I think you need to understand that sacrifice is part of achieving success many times . Leaving baby Franco with your parents to go get business done and eventually grow more in your careers is part of that sacrifice. Ya'll are blessed ... Love you guys
Ouh God!!! Honestly this video was the most funniest ever!!! LOL Rat Dog🥺🥺🥺🥺 Awww.... I think que con el tiempo vas a querer que cresca tu familia. Maybe one more... I have 2 daughters (13 & 11) and I feel that's enough. Se acompañan, pelean, se cuidan, se aman!💖
My 3 kids are 4-5 years apart. It worked out perfectly fine with me gave each kid the attention they deserved in the baby stage. And u definitely need to give them a sibling Atleast one
It gets easier guys trust me as soon as they walk and potty train you can get things done and they can eat so when your mom takes care of him its no big deal but i do recomend tohave your kids now because its tough to start all the way back to 0 with a newborn and they will grow up together and play with each other too ♥️
Yeah my son is turning three and I definitely want one more so that he’s not lonely has someone to kinda relate to or to talk to other than his dad and I
In regards to not wanting another baby I can relate to how you feel Blanca. But I think my mind was more set on No More when she was small like Franco. My baby is now 8 months and I am barely acknowledging the idea of a sibling for her in the future. It is really hard and to think of having to take care of two kids is scary. But with time you’ll both know when and if you want a second baby.
The topic of having kids,let me begin with saying; you will never be ready to have the first baby and you will never feel ready to have the second one so forth and so on. It took me 8 years to finally have my 2nd baby. Everyone is going to ask of when’s the second one coming and what not but only you and Jonathan are going to know if you do or don’t want another one. You guys seem to be a very understanding couple with each other . Being a parent is beyond a full time job , when they are sick you’re the nurse, when they are hungry you’re the cook, you’re everything in the book for them. Some people can handle 3,4,or 5 kids and then there’s others that just see themselves with one and very happy . With that being said everyone’s walk of life is different and not everyone wants more kids or any 🤷🏼♀️
i grew up being an only child and i got everything i wanted and more but i always dreamed of having a little brother / sister , i would beg my parents to have one more. I never had any cousins or family so it was just my parents and i , so all honesty i did get lonely especially because friends come and go it is really hard to find genuine friends . There was a lot of people at school that had siblings and they were really close .I have 1 daughter now and i always knew i wanted at least 2 kids . The newborn phase was so hard because her colic was severe & i didn’t think i would make it through. We are passed that now and i still have my heart set on 1 more because of the fact she will always have someone she can be close to. But nonetheless it will not be easy , having a baby is very hard and i think a lot of people do sugarcoat it . You have to do what you feel in your heart and stick with that , everyone situation is different so we can’t compare but it is so easy to with all the social media 😢❤️
Girl iam the same i feel i just want one baby …. My boy is 8 years old and i feel im good with just one but my mom says “que no sea egoista sin darle un hermano porque que tal si un dia no estas tan siquiera no va estar solo tendra a su hermano “ & its true because i do have sisters and its beautiful to have that bond but still i dont feel like another baby
OMG I LOVE ❤️ YOU GUYS SO Much I enjoy 😊 all this !!! You guys should record a video of calling some of our subscribers ❤️❤️Baby Franco so adorable 🥰 love all you guys
I personally have one child n my BIGGEST fear is my baby being alone n having no1 after I leave this world. The only reason I don't have more kids is because I couldn't but being an only child can be very lonely especially when ur parents pass. It's not about the now but the future. My baby tells me it wished it had siblings.
Im 29 years old I had my first son at 26 now two years later I’m pregnant with my second child so basically 2/3 years took me to have my second child I always said quiero q se lleven por 2 años max so they can get along better.
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Have kids when you want to not when you feel pressured by others. Im a stay at home mom but I don’t have family or friends helping us. Its just my partner and I. So since I don’t have a village and more then two hands i decided not to have more babies. I’m a very hands on parent and it’s hard having time for everything. Children don’t just need materialistic objects they need a lot of attention.
Personally, I wouldn’t have kids so my kids can have “someone” to grow up with. There are so many factors that need to be considered when having a child & expanding your family. I’m in the same boat, I was working from home while raising my son & now getting my PhD and continuing to be super hands on. I realize now how much harder it is to have children, while working at home & also affording them if you want them to be involved with things or potentially go to college. It only gets harder the more kids involved and the more they grow up wanting cellphones, cars, etc. At the end of the day you both will find a right time & will realize when you want to expand your family even more. But don’t feel discouraged if right now you want to enjoy your son and figuring a balance with your job. You both are doing amazing!
My dad always told me be thankful and take all the opportunities this country has to offer you cause they didn’t have it growing up they left everything to give us something better
My suegra (rip) had 13 pregnancies. Lost one when he was like 4yrs old. That’s only I know she lost. Todos se los trajo seguditos. The Oldest is like 40yrs old and the younger are twins are 19 yrs.
