Let it be and let he grows, he may not as same as you. His social skills more important in his age and you shouldn't talk like a teacher just work things together. Praise him and be understanding. He will take cares of himself when the time come. Will be, will be. This is a great generation gap. You take care of yourself and don't worry too much. Depend on God's Wisdom but not yours. Do you believe God cares about him and let him works things out by himself. you humble to ask him the thing you don't know. Ask him to use the TH-cam to find out something for you. By the way, Much love and prayers from NZ. Hope you have good inspiration from God. 👌👌👌👍👍👍🙏☝☝🙏🙏🤓😊
Now is computer age. Their energies are towards this trend. When they have a family they will slowly learn because it is much cheaper to do it yourself.
我好怕人話係英國讀書冇壓力，咁只係對學業冇要求，有要求的本地家長，一樣會谷佢哋，對孩子學習沒有要求，冇教佢哋點學習同温書，唔做功課日日跑公園，係開心，去到中學一樣唔會温，個底子唔好，考GCSE只係陪跑，唔係選擇做藍領工匠，係佢哋學歷做唔到醫生白領，冇咗選擇，自由打開機叫佢學多種外語, 唔係咁易。
好同意你見解.
喺英國生活, 無論方鎮宇喺將來係想做醫生或律師, 定係做工廠或地盤都好, 最基本最重要嘅都係能夠用英語同其他人溝通,
喺英國, 英文好就容易接觸到週邊發生嘅事情, 英文唔好身邊發生嘅一切事情就好似隔開咗一層膜咁,
所以學好英文係最重要,
乞丐英文都好好，係英國識英文有咩優勢？？？
全部小朋友都係咁.大大下佢會自己開竅.佢會自己去學.不用擔心
諗法唔好太天真，放任慣咗等如暑假玩創咗嗰心收唔返一樣，對小朋友要適可而止同要有適當嘅指引，不過，香港嘅父母有幾多個真喺可以做到呢！因為好多人都喺「這樣長大的」，但似乎佢哋忽略左，世界唔同哂喇！
青春期係咁，呢段時間係最難過，最緊要同佢講做咩都好，千祈唔好做壞事，過左呢幾年就無事。媽媽多同阿仔傾計，比佢知道你哋係愛佢，始終仔仔多數愛媽咪多d❤我係過來人，非常了解你而家既感受。加油😊
你唔好去英國啦！。仲係老派教仔
越聽落去。覺得你越不知所謂既老爸
好難去比較唔同年代既小朋友，如果當年有而家既科技，可能你打機仲沉迷過靚仔🤣🤣
沉迷打機唔係問題，打D有營養既遊戲，如果唔係純粹浪費時間。同埋要教該做既野要做左先。沉迷乜都好都總會有個原因，有機會係現實世界搵唔到滿足感，亦都有機會係唔夠時間陪呀仔。要找出原因多過剩係叫佢唔好打
很好的題目，也是一言難盡的題目，我常說如果有人有一個/一套一定得而放諸四海皆通的方法教好仔女，他/她一定比Bill gate 有錢十倍
我就快60歲，來了美國近40年，我由80年代在香港中學期開始打機至今仍然經常打機，我仔女是美國A B C，兒子由細到大也喜歡打機，他們己經大學畢業多年有理想的工作。生活非常舒適。所以你不用擔心你的兒子。一切順其自然。
thank you
@ADHD88 打飛機？
Let it be and let he grows, he may not as same as you. His social skills more important in his age and you shouldn't talk like a teacher just work things together. Praise him and be understanding. He will take cares of himself when the time come. Will be, will be. This is a great generation gap. You take care of yourself and don't worry too much. Depend on God's Wisdom but not yours. Do you believe God cares about him and let him works things out by himself. you humble to ask him the thing you don't know. Ask him to use the TH-cam to find out something for you. By the way, Much love and prayers from NZ. Hope you have good inspiration from God. 👌👌👌👍👍👍🙏☝☝🙏🙏🤓😊
英國的免費教育就係咁，你自己不努力，學校就會由得你，將來好難成為社會精英。在英國讀私校就另一回事，會陪養學生學習興趣，有較多課外活動，為了入較佳大學都會催谷學生。
英國階級觀念比美國重好多，始終貴族入貴族學校。平民入平民大學。
試吓陪佢一齊打機、傾偈，了解佢嘅內心世界，理想及目標；可能打機令佢有成功感（向難度挑戰）或者打機係佢與同輩/同學溝通的渠道⋯⋯
建議佢妥善地分配日常
打機、運動、閱讀、分工（家務、舖務）時間
