A big Issue facing Muslim men leads women to feminism is **BIDA!** It divides umma, & sufi batinis hide evidence & hence teach ext. taqlid, they justify this with imam extremism leading to shirk & grave worship (Q 9 :31). Tawhid ties to safety (Q 24 :55) This leads to colonies, division & women targeted, society reunites after the bida on secularism, when they should of been united on Sunnah - so how do we reject Bid'a for Sunnah! The 4 mathhabs many (Batini Sufi) imams use to push bid'a, they themselves said refer our statements to Quran and Sunnah! **Clear Sunni unity over blind bida'a division to beat liberalism on inside and colonies on the other side.** 1) Abu Hanifah : "It is prohibited (23) for someone who does not know my evidence to give verdicts (24) on the basis of my words." 2) Imam Malik : look into my opinions: all that agrees with the Book & Sunna, accept it; and all that does not agree with the Book and the Sunnah, ignore it." 3) Imam Shafi : "Muslims are unanimously agreed if a sunna is made clear to someone, it is not permitted (33) for him to leave it for the saying of anyone." 4) Imam Ahmad : "The opinion of Awzaa'i, Maalik, of Abu Haneefah: all of it is equal in my eyes. However, the proof is in the narrations (in the sunnah)." This is from the beautiful work of Sheikh Albani's Prophet prayer... **When we say Muhammadur Rasulalah it means our isnad ends with Prophet Muhammad peace and blessings be upon him whenever able!** The best interpretors of the Quran and Sunnah are the Sahabas, see Quran 9 :100!
Quran 4 : 32 - And wish not for the things in which Allah has made some of you to excel others. For men there is reward for what they have earned, (and likewise) for women there is reward for what they have earned, and ask Allah of His Bounty. Surely, Allah is Ever All-Knower of everything. feminism is after tech revolt & before c. banks to switch profit from farm to debt slavery, of dark to both dark & light skin, dividing family w/ Xina ( Qoem Loot) & abortion, & creating a lobby yeahood class & inflate same $ struggled for. Its why Islam is answer forbids usury, balances etc. Be real women. The term is womb-man, the womb at a subcon suggests vulnerability as it ties to pregnancy, and makes Nisa in conflicts go to fight or flight mode earlier and overgeneralize with less info, this is why men are leaders, while Nisa are their detail oriented emotional helpers. The non Muslims de-structure the ppl while structuring tyranny, Islam structures and balances all! Islam we have 5 pillars to guide the community, 6 pillars of Iman to guide the individual (See hadith Jibril) & we have 5 protected pillars in shariah to guide society. This gives us unified building points for our deeds & direction and layer by layers guidance. The 5 Protected Pillars of Shariah are : 1) Din - or Religion. Truth is natural. atheism built 0 civilizations & Islam is the preserved faith others point to, humanity in whole Proves Islam true, & Allah is Just, All Wise Merciful. Allah made us needy pairs (Quran 36 : 36) & its a sign Allah is 1 (Surah Iklas). 2) Life Islam teaches halal diet & hygiene to prevent infection (& excess harm to animals). We reject extremism. Scholar Ibn Taymiya said there is no deviant group except there is a non Muslim behind it, today's cia iran or al queda is no different, & Islam is free of it. 3) Mind. Islam teaches transparency in their religion to guide and unite humanity under trust and building under preserved scripture and in material world with science method made by a Muslim to imitate the Qur'an's value of preserved and clear evidence. It also forbids harmful substances like intoxicants or Khamr. 4) Family. Islam teaches marriage preserving best family to build civilization. Ppl are not born "Qoem Loot" - id twins study & basic genetics show, also they banned from bio donations (should be again registered like suicide or addiction), many revert when wanting a family, & have higher self infliction then refugees. Singles are recommended fasting (like Ramadan, but 2x a week) at puberty to maintain gratefulness & chastity & resets the body (like a climax). 5) Money Islam teaches Zakat as its 5th pillar of Islam, this inspired social benefits (not socialism necessarily), to spread wealth and feed the needy and in addition Islam forbade wasting wealth like with gambling or unjust trade like unequal lending or undercutting etc. --- Quran 2 : 31 - And He (Allah) taught Adam all the names ... - Learning vocabulary with concept is important, its picked up naturally like a baby picks up a new language before its first memory! Fard al Ayn - Obligatory on every individual Muslim. (Like hadith Jibril) Fard ul Khaffaya - Obligatory on specialist Muslims - based on the sciences of Islam, among the first is Tawhid in Allah's Attributes, and among others is learning extracting the rulings from Quran & Sunna to Shariah Law to cure societies ills! May Allah guide us , and thank you for reading, kindly spread the truth!
Part 1 (Men): Quran 28 : 26 - & said one of them (of two women): "O my father! Hire him! **Verily, the best of men for you to hire is the strong, & trustworthy."** Quran 24 : 37 - **Men whom neither trade nor sale diverts them from the Remembrance of Allah** (with heart & tongue), nor from performing AsSalat, nor from giving the Zakat. They fear a Day when hearts and eyes will be overturned (Akirah). (Men have a purpose, boys get distracted) Quran 4 : 34 - **Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has made one of them to excel the other, and because they spend (to support them) from their means.** Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient (to Allah and to their husbands), and guard in the husband's absence what Allah orders them to guard (e.g. their chastity, their husband's property, etc.). As to those women on whose part you see ill conduct, admonish them (first), (next), refuse to share their beds, (and last) bxat them (lightly, if it is useful), but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance). Surely, Allah is Ever Most High, Most Great. Quran 9 : 46 - And if they had intended to march out, *certainly, they would have made some preparation for it,* but Allah was averse to their being sent forth, so He made them lag behind, and it was said (to them), "Sit you among those who sit (at home)." Quran 28 :77 - But seek, with that (wealth) which Allah has bestowed on you, the home of the Hereafter, **and forget not your portion of legal enjoyment in this world,** and do good as Allah has been good to you, and seek not mischief in the land. Verily, Allah likes not the Mufsidun. Quran 4 : 135 - **O you who believe! Stand out firmly for justice, as witnesses to Allah, even though it be against yourselves,** or your parents, or your kin, be he rich or poor, Allah is a Better Protector to both (than you). So follow not the lusts (of your hearts), lest you may avoid justice, and if you distort your witness or refuse to give it, verily, Allah is Ever WellAcquainted with what you do. --- Part 2 (Women): A) Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet (ﷺ peace and blessings be upon him) said, "A woman is married for four things, i.e., her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her religion. *So you should marry the religious woman* (otherwise) you will be a losers. - Bhukari 5090, Kitab Nika / Wedlock B) Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet (ﷺ peace & blessings be upon him) said, "Faith (Belief) consists of more than 60 branches (parts). And *Haya* ("Haya" covers a large number of concepts which are together; amongst are self respect, modesty etc.) is a part of faith." - Bukari 9, Kitab Iman/ Book of Faith Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger (ﷺ peace & blessings be upon him) as saying: Two are the types amongst the denizens of Hell, the one possessing whips like the tail of an ox and they flog people with their help. *The women who would be naked in spite of their being dressed,* who are seduced (to wrong paths) and seduce others with their hair high like humps. These women would not get into Paradise and they would not perceive the odour of Paradise, although its frag- rance can be perceived from such and such distance (from great distance). (Economy takes advantage of women to get fake bodies) C) Abu Udhaynah reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “The best of your *women are loving, fertile, suitable, and comforting, if they fear Allah. The worst of your women unveil their beauty, take pride in their appearance, and they are hypocrites.