I have my sister 28 yrs old Christian family.. no mother, not much relatives.. am her sister search for a groom with proper education and job but all the grooms family is asking indirect dowry.. my father is a stroke patient.. why are guys so demanding.. my sister is working good in a MNC.. still people are expecting more .. am only seraching for a good decent guy who will takecare of my sister with care as we grew up without mother and struggled much in life.. may god help 🙏
Sad to know. Your sister life is perfect example of how things still didn't change with our people's mindset. Don't worry, She will soon get married to a good person. Best wishes to your family.
love marriage is the best, parents don't stack your thoughts on son or daughter. They have their own life and right to take decisions independently, please don't spoil their individuality for your desires.
He he... - Neeya Naana is one big reason for the topic... Always talked about independent, individuality of girl.... Now girls are demanding... - I am happy to see the change ,,
2023ல் சாமுத்ரிகா லட்சணம் மாப்பிள்ளைக்கு திருமணம் முடிந்து விட்டதா. முடிந்து விட்டது என்றால் நீங்கள் எதிர் பார்த்த எத்தனை லட்சனங்கள் உங்கள் மனைவிக்கு உள்ளது, தெரியபடுத்தவும்.
this topic shld be actually very important to society but the thing is public and neeya nana team also miss to give aa exact thing wat happening in the name of marriage , wat in this shows said oly 25% they discussed but there r lot of things their , lot of grooms parents bringing a kaniyathanam style did any one discussed abt this in this show , did any discussed abt the govt shld bring a law for marriage, did any 1 discussed abt before marriage both girl n boy shld produce a blood certification , wat abt fake marriage brokers , some matrimony sites r bcom big business mind ,first marriage itself looking a business not as life , everyone shld not search a boy/girl , shld search their next life think as life n search that's important for who waiting for marriage , to vijay tv neeya naana team shld bring this topic again with exact information :)
I have been ragged by the bridesmaids fathers many times , they measured my height , verified my certificates, asked about my wealth and house , one fellow asked me to travel to Atlanta USA to see his daughter 😂
This is the power of education & financial freedom for ladies.. But it would be better if they learn basic cooking and adjust themselves to some extend in their spouse house
I agree with everything the girls' parents say But dear, if they only told me to let my daughter grow up, (ea ponnu chellama valandhurukan solravunga ponnu vendam please)I don't need her anyway
First horoscope cut shorts 70%.... Girls don't like 50% of boys... Searching limitation of location, caste filters 70%.... Education qualification filters 50%... Finally 1% of matching happens...
The conditions as laid by both parties are enigmatic & unpredictable, so it is better to advocate love marriage as it is b/ w two minds indeed tolerable to some extent of late! Simple & no reservations are advisable to join two minds.
Due to opportunities of break-up is accepted by the society many loves are happening. Due to many loves are happening many businesses are successful. So love and breakups utilising an opportunity which is encouraged by business society. All fantasy word we allow in our life which brings direct change culture and indirect growth in economy. Read it again to understand better.
அன்பான திரு. கோபிநாத் சாருக்கு இனிய தமிழ் வணக்கம். மருத்துவ ரீதியாக பொண்ணுக்கும் மாப்பிள்ளைக்கும் வயது வித்தியாசம் அதிகமாக(குறைந்தது 6 வருடம்)இருந்தால் நல்லது. இப்பொழுது இருக்கும் யுவதிகளுக்கு இது புரிவதில்லை. மாப்பிள்ளையின் நடத்தையைப் பார்க்காமல் பணம் சொத்து சாதியைப் பார்க்கிறார்கள். இது தவறு. நன்றி.
