Sitting in the valley of the unknown for the past three years has been very challenging on so many fronts. However, I am seeking the Kingdom first and His Righteousness, and trusting that All things are being added unto me (including my restored marriage). Peace and Blessings to you two!!
Shon, I don’t think you have lost or missed anything. Evidently, it was all a part of the plan. It is said, you can’t do anything about what happen, but you can do something about today. To me, you are doing well!! I salute you both!! I’m waiting on my wife to come home and I have gone and are going through all the things your wife experienced. Waiting to see her come to your place of maturity has been the challenge for me. You have so many question as you wait, I’m sure your wife agrees. From quitting and wanting to give up, to knowing what the word has said, is a mouthful. As I watch yall, I want to cry, but I’m still hoping and trying to love her through it. I’m hanging on. Thank you for your story!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Shon and Adrienne, what a powerful testimony, speaking from gut-wrenching places of the heart. The things you shared here are so encouraging for me to keep going in my journey of standing, to be faithful and obedient to His calling as I wait for my husband. No, its not easy with the holidays, but God is faithful. I'm thankful for His presence. I'm thankful my husband calls me and we talk, even though he's not yet at the point of returning, I'm trusting the Lord for the years the locust has eaten. As you said, God can make those years that were "lost" as if they weren't lost. 😊
Thank you for sharing your testimony it gives me hope. My husband are separated and it has been really hard and painful. But my hope is that God restore our marriage.
Shalom, no questions all Shon's and the Father's love in one sentence: Thank you for stand. God is teaching me, though this for our restoration. Thank you ❤
This was such an emotional episode😭😭😭 Holy Spirit was moving. Thank you so much for your vulnerability and honesty. Praying for a whole pizza. Love you both so much ❤❤❤
At this moment, I don't want to even think about a restoration. I am more interested in healing my relationship with God and be happy and content with God. I have prayed for my husband and I want to leave him to God and work on myself
Thank you for making this video, thank you for your transparency, this has given me motivation not to give up on my marriage and to keep trusting and allowing God to do what he wants to do in my husband and I including it children. God bless you and your family.
Beautiful words. Thank you once again for your obedience so that we who are waiting and standing can be encouraged. I know that I am fighting for something so much bigger than me or my spouse or my marriage or my kids. It's all of it plus the generation that comes after and the many families that will be restored as a result. There are many still to be rescued! Let's keep trusting God! He knows what He's doing!!
Man I love you guys ! Your videos are amazing and always give me such strength ❤️ I have had an amazing walk this past 3 years waiting for my wife to return. The relationship with my three kids has grown so so much in faith. God bless you both - I will continue to fight and pray for you all !
I have found such comfort, encouragement and wisdom in listening to you both as I stand. It's confusing, heartbreaking, and at times seems to be without hope. And then there are the unknown consequences we don't talk about, simply because, we don't know how it will turn out yet, 'did I lose the gifts God had for me? did I miss my chance to do God's will for my life in our marriage?' I am so thankful you went there in tonight's video, thank you. You gave us a perspective I never thought about concerning these tough questions (that I ask myself a lot and have felt nothing but guilt over), and it made me realize, I am not to wait until things are brought to some new normal, or things are 'just right,' to move forward with what I think is God's will. God's will is for us to shine his light right now, despite stormy circumstances we may be in, the mistakes we have made along the way, and the unknown outcome of our waiting. Our personal ministries are to shine the light on his truth, and to share our faithwalk with others along the way, and not freeze, or hide from that. Our vows may have been broken, but they still have meaning with the Lord. He is asking us to stay partnered with Him in it, no matter what is ahead. And to have faith in the fact He is the God of promises, and the God of redemption. Thank you for the transparency you spoke of~ we need that depth to find the hope...
Pray, wait, trust. Thank you Jesus for this reminder. The storm is still fierce, but your presence is stronger. Thank you Adrienne and Shon for always encouraging me to not give up. God Will make a way for my marriage.
May God continue to bless and keep you both. Thank you for being transparent . Your story will bless so many marriages. I know this was nothing but God that this showed up in my feed. God knows what we need. I felt like giving up today, feeling that my situation was hopeless even though I have been praying and believing. God is able. I got a little hope left in me to hold on a little bit longer. Thank you for sharing.
