Yooooooooo when she said “if I payed your rent for 4 months and I decide I don’t wanna pay your rent no more, all of a sudden I’m a bad person” that shit hit home!
Familiarity breeds disrespect is so true. My older sister did that to me, like said things that weren’t true, cursed me out, had my niece be disrespectful too. It felt like jealously and entitlement. Love this video and the topics y’all spoke about.
“You have to be very particular about who you surround yourself around... Who’s instilling fear in you.” 💯💯💯 This is so so good!! I love this video Ming! I can relate so much being a Entrepreneur going through this journey by myself ‼️ Keep up the great content. Love you ❤️❤️
I feel Ming! You don't even have to be in a situation that will cause the person who is jealous of you to say anything. Eventually, their ego will be so bothered they want be able to keep their mouth closed. I remember a older woman who I looked up to we would hang out she end up calling me little sister. I never knew this woman disliked me until one day we hanging out and she looked acrossed the table and said I don't like going out with you because your too pretty. Now, I would have taken this with a grain of salt however her face was all twisted up. The night before her and her friend was questioning why no men were trying to approach them; them scantiliy clad. Me in laid back attire with heels. In my mind I'm thinking whattttt where the hell did that come from. Girl I don't even come out for no men I come out to wear some shit I cant wear in everyday life. She would say off hand comments to me and wasn't invite me to stuff prior to this and that day I understood why. Lesson learned some hang around to watch to see how you are, how you do what you do just to keep a thumb on you. shame
Sometimes family can work together. I helped my cousin open up a daycare year's ago. I left to work somewhere else. But her mom worked their and the kids loved her. My mom also works there. Im back cause she can give me the hours I need.
That’s why you move in Silence ‼️💯 an no one can count your pockets. I work so hard for what I have I’m not a jealous person I just feel as tho if you work hard 😓 it will pay off. I’m now in college in business management after that I’m going to hair school then find a shop get my clientele’s up and work on my shop. I wanna do hair cut 💇🏽♀️ hair do make up make my own shampoo and conditioner Products. I just wanna be successful business woman. Stay safe out there with this 🦠 going around stay strong and stay blessed don’t worry about these hates. I really appreciate this video.
I truly appreciate this video. It makes me look at myself as well as those around me when it comes to business. I'm just starting a business and simultaneously at the time, had foung out I was 5 months pregnant. So I was able to apply a lot of the mirror both ways. Thanks for this check up Ming
This was my FAVORITE video. I felt this in my soul. And even in your expressing yourself I can still see you held back with what you said and how you said it out of respect for others, even if you aren’t friends with those people anymore. You are a Class Act Ming.
People want to hang out all the time ....for what When you really trying to change your life a lot of people really get complacent and they don’t understand you or something different
i own a lash salon and cant keep an assistant to save my life...they are so lazy and entitled because the job is lax they put in 40% effort its very frustrating
I just want to thank you for posting this video. I felt the realness, I felt the sincerity and I felt the God in you. You were preaching believe it or not you were preaching a sermon and this video really needs to go viral because there are so many people especially women... young and old who are jealous of people because they are making something out of themselves and you said something so real about I know what it is like not to have and trying to make it and then people become jealous of you ...I tell them you got the house and the car I was living in my car but you jealous of me. another young lady was speaking highly of you in one of her videos and I said well let me just check out and see who this person is and God let me see this. Because right now on Thanksgiving Day and of course the times we live in I'm sitting here working on my poetry book I went out and spent money I don't have to help me print my book and pictures and t-shirts and things like that but I know God is going to allow my business to prosper because I'm working on Thanksgiving alone ...so I just wanted to say thank you. I just had to get this thought out. May God forever bless you
I had a former "best friend" this girl had the nerve to say i was "jealous" of her because I did not call as often as she liked. Honestly i don't need no friends. I have my parents,my siblings,God and my future husband. Honestly friends are overrated like females are so two faced and feel like I owe them something. Like no I am about my money,health and improving as a woman. FYI she is a miserable individual.
Woowww, this happened to me as well. My circle crashed and burned from this one girl. She was and still is the ring leader and expects everyone to treat her the way she wants to be treated but constantly is rude and ill mannered towards people she calls her "bestfriend."
