'We'll never be the same': Parents mourn New Orleans attack victim | Banfield

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  • @GoodyGoody534
    @GoodyGoody534 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +129

    This breaks my heart. So sorry for your loss,

  • @joleencox5900
    @joleencox5900 วันที่ผ่านมา +51

    So their son was MURDERED 24 hours ago and the ONLY CALL they got was from the FBI telling them they have to move his car before it gets towed?? Wtf is wrong with this country????

    • @MrDavfit
      @MrDavfit วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      that is vile

    • @Joanla1954
      @Joanla1954 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Lack of God in many lives.

    • @pianoin69
      @pianoin69 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      A lot.

  • @American431
    @American431 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +61

    So unfair to these parents

  • @lilybee_
    @lilybee_ 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +81

    How awful! Why didn't the authorities contact victim's families? I can't imagine how painful this has been for them losing their son and having to look all over the place to find him deceased.

    • @jmm8305
      @jmm8305 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

      They would have. But the disaster happened and with news and social media people usually find out sooner from those outlets than authorities can. Remember they are working with many people dead and injured. Identifying and getting contact information for 45 people takes time. This happened at 3:15 am and the families were looking for loved ones only a few hours later.

    • @annegreenwood3624
      @annegreenwood3624 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      @@jmm8305yes they need to contain the scene organize sections into those living and those dead it like you said was 3am it seems cold but everyone was also in shock also as I worked in the hospital when I was younger you had to follow procedure find social workers and chaplains to help my heart goes out to everyone such a senseless tragedy

    • @muffs55mercury61
      @muffs55mercury61 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      One of those incidents that was totally mishandled, just like the Afghanistan withdrawl. Like nobody else cared.

    • @lilybee_
      @lilybee_ วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I don't think they did find out quickly from social media though. Why wasn't someone assigned to gather personal info and contact next of kin? They had families calling LE and hospitals all over the city trying to get info m and emergency contact info was probably available on their driver's license or state ID.

    • @jmm8305
      @jmm8305 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @ The next morning they knew that their son didn’t come home that night/morning. They knew from the media that the event had happened. Don’t know if it was social media or news or whatever. They tried to contact their son. Then they tried to contact his friends. They found out from the friends. Not every adult’s friends are necessarily going to have contact information for their friends parents. Likely the friends were in shock. It takes time to identify bodies and get contact information. I’m not saying everything was handled correctly but I’m saying it takes time. For them to identify process and get next of kin information on 45 people is going to take longer than a few hours. Also FBI took over the situation and they are not going to contact family and give information until they feel like they have the right information. It’s a delicate balance and it’s just not going to happen in a few hours.

  • @ilianalopez7734
    @ilianalopez7734 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +74

    RIP Matthew. My condolences to all the friends and family of all the victims

  • @andrewsage1376
    @andrewsage1376 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +74

    Unbelievable what these parents are going through.

    • @Fat12219
      @Fat12219 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      They seem strong 😢 😕 😔 😕

    • @muffs55mercury61
      @muffs55mercury61 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      So true. His father looked like he was going to collapse at any moment. The grief is unbearable.

  • @AshleyLebedev
    @AshleyLebedev 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +41

    We as a nation are all with you. We are so sad and so sorry for your great loss. This should not ever have happened. You’re very brave. Thank you for talking so soon after your loss. Bless you both so much.

  • @KathleenPage-w1m
    @KathleenPage-w1m 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +49

    I am very sorry for the loss of your son. ❤

    • @Fat12219
      @Fat12219 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      💔 😮😢

  • @sandrasteady5374
    @sandrasteady5374 วันที่ผ่านมา +31

    Oh my goodness! I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you

  • @aprilager8606
    @aprilager8606 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +55

    My heart breaks for the victims of this horrific crime ❤️‍🩹
    My heart felt prayers to you and your family 🙏

    • @Fat12219
      @Fat12219 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Don't make any sense 😒 😕

  • @Diana-yx8dh
    @Diana-yx8dh 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    And they are bugging the parents to come get their sons car or it will get towed! Goodness!! How insensitive.

