I Tried to Cook American BBQ for Italians

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  • @sarawilliams3190
    @sarawilliams3190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +396

    Mama Rosa's reaction and the way she cradled Harper's face made me cry a little bit, missing my own late mother. So much love at that table. How beautiful! Thanks for sharing.

    • @jeffreyjeziorski341
      @jeffreyjeziorski341 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      You became a member of the family, Italian style.

    • @lisaflower5994
      @lisaflower5994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I felt the same….and I think Harper did, too. Not sure if it was Mama Rosa’s love or the emotion on Harper’s face, but I welled up. Beautiful video, beautiful family.

    • @maemaemay7013
      @maemaemay7013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same!....If ever I were to marry...I want to strive to have that kind of commitment to loving his family! Well done Harper. Sweet kind wife award to Eva! Hugs to all♡

    • @joefabbri6453
      @joefabbri6453 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      in Generale , il sapore dell’affumicato ė una Cosa non molto comume nella cucina Italiana. Per molti tradizionalisti o persone non aperte a nuovi Sapori ė difficile fargli apprezzare ( non solo assaggiare ) Dei gusti differenti dalle loro tradizioni, I per esempio non sopporto la root beer. Domanda a Vincenzo’s plate cosa ha pensato del veggiamine quando ė arrivato in Australia - Però ti capisco, e onore a te. - io per esempio sono stato felicissimo quando ho fatto le BBQ RIBS in Italia e Ogni anno Papà mi domandava di rifarle. Good job 👍🏻 ad entrare nella famiglia Dalla sala da pranzo

  • @vincenzosplate
    @vincenzosplate 3 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    wow, I wish I had been there too and try that super yummy American BBQ 🤤🤤

    • @ishanthezombiekillingpogch6322
      @ishanthezombiekillingpogch6322 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      oh wow I didn't know your here too.....

    • @daniellehurrell6620
      @daniellehurrell6620 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yay! Vincenzo! Love your channel as well! I'm still trying to perfect my cacio e pepe based on your video! It's really difficult, but I won't give up! Someday I will have perfect creaminess and NO strings of pecorino! It would be amazing if you came to the states to try our food! If you do, please vlog it!

    • @AdamFloro
      @AdamFloro 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice to see you here, Vincenzo! Thanks for introducing me to Pasta Grammar!

  • @Nivola1953
    @Nivola1953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I had my American BBQ in Austin TX, it was in 1983 but I still remember it fondly. That’s some American food an Italian like me, can like. The next best experience with food in USA was clam chowder and Atlantic lobster in Gloucester MA.

    • @jenniferwithey6443
      @jenniferwithey6443 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Central Texas BBQ is the best (in the opinion of this Texas native -lol).

  • @bennett8535
    @bennett8535 3 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    I completely understand Harper's situation. I'm an American living in Sri Lanka, and every year I have a traditional Thanksgiving dinner for 10 or so Sri Lankan friends. Full dinner, including apple and pumpkin pies. Trying to find the ingredients (some I bring from the US in anticipation), juggling between two counter-top ovens, helpers that only have the vaguest idea of what they're doing (although some of the long-time guests get the basics) - it's friggin' crazy making. I start prepping three days before Thanksgiving. But, as with Harper, the meal always manages to come together in the end. Somehow.

    • @arjay9745
      @arjay9745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Great story. :)

    • @victoriashelton1466
      @victoriashelton1466 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I have done similar things for my husbands South Sudanese fam for various holidays , Easter , thanksgiving etc . Once my mom was in town and helped me. We fed like 20 ppl. I appreciate they always bring a “backup” familiar dish like Evas family did . Because their food is amazing in a different way . It’s fun to share cultures. Our wedding was half American half
      Homemade food from his family . So grateful the hotel was accommodating for that .also so grateful to his amazing family

    • @josephchiorazzi8276
      @josephchiorazzi8276 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I also am an American and visited Sri Lanka for 3 weeks a few years ago! If you don't mind me asking, how did you find yourself living there?

    • @bennett8535
      @bennett8535 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I came to SL in 2005 to help with tsunami recovery (and after the civil war, war destruction recovery) and have stayed ever since.

    • @spongemonkeysooz
      @spongemonkeysooz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      As long as you remember to thaw the turkey and turn on the oven you're way ahead of many young Americans 🤭

  • @Ethan-im3kr
    @Ethan-im3kr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Whether BBQ is mediocre or amazing, if it brings a family together for a meal that’s what matters! Eva’s family seems so sweet and sincere too 🥺

    • @jovetj
      @jovetj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Food transcends boundaries. We all need to eat, and we all love good food. BBQ is great food.

  • @cookxlearn
    @cookxlearn 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Harper putting that much effort for the family, is the sweetest thing ever, and Eva's family appreciating that is just one of the most beautiful thing in this channel.

  • @kathleensmith8365
    @kathleensmith8365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    Gotta say you put your heart into it. That is the best seasoning in any language. Eva's parents looked as proud of you as if they had raised you. So sweet.