கோபி அண்ணா, பொண்ணுங்க, படிச்சா போதுமா அண்ணா, குடும்பம் நடத்த சமையல் தெரிய வேணாம்,, சரி,, படிச்சா அறிவு கிடைக்குமா,? கோபி அண்ணா? வாழ்க்கைக்கு தேவை, படிப்பு அறிவு மட்டும் போதுமா? கோபி அண்ணா??? தெளிவு வேணாமா, படிப்பை தெளிவோடு படிச்சா தான் அறிவு வரும்,, தெளிவோடு கூடிய அறிவு கொண்ட பெண்கள் மட்டுமே, படிப்ப பத்தி பேசாம, அறிவோடு குடும்பம் நடத்துவாங்க,,, பொண்ணு e mail அனுப்ப தெரிஞ்சா புத்திசாலி ஆ, கோபி அண்ணா
தெளிவான படிப்பறிவு, ego பாக்காது, படிப்பு படிப்பு படிப்பு, படிப்பு பொண்ணுக்கு தேவை தான்,, அதோட வர கர்வம், சமைக்க தெரியாது? B e படிச்சா, சமைக்க கத்துக்க கூடாதா, சத்து மாத்திரை சாப்பிட்டு வாழ வேண்டியது தான்
If the girl is B.E they prefer the same B.E or the same field and the expectations regarding the income are too high. Not accepting any other field as such their field is the best. Nowadays we know what is the value for a B.E. and how many B.E.'s are working in BPO as telemarketing executives.???????????????????????
ramya ravi shekar I think you are just seeing the ones who are average student...Engineering has got its own value......I think you are not BE.....moreover if you say that there is no value for BE, do you think that other degrees except MBBS and BE, are getting better jobs ?..... Please dont make me laugh
who said money money money is the best... what is life without any majical feel that comes true, without ego, fear, and love like the middle person said that majical moment will always be in your heart mi8be even till death.... u might wont think of it but u will never forget it....... love is pure and its fell is awsome FEEL MY LOVE sorry if ive hurted anyone
While men expect a lot, women also have the right to expect, I accept that her expectation is out of bounds. Everybody should come out of the patriarchal mindset and make everyone think independently which is highly required for a sustainable society. Jati is a fake ideology, anybody who follows it, is a moron
These days too much expectation from the bride side. Because of expectation grooms are becoming older and older. Lack of girls in Tamil Nadu. Most of the educated girls are not willing to live in a joint family. They need only husband.
Stupid conversation men and women are different, just because both can earn monet doesnt mean mother will become father and father cannot become mother
What the hell are they talking about cooking? My grandmother was not allowed inside the kitchen until she was married because in her house they see purity (madi) inside the kitchen and only married women are allowed to enter the kitchen. Her mother-in-law had also died before she got married. Hence, she learnt cooking from her father-in-law, and mostly from a neighbor. This is my grandmother I'm talking about. And this happens a lot in old Brahmin families. I don't see why they are making a fuss about it now.
for a marriage, need one man and woman thats plenty but everyone shirnk into their caste and tonnesof conditions bothside then how to find bride? idiotic people. when both of them are frustrated at one point then they ready to take whats available by the time the aget is already too old became less attractive to each side. grow up in the new modern age as life is getting shrinking too
வெண்புள்ளிளுக்கு மருந்து பற்றிய அறிமுகம் செய்த நீயா நானா தொடருக்கு நன்றிகள். ❤🎉❤
Matrimony is a business!!! -very good point
Mr.Umapathy great job my salute for you
ம்ஹும் பெருமூச்சு ஒன்றுதான் இதற்கு பதில்.
More expectation from both sides.Tgats the issue for the reason.😢
இரண்டுபேறும்படித்தவர்கள்.சமையலும்தெரியாதபோது.ஓட்டல்சாப்பாடுஉடல்நலத்திற்க்குகேடுஎன்றுபடிக்கவில்லையா?.
I have my sister 28 yrs old Christian family.. no mother, not much relatives.. am her sister search for a groom with proper education and job but all the grooms family is asking indirect dowry.. my father is a stroke patient.. why are guys so demanding.. my sister is working good in a MNC.. still people are expecting more .. am only seraching for a good decent guy who will takecare of my sister with care as we grew up without mother and struggled much in life.. may god help 🙏
Sad to know. Your sister life is perfect example of how things still didn't change with our people's mindset. Don't worry, She will soon get married to a good person. Best wishes to your family.
Then u onky search for good decent guy not salary
@@Abis-jh8pu I hope good will bless her. Thank u for kindness. It's rare in the world today.
