I fucking love this podcast it's so chill i feel like we're just hanging out but yall aren't letting me get a word in so im just sitting on the couch listening and staring
I wouldn't undersell yalls importance, the modern landscape of online comedy was literally trailblazed and created by you guys. for example, freak show does not exist without you, some of the biggest names in online comedy are only able to thrive and exist because of you guys ( and I also include Jake and Dana in that,) the four of y'all are pioneers of this shit and I mean that. not only that, but just the jokes that people find funny these days and the general sense of humor was shaped by you guys
in the segment when y'all touched on not having friends during high school, it really hit home with me. i won't deny that i've definitely looked at y'alls friend group and have wished i had friends like yours, but i realized it's not fair on myself to expect that i find people exactly like your friends. i'm happy y'all said that during college, that's when you find your people. i just started college on monday and i'm going out into town with my new friends after having none all throughout high school. it gets better.
Dude I been thinking abt this especially since I’m still in like hs nd shi bcs it’s like ik I’m not going to be able to find the kind of friendships that I want or crave but I also know that the ppl around me aren’t the only ppl in the world if that makes sense like I once I get out of the town I’m in and I get into bigger sceneries nd shi Like so many more interesting ppl and MY ppl like, I’ll find them and hopefully get the friendships I crave for but for now I won’t have that and I just got to thug it out 😭
also listening to you guys talk about mental illness is like listening to myself and it feels comforting to have someone verbalize your emotions when i never can so ty for being open about it, we can do it
hearing you guys talk about your depression is so comforting to me. i always struggle with describing how it feels but i feel like you guys worded it perfectly
Honestly, i do think that yall should be more recognized in the industry anf i dare to say that this whole friend group (the ovalle brothers, drew, enya, josiah, etc.) has been really influential from the way yall dress to your humor. i have been following this whole group since the vine days and now on youtube and i feel like tiktok wouldnt be what it is without you guys. i feel like everyone copies yalls humor/delivery. specially josh, for a person that barely shows their face online, he has had a tremendous impact on this generations humor.
“The most intense feelings I’ve ever felt were sadness and that’s why it’s really hard for me to feel good. It’s because my peak of emotions has been this intense despair that most people, especially by my age shouldn’t have experienced. So when I’m in a moment where I’m like this should be the most fulfilling moment for me, it’s not nearly as joyous or intense as that sadness was, so it’s easy for me to feel like those moments are nothing, which is fucked up. “ - that was extremely raw and so relatable 😥
when drew said that most of their viewers are like around the same age as them and that we probably grew up with them was such a sweet moment cause like it's true ...
ive been feeling this way for over a year now, feels like im just trying to survive at this point, when i get happy it feels so temporary, no motivation to even try to better myself. this podcast is my free therapy, it feels like enya and drew are my friends i love them so much
enya i love when you talk about being careful about your personal life and what details you put out to the public (or even friends), even not being an influencer it's something relatable and that not a lot of people talk about. when you're online even if you are a nobody you're invited to share and share so you can leave anything out there for someone to cling to, but it's not easy and as someone who too values privacy and tries not to fall for this, i really appreciate your words.
honestly, this podcast really opened my eyes to the commodity of sulking in sadness. like i’ve genuinely never heard someone speak so accurately about mental health as someone w past trauma now living with it in their early 20s
no because drew is so right, enya has been such a fashion icon and just perfecting expressing herself and has gotten so much the and told that she's gettingn ugly or whatever but then other people do it and they're praised. everyone always hates the pioneers but then later are appreciated. but from what i've seen she really is THE trendsetter for our generation just by being herself
no, drew’s take on enya and fashion is 100% true. i remember being like 13-14 seeing enya dress up in a small shirt (with her “thot knot” lol), cargo pants, and converse and wanted to dress like that so bad! i’m 18 now and not only has that style of dress become extremely mainstream, but other variations of it have too. and yes, these current styles have been influenced by a number of places, but all these ppl dressing in these clothes give different variations of (correct me if i’m wrong) 2017-2018 enya and it shows.