  • @MrGilRoland
    @MrGilRoland 3 ปีที่แล้ว +398

    6:14 : Harper: “I’m going to cook for all of you”.
    Eva’s parents: “If he has to burn to the ground the house so be it, but at least let’s risk the old house not the new one” 😂

    • @truthfinder6246
      @truthfinder6246 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bwaahahahaaaa!

    • @MrAranton
      @MrAranton 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So much for the Italian sense of tradition...

  • @owudynasty
    @owudynasty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    I just love watching Eva give her seal of approval with a huge Smile. Harper pulled it off. I think Cooking is all about improving on technique by repetition. The Smoker in Italy needed Foil to lock in the Heat even if the Meat wasn't wrapped in Foil. You're Brave to have gone for it with several people. Again enjoyed this episode. Bless

    • @Galexlol
      @Galexlol 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You guys underestimate so much how good you are at smoking as a general population lol here only the people making Speck (professionally) or something else know how to use it properly, we literally just have a grill usually and we roast things on it, this is such an american thing everyone knows and you guys need to let it flow into the world!!! :D

    • @firghteningtruth7173
      @firghteningtruth7173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Galexlol as a guy who fancies himself at least the best BBQ chef in the house, if not the block...
      Its not as common as you might think. Especially with the younger generation.
      Ive educated my friends as much as I can...but some have never done anything like it. So theyll say they get the concept...but dont even know how to build a fire, and dont have the patience or care to learn. 🤣
      Also, theres quite a few ways to skin a cat. Thats why I think pellet smokers are taking over. Just easier for a once in a blue moon BBQ.

  • @stevieg4201
    @stevieg4201 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This looked really good, the reason we wrap the meat is so that we can raise the temperature significantly, I usually use pink butchers paper instead of foil, the paper protects the meat when the temperatures are raised, also, a little secret trick is, right before you wrap the meat, coat the butchers paper with beef tallow, even a splash on the meat, this will make it amazingly moist, it has to get hot enough to melt down the collagen and connecting material in the muscle.
    Che Dio ti benedica amico mio 🇮🇹😎🇮🇹

  • @firegirl6636
    @firegirl6636 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It’s so sweet to see how much Mamma Rosa loves Harper and he was so happy that he pleased them. Complimenti.

  • @williamrobelen8718
    @williamrobelen8718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    It was such a relief when they all liked it, I was getting anxiety worrying about it. Everyone who makes a dedicated effort has those "why am I doing this" moments.

    • @shlomovenezia101
      @shlomovenezia101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Spoiler alert

    • @farrex0
      @farrex0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@shlomovenezia101 Well if you go looking into the comments without having finished a video, in it is on you for getting spoiled.

    • @shlomovenezia101
      @shlomovenezia101 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@farrex0 😜🌈

    • @rusdioyag1218
      @rusdioyag1218 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣th-cam.com/video/BFNBdxp48VU/w-d-xo.html

  • @FlightOfJatayu
    @FlightOfJatayu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    "I have a bunch of wine waiting for me!"
    Legend

  • @tangoangel2782
    @tangoangel2782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    I am vegetarian and I just watched a whole episode on meat, that I have zero intent to ever attempt… You guys are THAT GOOD in making great videos! Love how real you are.

    • @shlomovenezia101
      @shlomovenezia101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂

    • @PastaGrammar
      @PastaGrammar  3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      That’s the best compliment we could receive! Grazie mille!

    • @asnarkygirl
      @asnarkygirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @Fame_Rate
      @Fame_Rate 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      uuuh me as a vegetarian was able to watch your vids, thats how good you are. stop it dude xD

    • @olivierdk2
      @olivierdk2 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But that bad at making food, any kind of food.

  • @michaelbarton5169
    @michaelbarton5169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    A little "Texas crutch" foil job never hurt anyone. I find the thicker, darker bark is really only appreciated by purists. The softened bark fr the foil is more widely appreciated. Fun video and love the commitment! Ciao

    • @godspi4609
      @godspi4609 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The Texas crutch is almost a must on large chunks of meat like that

    • @cydrych
      @cydrych 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I use butcher paper and do the “boat technique” the top still gets the crusty bark but the juices stay and hold heat for a big cut of meat.

  • @MetalMann-de3xi
    @MetalMann-de3xi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    If you're looking to maintain moisture in the meat, you need to wrap it. Not just to cook, but you need to allow it to rest in the wrap and let the temperature to go down BEFORE you shred it for at least 1-2 hours. When you cut it when it's hot, all the juices will pour out and you'll be left with dry meat.

  • @kevindrake4529
    @kevindrake4529 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I think this was so very sweet of you to go to all that trouble for them; they clearly are wonderful people who appreciated your effort. And what you made looked delicious. I bet they will remember that day forever and I bet they all really enjoyed something different and unique like you gave them.