@@Berrygirl6784 we are not looking for financially rich groom only he shud b decent family and a good guy
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Grand mother tamil is awesome.
Sunil superb, fact. No one tell the bride or bridegroom bad. So, arrange marriage cannot give 💯 assurance.
Ten❤years❤diffirent❤irukkalam❤
I dont understand one Thing that from Bride or Bridegrooms side no body had spoken about Clean Habbits.
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Guests yaarum sari illa, Oviya mam or Shalini mam ah guest ah kuptrundha indha topic oda quality next level la irundhurukum...
1:01:14 seeing bride in photo is useless we have to go to bride house and seeing in front of a her the reality image ❤❤❤❤.
இது 9 வருடங்களுக்கு முன், இப்போதைய நிலை என்ன?
Orange color mam actor Srivithya mam Anni
Gopinath nail it with the term individuality. Hat's off
Lol
தனக்கு வரும் மனைவி எப்படி இருக்கனும்ன்னு சொல்றவர் எப்படி இருக்கார்? எந்த பெண்ணும்.இவரை ஒத்துக்காது.😢😢😢
Athu avar virupam itha oru pen paarthal neengal onnuk sollanatirgal
Current❤irukka❤
love marriage is the best, parents don't stack your thoughts on son or daughter. They have their own life and right to take decisions independently, please don't spoil their individuality for your desires.
Matri❤moniyal❤businas❤
29:11 this point is valid point. No girl like to live basic life most girl want luxury girl.
He he... - Neeya Naana is one big reason for the topic... Always talked about independent, individuality of girl.... Now girls are demanding... - I am happy to see the change ,,
👌👌👌👌😁😁😁😁கம்பியால் சார் சரியாக சொன்னிங்கள் 🙏🙏🙏😁😁😁😁🥰♥️
EQUAL RIGHTS. India cannot be a patriarchal society anymore,. Families of bridegroom must understand that.
Unfortunately it'll never change..because even women are against women and don't bring their sons up to respect women.
Boss, you are the king
Don't do, please . You are divided. Ok let them speak
Sappadu❤velai❤acha❤saiappa❤
If ponnu or payyanai pidilkkavillai endral sorry endru aduthavar manathiai paduthamal sollalam❤
2023ல் சாமுத்ரிகா லட்சணம் மாப்பிள்ளைக்கு திருமணம் முடிந்து விட்டதா. முடிந்து விட்டது என்றால் நீங்கள் எதிர் பார்த்த எத்தனை லட்சனங்கள் உங்கள் மனைவிக்கு உள்ளது, தெரியபடுத்தவும்.
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this topic shld be actually very important to society but the thing is public and neeya nana team also miss to give aa exact thing wat happening in the name of marriage , wat in this shows said oly 25% they discussed but there r lot of things their , lot of grooms parents bringing a kaniyathanam style did any one discussed abt this in this show , did any discussed abt the govt shld bring a law for marriage, did any 1 discussed abt before marriage both girl n boy shld produce a blood certification , wat abt fake marriage brokers , some matrimony sites r bcom big business mind ,first marriage itself looking a business not as life , everyone shld not search a boy/girl , shld search their next life think as life n search that's important for who waiting for marriage , to vijay tv neeya naana team shld bring this topic again with exact information :)
I have been ragged by the bridesmaids fathers many times , they measured my height , verified my certificates, asked about my wealth and house , one fellow asked me to travel to Atlanta USA to see his daughter 😂
OMG blue shirt is a piece of work
Time?
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Same age is more understanding
like for Umapathy.
I am very about this talk
56:50Athu yantha ooru???yarukacchum thariuma?
I think mannargudi
9:24 Kola pannina oru oru பெண் சிசு வின் சாபம் inniku 90s men are roaming unmarried. KARMA🔥🔥
The destruction has just began. Many many more to come🔥
Idi*t do u have brain?