I hope y’all know that y’all are actually some of the realest and relatable people on the Internet. When you described not wanting to give away all of yourself or increasingly preserving more about yourself when interacting with others is what I’ve done my whole life. My whole life I’ve felt I’ve been playing a character to comfort others and protect myself. I did what I thought people wanted to see of me. I said what I thought they wanted me to say. I made a fool of myself and lied constantly about everything so that people never asked questions about who I really was. What I was really feeling and dealing with. That character I didn’t played for so long was so that I never actually had to look inside myself and ask myself who the hell I was and wanted to be in life. I thought “If I always pretended to be someone else, I never had to be myself” and that’s the way I walked through life. Also, What drew said about people being judgmental of everyone causing themselves to be insecure is SO TRUE. I literally critiqued everyone and everything about others (mostly to myself never actually said anything to anyone) and myself and that made me so insecure. I’ve slowly began to disconnect myself from others ever since Graduating high school 3 months ago. And it’s actually helped so much. I’ve let go of my perspective of what’s cringe, weird and dumb. Literally I ducked the enjoyment out of life by constantly looking for myself in characters of tv, movies, and media. Now standing here at 18 yrs old with no job and not attending school, I’ve began to feel pressured to make something of myself. But I need a moment to look back into the past and really dwell on it, feel it, and move forward from it before I move onto the next stages of my life. It’s okay to feel stagnant and stand still to process as long as you continue to want a future beyond your past.
enyas idea about being 'addicted' to the feeling of being depressed and helpless during their early teens is so understandable and i always thought it was just my silly little brain !!!! so ty for bringing that up bae i, its such a sick fucking thing but im glad to know someone else has felt that way
this episode was so honest and helpful as someone who's going through similar things. Its really important to talk about mental health in a candid way and you are both so giving to share this with your audience.
Y’all really helped calm my anxiety in this episode. Im sorry you both are going through some real mental struggles but to hear you describe exactly how I feel was really relieving. That sounds dramatic but fr. I was feeling very alone in my thoughts and feelings. Thank you. Edit: drew, if and when you decide to go on meds I hope it goes really good for you. It can be difficult for some (like myself) to find the right kind of medication but that’s okay. What works for some might not work for others. It might take a few goes. Just like finding a therapist. Good luck! Enya, I hope you are okay while your therapist is gone. My therapist just moved away and I had my last session on Thursday. My heart is straight broken but I’m going to look for another. But yeah. Stay strong!! Also I talk a lot in therapy too. It’s all good. That’s why we are paying them hehe
wow i really needed to hear that tangent yall went on about yearning for a friend group like yours, i’ve been watching y’all for years n i wanted it so badly… omg. thank you for putting it into perspective like that!
In all seriousness if you struggle with your mood try to make a routine for yourself, even if it's loose rather than strict. Humans are animals that need grounding routines, cooking, cleaning, stretching, music, dancing, a creative outlet, going in nature, reading, just simple things like waking up and making a sexy+scandalous cup of coffee
On period^^^^ having a planner to write down daily occurrences to remember the beauty and differences in everyday helped my depression so much, going for a daily walk or having a specific time to draw/listen to music can help you get out of a funk so fast
Hearing you guys talk about mental health and your personal struggles genuinely helps me so much. I feel less alone and this podcast in general brings me so much happiness. Don’t underestimate your importance because y’all do so much for so many people.
what you give in the podcast and in videos is enough for me. Idk i think its comforting and safe that we dont know everything going on. Ur relationship with us (from my perspective) is like Ur the friends you see once a month, do something fucking stupid with, talk shit, watch a movie and then dont speak for another month. And its comforting that we are both living our own lives but can still check in when we need it
I love how yall are able to be so serious and then you can just be so like hilarious. You guys are literally my therapists that just like speak everything I think and feel.
not even lying- watching u both be so vulnerable with each other is really inspiring for me because it's really hard for me to open up about my shit even with my favorite people. u also are both great at putting things into words that a lot of us experience. thank u for this episode :,)
i resonate with this episode a lot, for a while i thought i had cyclothymia (which is a form of bipolar) and was experiencing highs and lows. i realized finally i just have severe depression and those times of temporary happiness can feel excessive because i don’t really know what happiness feels like. i appreciate you guys so much for sharing 🖤
Enya talking about wanting to be 14-16 years old again & getting that false high at night & wanting a day of rest cuz you felt overworked hit so hard. Like wow. I genuinely thought I was the only girly who experiences that.