The way you feel about Les and Alex is the way my husband and I feel about you guys 😩 we always tell ourselves one days because we love you guys so much 💖 one day we will be friends
Am a mom of 3 I have 2 daughters who are 17 and 16 and I have little boy who is 3 years old my girls are one year a part . But my mom had 2 kids me and my sister who are 5 years a part so everyone is different
I just had my second baby, he’s 3 months and I have a 4 year old and god knows how much I struggle. Unfortunately we live in a toxic home with my suegra, but we spend every day at my moms house and get so much help from her, my stepdad and older siblings and I still struggle being a mom to two. I never know if I’m showing more love or more affection to one or the other and I literally cry every night of how overwhelmed I am. My mom always told me, “ one is one, two is twenty” definitely something you have to think about. I love you guys so much, and love how real you guys are!❤️
Oh my goshhh I’m so excited for the new merch!! I have the pink hoody from spill the beans when it just used to be you guys and ozzo I’m so happy you guys are growing and thank you guys for always being so real have a good weekend💗
I love you guys so much and I think your podcast is so real and raw. I am a first time mom during Covid and the first six months I was like I’m never going to have another child my child is going to be three years in four months and I wish I would’ve had a second child a year after I had her because now things would’ve been easier. But having a baby it’s not hard I wish I had the amount of support you had and it would’ve made it 110% easier but looking back at a newborn stage it’s like I want that.
But everybody has different struggles for you and might be emotionally for someone else and be financially for someone else mind me spiritually. But everybody has different struggles when it comes to parenting. Like some of other might have the struggle of the relationship they’re in they want to have a child or another child but the partner their way has been giving them a hard time you see what I’m saying.
my sister got pregnant young, my nephew is now 4 about to 5 year olds. All our family feels really bad for him since he has no one to play with, interact with, and we feel it is bc of his lack of communication and time he spends alone on his tablet that his speech has been delayed. His mom is not planning on having another baby bc she is not financially stable. It’s not her being greedy, it’s just the sad truth. She can’t afford to have another baby bc she is not ready emotionally, financially, or physically. Point is no se sientan mal al no querer más hijos. Cada quien está en una distinta situación. Si es que su vida se presta para tener otro hijo then go for it, but at the end of the day choose what YOU want and what YOU think is best since it will be YOUR responsibility once u bring another little human to this world. love u guys
The hardest part about being a mom is when you’re kid gets sick . Especially when you’re sick as well .. my son starting to teeth at 3 months and also got really sick and it was one of the hardest moments especially when you have to do things around the house
Im currently 23 weeks pregnant with a almost two year old. When she was born I didn’t want anymore babies, I did know I wanted one more but I wasn’t sure when. When she was 1 1/2 something in me changed. My toddler still depends on me 100% but something in me wants to give her a sibling. So I’m pregnant now with my last baby. Parents know best if you feel like Franco needs a sibling then why not. But if you guys don’t want another then don’t. At the end of the day you as parents go though it. Not grandma, not uncle, not anybody else but you the parents. My mom was a little disappointed when I told her I was pregnant “you don’t realize that having a baby is hard, your gonna suffer, etc” I obviously know that my toddler isn’t easy and I for sure know the second won’t. Being a mom is hard in general, and I know that with having another kid and being a stay at home mom makes it harder but it’s all worth it. I always wanted to be a mom I’m a nurturing person. I love taking care of people. Don’t feel guilty for not wanting another one, si dios te manda uno que bien y si no pues igual está bien. Don’t stress over just go with the flow. 🥰
You're too fresh off the boat to think about another one.. Sincd you went from doing all you wanted to having a baby, ypur instint says nooo no more, but as time passes it'll get easier and that baby will be gone, and you wont mind doing it again... Yes I love sleep too but its all worth it and wont last forever.. so later on think of sibiling.. its not forever remember that!
I can completely relate with Blanca. I don’t think I ever “wanted” to be a mom. & now i am a mom of two and wouldn’t change it for anything in the world. I love my babies. Todo a su tiempo. Always give yourself time. Enjoy your babies. Everything happens when it needs to happen! 💕🌿
Hii guys lysm!❤️ I feel like ur mind rn is Franco and everything him.... but ik 5hat time will come where when his like around 2 urgonna notice that he maybe needs a siblings just because ur gonna find him be happy or excited when he see's other babies. It's totally normal to not think of a 2nd baby at all because of all that energy that ur putting into ur first baby and others and yourself as well. Just know that ur doing it so Amazing and I'm so happy that u have all those feelings and thoughts about it all.👏🏼 😊🥰🥲❤️ really makes u stand out, not all moms give their all to the family😪
I love your guys podcast and you guys are wonderful parents always praying for you guys you’re my number one TH-camrs I enjoy every day you guys post and I love your podcast and I love you guys always praying for you guys and Franco be safe and I hope you have a good week I love you guys.😊❤️🙏
Yo soy de Tijuana pero vivo en Estados Unidos hace 4 años conocí el rancho donde mi mamá nació. La gente era muy pobre y muy humilde pero muy feliz. Me acuerdo que ese día llore mucho y le dije a mi mamá la gente que menos tiene es más feliz. También nos invitaban los del rancho a comer con ellos y así zero egoístas. Me encanta Mexico, can’t wait for more vlogs in Mexico. You guys should go to Cancun for sure 💙
About the kid thing u are completely fine Iam 32 and Iam done with 2 it took me 6 yrs to try and have another one !!! Idk I love my kids but Iam not a person who would want more kids I give my all to the ones I have but Iam not in no means a kid person !!!