Hey loosadi neenu engaponalum psychopola pesura pengal ellaruk saavadicha neeya en uyiroda iruka un appa amma unnaiyum abort pannirukanum ivlo mutaaal pottachi iruka☕️🤦🏽♀️ pen pullaigal venaam sonaanga aana aan pullaingala chinna vayasula velaiku anupathaan intha arivu kooda illatha naayi pesuthu
Loosu kena pola pesura😂🤦🏽♀️
The demands of cooking over, the rests I feel reasonable. Parents look like wanna depend on son although he's married and control mother in law
He is gay More except
காபிலாம் குடிப்பாங்கங்கோ ,புடிக்கலனா கை நனைக்க மாட்டாங்க
என்பதே நடப்பு
Ellorukkum podithu seithalum mappillai money minded aga irunthathinal marriage life failed in my daughter's life
எதிர் பக்கம் பெண்களின் புன்சிரிப்பு, மாப்பிள்ளை பக்கத்தை பார்த்து “இவ்வளவு நாள் எப்படி ஆடிநீங்க”
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Enna aadunaanga??? Pen veetula aadavala illaya
Paithiya kara thanam aatam potavan yaaro adivangharavan yaaro
This is the power of education & financial freedom for ladies.. But it would be better if they learn basic cooking and adjust themselves to some extend in their spouse house
I agree with everything the girls' parents say But dear, if they only told me to let my daughter grow up, (ea ponnu chellama valandhurukan solravunga ponnu vendam please)I don't need her anyway
Intha soda pottiku intha jenmathula ponnu kedaikathu🤣🤣
Chamundri kalai yirunta than kalyanam pannuvaram ah.
Athu avaroda ishtam seiriya avar kekurathula thappu illa ithery oru ponnu condition pota mattuk ok solluringala😂
First horoscope cut shorts 70%.... Girls don't like 50% of boys... Searching limitation of location, caste filters 70%.... Education qualification filters 50%... Finally 1% of matching happens...
Lady speaking around 25th minute is late Actress Srividya’s sister in law
Ss I too suspected her
neenga solratha paartha love marriage thaan pannanum pola
The conditions as laid by both parties are enigmatic & unpredictable, so it is better to advocate love marriage as it is b/ w two minds indeed tolerable to some extent of late! Simple & no reservations are advisable to join two minds.
Unmaiya maappillaiyin Appa Ammavai Thanikudithanam poga solranga
56:40 entha oor athu ?
Nagar temple
Due to opportunities of break-up is accepted by the society many loves are happening. Due to many loves are happening many businesses are successful. So love and breakups utilising an opportunity which is encouraged by business society. All fantasy word we allow in our life which brings direct change culture and indirect growth in economy. Read it again to understand better.
hello any one know where i can see about cobinath writings? if know please let me know. thanks
Even though the program is already viewed still the condition remains the same when it will change
Wat condition u like to change
43:00 unaku innum Kalyanam aaagi irukaadhu
Lol nee paatha
Boomerang poiveettula poi solrom
அன்பான திரு. கோபிநாத் சாருக்கு இனிய தமிழ் வணக்கம். மருத்துவ ரீதியாக பொண்ணுக்கும் மாப்பிள்ளைக்கும் வயது வித்தியாசம் அதிகமாக(குறைந்தது 6 வருடம்)இருந்தால் நல்லது. இப்பொழுது இருக்கும் யுவதிகளுக்கு இது புரிவதில்லை. மாப்பிள்ளையின் நடத்தையைப் பார்க்காமல் பணம் சொத்து சாதியைப் பார்க்கிறார்கள். இது தவறு. நன்றி.
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Yaru sonna apdinu why for u 30 plus ana ponu kedaikalaya
Apram pana irukaravan sathi la irukaravan ellam ketavana
@@charmtantra8
Most women can't be breadwinner for a long run compared to men.
Amma pasamea pillaigalin vaalkkayai keduthu vidugirathu payyanukku ammapasamea en magazine vaalkkayai keduthu vittathu enthanaikkum nangal elloraiyum anusarilkkaravargal intha subjectai pesungalean
31:54 where she now
2024 la ponnu kidaikkirathu kastam😂
Let the men do the cooking also
Yes...cooking is a life skill applicable to both men and women. Even these days people are trying to keep women in the kitchen.