Enya talking about the 9-12 pm highs makes me feel so much less crazy, I know I have depression literally have been told my therapist but in those moments I just think “ I can hold onto this high I just have to work hard enough” and sometimes I will sleep less because there will be the day that when I sleep and wake up I’ll be right back in that space. …. Anyways thank you for this podcast it’s a special one and like idk y’all kinda stink less now!!
as a teenage girl i relate to this video so much 😭 i want to have friends in the same way you guys do and be able to have deep conversations and be open and like have the same humor and overall just get eachother but i just feel like none of my friends get me and i can’t talk to them about issues and stuff like not to sound corny but idk this episode rlly made me feel better about that stuff lol i hope i can have a friendship like yours one day i love emergency intercom 💖
Enya i completely agree with how u were saying u miss being 14-16. Im 16 right now and i had a really hard time in the past few years and as much pain as it caused i find myself reminiscing and remembering that time. I just got comfortable feeling sad and and instead of being impacted by my negative and depressing thoughts i was comforted by them . i love u guys thank u for making a podcast yall have wanted this for ever and im so happy u guys went for it
I've been struggling with opening up to my therapist and I thought I was doing it wrong, or my problems weren't "serious" enough for me to get therapy but hearing yall talk about your experiences with depression made me feel so much better because I relate SO FUCKING MUCH. everything you said made me feel like I wasn't alone and that my feelings were valid, ESPECIALLY when Enya was talking about her therapist ugh you have no idea how much this episode meant to me. I truly love you guys and this podcast so fucking much, yall have helped me more than you can ever know, so thank you
You guys don’t understand how fucking much i relate to what you guys are saying and opening up about. I have struggled with the exact same feelings/experiences like these for years and to see the people i look up to talk about the same things is so liberating. I’ve always known you guys have struggled with some sort of mental health issues, but never really got to hear about these parts of it. i almost teared up i’m not gonna lie 🤪 The amount of times i screamed “exactly! yes!” to my phone: embarrassing. You guys are so fucking special. I’ve been in therapy for a few weeks now for the first time in years, and now I know how to finally say what I’ve been meaning to say. Favorite episode yet. I love y’all freaks ❤️
This episode is really making me consider going back to my therapist cause the way they spot really hit my soul and honestly the way I’ve been feeling for a long time
the friend group talk was so comforting as a college freshman … and the fact that i did grow up watching y’all like i see enya as the cool older sister senior in terms of age 😭
I love them so much literally listening to someone else explain their depression while laughing at it but also saying very deep and sad thoughts that everyone go through makes me feel SOOOO much better. Like ok queen. Thank you guys literally I listen to y’all everyday while I’m working and it literally gives me motivation to actually go to work and not stay in bed. So thank you guys Fr. I really love y’all 😂😂😂😭
i genuinely look forward to this podcast every week. i listen to this shit during class and its so comforting and entertaining. i appreciate yall so much and im so glad ive grown up with you two :) love yall sm
i genuinely love when you guys talk about your mental health. it’s not even like “i like knowing that i’m not alone” bc ik i’m not but like i have pretty bad add and like my mental health has such high highs and low lows and like i lowkey think i’m bipolar bc my mood changes so quickly literally everyday and it’s just so exhausting. like it’s so nice to finally see a celebrity or someone of ur status not sugar coat mental health issues and actually talk about how it fucking sucks and genuinely ruins ur life and perception of yourself instead of just the romanticized painting of it. idk if what i said makes any sense but just know everyone appreciates it so much when you are real about mental health.
I love this episode so much. Y’all are the only people I want to sit here and listen to talk deeply about mental health. Thank you for always being so comforting whether it’s a serious topic or the two of you verbally abusing each other ❤️
idk as someone who has grown up with you guys it’s so comforting to know that although you’re in a position that i’d like to maybe be in you both still go through the same things i experience. listening to you both get deep kinda lessens that disconnect that is felt w a lot of influencers/social media personalities especially over the past 2 years. also enya absolutely deserves her flowers when it comes to style influence and it may take a second but i definitely see y’all hosting the vmas if award shows don’t become obsolete within the next couple of years. i love you guys and i’m so proud you two have been so consistent with this!!! i look forward to having y’all be part of my stimulation trifecta every week.
have been going through a tough time and hearing some of the things yall said is so reassuring! its so comforting knowing its not just me... so much love for u guys & this podcast!