Damn I could have written this post myself. It’s been a while since I’ve gotten close to another women the way I was with my childhood best friend. However, I am ready to meet some amazing women because I now know that women are my community and we are meant to make each other better. I no longer feel bad because I don’t give my life to a friend.
I have followed you for yearrrrr I so admire your #Essence ! You are a try queen showing class beauty and 🧠! Girlllllllll keeep being a safe player and slaying this shit !!!
Hey Ming, Queen Hey! Good video, as usual. Another good video we need to know would be like simple practical ish about the office like...how do u setup & use the pos system. How u do your inventory like skus n stuff like that. I want a boutique but stuff like that is intimidating.
I really love this video. It is very honest and what I have been experiencing for a while now. Hearing all you ladies and gentleman speak is very encouraging.
I think working with friends and family go both ways the boss friend or family will expect more of you than a regular person. And the employee feels entitled
I love your voice so much 🤗 I'm starting to think this is why I don't have any friends...People can be so fake and I just don't have time for the bullshit. Maybe one day, when I'm really successful, I'll be blessed with like-minded friends who are also successful. Take care Ming 😘
Hey Ming---I have to move like a quiet assassin. I don't really talk to a lot of people of my vision and what I am working toward. Lessons from the past has made me be more discerning. Your tribe is very important and I am so loyal, I feel I don't get that back. Friends or family don't want to hear the truth of whats going on, something that may be hindering there moves. And from the "D" so you know how straight forward we are. Its not accepted but I'm going to keep pushing and CONGRATS on your many successes its inspiring.
I totally get it.....but people will only will receive what they are ready for..... everybody isn’t ready to elevate and I can tell you have a strong sense of self reflection.....not everyone does ♥️
Its said how you can bust your ass off qnd riase. But a friend from childhood will see you and not be happy for you! Its so sad. It really is messed all up!😔
These discussions are so needed. But whattt he wanted u to invest 15k in his hair company for 10percent , when obviously u can put 15k in your own company and get all the money . How does that make sense to him
I been following you 1 yr ,and I love all your all your content and your spirt is so awesome .And you so real..And people do think you owe them something .. When you don’t .. Keep up the awesome work...
Suggestion. You can run your establishment like the gym. I don’t know how much space you have, As women, sometimes we have to take our children with us. It’s getting warmer. You can have an outside space dedicated to mothers with small children. And have a day for them. Like one or two Saturday’s our the month.
Just started watching and I love it already❤❤❤ You are super down to earth. If I ask you a question. On any of your platforms you have always answered me. Thank You
The fact that assistant wanted 15k to start a hair company goes to show not only was he going to use your money but also use your blueprint to make it successful because it really don’t take that much to start a small business , no matter what you doing
Okayyy I remember her now, I used to watch her videos, last one I remember was her having issues with her job waitressing and school. It’s nice to see she’s working with you Ming that’s inspirational !! I’m proud of her
It isn't financial smart to hire anyone who is family and friends . There will always be a sense of ENTITLEDMENT . And the more you give the more they want . I always tell people , baby I'll do anything for you , JUST DON'T ASK ME FOR NO MONEY ! I'M NOT GOING TO BE ABLE TO DO IT,,,. 😆. Continued Blessings Doll. B* Careful , B* Safe, Most Importantly Just B* You 👑🌱
I love your personality!!! You are so blessed❤. Omg I did not know you are from detroit!!!! Detroit girls are NATURAL BORN BOSSES. I am a Detroit girl, I am in graduate school currently.
“Can’t afford to have off days! That’s a privilege!” Damn...EYE OPENER ‼️‼️
Strangers will support you before “friends & family” will 🤷🏽♀️. I’ve learned that. Great video 😊
A sad fact!
Even family members be jealous of you.
Just realized I do not have a single friend like this. I need to move. Need to be around more people like this 🙌🏾
Facts!
Round of applause
💯 FACTS!!
Every entrepreneur need to watch this because nobody talks about this, only the good. These topics are so true...been there
Yooooooooo when she said “if I payed your rent for 4 months and I decide I don’t wanna pay your rent no more, all of a sudden I’m a bad person” that shit hit home!
Familiarity breeds disrespect is so true. My older sister did that to me, like said things that weren’t true, cursed me out, had my niece be disrespectful too. It felt like jealously and entitlement. Love this video and the topics y’all spoke about.
