wisely.
    Wish you the best Tamara!

  • @camillehoward6760
    @camillehoward6760 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are an incredible person, so glad you’re staying positive. Keep living your life how you want to, we’re rooting for you!

    • @mathilderousseau959
      @mathilderousseau959 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      its easy to stay positive when you can buy everything you want...

  • @thealchemist437
    @thealchemist437 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What u r saying is so true that relationships r the most important. No one deserves to go through such thing. It's not bragging it's about appreciating ur job n what u earned, that's totally healthy n even if it's looked like brag so what, u have full right to whatever u want to do in ur own life. Those misérable people who's jealous thieves shouldbe blamed n punished for their crime. I wish u fresh new start and all the happiness. U go girl!

  • @dixiesmitherman6898
    @dixiesmitherman6898 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I saw a black Kelly bag in a previous video, was it with you the night you got robbed or did you get a new one? Also, your watches, were they insured?

  • @georgiapapadaki2209
    @georgiapapadaki2209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Incredibly mature and positive attitude Tamara! Keep pursuing your goals and heading forward!! I wish all the best to you!

  • @ellynjulie
    @ellynjulie 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I must say you are a powerful and inspirational person. I've truly been so impressed with you and regarding this situation. You will rise because you will not accept anything less- and good for you. If you ever lose your passion for fashion you should go into being a therapist. The way express yourself is beautiful and as only keep saying NOTHING is more important in life is the deep connections we have with people. The material things are wonderful but at the end of the day, the relationships we have are what will keep you going. I wish you peace of mind, joy, and all the best on your journey in healing.

  • @whatevawears3425
    @whatevawears3425 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ahhh Tamara the way you have dealt with this whole thing is so admirable! Re repurchasing the pieces, I would say completely take your time. You never know - you may be lucky and a few pieces get found or come back to you (particularly the rarer ones that are easier to track). But maybe in a few months time, you may feel ready to start to repurchase the holy grail ones - the ones that you used all the time and can’t imagine having a bag collection without! I would say as time goes on you’ll have a better idea of what makes sense for you. Sending love ❤️

  • @colleenjackson8358
    @colleenjackson8358 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    As someone who has experienced the same thing my advice is Don’t try and replace what you lost with the same items because they just don’t mean the same. I would say definitely start afresh, so replace your Hermes but with new colours. As for your home, believe me it is going to take a long time before you will feel safe again but you cannot allow these people to win. No one should have the power to chase you out of the hone that you love . Just start to be more aware of those around you and Install some sort of security system. Take care of yourself and stay happy and positive. Xxxx

  • @danijelap124
    @danijelap124 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nobody died so keep positive without complaining too much..health and well being of our dearest ones is the most important thing in the world..

    • @mathilderousseau959
      @mathilderousseau959 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      so true haha she can buy everything she wants, 300K is what she earned in a few months only

  • @Crishya
    @Crishya 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tamara I follow you for so long, but I love seeing this personal side of you!! And you are right in what you say, sometimes I get judged too when people see me happy for an Hermes Bag that I bought, but at the end of the day these are all material THINGS!! What really matters in live is truly your health, the connections and the people you have around you❤️ I love how you manage to stay so positive you! It somehow gives me strength too on a bad day!:)

  • @vanessaomenezes
    @vanessaomenezes ปีที่แล้ว

    Tamara, I am a bit late about what happened to you. Sorry to hear! I was robbed in London a month ago and I understand completely your shock. I hope you are better now after a while.

