What NOT to do as an Expat in Thailand
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What NOT to do as an Expat in Thailand is a video designed to give you my perspective on what not do as an expat in Thailand.
Do not come here broke. It is a bad idea for so many reasons. The main reason being, this is not a place to come in hopes that the cheap cost of living will allow you to recover from your financial burdens. Nothing could be farther from the truth.
Do not come here with high expectations on what your life will be like. High acceptance and low expectations are the key to happiness. This holds true because it is better to be surprised than disappointed. It is the same theory that makes, "under promising and over delivering" such a great tactic.
Do not spend all of your time in Phuket, Bangkok, Lk Metro, Walking Street, or any other tourist destination in Pattaya. There is so much more to see than just the entertainment districts in these areas.
Finally, don't be fooled by scams. Use some good old fashioned common sense, and you will be fine!
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"Lower expectations, raise acceptance". Wise words that earned you a sub.
Thanks Mr 5. Welcome to the channel!
@@JeremyClodfelter same
I've been living in Thailand for nearly 20 years and I gotta say,, you're 100% spot on with all that advice. Thanks for sharing it.
Thanks Robert!
I love it!! Most REAL info I’ve seen yet! Doesn’t detour me from wanting me to go but is a wake up call, going to another country won’t solve your problems and bottom line they don’t want us there indefinitely. Be respectful and follow their rules!
I do 100% agree!!
"There is a 99.999% chance she'll leave."
So you're saying there is a chance.
I'm saying, "There's a chance!" LOL
99.99%
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@@JeremyClodfelter What would happen if you touched a Thai person on the head with your feet?
My mate was in a taxi and the driver tried to overcharge him.
Argued with him so the driver stuck his seat belt on and drove his own cab into wall, then proceeded to call the cops and blamed my mate , accused him of strangling him from behind whilst he drove .
Cops arrested him , even took him back to where he lived to try and extort money from him .
When they realised he had nothing they let him go .
Scarey Shit .
I hear those horror stories all the time. Thankfully, it hasn't happened to me yet.
many places much bader than this
sounds like bs to me visited Thailand off and on since 84 ( month every year) never heard of this scam...i have seen lots of scams...but this one makes no sense.
That's because your mate allowed a taxi driver to carry out a journey with the meter turned off. The idiot.
Use Grab app when possible, arrange pick up away from scooter taxi and taxi waiting locations.
I watched this video at least 10 times. Always informative and I like the production quality.
Do not put anything in a Thai person's name unless you are prepared to lose it. House, car, motorcycle, anything.
Agreed. 👍🏻
That goes for ANY country..I do not care what part of the world you are in.
You are wrong @@nelco69 , that only applies to Condos where 51% of the condos must be owned by Thais. A farang can buy one of the remaining 49% and can sell it without anyone's consent. However a Farang cannot buy a freehold house but he can form a Company and the Company can buy it but again 51 % of the shareholders must be Thai but you can hold the majority of the shares. Confused you will be - you're in Thailand !
Correct , but why do so many idiots do it in Thailand .
Protip: you can't put it in your own name
Unfortunately, most (not all) Americans in Thailand feel entitled. I am from the US, and embarrassed at times with their actions and arrogance. Thailand is a magical place, and Thai's are very friendly and nice. Over all, good advise, and take care.
Thank you for the comment!
About half of the Americans I've meet with a lot of British & Europeans have a sense of entitlement there. You need to learn the culture & show some respect to earn their's. They do things differently but make an effort to help you so you need to do the same.
Same in any country, act like an asshole, get treated like an asshole. You are right about Thailand and the people. My last visit I had an issue at the airport getting a taxi, the guy was getting really stressed about it and most likely used to people kicking off, I said Mai Pen Rai and he couldn't have been any nicer to me.
Interesting viewpoint Fred.
I agree Peter.
