CONFESSIONS Of A CAM SHOW GIRL / (In the Philippines)

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  • @TheFilipinaPea
    @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

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    • @markirons2669
      @markirons2669 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hi Filipina Pea , congratulations on a wonderful channel, is there a way that I can contact you ? I have a question for you regarding epilepsy in the Philippines, many thanks 😊

    • @ChristianClark
      @ChristianClark 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dang !

    • @garymiller9058
      @garymiller9058 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sending love from Watford 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧keep up the brilliant videos x

    • @ChristianClark
      @ChristianClark 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@markirons2669 I have epilepsy and I am totally NOT allowed ... Bummer LOL LOL

    • @nexba83
      @nexba83 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Don’t worry abt them ppl commenting like tht..your vids are very insightful..it has helped me out a lot..can you do a presentation abt the rise of NDT or the growing narcissism being in the rise bcz of poverty in the Philippines? That will be a very interesting subject to bring in the open to discuss

  • @MrRmichel84
    @MrRmichel84 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    I can say this as a American male, raised with a strong work ethic, there is very little I wouldn't do to keep a roof over the heads of my family and food in there stomachs. No judgements here,

    • @badtoro7037
      @badtoro7037 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same here! I can't just believe that he is okay with that! I bet her husband is just laying home all day and drinking lambanog!

    • @doomguy9049
      @doomguy9049 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@badtoro7037 i think she said he didn't know what she was doing but usually it's like you say

    • @billsmith981
      @billsmith981 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said

    • @jgoobix
      @jgoobix ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I understand but as Americans, there is a reward for hard work. Unfortunately, the juice is not always worth the squeeze in other places. And people can get desperate. With that said, a friemd of mine was taken for $400 less than 2 days after chatting with a filipina. At first I laughed at him but then realized the real issue is that women often have no choice. 😔

  • @davegillette953
    @davegillette953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    You really are a compelling interviewer. I appreciate the dignity and kindness that you show your guests, although their stories are quite sad it feels like you are giving them a voice that they desperately need. I'm thankful that you truly seem to care for these young women. Like other men I was drawn to your channel because of an interest in the beauty of asian women but with you have found an informative and educational channel that I am very happy to subscribe to. Thank you!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you SO much, Dave! That was really kind of you to take the time to say 👍❤️😊

  • @stevecastro1325
    @stevecastro1325 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I am very impressed with the level of interviewing skill that you have! It goes back to the old days, when journalists had talent and a moral code.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      You mean ........ journalists used to have morals? What the hell happened to them?
      Hahahahaha

    • @zeus014
      @zeus014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@TheFilipinaPea They all died of old age prior to the dying days of disco.

    • @Renedegoede
      @Renedegoede 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hmm, being a fan of Pea, I tend to disagree here. I think there's room for improvement when it comes to her interview skills. I saw too much uneasiness with the topic and nonverbal bias, too many closed questions, and too often repeating the answer of the interviewee. I like the epilogue much better than the actual interview.

  • @michaels3067
    @michaels3067 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    The best channel keeps getting even better.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      THANKS for saying that, Michael - that made my day! ☺️

    • @hg2.
      @hg2. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, Ms. Pea is world class.

  • @craigschuler1547
    @craigschuler1547 4 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    More honorable than being a scammer or gold digger.

    • @normanflint8757
      @normanflint8757 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same as freelance?..

    • @kevinr8431
      @kevinr8431 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wow, quite low standards. Call it what is.

    • @michaelblackwell5344
      @michaelblackwell5344 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ...nah

    • @dase5604
      @dase5604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same honarable as any other job, why would be less? it is a good job

    • @tanaltricio7832
      @tanaltricio7832 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cannot be avoided. 70% of the population is living below the poverty line.

  • @acenda-r2d2
    @acenda-r2d2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    You're a really great interviewer. Natural and inquisitive with empathy and compassion. Well done.

    • @nahteo
      @nahteo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agree 💯

  • @johnfosteriii5792
    @johnfosteriii5792 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    It is very easy for people to judge others when they have a roof over their head, a bed to sleep in, clean clothes to wear, and food to eat.
    When you are missing one or more of the above, you tend to do what is necessary to get your basic needs fulfilled.

    • @MultiSweetkisses1
      @MultiSweetkisses1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree with you Sir John

    • @ObieVIP
      @ObieVIP 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't forget electricity.

    • @michaelmcneal3793
      @michaelmcneal3793 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Finally someone else sees what I see and that is a fact everything you say guy is very true people are very quick to judge others who have nothing because they have everything that is the wrong way to think of other people not everyone was born with a silver spoon in their mouth. Just remember there's only one man who can judge us all you know who that is and that day is coming.

