What to do if I don't get any arousal or sexual pleasure from it what to do if I was crying when he was doing it why everyone is concern about only female survivors why they are not concerned about male
Aman, this comment was made 3 years ago, but if it helps at all- if you don't experience any sexual arousal or pleasure, that could be natural for you (for some people it is), it could be a physical issue for which you may need to see a medical doctor, or it may be psychological, a trauma remnant, with which a therapist could help you. If you cried while it happened, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. It's okay to cry, it's okay to feel that emotion and to cry. Crying is a natural human response to intense emotion, and rape or sexual assault is, to put it lightly, an intense experience. Nothing is wrong with you for crying. The reason people seem to care less about sexual violence when it happens to men is because of the way we view the roles of men and women in society. Men are supposed to be "tough," with less connection to emotion, less potential to be victimized- but it isn't really that way. It's okay for men to feel emotions, and men can be victims of sexual violence, too.
No friend we all concerned about victims male or female... He is just explaining the way the brain is protecting the body and how it can cause troubles in your futur sex life... It's not just about what happened during the abuse...
I'm crying my heart out...
@Lia N. Gkasouka much love sister
Hardest time of my life
Which you so many blessings you're a kind heart
Hope you're healing too
@Lia N. Gkasouka thanks hun stay safe 💚 Take care
Thank you for this
I can so relate to this
What to do if I don't get any arousal or sexual pleasure from it what to do if I was crying when he was doing it why everyone is concern about only female survivors why they are not concerned about male
Aman, this comment was made 3 years ago, but if it helps at all- if you don't experience any sexual arousal or pleasure, that could be natural for you (for some people it is), it could be a physical issue for which you may need to see a medical doctor, or it may be psychological, a trauma remnant, with which a therapist could help you.
If you cried while it happened, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. It's okay to cry, it's okay to feel that emotion and to cry. Crying is a natural human response to intense emotion, and rape or sexual assault is, to put it lightly, an intense experience. Nothing is wrong with you for crying.
The reason people seem to care less about sexual violence when it happens to men is because of the way we view the roles of men and women in society. Men are supposed to be "tough," with less connection to emotion, less potential to be victimized- but it isn't really that way. It's okay for men to feel emotions, and men can be victims of sexual violence, too.
No friend we all concerned about victims male or female...
He is just explaining the way the brain is protecting the body and how it can cause troubles in your futur sex life... It's not just about what happened during the abuse...