* None of them will enter Paradise except as rarely as you see a red-beaked crow.” - al-Sunan al-Kubrá 12480, Sahih (authentic Al-Albani) D) Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, *“If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and OBEYS her husband,* she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Ibn Ḥibbān 4252, Sahih Al-Albani E) Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Umar: The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ peace and blessings be upon him) as saying: Each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock. The amir (ruler) who is over the people is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock; a man is a shepherd in charge of the inhabitants of his household and he is responsible for his flock; *a woman is a shepherdess in charge of her husband's house and children and she is responsible for them;* and a man's slave is a shepherd in charge of his master's property and he is responsible for it. So each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock. - Sunan Abi Dawud 2928 - Sahih Albani, Tribute, Spoils, and Rulership (Kitab Al-Kharaj, Wal-Fai' Wal-Imarah)
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@@excuseme9458 It's not okay to generalize an entire culture based on some extreme people who happen to be Arab, because some people from every culture and religion can be extreme. And to your second point, posting that video and those pictures online for any man to see, sexualize, and comment on your wife's looks and body(which they will do) is where the lack of Gheerah comes in. Idk if you're Muslim or not, but that's not what we're (Muslims) are supposed to do.
These social media couples are abhorrent. I feel terrible for the women who are spending their time on little boys rather than men. I'm sure the majority of them are still in that relationship for the money and the lavish lifestyle, which isn't worth it. Should I feel sorry for both, or do they understand what they are doing? Do they know what they are doing is wrong, but they continue to do it for the sake of fame and money? Sad times we live in. Imagine having a husband who is happy to show you off. It makes me want to puke.
@@excuseme9458Personally, I'm ok with it if it's private, as all of my social media is, but to a certain extent, most of what they do is cute, not to lie, but it's not good to put it out there for billions to see where is the privacy lol? Most women appear to be wearing the pants in their relationships, as if their husbands are playing the role of the ladies, which is disturbing. I saw a video of a Muslim woman as a joke wiping her husband's face in the mirror, which was terrible. Can you image if a man did that? Not trying to make assumptions on their marriage, but she has little respect for him and does not consider him as a man.
We’re so blessed to have the word gheerah as Muslims. The non Muslims don’t have a word to express gheerah in a good way so they use the words insecure. They say a muslimah is oppressed because she wears hijab. Our bar for a dayouth is so low compared to them. Something little to them is a dayouth to us. Following this deen is an honour. Don’t let people say oppressed, insecure, possessive just because they don’t have honour.
That makes no sense- both need to be mature adults for a) the relationship to work and be stable and b) to raise the children successfully- what do children benefit from a petty and immature mother?
@@mzmi1422 he meant in the context Bro Gabriel was using the words "affording to be a girl". mean that a girl can afford to disregard her duty and responsibility and act like a girl. But a man cannot because the consequence for the family is greater if the man act like a boy. so what he is saying that females should not take bro Gabriel advise serious, because women need to do their part and not act child like or like a girl. But I understand what you mean also
@@Averysadprincess Of course not, It's just a joke loool. I get how it can be misunderstood, but it reminded me of how the sahabah are represented in The Message and other movies set in the time of the Prophet SAWS.
0:00 Coming Up 2:11 Reaction 10:14 The Lack Of Gheerah Today 17:41 Practicing Gheerah Correctly 22:31 Why Should We Have Gheerah? 29:38 Protective Jealousy As A Man’s Responsibility 39:09 Outro
10 : 00 - some sister dress up to test their men's ghirah for their hijab after initially saying they want freedom and they say it kills me that there is no ghirah! "women hardwired to test?" - as in wanting you to be leader & challenge them? 16 :20 - Asma said Zubayr has ghirah so she rejected help of the Prophet peace and blessings be upon him. 20 :00 - Angel story of ghirah in his jahiliyah, and dajjal will give false security! some ppl put cover on phone but not their Nisa... Ibn Qayyim says this Din is based on Ghirah! Nisa more prone to corruption. 30 :00 - they fall for false security! ibn Umm Makhtum was left in charge of Medina when Prophet peace and blessings be upon him left, a blind man before nisa. why did those hijabis chase that vlogger... group mentality, shame , they are not leaders. someon women don't grow up with fathers and then find a wali and love that... men and women are suited differently! be consistent!
Subhanallah, I remember in my jahil days Fathers wouldn't mind dropping their daughters off to parties wearing the craziest thing and would even allow groups of Men into their homes its absolute insanity.
This is not even logical to the mind to accept. Ghirah, as Gabriel mentioned, is part of the fitra. Subhan’Allah. Islam is such a blessing that sometimes we take for granted, Alhamdlulli’Allah. Welcome to the deen brother.
Thank you for this, I was feeling pressured, growing up in this generation where gheera is frowned upon, to let go of this natural inclination. It’s hard for us youth to try and stick to the faith when every time we try and express these sorts of things we are deemed as insecure and extremist. I appreciate these videos about manhood , they help the youth more than you might know. جزاك الله
@@The3Muslims assalumu Alaikum- could you consider having female speaker next time because its men talking about gheerah, something that is done to women primarily so you see how unbalanced the conversation is. You all seem to agree with it so it wouldve made things more interesting if you had a woman..
It’s funny to hear these men talk about their jahiliya pasts after that red pill video where they were saying a chaste divorced women has too many issues to deserve to be married again. I’m a western woman from a convert family who never went in one date or even held hands with any man that wasn’t my husband, and you are the men who would judge me as unworthy if I ever managed to get a divorce from my negligent husband who doesn’t even do the minimum of supporting his family. This is the state of the ummah. 🤨🧐🤔
I doubt they judged you , they talk on problematic women who adopt western ideology like feminism and stuff like that instead of focusing on their religion
@lalal ncncc Most men who obsess over having multiple wives, like my husband, don’t have the money or strength to care for them. It’s sad. First make sure you can satisfy one wife and pay for two homes before blaming feminism when your wife balks at sharing what is already insufficient.
