Kuv Txiv Tsev Neeg Ntxub Kuv Tag 7/13/24

[@user-pg9tj9tw5b]

Shameful family.
You did the right thing. That family is wrong and they owe you an apology. The grandparents died doing wrong. Shame on them. And why isn't your dad defending you, weak dad. You are better off without them.

[@moa-maioutdooradventures483]

You did the right child. Don't feel bad. Nobody was in your shoes so they don't understand.

[@user-me5kf8hs9g]

ฉันดีใจกับคุณด้วยนะคะ เพราะการเล่าเรื่องของคุณ คุณเล่าได้สนุก ขอให้ต่อจากนี้ไปคุณมีแต่โชคดีนะคะ

[@gynnsworld]

I love the way you tell story from point A to B… you get to the point and not tell the story back and forth which confuses listener. You’re clear to the point !

[@jennyvang2021]

Thank You🙏

[@user-wb8ts5fb6v]

You are stronger than you know! Don't let your dad's family's deceitful words get you. You did the right thing. I hope you well wishes and a blessed life.

[@MrsKervang]

Sister, thank you for sharing your story. You are brave and courageous. I hope you seek professional help for the trauma. This kind of experience doesn’t go away easily. You will have trigger moments and will need the tools to help you heal and move beyond. I hope you find peace and good luck to you 🙏

[@papawlitschek5264]

Thanks you for your hard work. love listening to your stories!!!

[@jennyvang2021]

Thank You🙏

[@Shoua608]

Sister, hold your head high. Your monster uncle put himself there in prison.
What he did to you was wrong and unthinkable. Don’t worry about your grandparents” curse, you did the right thing. You saved other girls from being assaulted by your uncle. God bless you!

[@longy1999]

If your uncle was innocent, he would not run from the law. That family is in denial. Please stay away from that family.

[@goodlife916]

I am so proud of you for standing up for yourself when nobody else did. Your uncle started grooming you well before he kisses you on that camping trip. That’s what predators do. When you didn’t tell anyone about him kissing you, he figured you would not tell. He put you in a position where you gad no choice but to flee first help. That was such a courageous thing to do. Your uncle was 💯 wrong and none of it was your fault. You just got stuck with the grief, loss, guilt and trauma of his actions. He is where he deserves to be so he doesn’t do that to any other victims. Who knows how many other girls saved by speaking up. Thank you for being so brave.

[@mayalee2400]

Wow, she's very brave, not alot of girls are brave like her, back in those days, I'm also a victim just like you sister,and I was very afraid, and shy to tell anyone about my situation...I wish I was as brave as you back then. Good for you..I'm proud of what you do..to protect yourself..

[@yeryang5636]

Your Uncle deserved to be be where he is. I am happy that you found someone who accept you for who you are and accept your dark past. Live life to the fullest and be happy!❤❤❤❤❤.

[@user-sf2bw9xt6w]

You are brave. Thank you for standing up not only for yourself but everyone in your situation that couldn’t stand up for themselves. Bless you. There is nothing for your grandmother to forgive you tor. If anything now she knows you were telling the truth.

[@shouathao6281]

Txhob ntshaw ua lawv ib tug Ntxhais os he deserved was he has done to you. You did the right thing to protect you your self

[@EmvyGoodies]

Bless this sister's heart and soul. May you continue to grow in everything. You're so brave and strong to fought all of this. Your grandparents were wrong to pick your monster uncle's side. You won't be cruse.

[@geuct3091]

Hmong ne peut évoluer avec cette
Mentalité .force avec toi et crois en toi

[@ellasong6373]

I'm sadden and heart broken by this story. You don't need them to be your family. You have your husband & mom that are your family. Justice serves him right. Praying for your healing.

[@youashengtocu3350]

Niam.vam.choj.peb.ua.koj.tsaug.thiab.hos.mog

[@kayingv555]

Feel sorry for you, but you got to expose these evil people , you did the right thing

[@ShawnaYang-xj2bs]

Congratulations sister Jenny you did 20K👏🎈🤙❤️

[@jennyvang2021]

Thank you!