okay i completely relate to this. ive been pretty depressed for a few months and it’s so hard for me to do more than the bare minimum for me and hearing you guys talk about it makes it better. i’m late to it bc again all i do is school and watch some yt and it’s hard for me to sit down and watch this long of a video even just listening is hard but today i decided to listen and i’m so happy i did. i think this is my favorite episode because i needed this. thank you guys you genuinely help me so much
I hope yall know how important this podcast is. maybe not to everyone ever but at least to me. I seriously related to everything you said and it made me feel way less alienated and abnormal. This podcast means the world to me and it truly is the best part of my week. I love listening to your humor and simultaneously appreciating the deep conversations that feel like therapy and they truly are helping me heal. I won't trauma dump in a comment section but fr. I deadass love yall so much
Enya not being able to pronounce Barbie’s name and then her being on the podcast is funny af
I fucking love this podcast it's so chill i feel like we're just hanging out but yall aren't letting me get a word in so im just sitting on the couch listening and staring
Thinking about how that's basically the their sound tech guy every ep
LMFAO THE WAY this is so specific
you described the vibe so accurately
@@C_Y_R omg trueeeee 💀💀💀💀
its so good when ur high it feels like ur sitting there silently LMAOOO
drew stopping enya from talking about the VMAs to bring up the reptile convention is my joker origin story
no cuz i was so ready too😭
okay okay buddy buddy i i
i read this before they got to that point and thought you were referring to the met gala as a reptile convention (which it undeniably is)
He makes me mad sometimes🙄
@@jajajajose i feel like im gunna think about this comment a lot
enya tapping Drew's knee as she talks is so cute
I wouldn't undersell yalls importance, the modern landscape of online comedy was literally trailblazed and created by you guys. for example, freak show does not exist without you, some of the biggest names in online comedy are only able to thrive and exist because of you guys ( and I also include Jake and Dana in that,) the four of y'all are pioneers of this shit and I mean that. not only that, but just the jokes that people find funny these days and the general sense of humor was shaped by you guys
YES I was trying to think of how to say this and you said it perfectly
Literally my humor and every joke I tell is either from them or is based around their humor
thisss exactly
Y E S
100%
Drew’s statement on Enya’s fashion impact is so damn true!!!! She is a trendsetter!
So proud of y’all for the consistency. Thank you, esp sound guy cus you guys mentioned he’s the one making it happen
Yes! Shoutout Kai!
yes! thank you for saying this bc we all feel the same way
This podcast could replace my weekly therapy sessions
Agreed
already did
definitely
honestly
No seriously
enya explaining depression as the peak of emotion and thats why nothing else ever feels good enough is so real
yes
i had to lay on my floor . it was insane
in the segment when y'all touched on not having friends during high school, it really hit home with me. i won't deny that i've definitely looked at y'alls friend group and have wished i had friends like yours, but i realized it's not fair on myself to expect that i find people exactly like your friends. i'm happy y'all said that during college, that's when you find your people. i just started college on monday and i'm going out into town with my new friends after having none all throughout high school. it gets better.
haven’t gotten to that part in the pod yet, but i can totally relate to that. i can’t wait to find my people bro
still trying to find my people 🤦🏽♀️
so happy for ur bae !!
Dude I been thinking abt this especially since I’m still in like hs nd shi bcs it’s like ik I’m not going to be able to find the kind of friendships that I want or crave but I also know that the ppl around me aren’t the only ppl in the world if that makes sense like I once I get out of the town I’m in and I get into bigger sceneries nd shi Like so many more interesting ppl and MY ppl like, I’ll find them and hopefully get the friendships I crave for but for now I won’t have that and I just got to thug it out 😭
enya is literally the blueprint for all the “fashion influencers” that are popular today
Literally!!! She should be in place or right next to Emma chamberlain! Cus i saw enya wearing it first then she would. And that’s the tea!