35:17 I noticed when I was younger I would make up for not having that strong, protective father figure by dressing more masculine and acting "tougher" because I was subconsciously trying to protect myself because somewhere in my brain I knew I needed a masculine figure to feel protected but I thought I just liked the style, comfort, etc. especially since women dressing in a more masculine fashion is gaining popularity these days. The more I listen to y'all the more I feel like media and society has polluted my way of thinking without me even noticing it. May Allah reward the *4* muslims for all the effort you guys are putting in this! :)
I don’t understand how some women have a problem with this. Maybe if he’s starting to get oppressive but why is it a problem that your man cares about you and tries to protect you.
@@themercifulguard3971 a lot of muslims in the west, men and women, forget that we are not free to do as we please . we are the slaves of Allah. The moment we realize this, we should be striving to meet the standard Allah has given us to follow to the best of our abilities.
It's 2023. Women are independent beings and with free will. If you feel threatened by this then you have deeper insecure issues about yourself. Seek help.
@Bob Bob The roots of the solution to feminism can not come from satanic books/ ideas. But it does, otherwise satanists won't call themselves redpillers. When dajjal will show up, he will cause trials and tribulation where a lot of people will suffer but in public display he will come off as the savior. In public display his behavior will seem to be compatible with Islam and the sharia. Which is why Muslims will fall into his trap. If you focus on the result, you're missing out on the big picture. The result (food being distributed to hungry people) is NOT important, if the roots are messed up. You're battling feminism but you're using somebody else's solution with non-Islamic roots
@Bob Bob 2nd comment... under the shade of Islam, Muslims are your brothers and sisters under the shade of redpill satanists are your close ones too.... how messed up is that?
@Bob Bob My argument is straightforward. I have no control over you twisting it. You submit to Allah SWT when you identify yourself as a Muslim you submit to a common philosophical agenda when you identify yourself as a redpiller. you don't submit to... >brushing teeth >going to gym >biology Under Islam your will be the same as those that worship Allah SWT, to enjoin the good and for bid the evil. Under redpill, your will 'also' coincides with those that worship satan. Basically, you now share a moral compass with other redpillers who may or may not be satanists.
Bismillah. Marriage completes half your deen. If you didn’t have Gheera for your spouse then how are you helping in completing half of their deen when you are letting your wife/husband do haram. Subhanallah the wisdom of Allah is so great, he created gheera for us so we can actually help each other in keeping away from haram. There’s so much more to it Subhanallah. Allah is Al-Hakeem, the all wise. Alhamdulillah for Islam.
Yeah was waiting for brother Gabriel to come MashaAllah More with brother Gabriel He’s the one the best May Allah increase his knowledge and wisdom and give him another wife 😆😂😅
Yes ofcourse. If any man is not jealous and over protective then something is wrong with him. Even in the West there are plenty of instances where women are harrassed when they are going places alone.
No need to be jealous if you have a woman that respects you. How do you even have time to be jealous. You don't have things that need to be done? Goals, work, training etc? That being said my woman knows she is not allowed to go to certain places or dress a certain way. She wouldnt do so because she knows she can't as my woman. If a man stares at my woman I'm not jealous. I would see it as disrespectful because he see's me with her but its not jealousy.
@@basmalasaad3039 yeah jealousy shouldn't be glorified & it seems alot of these men confuse being territorial with your wife or protective or having standards with being Jealous. Jealousy is insecurity. As a man you should have things to do, not be jealous.
Asalamu Alaikum. Hey Sister, I was recently made aware that its haram to have photos of ourselves on social media, TH-cam, etc... I am NOT trying to be mean or push anything on you. I just want to let you know. The ruling is on Islamqa website and there are other references too. I hope this is helpful.
Selam , and my comment on the 1st video ending ,Amiiiin !!!! i am single but i spend and keep spending but for some reason at 39 still nothing in NY. Subhanallah
Assalaamualaikum,I enjoy your topics of discussion, however you all have to correct each others mistaken statements. It's not correct to say ,"You are not a real Muslim unless you have Geerah"(Quote by Gabriel Al Romaani)There is no support of this statement from Qur'an and Sunnah,Brother.Its a statement that resembles takfeer on those use are mistaken to not have jealousy over his women. Rather you should say,You are not a "Complete Muslim" unless you have Gheerah. JazaakumAllaahukhaira
Unfortunately men thinks they are allowed to everything but expect their wives to be covered. Men should understand and see themselves if they are fulfilling their responsibilities as a husband before expecting anything from their wife.
I had a question for brother Gabriel Actually for everyone What is your advice For a boy 22 y.o. How way to be a man and later get married There is a twist: the parent wouldn’t accept to get married until become a Man and financially independent But bro he can’t wait soo long cause the testosterone t’s going crazy ad it’s not suole to held the horse...,I mean you understand
I agree with everything you say. I am a woman and need my husband. I needed my father, in times of trouble my darling father was my king. In our home my father cared for my mother and my sisters and myself.
Brother Choopa is my kind of brother , If Love is not Winning all the time then Depression ! Thats why so far i am not married . I can not go to work and have you be emotionaly all messed up and look for a guy who is awaliable , even tho i am at work! Women are not loving them selves 50% as much as we do Love them .
Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa baraktuh. I feel like in this ep, Mahdi Tidjani, would be really beneficial because this is a big topic that he also talks a lot about on his channel. He might have brought some really good points to the table. Other than that, ma shaa Allah, good work and great video. We need more of hayaa and ghayrah in the married couples of our ummah. This needs to be learnt, and we need to have this as our values in our everyday lives. It gotta be inside us.
Love this channel. I’m so happy to have found it and also to be guided by Allah. I feel like I’m quite literally getting out of the matrix. The idea we are sold in this world today is horrible. I’m convinced its done on purpose so that we cant find our way to Allah. May we all open our eyes. ALhamdulillah
I dont like the idea of a man telling me how to dress etc. I even turned down a man because he was already showing signs of being controlling even before marriage. I would rather marry a man who trusts me and knows that I would never step out on the marriage
Telling your woman to not dress a certain way or not go to certain places is not out of jealousy. Men have always been territorial with their women. Jealous means a man is looking at her or trying to hit on her and it drives you mad. Sure if the man does that while you are there, he is disrespecting you. If you are not there, she has to deny it. No need to be insecure and jealous. If she choses to be a slut, no worries..she's gone. If she respects you and is a good woman, no worries.