[@caaspasvang7427]

Sister be strong and stand for yourself, I so proud of you to protected yourself

[@michaelf2700]

Congratulations, Sister Jenny! Love listening to u everyday.

[@jennyvang2021]

Thank you! ❤❤❤

[@gynnsworld]

You did the right thing. Don’t feel bad 😔

[@ItsYou2]

Congrats Jenny!! I started following you when you had 5k subscribers....

[@jennyvang2021]

Thank you!🙏

[@maiyiayang6760]

You deserve more subscribers.

[@jennyvang2021]

Thank you❤

[@nkaujhmoobvaj1491]

Congratulations Jenny! You’re a great storyteller and I love listening to u everyday!

[@xeevang3907]

Thank you for telling your story sister. I'm so glad you did the right thing although I'm sorry to hear what you've been through. It is never easy and you will forever live with that trauma. You don't owe his family anything and the only thing you need to let go is that family that doesn't respect you. Im glad you've found a caring husband who understands your wounds and accepted you for who you are regardless.

[@lunayang7612]

Me ntxhais aw, koj pog foom tsi khaum tsi npam koj li os. Koj twb tsi taus ua txhaum txhob ntshai, lawv yog pog yawg los lawv ua pog ua twb tsi yog

[@MsBL32]

It’s sad but I’m happy that you stood up for yourself and I’m sure their are many people who heard this knows that you did the right thing and for the family that you lost, don’t deserve your love anyway!! I’m proud of you because nobody should go through that.

[@thipaho4597]

Kj ua zoo kawg me ntxai cov neeg siab

[@ljvue]

I need to know OG’s logic? A family member, your son raped your grand child. But you want to protect your son and not your grand child? Make it make sense?

[@lher6714]

Your dad's family is a wreck! Please do NOT go near them!

[@phem55]

The trauma you faced no one will understand unless they faced too, but at least you did not let it happen long, I’m glad that you found a true love…

[@yangthao5242]

Good morning Jenny!, Congratulations on hitting 20K Subscribers! Thank you and keep up the good, honest, and prudent work. 🙂

[@jennyvang2021]

Thank you so much for your support on channel everyday🙏🙏❤❤❤

[@xeevang3907]

Congratulations, sister, Jenny! I found u probably a year ago. You are my favorite Hmong TH-cam storyteller. Keep it up. I'm going back to listen to all your old ones.

[@jennyvang2021]

Thank you so much for your support🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤

[@anthonyyang7555]

Congratulations on getting your 20K Subscribers!!!
Once you become known, please, stay who you are!
(-niam Anthony)

[@jennyvang2021]

Thank you, sister. Yes, I will stay true to myself❤❤❤

[@pajxyoobvajchannel1040]

Koom koj duas mi tai aw❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@mayyang4756]

Good luck and may God bless you both

[@TheDeryang]

Congratulations! I believe I followed you when you had 12k followers. You’re doing such an amazing job! Keep it up! I look forward to your stories everyday. You’re one of my favorite Hmong Storyteller. ❤

[@jennyvang2021]

Thank you so much! ❤❤❤

[@touayang1051]

Hmoob mas ib txwm pab coj neeg siab phem lim hiam vim nws yog ib tug txiv neej.

[@YajMorey81]

That’s wonderful Jenny! I started following you when you were just at 3k subscribers

[@jennyvang2021]

Awww....Thank you so much for your long time support❤❤❤

[@life4dummies2023]

Cut all ties with them. They are defending the perpetrator and punishing the victim. Forgiveness is another thing, but should not be swept under the rugs. Yes, if it was the girl cousin then they aunt would defend her instead of keeping it in the dark quietly.

[@tinavue7907]

Niag txiv ntxawm liam tiag tiag....tuag mus zoo dua.

[@mivayang1317]

You have stopped the cycle of sexual abuse. I am so so sorry for what have happened to you. You are strong,it is not your fault. Take care and thank you for sharing your story.

[@tusiabmoua9169]

Tsis yog koj kaw koj tus txiv ntxawm, yog nws rov kaw nws tus kheej xwb os. Twb muaj txoj cai ne.