  • @elenapretskovits3143
    @elenapretskovits3143 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dear Tamara, I've been watching you for years ever since I were very young and what I have been admiring is the mental strength that has been so important now in this difficult time. I wanted to ask if you could possibly do a video discussing this topic, as what are the most important beliefs that you beleive in and they are kept very well present in your mind and heart and maybe the books that have stand out and and they have been a guidance towards a better, stronger and healthier mindset. Hope that this situation will be the road to something unexpectedely amazing

  • @cedricverheyden8063
    @cedricverheyden8063 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sweet Tamara; my personal advise on bying your handback collection. Buy with ease; when there is no dowbt on your mind. When it feels right, go for it and enjoy it. Don’t put yourself under pressure. Just go with your flow; find your ikigai✨💫🌟🌸🌺💗

  • @MeganA777
    @MeganA777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Definitely move. You love Paris, it shows, otherwise the decision would have been quick & easy. Stay there but far from where you were. Buy complete DIFFERENT bags to alter your state of mind and get excited about them. GO ALL OUT! Only Repurchase the bags LATER that you truly loved, (now that you’ve experienced wearing them) Level up, don’t look back. Its done. It’s a blessing in disguise which you’ll soon realise, trust yourself and trust your gut. Live your life. Lots and lots of love. X

  • @helsdels9324
    @helsdels9324 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tamara your positivity is always so uplifting, you are amazing💕 I am sure in a few weeks you will enjoy your new Birkin and after a few more weeks you will enjoy shopping again, you are just adjusting to a new normal. Of course we would like to see an unboxing, especialy as it was a loving gift.

  • @mariazheleznova4645
    @mariazheleznova4645 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tamara, I am so glad you are smiling and happy notwithstanding anything, which makes me smile too🤍 I love you sm for the energy you bring to us! And I believe you should listen to your heart when it comes to what to do next, because you know it better than anyone else❣️

  • @mrsmuertabiotches
    @mrsmuertabiotches 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have a beautiful attitude and a beautiful soul. You love luxury but you have real and genuine values. I think you truly understand what is important. Love and blessings to you. So sorry again this happened to you.

  • @KateGheen
    @KateGheen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I would buy new bags that you haven't owned before. Fresh start!

  • @simoneschroeder3074
    @simoneschroeder3074 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    very inspirational how you approach the materialistic stuff. you have a healthy sense of what counts. thats good, it adds a deeper dimension to you in your work and as a person. this makes you to one of the most interesting fashionbloggers. love, simone

  • @kathleentoomey4640
    @kathleentoomey4640 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wish you the best. You have an awesome attitude on all of this and understand what is really important in life. You are very graceful in handling all of this in the right way.

  • @mylifeisashoe
    @mylifeisashoe 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really like your advice on the “making decisions on your constant” wow I never really thought about this nor thought to articulate it it but it really does make the most perfect sense . Really sorry to hear all that happened but it’s good you are very resilient. Perfect example of “get up,dress up and show up!” Wishing you all the best in whatever you decide to do and wherever you decide to live next! Thanks for all the great fashion content always!

  • @mrsleyva
    @mrsleyva 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are so strong!!!! Love seeing you continuing to post. & I vote YESSS on that Hermes unboxing! What an amazing detail from your bf! Now this one will hold so much sentimental value ❤️

  • @kathyfilyaw201
    @kathyfilyaw201 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have the best attitude and I can see how you would feel weird about carrying the new Hermès and wanting to wait about buying things….the things didn’t betray you but i imagine you kind of feel that way…..it may just take a little while before you jump back in! Your amazing…keep it up!

  • @bejurado38
    @bejurado38 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The most important is your mental healt and peace. We love you

  • @the_glamaholic_
    @the_glamaholic_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I totally know what you mean by making decisions when you’re in your constant/stable emotions. And I agree with waiting until you feel that way again toe make a decision. I’m exact same way and have been through the exact same thing. Just take your time girl with everything: even buying new bags. I’ve been watching you for years and watched you grow - I know you’re going to overcome the situation as well ❤️

  • @phunyezwafaku4476
    @phunyezwafaku4476 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so happy I watched this video! You have taught me something about living my life under the radar because I don't want to stand out. I have missed out so much on life because of this! Thank you Tamara. It is not easy buying something you had before but don't worry the need for those bags will guide you on what to buy. Stay blessed and loved!

  • @Z-username
    @Z-username 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think what's best for you is to think a lot about security, maybe bodyguards or like a house fully protected. I am sure you'll find what's best and I hope you'll get through this because you're so strong!