@@aspire7860ma sha Allah! I am definitely learning. I have read Qur'an in English twice, "Fortress of the Muslim", "Tajweed" (with Arabic, English, and transliteration), & "Prayer According to the Sunnah." I also have 3 volumes on Tafsir, 3 volumes on Hadith, "The Prophet's Prayer Described", "The Sealed Nectar", and "Description of Paradise in the Glorious Qur'an." And starting tomorrow (in sha Allah) I'm taking weekly classes to learn Arabic. So, yes I'm definitely learning by the Grace and Guidance of the Almighty Allah (Subhanhu Wa Ta'ala)! It's really only been a very short while since I reverted. I stutter to mention how long. But, I'm most blessed by the Creator. He has given me many talents and gifts to which are so many I cannot count. I am in absolute awe of Allah (Subhanhu Wa Ta'ala) and all He has provided for me and given to me.
@@aspire7860 You may ask. I have been born and raised in America. I am 40 years old and I reverted not quite 11 weeks ago. I reverted because Allah (Subhanhu Wa Ta'ala) chose to guide me. He chose to show me the Truth and Beauty of Islam and of the teachings of the Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi WaSallam).
If betting money was not Haram, i would've put a dollar that the main reason subairs marriage ended was due to his high degree of jealousy😅, pluss of course amongst other things none of us may know or known. But most women appreciate a certain kind/level of jealousy, and it is in no way the suffocating, controlling and obessesive jealousy
Pls make a video on how much fitna can be caused when women don’t wear hijab properly and how men arent in the wrong for having feelings of fitna over certian parts of female that is commonly seen but still awrah, i am not saying men arent guilty if they harass women, also i am not saying men shouldnt lower their gaze, im talking about accidentaly seeing a womans awrah then looking away
@Ma Khi much less in terms of sexual harassment, however women in hijab who get harrased have no blame, same with women who arent doing hijab and are half naked
17:11 Does NOT mean you need to be an insecure jealous boy. You can have your woman say those things and act a certain way because She respects you and you respect yourself. If she does not respect you or listen to what you tell her, you can dump her right away. However if you are a jealous Punk, you will become crazy mad and not dump her. Its not out of respect for yourself, its not because you care about your woman, its because you're an insecure little boy
@@equityjustice2695 You are the one speaking without knowledge brother. What is part of a man's fitrah is not sharing his wife. Protecting those who are under him. Please educate yourself because you will not find anywhere in the Koran that you have to be jealous when it comes to your wife & that jealousy = love This is a wrong translation that causes some younger men to reek of insecurity and jealousy. Its Very feminine to see. Many things are good such as not having your wife go to certain places. My wife is not allowed to have male friends for example. None of this is done out of insecurity/jealousy.
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A big Issue facing Muslim men leads women to feminism is **BIDA!** It divides umma, & sufi batinis hide evidence & hence teach ext. taqlid, they justify this with imam extremism leading to shirk & grave worship (Q 9 :31). Tawhid ties to safety (Q 24 :55) This leads to colonies, division & women targeted, society reunites after the bida on secularism, when they should of been united on Sunnah - so how do we reject Bid'a for Sunnah!
The 4 mathhabs many (Batini Sufi) imams use to push bid'a, they themselves said refer our statements to Quran and Sunnah!
**Clear Sunni unity over blind bida'a division to beat liberalism on inside and colonies on the other side.**
1) Abu Hanifah : "It is prohibited (23) for someone who does not know my evidence to give verdicts (24) on the basis of my words."
2) Imam Malik : look into my opinions: all that agrees with the Book & Sunna, accept it; and all that does not agree with the Book and the Sunnah, ignore it."
3) Imam Shafi : "Muslims are unanimously agreed if a sunna is made clear to someone, it is not permitted (33) for him to leave it for the saying of anyone."
4) Imam Ahmad : "The opinion of Awzaa'i, Maalik, of Abu Haneefah: all of it is equal in my eyes. However, the proof is in the narrations (in the sunnah)."
This is from the beautiful work of Sheikh Albani's Prophet prayer...
**When we say Muhammadur Rasulalah it means our isnad ends with Prophet Muhammad peace and blessings be upon him whenever able!**
The best interpretors of the Quran and Sunnah are the Sahabas, see Quran 9 :100!
Quran 4 : 32 -
And wish not for the things in which Allah has made some of you to excel others. For men there is reward for what they have earned, (and likewise) for women there is reward for what they have earned, and ask Allah of His Bounty. Surely, Allah is Ever All-Knower of everything.
feminism is after tech revolt & before c. banks to switch profit from farm to debt slavery, of dark to both dark & light skin, dividing family w/ Xina ( Qoem Loot) & abortion, & creating a lobby yeahood class & inflate same $ struggled for. Its why Islam is answer forbids usury, balances etc. Be real women.
The term is womb-man, the womb at a subcon suggests vulnerability as it ties to pregnancy, and makes Nisa in conflicts go to fight or flight mode earlier and overgeneralize with less info, this is why men are leaders, while Nisa are their detail oriented emotional helpers.
The non Muslims de-structure the ppl while structuring tyranny, Islam structures and balances all!
Islam we have 5 pillars to guide the community, 6 pillars of Iman to guide the individual (See hadith Jibril) & we have 5 protected pillars in shariah to guide society. This gives us unified building points for our deeds & direction and layer by layers guidance.
The 5 Protected Pillars of Shariah are :
1) Din - or Religion.
Truth is natural. atheism built 0 civilizations & Islam is the preserved faith others point to, humanity in whole Proves Islam true, & Allah is Just, All Wise Merciful.
Allah made us needy pairs (Quran 36 : 36) & its a sign Allah is 1 (Surah Iklas).
2) Life
Islam teaches halal diet & hygiene to prevent infection (& excess harm to animals). We reject extremism. Scholar Ibn Taymiya said there is no deviant group except there is a non Muslim behind it, today's cia iran or al queda is no different, & Islam is free of it.
3) Mind.
Islam teaches transparency in their religion to guide and unite humanity under trust and building under preserved scripture and in material world with science method made by a Muslim to imitate the Qur'an's value of preserved and clear evidence. It also forbids harmful substances like intoxicants or Khamr.
4) Family.
Islam teaches marriage preserving best family to build civilization. Ppl are not born "Qoem Loot" - id twins study & basic genetics show, also they banned from bio donations (should be again registered like suicide or addiction), many revert when wanting a family, & have higher self infliction then refugees. Singles are recommended fasting (like Ramadan, but 2x a week) at puberty to maintain gratefulness & chastity & resets the body (like a climax).
5) Money
Islam teaches Zakat as its 5th pillar of Islam, this inspired social benefits (not socialism necessarily), to spread wealth and feed the needy and in addition Islam forbade wasting wealth like with gambling or unjust trade like unequal lending or undercutting etc.
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Quran 2 : 31 - And He (Allah) taught Adam all the names ...
