Living In First Person a conversation with Espoir & Mado

Living in first-person mode refers to experiencing life directly and authentically through your own perspective, being fully engaged in the present moment, and actively participating in your decisions and actions. It’s a metaphor borrowed from video games where the player views the game world through the eyes of their character, emphasizing personal immersion and agency.
Key Aspects of Living in First-Person Mode:
Authenticity and Ownership:
You take full ownership of your thoughts, feelings, and actions.
Decisions are based on your values, beliefs, and goals, rather than external expectations or societal pressures.
Presence and Awareness:
You are deeply aware of your environment and your role within it.
Instead of living on autopilot, you engage actively with your surroundings, relationships, and experiences.
Emotional Engagement:
You allow yourself to feel emotions fully-joy, pain, fear-without suppressing or avoiding them.
Emotions are seen as valuable guides rather than obstacles.
Mindfulness:
Practicing mindfulness helps you stay connected to the present, reducing distractions and unnecessary worry about the past or future.
It’s about savoring life as it unfolds, rather than observing it from a distance.
Agency and Control:
In first-person mode, you are the primary "player" in your life, actively making choices instead of being a passive observer.
You recognize that while you can’t control everything, you can control your responses and how you move forward.
Creativity and Self-Expression:
Living this way encourages self-expression, as you're more attuned to what truly resonates with you.
It’s about creating your life as a reflection of who you are, not a mirror of what others expect.
Why It Matters:
Living in first-person mode allows you to:
Build deeper connections with others, as you're fully present in relationships.
Make choices that align with your authentic self, leading to greater fulfillment.
Experience life more vividly and meaningfully, making the most of each moment.
In contrast, living in a "third-person mode" could mean viewing yourself as an outsider, overly concerned with how others perceive you or overly detached from your own life. Living in first-person mode helps you step into your personal power and live fully and intentionally.