The Reason I Am Quitting
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thank you for taking hazel with you to your hair appointment. i went with my momma until i moved out at 17. we would always schedule hair appointments together, get our hair done by the same stylist, on thursday nights every two months. they’re some of my absolute favorite memories i have with her & since she passed 1.20.2020- seeing other mommas do this with their littles makes me feel so good. i sent this on insta but figured i’d send here too. just.. thank you. she’ll cherish these memories forever.
I see you Zoe💕 I struggle with it every single day too. It’s so hard to navigate but know that you are not alone! You are a wonderful and beautiful person inside and out, and truly bring a smile to my face every time I watch your videos. Please be kind to yourself!
Zoe your hair looks gorgeous. Your vlogs have been helping a ton with my new mom/struggles with anxiety lately. Thank you so much for being so open and honest. I love your little fam ❤
Beautiful inside and out ❤ I totally get how you're feeling and I really hope the New Year brings you peace and happiness.
Thank you for being brave and addressing this so honestly. You are beautiful but I can relate to the body dysphoria, it's tough. Don't forget you had a fairly recent pregnancy that messed with your hormones and mental health. Give yourself some grace and be kind to yourself. 💓
love watching you guys posting and hazel is so adorable
Her little happy dance after she got her cake pop 🥺🤣💕
I love how raw and authentic you are in all of your videos. It honestly helps me in many ways because I relate to you a lot. I love this video because it's you being real! You are stunning🤩 no matter what like girl you rock 💛! Don't let your thoughts overpower your beautiful spirit ❤️
I love that sweater! Gorgeous colour on you. Listen to your inner voice and everything will work out the way it is supposed to be.
Thank you for sharing. It’s very brave and will show others they aren’t alone. Wishing you strength and peace of mind on your journey.
Love you Zoe!🦋 I love your business Wilder Wave! Thank you for being so brave and talking about this!💓
I love how venerable you are. It takes alot of courage to speak out and tell your story. I wish you could see yourself through other people's eyes because I think your a amazing and beautiful momma inside and out. I just love your family ❤️❤️❤️
I wish you could see you through our eyes: you’re so beautiful inside and out. I’m sorry you’re going through this xo Love and strength your way
Hi Zoe and Garrick I love watching your vlogs your kids have grown so much Venture is getting so big I can't believe that he is walking already man kids grow up so fast I hope you guys are enjoying this cold weather so far I know I am not I wasn't ready for this cold weather happy new year you guys I am so sad to see to see 2022 go it seems like this year went so fast now it is almost over already I hope you guys are having a wonderful day how are you guys?
Thank you for sharing. I know mental health is so hard, and social media is so cruel. I wish you could see what I see from this side. I see a beautiful person inside and out who has a heart of gold. You have the sweetest, sweetest kids. I could imagine who care about other people, and they are a credit to you both.. The kids melt my heart with the way they treat their siblings and you both. Hope you can find your peace with the body dysphoria at some point. Love and prayers.
It really does suck, society this time in day makes everyone so insecure. I know it won’t help but maybe make your day a little better but I think you’re gorgeous Zoe! I really look up to you and your a huge role model on me. I thank you for telling your story it helps a lot! I hope you get back to being confident and starting back up with your business! I love you Zoe ❤❤
zoe you have truly helped me so much with my body dysmorphia. i find it comforting when i see another woman with a similar shape as me feeling so confident in her skin. that doesn’t mean i don’t have hard days where i struggle looking at myself in the mirror. but then i see you for example just BEING in your skin smiling and laughing and not giving a sh*t what people think and it truly makes a huge difference in the way i view myself image. our body’s are forever changing too, life is so much more then reminiscing about surface level things. but i truly understand how you feel. you are glowing mama inside and out!
I also struggle with BDD so I TOTALLY understand... Sending you all my love darling 🥰
Zoe I know how you feel about not feeling comfortable in your own skin I feel the same way about myself I never liked taking pictures of myself or having some do pictures of me I was fat and ugly!! I went though gastric bypass in Aug of this year I am down 55 lbs I have more to go. Yes you are beautiful just the way God made you inside and outside!!! I am praying for you Zoe!!! Love you and your family. God bless you hang in there !!!