I continue to thank God for finding this channel. Your victorious marriage reconciliation testimony and encouragement is so appreciated! Shon (hope I am spelling that right), your question to God about timing hit home for me as a Christian husband. Time has been a major concern of mine especially with so much struggle at once. May our God richly bless you and Adrienne!
This is so amazing! All you are saying is what my husband and I have been living through. It was a long stand, but as you said, it feels like it never happened aside from talking about the past. May God bless you!
I thank you so much for posting this video. I have watched all your video and so happy that I reached out to Shon and she responded back and I was about to give up on my marriage but your videos gave me hope. Thank you Adrienne for being so honest. I thank you God for blessing for family.
This was encouraging and beautiful to watch. All things truly work together for the good of them that love God and to them that are the called according to His purpose. I'm believing. It's been a little rough with him being in the home, but just today I cried out to the Father. I need guidance. Do whatever you have to, even if it means removing him from the home until you finish with him. Thank you for praying for us. God bless🙏🏾
God Bless you both and your union, yall videos are always on time , God has restored our marriage, it now how do we deal with the things both of us has done to each other and our family, But God he will get us through🙏
Wow we are so glad that God is so faithful to fulfill that which he has promised. One thing that you will have to remember is that of the story of the prodigal son. We know one son bounced out on his dad and family. The one thing I believe we tend to forget is that of reconciliation. The only true way this happens is humility, humbleness and allowing God to cleanse us completely in and out. Though the story focuses on the son that left, what about the son that stayed who ended up having a hardened heart for throwing a party and welcoming his brother home. It is only when the father gave him the realization of what could have been that the son had to willingly choose to forgive. We all have a choice to make in forgiveness of self as well as others. When we begin to understand that God chose us knowing our dirt and still calls is unto himself, it is then when we can do the same for ourselves as well as others. Be blessed and we are here for you🙏
Keep walking in your blessings! A beautiful testimony and embracing a divine work of the Lord. God has given me a strength and wisdom beyond even my understanding that if my ex and I are never restored, he and his new wife will be overcome with the holy Spirit and lead their families and many in the world out of darkness and be a light for the rest of their lives in the world. I know that people will be amazed, but God works in mysterious ways...He can do anything!! My ex said that God brought them back together over years of us being married and I didn't believe it then but now that I'm walking with God more I have surrendered in peace and is watching how they will lead others to Christ. God is going to get the glory. Amen😊
Love you guys so much 🙏❤️ I’m crying with you both. Just the love and intimacy between you two is so beautiful. I’ve been standing for about 6 1/2 years and my husband did have a fake ceremony and he also has a child with the other woman. Sometimes I don’t even know how to pray because I literally feel like I’m praying for another family to go through the pain that me and our two sons have been going through for all this time. And I know you said you had a friend or two in that same situation. If it’s possible for you to share some more on that topic that would be so helpful because I feel so hopeless.
@@daniellemoss7746 Hi Daniella. I am so sorry to hear what you and your children have been through. I stand with you my sister to know God got you and he will see you through and give you the strength to keep perseverant. He hear your prayers sis. Iam standing as well after five years of separation and eighteen years of marriage. My husband also have had two children with the OW. I will trust God for restoration 🙏 for my marriage and praying for you as well my sister. Stay strong and trust God my sister❤️🙏🙏.
Trust in the lord with all your heart do not lean on your own understanding. Trusting God for restoration of my relationship & our future marriage.Amen.
My husband is an in-home prodigal. He committed adultery during 2020. He started having an affair with our son's preschool teachers aide. I didn't find out until Jan. 2022. Even after I found out he impregnated her. They now have a son. I didn't find out about his outside child until this year. It's been soo much drama, hurt, pain court, lawyers,etc. I filed for the divorce that he wanted but would not file. Now he wants custody of our 2 children and for me to move out! I've been angry, devastated, & am now indifferent. He never stopped being intimate with me. I've been waiting and praying. 😢 I don't want the divorce but his now baby momma is obsessed with harassing me and our children. They are 12 & 9. My husband has teamed up with her against me. As if I've done this to him!!!