  • @MadaxeMunkeee
    @MadaxeMunkeee ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Cooking for people you love nearly always goes like this. Your standards go through the roof but at the end of the day they love you and they can see your effort so of course they’re going to appreciate it! That was so wholesome, what a sweetheart you are Harper, staying up all night to smoke meat for them after all the amazing food they had shared with you. You’re a good egg!

  • @LarryHatch
    @LarryHatch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    When you have to rush slow cook BBQ (often for a short notice catering job) the experts sometimes use a trick. Melt a cup of pork fat, add 20% butter and mix this slurry in with the pulled meat. In the old days they'd just use lard but raw fat has more flavor complexity. Some pros swear by adding bacon fat grease but I think that alters the flavor too much. The extra fat infusion will make it rich and greasy. And of course everything is better with a little butter.

  • @lor431
    @lor431 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    6:44 As a Texan with a boyfriend that loves to do BBQ, I can say Eva has the right mindset here 😂😂😘😘
    Also, good job Harper! Timing the BBQ to be ready on time is a skill you learn with trial and error. For your first time with a new smoker, not bad.

  • @annaalbanese9392
    @annaalbanese9392 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Harper as an Italian myself I have to say that I am proud of you for trying to cook something like BBQ that looks easy but in reality is hard and time consuming.it looked delicious.

  • @Quingess
    @Quingess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love the humanity of your channel! It's not 'Instagram polished' as a lot of things online are and you tell a story and show emotion without dramatizing (is that an English word?) too much.
    On the other hand, Eva's cooking seems to be superhuman and that's a plus as well. ;)

  • @arjay9745
    @arjay9745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    Cousin Bruno brought pasta because the Italians were all mortified at the idea of having 'secondo' with no 'primo'!!!! Hahahahaha! I'm literally falling off my chair.

    • @arjay9745
      @arjay9745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      BTW, I just love these episodes. It's like watching a rerun of my own life. I also made barbecue for a truckload of my Calabrian family to try and impress them with something they couldn't possibly 'not like,' and I also did it at my father-in-law's second house with no bed. I also had to make compromises that made it sub-par, but the family were quite nice about it and all had seconds, so.... Consider my experience the control experiment proving that 1. BBQ is great and 2. Calabrians are nice people.

    • @loiracitr
      @loiracitr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      They probably thought it would be rude to be invited for lunch by a "guest" and not bring some food

    • @arjay9745
      @arjay9745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@loiracitr You're very charitable. I did this exact same thing with my Calabrian family and my brother-in-law's first comment was: 'E il primo????'

    • @Galexlol
      @Galexlol 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@arjay9745 you cannot expect to eat primo everyday and suddenly you don't do it, unacceptable :D but jokes aside, especially in ferragosto we usually just eat a thousand kgs of meat alone lol

    • @loiracitr
      @loiracitr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@arjay9745 I have been to plenty of BBQ in Italy (where we just grill the meat, so surely not as good as here). It is a normal and common thing here

  • @mygetawayart
    @mygetawayart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    we don't usually have pulled pork or briskets or ribs, but we do have BBQ in a way. Here in Sicily we have "Arrusti e Mancia" which means "roast and eat" and it's usually sausage, lamb, pork, cipolline (bacon wrapped scallions), even pork ribs (but not the way you're picturing them, smothered in BBQ sauce).

    • @bdavis7801
      @bdavis7801 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bacon wrapped scallions sounds so good! 😍 My folks sometimes would do bacon wrapped dates for the holidays but I'm going to have to try scallions! How is it prepared? One scallion or several wrapped up?

    • @binkyslapass1
      @binkyslapass1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@bdavis7801 cippoline buono...qui mette anche tomino su grill :-)

    • @rusdioyag1218
      @rusdioyag1218 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      👍👍th-cam.com/video/BFNBdxp48VU/w-d-xo.html

    • @mygetawayart
      @mygetawayart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@bdavis7801 just take a strip (or multiple depending on the length of the scallion) of bacon and wrap it around the scallion. Then wrap the whole thing in tinfoil and cook it on the BBQ just like that. It won't take too long but the scallion inside has to get tender, not crunchy anymore.

    • @bdavis7801
      @bdavis7801 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mygetawayart Thank you! 😊

  • @sherikaypennati6190
    @sherikaypennati6190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I am laughing so hard. I tried to make Mexican food for my Italian family and that was the hardest, most stressful thing I ever did. I just don't know what I was thinking. I am actually a good cook, but not sure they think so after that!😂😂😂😂 But good job Harper. I love to watch you two. I am currently in America and my hubby is in Italy because of our jobs. You too make me feel close to him.

  • @yoddy0
    @yoddy0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'll smoke a 10-14 lb brisket from time to time and when he started doubting why he didn't just do hotdogs or hamburgers I was actually laughing. That thought always comes up right around the early morning when its over half the cook but not quite almost done. Its always worth it in the end. The flavor of slow smoked bbq cannot be replicated.

