Crazy to me... she's paying for EVERYTHING, PLUS cooking & cleaning.. all while he walks around thinking he's a king, while he disrespects her... if you have to do EVERYTHING what's his purpose? Why do you need him? I would've taken me and my money and found another place to live ASAP. He needs you, you don't need him. Why is it these wives don't leave until they find out he's cheating? The disrespect alone should've been enough. The cheating is just the icing on the cake.
1) they dont act like this right away. it a step by step process that eases the victim in getting use to the treatment. 2) the wife usaly think they can talk this out or work on the other for the better. the spent so much time with someone who seemed nice that they cant fully see the monster in front of them. a mixture of rose-tinted classes and sunken cost fallacey. 3) it usaly takes something big to smuck them upside the head to wake up and realize their situation.
Wow, they left out one of the main characters. Usually in the "husband leaves wife who actually makes more money than him" story there's his mother egging him on and calling wife names for not being good enough at housework. She usually picks the girl he cheats with thinking that girl will take care of her too.
It's amazing how love can die..... Ladies Let this be an example of what is going to come... If you get married, please make sure you have a separate income. And bank accounts!!!!!
It works both ways. My ex-wife was always whining about wanting a joint bank account so she could spend all my money on shoes. Of course it never happened, in my occupation, any unauthorised overdraft would mean I could not have certain jobs.
Oh I know it all too well. Married my husband 6 months after meeting when we were 24. Wildly in love. I never knew I could love another person (outside my parents, siblings, and nephews). I devoted my whole self to my husband.. moved away from my family and friends to live an hour away in his hometown, knowing no one but his friends and family. The first 2.5 years were amazing.. I couldn't have dreamed a better life. But, slowly but surely, he began to change. The superiority complex showed.. the "it's a wife's job to do this, this, this" "I make the most money, so I can do what I want, when I want". He wanted me to work, and I did, I loved having my career.. but then he wanted me to be home 24/7, too... that love started to fade.. i resented him and pulled away, then he pulled away... accusing each other of cheating (which he did), and blamed it on us "growing apart". Put up with that for 10 years.... I was surprised when he said he wanted to separate how easily and quickly I agreed. He didn't think I would agree. His pride kept him from saying he wanted to make it work.. not to mention his awful mother was too overbearing.. such a Momma's Boy, she was also a big part of it... and he always took for his precious mommy who couldn't keep a man herself because she was nuts. We've been separated and divorced going on 2 years, and I forgot how happy I could be without him. Being back in my hometown, my old stomping grounds, working my way up the ladder at my job, house-hunting, casually dating a really good man for the last few months.. life is really good now. I sometimes miss the man I loved when we first got married, but that man is gone, he never really existed, that man was only a role the real him played... good luck to his new gf, hope she can deal with his Dear Mother 😂
…and DON’T get married because anyone tells you it’s time. Also - you’re not royalty. Get over yourself and don’t think you’re entitled to a huge wedding.
At first I was wondering why Angie married Arnold but it was the usual facade of being charming then changing after marriage. Why did Arnold get married in the first place? He's not husband material.
Angie is an idiot for secretly paying for things and not telling her husband. If she didn’t trust him to tell him how much she made, then why did she marry him. This sounds like one of those marriages that was doomed in the beginning.
To that second half of your comment: What bothers me about these stories, is that it is always depicted as the Man being middle class. It's almost a near constant sting to the idea of a Nuclear Family and and lower class relationships. That or the Human Population has just gotten SO OVER INFLATED that saying, "It is a minority" doesn't mean anything anymore when that same Minority is roughly in the 100,000's (hundreds of thousands) of population size. Probably not there yet, we are probably still in the 10,000's (tens of thousands) but it still is a crappy deal knowing that Negative news spreads like wildfire while no one cares about the ones that make it.