YOU GUYS ARE SUCH A BLESSING TO THIS COMMUNITY 💕 I LOVE THE TRANSPARENCY AND HONESTY MINISTERING TO BROKEN HEARTS SEEKING AN ANSWERS AND A HOPE TO KEEP GOING INTO THE BATTLE OF STANDING. THERE IS HOPE. THERE IS A FUTURE THERE IS STILL A PROMISE TO BEEN SEEN. GOD DOES SPEAK. WE NEED TO BE STILL. WAIT. "GOD IS STILL STEPPING IN" LIKE ADRIENNE SAID.... " It's worth the fight, it's worth your obedience, it's worth trusting him and allowing him what he's going to do ".... WE WANT TO SEE HIS RESULTS ... NOT OUR OWN.... LOVE YOU GUYS. UNCOMMON FAM.... WE GOT THIS. GOD IS FOR US GOD IS FOR MARRIAGE. DON'T GIVE UP! THE PROMISE IS AHEAD 🙌
Thank you both for being obedient to the Lords calling. Thank you for encouraging those of us that standing and trusting God to do what seems like impossible situations. It is Gods will to restore people to himself and families to be restored.
so so encouraging! Thank you for sharing. I am a stander...6 plus years in and get signs pretty much every day. I love your guys story, have listened to it a few times..the Rejoice Marriage Ministries interview. I am in the NW, maybe we can meet sometime..:)
It is so hard. I’m glad I listen to this because I honestly am on the skinny verge hanging on by a tiny thread not to give up. It has been 18 months. I have dealt with the most evil from the OW for 365 days. And it doesn’t seem to be changing yet. And often times I wonder are you even hearing me God. Are you forgetting me? This is super hard. And my husband tells me that he’s going to send a divorce papers. There’s been so much mean done and so many ugly threats from her. It’s been very ugly.
Thank you so much for the testimony and encouragement to keep standing, though I'm in tears and hurting as some times it is hard. I find myself asking God that maybe he has told me to stop standing but I didn't hear him or I didn't get it Cause how do I keep standing when he (prodigal) has blocked me we don't have any form of communication even about the kids he talks directly to them and decides whatever he wants with them whenever and sideline me I feel undermined at times the kids are still young though I keep quiet and keep my peace. At times I'm discouraged to pray or pray for him but I pray it has just been difficult. I pray for restoration I pray soften his Heart.
Do you think this is true even in marriages that had issues from the start and in prodigals that continue to date, not putting effort into their children and it’s been several years?
Thank you. Can you say how you believe God redeems the time. I am struggling to understand how all those birthdays, holidays, just cosy evenings together can be redeemed, they are gone. How would you say you have seen this work out? Thanks 🙂
Listerning to you this morning kinda strengthen my wait...I was contemplating giving up bcz there's no movement looks like our marriage is dead bcz there's no contact between me and my prodigal husband.if we talk then it's fights he is very angry and resentful towards me no matter how loving and softly I try to approach him ,he will either give silent treatment or respond in a fighting manner ,the sad part is we are posters .the only thing he wants it's for me to sign the divorce papers and I've been refusing that makes him angry
How do i keep my hope alive? It looks like God has forsaken me. I feel defeated. I reached out to my husband on Thanksgiving...I'm still blocked. No contact in over 5 years. No family, no friends
Sitting in the valley of the unknown for the past three years has been very challenging on so many fronts. However, I am seeking the Kingdom first and His Righteousness, and trusting that All things are being added unto me (including my restored marriage). Peace and Blessings to you two!!
SHON, oh my goodness...thank you for your vulnerability! Do not apologize!
Shon, I don’t think you have lost or missed anything. Evidently, it was all a part of the plan. It is said, you can’t do anything about what happen, but you can do something about today. To me, you are doing well!! I salute you both!! I’m waiting on my wife to come home and I have gone and are going through all the things your wife experienced. Waiting to see her come to your place of maturity has been the challenge for me. You have so many question as you wait, I’m sure your wife agrees. From quitting and wanting to give up, to knowing what the word has said, is a mouthful. As I watch yall, I want to cry, but I’m still hoping and trying to love her through it. I’m hanging on. Thank you for your story!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Shon and Adrienne, what a powerful testimony, speaking from gut-wrenching places of the heart. The things you shared here are so encouraging for me to keep going in my journey of standing, to be faithful and obedient to His calling as I wait for my husband. No, its not easy with the holidays, but God is faithful. I'm thankful for His presence.