It don’t matter what I think bc I don’t know you and you don’t know me but your beautiful and your body is perfect and it’s like that bc you made beautiful humans and not everyone is perfect social media is fake
Don't quit what you love doing...do for your kids and maybe take a challenge to do something that you love to do..we love you and care about you and your family 💗😘
Sending you so much love from New Zealand 🇳🇿 ❤ So so proud of you for opening up about the hard times, its truly so hard too open up when your going through a hard time. I admire you so much for being so honest and raw with us all the time, because its so difficult but it shows everyone that it's okay too not be okay and that your a normal human being, the people who always just show the good are just not realistic at all and they're making it out like everyone has too be happy and strong all the time, and like they are always fine but thats 1000% not the case at all. Thank you so so much for being so raw and real with us Zoe, I love y'all so much 💗
Thank you for sharing this I think so many people feel this way I know I struggle with the same thing ❤
I totally understand, cause I have the same problem as u.. Today is my 36th birthday and I don't want to go out, not even to dinner, because every time I leave my house mentally I feel like everyone is staring at me or talking/laughing at me. Its mentally and physically draining!!!
I love you Zoe!! You do what is best for you! I fell in love with the bikini top that I had gotten from you this summer and wore it almost every day!! You are beautiful inside and out and the real ones will always be here for you!!
I understand and I hope you the best on this journey. You are an amazing person inside and out Zoe. 🙏🏻 💛
♥️❤️that Green Is Gorgeous on you I love that color!💕💕
i’m so sorry :( i know the struggles of body dismorphia and i know it doesn’t necessarily get better. but just remember your body is just a meat sack, you are not truly your body, just inside it ♡
I love your content. I am very insecure after having kids. I am very active as a CNA but I still don’t find my self losing the weight. ❤ much love. Your beautiful. ❤❤❤love your little fam.
I felt the exact same way after I had my third baby, it still is a struggle and I had her back in 2019. I feel how you feel. Keep your head up beautiful momma! ❤
Are you still doing the nursing thing? You also did great being out and about with your anxiety... Awesome!
Love seeing you guys post❤
I am 18 and almost 5 months pregnant and I have been dealing with this same issues my whole life I never thought any one else was going through it this was so helpful for me to know that other people go through this and I hope that you are able to get through this I am so glad I became in this journey with you and your family sending lots of love
I pray that you have a smooth pregnancy and deliver a healthy baby.
I’m so sorry you feel this way but its good you are so honest about it. Being insecure is extremely real and raw. I hope you do find something that will help your self confidence and if it is not your wave business then you will find something else that may not involve clothes and that is ok just so you. Your feelings are real and take care of yourself
Zoe, I know exactly how you're feeling..maybe some differences but I do understand. You are a phenomenal person, wife and especially mother!! My daughters dad and I always talk about how great your videos are, how you guys make parenting look so amazing lol cause our lives are straight up chaos and stress. You and garrick are still pretty young... you guys are doing stuff people in their 30s are still trying to do.. everyone is on a different path, different level. Different but the same in other ways. You always inspire me. You have been so open and honest about sooo many things that you guys have experienced since having Wilder. You've shared everything online, but you also can't compare yourself to other people on social media because THINGS ARE NOT ALWAYS WHAT THEY SEEM. The people who have flawless pictures, immaculate homes, when the cameras are rolling edit edit edit their insecurities too. We only see what people want us to see. You've been raw, and real. And Idc about other people's views on alot of things but I RESPECT the real You've given us. The real struggles, the real lessons in your kids lives, the struggles of real parents, young married couple. The weight loss ambition, the sicknesses sweet babies get. Potty training issues. PERSONAL medical experiences. Addiction, strengths weaknesses,
navigating this cold but wonderful world and I appreciate it all!!! Im here for it! You are such an aware young woman!! I respect that you're always trying to better yourself and your family. It's been such a blessing to watch you grow, in so many ways. You need a break from the gym, take it! You want to further your education, do it! You want to learn Russian and leave the country, you go girl!! You have a whole family of love and support online. ❤ everyone feels insecure about themselves, their lives, but being aware that you feel that way is already steps ahead of those who don't want to improve themselves or their situations 😉 I wish you and yours nothing but the absolute best this coming year, you DESERVE IT!!! infinite love, light and blessings van clan♡♡
This made me tear up 🥹 thank you and I love u ❤
Zoe, I completely understand and appreciate you speaking with us. I want you to know us True Supporters have your back and your families. We watch because we enjoy, care and want the best for you and your family. When your not good, we worry. I want to say thank you, give you love, hug's and support 100% on every level . Mikalyn Daugherty WPB FLORIDA
Next time they put something in the socket because it happens alot growing up try to turn off the house's power at the switchboard and then take it out
No but still i just went on the website and all of those pictures looked so good! love u girl
Your beautiful inside and out! Don’t let this get a hold of you your stronger than that😘
I can’t believe Hazel can spend that long in the salon. What an amazing attention span. My kids never could have down that lol!