  • @annie-mz9956
    @annie-mz9956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Purchase your bags as you find them. When you feel in a better place maybe look for the one you absolutely love.

  • @DariaIvanovaTV
    @DariaIvanovaTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are amazing Tamara!!! You are so strong!!! I know you are always going to be BLESSED!!!

  • @mollympls
    @mollympls 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What about that black small Kelly that was in the last video when you went to the wedding? I don't want to nit pick but when you said you have no Hermes left... that bag was clearly visible in the hotel room in Italy.

    • @SharonMoist
      @SharonMoist 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Her boyfriend went and got that for her after the robbery…

    • @mollympls
      @mollympls 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SharonMoist In the video she said her got her a Birkin. This bag is a Kelly.

  • @moondoggiesbaby
    @moondoggiesbaby 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for being so honest with us, this is one of your most relatable videos in some ways. I can totally understand not wanting to just re-buy the things you lost. I think you have the "opportunity" to build your collection with a different mindset; if you learned from mistakes you made in the past (maybe you didn't make mistakes, I'm just thinking I would) and now you can buy only the pieces you know you will love and use and that you feel really good about. Sending love and light to you.

  • @longhairday
    @longhairday 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so amazing and strong don’t let this stop you from being you and getting beautiful things that you work so hard for . You are such special person and great women xx

  • @vintagevestiaire1378
    @vintagevestiaire1378 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Everything will come into place and I know you will be build even more successful career after all that happened to you! Loved your Paris content. ❤️Hope you will feel happy wherever you choose to live. Keep the spirit up!

  • @saltanemel
    @saltanemel 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Tamara, I'm so sorry for what happened
    For the re-build of your bag collection, don't really think about it because whenever someone lose something or get robbed, sometimes it's so irremplaçable and meaningless to rebuy it right away that they just don't think too much about it, they live and they build when the time comes ♥️

  • @nancywithstyle747
    @nancywithstyle747 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree with you , it's got nothing to do with social media. It seems someone was watching you in real life. I thank god that non of you or your boyfriend were in the house when it happened! My sister experienced this one time and she used to stay all night awake and when I told her she should sleep & get some rest , her answer was that she cannot do that cause of the idea of having a stranger in her house was the most scary part!
    But try to always be discreet when you walk in Paris streets with your luxury belongings, wear the bags that do not show big logos on them just for your own safety ! You're still young, you still have your bf next to you ,family & friends ..the rest can be replaced!! Hugs & kisses ❤️

  • @kaliarular6360
    @kaliarular6360 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    There was a time a Givenchy bag was stolen in a Bar in Puerto Rico in Mexico in 2011. I bought another bag from the same brand this year for my birthday 2021. After 10 years. But it was a new 2021 bag. Just do what you feel when you feel like it.

  • @melissajaine_
    @melissajaine_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think take your time with the bags and find pieces you will love.. forget about repurchasing what you lost as it will just remind you of what happened.. just find connection with what you will buy next 💕💕💕

  • @chrissy6853
    @chrissy6853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think maybe not wanting to buy or wear your handbags... is because your wound is still very fresh.... its a little more than just feeling vulnerable in your apartment - you prob feel vulnerable thru to your soul right now..... I'm sure it will pass..... I wouldn't rush or give yourself any pressure to buy/replace or wear any luxury handbags until you feel safe once again. Which I'm praying for you everyday that you feel safe once again soon. Much love to you Tamara... xo

  • @rockgirl6214
    @rockgirl6214 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tamara we need a tutorial of your beautiful makeup !!!!!

  • @anitamendelou777
    @anitamendelou777 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a role model! You are spreading a great message. Good luck Tamara!

  • @danixavessels7443
    @danixavessels7443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You were violated and things will take a while to build your confidence. Material thing can be replaced, but your life is more valuable. New designer bags will come in the future, so don’t worry about it. Thank God your alive. Tamara, stay strong.

  • @johannamartinezzz
    @johannamartinezzz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tamara I’m so invested with your beautiful content. Even though you don’t have to, we appreciate you sharing your story. We love you and know you will get everything twice back more !!!!!!