  • @isabellrc
    @isabellrc 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +35

    Where’s the Victim Advocates, Religious Organizations??? I feel parents needed to see their boy prior to autopsy.
    He is a good looking young man. I’m sure he’s being sorely missed. My heart goes out to his lovely parents. And, to ALL of those Grieving families 🤲🏻✌🏻

  • @ladycourttales2720
    @ladycourttales2720 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I was robotic when my sons were injured-both in ICU. It wasn’t until 3 mos later, PTSD reared its ugly head after auto-pilot/adrenalin wore out. My boys lived. They have a hard road ahead. Pray for them.

  • @jenilynn1010
    @jenilynn1010 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    Omg. I’m crying. My heart goes out to this family and the others who lost a loved one. Heartbreaking. Praying 🙏

  • @decafmocha211
    @decafmocha211 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +31

    Rest in Peace...Condolences to the parents

    • @Fat12219
      @Fat12219 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      No words 💔 😢

  • @elianadosreis3025
    @elianadosreis3025 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    I’m crying right now watching this

  • @Jeanne90275
    @Jeanne90275 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    Just beyond tragic...

    • @Fat12219
      @Fat12219 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Beyond 😮

  • @Carrjacked
    @Carrjacked วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Can Ashley go an interview without cutting the guest off!? I swear she has become so insensitive, maybe it comes with the business and having to do this for so many years - That is downright cruel the way they found out about their son‘s passing. I am so sorry for your loss ❤

    • @pianoin69
      @pianoin69 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Nope.

  • @yogaqueen319
    @yogaqueen319 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    My heart breaks for everyone affected by this terrible tragedy!🙏🏽

  • @ningyl
    @ningyl 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    My heart goes out to you parents.

  • @katbedbury389
    @katbedbury389 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    I’m praying for you both. I’m so heartbroken with you.

  • @banana_hammock7158
    @banana_hammock7158 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    absolutely horrible..praying for them

  • @Cheriee-o5e
    @Cheriee-o5e วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I am so grieved for you and all of the survivors.
    Prayers going up for you all.

  • @dainasworldnumbers88
    @dainasworldnumbers88 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    So sorry for your loss. May God bless him and keep him in our prayers.

  • @ramonam9251
    @ramonam9251 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Bless that couple Lord.

  • @Fiveash-Art
    @Fiveash-Art 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    People have got to be kidding with this? This is absolutely absurd.

  • @Darci3333
    @Darci3333 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    This is totally unacceptable and despicable 😢😢😢😢😢

  • @narellecruickshank6919
    @narellecruickshank6919 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Cannot comprehend what you are going through. 😢😢😢 sending my condolences from Brisbane Queensland Australia ❤

  • @patfairman2471
    @patfairman2471 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    So very sorry

  • @alisonfowler8193
    @alisonfowler8193 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Hugs and love from Kansas. Deepest condolences. 🫶🏽. 🕯️ For Matthew and all those lost 01/01/25

  • @wingedinfinity777
    @wingedinfinity777 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    I'm sorry I just find it extremely strange when family members speak about the death of a close relative SO SOON AFTER the incident. WOW. I can't imagine that not even 48 hours later they are just freely and casually talking. I don't get it.

    • @stephanieames66
      @stephanieames66 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

      Still in shock most likely.

    • @jenilynn1010
      @jenilynn1010 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

      Because they don’t want their child to be forgotten. They want people to know what a tragic loss of life. Awareness gift to us!

    • @RollTideMama
      @RollTideMama 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      So bizarre.. they were so nonchalant I thought he had survived for about half of the interview until the mom was like yep he died 😮

    • @Purplerainpinkclouds
      @Purplerainpinkclouds 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      Have you ever grieved someone as close to you as a brother or a son? Its shocking to me that you would so freely try to push guilt and shame upon this family when you have no idea what they are going through. I find it disheartening.

    • @tonggao08
      @tonggao08 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      They are in profound shock. It hasn't even hit them and they are traumatised. It isn't all wailing and screaming.

  • @ADotShowCEO
    @ADotShowCEO วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    God bless the families so incredibly heartbreaking 💔 🙏🏾

  • @foxlover03
    @foxlover03 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    So truly sorry for your sons loss and for all the victims of that tragedy. So sad. 🙏

  • @ASeedSower234
    @ASeedSower234 วันที่ผ่านมา

    God bless those poor parents, their son just looks like such a sweet young man. Prayers gone out for these sweet parents.