[@GeeYoung-ws3lm]

The Hmong community needs more education and resources on domestic sexual assault. This happens way too often and the elders are ignorant to the signs and symptoms.

[@BawvXyooj-bw5ot]

Niam vam choj aw cas tus ntxhai ntawd nws ho tsis ua ntawv foob ntxiv rau nram kws lij choj ntxiv vim tias pog tso ua es pog thiaj tsav khib ua luaj pog tseem foom kom tus ntxhai tuag lawv twb thaij tau qhov pog foom ntawv xa tuaj rau leej niam ces tau pov thawj lawm cas ho tsis muab xa rau tub ceev xwm tshawb kev ncaj ncees ua pog cas tsis saib qhov tseeb tus tub tus ntxhai puas yog pog me nyuam zoo li no ces pog hlub ib tug tseg ib tug lawm nws tsis ncaj nruab nrab ntug lawm os niam vam choj

[@mayervang-her9610]

I dislike how Hmong won’t put blame on their person when s/he has done wrong. Especially in cases of domestic violence/abuse/rape.
To the Hmong people who won’t put blame on their family member(s), your loved one is NOT above the law, you need to accept the fact that your person has done wrong and need to face the consequences of their action(s).
Just because s/he is your close family member doesn’t mean you know their true identity/intention/self.

[@tubhmoobhmoob2944]

Peb ua ib tug neeg ncaj ncees lawm ces kev foom yeej tsis npam, tab sis yog yus iab liam xwb ces npam tiag2 li, peb ua dab tsis los thov peb ua qhov ncaj ncees xwb, nrog koj chim, peb hmoob mas yeej tsis quav ntsej txog qhov uas tus tau ua phem li, tus txiv ntxawm thiab koj ces tus txiv ntxawm ces yog niam pog yug ces niam pog yuav tsum tuaj tus txiv ntxawg tog vim koj yog tus xeeb ntxwv xwb

[@mosvaj1385]

Omg🤭 this uncle needs to go prison for life. What an animal!!!

[@buaher9912]

Me ntxhais you do the right decision

[@user-ny5rd6fu2f]

Blaj teb no muaj tej neeg zoo li tug tsiaj es tsw muaj sab tsw muaj ntsws ua caag yov phem ua luaj li lauj ,

[@moa-maioutdooradventures483]

Your story reminds me of my sil ex husband that molested my daughter. She was very little when he molested her. She kept it to herself and told us til later but we did end prosecuting him and he went to jail. Now he is registered pedophile and molester.
I can't believe they defended a rapist and molester. You did the right thing. Remember those curse words won't hurt you because you're innocent.

[@yangthao5242]

Hello, and I'm so sorry for your loss as well. No children deserves this, and it is so hard to move pass. This stems from the fact that the culture favors heavily men/boys or women/girls. So many of these incidents get hushed and never come to light leaving the poor child to suffer for the rest of their life. It is so sad and the culture doesn't realize what it does to a young mind.

[@MonaLisa-de4cp]

I'm very sorry this happened to your daughter. I'm glad you guys didn't let it go. I wonder if your sil felt anger towards you like this family or if she was angry at her ex. Hopefully she did the right thing too

[@PH-ThailanD]

😢😢😢😢😢

[@macymango4134]

Wow I wish they keep child abuser for atleast that long or life.. they only kept them for 9 years when the child they abusive can’t even do anything anymore and is forever disable for life . The stupid law is so unfair!!

[@lisavail5712]

You did the right thing for yourself you have nothing to be sorry about. our Hmong people the old generation always think that rapping a girl or a woman is no big deal that’s why some of them being very hateful to any girl or woman who chose to report the crime of rape because the older generation not used to think that rape was a terrible hurtful crime for women so the old days girls and women got rapes by men’s the women supposed to just forget about it like was not a big deal to be rape because nobody’s would’ve supported any woman who been forced or rape that’s how it was for the older Hmong people back then.