    • @whatlifebringswithironmike3148
      @whatlifebringswithironmike3148 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This video is sad!
      My heart brakes for all people in bad situations . I feel so bad for this girl. Pea this is a informative video, but also sad. I will pray for this girl before I sleep.

  • @joeyboy69
    @joeyboy69 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    The interviews you are getting and the quality of your interviews is fantastic. You should be proud of yourself

  • @pohle4632
    @pohle4632 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you Pea for being so respectful to this brave lady. She is doing her best to keep her grandma and herself fed and safe. Drastic times call for drastic measures.

  • @hg2.
    @hg2. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Another world class video from Ms. Pea.
    Poverty can be eliminated - Adam Smith tells us how. This kind of human degradation can be eliminated from the face of the earth.

  • @BStrahl1
    @BStrahl1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Magandang Umaga (Gabi for you) Ms. Pea.
    Another great video segment on a hard hitting subject.
    My heart goes out to "Mary" (obfuscated name to protect the innocent).
    She is very brave. So alone in this harsh world; parents passed away when she was 2 yo and they themselves being so young; raised by her grandmother who is now in the hospital; no means of money and already on the fringe with no electricity.
    I can't even imagine being in such a situation....
    And her love for her grandmother, who is in the hospital, being greater than her fear and shame for doing something just to cover hospital expenses.
    Your "Mary" is a brave soul and I hope she finds a path to a better life... and hope you MS. Pea can help her find a path.
    This video segment gives me even more reason to count my blessings and to not take for granted any of the small gifts in life.
    I wish you continued success with your channel and hope you can touch the lives of many like "Mary" to help them to a better life.
    As always, ingat sa palagi in al I'm you do Ms. Pea.
    - Bill of Huntington Beach, CA

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks so much, Bill - I have a good feeling about ‘Mary’ - she’s smart enough to pull herself out of the mess that life has placed her in

  • @andrewstimpson3913
    @andrewstimpson3913 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stumbled across your channel today. Amazing content Pea

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks so much for finding my channel, Andrew! I hope you enjoy my older videos too 😊

  • @octaviusvanzandt3695
    @octaviusvanzandt3695 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You do a very good job of showing the challenging situations that some people are in, and you show a lot of respect and kindness to those you interview.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks OV - I try to stay neutral 😊

  • @MrSatman2000
    @MrSatman2000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I am impressed Pea that you’re covering many difficult subjects and doing a great job of giving us an idea how difficult it is for many of your fellow Filipinos to create a living for themselves.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thanks, MrSat - I like to tackle the tough ones

  • @TheWaterman2011
    @TheWaterman2011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Having been to the Philippines and having seen the poorest places-She is doing what she feels she has to feed her family.

  • @Flastew
    @Flastew 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have ads for these before and your videos shows what maybe going on with a lot of these ladies. Thanks for letting us know. You always provide us with useful information.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks Flastew - I just wanted to take a few videos to shed light on some uncomfortable things

  • @brianp6097
    @brianp6097 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for the latest home truths Pea, this is another example of behind closed doors stuff that is more common than many people realise. Poverty and desperation, can make people do desperate things that they wouldn’t do by choice. Prostitution, theft, robbery all are common in poor countries. The girl has been forced to make a choice, she isn’t scamming anyone or hurting anyone. To be honest, I look down more , on the people who scam her out of her money by not paying. Before anyone judges people there, think what you would do if you had no savings, no job/ income no government assistance, and no food.
    Well done again Pea, for educating the privileged, to the plight of the disadvantaged.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thanks for that insight Brian, and yes it’s easy to judge someone, but usually for the wrong reasons

  • @movingaboveandbeyond
    @movingaboveandbeyond 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A very nice and empathetic interview.
    Good job, Pea.
    You are very respectful. That was a heart breaking and heart warming video at the same time.
    I feel so badly for her and her grandmother though. 😞

  • @terrylorrah6725
    @terrylorrah6725 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you Pea for offering to help this young woman. I truly hope she can find her dream.

  • @ovejohanromstad8575
    @ovejohanromstad8575 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm impressed, this is a good interview! You get the person and her situation. I think you have prepared both the interview object and you good here!

  • @philortiz2445
    @philortiz2445 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you, Pea for keeping it real. It’s good that you show everything and not just the good.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Everyone else just shows the good, so it’s my job to be even-handed and go where others don’t

  • @henryeverhart-martinez5879
    @henryeverhart-martinez5879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your an exceptional interviewer, keep up the great work. You are a star....keep creating your media empire.