Thank you for being brave and sharing that!
Zoe you are beautiful, I sending you a big hug. Please get help you are worth it. ❤️
Thank you so much for sharing this. If i’m being honest, when you were promoting your business this summer I literally thought to myself, “wow, she looks so amazing, if only I could feel this confident… I would be so happy” but this just really goes to show you can never tell someones happiness by social media and / or by their body appearance. You are amazing and strong for opening up. I hope you continue to build your confidence and know that you are beautiful ❤️
Zoe - thank you for being brave and sharing ❤ I feel like you’re speaking for a lot of people, including me. Please wear your seatbelt because your babies would be lost without you ❤❤
Honestly, props to you for being honest with yourself and the world. I promise you that most content creators.. promoters and such feel the same way but most of them do either get work done or edit their photos instead of talking about it and or taking a step back like you are... and that is part of the problem. So seriously props to you, you're gorgeous inside and out
I know what you mean I have struggled with actually feeling confident with myself my whole life. Cause one thing is acting confident which is what I did and still do many times and another thing is actually being content with yourself. I have always had an issue with the way I look whether it’s one thing in specific or many things. It’s actually sad cause once you find confidence in that one thing one finds something else to be insecure about. But I guess that in the end of the day one just has to tell themselves that there’s always something everyone dislikes about themselves that’s not even noticeable so why even put so much importance to it when In the end looks are a minor thing in what should make ourselves confident and happy. The thing that keeps me from over obsessing about my insecurities is knowing that Gods the artist who created all of us so who am I to say he made a mistake or didn’t do a good job with making and designing me. ❤️
I totally get this. I picked an outfit to wear when my fiance and I elope. I felt that I hated the outfit but I looked and looked for something else. It's not the outfit. It's how I feel about myself and I am dreading photos.
there is such an amazing strength in being this open and honest that's what makes you guys different. Being authentic is what helps people. Unfortunately, mental health is an up-and-down journey and sometimes these things keep coming back. I struggle with body dysmorphia too. Even when people give you compliments you don't believe them. You are showing people they are not alone and I want you to know you aren't alone either. Sometimes you just have to go one day at a time and learn to love yourself again. It's not easy but I guarantee you helped someone by saying these things. I pray Hazel never has these thoughts but if she does imagine how powerful it will be to see her strong, beautiful, independent mother that she loves being so truthful. You are constantly promoting self-love and confidence in her and that is something that will always stay with her. Thank you for sharing your truth.
Zoe, You are unique, You are so beautiful inside and out. You have so much to be thankful and grateful for. You have been blessed by Jesus! You are so loved by Him. Know that nothing can stand in your way. Embrace the love of Jesus , through the power of The Holy Spirit. May His Light shine greatly from you. Draw close to Jesus and He will draw you closer. I CAN do all things IN Christ who strengthens me. Phillipeans 4:13 💜 God Bless you and your precious family
Zoey you are so welcome 😘💕😁 lots of hugs 🤗
Hey girl, I just want to give you a hug! I seriously am weight wise two of you, I know about not liking your body, but at some point, you have to love you for you. I hope you can understand that. It's not important what others think, you won't heal until you love you. By the way, you are bringing up the little ones right. They are adorable and polite. Now you have daily affirmations for the littles, start some for yourself! It's a starting point.
I swear this is how I feel constantly! Body dysmorphia…wow this hit home so so hard 😢love you girl ❤I know it means nothing from me and not what you wanna hear but you are beautiful and amazing and worthy of loving yourself, as well as me and we need to constantly remind ourselves of this! Xoxoxoox hope your all doing well ❤❤❤
Me as well it's common I believe. Thank you Zoe for talking about this I'm 44 and I'm just discovering this.
Baby girl..I have left u messages before..you and your family are lovely. I am now a ‘NaN’. Have 2 beautiful granddaughters and a grown son and daughter. I have been where you are as a young woman. My advice is to try and self talk. About good things. Not your beauty..you are beautiful….but about your soul. Also. Here’s something soo important, all of us wing it in this world. Go gently with yourself. You and your husband are doing it all so well. I send my ❤ to you. I don’t know your situation but, I had no Mom from 13. It does leave you scattered. Just hold onto your loves as they are your anchors. Blessings baby girl. ❤
You can get safety plugs to put into sockets to stop things like that happening.