I'm thankful my husband calls me and we talk, even though he's not yet at the point of returning, I'm trusting the Lord for the years the locust has eaten.
As you said, God can make those years that were "lost" as if they weren't lost. 😊
Thank you for sharing your testimony it gives me hope. My husband are separated and it has been really hard and painful. But my hope is that God restore our marriage.
Shalom, no questions all Shon's and the Father's love in one sentence: Thank you for stand. God is teaching me, though this for our restoration. Thank you ❤
This was such an emotional episode😭😭😭 Holy Spirit was moving. Thank you so much for your vulnerability and honesty. Praying for a whole pizza. Love you both so much ❤❤❤
At this moment, I don't want to even think about a restoration. I am more interested in healing my relationship with God and be happy and content with God. I have prayed for my husband and I want to leave him to God and work on myself
Thank you for making this video, thank you for your transparency, this has given me motivation not to give up on my marriage and to keep trusting and allowing God to do what he wants to do in my husband and I including it children. God bless you and your family.
You are so welcome
Beautiful words. Thank you once again for your obedience so that we who are waiting and standing can be encouraged. I know that I am fighting for something so much bigger than me or my spouse or my marriage or my kids. It's all of it plus the generation that comes after and the many families that will be restored as a result. There are many still to be rescued! Let's keep trusting God! He knows what He's doing!!
Love you guys too!
Making me all emotional over here! 🥺🥲
Man I love you guys ! Your videos are amazing and always give me such strength ❤️ I have had an amazing walk this past 3 years waiting for my wife to return. The relationship with my three kids has grown so so much in faith. God bless you both - I will continue to fight and pray for you all !
I have found such comfort, encouragement and wisdom in listening to you both as I stand. It's confusing, heartbreaking, and at times seems to be without hope. And then there are the unknown consequences we don't talk about, simply because, we don't know how it will turn out yet, 'did I lose the gifts God had for me? did I miss my chance to do God's will for my life in our marriage?'
I am so thankful you went there in tonight's video, thank you. You gave us a perspective I never thought about concerning these tough questions (that I ask myself a lot and have felt nothing but guilt over), and it made me realize, I am not to wait until things are brought to some new normal, or things are 'just right,' to move forward with what I think is God's will. God's will is for us to shine his light right now, despite stormy circumstances we may be in, the mistakes we have made along the way, and the unknown outcome of our waiting. Our personal ministries are to shine the light on his truth, and to share our faithwalk with others along the way, and not freeze, or hide from that. Our vows may have been broken, but they still have meaning with the Lord. He is asking us to stay partnered with Him in it, no matter what is ahead. And to have faith in the fact He is the God of promises, and the God of redemption.
Thank you for the transparency you spoke of~ we need that depth to find the hope...
Pray, wait, trust. Thank you Jesus for this reminder. The storm is still fierce, but your presence is stronger. Thank you Adrienne and Shon for always encouraging me to not give up. God Will make a way for my marriage.
May God continue to bless and keep you both. Thank you for being transparent . Your story will bless so many marriages. I know this was nothing but God that this showed up in my feed. God knows what we need. I felt like giving up today, feeling that my situation was hopeless even though I have been praying and believing. God is able. I got a little hope left in me to hold on a little bit longer. Thank you for sharing.
Your ministry is such a blessing. You haven’t missed it. Very powerful.
I continue to thank God for finding this channel. Your victorious marriage reconciliation testimony and encouragement is so appreciated! Shon (hope I am spelling that right), your question to God about timing hit home for me as a Christian husband. Time has been a major concern of mine especially with so much struggle at once. May our God richly bless you and Adrienne!
You were restored when my stand started ❤
This is so amazing! All you are saying is what my husband and I have been living through. It was a long stand, but as you said, it feels like it never happened aside from talking about the past. May God bless you!
I thank you so much for posting this video. I have watched all your video and so happy that I reached out to Shon and she responded back and I was about to give up on my marriage but your videos gave me hope. Thank you Adrienne for being so honest. I thank you God for blessing for family.
