Four yrs since I lost my son and 6 months ago lost my husband of 60 yr. My brain is all over the place. My heart hurts when I think of my son. I miss my husband so much. “We” is engraved in my brain. At 81 and ill, I knew intellectually knew it was his time. Emotionally, I am a mess. My brain will not allow me to bring intellect and emotions together.
My second husband died seven months ago, my first husband died 24 years ago, our middle son 25 years ago and our oldest son was diagnosed with a stage 4 melanoma he survived all this was in 2 years. I was married to my first husband for 30 years, my second for 21 years. I'm a a mess ! I've been so many people, I'm 71 and have no idea who I'm going to be..?
A question I would have liked to hear is, when your brain is rewiring, does it remove those neurons? Or do they just dull over time? I’m scared of forgetting things.
You shouldn't have to bury your child. Whether you lived close or far and haven't seen them often for years. Your child and spouse are very close soul ties. Your soul has traumas, too, not only your brain. Blood is thicker than water, so losing your child is horrific.
I would love to hear your thoughts on grieving “parents” who are still alive, but are estranged because they present as narcissists and don’t take any accountability to your reality and the abuse you and your siblings incurred through a lifetime, how they enabled each other’s dysfunction over the decades, and how they continue to manipulate their grandchildren, my children, by supporting the son in law who is also mentally unstable.
Four yrs since I lost my son and 6 months ago lost my husband of 60 yr. My brain is all over the place. My heart hurts when I think of my son. I miss my husband so much. “We” is engraved in my brain. At 81 and ill, I knew intellectually knew it was his time. Emotionally, I am a mess. My brain will not allow me to bring intellect and emotions together.
Thank you for this. I lost my husband 3 years ago and it is very helpful realizing what I've been through was normal and expected.
this is great material to work with the patients, thank you very much.
My second husband died seven months ago, my first husband died 24 years ago, our middle son 25 years ago and our oldest son was diagnosed with a stage 4 melanoma he survived all this was in 2 years. I was married to my first husband for 30 years, my second for 21 years. I'm a a mess ! I've been so many people, I'm 71 and have no idea who I'm going to be..?
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A question I would have liked to hear is, when your brain is rewiring, does it remove those neurons? Or do they just dull over time? I’m scared of forgetting things.
You shouldn't have to bury your child.
Whether you lived close or far and haven't seen them often for years.
Your child and spouse are very close soul ties.
Your soul has traumas, too, not only your brain.
Blood is thicker than water, so losing your child is horrific.
Lost my daughter 02/05/2024 due to family violence 💔
I would love to hear your thoughts on grieving “parents” who are still alive, but are estranged because they present as narcissists and don’t take any accountability to your reality and the abuse you and your siblings incurred through a lifetime, how they enabled each other’s dysfunction over the decades, and how they continue to manipulate their grandchildren, my children, by supporting the son in law who is also mentally unstable.
I suggest you look at DR. Ramani and Terry Cole.
Hello who can help me please!!🙏