I have been in Thailand 2 years. I am married to a very loving Thai. She does not drink, or smoke, and has never been in a bar. We raise her (our) daughter together. All is great. I have never been to bar since I moved here. I am retired, and went through all that bar scene crap decades ago in the military. I only see Westerners if I am playing football (soccer), and they are teachers mostly. I do my own thing. I dont live in an expat community, in fact there are very few westerners living in the district of Bangkok in which I live. I spent a year in Chiang Mai before we came to Bangkok but I found it far to touristy for my liking. I avoid tourist areas as much as possible. I find that rip-off situations seem to ONLY exist in those areas. All I see in the Thai that I come into contact with is honesty and kindness. I just have a very happy, fulfilled, uncomplicated life here. I never have the feeling that no one wants me to be here. I live in a new 2br condo in which I rent with all the amenities. Life is Good!
I am very happy to hear that Ronnie! I hope my story ends just like yours with me saying, "Life is good!"
I am sure it will . Peace!
Wow a real person with real values, great to hear. All these one time to Thailand people think they understand the country and the people with 1 visit. Good luck in your life continue to show not all westerners are dickheads.
Hi Ronnie, great to hear you're happy. I write this only because of a reminescence. Many years ago (about 11 years ago) I was interested in forex online and remember about an old, positive and happy guy giving advice in a public forum. His name was Ronnie and he always cheered with "life is good!". Oh, well.
Ronnie O same nothing but good will never been ripped off some of my closet friends are Thai.
Came here for business 13 years ago, met my future Thai wife (19 years younger than me!) Bought a house in the North East and had three boys aged 12 to 10 years. Started my own business 5 years ago and bought another house in Bangkok last year. Her parents and relatives and friends adore me and the children. I never visit bars. And I am very happy. Thailand is a great place to live in. Good advice for those who want to fool around and go back to their countries. Take care and enjoy your stay in Thailand.
I live in a very traditional Thai neighborhood in Dusit, Bangkok. All my friends are Thai. For the most part, I avoid other Expats simply because I find many of them came here to get away from problems in their home countries and thought moving to another country would change their lives for the better not realizing their problems move with them. Then, when their lives do not improve, they become jaded and blame Thailand for all their problems. My main objective is to be able to live my life with as few complications as possible … hassle free. Once a year I must go to Thai Immigration to extend my Visa. Other than that, I do as I please. My Thai friends treat me so well I am almost embarrassed … far better than I deserve. I have several Families that invite me to travel with them; they treat me as one of their own. They know that I would never do anything to intentionally insult them or their culture. Because of this, they trust me enough to correct me when I do something I shouldn't. They also cut me a lot of slack … again, far more than I deserve. As far as high or low expectations, I suppose I didn't really have any expectations. Your life is what you make of it.
Excellent comment Richard. I agree with your assessments on expats.
great points richard....wow that was said so beautifully
Thank you for sharing your stories in Thailand. How do you communicate with your Thai friends? You can speak Thai?
:)
I go by a simple philosphy ,if you don't look for trouble, trouble won't find you.
That usually works. Thanks for the comment.
Yeah !! Smart Arse !
I've been living here for 7 years and you're absolutely correct! I like your philosophy of life "Expect a very low expectation!" that is mine as well. Not because of Thailand but everywhere I go that is how I am. However, one thing you've forgotten to emphasize, and I think it is very important for any of your viewers or potential visitors to keep in mind. Never ever get involved in drugs as it will be your ticket to 6 feet down below, seriously!
You are correct. That is definitely not the thing to involved in here or anywhere else.
I feel being a expat living in Thailand and just visiting are two entirely different things with the only thing in common..... you are in Thailand. If you are an expat and are aware of the dangers/culture/laws/living expenses you can navigate around the country and community carefully but successfully. When you are visiting for 10-12 days and have your wad of cash, you tend to be visiting the danger areas - Go go's/beer bars/seedy place to pack it all in within your trip. Short visits open you up to scams/violence and potential issues....living as a expat day to day with a low profile steering clear of the normal "Fun" zones is much safer....that is the real difference. I am not saying there are not issues for Expats but it is a more "real" environment instead of just a holiday of party, party, party.