She started sooo many trends its insane
@@L.orenaaa YES
rowan blanchard as well
yall being at a reptile convention instead of the vmas is soooo in character
also listening to you guys talk about mental illness is like listening to myself and it feels comforting to have someone verbalize your emotions when i never can so ty for being open about it, we can do it
hearing you guys talk about your depression is so comforting to me. i always struggle with describing how it feels but i feel like you guys worded it perfectly
Tbh
RIGHT
Honestly, i do think that yall should be more recognized in the industry anf i dare to say that this whole friend group (the ovalle brothers, drew, enya, josiah, etc.) has been really influential from the way yall dress to your humor. i have been following this whole group since the vine days and now on youtube and i feel like tiktok wouldnt be what it is without you guys. i feel like everyone copies yalls humor/delivery. specially josh, for a person that barely shows their face online, he has had a tremendous impact on this generations humor.
“The most intense feelings I’ve ever felt were sadness and that’s why it’s really hard for me to feel good. It’s because my peak of emotions has been this intense despair that most people, especially by my age shouldn’t have experienced. So when I’m in a moment where I’m like this should be the most fulfilling moment for me, it’s not nearly as joyous or intense as that sadness was, so it’s easy for me to feel like those moments are nothing, which is fucked up. “ - that was extremely raw and so relatable 😥
This podcast has been bringing me so much happiness
😭
“I genuinely mean nothing to no one” girl we’re just 2 minutes in 😭😭
when drew said that most of their viewers are like around the same age as them and that we probably grew up with them was such a sweet moment cause like it's true ...
no drew was right enya doesnt take the credit she deserves literally enya has influenced so many corners of fashion its insane
ive been feeling this way for over a year now, feels like im just trying to survive at this point, when i get happy it feels so temporary, no motivation to even try to better myself. this podcast is my free therapy, it feels like enya and drew are my friends i love them so much
Literally it feels like if something good happens to me it's too good to be true or I know that it won't last long so I'm sad even when I'm happy 💀
the plant in the back really adds to the lovely atmosphere :)
it’s so pretty :D
Especially with the mantis roaming all over it
God can we just talk about Enya and Drew's hair 😩
i now have a gaslighting kink thanks enya and drew
enya i love when you talk about being careful about your personal life and what details you put out to the public (or even friends), even not being an influencer it's something relatable and that not a lot of people talk about. when you're online even if you are a nobody you're invited to share and share so you can leave anything out there for someone to cling to, but it's not easy and as someone who too values privacy and tries not to fall for this, i really appreciate your words.
literally all i could think was what look enya would serve at the met gala, but shes an indie girl
No she’s a runner, she’s a track star
she is not indie lmao she got a cool style but indie is a whole different look
@@Burgmurg did you really just take that literally ☹️
honestly, this podcast really opened my eyes to the commodity of sulking in sadness. like i’ve genuinely never heard someone speak so accurately about mental health as someone w past trauma now living with it in their early 20s
This podcast is all I look forward to all week it’s actually keeping me afloat
it is.
i think one thing that makes these podcasts so enjoyable is the connection between enya and drew.. their bond is so rare and precious
no because drew is so right, enya has been such a fashion icon and just perfecting expressing herself and has gotten so much the and told that she's gettingn ugly or whatever but then other people do it and they're praised. everyone always hates the pioneers but then later are appreciated. but from what i've seen she really is THE trendsetter for our generation just by being herself
no, drew’s take on enya and fashion is 100% true. i remember being like 13-14 seeing enya dress up in a small shirt (with her “thot knot” lol), cargo pants, and converse and wanted to dress like that so bad! i’m 18 now and not only has that style of dress become extremely mainstream, but other variations of it have too. and yes, these current styles have been influenced by a number of places, but all these ppl dressing in these clothes give different variations of (correct me if i’m wrong) 2017-2018 enya and it shows.
I also remember her having them Gucci slides and I wanted them so bad lmao😭😭😭
@@ljepotica6073 right 😭😭 me too
The mulet, orange hair, style, brows everything she really do be starting trends !