@@nightdrivenen7909 What bothers me is the misogynistic way the en talk to te women the women are quite often subservient and it is so long since life was like that. I do not think they are set in Western cultures.Also annoys me is the College degree or Uni degree. Many of those uneducated ones they portray as twits are demeaned Where as in real life those of us who were dragged up with a box around the ears are more often that not high achievers. These are just stories and skewed to late 1800's thinking.
@@Andrea.S.Alvey12 Anglo Saxon (old English) depending on who you were. Perhaps nobility spoke whatever version of French and probably other languages depending on education but I'd bet the average house maid wouldn't. Shakespearean English would be equally annoying as well
1:43 The hubby obviously never heard of Grandma Moses. She didn’t even pick up a paintbrush until she was almost 80, though she had apparently been making sketches most of her life. Never too late to express yourself in art.
Me: Mark Chesnutt reference at the end! Arnold: 🎵I should've been hangin' on every word you ever had to say🎵 Angie: 🎵No it's a little too late / I'm a little too gone🎵 Me: (to Arnold) 🎵She's a little too right / you're a little too wrong🎵 Arnold: 🎵Now would be a good time to change🎵 Angie: 🎵It's a little too late🎵
At 45 seconds I would have asked him if he was out of his little tiny mind. If my husband tried to bring another owman into my house I would greet them at the door with a frying pan and divorce papers.
Never accept even one word of domineering or he thinks you accept your life as a slave. There is no wiggle room on this. It’s like trying to compromise when one wants kids and one doesn’t.
Then the relationship is already dead in the water if the Man cannot say "I am taking you to X restaurant tonight for a good time, because i want to spoil you." Which IS domineering. Sometimes Both partners need to adopt a Domineering behavior in the relationship to get over hurdles and problems. Someone needs to take charge of a situation with dominance and force that the other submits and accepts. It highly depends on the situation. There are positive times when asserting your dominance is a good thing. edit: added more context.
This reminds me of my soon-to-be-ex-husband. So send like the second we got married the man turned into a totally different person. At became really controlling and telling me once you get married we're supposed to separate from our families completely because we're a whole new family. I'm not completely attached to my family I don't mind moving away but I don't want to cut him off completely and never talk to them ever again like he was asking. Just because he grew up with that parents he thought I was going to separate from my parents who treated me good and helps me out. Pretty much acted like I was his maid housekeeper and everything I was to do anything and everything you wanted. He also wanted me to have a full-time job and keep the house together while he sat at home doing catch clean nothing because he's on disability.
When he said fill the tub for him and his mistress, she should have filled it with acid and the candles were dynamite. Dudes a jerk and she was stupid for putting up with his crap.
Arnold wasn't late and if he was that was all on him. Who died and made him king of the castle. Breadwinner my but. He is no more than a big mouth bully. That's NOT what it's like being married. He wants her to give 100% And he can't even give 1% When someone tells you not to ask questions they are obviously doing something wrong. You dont want me to be forced to cook for you after you get drunk because you wontvlike what you will be eating. I can make food that taste amazing but that shouldn't be used for human consumption. Been there done that. Fighting drunks are easy. You wait until they pass out whip them with a broomstick and and ask them if they got into a fight. Act like you know nothing.
I’m surprised these stories don’t return insults to the sender. “The job of a woman is to support me!” “The job of a MAN is to Support Me!” Or “Then do your job and support me ‘Woman’”
I always love a good bad guy gets his comeuppance though it's always better when the wife uses her wit and smartassery to put him in his place. This VA is excellent at it but unfortunately this was a quick end to the ego story.