You make an accurate point Tim. I completely agree with you. I’ve been here 1 Year, and there is a difference.
I’m Thai. I totally agree with you “Don’t come here broke!” Hahaha
Don't go broke anywhere
It is all about the money like anywhere in the west European men should know this for they are the ones that has done this where ever they have been
but can bee broke soon
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Yeah that would be unbelievabley stupid,
I mean really, Do people actually go to Thailand with No money, Or any other country that's not their home country.
I can't believe a person would actually do something as dumb as that, That's just the most ridiculous thing I think I've ever heard.
I've watch many Thailand videos and this video by-for was the very best. Lot of great Thailand info in a short amount of time. Everyone should see your video before going to Thailand. Thank you have a great day take care.
Thank you so much John.
And don't, DON'T do drugs
Definitely not!
Just say no. That's my policy. lol
Jeremy Clodfelter
I like to partake in a little ganja every so often. What are the penalties if caught?
confiscation of passport till prosecuted jail huge bills for lawyers and enough cash to pay till jail you
James Rodriguez bury it as far as possible away from you lol 😆 and be extremely careful who you trust like I got put onto a Thai girl that ran our acccomadtion believe me Bangkok Hilton is not a GREAT hotel lmao 😂 just be super super cautious
This guy does a great Woody Harlson
Who is Woody Harlson?
@@kaisercc 🤦🏽♂️
the problem with a lot of expats is they come with the holiday mentality. as you say if you expect that level of entertainment all the time, you will be disappointed. its certainly good to have a cheap hobby to fall back on so you aren't compelled to live the night life all the time. even going out for a few cheap beers daily or eating a lot of Western food adds up quickly. im not saying you have to eat mama noodles everyday,but just get a grip. also a lot of places have deals or happy hours on drink and food. take advantage of that.
Very solid points Larry. I hope many people read this comment! Thanks!
I was wondering what to do if I were to retire there. I know you can't live the holiday life. But it would be nice to live by the beach if I did. Suggestions on hobbies there?
Can depend on how long a time and vacation there. One month,, 3 months Two weeks. ??
Peter C ,.,., i'm living in Thailand and far away from Pattaya but every once in awhile i would visit for like a week and have a blast. i really don't have any hobbies except going to the gym 5 days a week to be fit.
good hobbies. working out, fishing, wind surfing, hiking, muay thai, learn thai massage, start a blog or vlog. learn Thai or another language. there are many options.
When the money runs out the lovin runs out. A universal truth.
sometimes
No doubt
Your last statement was your best one, just remember folks, a fool and his money are soon parted!
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That goes for every country.
I really like you Jeremy, your experience and true story which I personally appreciate your work. I was bored in Saigon. Grow up in California. I may retire in Vietnam in a few more Years.
Thanks a lot! I really appreciate the positivity!
What not to do as an expat in Thailand: Don't trust expats
Agreed
yes stay away from the farangs they are the most dangerous
If you go to Thailand you are going to do the same things and go to the same places looking for the same thing so who else, dork.
This is so true and should have made the list. Some people will scam their own countrymen abroad. There are certain types out there like this. Just be weary before placing too much trust.
Completely true fresaw and the best tip! A lot of funny expat "talkers" trying to do business with you. Most of them are based in the Sukhumvit area. Ignore them and it is for 90% bullshit!.
I have been enjoying your vlog's on Philippines and Thailand for some time now. You are a thoughtful person with good insights, so firstly a thank you for your excellent work.
As far as this video goes, I agree with the vast majority of what you say, and so many of the "don'ts" are really important. Some are just simple politeness that we Westerners may not be familiar with eg. taking off shoes, not touching heads, and others potentially life saving eg. don't EVER get into a fight with Thai guys. I also agree about not sweating the small stuff eg. arguing about small change.