this!!! so many girls in high school mimicked her whole being and even to this day carry that personality or at least part of it
Enya actually sounded so convincing in the therapy bit and drew had me spitting out my salad with his "I liked being touched"
I hope y’all know that y’all are actually some of the realest and relatable people on the Internet. When you described not wanting to give away all of yourself or increasingly preserving more about yourself when interacting with others is what I’ve done my whole life. My whole life I’ve felt I’ve been playing a character to comfort others and protect myself. I did what I thought people wanted to see of me. I said what I thought they wanted me to say. I made a fool of myself and lied constantly about everything so that people never asked questions about who I really was. What I was really feeling and dealing with. That character I didn’t played for so long was so that I never actually had to look inside myself and ask myself who the hell I was and wanted to be in life. I thought “If I always pretended to be someone else, I never had to be myself” and that’s the way I walked through life. Also, What drew said about people being judgmental of everyone causing themselves to be insecure is SO TRUE. I literally critiqued everyone and everything about others (mostly to myself never actually said anything to anyone) and myself and that made me so insecure. I’ve slowly began to disconnect myself from others ever since Graduating high school 3 months ago. And it’s actually helped so much. I’ve let go of my perspective of what’s cringe, weird and dumb. Literally I ducked the enjoyment out of life by constantly looking for myself in characters of tv, movies, and media. Now standing here at 18 yrs old with no job and not attending school, I’ve began to feel pressured to make something of myself. But I need a moment to look back into the past and really dwell on it, feel it, and move forward from it before I move onto the next stages of my life. It’s okay to feel stagnant and stand still to process as long as you continue to want a future beyond your past.
The intro music gets me so hyped. It gets stuck in my head for days lol
Ur pfp is so pretty wthhhhh
its so prickly and dumb and like cats and spotty ik y'all know what i mean and i couldnt agree more with you
enyas idea about being 'addicted' to the feeling of being depressed and helpless during their early teens is so understandable and i always thought it was just my silly little brain !!!! so ty for bringing that up bae i, its such a sick fucking thing but im glad to know someone else has felt that way
i hope this podcast never ever endsssss
i know at least we know they wont pull a trish on frenemies bc we all know they are nowhere near that toxic..also why i stan the unproblematic icons
@@Johhhnnnyyy its enya feeling sad at just thinking about the time difference if drew moves to France 🥺 for me
6:30 aged so well lmao
I literally get thru every week just so I can listen to this podcast’s new episode, bless y’all fr
this episode was so honest and helpful as someone who's going through similar things. Its really important to talk about mental health in a candid way and you are both so giving to share this with your audience.
I’m 19 and have been watching you guys since I was a sophomore in high school, so I literally feel like I’ve grown up with y’all
Same
sameee im turning 19 soon
“She can’t fly”
Wow the misogyny 🙄
and she proved them wrong, girlboss😌
@@rockinrobin222 and she even survived flying into a wall 🥰🥰
Y’all really helped calm my anxiety in this episode. Im sorry you both are going through some real mental struggles but to hear you describe exactly how I feel was really relieving. That sounds dramatic but fr. I was feeling very alone in my thoughts and feelings. Thank you.
Edit: drew, if and when you decide to go on meds I hope it goes really good for you. It can be difficult for some (like myself) to find the right kind of medication but that’s okay. What works for some might not work for others. It might take a few goes. Just like finding a therapist. Good luck!
Enya, I hope you are okay while your therapist is gone. My therapist just moved away and I had my last session on Thursday. My heart is straight broken but I’m going to look for another. But yeah. Stay strong!! Also I talk a lot in therapy too. It’s all good. That’s why we are paying them hehe
watching this 2 years later after they literally had Barbie on the podcast is so crazy
omg can y’all bring orion onto the podcast one day 😭‼️ i’ve loved her and y’all since day 1!!!!!
and josiah 😭💚
PLEASEEEE
Literally every time something chaotic and horrible happens in my life I come home and this podcast is waiting for me, I live
“I don’t like to over share”. Also explains in GRAPHIC detail how her discharge looks and smells like lmao
Enya going from not knowing how to say Barbie Ferreira’s name to having her on the pod
Can we plssss hear about your tour experience, field trip show experience, and the vine tour days!
YESSSSS
@enya
They say they aren’t important but I know for a fact Drew and Enya have saved some kids lives out there. You two give people hope. You are important
This is what I wait for every week 😫
wow i really needed to hear that tangent yall went on about yearning for a friend group like yours, i’ve been watching y’all for years n i wanted it so badly… omg. thank you for putting it into perspective like that!