  • @TillyP-rn6zy
    @TillyP-rn6zy วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Condolences to all the victims families and a swift healing for the injured and mentally scarred on witnessing this atrocity. Natalie from the UK. X

  • @I1FOLLOWJESUS
    @I1FOLLOWJESUS 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    how sad??? why didnt his friends call these poor parents? thats so sad!! I cant believe the friends didnt call the parents. Im so sorry for your loss

    • @seriousorganizer
      @seriousorganizer 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      OBVIOUSLY THEY CAN'T REPORT SOMETHING THEY DONT KNOW..THE VIDEO SAYS THEY GOT SEPARATED....

  • @evelynwright9805
    @evelynwright9805 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Interviewer … you are asking very delicate questions within a short period of time since this happened. I commend this couple for speaking with you. God bless them.

  • @ingseBingse
    @ingseBingse วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I will never understand how parents can sit there and be interviewed after they have lost a child. Why don't they sit and mourn with the rest of their family, and take good care of them selves. ? My heart goes out to you.

    • @barbarazuviceh6506
      @barbarazuviceh6506 วันที่ผ่านมา

      They are probably still in some sort of a shock.😊

    • @ingseBingse
      @ingseBingse วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ i guess you are right.

    • @KIRKSHINTATURNIPSEED
      @KIRKSHINTATURNIPSEED วันที่ผ่านมา

      Everyone mourns differently, I didnt cry until two weeks after my mom died because I had so many things to take care of to bury her- it didnt hit me till later

    • @ingseBingse
      @ingseBingse วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@KIRKSHINTATURNIPSEED 🙏😥

  • @melodylaughlin8538
    @melodylaughlin8538 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    So sorry for your loss. God be with you

  • @gdiup9241
    @gdiup9241 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    So horrible to not be able to see your son. But i did hear from another channel, once it's a crime scene, it changes the expectations of getting to see your loved one.
    Ugh..damn.

  • @janinehudak7659
    @janinehudak7659 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    What a wonderful, young man! My heart truly goes out to you!

  • @zemorakeller6725
    @zemorakeller6725 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    MY Lord what these parents went through to find their son. I can't imagine such a loss. Where were the advocates for these parents?

  • @jsi8002
    @jsi8002 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’m so sorry 😢🙏

  • @cherylvandezande4483
    @cherylvandezande4483 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    💔so sorry for your loss 😢🙏

  • @momofthree9100
    @momofthree9100 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’m so sad for this family. Makes me want to never let my kids leave my house 😢

  • @libertyann439
    @libertyann439 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Such an awful thing to have to identify your dead child at the mourge.😢

    • @KD-nk3ht
      @KD-nk3ht วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      That ain't the way to spell morgue. Ignunce.

  • @nastassziarogers6010
    @nastassziarogers6010 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Prayers for every victims family’s 🙏🏽

  • @Yellowrose8
    @Yellowrose8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Uplifting Matthew's family and friends in my prayers. May the Lord wrap his arms around you to provide comfort...Amen.

  • @mobetta3456
    @mobetta3456 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am so sorry this happened to you, and I mean it from my heart. What a sweet young face! You are in my prayers.

  • @teresajohnson8988
    @teresajohnson8988 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My heart hurts knowing what you’re going thru❤

  • @AceTif
    @AceTif วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ❤why didn't friends call his parents or maybe they did???
    Prayers with each of you❤❤RIP MATT❤

  • @Catlover53-lu9wy
    @Catlover53-lu9wy วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    A tragedy that may have been prevented if the city did their job and had those strong barriers up. My opinion. They know we live in a dangerous time. How incompetent.

  • @JoeGunn84
    @JoeGunn84 วันที่ผ่านมา

    How did neither parent shed a single tear? This whole interview seemed OFF

  • @christopherliebler
    @christopherliebler 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Help you through the process? It just happened

    • @wingedinfinity777
      @wingedinfinity777 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Which begs the question, how are they already on tv discussing these matters. ?