[@diannaxiong693]

Ua li cas lawv tsi ntseeg DR. No lawv siab phem heev li vim koj lub cev twb muaj nws li dej lawm no lawv foom los rov los raug lawv xwb es tseem tsi paub txaj muag li thiab os hmoob aw.

[@c.lee-soulisak327]

I'm so sad that you had to experience this trauma. I want you to know that you didn't put the uncle in jail..he put himself in jail by his actions! Don't ever blame yourself for what happened to him. I hope you seek therapy for this trauma. Good luck to you, sister!

[@ItsYou2]

Those families hating u on this. Why dont they give their girls 13,14, 15 xyoo rau laws cov txiv ntxawm txiv hlob deev mos es siab lawm puas hu tub ceem xwm.

[@chouxiong206]

Twb yog txiv lawm es tseem ua phem rau yus thiab ces nyob tsev laj cuj los yeej tsim nyog lawm hos Hmoob ruam ces txawm yog ua phem lawm los yuav tseem kom npog xwb es thiaj li muaj 1 txhia neeg xuaj2 ntag mas

[@maiherojj]

The uncle deserves being in jail!!! Your dad's family is shameless and in denial. They should also be on your side and let him face his consequences!!!

[@kerlee7015]

Koj tus txiv ntxawm no nws tsim nyog tuag lawm.

[@Ccphong1980]

Omg so scary, you living in fear!!!!! Glad you are strong enough to report him. He was praying on you for a long time. If not you it can be someone else daughter.

[@tusiabmoua9169]

Cia koj pog foom 2, pem ntuj poob pem teb, nkag kiag pog lub qhov nceb. Thov kom koj tus txiv ntxawm mag nkuaj mus ib txhis twb nyob mekas tebchaws cas koj tus txiv ntxawm yuav tau ua tej yam RUAM tiag2?

[@elizabethvang108]

Cov niag hmoob xuab yus tus tub ua kev txhaum lawm es tseem yuav kom yus no mus thim lus no na hmoob yog leej twg hais ntau ces kom tas npluaj saib xyhuas kiag xwb los cas tseem yuav tseg cov nyuag ntsej muag laus no yus tsis yog nws xyha tawm kiag hauv nws lub qhov pim los yus tsis tau ua txhaum rau nws lam tau lam foom yeej tsis khaum kiag li nawb kuv mas ntxub peb hmoob txoj kev phem li no kawg yeejmeem haw cob nws rau police xwb ces nws suab ntsiag xwb mas nawb cov nyuag neeg phem li na yus tsev neeg twb ua yus poob ntsej muag los ua ntsej muag aub. Lawm es tseem yuav tsa2 cai thiab 2 niag laus phem li ntawd tsis los tsis ua cas tsis nkim yus lub sij hawm kiag nawb kuv tsis paub tias hom nyuag ntsej muag hmoob no yus twb poob ntsoov tias txoj kev no yeej ua tsis tau yog ib txog kev txhaum loj na yus twb paub ntsoov es yus tseem ua kiag txoj niag kev txhaum thiab mag kaw los nws kaw nws nawb hmoob leej twg tseem ua rau kuv tus me ntxhais thiab mas kuv yeej tsis tseg tseg nws kiag nawb hmoob

[@chouaher6886]

If you decide to call the police to your uncle so you have to move on they'll never forget you ok

[@kaliaxiong4847]

My goodness hmoob people cas yus tub twb ua tsis yog lawm los tseem pheej foom foom thiab os hmoob os hmoob aw

[@maihang9062]

Great job sister Jenny! You go straight to the stories after your few ads. I stopped listening to sister Nancy bc she talks too much 6-10min of talking before she starts her story. I want to listen to stories not talk, but I’m sure there many out there who loves it. It’s just not for me. Keep up the good work!!!