  • @rosacortes5074
    @rosacortes5074 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love this episode for 2 reasons. One, the love Harper put into preparing this meal for his family. Secondly, the graciousness & love Eva's family enjoyed the BBQ meal. Thank you for sharing. ❤💃🙏

  • @Dularr
    @Dularr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yep, should have wrapped the brisket during Texas crunch. The stall occurs when evaporation is setting in and cooling the meat. The wrap keeps the humidity at close to 100%.

  • @tonyalbanese6446
    @tonyalbanese6446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Kudos to you Harper. Cooking for a group with equipment you haven't tried before is challenging. It looks fantastic, even though you criticize yourself a bit too harshly. Papa Turi going back for seconds definitely means you passed the test. Nice work! 👍👍🤤

  • @Earle29
    @Earle29 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I adore Eva…..”can I have another piece?”

  • @puglover4280
    @puglover4280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    "Making the thing that takes hours and hours..." LOL. I've done that a few times and wondered about my sanity. God bless you for wanting to please lovely Eva's family. You must be in love!

  • @sampletextlensflare
    @sampletextlensflare 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've noticed that there are a bunch of entertaining American/Italian couples that have been popping up recently on TH-cam... but you guys will always be my favorite. :)

  • @manuelliberatore9598
    @manuelliberatore9598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Harper is like that one child who got 9/10 on a test but still isn't completely satisfied 🤣 scherzi a parte, ottimo lavoro ✌🏻

  • @ragnaroik
    @ragnaroik 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Harper to be honest i always stop before target temperature and let the meat mature up to closer the target temperature.
    Imo you did spot on.

  • @boomvoom8
    @boomvoom8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Poor Harper with the teeny-tiny eyes in the wee small hours of the morning... it was wonderful that Eva stayed with. I'm sure the wine helped a bit! 😊😉

  • @bonnieoliver219
    @bonnieoliver219 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such fun to watch, especially when Harper was half asleep. I’m an American woman who retired to Santa Domenica Talao, Calabria Italy. I miss BBQ , I’m from southern Louisiana, so i know food! My neighbor from Boulder, Colorado, has a BBQ Pit and grills steaks for me on his terrace overlooking the Tyrrhenian Sea when he is visiting. We have fun and I may I ask he and his lovely wife, to grill a pork butt. He is always willing to grill a steak for me. We will NOT do 10 Kg of pork shoulder, and pull an overnighter. Zzz We have a local butcher, and we get wonderful cuts of beef, pork, chickens, you name it, locally raised along with very affordable organic produce. Life in Calabria is spectacular! Ciao Eva and Harper. I enjoy your channel. Very informative and entertaining. Love Eva’s cooking videos, she is spectacular! Wishing you continued success. I really enjoyed seeing Mama Rosa hugging Harper. Dolce. Ciao.

  • @iafozzac
    @iafozzac 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I made some pulled pork here in Italy last year for ferragosto, we're all cheapskates here so instead of buying a barbecue we got a hoe, a shovel, and some elbow grease and dug out a earth oven which we closed with a slab of iron. The pig shoulder was just over 4 kg and cooked for half a day

    • @winey2139
      @winey2139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My father had a deep pit barbecue party every year at his home in Nevada, but he dug the hole with his backhoe.

    • @KeithHedger
      @KeithHedger 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That's the Mexican version called 'Barbacoa'. And it's delicious!

    • @messengeroftruth17
      @messengeroftruth17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sounds really good =)

    • @TheHatchetwoman
      @TheHatchetwoman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@KeithHedger I was going to say, "That's the original barbecue! Barbacoa, which was modified to the English "barbeque."

    • @iafozzac
      @iafozzac 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@TheHatchetwoman that moment when not wanting to spend money makes you discover a traditional dish from the other side of the world

  • @Shad0hawK
    @Shad0hawK 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As a pitmaster myself, I suggest a water tray inside the smoker but I do wrap it, I also suggest not putting raw charcoal in the smoker as this will produce a more bitter taste.

    • @Mottleydude1
      @Mottleydude1 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agreed! Injecting the pork shoulder with apple juice or a mixture of apple juice and apple cider vinegar helps keep it moist and adds flavor. The good thing about a pork shoulder is it’s very forgiving to BBQ.

  • @MiThreeSunz
    @MiThreeSunz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Kudos to you Harper for attempting this feat in Italy. Your initiative, dedication and passion were most honourable. I’m glad la famiglia enjoyed the fruit of your labour. Al tuo prossimo video! Saluti dal Canada. 🇮🇹🇨🇦

  • @angelaburrow8114
    @angelaburrow8114 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The main thing the family would have loved is that you cared enough to try. You love their daughter/cousin/etc, & you wanted to share something of your culture with her family, & you put in the effort. Any family will appreciate that & accept you for it. 🙂

  • @whitestone4401
    @whitestone4401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Food is about the journey and the company your share it with. The BBQ was excellent! Well done.

    • @PastaGrammar
      @PastaGrammar  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Grazie! And well said!