    • @bbloodyangel1
      @bbloodyangel1 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      the process of finding their loved one aka helping them figure out he had passed

    • @RollTideMama
      @RollTideMama 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Hospitals have staff that do this exact job, but seems they were overwhelmed

    • @GekoSF90
      @GekoSF90 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@wingedinfinity777exactly what I’m saying

    • @Purplerainpinkclouds
      @Purplerainpinkclouds 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@wingedinfinity777 these people just lost their son and ur judging them for going on tv "to soon" to talk about it ? They have a hole in their hearts that can never be healed. Have some respect.

  • @claramenteful
    @claramenteful 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Sorry for these loving parents. Pray for them.

  • @itsonlyme1959
    @itsonlyme1959 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Who's gunfire struck him the terrorist or the authorities firing at the terrorist ?

    • @christinea9698
      @christinea9698 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      They haven’t confirmed that yet, I don’t believe.

    • @seriousorganizer
      @seriousorganizer 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      i mentioned the same thing above

  • @malonetuten333
    @malonetuten333 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am so sorry for your loss. I’m heartbroken that they had to find out the way that they did and haven’t been treated more delicately. You’d think the families of these victims would be treated with such care at this time! This is very disheartening to hear and disappointing.
    Also, his vehicle about to be towed? Come on City of NOLA!

  • @estelleleonard5758
    @estelleleonard5758 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So horrible! Heartbreaking for your family. Praying for your family

  • @fionagreaves2836
    @fionagreaves2836 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    What is wrong with what is happening in the world. So much anger,so much hatred. Why? We are all on this side for a short time. Why hurt each other. Tears come to my eyes when I see and hear what is happening. I keep praying for a better tomorrow and I am hopeful.

  • @SusanH4626
    @SusanH4626 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Omg! The way they found out, horrible and no help afterwards! The new Orleans city officials should be ashamed!

  • @877swissmiss
    @877swissmiss วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I‘m so very sorry for your loss! What a horrific New Year😢😢😢
    Strength and love to you ❤
    R I P Matthew 🕊️

  • @oliviachetcuti225
    @oliviachetcuti225 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Watching the poor father break down at the very end. 💔😢

  • @deborahrob5859
    @deborahrob5859 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    This is unacceptable, I don't care what kind of investigation you are doing, they had every right to see their son. It is part of the grieving process as well, they need to see with their own eyes. They didn't have to touch him, as if that would have mattered. I'm sure kissing your son on the head would not have caused the investigation to go up in smoke.

  • @audreydaleski1067
    @audreydaleski1067 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    So sad.

  • @glamdoll313
    @glamdoll313 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What if an autopsy was against their religion?! Our systems are so bold. How dare they not allow his parents access to see him. Incompetent FBI

  • @Glamazon_K
    @Glamazon_K วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bless them. This is terrible

  • @Fat12219
    @Fat12219 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What a way to find out 😮😮

  • @wildmountainthyme4123
    @wildmountainthyme4123 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sending all my love and prayers to all the families who lost their loved ones. May they rest in peace.

  • @blankagwenyver8260
    @blankagwenyver8260 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Im so sorry for your loss. 😢

  • @638g
    @638g วันที่ผ่านมา

    Why wouldn't they let them identify his body? And he was shot? Things aren't adding up in this interview.

  • @bugsea54
    @bugsea54 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Shot, not hit

  • @kittymayle9107
    @kittymayle9107 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I don’t think I could keep my composure. I would be slipping out on TV. That would be too much for me to handle.

  • @Kwee523
    @Kwee523 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I believe it's terrible to have to conduct your own research to see if your relative is still amongst the living or not!!! SMH!!! Prayers and love vibes to all affected!

  • @lindaamspaugh1030
    @lindaamspaugh1030 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    I know you need to do news, but maybe, sometimes, you need to realize that now is NOT THE TIME and their feelings are more important than your news story.

    • @wingedinfinity777
      @wingedinfinity777 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      The parents have the right to turn down an interview. This is what I don't get. Not passing the smell test for me.

    • @seriousorganizer
      @seriousorganizer 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      SO YOU THINK THEY STUCK A GUN TO THEIR HEAD? GET A LIFE! YOU'RE HEAR WATCHING IT! WOW!!!!!!!