- Learning vocabulary with concept is important, its picked up naturally like a baby picks up a new language before its first memory!
Fard al Ayn - Obligatory on every individual Muslim. (Like hadith Jibril)
Fard ul Khaffaya - Obligatory on specialist Muslims - based on the sciences of Islam, among the first is Tawhid in Allah's Attributes, and among others is learning extracting the rulings from Quran & Sunna to Shariah Law to cure societies ills!
May Allah guide us , and thank you for reading, kindly spread the truth!
Part 1 (Men): Quran 28 : 26 - & said one of them (of two women): "O my father! Hire him! **Verily, the best of men for you to hire is the strong, & trustworthy."**
Quran 24 : 37 - **Men whom neither trade nor sale diverts them from the Remembrance of Allah** (with heart & tongue), nor from performing AsSalat, nor from giving the Zakat. They fear a Day when hearts and eyes will be overturned (Akirah). (Men have a purpose, boys get distracted)
Quran 4 : 34 - **Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has made one of them to excel the other, and because they spend (to support them) from their means.** Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient (to Allah and to their husbands), and guard in the husband's absence what Allah orders them to guard (e.g. their chastity, their husband's property, etc.). As to those women on whose part you see ill conduct, admonish them (first), (next), refuse to share their beds, (and last) bxat them (lightly, if it is useful), but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance). Surely, Allah is Ever Most High, Most Great.
Quran 9 : 46 - And if they had intended to march out, *certainly, they would have made some preparation for it,* but Allah was averse to their being sent forth, so He made them lag behind, and it was said (to them), "Sit you among those who sit (at home)."
Quran 28 :77 - But seek, with that (wealth) which Allah has bestowed on you, the home of the Hereafter, **and forget not your portion of legal enjoyment in this world,** and do good as Allah has been good to you, and seek not mischief in the land. Verily, Allah likes not the Mufsidun.
Quran 4 : 135 - **O you who believe! Stand out firmly for justice, as witnesses to Allah, even though it be against yourselves,** or your parents, or your kin, be he rich or poor, Allah is a Better Protector to both (than you). So follow not the lusts (of your hearts), lest you may avoid justice, and if you distort your witness or refuse to give it, verily, Allah is Ever WellAcquainted with what you do.
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Part 2 (Women): A) Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet (ﷺ peace and blessings be upon him) said, "A woman is married for four things, i.e., her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her religion. *So you should marry the religious woman* (otherwise) you will be a losers. - Bhukari 5090, Kitab Nika / Wedlock
B) Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet (ﷺ peace & blessings be upon him) said, "Faith (Belief) consists of more than 60 branches (parts). And *Haya* ("Haya" covers a large number of concepts which are together; amongst are self respect, modesty etc.) is a part of faith." - Bukari 9, Kitab Iman/ Book of Faith
Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger (ﷺ peace & blessings be upon him) as saying:
Two are the types amongst the denizens of Hell, the one possessing whips like the tail of an ox and they flog people with their help. *The women who would be naked in spite of their being dressed,* who are seduced (to wrong paths) and seduce others with their hair high like humps. These women would not get into Paradise and they would not perceive the odour of Paradise, although its frag- rance can be perceived from such and such distance (from great distance).
(Economy takes advantage of women to get fake bodies)
C) Abu Udhaynah reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “The best of your *women are loving, fertile, suitable, and comforting, if they fear Allah. The worst of your women unveil their beauty, take pride in their appearance, and they are hypocrites.* None of them will enter Paradise except as rarely as you see a red-beaked crow.”
- al-Sunan al-Kubrá 12480, Sahih (authentic Al-Albani)
D) Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, *“If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and OBEYS her husband,* she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes.”
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Ibn Ḥibbān 4252, Sahih Al-Albani
E) Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Umar:
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ peace and blessings be upon him) as saying: Each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock. The amir (ruler) who is over the people is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock; a man is a shepherd in charge of the inhabitants of his household and he is responsible for his flock; *a woman is a shepherdess in charge of her husband's house and children and she is responsible for them;* and a man's slave is a shepherd in charge of his master's property and he is responsible for it. So each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock.
- Sunan Abi Dawud 2928 - Sahih Albani, Tribute, Spoils, and Rulership (Kitab Al-Kharaj, Wal-Fai' Wal-Imarah)
I've got a question- why us gheerah something centred on men telling women what to do, rather than both doing amr bil maruf and nahy bil munkar?
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All of these “social media Muslim couples” need to fear Allah. Because the husbands lack gheerah soo much. May Allah guide and help us.
@@excuseme9458 It's not okay to generalize an entire culture based on some extreme people who happen to be Arab, because some people from every culture and religion can be extreme. And to your second point, posting that video and those pictures online for any man to see, sexualize, and comment on your wife's looks and body(which they will do) is where the lack of Gheerah comes in. Idk if you're Muslim or not, but that's not what we're (Muslims) are supposed to do.
These social media couples are abhorrent. I feel terrible for the women who are spending their time on little boys rather than men. I'm sure the majority of them are still in that relationship for the money and the lavish lifestyle, which isn't worth it.
Should I feel sorry for both, or do they understand what they are doing? Do they know what they are doing is wrong, but they continue to do it for the sake of fame and money? Sad times we live in.
Imagine having a husband who is happy to show you off. It makes me want to puke.
@@excuseme9458Personally, I'm ok with it if it's private, as all of my social media is, but to a certain extent, most of what they do is cute, not to lie, but it's not good to put it out there for billions to see where is the privacy lol?
Most women appear to be wearing the pants in their relationships, as if their husbands are playing the role of the ladies, which is disturbing.
I saw a video of a Muslim woman as a joke wiping her husband's face in the mirror, which was terrible. Can you image if a man did that? Not trying to make assumptions on their marriage, but she has little respect for him and does not consider him as a man.
@@excuseme9458 I know right!
Have u seen the muslim couples talking about their wedding night and doing stupid trends like that🤦♀️
We’re so blessed to have the word gheerah as Muslims. The non Muslims don’t have a word to express gheerah in a good way so they use the words insecure. They say a muslimah is oppressed because she wears hijab. Our bar for a dayouth is so low compared to them. Something little to them is a dayouth to us. Following this deen is an honour. Don’t let people say oppressed, insecure, possessive just because they don’t have honour.
Aanghel is developing into a beautiful brother mashaAllah, may Allah increase him
امیین
lmfao😂😂😂
"Girls can afford to be girls but Men can't afford to be Boys" I heard bomb dropping Boom 🔥🔥🔥
but girls can't afford to be feminists...
That makes no sense- both need to be mature adults for a) the relationship to work and be stable and b) to raise the children successfully- what do children benefit from a petty and immature mother?