  • @roguetiger3163
    @roguetiger3163 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Another extremely well done interview Pea, even your posture is that of a seasoned professional
    You can't judge her for what she is doing....a simple agreement between 2 adults....she is following the path of least resistance to survive.
    There are many videos on you tube about scams.....there is even a scam board that scammers go to to get story lines

  • @dr.davidmiller6682
    @dr.davidmiller6682 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I want to tell you what a great service you are doing. Truly awesome. You’re a wise and thoughtful woman. Thank you for being you.

  • @arieldelaguila760
    @arieldelaguila760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Pea, as always great reporting. I like your style treating everybody you interview with kindness and maintaining an insightful and objective perspective on the interview contents.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks! That’s exactly what I’m trying to do 😊

  • @richardmycroft5336
    @richardmycroft5336 ปีที่แล้ว

    And Pea, thank you so much for producing this video. May heaven bless you.

  • @Oppyse
    @Oppyse 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Brought tears. My wife being from the provinces we are aware of the poverty. Even with all the charity work we do, it is not enough. I do hope she can get maybe a sari sari store or the like.
    Bless her little heart. Taking care of grandma.

  • @memyself4ever1
    @memyself4ever1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are a true journalist. Who needs mainstream media when we have the Pea representing the Philippines.

  • @ricksmith8078
    @ricksmith8078 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    This really breaks my heart Pea. This all started when her only living relative that raised her was hospitalized. I have to say that personally, I think she made the least harmful choice. Since she's not opening herself up to pregnancy, disease, or violence. I think the bigger problem comes after Grandma's needs have been met, now she knows she can continue this for easy money. As a Foreigner, I would say that I could accept someone who did this cam work over a scammer or a call girl. Hopefully she can open that small business and things get better for her in the future.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I got the feeling that was her real intention. Whether or not she’ll follow through is anyone’s guess though!

    • @georgel74
      @georgel74 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Could be all lies, how could she not tell her boyfriend, like he wouldn't notice her appearance.

    • @Themanfromohio
      @Themanfromohio 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Can someone tell me where I can view her cam show? I want to help her.

    • @montebrown9528
      @montebrown9528 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's obvious she doesn't enjoy the work or she would be doing it every day and making a lot more money, or perhaps the laptop is not available. As demeaning as this activity is at least she is safe from assault, disease and pregnancy. She is inadequate tough spot. I don't know if she has the skills but maybe you can train her for a call center job or something. I'm sure you are on it. 😘

    • @elkskiutah8204
      @elkskiutah8204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@montebrown9528 I think 3 times a month is all the demand she gets. If she earns 10,000 for 3 hours work it's very high hourly wage. Considering a call center person working night shift to be on Western time makes 240$ a month.

  • @timdrettwan2637
    @timdrettwan2637 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pea. You are so awesome in that you are shedding light on so many social issues that are plaguing Philippine society. Your subscribers should be in the millions. One subject you should report on is the process it takes to work in the Philippines and how hard it is to get work there. That’s adding to the economic situation there. It seems.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks Tim!! Check out my video “Adventures in Employment”

  • @marcacosta7924
    @marcacosta7924 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Another great interview in your ongoing series. Also another sad story from a young woman, just trying to survive and help her grandmother. I personally believe that this should not be illegal, it’s just as you’ve said, a business arrangement between two consenting adults. Excellent job as always. 👏👏👏👏

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thanks Marc! I love to hear everyone’s viewpoints on this. As Spock would say ...... fascinating ......

  • @Garywagner-m6n
    @Garywagner-m6n 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are Pretty and Smart . Plus you seem to put the people you interview at ease . Keep up the great work . I do not judge anyone

  • @williamberry9407
    @williamberry9407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    If you haven't seen the slums of Manila, then you shouldn't judge what people do to escape that hell hole.

    • @TheMantis1968
      @TheMantis1968 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      They are not escaping, only surviving from pay check to pay check.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      Absolutely, Bill - I really don’t think most westerners can even comprehend what’s it’s like. Sometimes their first reaction is “Get a job!”, which I understand, but if they lived there, or even spent a day in that crushing, hopeless poverty, I think they’d have a different attitude. I was born in a poor section of Manila myself

    • @farmerfox99
      @farmerfox99 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@TheFilipinaPea you are so compassionate Pea. You have risen up out of poverty by great ingenuity. You’ll be on ET someday as a reporter!!!

    • @brianp6097
      @brianp6097 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      The Filipina Pea : All the more credit to you Pea for your remarkable success, based on creativity, hard work and your experiences. You are an inspiration to everyone u meet, and I have the utmost respect for you.