    • @seriousorganizer
      @seriousorganizer 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@wingedinfinity777 WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT! SO THEY DIDN'T TURN IT DOWN! WHAT'S THERE TO COMPREHEND OF SMELL! THEY DIDNT TURN DOWN AN INTERVIEW! THEY WANT TO GET THEIR BOYS STORY OUT THERE! WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU !!!!YOU DON'T GET THAT THEY WANTED TO DO THE INTERVIEW?

    • @wingedinfinity777
      @wingedinfinity777 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @seriousorganizer NO, I DON'T GET IT. I ALREADY SAID I DON'T GET IT.

  • @perlavogel1064
    @perlavogel1064 วันที่ผ่านมา

    am sorry for your loss too many young people killed in a senseless violence act of crime

  • @MerindaSmith-e3s
    @MerindaSmith-e3s วันที่ผ่านมา

    Oh my heart is breathing for these parents 💔💔

  • @maritaklein-dreier4073
    @maritaklein-dreier4073 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sorry for your loss 😢

  • @audreydaleski1067
    @audreydaleski1067 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I know. So sad. A bitter, vindictive person ruined several lives.

  • @BelindaMILLER-pi6rq
    @BelindaMILLER-pi6rq วันที่ผ่านมา

    Please give these sweet sweet devasted parents time to grieve. What you're doing is heartbreaking 💔 😢 Condolences to all who are having to endure this tragedy. 😢

  • @kimberlybettis8509
    @kimberlybettis8509 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Matthew's father was losing it just trying to grasp the reality of what has happened. So so sad, too many families shattered for what?

  • @dregeminin1
    @dregeminin1 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My condolences to all of the families 🙏

  • @Mr60minor
    @Mr60minor วันที่ผ่านมา

    Devastating. 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @Cynthia-l6n
    @Cynthia-l6n วันที่ผ่านมา

    Condolences for the loss of your child ! So sorry for your loss?

  • @Bur6212
    @Bur6212 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    RIP Matthew and RIP Saints

  • @Firebird-65
    @Firebird-65 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    🙏🙏💔 RIP Matthew and praying for family and all families involved 🙏💔

  • @RF1972.
    @RF1972. วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm so sorry...I understand your pain..so sorry😢❤

  • @JJ-um5ec
    @JJ-um5ec วันที่ผ่านมา

    So awful. Total disorganization

  • @Snooze1234-cto
    @Snooze1234-cto วันที่ผ่านมา

    Condolence to all the families.

  • @elleflowers8020
    @elleflowers8020 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So very sorry for your loss. Prayers for you both and family for God’s peace and comfort.❤️🙏

  • @floraybarra3014
    @floraybarra3014 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So sad prayers 🙏😭

  • @Kwee523
    @Kwee523 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Wow! FBI worrying his parents about moving his vehicle! Whoever owns the lot trying to tow it...shameful!!! I would let them keep his car there as long as they want in light of what just happened.

  • @johnrusselman1364
    @johnrusselman1364 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Totally uncoordinated response from a totally inept police department top to bottom...better hurry there's a heavy towing fee !!! 😜

  • @dawnstraughen755
    @dawnstraughen755 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So very sorry for your loss. Such a tragic attack. Hopefully you will get answers. He's Gods new Angel now. 🙏

  • @garycitro1674
    @garycitro1674 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Note to News Nation channel op: Maybe you can cut Ashley's cheery promo at the end just this one time?

  • @suquanahill1567
    @suquanahill1567 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My condolences to his family and friends 😢

  • @charlii5917
    @charlii5917 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I saw a video after the truck wrecked and gunshots ringing out. I thought I saw someone shot and fall as soon as the gunfire started. So sorry for their loss.

  • @Confessions089
    @Confessions089 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I give these victims my condolences. However, the laws need to change when it comes to veterans going on rampages.

  • @pamela174
    @pamela174 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Absolutely heartbreaking
    Prayers for all those that died and their family and prayers for the victims 🙏 💔

  • @cowsonzambonis6
    @cowsonzambonis6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I can’t imagine… my heart goes out to your family!!

  • @Bur6212
    @Bur6212 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    “Yes your son is dead”
    Jeez