Amazing Video! What a Beautiful Family I Love This Sweet and Beautiful Family Zoey your Stunning Garick Is cute Wilder Is a cutie Hazel Is pretty!!! Venture Is a adorable!!!!! I Love You Guys Very Very Much!!!!!
What blush did you use? I love it!
Dont give up something you love 💛 insecurities come and go but passion gives life meaning. I know it's easier said than done but maybe take a step back, hire a model, and when you feel up for it, then start modeling things again 🥰
I Love Y'all VAN CLAN And Never Give Up!
Hey I am 37 and I have lost so much weight and have alot of skin that's hanging so I understand hugs
Funny that you think 60 is cold❄️☃️⛄️as here in Michigan we got 2 feet of snow at Christmas and it was well below zero. It’s one of the reasons we vacation in Florida ☀️🌦☀️
I'm only 5 minutes in to this vlog But I had to stop and commend you Zoe for Not talking negative in front of sleeping babies! I wholeheartedly agree with you. I've already said a bunch of times n I'll say it again I Love how you n Garrick Parent.
God bless your beautiful real family.
You are beautiful! Believe it! Inside and out!
Please buckle up when driving. That’s so unsafe
Thats exactly why i dint show my face in my videos because i don't feel confident enough and worry what people will think of me. My teeth are wonky, I talk odd and aren't pretty. In the uk it's law to wear a seatbelt, but I've noticed a few who I watch who don't always wear their seatbelt and live in the US so perhaps it's not law there, I'm glad here we get fined if we don't were one so it means your much safer so is your passengers too. I do like the way you do your make up and think everyone has something about their bodies they don't like 💜
Love you and your sweet family soo much. Please wear your seat belt lovey. Sorry...that's the "momma" coming out in me. 💕💕💕💕
Your such an awesome human being Zoe❤️
This reminds me when I was younger 12-18 years old I struggled so bad feeling the way u do
What foundation do you use?
If you come to Australia it is highly illegal not to wear your seatbelt. Huge fines and loss of demerit points.
It is in the US too lol ..
I really don’t understand why she’s not wearing the seatbelt. Yes, she can drive safely, but you never know if the cars around you do that.
I see that she has the seatbelt under her arm, but that’s the same thing as not wearing it
Under the arm still not safe. Same rules in New Zealand . I see so many vloggers doing this even some kids don’t have the seatbelt on. And helmets. We do have people here who don’t follow the rules.
It’s illegal in the USA too, lolll
I am almost 62 years old I have suffered from panic attacks all my adult life I tried to explain to people but if you haven't had them you don't understand it's the same thing with your body and your mind I can't say that I understand because when I look at you and have watched you for years I always thought wow she's so gorgeous what a sweet Spirit she has but I don't have to understand only you have to understand may God's love and peace be with you in your journey
Could you of gotten another model. You don’t have to do it. Your a mum of3. So am I and I wouldn’t do it in a million years. You shouldn’t close a business if it’s going well. Come on Zoe. Just hire a model. Everyone wants to put a label on themselves when it’s just normal to feel embarrassed modelling a bikini. Don’t think it too much.
EXACTLY!!
So me! I am 64 years old and haven't looked at myself my entire life. It's awful. Need to lose weight to be happy? Been there; done that. Solve any issues? Nope. I hope you have found someone to talk to so you feel good about you! I think it's too late for me but for a beautiful young woman? Never! Hugs, Zoe!
You guys are absolutely so real with us and your kids and you are doing and look great! I know you don't wanna hear this Zoe but too bad! Lol you are absolutely gorgeous and I wish you could be the 1 looking at yourself cause you would be so happy and proud and feel like you want to and be able to do those things again! I noticed you lost a lot of weight and it showed a lot in a video not long ago and I think you may have commented on it as well in the video! You are very beautiful and you guys always look good and even if you didn't who cares!? You are who you are and we obviously love you the way you are cause we are all still here and going no where!! I thought you were telling us you were done on here I was so sad waiting for it! You always have amazing content and never have been bored in a video or anything like that so you guys are all amazing you truly are! But Garick definitely gets father of the year award for those moves and that stunt at the end cause was literally mind blowing and mean literally lol sorry Garick but you rung your own bell! I hope you heal up quickly cause you definitely have to be on the go dancing around and doing all kinds of stuff! Lol you guys rock!! Happy holidays
You are so beautiful and a great mom. And so wonderful
I've also been too skinny and also I've been "thicker"... & I would MUCH rather be overweight, than be stick thin like I was. I literally felt like I looked like skelator😬 you're beautiful, & u deserve to FEEL beautiful 😍 but I applaud you being so authentic & transparent. Never sacrifice ur mental well being, for your followers. We aren't going anywhere! 😁
Your very beautiful and blessed to have such a beautiful family
I was 265 at my highest weight, that was in high school. Now after two kids and 12 years later I'm down to 145 and still sometimes when I look in the mirror I feel 200 lbs. I've struggled with weight and self image issues for my entire life
In today's society the mass media provide us with models that are too far from reality. We should debunk this aspect and be kinder to our bodies and to others.