Reminds me of why I married, and all the promises I was told, didn’t happen 😮so I e left after 3 years of being married 😮so much better then living with a selfish controlling person 😊nasty person, wasn’t good enough for him, so he can live alone and try to be happy ole goat!😅
She probably should have left him long ago but at least she got compensation out of this, there's also the knowledge that he realizes he fucked up but that was going to happen whether or not she left him now or earlier since she paid most if not all the bills. I hope the mistress got karma too, I want to imagine she tried to leave Arnold when issues started showing up like issues paying his cards & rent but at some point he tracked her down & begged for help. She doesn't want him since he can't care for her anymore but he won't stop bugging her possibly partly due to her being why he was forced to compensate his ex-wife. Eventually people that know the ex-mistress find out what she did so her reputation is going down hill, out of desperation she pays the rent or something off for him & finally kicks him out. He's upset but can't do anything since he's pushed everyone away with his behavior & harassing them to lend him money & shelter. Glad he's started to get humbled by this, he needs to reflect on what a piece of shit he is
I'm only 6 minutes in and I'm already filling for divorce. I wouldn't put up with him basically saying I'm his slave and should be worshipping the ground he walks on that this is the way he was raised. Then he can find himself a doormat that will put up with it. He shoves me out of bed and demands I cook and get the shower ready while baby eats. She thought she married a man. But really, she married an overgrown toddler.
What the duck type jobs do these people have where they make only 2000 a month and their jobs are full time? There's people in Baltimore right now working at McDonald's and they make more than 2 G's a month.
Crazy to me... she's paying for EVERYTHING, PLUS cooking & cleaning.. all while he walks around thinking he's a king, while he disrespects her... if you have to do EVERYTHING what's his purpose? Why do you need him? I would've taken me and my money and found another place to live ASAP. He needs you, you don't need him. Why is it these wives don't leave until they find out he's cheating? The disrespect alone should've been enough. The cheating is just the icing on the cake.
1) they dont act like this right away. it a step by step process that eases the victim in getting use to the treatment. 2) the wife usaly think they can talk this out or work on the other for the better. the spent so much time with someone who seemed nice that they cant fully see the monster in front of them. a mixture of rose-tinted classes and sunken cost fallacey. 3) it usaly takes something big to smuck them upside the head to wake up and realize their situation.
Wow, they left out one of the main characters. Usually in the "husband leaves wife who actually makes more money than him" story there's his mother egging him on and calling wife names for not being good enough at housework. She usually picks the girl he cheats with thinking that girl will take care of her too.
Doesn't always happen but yeah the enabling MIL the goes on to regret everything shows up a lot
@@Icyangel10 Yeppers
There's quite a few where the parents are conservative and can't stand their son did this and get on the side of the ex-wife and disown him
I'd make his breakfast at 7am,then make sure he wears it to work.
After the husband announced to push his wife out of bed when he comes home, she should have locked the bedroom door.
Change the front door locks too.
It's amazing how love can die..... Ladies Let this be an example of what is going to come... If you get married, please make sure you have a separate income. And bank accounts!!!!!
It works both ways. My ex-wife was always whining about wanting a joint bank account so she could spend all my money on shoes. Of course it never happened, in my occupation, any unauthorised overdraft would mean I could not have certain jobs.
Oh I know it all too well. Married my husband 6 months after meeting when we were 24. Wildly in love. I never knew I could love another person (outside my parents, siblings, and nephews). I devoted my whole self to my husband.. moved away from my family and friends to live an hour away in his hometown, knowing no one but his friends and family. The first 2.5 years were amazing.. I couldn't have dreamed a better life. But, slowly but surely, he began to change. The superiority complex showed.. the "it's a wife's job to do this, this, this" "I make the most money, so I can do what I want, when I want". He wanted me to work, and I did, I loved having my career.. but then he wanted me to be home 24/7, too... that love started to fade.. i resented him and pulled away, then he pulled away... accusing each other of cheating (which he did), and blamed it on us "growing apart". Put up with that for 10 years.... I was surprised when he said he wanted to separate how easily and quickly I agreed. He didn't think I would agree. His pride kept him from saying he wanted to make it work.. not to mention his awful mother was too overbearing.. such a Momma's Boy, she was also a big part of it... and he always took for his precious mommy who couldn't keep a man herself because she was nuts. We've been separated and divorced going on 2 years, and I forgot how happy I could be without him. Being back in my hometown, my old stomping grounds, working my way up the ladder at my job, house-hunting, casually dating a really good man for the last few months.. life is really good now. I sometimes miss the man I loved when we first got married, but that man is gone, he never really existed, that man was only a role the real him played... good luck to his new gf, hope she can deal with his Dear Mother 😂
…and DON’T get married because anyone tells you it’s time. Also - you’re not royalty. Get over yourself and don’t think you’re entitled to a huge wedding.