@@mzmi1422 he meant in the context Bro Gabriel was using the words "affording to be a girl". mean that a girl can afford to disregard her duty and responsibility and act like a girl. But a man cannot because the consequence for the family is greater if the man act like a boy. so what he is saying that females should not take bro Gabriel advise serious, because women need to do their part and not act child like or like a girl. But I understand what you mean also
@@equityjustice2695 incel
Thank you Faiyad, Rami, Gabriel and Aanghel for putting effort in the discussion and making it understandable
Barak Allah feek
- Faiyad
@@The3Muslims Wa iyakum!
Br Anghel looking like a strong sahabi masha'allah
Have u ever seen how a sahabi looks like?
@@Averysadprincess Of course not, It's just a joke loool. I get how it can be misunderstood, but it reminded me of how the sahabah are represented in The Message and other movies set in the time of the Prophet SAWS.
Wallah he looks like the desert Bedouins here in the Arabs, mashaa Allah
Stupid comment ever
@@machete5438 why?
0:00 Coming Up
2:11 Reaction
10:14 The Lack Of Gheerah Today
17:41 Practicing Gheerah Correctly
22:31 Why Should We Have Gheerah?
29:38 Protective Jealousy As A Man’s Responsibility
39:09 Outro
Yo Sheikh!!!
10 : 00 - some sister dress up to test their men's ghirah for their hijab after initially saying they want freedom and they say it kills me that there is no ghirah!
"women hardwired to test?" - as in wanting you to be leader & challenge them?
16 :20 - Asma said Zubayr has ghirah so she rejected help of the Prophet peace and blessings be upon him.
20 :00 - Angel story of ghirah in his jahiliyah, and dajjal will give false security!
some ppl put cover on phone but not their Nisa...
Ibn Qayyim says this Din is based on Ghirah!
Nisa more prone to corruption.
30 :00 - they fall for false security!
ibn Umm Makhtum was left in charge of Medina when Prophet peace and blessings be upon him left, a blind man before nisa.
why did those hijabis chase that vlogger... group mentality, shame , they are not leaders.
someon women don't grow up with fathers and then find a wali and love that...
men and women are suited differently! be consistent!
It wouldve been better to pin this comment
Should be the4muslims now 🤣🤣 cause of bro Gabriel
We Muslims cherish the bonds with our families and are protective of our wives from the fasad and fitna in this world.
Mashallah ❤️🤍❤️
My man Anghel looking slick 👌🏻
May Allah SWT guide the Ummah 🤲🏻
This poison has spread in our families sadly 😢.
@@Ali_Raza808 yeah i don't know if u know how hard that is
@@TheUltimatum94 same
I love Gabriel el Romani so much like a older brother 😭😭
It's better for you to say May Allaah bless him. Don't go overboard
Subhanallah, I remember in my jahil days Fathers wouldn't mind dropping their daughters off to parties wearing the craziest thing and would even allow groups of Men into their homes its absolute insanity.
This is not even logical to the mind to accept. Ghirah, as Gabriel mentioned, is part of the fitra. Subhan’Allah.
Islam is such a blessing that sometimes we take for granted, Alhamdlulli’Allah.
Welcome to the deen brother.
Fathers who do that are the biggest cucks
Thank you for this, I was feeling pressured, growing up in this generation where gheera is frowned upon, to let go of this natural inclination. It’s hard for us youth to try and stick to the faith when every time we try and express these sorts of things we are deemed as insecure and extremist. I appreciate these videos about manhood , they help the youth more than you might know. جزاك الله
JazakAllahu khair
@@The3Muslims assalumu Alaikum- could you consider having female speaker next time because its men talking about gheerah, something that is done to women primarily so you see how unbalanced the conversation is. You all seem to agree with it so it wouldve made things more interesting if you had a woman..
@@basmalasaad3039 Nah it doesn't really make a difference, gheerah is something a man practices, not a woman, gheerah doesn't mean controlling
@@basmalasaad3039They've explained things thoroughly in a balanced matter and in accordance to Islam. A woman being there isn't necessary really.
@@themercifulguard3971you know women, they love to argue just for arguing sake 🤷
Aanghel is very charismatic person you can't hate Aanghel
Learning this things and importance of it from you guys.... Thank you guys
May Allah bless you brother's
It’s funny to hear these men talk about their jahiliya pasts after that red pill video where they were saying a chaste divorced women has too many issues to deserve to be married again. I’m a western woman from a convert family who never went in one date or even held hands with any man that wasn’t my husband, and you are the men who would judge me as unworthy if I ever managed to get a divorce from my negligent husband who doesn’t even do the minimum of supporting his family. This is the state of the ummah. 🤨🧐🤔
Truth❤️
I doubt they judged you , they talk on problematic women who adopt western ideology like feminism and stuff like that instead of focusing on their religion
@@aspire7860 Watch the video again.
@lalal ncncc Most men who obsess over having multiple wives, like my husband, don’t have the money or strength to care for them. It’s sad. First make sure you can satisfy one wife and pay for two homes before blaming feminism when your wife balks at sharing what is already insufficient.
Only Islam can define how to act for both men and women. We submit to all of it.
35:17 I noticed when I was younger I would make up for not having that strong, protective father figure by dressing more masculine and acting "tougher" because I was subconsciously trying to protect myself because somewhere in my brain I knew I needed a masculine figure to feel protected but I thought I just liked the style, comfort, etc. especially since women dressing in a more masculine fashion is gaining popularity these days. The more I listen to y'all the more I feel like media and society has polluted my way of thinking without me even noticing it. May Allah reward the *4* muslims for all the effort you guys are putting in this! :)
I don’t understand how some women have a problem with this. Maybe if he’s starting to get oppressive but why is it a problem that your man cares about you and tries to protect you.
It happens with the Westernized women
They do so because they think that their men are impeding their personal freedoms
@@themercifulguard3971 a lot of muslims in the west, men and women, forget that we are not free to do as we please . we are the slaves of Allah. The moment we realize this, we should be striving to meet the standard Allah has given us to follow to the best of our abilities.
It's 2023. Women are independent beings and with free will. If you feel threatened by this then you have deeper insecure issues about yourself. Seek help.
Aanghel looking great Mashallah
Interesting. This goes against a lot of non-Muslim red pill views. "Jealousy is an attraction killer, makes you look insecure" as they claim.
Islam > isms
- Faiyad
@@The3Muslims facts
@Bob Bob The roots of the solution to feminism can not come from satanic books/ ideas. But it does, otherwise satanists won't call themselves redpillers.
When dajjal will show up, he will cause trials and tribulation where a lot of people will suffer but in public display he will come off as the savior. In public display his behavior will seem to be compatible with Islam and the sharia. Which is why Muslims will fall into his trap. If you focus on the result, you're missing out on the big picture. The result (food being distributed to hungry people) is NOT important, if the roots are messed up.