Bachelor all know cooking so calm down feminist😂
@@BruhTubslol rubbish.... so u saying working in corporate slave is better.......
Let the men do cooking why dont u marry a man who earn less money......
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Vivasaayi : Ponney kodukiradu illa... Idhu vivasaayi kuttamilla- society problem....
48min - valke thalle... Rombe mudi vecherikuvaru sollararu
கோபி அண்ணா, பொண்ணுங்க, படிச்சா போதுமா அண்ணா, குடும்பம் நடத்த சமையல் தெரிய வேணாம்,, சரி,, படிச்சா அறிவு கிடைக்குமா,? கோபி அண்ணா? வாழ்க்கைக்கு தேவை, படிப்பு அறிவு மட்டும் போதுமா? கோபி அண்ணா??? தெளிவு வேணாமா, படிப்பை தெளிவோடு படிச்சா தான் அறிவு வரும்,, தெளிவோடு கூடிய அறிவு கொண்ட பெண்கள் மட்டுமே, படிப்ப பத்தி பேசாம, அறிவோடு குடும்பம் நடத்துவாங்க,,, பொண்ணு e mail அனுப்ப தெரிஞ்சா புத்திசாலி ஆ, கோபி அண்ணா
தெளிவான படிப்பறிவு, ego பாக்காது, படிப்பு படிப்பு படிப்பு, படிப்பு பொண்ணுக்கு தேவை தான்,, அதோட வர கர்வம், சமைக்க தெரியாது? B e படிச்சா, சமைக்க கத்துக்க கூடாதா, சத்து மாத்திரை சாப்பிட்டு வாழ வேண்டியது தான்
வாவ் வாவ் என்ன ஒரு அருமையான கேள்வி ? முடிந்தால் இதற்கு தெளிவாக விளக்கம் கொடுங்கள் சபையோரே
இது ஆணுக்கும் பொருந்தும்…
L@@veerasekaransekaran6512
Penukkum porunthum .....@@travelwithsong797
Why do you ask only the girls about cooking
Coz Marumagal must feed Them 😂
Its basic needs and who feed kids more mother rit?
@@Berrygirl6784feeding is different frm cooking
Without cookign who feed pls use logic..also everyone prefer mom be home....@@hariharannatarajan2375
patti neenga selam pakkama...
kalyanam.....
33:25😂😂😂😂😂
What about his parents just tnrowthem out sobad mentality😊
you all fallow swamy vivekananda
Regarding indiuvality the girl gone to the extent of saying open that
Marriage is for reproduction.
Ponnunga❤padithu❤vittarkal❤samaiyal❤veetu❤velai❤katru❤tharavillai❤mariyathai❤theriya❤villai❤panivu❤anbu❤illai❤ithanal❤otthupokatha❤gunam❤paisa❤than❤valkai❤meethi❤pengal❤love❤marraige❤❤payantha❤payyangal❤kalyanam❤illamal❤irukirarkal❤vumai❤intraiya❤nilamai❤ithuthan❤
Lusu😂
பாரதியார் இந்த காலத்தில் வாழ்திருந்தால் வாழ்ந்து இருந்தால் நல்லா இருந்து இருக்கும்
Why ?
bharathi eppa erunthirunthal avan chayam veluthu poyerukkum
If the girl is B.E they prefer the same B.E or the same field and the expectations regarding the income are too high. Not accepting any other field as such their field is the best. Nowadays we know what is the value for a B.E. and how many B.E.'s are working in BPO as telemarketing executives.???????????????????????
ramya ravi shekar I think you are just seeing the ones who are average student...Engineering has got its own value......I think you are not BE.....moreover if you say that there is no value for BE, do you think that other degrees except MBBS and BE, are getting better jobs ?..... Please dont make me laugh
Boss tamil is not in only India.
Colour is not beauty.
who said money money money is the best... what is life without any majical feel that comes true, without ego, fear, and love
like the middle person said that majical moment will always be in your heart mi8be even till death.... u might wont think of it but u will never forget it.......
love is pure and its fell is awsome
FEEL MY LOVE
sorry if ive hurted anyone
I don't understand the issue with the age difference. Age is just a number. It has nothing to do with your personality, chemistry or compatibility.