Had this happen to me too
“You have to be very particular about who you surround yourself around... Who’s instilling fear in you.” 💯💯💯 This is so so good!! I love this video Ming! I can relate so much being a Entrepreneur going through this journey by myself ‼️ Keep up the great content. Love you ❤️❤️
I need friends like Ming lee she’s a true hustler 🗣 that motivates you to go harder
The consistency 👏🏾✨
Edit: Most people cannot be genuinely happy for your success. The best cure for jealousy is cutting those people out of your life.
I feel Ming! You don't even have to be in a situation that will cause the person who is jealous of you to say anything. Eventually, their ego will be so bothered they want be able to keep their mouth closed. I remember a older woman who I looked up to we would hang out she end up calling me little sister. I never knew this woman disliked me until one day we hanging out and she looked acrossed the table and said I don't like going out with you because your too pretty. Now, I would have taken this with a grain of salt however her face was all twisted up. The night before her and her friend was questioning why no men were trying to approach them; them scantiliy clad. Me in laid back attire with heels. In my mind I'm thinking whattttt where the hell did that come from. Girl I don't even come out for no men I come out to wear some shit I cant wear in everyday life. She would say off hand comments to me and wasn't invite me to stuff prior to this and that day I understood why. Lesson learned some hang around to watch to see how you are, how you do what you do just to keep a thumb on you. shame
Ebony Ebony this is so true! Some women are so insecure and competitive it’s sad
Speak sis. I'm sorry that happened to you.
Sometimes family can work together. I helped my cousin open up a daycare year's ago. I left to work somewhere else. But her mom worked their and the kids loved her. My mom also works there. Im back cause she can give me the hours I need.
Ming is so pretty and bossy 😍. As a budding entrepreneur with no friends I’m taking notes!
Dropping Tips & Jems. Not everyone can’t eat your table or come to the table while you’re growing and elevating ✨
That’s why you move in Silence ‼️💯 an no one can count your pockets. I work so hard for what I have I’m not a jealous person I just feel as tho if you work hard 😓 it will pay off. I’m now in college in business management after that I’m going to hair school then find a shop get my clientele’s up and work on my shop. I wanna do hair cut 💇🏽♀️ hair do make up make my own shampoo and conditioner Products. I just wanna be successful business woman. Stay safe out there with this 🦠 going around stay strong and stay blessed don’t worry about these hates. I really appreciate this video.
Keep working hard sis!!!!!
You will be successful! you have the right mindset now Queen.
All I can say is ... This is a 🗣️WORD 🔥 👑 Ming dropping gems 💎 per usual ‼️
I often wondered what happened to your friendship with Nikki
Same😭
That's her name!!! They were tight (or so it looked like that on social)
Whole CONVO was A Wordddddd 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 success is Lonely at times! It’s hard to keep ride or dies. But life is about Evolving! So EVOLVE PERIOD!!
"Expand your circle" listen!
I truly appreciate this video. It makes me look at myself as well as those around me when it comes to business. I'm just starting a business and simultaneously at the time, had foung out I was 5 months pregnant. So I was able to apply a lot of the mirror both ways. Thanks for this check up Ming
This was my FAVORITE video. I felt this in my soul. And even in your expressing yourself I can still see you held back with what you said and how you said it out of respect for others, even if you aren’t friends with those people anymore. You are a Class Act Ming.
People want to hang out all the time ....for what
When you really trying to change your life a lot of people really get complacent and they don’t understand you or something different
Soooo true about hiring friends and family! Learned my lesson the hard way 😫🥴🙃🤦🏾♀️
Mariam! I see you Trill Beauty!!! 💕
i own a lash salon and cant keep an assistant to save my life...they are so lazy and entitled because the job is lax they put in 40% effort its very frustrating
what state are you in doll?
Omg Miriam ( sorry if I spelled it wrong ) I follow her. Good to see she’s doing good!
Hey girl, I'm still alive! ❤️ I had to get my shxt together!