    • @cindygordon5242
      @cindygordon5242 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      In a country, with poverty so much deeper than anyone here in the west can imagine , it's no surprise! Most Filipino work only to survive, with many children working away from home at 12 to 14 years old , imagine sending your daughter to a city to work at 14 expecting them to send money home

  • @carydagnese5484
    @carydagnese5484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! What a kind and caring girl you are. You are a social warrior for your people. Seeing what a kind and intelligent person your are restores my faith humanity. Good luck to you always...

  • @brianpridemore4151
    @brianpridemore4151 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ok Pea. You guilted me into watching the ads🤣🤣

  • @bikerplusone
    @bikerplusone 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I started watching your videos because they were interesting and informative. But you have transcended past that in bringing the realities of Philippine lifestyles good and bad. I have been corresponding with a Philipina Girl for some time and never realised the actual daily trials good and bad they endure. You have opened my eyes and my heart to this wonderful country and I thank you so much for that.

  • @fleeble04
    @fleeble04 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Being serious here for the moment, given the level of poverty in your nation, even though I don't agree with what Mary does for a living, I do understand what she does for survival. Well done again Pea.

    • @fleeble04
      @fleeble04 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Michael McGeary Easy Michael, read the comments on other Pea Videos, I do try not to be too serious, I enjoy the content of the videos and the way Pea presents them, and I do find many things to laugh about and comment on in a fun if warped sense of humor way. Stay Cool and chill a little.

  • @Bmans1959
    @Bmans1959 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey Pea, love the video and my prayers go out to your interviewee as she is doing the best she knows how. Thank you for helping her find a more rewarding line of work and be a role model for her. Just a word for my impressions of your interview style, look at this video critically and see where you can improve yourself. Please remember that empathy and acute listening skills are hallmarks of the top interviewer. Stay safe love. 🕊🕊🕊

  • @redneckcody235
    @redneckcody235 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Another interesting video Ms sweet pea my heart goes out to this young lady I can't hold it against her money makes the world go around it's sad the young people have to resort to this just to survive in today's world I hope things get better for her . As always much love from TEXAS

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And as always, even more love back at you from the Philippines ♥️

  • @alexkent1932
    @alexkent1932 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello Pea from Australia, i have been married to my Filipina wife since March 2020 when she visited me for the first time after my many trips to the Philippines. We met online on the online dating app Filipina Cupid a couple of years ago. I had a number of girls on that site using it as platform to lure men into paying for cam shows. I did not engage in the service, but did talk with some of them on what's app via video. I actually sent some money to two of them that had children and I could see the poverty they were living amongst. Anyway I recently discovered your TH-cam channel and instantly subscribed and admire your approach to the topics you cover, the best Filipina vlog I have seen by far. Anyway I'm no expert but I feel blessed to have met my girl, that has her own home and we are now half way through building another in her Village where I will live in the near future. Many foreign men in search of a wife or girlfriend from the Philippines are running blind in the beginning and sometimes get taken advantage of, but I don't mean in a totally dishonest way every times. Then the bad stories and opinions about Filipino women are written in comments and other vlogs. I am yet to see a family unit in western society that has the unconditional love and dedicated caring in the majority of Filipino families, rich or devastatingly poor. I've seen a lot in my travels around the Philippines. I am not biased, just have a deep respect for the huge number of humble and decent people, young and old throughout your country. One last thing, my wife never asked for money ever even during our dating period, but now I'm broke!!!. 😂 By the way Pea, i have a business I would like to set up in the Philippines in conjunction with my wife, it is legitimate and would pay well once up and running. I think you are just the person to manage it. I am serious and it is nothing illegal and something you can easily tell your mom without shame. Let me know if you want to hear more via other communication. Take care and kind regards Alex Kent. Brisbane Australia.

  • @jrx0513
    @jrx0513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Isa din ako sa mga napasok sa ganitong kalakaran. Kanya kanya tayo ng pasanin sa buhay. Kaya sana sa mga nanglalait/nangloloko lawakan ang pag unawa. Hindi nyo alam ung hirap namin
    Yes this is really thing here in Philippines kasi due to a large volume of Christian and the upbringing of our elders.

  • @windellchapman8397
    @windellchapman8397 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your interviews are always so professional and informing , w/ no bias visible/audible on your part ☺️

  • @liabatud67
    @liabatud67 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    For us foreigners, maybe a language class could be a viable idea. Personal one on one tuition is worth a fair price. I have a mixed heritage. As such I am interested in the various languages of the world. Keep up the good work Pea. Your efforts do not go unnoticed. You are appreciated.

  • @StormWarningHall
    @StormWarningHall 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was an excellent video. It provides a point of view that very few get to see. You are giving the voiceless a place to tell their story. I frequent cam sites and the Filipinas are mainly my favorite performers. This is a service like any other and these women are doing what they have to do.

