I always respect ur instincts when it comes to this issues. You understood women's sneaky manners and u refused to be bought over by those women. Carry-on my good sister.
Aunty Yinka I really appreciate you very much because you're giving her the best advice, if she wants to remain married she has to reevaluate herself and calm down, respect, cherish and love him for him otherwise she will join the single mothers.
God bless you, if a lady does not respect u, u Wii never be romantic with her, the lady is saucy and her family should be careful ,they should stop interfere into daughter's matrimonial affair
Sis Yinka, honestly, you gave her good and perfect advise. I wish she will adjust and do the needful most especially she shd learn how to reapect her husband fully. She's talking to her husband as a maid😭😭😭 (Authoritative atitude ) christian background indeed. (oga in the house). O ma se oooo, eni lori ko ni fila, eni to ni fila ko lori. I wish her well. Hunmmm. My advise to the man is that, to ba ko iwaju si eee, ko ta, to ba ko ehin si ee ko ta, toba ku iwo nikan, ki o tun ero re paa. Your life and happiness is more important to us.
I was in tears about this issue. Being calm is not a crime, but women should realise that they are engineers of the home. The secret key is a man needs to be respected.
God bless your wisdom. I have a couple that the husband never takes the wife on any date. I asked the guy the reason when the wife reported him to me. His reason was what you have just said. He said anytime he goes out with the wife, they always quarrels, that even on groceries shopping, they always come back separately. And bcos of that, he avoided outings like plagues with his wife. You have just made a valid point. The attitude of this woman will never allow his husband to be romantically connected to her.
I live in America for over 26 years, this case is one of many problems with men that travelled to naija to marry and file papers for their women. 95% of them don’t last in their home. The fact is, they always want to control after making money and they end up losing their men to hard working women. She will end up living alone. The lady will not change and she is already in the system with the police. It’s a shame.
This marriage should not be reconciled o!!!Na only prison she go go and come out of it at the end of the day and the guy will just be dead for nothing. Some differences are irreconcilable. Let her go, she doesn't see him as a husband and she's not ready to learn. As a matter of fact, some women are so biased and we never face the fact. How can you bring out a knife to say you'll wound him, in the presence of your kids?? and you'll only go to prison?? Really, that's the height of it, that's all that would happen and he'll be dead!!!
My sister , pls for God's sake respect your husband , then he 'll behave well. Do not bother yourself about his phonecalls , focus on your children and talk to him politely . Meanwhile , Aunty Yinka , pls you need to caution the guy too on how he addresses his father and mother inlaw . Lastly , my candid advice is that the guy should disengage from the lady in lagos if he wants peace to rain in his house. No wife will accept such a thing . Would the guy accept if his wife speaks with man friend on phone .
I think the woman had already pre conceived notion about marriage from her background and environment.But unfortunately marriage rules do not follow what she set as a marriage standard.This singular reason will make the marriage unworkable.There should be a head in the house,we cant have two head in the house.Being romantic takes two to work out.What effort does she make to make ensure she makes the marriage work.
Yo password' because you're his mom? If this guy is not careful, she'll end his life. Bible principles and you're acting this way??? Bible ma wa rire bayi o.
Those that are not in the U.S.A may not fully understand the dynamics of marriage here. Unfortunately, our women come here, and the first thing they study is the marriage law; how they can take advantage of the system and take control of the man's life. She is not matured because it is apparent she puts her emotions on her sleeve.
Eni to ma lori, o ni fila. o ti ri oju oko mi si? LOL. Alaye, o raye at all but then the woman's argument is baseless. She has a gentle husband, yes, he might have excesses like every other man but you don't do that to a man that you're married to and have kids with. She doesn't even sound like a respectful lady over the phone.
I always respect ur instincts when it comes to this issues. You understood women's sneaky manners and u refused to be bought over by those women.
Carry-on my good sister.
This is huge, as I am listening to it I was crying. I am a 56yrs old woman. The guy is a nice guy.