You're battling feminism but you're using somebody else's solution with non-Islamic roots
@Bob Bob 2nd comment...
under the shade of Islam, Muslims are your brothers and sisters
under the shade of redpill satanists are your close ones too.... how messed up is that?
@Bob Bob My argument is straightforward. I have no control over you twisting it. You submit to Allah SWT when you identify yourself as a Muslim you submit to a common philosophical agenda when you identify yourself as a redpiller.
you don't submit to...
>brushing teeth
>going to gym
>biology
Under Islam your will be the same as those that worship Allah SWT, to enjoin the good and for bid the evil. Under redpill, your will 'also' coincides with those that worship satan. Basically, you now share a moral compass with other redpillers who may or may not be satanists.
Bismillah. Marriage completes half your deen. If you didn’t have Gheera for your spouse then how are you helping in completing half of their deen when you are letting your wife/husband do haram. Subhanallah the wisdom of Allah is so great, he created gheera for us so we can actually help each other in keeping away from haram. There’s so much more to it Subhanallah. Allah is Al-Hakeem, the all wise. Alhamdulillah for Islam.
Masya ALLAH... spot on !
Salam from Indonesia
Today, Brother Anghel has outscored whatsoever Lawrence of Arabia.👌 MashaAllah!
Yeah was waiting for brother Gabriel to come
MashaAllah
More with brother Gabriel
He’s the one the best
May Allah increase his knowledge and wisdom and give him another wife 😆😂😅
Yes ofcourse. If any man is not jealous and over protective then something is wrong with him. Even in the West there are plenty of instances where women are harrassed when they are going places alone.
@Anisah it’s because Sharia is not implemented in the “Muslim” countries.
No need to be jealous if you have a woman that respects you. How do you even have time to be jealous. You don't have things that need to be done? Goals, work, training etc?
That being said my woman knows she is not allowed to go to certain places or dress a certain way. She wouldnt do so because she knows she can't as my woman.
If a man stares at my woman I'm not jealous. I would see it as disrespectful because he see's me with her but its not jealousy.
@Anisah It depends on what country.
@@buuriwinsto3471 I get what you mean- tbh it seems more reasonable than their approach.
@@basmalasaad3039 yeah jealousy shouldn't be glorified & it seems alot of these men confuse being territorial with your wife or protective or having standards with being Jealous.
Jealousy is insecurity. As a man you should have things to do, not be jealous.
Alhamdulilah
Asalamu Alaikum.
Hey Sister, I was recently made aware that its haram to have photos of ourselves on social media, TH-cam, etc... I am NOT trying to be mean or push anything on you. I just want to let you know. The ruling is on Islamqa website and there are other references too. I hope this is helpful.
@@HabrenOdinsdottir thank you sister❤walakum Salaam
@@jamela8350 ❤🧕🤲☝️
Very important topic! ما شاء الله
This channel is honestly a blessing
Selam , and my comment on the 1st video ending ,Amiiiin !!!! i am single but i spend and keep spending but for some reason at 39 still nothing in NY. Subhanallah
Aanghel looking fresh
Honestly anghel keep the turban u look awesome
In fact all of you guys should get turbans 😎
@@azizulhaque4911 WOW thanks man the penguin army is growing stronger lol
Walahi brother I was sick for a while and also I am working on a project but
IT is coming in sha allah
Assalaamualaikum,I enjoy your topics of discussion, however you all have to correct each others mistaken statements.
It's not correct to say ,"You are not a real Muslim unless you have Geerah"(Quote by Gabriel Al Romaani)There is no support of this statement from Qur'an and Sunnah,Brother.Its a statement that resembles takfeer on those use are mistaken to not have jealousy over his women.
Rather you should say,You are not a "Complete Muslim" unless you have Gheerah.
JazaakumAllaahukhaira
What faiyad said about respect is beautiful MashaAllah. That's deep
MashaAllah brothers Faiyad and Anghel look great with the turban!
♥️
- Faiyad
Ayy Anghel looks good with his turban! MashaAllah!
SubhanAllah...very true !!
Real men are protective and possessive.
8:07 Brother anghel is on it 👌👌❤️🔥
So great and profound statements here ❣️
24:44 the book is called الداء والدواء aldaa waldawaa.
Unfortunately men thinks they are allowed to everything but expect their wives to be covered.
Men should understand and see themselves if they are fulfilling their responsibilities as a husband before expecting anything from their wife.
what going on with rami and gabril, they gotta join the shemagh squad 😂
This episode was just beautiful MashaAllah, brother Gabriel brings good vibes to the T3M. 👍👍
yah i was told jealousy was wrong
and i am very jealous
I had a question for brother Gabriel
Actually for everyone
What is your advice
For a boy 22 y.o. How way to be a man and later get married
There is a twist: the parent wouldn’t accept to get married until become a Man and financially independent
But bro he can’t wait soo long cause the testosterone t’s going crazy ad it’s not suole to held the horse...,I mean you understand
Great video
A lot of us are not men. We are bois stuck in big bodies subhanallah
Amazing episode guys. Taking down notes for a potential khutbah on this topic as I'm listening
🤝
- Faiyad
The Sheikh in the video is called Ali Hammuda. He makes very good lectures and has his own youtube channel
💎
- Faiyad
SuphanAllah such a thought provoking video. May Allah swt bless u guys for yr efforts
Pleas more from Gabriel. This brother has so much knowledge en wisdom mashaAllah
I agree with everything you say. I am a woman and need my husband. I needed my father, in times of trouble my darling father was my king. In our home my father cared for my mother and my sisters and myself.
#Gheerah #Turban
May Allah reward these brothers for the work they are doing. Ameen.
Do you think you can get Br. Ali Hamuda on the podcast? He is an absolute gem of the Ummah!
Most excited for the videos with gabriel al romani mashAllah!
I actually gained a lot more than I thought I would from this video... MashaAllah
All good is from Allah alone
Brother Choopa is my kind of brother , If Love is not Winning all the time then Depression ! Thats why so far i am not married . I can not go to work and have you be emotionaly all messed up and look for a guy who is awaliable , even tho i am at work! Women are not loving them selves 50% as much as we do Love them .
13:24
Compliance test is a better way of putting it. I’ve always heard ppl call it the “sh*t test”
One day iA you guys should come together and do a podcast in the flesh.
It'll be one of the best podcast iA.
10:25 Yeah I’m pretty sure the Hadith specifically meant a man who shares his wife with other men.
Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa baraktuh. I feel like in this ep, Mahdi Tidjani, would be really beneficial because this is a big topic that he also talks a lot about on his channel. He might have brought some really good points to the table. Other than that, ma shaa Allah, good work and great video. We need more of hayaa and ghayrah in the married couples of our ummah. This needs to be learnt, and we need to have this as our values in our everyday lives. It gotta be inside us.
Gabriel is a gem 💎
جزاكم الله خير
may allah give u strength and make u guys steadfast on the deen and the good work your doing and dont get deluded by the world
Good video, at this point might as well rename the channel the4Muslims.
Allahuma Barik Choppa looking fresh
Brother Anghel make sure your phone is full charged we can't get tired of watching you with all the brothers of course lol
May Allah protect us from evil and fahisah
Walahi anghel looked like halal GIGACHAD on the thumbnail
Keep it coming my guys!! Ayyyyo habibi anghel
Great episode as usual . Goes without saying !
Mashaalah guys comment for the algorithm
Keep going
aanghel looking good with that agala 😂
Don’t forget to give this video a like. 👍🏽
Love this channel. I’m so happy to have found it and also to be guided by Allah. I feel like I’m quite literally getting out of the matrix. The idea we are sold in this world today is horrible. I’m convinced its done on purpose so that we cant find our way to Allah. May we all open our eyes. ALhamdulillah
Ohh so it's the 4 Muslims now🤭
ChoppÀ 🤣🤣🤣.
Anghel is my man😅.
Lol what is with that name change? I have a lot of respect for Anghel but don't get this? Please tell me if there's something I've missed?!
Only choppas I know of is helicopters guns rapper names and other negative ish.. please enlighten me
@@ptj2849 Anghel always likes to do weird things with his nickname; he once named himself "baby boy anghel"🤣🤣🤣
I've tried for years to explain this but all I've got in return is to be demonised..
Beautiful, just splendid 👏👏👏
@18. Rami. Well done
Anghel looking like an oil sheikh, but nobody knows he is aspiring to be an Islamic sheikh. Sssshhhhh dont tell anyone.
I dont like the idea of a man telling me how to dress etc. I even turned down a man because he was already showing signs of being controlling even before marriage. I would rather marry a man who trusts me and knows that I would never step out on the marriage
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته.
Walaikum assalam warahmatullahi wabarakatu
- F
Amazing video 💪🏽
Jazallahukhairan u guys for that..
Lessons learned. Wow SubhaanAllah.
And yo Rami looks like that cartoon Muslim.
Respect for Brother Gabriel, he is a Romanian, like me
Telling your woman to not dress a certain way or not go to certain places is not out of jealousy.
Men have always been territorial with their women.
Jealous means a man is looking at her or trying to hit on her and it drives you mad.
Sure if the man does that while you are there, he is disrespecting you. If you are not there, she has to deny it.
No need to be insecure and jealous. If she choses to be a slut, no worries..she's gone.
If she respects you and is a good woman, no worries.
23:04
🤣🤣🤝🤝
I'm jealous of born Muslims! I'm jealous of people that know more than me about the Dheen!
You can learn , nothing can stop you especially with the internet
@@aspire7860ma sha Allah! I am definitely learning. I have read Qur'an in English twice, "Fortress of the Muslim", "Tajweed" (with Arabic, English, and transliteration), & "Prayer According to the Sunnah."
I also have 3 volumes on Tafsir, 3 volumes on Hadith, "The Prophet's Prayer Described", "The Sealed Nectar", and "Description of Paradise in the Glorious Qur'an." And starting tomorrow (in sha Allah) I'm taking weekly classes to learn Arabic.
So, yes I'm definitely learning by the Grace and Guidance of the Almighty Allah (Subhanhu Wa Ta'ala)! It's really only been a very short while since I reverted. I stutter to mention how long.
But, I'm most blessed by the Creator. He has given me many talents and gifts to which are so many I cannot count. I am in absolute awe of Allah (Subhanhu Wa Ta'ala) and all He has provided for me and given to me.
@@HabrenOdinsdottir from where are you sis? How old were u when you reverted ? N why did you revert ? May i ask
@@aspire7860 You may ask. I have been born and raised in America. I am 40 years old and I reverted not quite 11 weeks ago.
I reverted because Allah (Subhanhu Wa Ta'ala) chose to guide me. He chose to show me the Truth and Beauty of Islam and of the teachings of the Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi WaSallam).
@@HabrenOdinsdottir subhannah Allah , all ur sins has been forgiven
Anghel is the MAN. This is called Gheerah.
If betting money was not Haram, i would've put a dollar that the main reason subairs marriage ended was due to his high degree of jealousy😅, pluss of course amongst other things none of us may know or known. But most women appreciate a certain kind/level of jealousy, and it is in no way the suffocating, controlling and obessesive jealousy
Only Islam can define gheerah. Stay away from assumption and speculations.
Pls make a video on how much fitna can be caused when women don’t wear hijab properly and how men arent in the wrong for having feelings of fitna over certian parts of female that is commonly seen but still awrah, i am not saying men arent guilty if they harass women, also i am not saying men shouldnt lower their gaze, im talking about accidentaly seeing a womans awrah then looking away
Lower your gaze regardless if a womens covered or not, that is what the prophet saw has taught us
@@rustyray420 i agree , I shouldve said my comment differently
@lalal ncncc i agree , I shouldve said my comment differently
@Ma Khi much less in terms of sexual harassment, however women in hijab who get harrased have no blame, same with women who arent doing hijab and are half naked
The first gaze is permissible the second one is not, so you can accidentally look at her but lower your gaze fast
Excellent, excellent. excellent discussion. Thank you.
Those coming up scenes are powerfulll
17:11 Does NOT mean you need to be an insecure jealous boy.
You can have your woman say those things and act a certain way because She respects you and you respect yourself.
If she does not respect you or listen to what you tell her, you can dump her right away.
However if you are a jealous Punk, you will become crazy mad and not dump her.
Its not out of respect for yourself, its not because you care about your woman, its because you're an insecure little boy
Why are you so triggered?.
@@yotubeinternethypocrite8412 not triggered. Just weird to see men wear jealousy like a badge of honor lol
@@buuriwinsto3471 are you even a muslim
@@yotubeinternethypocrite8412 hmdl
@@equityjustice2695 You are the one speaking without knowledge brother. What is part of a man's fitrah is not sharing his wife. Protecting those who are under him.
Please educate yourself because you will not find anywhere in the Koran that you have to be jealous when it comes to your wife & that jealousy = love
This is a wrong translation that causes some younger men to reek of insecurity and jealousy. Its Very feminine to see.
Many things are good such as not having your wife go to certain places. My wife is not allowed to have male friends for example.
None of this is done out of insecurity/jealousy.
This message was powerful 👏🏼❤️