However, I don't agree with you about Thailand in general not not wanting you to stay here. Issuing temporary teaching licences seems sensible and would fill a chronic shortage of English language teachers here. Many Westerners, particularly younger ones, don't want to work more than a couple of years here anyway. If you want to make a career of it and stay on, it seems reasonable that they would apply more stringent criteria.
I have been living here on a retirement visa for 3 years, and the process is so simple and straightforward to stay on, it really is hard to believe they haven't tightened it up. A lot of foreigners here are less than desirable, in so many ways, and the fact that they don't apply tougher standards surprises me.
I have had lots of poor experiences here in Thailand, but it always seems that soon after, a good experience occurs, which restores my faith in the place. Nowhere I'd rather be in retirement.
Thank you for following my journey, and I sincerely appreciate this comment. I stand by my statements. You are here on a retirement visa. That means you have verified income. You will be contributing to the economy. I'm sure the country has no problem with you staying. Try staying here long-term on a tourist visa. It will likely not happen. My teaching license analogy was just that. Please don't take every word as the gospel. I love this country and I hope to stay here for a long time. Thanks again for the comment!
Thai Fly
Please, expound on some of your poor experiences.
Thai Fly like what bad things happened to you?
@@JeremyClodfelter I stayed for most of ten years, on an endlessly renewed tourist visa, with temporary work permits, all arranged by the school where I taught.
I have a college degree, in linguistics. I speak, read, and write Thai. When you speak of limits, in any context, you have to recognize that those limits can be transcended, either by changing the context, or changing your orientation within the context. Which is to say, if you want to be valued more by the people where you live, become more valuable to them. You can't change others, and can't change the world. You CAN change yourself.
Sometimes, even if money is the focus, a man's value can be far greater than the balance in his accounts. As a foreigner in Thailand, any paycheck you receive is a cost to Thai economy, not a value. Business people don't value you based on how much money you make - They assess your value by how much money you can make for them. If you want to stay in Thailand long-term, stop thinking about how you can make money FROM Thai people, and start figuring out how you can make money FOR Thai people.
Lived there 10 years. Never lived in the expat or tourist areas. Had a good experience but saw others make the mistakes you went over. Very good and honest review. Good job.
Thanks Shawn. Much appreciated!
You are the most clear and straight to the point adviser on these topics, on YT.
I just discovered you, even if these videos are 3 y.o,, they are pretty great, anyway.
Thank you!
Thanks so much. I try to be as straight forward as possible. I have to remain within the constraints of TH-cam’s guidelines, however, I do my best to be as candid as possible.
you forgot the most important rule , always have respect for the king
This video will be very helpful to many people. I have lived in many countries around the world (currently in China) and the one thing that has always amazed me is the sense of entitlement western people generally have. What has made my life so much easier is my FIFO (fit in or f**k off) stance. Learn about cultures and traditions before visiting any place in the world, tolerate them (you don't have to love them, but it's not your country, not your call) and enjoy the experience. So often I see westerners trying to "inform and educate" people in their own countries as if the only way to live is the western way...
Thanks so much for this comment Andre!
America was (based on the Founding Fathers) a complete exception to all of history. We must realize that the very concept of individuality is not shared by anyplace else. The minority (Americans) don't realize how small they are compared to the majority which is the world.
been going to Thailand sense the late 1990's Pattaya has changes so much in that time but in my opinion it is still the best place in this or any other universe!
I certainly enjoy it Jeffery. You just have to have the right mindset.
@Jeffery ... that's because Thailand is the Center of the Universe ... great things happens in Thailand :)
So true. Lol
This guy is fabulous !!! Heaven !
