Typical Millennial Wife/Mum Things I DON'T AGREE WITH!
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One thing I love about Adaeze's channel is how unique her channel is❤
I enjoyed listening to you speak about the things you did in this video, i also picked more than a thing in this video. Thank you for this.
You and Nelo really have organised thoughts. You can talk about literally anything and make sense of it. The way your points flow, damn!!I can listen to you the whole day🎉❤
I’ve seen some women saying “As a woman, you’re supposed to be a mother to your husband!” That pisses me off! I mean, first of all, he’s probably older than me and should know better. Get your acts together oga and don’t stress me. I’ll do all I should and chip in here and there but not carry it as my responsibility to baby an adult that is supposed to be in charge of the home.
Another one is when mothers call their daughter’s “husband snatcher”or “husband’s side chick” 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ and they post videos/pictures about it. I hate it so much, It’s that serious. Just say my daughter(s) prefers their Dad to me.
Hey! This one pisses me off too much. I can't explain how disgusted I feel when I see it. You'll even see some dragging their child off their father. That's crazy!
@ when they also call their sons “my little boyfriend or my husband”. I feel like calling the police 🤣 what in the incest is going on
I just had to pause and comment on the first point. 😆it makes my skin crawl too, cos what?
This right here!!!!makes me so 😡 . There was a certain hair vendor I used to follow on IG, I had to unfollow her for my peace of mind 😂cos she’s always referring to her daughter as “ her husband’s side chick “🤦♀️and I couldn’t quite stand it 😅
@@estherkingsleyBo hairs is standing on this 😂😂😂😂
As a new mom, I really learned a lot from this video and I think you should do more of this kind of video especially about marriage and raising kids.❤❤❤
When i was young my moms favourite lines were " use your initiative" or " if I wasn't here, how/what would you have done?". They helped us think rather than asking her all the time
I’m with you on everything here.
My daughters asked for a phone at 10/11yrs old I said NO. They said but our friends ….. I said YOU ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS, I AM NOT YOUR FRIENDS MOTHER. When the right time came, I gave them a phone (I always explain why I take certain decisions) Same for make up, I did not allow it until they clocked 18… same for food options (I cannot come and kill myself)
I also don’t teach Santa, Halloween, tooth fairy….. to my kids.
In fact I agreed 💯 on everything with you.
I feel no pressure at all, everybody is entitled to their rules and opinions.
Well done mama❤️❤️❤️❤️
I thought I'm the only one like this. It surely feels good to know that I'm not the only one like this.
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Not all trend should be followed,make your own decision and healthy comparison should be encouraged. Set your boundaries ❤❤❤
In summary
Well said ❤❤❤well done 🎉
The put it on my head got me laughing because i do that always my kids are so use to it i just press the ignore button and remove my eyes and they end up doing things right.
Thank you for another wonderful video. One thing I tell my kids is that because someone is doing something doesn’t mean you should do it, and that has made a lot of difference.
Oh! Adaeze. I thoroughly enjoyed watching this video. I love it so much when I see women who think like me. It's important to first know who you are and what you stand for as a human being. That's the only way to build values and principles that you can then pass on to your kids. I 💯 recommend this video.
Adaeze, 100% that woman over sabi was me!!! I carried my self well but my eyes and soul was dead! Until I woke up and took control of my life and let go of dead load ie man. This video is useful for young women or women stuck in bad relationships thinking they have no other way. We have one life and is short. Thank you for the video
I don’t bail out men as well.
But I have a neighbour who is always feeling sorry for men/boys.
So it happens that her son and my sons go to the same primary school this year and my husband would pick and drop them up from school.
Can you imagine what this lady did? She is feeling sorry that my husband is doing his duty of picking up and dropping the kids.
So one afternoon, she goes to school and my husband is there as well to pick up the kids(I have three boys and she has 1) and that is how she tells my husband that she would be picking them up in the afternoon.
That’s how this lady made my husband to stop picking the kids up at closing time.
I just told her that’s you people’s business.
Keep bailing men out from their responsibilities, it can never be me.
For your last point, it means you are very secure in your marriage. If as a married woman you have to snoop on your husband it means the communication between you two has hitches.
I believe in marriage there must be trust between us and that’s why I should let you know my whereabouts and trust that you are where you said you are.
Truly, I don’t understand these insecurities in marriage.
It’s draining.
Oh Ada! You put across these first two points so well. One of our favourite quotes in my home from the Bible regarding unhealthy competition is “those that compare themselves to themselves are foolish and not wise”.
I mean this is me, I do what works for me . I don't care what anyone thinks about it. My 15 year old son has been on my neck for a phone because few people in his class owns one, he will get one after SSCE.