  • @PassportBrosBusinessClass
    @PassportBrosBusinessClass 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow
    One banging video after the next!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow, you’re in a great mood, BigTruck - I like it! 😂

  • @donniechampagne4221
    @donniechampagne4221 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have many topics your the best Phillippines vlogger around,Im a retired expat stuck in US (Cebu,Velincia)Keep it up.Great job Pea.

  • @GusgusA1
    @GusgusA1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    my wife (from Palawn) and I employ 3 ladies and are always looking for other small businesses. We tend to hire ladies that have fallen on hard times. We would not look at her in a bad light we look at her as having customer service experience, in a good way. Having been there a few times I understand how this becomes an option for a job. I really wish her the best of luck.

    • @GusgusA1
      @GusgusA1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Palawan not Palawn

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Excellent attitude, Chad! Thanks for helping where you can!

  • @Murph_.
    @Murph_. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very intriguing series Miss Pea. Can't wait to see what's next! Thank you!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks Murph! Friday there will be a visit from Gracey 😊

  • @stanleybriones518
    @stanleybriones518 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    My heart really breaks 💔 😢 for these young woman. I have daughters and I can't imagine they would have to resort to services just to survive. Prayers to you Pea and your calling. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @timporter8104
    @timporter8104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Once again, she delivers a crazy good video! Good job Pea!

  • @j-is-meas-you-see3210
    @j-is-meas-you-see3210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    We should all try and help out women like this!!!

  • @EMTwombly
    @EMTwombly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ms. Pea, once again you delved into a sensitive and important topic. You indicated how the desperation of finding work, the establishment of severe poverty, and moral choices a lady has to make to have money to survive. I think that it is also important to point out that for many decades, women in the Philippines have been left without any real choices to earn anything other than the sex trade.
    You also bring out their inner reluctance and inner struggles that comes along with these decisions, and show that the real goal is to be loved, accepted, respected, have a husband who really loves them and have a happy life!
    Me. Pea, thank you for another phenomenal insight into the what, how and why of elements that not only exist in the Philippines, but world wide!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much for that supportive review, Eric - I always appreciate your comments 😊

  • @kramsenoj1
    @kramsenoj1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    40k subs just around the corner, congrats again 🙂

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It’s happening really fast, too - I have no idea why it’s accelerating (but I’m ain’t complaining!) 😁

    • @jeffreyroot6300
      @jeffreyroot6300 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheFilipinaPea Quality content presented very well! Word spreads!

    • @kramsenoj1
      @kramsenoj1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheFilipinaPea I don't know why either - Oh wait, you are clever, cute, funny and skilled. Maybe that has something to do with it 😉

  • @WJF1959
    @WJF1959 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can completely understand why this girl resorted to this. It’s a shame that there is no government provision for medical assistance in The Philippines. But at least she didn’t put herself at risk by becoming a street girl. Another great video Pea.

  • @hillary300
    @hillary300 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    night follow day, day follow night. it is the same everywhere. no winners, no victims.

  • @MD-hd1cp
    @MD-hd1cp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great story Pea. Thanks for shedding light on the subject.
    No one is in any position to judge others. What people do in their life is their own business. And their own karma. To be honest, my heart goes out to many of the women in these poor countries with extremely limited resources 🙏

  • @billytheallstar471
    @billytheallstar471 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ok .. I understand this young lady . She is very brave to do this type of work. She’s not scamming anyone. I’m hoping her luck changes in the Future!!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks Billy! And no, there’s no scamming going on here

  • @raymondharris7226
    @raymondharris7226 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good Luck to Mary... I feel so bad for her... Thank you both for taking the time to do this...

    • @raymondharris7226
      @raymondharris7226 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I didn't know cam modeling was illegal in the Philippines. It isn't illegal here in the United States of America.

  • @bahaatamer1245
    @bahaatamer1245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'll NEVER complain about my financial issues ever again!

  • @kaos9010
    @kaos9010 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am impressed with you. You have tackled many subjects that are very well done. You also show an incredible maturity and intellect. please continue the incredible things you do and please do more of the "on the street" type interviews. you have a great future awaiting you.

  • @bobbygindenver7208
    @bobbygindenver7208 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She's just doing what she needs to do to survive along with her grandmother and add relief to her life because of the financial situation I can't pass judgment on what she's doing either way but I can send prayers ......Bobby.

  • @filamericancouple6210
    @filamericancouple6210 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey my friend. I really liked this video. Covered a great topic. I also looked at the video in the comment section. It's crazy what people are doing. Thanks pea for all your work and video. Keep up the great work pea love ya

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks so much FilAm, and yes it’s crazy!