In my opinion maybe just one more child. God willing you get a girl and you get the pair but if you have another boy just perfect Franco has a brother. My first child is a girl, and I knew I wanted a second child to be a girl because I have a sister close in age and we went through life together no one will understand me but my sister because we grew up together. I didn’t plan to get pregnant immediately but it did happen and I had my 2nd child who is a girl and now that I’m not with their father and there’s been so much going on in our lives they have each other to protect each on and understand each other because they grew up together. I waited 4 years after to get pregnant with my 3rd child and my girls were 4/5 years old and it was a good age to bring another child because they both were in school and I had my son. 💓💓💙 I wouldn’t wait until my kid is 6-10 years old to have a another child because then you have to start over lol I know ppl who do but my preference is might as well get all the bottles, diapers, day care, the toddler out the way together. It is hard having kids back to back 1 year apart but it’s so worth it when they get older. My girls are now teens 13/14 years old and my son will be 9 and I’m a young mom with kids that old enough and now I have my sleep back 😆 no way I’m starting over again and giving up my sleep again but DAY CARE is the main reason why I so done… not only is it expensive but you just can’t trust no one now in days. Love y’all JJJ 🥰💙💓💙
You guy's should do a editing contest pick a winner with all your friends. Editing is time consuming! Just remember MySpace times lol with lining up your top friends, music list. Background! Lol
When I had my first baby I remember I was ready for baby number 2 and as soon as my first turned 1 we started trying for baby number 2. Ones baby number 2 came(she is about to be two now and has been such a good baby) my husband and I just knew that we didn’t want any more. We’re done with kids and are happy to have one boy and one girl. So if your feeling like this is it then maybe it just is and it’s ok to just want one baby 💖
Blessings to The both of you and your Baby boy.. May your lives be blessed always and forever. This is a new place for me to come to hear testimonials and learn from others experiences. Your experience, going to Mexico and returning Humble....it is true I had an experience when I was 7yrs meeting my adopted father's family and to live without the major necessities for 3 months, not having what we have in the USA. It made me appreciate my life and those who do not have have what we have. Blessings to all of your who read this. Be real at all times. Live life to the fullest.
I always dreamed of being a mom but after having my son, I realized very early on that he would be the only one. It’s so much harder than people make it seem to be a parent and such a huge responsibility for your whole life. He’s 3 years old now and I still feel like he’s going to be an only child. There’s such a stigma about having only one child and it sucks and it makes you feel pressured to have more.
This is how exactly how I feel to , my boyfriend wants more. When I say no he gets mad bc he doesn’t want our son to be alone and I get it but being pregnant isn’t easy and then go though post partum recovery is the hardest 😩. My baby just turned a month old and I told myself no more kids this isn’t for me , Iam happy and blessed being a mom of one child .
I’m a ride die for you guys been here for awhile these podcasts are amazing I absolutely love how real and straight out you are. Keep it up sending you guys love and prayers ❤️🙏🏼 btw I’m from Durango too 😈
Yo tengo 4 hijos el primero lo tuve dos meses antes d mis 16 y ahora tengo 27 y tengo 4 ahora yo pienso k si es muy difícil tener hijos y cuidarlos pero yo pienso k todo lo k asemos va a valer la pena cuando los veamos grandes y buenas personas solo tengo una sola niña y kisiera otra niña mi niño tiene 2 años y mi mamá siempre a dicho k los más mejor es tener otro cuando el niño ya tenga 3 pork ya no se te va Aser tan difícil para cuidar otro más chikito y entre más esperas también es más difícil pork te acostumbras ak los niños ya casi asen todo solitos.
How exciting!!! I’ve been following spill the beans since you guys first started and its been an inspiration for me to start my own 🥺♥️ I hope one day I can meet you guys and we become great friends since we live so close!!
Since I can remember, I pictured myself having 6+ kids, I wanted triplets and twins and now that I have my 1 month old I don’t see that happening. Being a stay at home mom is hard, my baby is a great baby, it’s just the other things I need to do, I cook, clean, take care of my dogs, thankfully right now my Dad has been me and taking them to the park everyday for me so to la cuarentena. Being home makes me sad, it’s mentally draining. I miss going taking my fur babies to the park. Things got hard for me my first week postpartum, I haven’t been producing enough milk, which led me to formula. I’ve been going through depression due to this, I plan is to breastfeed exclusively and that fact that I’m not able to breaks my heart. I tell my husband that I’m sad and I’ll never be happy again, theirs just this part of me as a mother that has not been fulfilled.