43:20 unaku la ponna ye kedaika vena order pani pomma vangikooo
Ponnunga kooda demand poduraanga aana oru paiyan pota dasg valikithu unaku feminist kandipa unna order poda maatan😂
Miss specs.... You may expect a lot... But very poor iin your rights
While men expect a lot, women also have the right to expect, I accept that her expectation is out of bounds. Everybody should come out of the patriarchal mindset and make everyone think independently which is highly required for a sustainable society. Jati is a fake ideology, anybody who follows it, is a moron
These days too much expectation from the bride side. Because of expectation grooms are becoming older and older. Lack of girls in Tamil Nadu. Most of the educated girls are not willing to live in a joint family. They need only husband.
+Rajkumar Kumar well,it is called EQUAL RIGHTS. India cannot be a patriarchal society anymore,. Families of bridegroom must understand that.
Epo paiyan family ku full ah velai seiyanum ah
@@indianmilitaryequal right then equal work women should have reservations😂
@@charmtantradei loosu ennanu therinjitu pesu
Stupid conversation men and women are different, just because both can earn monet doesnt mean mother will become father and father cannot become mother
Come and see tamil eelam. There's no cast their don't about it because our leader . You know, who, it is prabakaran
Poda punda eezham is polluted with caste sunni
Abathamaana debate
Ship need 1 capitan
Bike needs two tyres.
@@VijayKumar-pt6vz😂😂😂
What the hell are they talking about cooking? My grandmother was not allowed inside the kitchen until she was married because in her house they see purity (madi) inside the kitchen and only married women are allowed to enter the kitchen. Her mother-in-law had also died before she got married. Hence, she learnt cooking from her father-in-law, and mostly from a neighbor. This is my grandmother I'm talking about. And this happens a lot in old Brahmin families. I don't see why they are making a fuss about it now.
Caste is difefrent ok not all indian family like that
The blue shirt wearing glasses, u will find a bride who just makes porridge. Wonder where he had that cheap mindset.
கஞ்சி காய்ச்ற பெண் என்றால் இளக்காரமா?
Haha 😅
@@RajaRaj-tn5ir puriyama pesathinga
@@RajaRaj-tn5irkanji kaichira pen na ilakkaram ila aana pen nna kanji tha kachchanunu sonna athu kandipa wrong
@@RajaRaj-tn5ir she meant woman not interested to cook 😂😂
Kannadi unaku kalyaname aghadhu
😅
Lol..ya...he wants someone within his caste and less educated.
@@BruhTubsso what if womej can have demand why canr he
Atha pathi avan kavalai padala ungaluku enna
42:31 unnaku kalayanam kanavula mattum thaan. Thambiku oru ponnu parcel plz.
😮😢
Yeenta Gopinath un pondatee appatee irrunthal oothu kolvaya
Why men cannot cook ?
Wht girl cant marry a boy who dont earn?
Yendi paithiyam aambala veetula samachita iruntha velila velai paakamudiyathy
M
உடனே சொல்லுன்னு படுத்தாதீங்க ஒப்புக்கு சொன்லிட்டு காலம்முழுக்க பாடா இருக்கும்
Blue satta uncle talking too much.
30.05 epdi pesara nalathan poonu kedai karathu ila
Antha kalam Mari adimai ellam kedaikathu
Adimai meaning therinji pesu
@@lavanyav405appo divorce pannitu pongala😂 adimai meaning theiryuma😊
Why insist on cooking on girls
Potta☕️
for a marriage, need one man and woman thats plenty but everyone shirnk into their caste and tonnesof conditions bothside then how to find bride? idiotic people. when both of them are frustrated at one point then they ready to take whats available by the time the aget is already too old became less attractive to each side. grow up in the new modern age as life is getting shrinking too
Pengal eppothum adimaiyagave irukanum entha kaalathilum
yn bro apdi nenaikiringa
Apdinu nee ninaichiko
Cibai female, y dun choose same level education?
Dei kannadi unaku enda jenmathulaum ponnu kidaikadu da 😂 ______mavane