This video really helped me out with friends and understanding where I'm at mentally right now, thank u guys
i love these deep episodes it literally makes me feel sane
Y’all when they were touching each other’s hands I about died, they either absolutely hate each other or what I just witnessed LMAO
I go to sleep listening to y’all talk and have the most unhinge dreams
22:00 was the most relatable and realest thing I’ve ever heard
imagine brushing Drew's leg hair ❤️
Had to dislike this comment sorry
In all seriousness if you struggle with your mood try to make a routine for yourself, even if it's loose rather than strict. Humans are animals that need grounding routines, cooking, cleaning, stretching, music, dancing, a creative outlet, going in nature, reading, just simple things like waking up and making a sexy+scandalous cup of coffee
On period^^^^ having a planner to write down daily occurrences to remember the beauty and differences in everyday helped my depression so much, going for a daily walk or having a specific time to draw/listen to music can help you get out of a funk so fast
thank u for this
Hearing you guys talk about mental health and your personal struggles genuinely helps me so much. I feel less alone and this podcast in general brings me so much happiness. Don’t underestimate your importance because y’all do so much for so many people.
I’ve had the worst day and I got close to tears when I saw this notif, thank you guys fr
what you give in the podcast and in videos is enough for me. Idk i think its comforting and safe that we dont know everything going on. Ur relationship with us (from my perspective) is like Ur the friends you see once a month, do something fucking stupid with, talk shit, watch a movie and then dont speak for another month. And its comforting that we are both living our own lives but can still check in when we need it
Thank you so much for this you literally don’t know how happy this makes me every single week
I love how yall are able to be so serious and then you can just be so like hilarious. You guys are literally my therapists that just like speak everything I think and feel.
not even lying- watching u both be so vulnerable with each other is really inspiring for me because it's really hard for me to open up about my shit even with my favorite people. u also are both great at putting things into words that a lot of us experience. thank u for this episode :,)
when i go to the met y’all can have my plus one. yall gotta fight for the ticket tho so…. enya we’re gonna have a great time !
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i love how yall talk about mental health honesty cuz it's so relatable but specifically because of the way you guys put things into words
i resonate with this episode a lot, for a while i thought i had cyclothymia (which is a form of bipolar) and was experiencing highs and lows. i realized finally i just have severe depression and those times of temporary happiness can feel excessive because i don’t really know what happiness feels like. i appreciate you guys so much for sharing 🖤
Enya talking about wanting to be 14-16 years old again & getting that false high at night & wanting a day of rest cuz you felt overworked hit so hard. Like wow. I genuinely thought I was the only girly who experiences that.
No literally when Drew said Enya has influenced the younger generations style I 100% agree
Enya talking about the 9-12 pm highs makes me feel so much less crazy, I know I have depression literally have been told my therapist but in those moments I just think “ I can hold onto this high I just have to work hard enough” and sometimes I will sleep less because there will be the day that when I sleep and wake up I’ll be right back in that space.
…. Anyways thank you for this podcast it’s a special one and like idk y’all kinda stink less now!!
having ppl rlly talk about their experiences with the bad sides of depression is rlly refreshing
as a teenage girl i relate to this video so much 😭 i want to have friends in the same way you guys do and be able to have deep conversations and be open and like have the same humor and overall just get eachother but i just feel like none of my friends get me and i can’t talk to them about issues and stuff like not to sound corny but idk this episode rlly made me feel better about that stuff lol i hope i can have a friendship like yours one day i love emergency intercom 💖
Enya i completely agree with how u were saying u miss being 14-16. Im 16 right now and i had a really hard time in the past few years and as much pain as it caused i find myself reminiscing and remembering that time. I just got comfortable feeling sad and and instead of being impacted by my negative and depressing thoughts i was comforted by them . i love u guys thank u for making a podcast yall have wanted this for ever and im so happy u guys went for it
Enya looks so adorable in this episode PLS nerve stop this literally the only thing I'm looking forward too in life rn💕
the entire section of talking about depression is 100% relatable
this podcast keeps me going
I've been struggling with opening up to my therapist and I thought I was doing it wrong, or my problems weren't "serious" enough for me to get therapy but hearing yall talk about your experiences with depression made me feel so much better because I relate SO FUCKING MUCH. everything you said made me feel like I wasn't alone and that my feelings were valid, ESPECIALLY when Enya was talking about her therapist ugh you have no idea how much this episode meant to me. I truly love you guys and this podcast so fucking much, yall have helped me more than you can ever know, so thank you