I always tell any friends or family the hardest part of having kids is mental I feel like after I had my boys I was and am never worry free ever again so yes it’s so hard it’s not just you guys thank you for being so honest and I don’t want to be negative but as they grow I think it gets harder and harder
My dad has been away from siblings for 22 years now.. & his brother just passed away. He was unable to see him again alive & he was not even able to go see him at his funeral. Dios quiere muy pronto lo dejen ir a ver a los demás 🙏🏽
Hay guys, I’m hispano y soy su seguidor, pero no planeen los hijos, y vivan su vida normal , porque cuando llegan los bebés son bendiciones .,saludos love you guys 👏👏👍
A little late but your normal I waited 5 years to have my next baby and I actually got pregnant the second time with twins 🙏💕 so God's timing is everything is okay to wait if your not ready to add additions, enjoy them being little 🥰 I honestly think you will know once ur ready
I am a stay at home mom and it is hard but, I would hate to have to go back to work and leave my baby at a day care. I think both jobs are hard but In my opinion it’s harder to be a working mom because when you come home you have 3-4 hrs to rush dinner, play time, bath time and bed time. I have all day to clean, make dinner, and spend all day with my baby.
It all depends each couple, I had my first baby girl at 17 yrs now she is almost 13 yrs, I wished she had a sibling when she was like 5-7. Also I am the only child and it sucks. Recently this year God surprise us with an ANGEL BABY. I had a miscarriage and it has been the hardest thing everrr
Wish you guys a relaxing weekend 💗 orita no se preocupen por el segundo o tercero 🤪 disfruten todas las etapas de franco y también su matrimonio hagan contenido creando good memories entre ustedes 3❤️
The same thing happened with my dad. My grandma passed away last year and hearing him cry so loudly in his room when he found out really broke my heart. Especially knowing he never got to hug her one last time. :(
You guys are very mature , I think because you love and hav dogs you already hav big family,lol do what makes your family healthy & whole.. plz no shade be careful on advice you give to girl with boyfriend who left her inside , wise to talk with him sure but not humiliate him in front of ppl that could go so wrong and not help, mabe pray 🙏 first and ask Lord for guidance and her boyfriend to grow up and hav desire to want her to be around or mabe he needs break .
Love you guys!! Honestly my kids are 13 months apart and it can get super crazy. I would have been happy with just 1 child but i will always be grateful and blessed for my 2nd. Everything overall gets harder after having kids. I would wait until your 1st is atleast in school and more independent.
My MIL pass away In February. I had 1 brother in law tenía como 22 years sin verla. He came 🇺🇸 when he was like 16-17. For him was un golpe grande . Mis otros cuñados tienen between 5yrs - 3 months Aki en 🇺🇸 cuando falleció mi suegra. They all took it different. Was so hard for me. I had to be strong for them. Me hablan llorando y se desahogaban conmigo. I had lost my mother when I was a kid. They know I knew there pain.
That Mexico 🇲🇽 Vlog Made Me So Emotional 😭 The Fact That Blanca Said That Trip Humbled Her When She's Already Humble 🥺 I'm About To Go Visit My Grandparents This Summer And I Can't Wait To See Them Again ❤️
Good morning!..great video!..but listen never will ever change of how poorly ppl are living there, I'm much older than you guys, and I can recall going to Monterrey, Mex every Xmas to visit relatives, but kids in the streets with no shoes, trying to make $$$ to eat..a memory that remains in my heart...so yeah I'm very humble!
🥺🥺 the part were your dad wasn’t able to see his mom 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 my heart always breaks when I hear everyone’s stories about not being able to go back 🥺🥺
I LOVEEEEE THE ADVICE Jonathan gave the girl 🥹😭😭😭♥️
Cant wait till yall meet Les and Vlex and baby G 🥺❤️❤️❤️
I think you need to understand that sacrifice is part of achieving success many times . Leaving baby Franco with your parents to go get business done and eventually grow more in your careers is part of that sacrifice. Ya'll are blessed ... Love you guys
Ouh God!!! Honestly this video was the most funniest ever!!! LOL Rat Dog🥺🥺🥺🥺 Awww....
I think que con el tiempo vas a querer que cresca tu familia. Maybe one more... I have 2 daughters (13 & 11) and I feel that's enough. Se acompañan, pelean, se cuidan, se aman!💖
My 3 kids are 4-5 years apart. It worked out perfectly fine with me gave each kid the attention they deserved in the baby stage. And u definitely need to give them a sibling Atleast one
It gets easier guys trust me as soon as they walk and potty train you can get things done and they can eat so when your mom takes care of him its no big deal but i do recomend tohave your kids now because its tough to start all the way back to 0 with a newborn and they will grow up together and play with each other too ♥️
Cant wait for the merch 💕💕💕💕love you guyss
I feel like once you have one kid your nerves are already WILDIN that the second one doesn’t hurt 🤣
Yeah my son is turning three and I definitely want one more so that he’s not lonely has someone to kinda relate to or to talk to other than his dad and I
Yayyy I’ve been waiting for you to upload on Spotify 😭😭
Random question where did you get your phone case? I love it 🥰
In regards to not wanting another baby I can relate to how you feel Blanca. But I think my mind was more set on No More when she was small like Franco. My baby is now 8 months and I am barely acknowledging the idea of a sibling for her in the future. It is really hard and to think of having to take care of two kids is scary. But with time you’ll both know when and if you want a second baby.
You guys are coming to LA to hangout with Stacey 👀💃🏻
Yay I’ve been waiting for merch 🙌🏼😊
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Is that shy Cabeza de bolitocha 😂🤎
thank you for always amplifying the voices of our marginalized communities
Really enjoyed this episode!
thank you! ❤️
Will you be doing your adjustment of status since you have that legal entry ?