@@etiennedevignolles7538 You could have each had your own separate accounts and then a joint account for bills
@@etiennedevignolles7538 But yes, no matter the gender, people should keep their mind on their money and their money on their minds
IF ARNOLD WANTS 😅 BREAKFAST AT 7:00 A.M SHARP HE CAN MAKE IT HIMSELF 😂
Yeah!✊
"I'm the one putting food on the table." In that case, you can eat it raw and uncooked
He wants perfection and he is no where near that.
30 seconds in and he would be on the floor with his breakfast
At first I was wondering why Angie married Arnold but it was the usual facade of being charming then changing after marriage. Why did Arnold get married in the first place? He's not husband material.
Angie is an idiot for secretly paying for things and not telling her husband. If she didn’t trust him to tell him how much she made, then why did she marry him. This sounds like one of those marriages that was doomed in the beginning.
Have you seen how he treats her? She's not the issue with the marriage he is. He's emotionally abusive.
IF I had a husband like this I would be in jail for murder. No worries. If women really kowtow to idiots like this then the world is doomed.
You do realize that it goes both ways right?
@@darkmage9252 forsure but no one deserves that sort of treatment anyone who disrespects another in such a way deserves what they get.
@@lesleycrowther-scott1809 I agree
To that second half of your comment: What bothers me about these stories, is that it is always depicted as the Man being middle class. It's almost a near constant sting to the idea of a Nuclear Family and and lower class relationships. That or the Human Population has just gotten SO OVER INFLATED that saying, "It is a minority" doesn't mean anything anymore when that same Minority is roughly in the 100,000's (hundreds of thousands) of population size. Probably not there yet, we are probably still in the 10,000's (tens of thousands) but it still is a crappy deal knowing that Negative news spreads like wildfire while no one cares about the ones that make it.
@@nightdrivenen7909 What bothers me is the misogynistic way the en talk to te women the women are quite often subservient and it is so long since life was like that. I do not think they are set in Western cultures.Also annoys me is the College degree or Uni degree. Many of those uneducated ones they portray as twits are demeaned Where as in real life those of us who were dragged up with a box around the ears are more often that not high achievers. These are just stories and skewed to late 1800's thinking.
"all you draw is naked men for sad single women"
Me: hey that's a valid occupation!!
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"Oh? We are in the 10th century?" Me: learns old English and only speaks in that.
Wouldn't 10th century England be Normal/French speaking? My brain's not totally awake, yet - 6:31am eastern time.
@@Andrea.S.Alvey12 Anglo Saxon (old English) depending on who you were. Perhaps nobility spoke whatever version of French and probably other languages depending on education but I'd bet the average house maid wouldn't. Shakespearean English would be equally annoying as well
@@Andrea.S.Alvey12
It would not be Mediaeval French (that would be in the 11th Century). In the 10th Century, you'd be speaking Old English.
@@etiennedevignolles7538 oop! I forgot. Latin was being used by the clergy and no doubt by anyone educated as well
@@catsncrows
Much of the clergy though were extremely poor at Latin, although they were supposed to be able to speak it! LOL
Angie needs to be waiting for him and his "other woman" with a shotgun !!
$1500 for rent is high? My family would LOVE to pay that for our apartment!
1:43 The hubby obviously never heard of Grandma Moses. She didn’t even pick up a paintbrush until she was almost 80, though she had apparently been making sketches most of her life. Never too late to express yourself in art.
Me: Mark Chesnutt reference at the end!