Amen! I pray he truly sees the “gem,” “the Diamond in the ruff” of a wife he has! 🙏🏽
This was encouraging and beautiful to watch. All things truly work together for the good of them that love God and to them that are the called according to His purpose. I'm believing. It's been a little rough with him being in the home, but just today I cried out to the Father. I need guidance. Do whatever you have to, even if it means removing him from the home until you finish with him. Thank you for praying for us. God bless🙏🏾
God Bless you both and your union, yall videos are always on time , God has restored our marriage, it now how do we deal with the things both of us has done to each other and our family, But God he will get us through🙏
Praise God and I'm praying for you all 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
@@tmh6119 Amen 🙏
God bless your family
Wow we are so glad that God is so faithful to fulfill that which he has promised.
One thing that you will have to remember is that of the story of the prodigal son. We know one son bounced out on his dad and family. The one thing I believe we tend to forget is that of reconciliation. The only true way this happens is humility, humbleness and allowing God to cleanse us completely in and out.
Though the story focuses on the son that left, what about the son that stayed who ended up having a hardened heart for throwing a party and welcoming his brother home. It is only when the father gave him the realization of what could have been that the son had to willingly choose to forgive. We all have a choice to make in forgiveness of self as well as others. When we begin to understand that God chose us knowing our dirt and still calls is unto himself, it is then when we can do the same for ourselves as well as others.
Be blessed and we are here for you🙏
This has encouraged me so much, thank you.
Keep walking in your blessings! A beautiful testimony and embracing a divine work of the Lord. God has given me a strength and wisdom beyond even my understanding that if my ex and I are never restored, he and his new wife will be overcome with the holy Spirit and lead their families and many in the world out of darkness and be a light for the rest of their lives in the world. I know that people will be amazed, but God works in mysterious ways...He can do anything!! My ex said that God brought them back together over years of us being married and I didn't believe it then but now that I'm walking with God more I have surrendered in peace and is watching how they will lead others to Christ. God is going to get the glory. Amen😊
Love you guys so much 🙏❤️ I’m crying with you both. Just the love and intimacy between you two is so beautiful. I’ve been standing for about 6 1/2 years and my husband did have a fake ceremony and he also has a child with the other woman. Sometimes I don’t even know how to pray because I literally feel like I’m praying for another family to go through the pain that me and our two sons have been going through for all this time. And I know you said you had a friend or two in that same situation. If it’s possible for you to share some more on that topic that would be so helpful because I feel so hopeless.
@@daniellemoss7746 Hi Daniella. I am so sorry to hear what you and your children have been through. I stand with you my sister to know God got you and he will see you through and give you the strength to keep perseverant. He hear your prayers sis. Iam standing as well after five years of separation and eighteen years of marriage. My husband also have had two children with the OW. I will trust God for restoration 🙏 for my marriage and praying for you as well my sister. Stay strong and trust God my sister❤️🙏🙏.
Trust in the lord with all your heart do not lean on your own understanding. Trusting God for restoration of my relationship & our future marriage.Amen.
My husband is an in-home prodigal. He committed adultery during 2020. He started having an affair with our son's preschool teachers aide. I didn't find out until Jan. 2022. Even after I found out he impregnated her. They now have a son. I didn't find out about his outside child until this year. It's been soo much drama, hurt, pain court, lawyers,etc. I filed for the divorce that he wanted but would not file. Now he wants custody of our 2 children and for me to move out! I've been angry, devastated, & am now indifferent. He never stopped being intimate with me. I've been waiting and praying. 😢 I don't want the divorce but his now baby momma is obsessed with harassing me and our children. They are 12 & 9. My husband has teamed up with her against me. As if I've done this to him!!!
YOU GUYS ARE SUCH A BLESSING TO THIS COMMUNITY 💕
I LOVE THE TRANSPARENCY AND HONESTY MINISTERING TO BROKEN HEARTS SEEKING AN ANSWERS AND A HOPE TO KEEP GOING INTO THE BATTLE OF STANDING.
THERE IS HOPE.
THERE IS A FUTURE
THERE IS STILL A PROMISE TO BEEN SEEN.
GOD DOES SPEAK. WE NEED TO BE STILL. WAIT.