It’s crazy how johnathan is from San Luis del Cordero my Tia is presidenta municipal from San Luis del Cordero 💛
The topic of having kids,let me begin with saying; you will never be ready to have the first baby and you will never feel ready to have the second one so forth and so on. It took me 8 years to finally have my 2nd baby. Everyone is going to ask of when’s the second one coming and what not but only you and Jonathan are going to know if you do or don’t want another one. You guys seem to be a very understanding couple with each other . Being a parent is beyond a full time job , when they are sick you’re the nurse, when they are hungry you’re the cook, you’re everything in the book for them. Some people can handle 3,4,or 5 kids and then there’s others that just see themselves with one and very happy . With that being said everyone’s walk of life is different and not everyone wants more kids or any 🤷🏼♀️
it’s so funny bcs i remember THAT VLOG OF YOU doing night care routine 😂😂😂
Girl the beginning made me so emotional 😭
i grew up being an only child and i got everything i wanted and more but i always dreamed of having a little brother / sister , i would beg my parents to have one more. I never had any cousins or family so it was just my parents and i , so all honesty i did get lonely especially because friends come and go it is really hard to find genuine friends . There was a lot of people at school that had siblings and they were really close .I have 1 daughter now and i always knew i wanted at least 2 kids . The newborn phase was so hard because her colic was severe & i didn’t think i would make it through. We are passed that now and i still have my heart set on 1 more because of the fact she will always have someone she can be close to. But nonetheless it will not be easy , having a baby is very hard and i think a lot of people do sugarcoat it . You have to do what you feel in your heart and stick with that , everyone situation is different so we can’t compare but it is so easy to with all the social media 😢❤️
Jonathan: “Y la suegra Naca que?” 😂😂😭😭💀💀 hahaha I love it
Girl iam the same i feel i just want one baby …. My boy is 8 years old and i feel im good with just one but my mom says “que no sea egoista sin darle un hermano porque que tal si un dia no estas tan siquiera no va estar solo tendra a su hermano “ & its true because i do have sisters and its beautiful to have that bond but still i dont feel like another baby
Thank you for shedding light to the situation in mexico, going to mexico is very humbling
OMG I LOVE ❤️ YOU GUYS SO Much I enjoy 😊 all this !!! You guys should record a video of calling some of our subscribers ❤️❤️Baby Franco so adorable 🥰 love all you guys
I personally have one child n my BIGGEST fear is my baby being alone n having no1 after I leave this world. The only reason I don't have more kids is because I couldn't but being an only child can be very lonely especially when ur parents pass. It's not about the now but the future. My baby tells me it wished it had siblings.
mi papi hasnt been back in 27 years y mi mami en casi 21. my heart breaks so much for them. 💔
So excited for Merch!!
WAAAAAA 😩😫
Porque no me los vi!!!! Regresen
Loved this podcast🥳
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Im 29 years old I had my first son at 26 now two years later I’m pregnant with my second child so basically 2/3 years took me to have my second child I always said quiero q se lleven por 2 años max so they can get along better.
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awsome podcast!
question, where is the couch you're on from?
big lots lol
Are still on Spotify?? I can’t find y’all 😭
Can y'all talk about how/ why a brand deal can take up to a day to have ready? Thx
Have kids when you want to not when you feel pressured by others. Im a stay at home mom but I don’t have family or friends helping us. Its just my partner and I. So since I don’t have a village and more then two hands i decided not to have more babies. I’m a very hands on parent and it’s hard having time for everything. Children don’t just need materialistic objects they need a lot of attention.
Personally, I wouldn’t have kids so my kids can have “someone” to grow up with. There are so many factors that need to be considered when having a child & expanding your family. I’m in the same boat, I was working from home while raising my son & now getting my PhD and continuing to be super hands on. I realize now how much harder it is to have children, while working at home & also affording them if you want them to be involved with things or potentially go to college. It only gets harder the more kids involved and the more they grow up wanting cellphones, cars, etc.
At the end of the day you both will find a right time & will realize when you want to expand your family even more. But don’t feel discouraged if right now you want to enjoy your son and figuring a balance with your job. You both are doing amazing!
My dad always told me be thankful and take all the opportunities this country has to offer you cause they didn’t have it growing up they left everything to give us something better
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My Friday is definitely made!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🎉🎉
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This podcast was it !! I loved today’s episode!
I am literally using my spill the beans podcast merch 💕 it was the first merch and last merch I bought lol 😆
WOW! you’re the best 😭❤️
My suegra (rip) had 13 pregnancies. Lost one when he was like 4yrs old. That’s only I know she lost. Todos se los trajo seguditos. The Oldest is like 40yrs old and the younger are twins are 19 yrs.
The way you feel about Les and Alex is the way my husband and I feel about you guys 😩 we always tell ourselves one days because we love you guys so much 💖 one day we will be friends
"Y la suegra naca que?!?"