Arnold: 🎵I should've been hangin' on every word you ever had to say🎵
Angie: 🎵No it's a little too late / I'm a little too gone🎵
Me: (to Arnold) 🎵She's a little too right / you're a little too wrong🎵
Arnold: 🎵Now would be a good time to change🎵
Angie: 🎵It's a little too late🎵
At 45 seconds I would have asked him if he was out of his little tiny mind. If my husband tried to bring another owman into my house I would greet them at the door with a frying pan and divorce papers.
"Angie's life started going up, while Arnold's started going down....." So you see, you should think before speaking and acting.
Send copies of his texts, to everyone!
Then you can empty his life!
Not to mention that sob pockets! Cheating is treason!
I keep waiying for the wife to say "your not that great of husband material"
Never accept even one word of domineering or he thinks you accept your life as a slave. There is no wiggle room on this. It’s like trying to compromise when one wants kids and one doesn’t.
Then the relationship is already dead in the water if the Man cannot say "I am taking you to X restaurant tonight for a good time, because i want to spoil you." Which IS domineering. Sometimes Both partners need to adopt a Domineering behavior in the relationship to get over hurdles and problems. Someone needs to take charge of a situation with dominance and force that the other submits and accepts. It highly depends on the situation. There are positive times when asserting your dominance is a good thing.
edit: added more context.
@@nightdrivenen7909 I disagree. I have been an interpreter for 30 years and have never heard that word used that way at all.
Wow! What a story! Great job on the narrations! I always look forward to it! 👏👍👍❤
This reminds me of my soon-to-be-ex-husband. So send like the second we got married the man turned into a totally different person. At became really controlling and telling me once you get married we're supposed to separate from our families completely because we're a whole new family. I'm not completely attached to my family I don't mind moving away but I don't want to cut him off completely and never talk to them ever again like he was asking. Just because he grew up with that parents he thought I was going to separate from my parents who treated me good and helps me out. Pretty much acted like I was his maid housekeeper and everything I was to do anything and everything you wanted. He also wanted me to have a full-time job and keep the house together while he sat at home doing catch clean nothing because he's on disability.
His expectations are unreal! (Guy upstairs treated his girl this way. She could not even vacuum correctly!!!! ). SHE DUMPED him!!!!!!!
Justice sweet revenge 😈
5 different sides?? He wants Christmas dinner everyday...😕
He's the gold digger...
Have your girlfriend pay your rent.
She should have moved out the first time he started verbally abusing her. Move out & get a dog!
Oh honey... hot people for others to fantasize over makes bank.
Angie really lives up to her danganronpa counterpart-
Yes, she is living up to her.
Is it a manga?
@@Mrstigger747it's a video game franchise
@@Mrstigger747 Video game franchise which iirc also had an anime adaption. Wasn't a fan of it myself. But it wasn't bad. Just not my cup of tea.
Never ever give up your job...EVER! If your husband tries to make you...LEAVE NOW!
When he said fill the tub for him and his mistress, she should have filled it with acid and the candles were dynamite. Dudes a jerk and she was stupid for putting up with his crap.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😅
Arnold has no idea hownthe real world works
Less than a minute in, divorce this manipulative abuser.
Handsome men in comics? Yeah no one ever buys those...smh
Arnold wasn't late and if he was that was all on him. Who died and made him king of the castle. Breadwinner my but. He is no more than a big mouth bully. That's NOT what it's like being married. He wants her to give 100% And he can't even give 1% When someone tells you not to ask questions they are obviously doing something wrong. You dont want me to be forced to cook for you after you get drunk because you wontvlike what you will be eating. I can make food that taste amazing but that shouldn't be used for human consumption. Been there done that. Fighting drunks are easy. You wait until they pass out whip them with a broomstick and and ask them if they got into a fight. Act like you know nothing.
"nobody's going to buy that Crap";boy, twilight sold millions,
Arnold is going to. Be divorced.
At this point, I just fast forward through these videos because sometimes the build ups are too long or too outrageous. Sometimes both.