Trill Beauty there she go!!!!!!! rooting for you baby 💕
I just want to thank you for posting this video. I felt the realness, I felt the sincerity and I felt the God in you. You were preaching believe it or not you were preaching a sermon and this video really needs to go viral because there are so many people especially women... young and old who are jealous of people because they are making something out of themselves and you said something so real about I know what it is like not to have and trying to make it and then people become jealous of you ...I tell them you got the house and the car I was living in my car but you jealous of me. another young lady was speaking highly of you in one of her videos and I said well let me just check out and see who this person is and God let me see this. Because right now on Thanksgiving Day and of course the times we live in I'm sitting here working on my poetry book I went out and spent money I don't have to help me print my book and pictures and t-shirts and things like that but I know God is going to allow my business to prosper because I'm working on Thanksgiving alone ...so I just wanted to say thank you. I just had to get this thought out. May God forever bless you
I love love these open conversations for many of us who don’t have a mentor these are the conversations that are missing and it’s so motivating 💕💕
Please make a part II. This is great advice for future/new entrepreneurs. Great Convo Ming!
I had a former "best friend" this girl had the nerve to say i was "jealous" of her because I did not call as often as she liked. Honestly i don't need no friends. I have my parents,my siblings,God and my future husband. Honestly friends are overrated like females are so two faced and feel like I owe them something. Like no I am about my money,health and improving as a woman. FYI she is a miserable individual.
college grad aww I’m sorry you had to experience that’s.. it’s some awesome women out here and maybe one day you can have dope relationships with. 🙂
@@MsLiberianLady thank you but honestly having friends is not really important to me
Woowww, this happened to me as well. My circle crashed and burned from this one girl. She was and still is the ring leader and expects everyone to treat her the way she wants to be treated but constantly is rude and ill mannered towards people she calls her "bestfriend."
Damn I could have written this post myself. It’s been a while since I’ve gotten close to another women the way I was with my childhood best friend. However, I am ready to meet some amazing women because I now know that women are my community and we are meant to make each other better. I no longer feel bad because I don’t give my life to a friend.
Thanks for this, Ming! You definitely dropped some gems 💎
I feel this storytime on a spiritual level. Thanks for sharing!
Great Vlog I love the fact that your speaking the truth and what really happens in most friendships and business.
Ming please do more of these videos. I really enjoyed it!
I have followed you for yearrrrr I so admire your #Essence ! You are a try queen showing class beauty and 🧠! Girlllllllll keeep being a safe player and slaying this shit !!!
This video i can relate I learned the same lesson on friends and how jealousy was eaten them up
Its hard to find someone supporting or encouraging you! its so difficult. My main struggle
I love these type of convos/content! More blessings and prosperity to you Ming
Hey Ming, Queen Hey! Good video, as usual. Another good video we need to know would be like simple practical ish about the office like...how do u setup & use the pos system. How u do your inventory like skus n stuff like that. I want a boutique but stuff like that is intimidating.
I really love this video. It is very honest and what I have been experiencing for a while now. Hearing all you ladies and gentleman speak is very encouraging.
Thank You! Thank You! Thank You! For this encouragement, especially during this time!!
Please keep dropping these videos all during this quarantine ! I love these videos
I hands down agree with the things you were saying. It takes a certain mentality, work ethic and personality to be a boss
I think working with friends and family go both ways the boss friend or family will expect more of you than a regular person. And the employee feels entitled
Loved this! 🥂I felt like I was really on the couch with my girls. Thank you for your authenticity.
I’m loving Questions with Ming!!!!!!! S/N That’s my boo Mariam in the back, great to see her 😍😍😍😍😍
imjet_ hey boo!! I had to make a cameo ❤️
I love your voice so much 🤗 I'm starting to think this is why I don't have any friends...People can be so fake and I just don't have time for the bullshit. Maybe one day, when I'm really successful, I'll be blessed with like-minded friends who are also successful. Take care Ming 😘
I haven’t even finished the video yet but I felt every word you said 🙌🏽. Keep these videos coming Ming!
I enjoy your story times, keep em coming 🥰👏
Hey Ming---I have to move like a quiet assassin. I don't really talk to a lot of people of my vision and what I am working toward. Lessons from the past has made me be more discerning. Your tribe is very important and I am so loyal, I feel I don't get that back. Friends or family don't want to hear the truth of whats going on, something that may be hindering there moves. And from the "D" so you know how straight forward we are. Its not accepted but I'm going to keep pushing and CONGRATS on your many successes its inspiring.
I met you 3 years back and you were so kind and super sweet!
I totally get it.....but people will only will receive what they are ready for..... everybody isn’t ready to elevate and I can tell you have a strong sense of self reflection.....not everyone does ♥️
Great video Ming!!! Now get we get that skin care routine sis?! Thanks in advance 😁
Trying to be the accountable friend is tough!! 😩
Dope Conversation Ming, I felt it on all levels!