That part had me deaddd! Lol. 🤣
I was watching this on my break earlier on 2x speed to be able to hear all of it 💔💔
Am a mom of 3 I have 2 daughters who are 17 and 16 and I have little boy who is 3 years old my girls are one year a part . But my mom had 2 kids me and my sister who are 5 years a part so everyone is different
Totally agree with the dog situation heart breaking
So excited for new merch !! I would’ve love it for Mother’s Day … hopefully next year ! 🤍
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Damn I remember flights to LA were always like 60 bucks or 45 bucks I've flown down there for
I just had my second baby, he’s 3 months and I have a 4 year old and god knows how much I struggle. Unfortunately we live in a toxic home with my suegra, but we spend every day at my moms house and get so much help from her, my stepdad and older siblings and I still struggle being a mom to two. I never know if I’m showing more love or more affection to one or the other and I literally cry every night of how overwhelmed I am.
My mom always told me, “ one is one, two is twenty” definitely something you have to think about.
I love you guys so much, and love how real you guys are!❤️
I missed seeing ozzo & chai 😍😭 please don’t forget about them! 🥰
Oh my goshhh I’m so excited for the new merch!! I have the pink hoody from spill the beans when it just used to be you guys and ozzo I’m so happy you guys are growing and thank you guys for always being so real have a good weekend💗
thank you so much Sara😭❤️
I love you guys so much and I think your podcast is so real and raw. I am a first time mom during Covid and the first six months I was like I’m never going to have another child my child is going to be three years in four months and I wish I would’ve had a second child a year after I had her because now things would’ve been easier. But having a baby it’s not hard I wish I had the amount of support you had and it would’ve made it 110% easier but looking back at a newborn stage it’s like I want that.
But everybody has different struggles for you and might be emotionally for someone else and be financially for someone else mind me spiritually. But everybody has different struggles when it comes to parenting. Like some of other might have the struggle of the relationship they’re in they want to have a child or another child but the partner their way has been giving them a hard time you see what I’m saying.
my sister got pregnant young, my nephew is now 4 about to 5 year olds. All our family feels really bad for him since he has no one to play with, interact with, and we feel it is bc of his lack of communication and time he spends alone on his tablet that his speech has been delayed. His mom is not planning on having another baby bc she is not financially stable. It’s not her being greedy, it’s just the sad truth. She can’t afford to have another baby bc she is not ready emotionally, financially, or physically. Point is no se sientan mal al no querer más hijos. Cada quien está en una distinta situación. Si es que su vida se presta para tener otro hijo then go for it, but at the end of the day choose what YOU want and what YOU think is best since it will be YOUR responsibility once u bring another little human to this world. love u guys
The hardest part about being a mom is when you’re kid gets sick . Especially when you’re sick as well .. my son starting to teeth at 3 months and also got really sick and it was one of the hardest moments especially when you have to do things around the house
Literally the only podcast I enjoy/love to watch & I can't wait for the merch 💖
I think it is a popping state but Denver not so much where you guys live. ❤ love you guys
Im currently 23 weeks pregnant with a almost two year old. When she was born I didn’t want anymore babies, I did know I wanted one more but I wasn’t sure when. When she was 1 1/2 something in me changed. My toddler still depends on me 100% but something in me wants to give her a sibling. So I’m pregnant now with my last baby. Parents know best if you feel like Franco needs a sibling then why not. But if you guys don’t want another then don’t. At the end of the day you as parents go though it. Not grandma, not uncle, not anybody else but you the parents. My mom was a little disappointed when I told her I was pregnant “you don’t realize that having a baby is hard, your gonna suffer, etc” I obviously know that my toddler isn’t easy and I for sure know the second won’t. Being a mom is hard in general, and I know that with having another kid and being a stay at home mom makes it harder but it’s all worth it. I always wanted to be a mom I’m a nurturing person. I love taking care of people. Don’t feel guilty for not wanting another one, si dios te manda uno que bien y si no pues igual está bien. Don’t stress over just go with the flow. 🥰
You're too fresh off the boat to think about another one.. Sincd you went from doing all you wanted to having a baby, ypur instint says nooo no more, but as time passes it'll get easier and that baby will be gone, and you wont mind doing it again... Yes I love sleep too but its all worth it and wont last forever.. so later on think of sibiling.. its not forever remember that!
I can completely relate with Blanca. I don’t think I ever “wanted” to be a mom. & now i am a mom of two and wouldn’t change it for anything in the world. I love my babies. Todo a su tiempo. Always give yourself time. Enjoy your babies. Everything happens when it needs to happen! 💕🌿
Hii guys lysm!❤️ I feel like ur mind rn is Franco and everything him.... but ik 5hat time will come where when his like around 2 urgonna notice that he maybe needs a siblings just because ur gonna find him be happy or excited when he see's other babies. It's totally normal to not think of a 2nd baby at all because of all that energy that ur putting into ur first baby and others and yourself as well. Just know that ur doing it so Amazing and I'm so happy that u have all those feelings and thoughts about it all.👏🏼 😊🥰🥲❤️ really makes u stand out, not all moms give their all to the family😪
I love your guys podcast and you guys are wonderful parents always praying for you guys you’re my number one TH-camrs I enjoy every day you guys post and I love your podcast and I love you guys always praying for you guys and Franco be safe and I hope you have a good week I love you guys.😊❤️🙏
Yo soy de Tijuana pero vivo en Estados Unidos hace 4 años conocí el rancho donde mi mamá nació. La gente era muy pobre y muy humilde pero muy feliz. Me acuerdo que ese día llore mucho y le dije a mi mamá la gente que menos tiene es más feliz. También nos invitaban los del rancho a comer con ellos y así zero egoístas. Me encanta Mexico, can’t wait for more vlogs in Mexico. You guys should go to Cancun for sure 💙
Stacy Diaz’s bachelorette brunch!!!!?