發掘他的優點，加以鼓勵💪😊
當佢上更高年級時，會有更多功課，例如 individual / Group Projects，需要自己搜集資料、分析及 Presentation⋯⋯
加上你們的身教+循循善誘❤
他會慢慢成長的😊🙏
明知呢個老豆乜都老吹，待人處事嗰套唔認同，咪唔睬你囉！
無辦法架。過嚟太大個，語言已經成形。而且父母影響，問心，你英文有幾好有幾多英國朋友，個仔既英文如何，點樣交朋友呢？ 另外，衣家D細路 好多好自我，細細個已經話吾結婚吾買樓，見到父母辛苦吖嘛。佢哋都知道好多人躺平擺爛，你同佢講搵食，佢啋你都傻。英國好多年輕人畢業也吾見得有乜前途
一個小提議，你可以邊一日冰機有冰多就用一個膠袋儲冰放落冰櫃。
現在我仔year 7 就快開學，近排他的情緒大起大落⋯⋯他的行為有時都好激心，和一年前差好遠，明白他正在成長，有時我都唔識handle 😅😅😅
其實有一技之長，一生受用。 唔係一定要大學畢業。 最緊要人品好唔好行差踏錯，一失足成千古恨。
而家嘅時代唔同咗啦，大部份teenager 都係鍾意打機.應該到year 9佢哋就會開始識諗好多,唔使咁擔心。
青春期嘅時候十個有九個少年係咁！
依家上網乜都有，唔識可以學到識！只要佢有心學。只要唔做壞事，唔好吸毒或食煙。
條路係要佢自己行出嚟，唔係父母想佢行邊就行邊，有機會有反效果。只要比佢知道，有乜事，佢仲有個屋企，有父母係度…
no worry about him Joshua will find the way for his furure when hegrow bigger
請問你申請領回強積金時，搵邊個簽法定聲明（現時在英國，找不到人簽）？
我很明白你的心情! 但係你只要身教和按聖經真理教他就可以，不用太擔心啦！
I always believe: no pain no gain
我同你情況好似，我兩個仔都好鍾意打機。我曾經爆鬧大仔，不過果次之後，佢就怕咗我，唔想我教佢做功課。依家唯有盡量安排佢哋出去學其他嘢，例如游泳、跆拳道等。 而開學後的星期一至五（暑假除外），就唔俾佢哋打機，就算唔係做功課或溫習。希望保持良好關係，等待兒子長大。
主要是你工作太忙。不是不識管教。打機是一般孩子的陋習。香港孩子一模一樣。
本質好嘅仔女，唔使教，做好你自己，身教就可以！
咁係英國唔洗讀書, 咁有好多野唔識都好正常. 而如果佢個性格係唔喜歡學野, 要推動先學, 咁係無佢辦法. 你唔好用你自己果套去要求別人同你一樣咁, 因為性格先有行為. 如果你個仔係咁無上進心, 你真係唔好樣樣野幫佢, 要佢自己想自己諗. 否則以後你要養埋佢.
靚仔爸你太多瓣要顧，餐廳，又要拍片，你每日邊有時間。
我一家過到英國兩年深深體會你所講. 我都做過後生仔, 做錯或錯過好多野, 父母永遠包容住, 自己三十幾歲至所謂識生性行番條好路. 今日一家身處英國, 全部從頭來過, 求生本能更加緊要, 做父母真不容易！
你後生係幾時嘅事情呢 ？？ 去到嗰度更加冇王管，好快就同你講自由，慢慢好好體會啦
Now is computer age. Their energies are towards this trend. When they have a family they will slowly learn because it is much cheaper to do it yourself.
送佢去第二度讀書，eg N Ireland or Scotland, 會好快改變。放心。
基因不同
鼓勵佢培養新的興趣，就算係玩Lego 或玩模型，體育美術音樂等等都係好有用的
唔睬你正常，人大左識諗嘢，會分析事物，見到你咁柒，費事睬你。
教我日文工聯會阿sir話佢以前學日文嘅motivation源自睇日本av😅
背書係最失敗的學習方法, 沒有機會發揮潛質。在外國教子女一定要提醒佢唔好學壞。👍🦘
見到視你視頻有小小感覺 ，小朋友佢始終都係有個叫做代溝呢個事實你唔可以否認，只不過雙方面都要用個時間去衡量 ，如果過分擔心小朋友角度就叫做束縛你明㗎嘛，我覺得應該係咁嘅，例如用個時間例如小朋友遲到18歲呢度都係家長都要教，但呢段時間都要分內容調返轉頭講囉如果超過18歲你又教唔到㗎囉 ，咁所以話呢小朋友成長呢分時間分階段分內容係然後仲要分輕重咁就等如就係張大咗佢自己會識諗，明？ 不要太擔心
教仔女好辛苦喎!
點解會叫自己個仔全名 方震宇？😅
因為個仔係繼子
例如新一代認為，唔洗嘥錢買本大字典，就算有係度嘅無必用，上網就咩嘟查到，唔洗嘥時間學查字典！
當然我這老一輩嘅人不認同！
字典嘅存在價值，有日網絡停咗，咁可以用到….. 但你唔懂得如何使用‼️
佢唔吃大麻算你夠運
成年冇睇你啲片，今日一睇又係話自己有幾叻🤣同埋唔好將自己嘅仔女同人比較，真係冇意義㗎！
Be patient and listening to find out what he is not you.
冇比較冇傷害
💪
共鳴
係呀，人生好多無奈，但兒孫自有兒孫福。加油呀🙏
因為香港人的你，完全跟吾上世界
南丫島得一個周潤發.若要人似你除非兩個你！
其實大部份小朋友都係冇目標冇自制能力的, 早一點俾規範引導, 到青少年期先會比較易教. 打機太多係會壞腦, 叫佢睇多啲BBC, 歷史又好, 科學又好, 新聞都好. 會比較易接受.
觀點錯誤
男仔反叛期好難教或者同太太商量下
跟英國那套, 大了不理父母...
Don't you give yourself too much credit.
英國做丐兒，都好过返香港做皇帝。😂
大嶼山984
周庭
AV 度學日文好快😂所以周庭好叻女
點解你個仔仔姓方、你又姓鄭嘅？
參加國際主義聯盟自願者，組織準許有一個後代，所以每個家庭都可以有個不同姓的
@leunglai1604
Please mind your own business and try to be kind towards one another.
便宜仔
有爺生無乸教？？？
@@bobjohnson8664你無品🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