Its said how you can bust your ass off qnd riase. But a friend from childhood will see you and not be happy for you! Its so sad. It really is messed all up!😔
These discussions are so needed. But whattt he wanted u to invest 15k in his hair company for 10percent , when obviously u can put 15k in your own company and get all the money . How does that make sense to him
Thank you for this!!!! Definitely exposed some growing pains I’ve had as an entrepreneur 🤗💜
If nothing else you are fair and consistent. I really enjoyed this conversation.
Love your story times. Your so well spoken and you have a lot of wisdom
please post more like this 🦋
Do more of these this was so fun!
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 come through Ming.
I been following you 1 yr ,and I love all your all your content and your spirt is so awesome .And you so real..And people do think you owe them something .. When you don’t ..
Keep up the awesome work...
Can we get more story times the way you explain it makes us visualize we were there
Ming I love your content! Keep pushing Boss Lady🤞🏾❤️
Dropping gems 💎
I think you should start your own podcast!!!!!
That would be dope.
Suggestion. You can run your establishment like the gym. I don’t know how much space you have, As women, sometimes we have to take our children with us. It’s getting warmer. You can have an outside space dedicated to mothers with small children. And have a day for them. Like one or two Saturday’s our the month.
Just started watching and I love it already❤❤❤ You are super down to earth. If I ask you a question. On any of your platforms you have always answered me. Thank You
This is Real as it gets yo🤧take it or leave it 🙋
PLEASE keep making these type of videos.
be aware of who’s instilling fear in you... a word.
What’s your hardest part of being a boss
I enjoy your story times! I’m a entrepreneur and your talks are really genuine and motivate me to stay grounded. Love your vibe sis.
Ming dropping 💎 💎 💎🙌🏾
When she said you can't afford to have days off hit me like a fucking mack truck
This was a greattttttttt Viddeeeeeooooo ❤️❤️❤️🔥✊🏾💯💯💯 GREAT MOTIVATION!!!!
Jealously can only be hidden for so long! I fuckin love MING! KORIN I LOVE HER SHE PULLS FOR YOUR GIRL! 💜💫👑
great convo
this video was sooo good!
Keep doing ur thing Hun😘
Wait how did we get from candles to hair. ... Yea he is the ops 😂
This is dope Ming
The fact that assistant wanted 15k to start a hair company goes to show not only was he going to use your money but also use your blueprint to make it successful because it really don’t take that much to start a small business , no matter what you doing
I promise I can relate to Ming. "You don't have enough money to have an off day."
hold on. watch home girl on the left youtube! yassss love her wisdom
Did the lady in the black and yellow crew neck have a TH-cam channel ? She looks familiar
Okayyy I remember her now, I used to watch her videos, last one I remember was her having issues with her job waitressing and school. It’s nice to see she’s working with you Ming that’s inspirational !! I’m proud of her
@@DajanaeM awwwww thank youuu!!! I came a LONG way girl❤️
@@TrillBeautyxo we need a trill update
@@finishproject1 you got it! I'll upload this weekend.
@@TrillBeautyxo yyaasss! Ty!
OMG I SAID "TOO LACKSIE DAZZIE LMAO AND SHE SAID THE SAME THING I KNEW IT WAS COMING LMFAO🤣 25:58
I love Ming❤❤❤🔥
It isn't financial smart to hire anyone who is family and friends . There will always be a sense of ENTITLEDMENT . And the more you give the more they want . I always tell people , baby I'll do anything for you , JUST DON'T ASK ME FOR NO MONEY ! I'M NOT GOING TO BE ABLE TO DO IT,,,. 😆. Continued Blessings Doll.
B* Careful , B* Safe, Most Importantly Just B* You 👑🌱
I love your personality!!! You are so blessed❤. Omg I did not know you are from detroit!!!! Detroit girls are NATURAL BORN BOSSES. I am a Detroit girl, I am in graduate school currently.
Thank you.
I really enjoyed this story time. 💯
Thank you for this video 💯♥️
Thank you so much for this video💯
Make more videos like this 😊
Good convo ⚘💚
Handed to you by who tho? Love u Ming!
Gary vee says hiring is guessing firing is knowing hire fast fire knowing I was like okayyy
You from Detroit Ming?
She is.