[@jennyvang2021]

Thank you! ❤❤❤

[@pangtastic85]

Your father's family can be mad or stay mad all they want. You did what was necessary to put that monster where he belongs. Its disgusting and sad that there are many families like your father's family where they will shame you for speaking out on another family member for physically/sexually abusing you. They'd rather turn a blind eye and fall on deaf ears to protect the perpetrator rather than protecting the victim. You don't need them in your life... first for failing to protect you, second for getting angry at you for being mad at you for doing the right thing. Your nasty uncle was only being nice to you as a way to try anf groom you so he could take advantage of you... because you were just a little girl and he knew in a few years you'd grow and blossom into a young woman.
I am sure it was very traumatic and it's still hard for you and Im very proud of you for being a strong survivor and sharing your story to help other young girls who have been in your shoes... and help other girls recognize signs where they may be at risk or in danger of sexual abuse.
Prayers to you.

[@yajcaivplawv88]

Tsev neeg dev tas tas.

[@mailee5538]

Sister at first you should at least tell your mom if you don't want to tell your dad about the situation. You think you don't want to cause trouble but it will only lead to bigger issues.

[@Lotus-og6if]

Hais txog kev mos menyuam yau mam hmoob lub community tseem ruam heev thiab ntshai tuag heev.
Txiv tshiab mos menyuam los niam ua txuj tsis paub
Tus thaub hmoob mos menyuam yau es court twb hais thiaj guilty lawm los cov kwv tij vwm tseem kom tus menyuam dag thiaj tsis muaj kom lawm tsev hmoob txhob poob j muag thiab tau lub koob mos menyuam.
Txoj kev cov kwv tij hmoob vwm es pheej yuam kom neeg txhob hais dab si kiag thiab cov niag pog laus taub hau npau ruam ces seb lawm mam mos kiag seb lawm puas yuav leem qhov tseeg xwb

[@fatttydevine]

I'm glad you got help. This is the problem with Hmong people when there's proof that their person did wrong and they KNOW he's wrong, but still blaming the victim that it's her fault and try to manipulate the victim to change the story. On top of that, use voodoo crap so the victim gets all the bad luck and all. I hope karma gets your dad's family.

[@mayvue8369]

Tsi tas hu txi ntxawm na niag txiv dev xwb o muag mus zoo dua na 😆😆😆😆

[@Lea-qm1rm]

Forgive yourself. You did nothing wrong.

[@NtxhaisHmoobUSA]

Koj txiv tsev neeg ntxub koj ua dabtsis naws. Muab koj kuaj kiag Tim hoos maum muab proof kiag rau koj pog koj yawg. Txiv Ntxawm siab phem qias neeg lim hiam ntawv muab kaws kom txog hnub tuag kiag.

[@maimoua1371]

I believing your sides i have been walking in your shoe b4 but luckily i said no then he never touched me no more

[@zuathao1323]

Qhov tseeb CES Yog qhov tseeb dag tsis dag tsis tau

[@pajxyoobvajchannel1040]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@NtxhaisHmoobUSA]

Koj tus txiv ntxawm ko es ntiaj teb no poj niam tuag tag lawm los Cas nas. Cas koj txiv ntxawm yuav coj lub siab phem phem qias qias neeg npaum li. Report kiag rau police kom koj niag txiv ntxawm raug mus nyob nkuaj 30,40 xyoo los mas.

[@eiathorthor9867]

Koj pog lawv yog siab dev xwb tsi hlub tu tsi txhaum ho mu hlub tu txhaum lawv yim foom ce yim npam rau lawv tu tub xwb vim tsi yog koj kaw nw nw kaw nw xwb

[@tusiabmoua9169]

Ntshe koj tus txiv ntxawm muaj dirty mind, nws lub mind need to be washed.

[@mosvaj1385]

Nope! Niag ntsej muag dev xyhov txhiaj no tsis tsim nyog tiv thaiv nws li. Nws yog txiv ntxawm na? Same blood na! You don’t have to. He rape you! He rape his niece!. He’s wrong! He’s guilty. Tus yuav npam , yuav khuam yog tus tub dev no xwb, koj yeej tsis npam li os mi ntxhais. Tsis npam li mog, niag txiv ntxawm dev yog tus tau lub siab dev mos nws tus ntxhais xeeb ntxwv na! You don’t need to feel the guilt ok. Your uncle is the one will npam xwb ok