Thank you
you did a great job here, you just simply laid it out honestly. Great perspectives man
Some good advise Jeremy on having low expectations and high acceptance a good principle to live by. A couple of other points about your comments on being cheated; I have lived in Pattaya , did business in Bangkok and have been travelling to Thailand for over 20 years. To let someone rip you off without showing disdain for their actions is just not acceptable, you are falling for the myth that any disagreement or argument with a Thai person will lead to major problems or a fight. I have had many arguments and have shown my anger on occasion to Thais for cheating me and have never had a problem . When a Thai cheats you and they do it blatantly knowing they are cheating you if you show your contempt for their actions they will back down. This attitude of saying nothing because you don't want to go to jail only makes foreigner more of a target as Thai cheaters know they can get away with it without retribution therefore intensifying the myth. The other myth is never, never touch a Thai on the head,. I think you have been reading too many :culture in Thailand guidebooks. If you have ever made love to a Thai lady you can't help but touch her head repeatedly, also, go to a massage shop and see Thais giving Thais head massages to each other. The head of a person or statue in Thailand are regarded as the most important part of the body. It is considered rude to touch a stranger’s head, as it would be in most countries around the world. It is also disrespectful to touch the head of a statue, especially a statue of the Buddha. Of course, close friends and family members often touch each other’s heads or hair. This is not considered rude.
Thanks, but I could argue several points. I won’t, but I’ll just say this; I’ve seen a foreigner get his teeth knocked out for reaching over a Thai’s head while ringing the bell on the Baht bus. I appreciate your comment.
Well said Rob everything you said is common sense
@@JeremyClodfelter that was the a crazy thai not all thais most Thais are not like that.
In fact I would get the person who got the beating was probably a lot weaker then the thai
Yes I agree with Uncle Tim on that one, that's a very unusual situation, probably the Thai was looking for a fight. Having said that you are absolutely right about showing respect to their culture, I'm just not sure if I want to be in a place if I have to tread on thin ice and afraid of every move I make. I really like your presentation style by the way and appreciate your vids.
Thanks!
Hes making a lot of sense if I was this type traveler I'd definitely take his advice.
Great List....completely agree with all this.....personally I will add another point:-
Do not live in Pattaya or Patong......it will most likely end in tears!
why in tears? b/c of the women?? breaking hearts??
Thanks for the thought on that question I had. Your video is great and the reality check is a darn good wake up call for most people who travel. Actually my buddy is looking at going to Vietnam. Either way I gotta believe your words still are true. Great job on the video guy.
Thank you Sandy!
I hear the exchange rate is better with Vietnam
Thanks for being realistic and above all I like that you're being positive about Thailand.
It is, overall, the best Country on the planet.
You are welcome, and thank you for the comment!
Retired in thailand, loving life
Good to hear Max!
$3K/month....you will have a good life as long as you use common sense. Best of luck, and safe travels.
3k la a lot of money but get health insurance and don't be stupid, I live a quiet life in issan, married and wife works, it reminds me of 1970s USA
@streeteats where are you located roughly?
Behind you.
I lived in Pattaya for 6 years and agree with everything spoken in this video.
Thanks for the comment Clive!
@@JeremyClodfelter II
I have been married to a Thai for 27 years-we met in the US, are fairly well off, and we built a very nice home in a small non touristy Thai city 11 years ago, where we spend 40% of the year (we have been visiting much longer than that). We find it very comfortable in Thailand.
A few additional things to note not mentioned here, however.
First of all, if you try to live as a Westerner, it is actually pretty expensive-for example, produce at the grocery story costs at least as much as if not more than the US. We get out produce at the street stalls or open air markets, where it is VERY cheap. Food at the local mom and pop restaurants is safe (I have NEVER gotten ill) and very cheap. If you go to a high end restaurant catering to Westerners, well, you will pay. If you buy Western goods or appliances, the tariffs are forbiddingly. We bought a new Toyota Camry in 2011 for $46,000 USD at the local Toyota dealer.
Second, if you are a Westerner, especially if you are not fluent in Thai, they will try to jack up the prices-I always have my spouse do the bargaining
Third, the inefficiency here is much worse than the US-expect it and don't get too fussed when it happens. Getting mad does not speed things up
I absolutely agree. I love Thailand too. Been going there since 15 years. Lived there for 6 years in Pattaya. You have to remember, you are only a tourist. An ATM machine. But be sensible an enjoy life there.