    • @MattCoversTech
      @MattCoversTech ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow, that unexpectedly hit a nerve and made me tear up a bit. Beautifully said.

  • @lelanixon3248
    @lelanixon3248 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Child, I was waiting for you to say someone in the neighborhood got nervous over the smell of smoke and called the Fire Department! 😂You Sir put your heart and soul into it and it showed! Congrats!

  • @thespiritualadvocate
    @thespiritualadvocate 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Also enjoy seeing Eva get a break cooking and being cooked for by her loving hubby💕
    Love seeing her receive
    Great job Harper🤹🏻‍♂️

  • @Msfelixthecatz
    @Msfelixthecatz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I LOVE this episode! I never understood the smoking craze, and why people raved about brisket. Until my son-in-law introduced me to it. Now I'm hooked, and just the thought of a smoked brisket makes me salivate. I love pork too!! Talked my hubby into buying a good smoker. I'm with Eva!!
    -

  • @gc4644
    @gc4644 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    It's a good thing you didn't decide to do a Texas Brisket, you would have been cooking another 8 hours longer!
    Glad Italians are starting to like American BBQ!

    • @bushcraftguru682
      @bushcraftguru682 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He said bbq. Brisket ain't bbq

    • @galier2
      @galier2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It might have been difficult to find briskett. Beef are cut up differently in Europe and there are even big variations between countries in Europe. You can see here on that wiki page the differences. fr.wikipedia.org/wiki/D%C3%A9coupe_du_b%C5%93uf

    • @Cicero82
      @Cicero82 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@bushcraftguru682 The fact that you decided to post an false statement on the internet is a weird flex, but run with it.

    • @bushcraftguru682
      @bushcraftguru682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Cicero82 I'm from NC. The birthday place of bbq. The first rule of bbq is It's ALWAYS pork!! Brisket is delicious, I'll give you that but it's a roast. It's a beef roast. Therefore NOT bbq. So flex on that simp

    • @Galexlol
      @Galexlol 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No my man we've ALWAYS LIKED IT, you guys don't seem to get this, please give me your ribs so i can destroy it all, you guys are so good at doing this and it's like you don't realize it, it's real american culinary culture!!! MOAR PLS gimme ribs

  • @christophervincent8420
    @christophervincent8420 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Been there bro. When my ego goes into gear, the food suffers. But when I go with heart and love in my food. It's a win. Always put love into it.

  • @20rvd02
    @20rvd02 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Dare I watch this? You're a brave man, Harper. Undoubtedly, you couldn't have done this without the protection of your fierce wife.

  • @Jay92925
    @Jay92925 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video is honestly so cute and the reason I adore Italy and the Italian mindset. And mama Rosa at the end , harper looks so embraced by the family and my heart 🥰

    • @mauriziocanale1669
      @mauriziocanale1669 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Italian family is something that is difficult to explain ......if you don't try ....

  • @loisadams2362
    @loisadams2362 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hey Harper, maybe the altitude was part of the issue? I think it is easy to forget how that affects cooking and Calabria has some higher areas. My husband and I love your channel and it makes me miss being in Calabria when I visited my Nonno's region. 💕💕

  • @Primeanaloggourmet
    @Primeanaloggourmet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    About 20 years ago I made a big dinner for my Italian family in Milano! I got all the ingredients together and smoked a pork shoulder too! This times it wasn't as challenging as now during Covid. On the menu was smoked pork butt(pulled pork) home made barbecue sauce great crostini from a little shop around the corner and also fried ravioli! (Obviously Americanized)! As all Italians love to do is be early(you know this by example). Anyway I had pre-made the barbecue sauce and the salads but wanted to make sure the ravioli appetizer was made when they all had arrived! While I was cooking they had set the table and dolled out the salads and were using the barbecue sauce as dressing! They loved the whole meal! Italians are so polite and loving people! So much fun cooking across borders!!! I love watching you and Eva!

  • @Mellathor
    @Mellathor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am sure everybody loved it harper, when someone puts so much love into it, it has to be amazing :)

  • @dryerofdoom
    @dryerofdoom 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cooking with family is probably the best way to bond

  • @momuv6980
    @momuv6980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You two are so sweet! I was a little weepy at the end of this vid. Your relationship warms my heart and if I'm honest . . . makes me more than a little envious. Keep cooking, keep making videos and keep loving each other. What you have together is a blessing and a rare gift!❤️

  • @MrBiker978
    @MrBiker978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good job Harper, doesn't matter if the result wasn't what you expected, what is important is the passion you put on it.
    You know, for us Italian people passion is everything.

  • @rudolfschenker
    @rudolfschenker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Eva has a beautiful family, what a fun life you guys have. I love what good sports they were about their first taste of American BBQ. Next time try cooking some other good southern food - fried chicken, biscuits, baked beans, and all kinds of other fried goodies.