That's me. 💯
You are you funny “am I James mother 😂😂😂.this is so educative.
You see that competitive part ehn, I’m fed up. I am not a competitive person but everyone around me wants to have everything I have😢and it’s sooo annoying, I have stopped having friends because it’s draining me. Everything thing you said is just on points 😍
I’m not even a millennial mom or wife but I agree 💯 with everything you’ve said… I even feel these things you just mentioned are/should be NORMS… ❤❤
Put it on my head 😂😂😂😂 Adaeze and big big English ehn! She said it’s weaponized incompetence 😅
Haha, I have checked his phone, I have the password. However, I don't think I have the time now. But if i suspect anything fishy, I will check. I agree with you on a lot of things quite frankly.
This video reminded me of why I subscribed to your channel. God bless you
Would love contents on Balancing Working from Home and Managing the home..Also love anything you put out cause you are being you...
This is why I watch and follow. We couple of similar opinions. Growing up, my mum will never give you an option either you eat what the household is eating or you stay hungry. You can’t even eat biscuits 😂😂😂 As I new mom, I will employ that habit when my baby grows up
That's exactly how I'm raising my children. I can't kill myself.
I totally agree with everything you said Adaeze if you don’t require accountability from people trust me they won’t ever feel the need to be
Insightful. I second your perspective.
You share same perspective as myself .
I'll definitely operate this way in future when i am a parent
Adaeze I totally agree with all your point, i always feel we reason same way , like I’m so indifferent
QED!
Add the women that are jealous of how their husbands like abi love their children (daughters).
😂The last point had you talking in CAPS LOCK
We can't be enabling nonsense! However , the presentation should be with wisdom so as not allow the enemy weaponize the situation.
Thank you sis
Alot of wisdom
I simply allow the Holy Spirit guide me on my parenting journey. So much nonsense and pressure on social media as to how to raise kids, 700 activities to do,what not to say its overwhelming. I pray and ask God for grace and instruction along with my husband. I agree with everything you've shared Adaeze. The first video i watched of you last year i was like i love this lady, you are funny but so real. God bless you and your family ❤️
Sure. Giving children too much options spoil them and its important for parents to take control, otherwise you will stress yourself.
I find it funny when mums complain that children look like their dad. When in realuty they love it, they feel that they have proved to the world that the child belongs to the man. A weird sense of pride. I had a friend who would get a little angry when i told her her son looks like her more than the dad. Especially their first borns😂😂😂women are funny. Im not a mum but yoh this makes me laugh
This really annoys me a lot
The day my husband tried the not flushing thing with me,he actually flushed but needed to be flushed again,I snapped it and sent it to him,tagged it,someone is saying hello,he had to apologize
My daughter will say but all my friends are doing it, i tell her but your friend is not my child.
Lol😂😂 i can't stop laughing, you're very funny. Exactly do what works for you.
Congratulations on your 70k sub
Set your boundaries not all trend should be followed make your own decisions and healthy and educational comparison should be encouraged that's❤❤❤❤❤❤
Or excusing stupid behaviors when the husband’s club looses a match and sees it as a means to misbehave with the wife or girlfriend like he can do that with his boss
Oh my God,not me baby sitting my husband too,is very annoying, doesn't flush toilet is highly annoying,no my husband doesn't do that. They should stop normalising terrible bad habits
Ada, how can you suggest someone should focus on their focus when the person doesn't have a focus.
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I am you, you are me on this take 😂😂😂😂
Eziokwu like these are grown men ooo smh🤦🏽♀️
Oh yes there is no way I'm babying a grown man, I can never be attracted to that
Sophia is not last born ooo😊😊
Please let's get a part 2 of the video
Regarding to all the wifey parts I am EXACTLY like you 😂 and I love it ❤
Please can we get part two of this
This woman❤❤ I just love you. I wish every woman can reason the you do❤❤❤
I have seen my mummy twin. I am the exact same way 😂
Am not a competitive person too. I thought am alone.
I love watching this type of videos… do another one when your kids become teens 😂😂😂😂
Good talk, I love it so much
Ride on Pastor! Preachh!!!!
very informative. I really enjoyed watching
Still watching but point #1 is 👏👏👏👏
Thats true l also wonder why wives do that really
Yes to not babying husbands pls.
great advice! love this. Ada, do you and hubby drink alcohol? just curious
What do you say to a woman married to a man who wants to be infantilized?
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My first time commenting although I watch your videos a lot very informative I totally agree…especially the husband part like where do they guys get the energy to monitor their husbands😅😅😅😅 is it not exhausting?
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Honestly Sis..that first point just annoys me..talking petit things about your husband
I'm early today