My friend you have a southern way about you , I myself live in Florida and meet very laid back and relaxed guys like yourself who have traveled and speak on the same truths , kudos on your page and thank you for the wisdom you have shared.
Thanks. Much appreciated!
one of the best things is don't live in the big cities . if you can live in the smaller towns it's cheaper and the locals tend to be more friendly especially if you treat them with the same respect that you wan't .
"Don't travel broke" Really ? this is the most common sense thing in the world. If you're struggling in your home country why would traveling even remotely be on your mind.
You would be surprised.
Brits do it all the time.
You'd be shocked how many people actually do this.
Good to see Woody Harrelson alive and well :-)
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I lived there 7 years, You are right in everything you say. It is a Beautiful country wit Beautiful people.
Without doubt this is the best vlog and the only one to see that sums up Thailand.
Whether people take note if it is another matter...
Thanks so much!
Seems like people love watching you talk! :D Great summary !!! :D
Thank you!
Great points!! I leaned them through observation when i went to a dozen country’s when i was in the navy..
26 years in S. E. Asia (5 countries). Listen to this guy, please.
How do you make a small fortune in SE Asia?
Arrive with a big fortune.
LOL! Thanks Con.
Hehe... yip
Probably the best video ever on what NOT to do in Thailand, well done mate. Salute from William (UK)
Thanks so much Will!
Words of wisdom that ring true for ANYWHERE in the world, including where you live right now. Thanks for your thoughts.
That’s correct.
Haha! “When the money runs out so will she”... As opposed to in America when its over she takes 50% of everything you own and 50% of your pension. Thanks for the boots on the ground intell.
Welcome, and good point!
I think he forgot the most important one. Don't do (or bring) drugs.
You are correct! That just goes without saying, but I probably should have included it! Thanks for the comment!
Great advice as the prisons in Thailand and most South East Asia will make you regret ever having been born.
whiskers78753 @ it's obvious not only in Thailand yet anywhere else so not necessary to be mentioned, like do not kill or whatever lol, what's the point. Whereas "do not touch head of a Thai" or such thing which might be benign elsewhere is good to be mentioned.
It seemed to me it was a video made from a reasonable person for other reasonable persons. Dealing with drugs in Thailand is not reasonable, that should be the reason why the item was left aside
I’m still tryna figure out how I can go to Thailand without the wife knowing hahahahaha
Lol!!!
Keep trying b mate it's worth it just don't ever let her find out you went, and glove up buddy, enjoy!!
Get rid of her before you go. You won't her when you get back anyway.
lol. That's really funny. Thailand is also a great place for couples. But I hear you brother.
Just go, burn passport upon return.
Delete Facebook before going...Infact, don't take your phone.
"They want you to be here to spend your money but they don't want you to stay". Now that's crystal clear.
lol
My grandfather used to say expect the worse and hope for the best and you will never be disappointed.
I couldn't agree more!
Great advice! I spent 4 months in Thailand, and I can attest that everything he is saying is true. I would add that you do not want to break the law in any way, ever! They don't play. They will throw you in jail in a heartbeat, and the penalties are very stiff. Bringing drugs will get you the death penalty. Just don't do it.
Very true comment. Thanks.
suddenly i feel good for coming to thai from a third world country , all these things i won't do by default
The sunglasses down with the head shake...hilarious!!! Thanks for the tips.
Glad you like them! lol
I am living on a farm in Sisaket (8th year) with my wonderful wife of 15 years and our 7 year old daughter. Other than the noisy dek wen motorcycle pipes, I love it. For the past 6 years I have had a work permit as a 'Trainer' therefore no teacher licencee required. I have just completed my masters degree in Education so I can become a genuine teacher as the kids here are great and I just love teaching them.
Awesome! That’s a unique way to work the system.
Thanks Jeremy good advice especially starting with low expectations. Live like the majority of Thais and you will continuously be blessed by their generosity of spirit. Of course there are some bad eggs, as can normally be expected by the home country you originate from.