We need an update podcast with Jonathans mom. Let her give her point of view with some of these emails 🙏🙏
Simply gorgeous 😍
About the kid thing u are completely fine Iam 32 and Iam done with 2 it took me 6 yrs to try and have another one !!! Idk I love my kids but Iam not a person who would want more kids I give my all to the ones I have but Iam not in no means a kid person !!!
We also have 2. A boy and a girl, we have the best of both worlds, we dont need anymore😁
In my opinion maybe just one more child. God willing you get a girl and you get the pair but if you have another boy just perfect Franco has a brother. My first child is a girl, and I knew I wanted a second child to be a girl because I have a sister close in age and we went through life together no one will understand me but my sister because we grew up together. I didn’t plan to get pregnant immediately but it did happen and I had my 2nd child who is a girl and now that I’m not with their father and there’s been so much going on in our lives they have each other to protect each on and understand each other because they grew up together. I waited 4 years after to get pregnant with my 3rd child and my girls were 4/5 years old and it was a good age to bring another child because they both were in school and I had my son. 💓💓💙 I wouldn’t wait until my kid is 6-10 years old to have a another child because then you have to start over lol I know ppl who do but my preference is might as well get all the bottles, diapers, day care, the toddler out the way together. It is hard having kids back to back 1 year apart but it’s so worth it when they get older. My girls are now teens 13/14 years old and my son will be 9 and I’m a young mom with kids that old enough and now I have my sleep back 😆 no way I’m starting over again and giving up my sleep again but DAY CARE is the main reason why I so done… not only is it expensive but you just can’t trust no one now in days.
Love y’all JJJ 🥰💙💓💙
I loved this podcast :) can't wait for next week podcast. You guys are going to cali for Oakley 1st birthday :)
I feel like that trip you guys were talking about is going to LA for Oakley’s First birthday party 🤫🥳
You guy's should do a editing contest pick a winner with all your friends.
Editing is time consuming! Just remember MySpace times lol with lining up your top friends, music list. Background! Lol
When I had my first baby I remember I was ready for baby number 2 and as soon as my first turned 1 we started trying for baby number 2.
Ones baby number 2 came(she is about to be two now and has been such a good baby) my husband and I just knew that we didn’t want any more. We’re done with kids and are happy to have one boy and one girl.
So if your feeling like this is it then maybe it just is and it’s ok to just want one baby 💖
Simply gorgeous 😍
Im calling it - if they go to Oakleys birthday party next week they will meet Les 🙏🏼 this is their year and I am so here for it!!! 💜💜✨
Blessings to The both of you and your Baby boy.. May your lives be blessed always and forever. This is a new place for me to come to hear testimonials and learn from others experiences. Your experience, going to Mexico and returning Humble....it is true I had an experience when I was 7yrs meeting my adopted father's family and to live without the major necessities for 3 months, not having what we have in the USA. It made me appreciate my life and those who do not have have what we have. Blessings to all of your who read this. Be real at all times. Live life to the fullest.
Who is Oakley?
She did!!
@@carinaGdiaz Laura Mellados baby boy
I for sure have to get some merch of Spill the Beans 😁😁 love you guys !!! 🥰
I always dreamed of being a mom but after having my son, I realized very early on that he would be the only one. It’s so much harder than people make it seem to be a parent and such a huge responsibility for your whole life. He’s 3 years old now and I still feel like he’s going to be an only child. There’s such a stigma about having only one child and it sucks and it makes you feel pressured to have more.
Simply gorgeous 😍
This is how exactly how I feel to , my boyfriend wants more. When I say no he gets mad bc he doesn’t want our son to be alone and I get it but being pregnant isn’t easy and then go though post partum recovery is the hardest 😩. My baby just turned a month old and I told myself no more kids this isn’t for me , Iam happy and blessed being a mom of one child .
I’m a ride die for you guys been here for awhile these podcasts are amazing I absolutely love how real and straight out you are. Keep it up sending you guys love and prayers ❤️🙏🏼 btw I’m from Durango too 😈
Yo tengo 4 hijos el primero lo tuve dos meses antes d mis 16 y ahora tengo 27 y tengo 4 ahora yo pienso k si es muy difícil tener hijos y cuidarlos pero yo pienso k todo lo k asemos va a valer la pena cuando los veamos grandes y buenas personas solo tengo una sola niña y kisiera otra niña mi niño tiene 2 años y mi mamá siempre a dicho k los más mejor es tener otro cuando el niño ya tenga 3 pork ya no se te va Aser tan difícil para cuidar otro más chikito y entre más esperas también es más difícil pork te acostumbras ak los niños ya casi asen todo solitos.