  • @floydhill9265
    @floydhill9265 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    When I was single and looking online, one of the first Filipinas I encountered offered to give me a "show" if I send her $40. This was within ten minutes of meeting. I just told her, "I didn't come here for a 'show', I'm looking for a serious relationship." Suddenly she was like, "Please don't judge me, I'm a good Christian girl, I just need the money. etc." She continued to message me to the point that I blocked her. Well if you're out there, I don't judge you, I kind of understand. I just knew already what I was looking for, and wouldn't accept anything else.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Wow, I wonder how many other girls out there are blowing their chances with sincere guys?

    • @CindysBisvlog
      @CindysBisvlog 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheFilipinaPea many girls,i knew a lot of women doing it ,even neighbours , people nowadays want an easy money

  • @AlanFannin
    @AlanFannin 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Pea, another great job. Most people do not realize that in the Philippines, you must have money to get treated in the hospital. Not very many have any sort of insurance. Mary's only real hope for a decent future is to fall in love with a foreigner that can separate her from the poverty. Give her some good advice and guide her to make it happen. Infinite love from Atlanta!💖🙏😘

  • @bentnickel7487
    @bentnickel7487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You have so much potential. You need a professional manager and a production team. You could go in several directions, politics, stand up, movies, radio. Don't sell yourself to a company. Stay on TH-cam and grow your base. You're one of a kind.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks so much, BentN - that’s exactly what I’m going to do! I’m going to stay tight here and grow my channel for at least a year or two 😊

  • @mvj8663
    @mvj8663 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are a really good I must say. I wished more reporters in America were like you in how you report. You do it the right way in that you don’t show your person view in your report. You do your job the way a lot of reporters in America don’t. I really enjoy your videos in how much i learn from them.

  • @davidjasonmilligan9980
    @davidjasonmilligan9980 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great content as always...

  • @ians7674
    @ians7674 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi just wanted to say that I have watched your video interview of 'Mary' the cam girl, it was one of the best interviews I've seen on a vlogging site, you were non-judgmental and gracious in helping Mary articulate an uncomfortable part of her life, it gave insight to an audience who probably don't know of the financial pressures that many Filipinos are under, especially during this pandemic when the 'grey' economy is ignored and unsupported by Governments, particularly in Thailand, Cambodia, The Philippines etc well done for a first class video.

  • @Psych86_
    @Psych86_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The audio is perfect 👌

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks Psyche! I’ve been fine tuning it ☺️

  • @hardmtnbiker
    @hardmtnbiker 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Honestly, your channel has to be the most informative channel about life in PHL. Westerners probably have no idea what living in a impoverished country is like. Also the restrictive policies that mandate people pay to work must drive more people to desperation for survival. Even public schools have parents pay for classroom supplies.
    God bless those Filipinos that struggle to get an education, or not but somehow always find ways to help their families. Nothing is free or easy, especially in the Philippines where it seems like everyone is trying to take advantage of the underprivileged.

  • @mileakin2689
    @mileakin2689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I just visited the Philippines in January, my wife is Filipina, it’s a beautiful country full of very nice people but the poverty there is depressing, there is no social safety net there so we shouldn’t judge these women for doing what they need to do to survive.

  • @bigmike1976
    @bigmike1976 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're doing a very good job of bringing attention to these situations where people are struggling and doing what they can to survive. No judgement Because we never know what we have to do to survive because of way the pressure of economic devaluing of the human workforce worldwide by international bankers.
    I pray for this young lady to be able to find a good job to get out of this situation that she's in.
    Filipina Pea I think you are doing a great service amongst communities to bring awareness to things that no one wants to talk about. Thanks for a great video and great understanding of things that people have to put up with and do to survive.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for watching, Hubby! I appreciate your understanding of the situation 😊

  • @davidmack964
    @davidmack964 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She's so honest, what the world has become is sad.

    • @billsmith981
      @billsmith981 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The world hasn't really changed, it's just that in some instances it's easier to see the Reality.