  • @user-yt6cy3gf8k
    @user-yt6cy3gf8k ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the sweetest thing. I bet they are so happy to have to as a part of their family. You cooking for them shows how much you love her family. ♥️

  • @PreppoAntani
    @PreppoAntani 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It's simply means 2 things:
    - you learned from your "mistakes"
    - thanks to your "mistakes" next time you'll do better and if they've been happy with the result now, they'll be even happier next time!

  • @shannonyep3547
    @shannonyep3547 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video actually made me and my hubby tear up ! We watch your videos together all the time ! Love them ! We have been together almost 30 years and I hope and pray you guys have many wonderful years together! The love you guys have for each other is so sweet . The love both your families give to each of you is really beautiful. Great job Harper on BBQ and Eva your family is so beautiful! ❤️

  • @donscott6431
    @donscott6431 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wrap or not! IM SO GLAD that OUR tastes are enjoyed by other cultures!
    PS. I got a killer juniper/ginger/caramelized onion/ brown sugar/cider vinegar bbq sauce recipe: maybe I said too much?

  • @drmarx999
    @drmarx999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    North Carolina Barbeque! I taught at ECU, and the first time I was invited to a "pork pull," I said, "Are you serious?" Little did I know that I was in for a little slice of heaven! Now I live in Memphis, and it only gets better and better!

  • @unapologetically_me
    @unapologetically_me 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Harper, when family gathers you always have pasta, otherwise it’s not a meal. Don’t you know pasta is in our DNA? 😂 Love you guys! Watching on Sunday mornings make me want to go see my family!

  • @thespiritualadvocate
    @thespiritualadvocate 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved the comment about finding the American Wife for one of Eva’s family members!😇

  • @deborahmayberry1568
    @deborahmayberry1568 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I LOVED this episode - glimpses into the Eva’s world, lessons learned, honest evaluations❣️ In other words, LIFE🌸 Bellissimo❣️

  • @jeanneamato8278
    @jeanneamato8278 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not only do I love you guys but now I love your family, Eva.

  • @fionajane56
    @fionajane56 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was wonderful...the adventure of food. Family eating together...the love that surrounds it all!

  • @sazji
    @sazji 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow, you already inspired me to learn about authentic Italian cooking, and now I want to try barbecue! The meat may not have been perfect, but the effort and care, coupled with the good company of people who love each other, is priceless.

  • @tonyapedraza180
    @tonyapedraza180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I believe you've underestimated yourself Harper, it looked delicious to me!!😋😂💕

  • @justjenn1345
    @justjenn1345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how Eva’s family is so loving tward Harper 🥰

  • @primategaberocco
    @primategaberocco 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Good job Harper, that was amazing. But Bruno's pasta looked pretty damn good too, and a signature for that area. LOL again, kudos to Harper. 👍

  • @adriennespargo5435
    @adriennespargo5435 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's a cooking show, why did I cry? I'm so happy for you Harper, Eva's parents looked so happy and filled with love. The entire family was there, just a wonderful meal and a memory of a lifetime. Thank you for sharing.

  • @dianapohe
    @dianapohe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Aw poor Harper, being under the judgement of a whole Italian family must have been so stressful 💙 bravissimo! It still looked really nice though, i certainly would have liked it too.
    But now, will you share your new improved and perfectioned recipe with us and make it a blog article? My boyfriend loves shredded pork, also we have a real brick barbecue so it would be amazing to be able to make our own.

  • @electricgamez5415
    @electricgamez5415 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    When you hit the stall you can wrap it in foil. It’s already absorbed as much smoke as it can. Foils wrap with a little liquid- apple juice or even beer. It’s called the Texas crunch.

  • @sharimorris1021
    @sharimorris1021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Harper, you certainly were brave to attempt to BBQ for Eva's family. Looks like your efforts were successful. Congratulations for your success in Italy and for making another successful video. Well done. ( pun intended.)

    • @rusdioyag1218
      @rusdioyag1218 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😅th-cam.com/video/BFNBdxp48VU/w-d-xo.html

    • @caliscribe2120
      @caliscribe2120 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You have a rare sense of humor.

  • @christopherhamilton8853
    @christopherhamilton8853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    For someone who had never cooked bbq before, I think you did an amazing job. Keep cooking it and you will get better and better each time

  • @kevinbryan9620
    @kevinbryan9620 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The away game is always tougher than a home game. Add the outside temperature to the mix, and things are up in the air. Good job!

  • @arleendamico2734
    @arleendamico2734 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a beautiful video . Not just about BBQ but all about Family . Harper you really are truly Blessed. I know Eva Family appreciated your skill . BRAVO ! 👏👏👏

  • @jenniferwinsor7740
    @jenniferwinsor7740 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Glad I'm not the only one having these kinds of experiences (waiting on a big meal to cook properly with a household full of hungry guests). For me its been turkey.

    • @PastaGrammar
      @PastaGrammar  3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Oof, maybe someday I should tell the story of the first time I tried to cook Thanksgiving Turkey for Eva. Now THAT was a disaster 😂

    • @jenniferwinsor7740
      @jenniferwinsor7740 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@PastaGrammar I enjoy hearing of other people's disasters. I feel very connected and get the sense we're all in this together. My first cooking idol was the late, great Julia Child. She helped you understand that we do our best, we make the best with what we made and always try again.