How exciting!!! I’ve been following spill the beans since you guys first started and its been an inspiration for me to start my own 🥺♥️ I hope one day I can meet you guys and we become great friends since we live so close!!
Since I can remember, I pictured myself having 6+ kids, I wanted triplets and twins and now that I have my 1 month old I don’t see that happening. Being a stay at home mom is hard, my baby is a great baby, it’s just the other things I need to do, I cook, clean, take care of my dogs, thankfully right now my Dad has been me and taking them to the park everyday for me so to la cuarentena.
Being home makes me sad, it’s mentally draining. I miss going taking my fur babies to the park. Things got hard for me my first week postpartum, I haven’t been producing enough milk, which led me to formula. I’ve been going through depression due to this, I plan is to breastfeed exclusively and that fact that I’m not able to breaks my heart. I tell my husband that I’m sad and I’ll never be happy again, theirs just this part of me as a mother that has not been fulfilled.
I always tell any friends or family the hardest part of having kids is mental I feel like after I had my boys I was and am never worry free ever again so yes it’s so hard it’s not just you guys thank you for being so honest and I don’t want to be negative but as they grow I think it gets harder and harder
My dad has been away from siblings for 22 years now.. & his brother just passed away. He was unable to see him again alive & he was not even able to go see him at his funeral. Dios quiere muy pronto lo dejen ir a ver a los demás 🙏🏽
Me half asleep and wishing I could go back to sleep but I gotta go to work so podcast it is ❤️ Happy Friday 👏🏻
Well we appreciate you listening 🙏🏼❤️
@@spillthebeanspodcast1760 ❤️❤️ love you guys!
I lived in Colorado for years, and I still visit my parents in Bennett. There’s literally not much to do unless your an outdoors person 🥲😂
Hay guys, I’m hispano y soy su seguidor, pero no planeen los hijos, y vivan su vida normal , porque cuando llegan los bebés son bendiciones .,saludos love you guys 👏👏👍
A little late but your normal I waited 5 years to have my next baby and I actually got pregnant the second time with twins 🙏💕 so God's timing is everything is okay to wait if your not ready to add additions, enjoy them being little 🥰 I honestly think you will know once ur ready
I am a stay at home mom and it is hard but, I would hate to have to go back to work and leave my baby at a day care. I think both jobs are hard but In my opinion it’s harder to be a working mom because when you come home you have 3-4 hrs to rush dinner, play time, bath time and bed time. I have all day to clean, make dinner, and spend all day with my baby.
It all depends each couple, I had my first baby girl at 17 yrs now she is almost 13 yrs, I wished she had a sibling when she was like 5-7. Also I am the only child and it sucks. Recently this year God surprise us with an ANGEL BABY. I had a miscarriage and it has been the hardest thing everrr
Good morning love ya guys!☀️💕💕
GOOD MORNING🌞
Wish you guys a relaxing weekend 💗 orita no se preocupen por el segundo o tercero 🤪 disfruten todas las etapas de franco y también su matrimonio hagan contenido creando good memories entre ustedes 3❤️
The same thing happened with my dad. My grandma passed away last year and hearing him cry so loudly in his room when he found out really broke my heart. Especially knowing he never got to hug her one last time. :(
You guys are very mature , I think because you love and hav dogs you already hav big family,lol do what makes your family healthy & whole.. plz no shade be careful on advice you give to girl with boyfriend who left her inside , wise to talk with him sure but not humiliate him in front of ppl that could go so wrong and not help, mabe pray 🙏 first and ask Lord for guidance and her boyfriend to grow up and hav desire to want her to be around or mabe he needs break .
Love you guys!! Honestly my kids are 13 months apart and it can get super crazy. I would have been happy with just 1 child but i will always be grateful and blessed for my 2nd. Everything overall gets harder after having kids. I would wait until your 1st is atleast in school and more independent.
I love listening to both of you! Makes my Friday that much better!!!
Simply gorgeous 😍
The real question is what happened to the couch😂 Jonathan is holding on with his leg 😂
My second child was not planned for, my son was 2 when I got pregnant again. I can now say the age gap is perfect. They have a good bond.
My MIL pass away In February. I had 1 brother in law tenía como 22 years sin verla. He came 🇺🇸 when he was like 16-17. For him was un golpe grande . Mis otros cuñados tienen between 5yrs - 3 months Aki en 🇺🇸 cuando falleció mi suegra. They all took it different. Was so hard for me. I had to be strong for them. Me hablan llorando y se desahogaban conmigo. I had lost my mother when I was a kid. They know I knew there pain.
It really is the saddest feeling ever. Both of my grandparents passed away and not being able to go.💔 my brother i have not seen him in over 17yrs
That Mexico 🇲🇽 Vlog Made Me So Emotional 😭 The Fact That Blanca Said That Trip Humbled Her When She's Already Humble 🥺 I'm About To Go Visit My Grandparents This Summer And I Can't Wait To See Them Again ❤️
Good morning!..great video!..but listen never will ever change of how poorly ppl are living there, I'm much older than you guys, and I can recall going to Monterrey, Mex every Xmas to visit relatives, but kids in the streets with no shoes, trying to make $$$ to eat..a memory that remains in my heart...so yeah I'm very humble!