yall just never miss with these podcasts and i luv them so much that i fear the day its taken away, ill be missing a piece of my sanity
You guys don’t understand how fucking much i relate to what you guys are saying and opening up about. I have struggled with the exact same feelings/experiences like these for years and to see the people i look up to talk about the same things is so liberating. I’ve always known you guys have struggled with some sort of mental health issues, but never really got to hear about these parts of it. i almost teared up i’m not gonna lie 🤪 The amount of times i screamed “exactly! yes!” to my phone: embarrassing. You guys are so fucking special. I’ve been in therapy for a few weeks now for the first time in years, and now I know how to finally say what I’ve been meaning to say. Favorite episode yet. I love y’all freaks ❤️
This episode is really making me consider going back to my therapist cause the way they spot really hit my soul and honestly the way I’ve been feeling for a long time
the friend group talk was so comforting as a college freshman … and the fact that i did grow up watching y’all like i see enya as the cool older sister senior in terms of age 😭
I love them so much literally listening to someone else explain their depression while laughing at it but also saying very deep and sad thoughts that everyone go through makes me feel SOOOO much better. Like ok queen. Thank you guys literally I listen to y’all everyday while I’m working and it literally gives me motivation to actually go to work and not stay in bed. So thank you guys Fr. I really love y’all 😂😂😂😭
u guys are so smart the depression talk is so relatable but like in the best way ty for sharing
i genuinely look forward to this podcast every week. i listen to this shit during class and its so comforting and entertaining. i appreciate yall so much and im so glad ive grown up with you two :) love yall sm
yall are actual gods for this i feel like im going through the same things as you guys. this rly helped me
this podcast has brought be a different kind of joy i didnt know i needed right now
i genuinely love when you guys talk about your mental health. it’s not even like “i like knowing that i’m not alone” bc ik i’m not but like i have pretty bad add and like my mental health has such high highs and low lows and like i lowkey think i’m bipolar bc my mood changes so quickly literally everyday and it’s just so exhausting. like it’s so nice to finally see a celebrity or someone of ur status not sugar coat mental health issues and actually talk about how it fucking sucks and genuinely ruins ur life and perception of yourself instead of just the romanticized painting of it. idk if what i said makes any sense but just know everyone appreciates it so much when you are real about mental health.
I love this episode so much. Y’all are the only people I want to sit here and listen to talk deeply about mental health. Thank you for always being so comforting whether it’s a serious topic or the two of you verbally abusing each other ❤️
This podcast makes my week :,) hugs from the Netherlands
this is the best one you guys have done so far i love how open y’all were
This podcast is a menace to therapists all over the world.
idk as someone who has grown up with you guys it’s so comforting to know that although you’re in a position that i’d like to maybe be in you both still go through the same things i experience. listening to you both get deep kinda lessens that disconnect that is felt w a lot of influencers/social media personalities especially over the past 2 years. also enya absolutely deserves her flowers when it comes to style influence and it may take a second but i definitely see y’all hosting the vmas if award shows don’t become obsolete within the next couple of years. i love you guys and i’m so proud you two have been so consistent with this!!! i look forward to having y’all be part of my stimulation trifecta every week.
thank y'all so much. y'all are literally my best friends.
have been going through a tough time and hearing some of the things yall said is so reassuring! its so comforting knowing its not just me... so much love for u guys & this podcast!
okay i completely relate to this. ive been pretty depressed for a few months and it’s so hard for me to do more than the bare minimum for me and hearing you guys talk about it makes it better. i’m late to it bc again all i do is school and watch some yt and it’s hard for me to sit down and watch this long of a video even just listening is hard but today i decided to listen and i’m so happy i did. i think this is my favorite episode because i needed this. thank you guys you genuinely help me so much
I swear this podcast makes me so happy
Omg every new episode brings me joy
I hope yall know how important this podcast is. maybe not to everyone ever but at least to me. I seriously related to everything you said and it made me feel way less alienated and abnormal. This podcast means the world to me and it truly is the best part of my week. I love listening to your humor and simultaneously appreciating the deep conversations that feel like therapy and they truly are helping me heal. I won't trauma dump in a comment section but fr. I deadass love yall so much
listening to this while i’m driving makes me feel like i am your uber driver and i’m not going to speak. love it ❤️
this is exactly how i feel it feels good to know other ppl can relate and understand
I’m so glad they had this talk. Really needed to know I’m not the only one feeling this way