    • @anti-ethniccleansing465
      @anti-ethniccleansing465 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jenniferwinsor7740
      I enjoy hearing about others’ disasters as well! I’ve had so many of them as I continue to learn how to cook, even though I just turned 46 years old. My folks didn’t teach me much because both of them were working all the time, so I’ve made MANY fails along the way, and still make fails, but when you nail it, it makes you feel so much more proud! And there is just an infinite amount of possibilities of things to make for food that I don’t think it is possible ever become amazing at cooking everything you try!
      Also, I am especially proud when I manage to ruin a dish I put a bunch of effort into, but then do a little research to learn how to save it - and low and behold, you can’t even tell that it was messed up from the start! :)

  • @bridgetagnello1877
    @bridgetagnello1877 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really loved this episode! Harper interacting with Eva’s family was heartwarming & seeing Eva mellowed out (read: slightly tipsy) drinking wine is so cute!! NICE JOB on the BBQ Harper!

  • @alidelatierra
    @alidelatierra 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love how his mentality is if there’s no bed you can’t sleep😆😆 I was so confused if there’s a ground I’ll sleep lmao

    • @cobbler88
      @cobbler88 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! I was thinking something similar. If you've got an area to smoke and a floor, you're G2G. I didn't understand a home being unfurnished as any sort of obstacle. To be honest, I didn't really see any reason he couldn't succeed. At least, no reason I couldn't have succeeded. But I do it differently. For that meat I usually go at 220 for about 12 hours, then wrap it and let it rest for another hour until the juices all find a home inside the meat. Unless that smoker couldn't reach the temp, I'm a little baffled. Maybe this was more "Guy who kinda knows how to make BBQ tries to make BBQ for Italian family."

  • @marlomagallanes6144
    @marlomagallanes6144 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Props for trying man, seems like my family as long as you put the love into it that’s all that matters.

  • @alejandrae5605
    @alejandrae5605 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    7:18 in the morning…Ohio, USA…fresh coffee cup in hand and watching my favorite TH-cam channel! Why up so early?…my three dogs wanted to go pee!
    I absolutely loved the effort, the love and passion you put into the bbq experience for Eva’s family. Eva…your family reminds me of my Italian family who lives in Argentina, I’m also married to a wonderful American man, just like Harper he’s funny and full of life!
    Anyway, I loved the video, the meat looks delicious and bbq sauce always helps if the meat is a bit dry!
    Eva don’t forget the malfatti per favore! Ciao amici! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @mioyakiyama5499
      @mioyakiyama5499 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Cease AndDesist how would bbq sauce be raw???

  • @marc2284
    @marc2284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I could watch Eva talk all day Im in love with her accent. Now I think BBQ is going to be lunch today.

  • @redneck7929
    @redneck7929 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wrap your meat next time, even the "old school bbq guys" still wrap the meat in butcher paper. Also after your meat forms a crust, spray it with a mix of 50/50 apple cider vinegar, water every hour or so, and when you wrap spray it down really well before you seal it up. Wrap at 160 because it won't suck up anymore smoke. Don't get your wood chips wet either when you do it gives the acrid smoke you don't want, you want a thin blue smoke, look for larger chunks that wont burn up so fast. Oh and when finished leave it wrapped and let it sit in a cooler for a few hours, this will let the meat suck the juices up.

    • @SilvaDreams
      @SilvaDreams 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yup, I hate those chips of wood.. My uncle would always buy them and I'd have to tell him to either go buy some logs or get the chunks because those chips are useless, they burn too fast and make too much heat to have a good even smoking.
      There is a good reason why my grandparents kicked him off grill duty and had be cooking BBQ at least once a month when I was helping take care of them before they passed. (kind of of sucked getting up at 4am to get the grill going though so it was ready for dinner!)

    • @redneck7929
      @redneck7929 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SilvaDreams I use logs on a off set smoker, but the best pork butt I've ever made was on a Weber kettle, using mesquite chunks, and the snake method. Yes those little chips are for gas grill smoker boxes and getting some quick smoke flavor on a steak not for smoking. I've been having to use a pellet grill for smoking more often though as smoking woods are getting harder to get at a reasonable price. And through trail and error, I've learned ribs take 3 1/2 hours at 225/250, everything else might as well start after dinner the day before.

    • @SilvaDreams
      @SilvaDreams 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@redneck7929 Yeah they are made for gas grills or those smoke guns but that was the problem we had a classic converted 55 gallon steel drum grill he kept trying to use the chips in like they were logs or chunks. So you'd go through damned near an entire bag in no time and it would just get too hot even if you wetted them (But as you said that gave it a funky taste)

    • @redneck7929
      @redneck7929 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SilvaDreams It's hard to keep a consistent temp when you have to keep tossing wood chips on the coals too. Nothing wrong with a barrel grill/smoker, I taught my girlfriend to smoke on one. I've made a lot of good bbq on a barrel smoker. Heh, my hobbies have changed over the years, I now collect smokers and grills...... I like to start my fire bed with lump charcoal, (for any noobs reading let the lighter fluid burn off before you start smoking or your food will taste like lighter fluid) then just run off of split hickory logs till 160, once it's wrapped it really doesn't matter what your fuel is, you can go back to charcoal to save wood.