  • @andrewiyare9099
    @andrewiyare9099 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    4ok and rising congratulations on another milestone keep it going 😎👍

  • @owenhalloran6234
    @owenhalloran6234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow, another great interview. Your last two videos I'm sure we have all heard of but this is one that I'm ignorant of. I don't mean to say that I've never heard of this topic before. I gusee I just never associated it with the Philippines, but of course it is. It is all over the world. I guess. One thing i notice is that most of the stories are very similiar in the last few videos. It doesnt seem like any of them are happy about what they do for a living, well except for the one that said she would continue even after she got a better job, but for the most part they all do it out of necessity to make a living. Also mentioned in this one is that nobody is getting hurt by what she is doing unless there is a scammer on either side trying to scam the other. I have to disagree on this point. This young lady said that she has a BF that doesnt know what she is doing, and she has even developed feelingg for one of her cliants and would like to meet him. Someone is getting hurt !! The dishonesty alone is going to eventually catch up with her and people will get hurt. Great job Pea, Looking forward to the next video. TFS

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks so much for your input Owen! Yup, there’s some cyber-cheatin’ going on, true

    • @mikemasters4382
      @mikemasters4382 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Most times these type stories get posted they always show the sad stories of the P4P bussiness. There are many, many beautiful Filipina's who enjoy very much working in the P4P bussiness and would not except another good paying by Philippine standards job even if it were offered.
      But as in the case of so many orginazations they refuse to show those girls. I've ask Pea to give us those girls interviews and got zero response from her.
      Just so you know, there are models even some on billboards around Manila who are excorts at night with Foreingers and do enjoy their work, and that includes doing the dirty deed.
      I personally know girls in US who do cam shows and have good jobs but love the work.
      Honestly Owen, your less educated watching these type video's not more educated about the P4P bussiness.
      Although I don't partake in such things I am very educated about them, much more then most posting about this video.

  • @glenproctor1999
    @glenproctor1999 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bless her, such a hard life for one so young. She's had more than her share of misfortune, hope the universe treats her better now. Lovely, sensitive interview lovely Pea ❤

  • @ronfrederico7251
    @ronfrederico7251 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Situations like this are very sad. God bless her and direct her to Him.

  • @sgtzulu2507
    @sgtzulu2507 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great honest and candid video. I have no judgement for this young lady I hope she is able to get out of it one day.

  • @timkahn2813
    @timkahn2813 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    poor and pain are always together . she did something to remove the those things. she is brave really.

  • @kearles9314
    @kearles9314 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Pea for video on this topic. I hope that the girls that do these shows get out of this type of work as it can cause harm to there future relationships and there self-esteem as well. There are victims of this on both sides and men should think before engaging in such activities. Keep up the good work and stay safe friend.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks so much for the input, KE!!

  • @Bogie6588
    @Bogie6588 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    If I were in better shape financially, I would just give her the money she needs to open her business.....which is probably why I'm not in better shape financially. I love your heart, Pea!

  • @BrianDawsonLM10
    @BrianDawsonLM10 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I clicked thumbs up even before watching because i know it will be quality, in my opinion what two consenting adults do together is no ones business after all who are we to judge. We all have our sexual preferences and fetishes, but she is doing this out of necessity which is sad. I hope you can help her and with that in mind and knowing you are trying to help some of these girls i will no longer skip the adds, thanks for another great vid.

  • @CO84trucker
    @CO84trucker 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    There are 3 goods and services that will always thrive regardless of the times or legality/regulations. They are alcohol, tobacco and adult entertainment.

    • @212Roger
      @212Roger 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And “coffee.”

  • @thomasoleary5895
    @thomasoleary5895 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have a social worker's compassion for these less fortunate women. I hope you can help them. I wish the Philippines government would open the gates to foreign-owned investment to provide more and better job opportunities for all Filipinos. Your true concern for others comes through in these videos. Keep up the good work.

  • @ddjjss
    @ddjjss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    People shouldn’t judge if they’ve Never walked in her shoes...Never been hungry, with no hope. This activity SHOULD NOT be illegal!! It’s an honest way for the poor to improve their life. However, she must realize this will not last. As she ages & looses her beauty, she will need to find other work opportunities.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for being nonjudgmental, Daniel!

  • @chipparmley
    @chipparmley 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I fully understand the circumstances that lead to doing this kind of work. I know someone who used to do this kind of work when it was legal there. She now has a university degree and has a nice paying office job. We still chat from time to time. Thanks for another fun video.

  • @theworldisonfire5859
    @theworldisonfire5859 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi folks! The Filipina Pea here!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That’s my line! But you’re welcome to use it 😁

    • @clydekimsey7503
      @clydekimsey7503 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, she says that in such a cute manner!😊

  • @martinfarrelly5196
    @martinfarrelly5196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! Heart went out to that young girl. But total respect for her making the best out of her situation. Hope her dreams come true.