Welcome! Thanks for the comment!
Good list fella.
Thanks Quinton! Are you coming over anytime soon?
This is by far the first and best video of what not to do in Thailand that I have come across, this video tells you the real deal! No beating around the bush.Thanks, very informative.
Thanks John!
Love the video. I married a Thai woman but we met in America. We own 2 Thai restaurants and have a child. Im glad shes not like those bar girls. We own a home in the Bangkok suburbs and stay away from the tourist areas. I think i did pretty good for myself. Happy travels
Congrats!
what not to do as a TH-camr number 1 dont copy other TH-camrs by wearing Casey Neistat sunglasses
Casey scratches the outside of his glasses to make his own unique look. There are no scratches on mine. Nice try.
I can't remember in my entire life, touching someone's head!
Fair enough
Number 20: Don’t even try to be a victim in South East Asia
Great rule!
Jeremy Clodfelter thanks brother. I was in Thailand for almost 6 months earlier this year. Can’t wait to go back by the start of next year. Income is very important for long term stay there.
I thought this was standard with the entry visa? Faring prices, leaving a drink unattended, leaving the room safe open, etc... ;-)
I agree 100%.
lol
Good to see someone taking a no-nonsense, straight forward approach to these things. All countries have their faults and its better to be given a firm heads up and to be wiser for it, than to go in completely blind and end up offending someone at the very least, or ending up in jail, at the worst.
I like the approach you took with the taxi driver - 100 baht is a cheap price to pay for the possible consequences.
Well done and thank you.
Thanks for understanding the context of this video. I genuinely appreciate the comment.
Hi Jeremy
I lived in Thailand for 7 years and like you I loved it!
Your video is important to anyone out there thinking of moving to Thailand.. It's the truth!
Touching a child's head is a real no-no.
Also, I'd like to add.. Go North and see the real Thailand. It's beautiful and people will invite you to eat with them, especially if you bring a bottle of the local whiskey.
DO NOT DISRESPECT THE THAI ROYAL FAMILY!!
My Thai daughter refers to the King as Papa..
Great Job fella!!
Thanks.
Thanks Simon. I’m glad you enjoyed the video!
Thumbs up if you find some comments to be extremely hilarious! 😁😁😁😁
And Thai people will love you all the way to the airport. Lol.
Lol
I would be more concerned with getting out when the time comes. Without some young lady thinking your going to whisk her away with you. Clinging to you non stop. I've always assumed Thailand was a place to "feed the beast" and get the hell out.
Lol. I understand your point Scott.
Scott Free
Desperate times call for desperate measures for these women. Who knows what type of life awaits them once the "gravy train" leaves town. So, really, who can blame them
This is probably the most concise comment in this list. I created a profile on ThaiCupid just as an experiment and 63 women sent messages in 27 hrs. I didn't subscribe to read the comments, oh well. 129 messages in a week and a half, a few gals were absolutely stunning.
Most thai women don't want to come to America.
one of your best vlogs in Thailand... especially when people stare at you like a rock star😎
Here 2 years now, and this was spot on wisdom. Peace!
Thank you very much! It's nice to hear a little vindication.
Do you regret going?
Bottom line is, remember you're a guest in someone else's house and act accordingly and everything will be fine. That's all you had to say in this 14 minute video.
Yeah, but talking for 14 minutes was so much fun. 🤣
Right 😂
Jeremy, I just experienced common sense overload by watching your video. I subscribed
immediately. My wife lives in Sri Racha. I have been there several times and plan on moving after I
retire in a couple of years. You seem like the type of guy I can hang out with. You are dead on about everything you said.
Thanks Andrew, and thanks for subscribing. I hope you find the content helpful. If you have any questions, please don't hesitate to ask.
One of the realest videos I've ever watched. Really puts things into perspective.
Thank you! I hope you found value in the content!
Golden Rule: No Money No Honey
true in most cases.