I do that too
I’m surprised these stories don’t return insults to the sender.
“The job of a woman is to support me!”
“The job of a MAN is to Support Me!”
Or “Then do your job and support me ‘Woman’”
I always love a good bad guy gets his comeuppance though it's always better when the wife uses her wit and smartassery to put him in his place. This VA is excellent at it but unfortunately this was a quick end to the ego story.
Angie had low self-esteem so glad she got it together and left the abuse from Arnold.
Reminds me of why I married, and all the promises I was told, didn’t happen 😮so I e left after 3 years of being married 😮so much better then living with a selfish controlling person 😊nasty person, wasn’t good enough for him, so he can live alone and try to be happy ole goat!😅
O.K. , O.K. !!!" NOW IT'S OFFICIAL"!!! I have a headache 😫 😂😂😂😂😅
He gets $2k a month. Is he on below minimum wage?
That's just above minimum wage in my state, if working a 40 hr work week. Doing the math, it's about $12.50 an hour.
I know a mortgage where I live is seven grand at a minimum a month
These stories seem to always have wages, rents, and mortgages that are well below today’s standards.
She probably should have left him long ago but at least she got compensation out of this, there's also the knowledge that he realizes he fucked up but that was going to happen whether or not she left him now or earlier since she paid most if not all the bills.
I hope the mistress got karma too, I want to imagine she tried to leave Arnold when issues started showing up like issues paying his cards & rent but at some point he tracked her down & begged for help. She doesn't want him since he can't care for her anymore but he won't stop bugging her possibly partly due to her being why he was forced to compensate his ex-wife. Eventually people that know the ex-mistress find out what she did so her reputation is going down hill, out of desperation she pays the rent or something off for him & finally kicks him out. He's upset but can't do anything since he's pushed everyone away with his behavior & harassing them to lend him money & shelter.
Glad he's started to get humbled by this, he needs to reflect on what a piece of shit he is
Just dig a lovely deep hole in the garden!
Angie stick to your guns and don't back down
Thanks for your reply and I enjoyed the story and time
Marry in haste, repent at leisure.
When these women get rid of these men they should post about their medieval behavior.
im surprised that arnold didnt try and make his own comic searis and make it big.
Dont make the women you write about be at the beck and call of a husband. Give women power to live by!
30 seconds in I would be filing divorce, or at very least would have hung up on the arrogant one
This must have been an arranged marriage.
Wow these have gone down hill
Aww Diddums
13:47 - how do you not know how much your spouse makes, even ballpark?
I'm only 6 minutes in and I'm already filling for divorce. I wouldn't put up with him basically saying I'm his slave and should be worshipping the ground he walks on that this is the way he was raised. Then he can find himself a doormat that will put up with it. He shoves me out of bed and demands I cook and get the shower ready while baby eats. She thought she married a man. But really, she married an overgrown toddler.
Does everyone in the USA have a cooked breakfast every day?
No
Dang he became homeless for real!
What the duck type jobs do these people have where they make only 2000 a month and their jobs are full time? There's people in Baltimore right now working at McDonald's and they make more than 2 G's a month.
Who's the Boss lol.
Arnold was just stupid, how does anybody live on 2000$ a month?
Have some gd spine!
ARNOLD LISTEN UP AND LISTEN GOOD THERE TOO FRUITCAKE AND KNOW YOUR PLACE ARNOLD THE FRUITCAKE
Changing up from "cupcake"?😊
@@GeorgieB1965 Mr. Demitro refers to the male antagonists as fruitcake.....and the female ones as cupcake.
@@GeorgieB1965 MINE YOUR P AND Q
@@jonborchardt5548 AWESOME TOO
Maybe they could try and be smart cookies instead?
He must have behaved like this before they were married. Why in the world would she go through and marry him? He has no love for her.
No he didn’t, which is why she married him. As she said, he changed after they got married.
I hate women doormats. Be reponsible and write better stories!
He is probably cheating on her