  • @buellrichardson5222
    @buellrichardson5222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I feel bad for her because she is having to do something that she isn't comfortable with. I understand that it is very difficult to get a job in the Philippines. I'm glad to hear that she has a plan for when she is able to stop. As for what I think of cam shows, in my opinion if the woman feels comfortable about her body and wants to do it of her own accord and not because it is the only way to make money I say why not. As for the legality, that is a very sticky situation. I don't think it should be illegal as long as it is between 2 consenting adults

    • @jenserikjohansson6228
      @jenserikjohansson6228 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agri its hard life.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It’s definitely illegal - check out my upcoming video with Gracey on Friday 😊

    • @buellrichardson5222
      @buellrichardson5222 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheFilipinaPea I do understand it is illegal. I am just saying that in my opinion it shouldn't be illegal if it is between 2 consenting adults. There are a lot of things that are illegal that I don't think should be. Within my beliefs there is a saying "As long as it harms none, do what you will"

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes, I knew what you were saying. I was agreeing with you and saying that not only is it illegal here, but just wait till you hear what Gracey says about the legality of all ‘cybersex’ here - even involving loved ones! It’s going to surprise a lot of people! 😊

    • @buellrichardson5222
      @buellrichardson5222 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheFilipinaPea I look forward to watching that video. Learning the legalities in other countries is an interesting learn

  • @anchor4591
    @anchor4591 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pea, your investigative interviews expose the informal economy that is necessary for women to survive in a developing country without economical and financial opportunities. This dilemma is compounded by the global pandemic affecting large swaths of the Filipino population. We cannot criticize or ostracize women caught in the cycle of survival with few skills or formal opportunities. Thank you for your abilities to deal with difficult topics and being able to have reluctant guests speak candidly about taboo subjects.

  • @davidssunstar
    @davidssunstar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That was fascinating..That girl was so nice..I hope she meets someone nice who cares about her as a person and wants to take care of her and make a life with her...
    What I appreciate about your channel is that youre not afraid to face reality..youre not nasty or condescend8ng, or using people like the main stream media..
    In some ways you give a voice to the people who dont have one...I grew up super poor so I identify with people like her.. Thanks for another awesome vid

  • @juergenrymer3442
    @juergenrymer3442 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kee up the good work Pea maybe someday things will change for the better in your country

  • @themacker894
    @themacker894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    These stories are just so sad. I can't imagine anyone wanting to use the services of these poor girls, knowing about their histories. Edit: I can't believe she wants anything to do with men, after such a humiliating first experience. It's very surprising to me that she has a boyfriend. BTW, excellent article that you linked. Reminds me of Thailand and the Red Bull heir who killed a policemen. Despite years of searching, no law enforcement agents could ever locate him living in his parent's house, swimming in his parent's pool, and driving around the same town. Money speaks louder than the law in many places.

  • @juliets6222
    @juliets6222 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's certainly Heartbreaking she's so young,some people they living the kind of life Kapit sa patalim,she's a strong young woman hoping her life will be change,I will pray for your grandmother Mary.
    Thank you for sharing your video again Ms.Pea😊🙏 God bless you both

  • @iomtilt
    @iomtilt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Sex industry is a business; she's providing a service, & plans to develop other income streams from the proceeds.... Sound business planning. Hope she's successful 👍🇬🇧🇵🇭

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I certainly hope she finds success too

    • @joekahno
      @joekahno 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The problem with this industry is that so many who get involved consider it an income of last resort. This makes conventional business or financial planning difficult, bordering on impossible.

    • @42ouncesofPAIN
      @42ouncesofPAIN 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She is a victim because she took this 'job' out of desperation, but she is also active in normalizing this form of degeneracy. The company she is acting through should be shut down and she should take a job as a virtual assistant instead. If this kind of behavior is tolerated it will spread, and she is doing damage to herself and others in the process. This job should disappear and be replaced by non-sexual online work.

    • @xomox5316
      @xomox5316 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yup she just needs to make as much as possible while she is young and can get fools to spend money, save and invest well because those looks fade fast.

    • @TheChenny73
      @TheChenny73 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@42ouncesofPAIN Victim? Of what? Of victimizing the sexually addicted men of their money? Sex cam workers are not victims unless they are being forced to by sex trafficking and locked in a room and forced.

  • @CWheeler8700
    @CWheeler8700 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pea, that outfit looks great on you. Keep up the great work. 👍🏻

  • @glenwillard7537
    @glenwillard7537 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I remember the first few times I was in the Philippines I thought I knew poor but I seen some poor areas in Manila I can't really blame her for doing that she needs money and I know it's a hard to get a job there and at least she's not scamming anybody

  • @jrrocketboy8482
    @jrrocketboy8482 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    At Pea, your really good at interviewing people and brining out the truth. Also enjoy your personality. Keep up the great work and always remain positive.

  • @Dirty__Dan
    @Dirty__Dan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is very sad, what website is she working on? So I can tell my church group to avoid it. Asking for a friend....

    • @boston312
      @boston312 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      maybe we can get the FBI and CIA involved to close down her website