Thai women’s feet are scary as hell
Hahahaha!!!! Nailed that one for sure Bro! Lol
Good solid advice. I've settled here in Pattaya with my Thai wife ( who I met outside of Thailand) and we are very happy here.
Staying out of brawls and heated arguments here is a must even if the other party is a farang. Police don't care who started it and take a dim view of such actions. If you're on a long term visa you are putting that at risk.
A good partner will coach you on what is socially acceptable, so listen to them and heed.
Anyway good VLOG 👍
You make great points Ken! Thanks for the comment!
"Low Expectations and High Acceptance" love it, just love it. Great videos Jeremy!
Thanks so much Mike.
Was there for 7 weeks...met a 50ish "regular" Thai woman, and have never been treated better in my life...she bathed me, massaged me, and gave me pretty much whatever I asked for...she was sooo sad when I had to leave, and still calls me to this day...this was 6 months ago, and I can't wait to go back and see her again...in my experience I rate that woman a 10+ in terms of loyalty and love...and that's not even the half of it lol
Congrats! You've had some good luck here!
I am so plasantly supprised with this so obvies and easy to follow and helphull to understand info presented. this probably works in many climats with wariations to local cultures.but we all need to be aware not to ofend others and specially not to get hert fizically or emocionally......good job mate. Thx.....OG!!!!
Thanks! Very much appreciated!
I love the way you keep it real,very direct and no bullshit stories.
I broke your rule number 3 a few years ago..... on purpose.
I was aware that for religious & cultural reasons you should not touch a Thai on their head.
They consider the crown on your head to be sacred..... it's to do with Buddhism.
I was explaining that to my girlfriend as we were walking out of a shopping centre.
Just to prove the point I waved my hand over this Thai girls head.... without touching her.
The Thai girl got angry and upset and began yelling at me....
I just said to my girlfriend keep walking.... keep walking and don't look back.
Wow! That’s a little dangerous. Glad nothing bad happened.
This dude speaks the truth! The real raw deal! Well said my friend. 👍🏼
Thanks Paul!
Brilliant......good man sharing your thoughts......Learn the easy way from you or the hard way yourself.
Exactly Jonathan. Thanks for the comment.
no doubt
One of the best common sense and very respectful videos I have seen on what NOT to do in Thailand. Kudos to you!
Thanks so much Chip. Greatly appreciated.
Everything you said is correct about any tourist country
Thanks.
Love your take. Nike says, "Just do it". Jeremy says, "Just don't do it". Good stuff
“ your internet will not always work “ well damn. Got me rethinking my whole life.
Careful. Thinking leads to acting
I just want to say two things about this video, it's very well spoken and I hope others on You Tube will find this video! Thank you sir!
Wow, thank you!
I have been surfing a lot looking into Thailand, Cambodia and Laos. This video was a great help as I will know some things not to do. Thanks...
You’re welcome Eddie!
The longer I listened, the more I was impressed with your list. Good advise for newbies.
My golden rule here is, just like upper class Thais, ignore everyone unless you need to deal with them. Then be respectful.
Keep your friendliness and kindness for those you know and care.
Thanks!
Good advice...Love Thailand but 100% agree with all your comments...
Thanks Nick!
The shoes one is common courtesy, and not just in Thailand.
Hello! I totally agree with you espacially when you say many peaople come to Thailand with false expectations.
Open heart + open mind = open possibilities! Have no expectations, no excessive needs and enjoy a simpler life.
Agreed
First rule when using a taxi, tuk tuk, songtow agree the price before you get in. Oh and what ever price you agree that will not include any toll road charges Bangkok has toll roads so be aware of that as well the tolls are not expensive.
Agreed!
I'm from Canada, but have lived in Taiwan for 10 years. I highly recommend you try to live over here for a while. It's cheap to live, you could probably get a job teaching, and it has first world safety.
I am very interested in Taiwan. I almost took a teaching job over there once.
Can you get food that is not spicy, Kory?
Listen to this man. He speaks the truth.