Aunty Yinka I really appreciate you very much because you're giving her the best advice, if she wants to remain married she has to reevaluate herself and calm down, respect, cherish and love him for him otherwise she will join the single mothers.
God bless you, if a lady does not respect u, u Wii never be romantic with her, the lady is saucy and her family should be careful ,they should stop interfere into daughter's matrimonial affair
Sis Yinka, honestly, you gave her good and perfect advise. I wish she will adjust and do the needful most especially she shd learn how to reapect her husband fully. She's talking to her husband as a maid😭😭😭 (Authoritative atitude ) christian background indeed. (oga in the house). O ma se oooo, eni lori ko ni fila, eni to ni fila ko lori. I wish her well. Hunmmm. My advise to the man is that, to ba ko iwaju si eee, ko ta, to ba ko ehin si ee ko ta, toba ku iwo nikan, ki o tun ero re paa. Your life and happiness is more important to us.
I was in tears about this issue. Being calm is not a crime, but women should realise that they are engineers of the home. The secret key is a man needs to be respected.
God bless your wisdom. I have a couple that the husband never takes the wife on any date. I asked the guy the reason when the wife reported him to me. His reason was what you have just said. He said anytime he goes out with the wife, they always quarrels, that even on groceries shopping, they always come back separately. And bcos of that, he avoided outings like plagues with his wife. You have just made a valid point. The attitude of this woman will never allow his husband to be romantically connected to her.
I live in America for over 26 years, this case is one of many problems with men that travelled to naija to marry and file papers for their women. 95% of them don’t last in their home. The fact is, they always want to control after making money and they end up losing their men to hard working women. She will end up living alone. The lady will not change and she is already in the system with the police. It’s a shame.
The man just needs to let her go if she's fed up with the relationship.
The second caller (woman) has said it all. I respect her point
Aunty Yinka please help that man his life is in serious danger
Omo tutu ni man yi
This marriage should not be reconciled o!!!Na only prison she go go and come out of it at the end of the day and the guy will just be dead for nothing. Some differences are irreconcilable. Let her go, she doesn't see him as a husband and she's not ready to learn. As a matter of fact, some women are so biased and we never face the fact. How can you bring out a knife to say you'll wound him, in the presence of your kids?? and you'll only go to prison?? Really, that's the height of it, that's all that would happen and he'll be dead!!!
Please this man should do away with this baby woman wife, she's not mature in mind, let her not kill this young kind gentle man, I come in peace
When will you stop comparing your marriage to others. Madam different people different strokes
My sister , pls for God's sake respect your husband , then he 'll behave well. Do not bother yourself about his phonecalls ,
focus on your children and talk to him politely . Meanwhile , Aunty Yinka , pls you need to caution the guy too on how he addresses his father and mother inlaw .
Lastly , my candid advice is that the guy should disengage from the lady in lagos if he wants peace to rain in his house. No wife will accept such a thing . Would the guy accept if his wife speaks with man friend on phone .
I think the woman had already pre conceived notion about marriage from her background and environment.But unfortunately marriage rules do not follow what she set as a marriage standard.This singular reason will make the marriage unworkable.There should be a head in the house,we cant have two head in the house.Being romantic takes two to work out.What effort does she make to make ensure she makes the marriage work.
Yo password' because you're his mom? If this guy is not careful, she'll end his life. Bible principles and you're acting this way??? Bible ma wa rire bayi o.
Hello ma'am how are you and your family doing today,pls can I get your number for important information pls
What do you want from nka,odeni bobo
Those that are not in the U.S.A may not fully understand the dynamics of marriage here. Unfortunately, our women come here, and the first thing they study is the marriage law; how they can take advantage of the system and take control of the man's life. She is not matured because it is apparent she puts her emotions on her sleeve.
Eni to ma lori, o ni fila. o ti ri oju oko mi si? LOL. Alaye, o raye at all but then the woman's argument is baseless. She has a gentle husband, yes, he might have excesses like every other man but you don't do that to a man that you're married to and have kids with. She doesn't even sound like a respectful lady over the phone.