"GOD IS STILL STEPPING IN" LIKE ADRIENNE SAID....
" It's worth the fight, it's worth your obedience, it's worth trusting him and allowing him what he's going to do "....
WE WANT TO SEE HIS RESULTS ... NOT OUR OWN....
LOVE YOU GUYS.
UNCOMMON FAM....
WE GOT THIS.
GOD IS FOR US
GOD IS FOR MARRIAGE.
DON'T GIVE UP!
THE PROMISE IS AHEAD 🙌
Thank you both for being obedient to the Lords calling. Thank you for encouraging those of us that standing and trusting God to do what seems like impossible situations. It is Gods will to restore people to himself and families to be restored.
Thanks guys I appreciate you for all your support and encouragement I needed it holiday season brings a lot of pain and I’m trying to get through it
Thank you so much. 🎉 Your encouragement is absolutely priceless ❤️
so so encouraging! Thank you for sharing. I am a stander...6 plus years in and get signs pretty much every day. I love your guys story, have listened to it a few times..the Rejoice Marriage Ministries interview. I am in the NW, maybe we can meet sometime..:)
It is so hard. I’m glad I listen to this because I honestly am on the skinny verge hanging on by a tiny thread not to give up. It has been 18 months. I have dealt with the most evil from the OW for 365 days. And it doesn’t seem to be changing yet. And often times I wonder are you even hearing me God. Are you forgetting me? This is super hard.
And my husband tells me that he’s going to send a divorce papers. There’s been so much mean done and so many ugly threats from her. It’s been very ugly.
Such a beautiful word, thank you. The anointing was so strong.
God bless you both ❤
Admire and I'm grateful for you both for sharing your testimony and for your loving outreach ❤
Thank you for being God’s vessels. 🙏💕
Thank you so much for the testimony and encouragement to keep standing, though I'm in tears and hurting as some times it is hard. I find myself asking God that maybe he has told me to stop standing but I didn't hear him or I didn't get it
Cause how do I keep standing when he (prodigal) has blocked me we don't have any form of communication even about the kids he talks directly to them and decides whatever he wants with them whenever and sideline me I feel undermined at times the kids are still young though I keep quiet and keep my peace.
At times I'm discouraged to pray or pray for him but I pray it has just been difficult. I pray for restoration I pray soften his Heart.
I love this for you both ❤
So encouraging
Thank you so much for sharing such great information that really helps the ones who still standing in the gap for our merry restoration. ❤
Thank you so much. God bless you
Thanks for the encouragement 😊
Hello my brother and sister in christ. So glad to hear from yall❤.
Happy happy Holidays Adrien and Sean
Have I miss putting back my marriage back together, is it to late for me and my Husband ❤️ walk...I will never give up on us
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HAPPY BLESS Thanksgiving 🦃 Day and a BLESS Holidays.
Thank you. Amen😭❤🙏🏾
Awesome!!!
Do you think this is true even in marriages that had issues from the start and in prodigals that continue to date, not putting effort into their children and it’s been several years?
THANK YOU ❤
Thank you!❤
Thank you. Can you say how you believe God redeems the time. I am struggling to understand how all those birthdays, holidays, just cosy evenings together can be redeemed, they are gone. How would you say you have seen this work out? Thanks 🙂
😪😪😪 I have sow so many Tears..😢😢
Listerning to you this morning kinda strengthen my wait...I was contemplating giving up bcz there's no movement looks like our marriage is dead bcz there's no contact between me and my prodigal husband.if we talk then it's fights he is very angry and resentful towards me no matter how loving and softly I try to approach him ,he will either give silent treatment or respond in a fighting manner ,the sad part is we are posters .the only thing he wants it's for me to sign the divorce papers and I've been refusing that makes him angry
It just hurt soooo much.
Amen !
What Bible Study did you guys participate in?
Was during covid shut in time so we had it at home
@@anuncommonlove1112thank you. Was it a Bible study that you guys came up with or do you follow one held by a Church online?
How many years were you gone? And were you divorced and then remarried or just separated?
22:12 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
How do i keep my hope alive? It looks like God has forsaken me. I feel defeated. I reached out to my husband on Thanksgiving...I'm still blocked. No contact in over 5 years. No family, no friends