  • @SEBASTIACOful
    @SEBASTIACOful 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    At least you tried it ! I'm from Colombia and tried to make food from where i'm from. They love it but it wasn't the same to me . Good job ! My partner is from Canada.

  • @irishpixierose
    @irishpixierose 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love the family was gathering to cheer you on, beautiful! Oh Harper, you made Eastern NC bbq. My personal favorite. Western NC bbq tends to be tomato based. I was never big on bbq until I tried Eastern NC bbq. Harper, where were you in NC? Would you mind sharing your vinegar based recipe for bbq?

  • @alexanderk.3177
    @alexanderk.3177 ปีที่แล้ว

    As always ---- such a pleasure! Please continue, my dear friends! 🇺🇲🇮🇹

  • @ufopsi
    @ufopsi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Calabria patrimonio alimentare dell’umanità!! Un caro saluto a Eva e Harper. 🥰

  • @73Bugman
    @73Bugman 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, you need to wrap the meat. Your wife's family loves you. Lucky Man.

  • @jimlow6824
    @jimlow6824 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Harper, in a BBQ class I took a few years ago our instructor, an award winning pitmaster, said "If a pitmaster tells you he doesn't use foil, he's either lying or losing."

  • @wolverinexo6417
    @wolverinexo6417 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is one thing no one can beat us on. American BBQ can’t be beat!

  • @domiozzz8901
    @domiozzz8901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Che bel quadro di famiglia! 💕💫

  • @daniellehurrell6620
    @daniellehurrell6620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Eva's curls are growing more beautiful by the day! My god, how does she have such beautiful hair? 😘

  • @gatorguy1449
    @gatorguy1449 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Mistake 1: you didn’t use a binder
    Mistake 2: you overcooked it
    Mistake 3: You didn’t wrap it
    And guess what. That’s all ok. It’s HARD to RUIN BBQ. It’s damn near impossible. So what it was a little dry? I bet it still tasted like freedom.

    • @b1k2q34
      @b1k2q34 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Freedom. Oh, please. We as a country are so far behind on so many ways.

    • @AvEnGeD7X238
      @AvEnGeD7X238 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@b1k2q34 for real😂 so sick of hearing “HOME OF THE FREE”. America been on a downward spiral for awhile, they been exposed.

    • @edwardssistershands
      @edwardssistershands 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Don't listen to these people trying to bring you down in the comments. The USA is still the only country with a bill of rights which protects our extremely valuable human freedoms. They hate to see anyone happy and expressing themselves and they hate patriotism. God bless the USA and be damned those that want it to fail.

    • @edwardssistershands
      @edwardssistershands 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @TILEN FABE No country has anything close to our first amendment. Our closest allies will fine or jail people for speech.

    • @edwardssistershands
      @edwardssistershands 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @TILEN FABE Luckily, we get trained to recognize those that wish to bring down the USA.

  • @ladyayrmid
    @ladyayrmid 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love my Sundays with Eva and Harper!

  • @massimocantarelli4769
    @massimocantarelli4769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Please Americans came to Italy and made some businesses about!! Can you imagine restaurants with our first plates and your traditional barbecue for second plates? World will fall in love!! Let’s make a deal! Who wanna start?

  • @Womanwithblackdog
    @Womanwithblackdog 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such fun! I notice Papa’s second helping was larger! Congratulations!

  • @Rcqtballr1
    @Rcqtballr1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Instead of foil, use butcher paper. I use it doing pork shoulder and brisket. It lessens the stall dramatically, keeps your bark intact, and keeps the meat moist. For an added benefit, add beef tallow or pork lard to the butcher paper before wrapping where the meat will be in contact.

  • @genieforsyth
    @genieforsyth ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your videos ! I learn so much about Italy and food. Ava is beautiful and Harper is charming. You both are so natural , it is refreshing to hear people who have real personalities. Thank you and please never say finite only andiamo. ❤️ Excuse my lame Italian.

  • @willisbcteoh9840
    @willisbcteoh9840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Injecting 💉 the meat with chicken or pork broth will help keep the meat moist. Harper has the resilience and kept the BBQ Flag flying high 👍 👍 👍
    Butcher Box looks like an awesome service.

  • @cat-breath9684
    @cat-breath9684 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your videos are so authentically done/well directed and your relationship is a joy to watch 👏😭 Even videos involving food I don’t like or eat I’ll watch anyway because it’s always such a journey. I have an Italian background and my family is far more Italian American than traditional so its great watching you dip into both sides of the culture!