Everybody is beautiful in his on way. You are beautiful and loved. Be confident and love your body, because God gave you that body and throug your body you are able to live your beautiful life!
I know it's not easy and I'm certainly not here to show myself as a guru: unfortunately we all have our weaknesses. That's why I think it's important to support each other. You were right to make the decision to stop your business if this was a source of insecurity and instability for you; despite this, I want to say thank you because you were sincere and you had the strength to show your weaknesses. I am sure that with the same strength you will face this problem. Be confident, you deserve it, everybody does.
Hazel is getting so big!!
I love colder weather but my seasonal depression kindly doesn’t like it all.🤣
Babes I get it
I also have body dysmorphia and have had for many years I have absolutely no idea what I look like.. I'm 5 . 8 tall
And have weighed in at 55kgs thats considered anorexic and still thought I was fat.. and now I've put on 50kg I'm a much larger woman but I think I'm much bigger then I am.. at Xmas I bought myself 2 dresses and had to take them back as they were so big on me
But miss zoe
You are Bea onthe inside and out
I'm much much older then you so please don't let this ruin your life like it has mine...
Sending love
Aussie nanna
Xo
Girl put that seatbelt on! ❤
Time to get wall socket protectors so the kids don’t put Play-Doh Or anything else get pushed into a socket
I need to say this YOU ARE GORGEOUS AND PERFECT JUST AS YOU!!!! I wish we could tell you that you are stunning !!!!
How about getting a dress mannequin for the modeling?
I love you guys ❤😊
Your hair looks beautiful
Please wear your seatbelt 😢😢
Zoe. Please tell me you are still having therapy? I feel like all your problems come from the trauma you’ve dealt with. Deal with that and everything else will get better. You are a lovely girl ❤❤❤❤
Zoee, if you quit...then you allow the mental heal win. Stop trying to comparing yourself to everyone else you see as being better than you. Everyone has a story for trM, but just remember...we wouldn'//t follow you if we didn't like you for who you are...besides, that's what makes the world - we are all different.
Those mother/daughter days are important for both of you. When she's older she's going to remember those times you and her did stuff just the 2 of you.
😊Zoe, I really feel like you are truly one of God’s angels. You are so sweet and loving to your family and others. I feel that you are overwhelmed with being a wife, mother and having TH-cam and also having to home school. You never got the chance to be an older teenager and go to college and just get the life experience that everyone should get before settling down. Hire a part time babysitter, get out of the house by yourself and take a class that you would enjoy or have lunch with your friends once a week and then go shopping. You need to take care of yourself first so that you have the stability to care for your family. Also, I would enroll Hazel in a sports or dance class. She needs to have friends to play with as does Wilder. Good luck honey, I ‘ll say a prayer for you. Just remember, you are amazing!
You are so funny "florida weather is like me, bipolar" . How cold can it be in florida? Does it depends where you live in Florida? I live in a could and warm country, sweden. Now its winter and the snow come and goes. Its about 0 celcius now.
I used to feel that way too like it wasn't me I saw in the mirror like my body wasn't mine or something.
Zoe I don’t want to take this as a hate comment but a thought to the future: try to understand why you start so many projects but you never finish them.
It’s the most common behaviour that I see on your channel.
I’ve been throw the same things and I had to time some time to realise why I was always doing it.
I wish you all the best! From Portugal!
Are you still studying nursing?
I understand I have bipolar and PTSD. I have done that this year shutting down
Zoe im a young woman who is fat but you have taught me that everyone is beautiful no matter what you look like I'm always getting looks but I just think about what you said about everyone is beautiful no matter what
Could u just get different models Jw . I get it with the body situation but maybe try letting others model until u can fig it out unless it helps to just pause it. Prayers 😊
You are a beautiful person.