im worried that he doesnt like the way my vagina looks because its dark and hairy. even when i shave it looks and feels kind of rough. im also scared we're gonna have really bad sex
@@sarakhan1573 I completely understand. It's important to remember that Allah created your vagina and your vulva. Allah creates things beautifully therefore your vagina and vulva are beautiful. We need to value Allah's opinion of our vulva more highly than the opinion of a human. When you say you're scared that you're going to have really bad sex, what do you mean? Are you afraid it will hurt? Or are you afraid that you won't enjoy sex?
I think in general I'm not confident about my body (I have pcos), I'm worried my future husband might not find me attractive in bed and be grossed out. Also, that I hear a lot of men are either clueless about women's health in general, or many are selfish and only think about their own pleasure and desires.
@@sakuraqueen1734 thank you for sharing this. I agree with you that men need to be better informed. We need to start with ourselves in accepting ourselves and loving our body first before we can expect someone else to accept us and love us. When you start to get to know a potential spouse, this is something you can talk about (your body and pcos)
This popped on my feed and even though I’m a 53 year old grandmother married 30 years, I watched out of curiosity. I found myself so impressed, and wishing I had someone like you to talk with when I was younger. Great video! Edit: I just saw you also have videos for men! Perfect!
Assalamu Alaykum, I’d like to first say this video was exactly what young girls need! Parents almost to never educate us on these things, I really appreciated you making this video! I would also like to mention that I was taught it is forbidden to insert any form of plastic/metal item in the virginal canal. I cannot recall what sheikh mentioned this but thought it was important to mention.
Being told that it is okay to look at yourself down there, touch yourself and learn about your anatomy in general is so freeing. I did not realise how hesitant I was to think about these things, and the first time has actually worried me mainly because I’m told most Muslim men don’t consider foreplay or preparing their partners. May Allah reward you for this video and the work you do.
Not all Muslim men are the same. Before you get married, it's important to have a conversation with your potential spouse about this. Looking at yourself down there is a great first step to start becoming more in tune with your sexuality
Yes... Customer also does with whore... Bcoz they consider whore their property just to be used for sex... Same in islam.. Women are not more than baby producing machine used only for sex..
I am a very new Revert, 83 years old, and while I was not a Muslim growing up, it was not a time when girls were prepared for knowing their own bodies, let alone sex. I am so glad to know that my young sisters will have the benefit of the information you're providing and can look forward to fulfilling sex lives. I hope young Muslim men will also have such opportunities.
Late to your video but you got sister vibes all over ya. Great informative video and although I'm a guy, it's always a good thing to gain some perspective and information from a mature woman teaching other women important things I believe should be and is CRITICAL to know. May Allah bless you and your hubby for a long, real and successful marriage. Ameen
funny thing is that you say that women doesn't know where is their vagina, its lips.. any body can believe this? but men very well knew exactly where it is..
Thank you so much for the video. It is really helpful. I ashamed to touch myself under there and even look my own anatomy. I also thought hymen is kind of wall, not an elastic one. I really learn a lot from this video. May Allah blessed you.
Jazak allah sis, thank you soo much for giving such opning our eys and mind throuh your amazing vedioes i think women used to have pain around intercorse and some of them thinks that after child birth it my go away and some of them still having pain,, soo gratfull and thanks to allah that I've found the realistic informations befor geting marrige may allah grant you jannah,
Don't be nervous I'm a unmarried virgin boy and i think not all boy just want to achieve the body of her wife i think there are many of them want to achieve the heart & unconditional love of her wife in my openion creating emotional sentimantal bond with wife is more important then romance & s** these secondry things in my opinion i will surely follow it when I will get married so don't be nervous not all boys are same. Becz some boys are also emotional I know some are bad but not 🚫 all are same i can surely say there many boys who treat her wife in a respectful manner make her feel a queen 👑 😊
Thanks for your video, it's very educational. It has given me all the tips I need and cleared all the fears I have about this particular day,my wedding night.
Great video ! An eye opener ! Qualifies to be a gynaecologist as well ! All these info unheard and labelled taboo in previous generations ! Jazak Allah Kharain!
I find the comments disingenuous because it's mostly men making them. I'm not surprised at all that men are completely against the idea of women following this sisters advice because of how it might negatively impact them. Then they throw in "it's unislamic" which is also disingenuous since the vast majority of these men are engaged in haram relationships with non muslim women before they get married to their "virgin muslim wives". It's all laughable. Until someone provides actual sources for why this is not permissible, especially if it's not done for self pleasure, then I rest my case. These men have some audacity
Such an insightful video! Thanks so much for all your efforts to educate us on sex and related matters Amirah! I don't know how you do it but you discuss this in a manner that doesn't make it feel awkward at all. I love how you have these discussion in a calm, respectful and open manner. You say what needs to be said while at the same time ensuring your audience feels great about and empowered by the content. I definitely feel more empowered to have these discussions with my future spouse and my future kids In Shaa Allah. JazakAllah 🙂
Thank you! I love your comment so much! I really appreciate you taking the time to watch the video and leave a comment. I’m so glad you found it beneficial alhamdulillah ❤️
Thank you for sharing these advice very helpful and to the point often time the topic of sex has a stigma to it and people tend not to talk about am just nervous about everything
This sounds soo wrong, let people just do the normal way which humans have been doing for centuries. I would not be comfortable sticking anything up there, it doesn’t sound right both morally and islamically
I wish I knew this before I got married. I didn’t have sex on my wedding night and we had a rocky beginning of marriage. My husband didn’t know how to please me and we always kept brushing sex off. I have vaginismus. Almost a year in our marriage and we are having trouble. Please make dua for us 😢. Wish I knew of this information before
Vaginismus is curable. Pls see Gp and be referred to a sex councillor. I suffered from it and counseling cured it. I really advise u sis. Please dont waste time.
As salaamu alaikum warahmatullah dear sister love this video am so happy to have found something very important as I am planning to get married soon and am nervous about first time intimacy...thank you so so much for the information ❤️
Hi amirah, Can you tell us how FGM would affect this experience for girls who’ve had it done? Thank God I haven’t suffered anything to do with it and haven’t had it!!
Just a note, not to dismiss idea that one doesn't need to consummate the marriage on the wedding night, it is sunnah to consummate the marriage on the wedding night.
Great video even after 26 years of marriage..and i wasn't Virgin before marriage too i enjoyed my girl friends life before deciding to get serious/ marriage
After doing COVID test and getting something inserted in my nose and it’s painful I’m scared of getting married 😂 That little thin thing they swap your nose it pain imagine down there 🙈
dilators are not "toys." You're not a woman, so you would not understand how hard it us. Men don't feel any pain during sex, but there's a higher chance that women can feel pain for any sort of insertion
No it doesn’t. The hymen has nothing got to do with sexual activity. Some women don’t even have it. And it can break any time for whatever reason. It’s not related to virginity. You can never prove if someone is a virgin or not, it’s impossible lol
السلام عليڪم و رحمت الله و برڪاتہ ماشاءالله ادي توھان بھتر سمجھاھيو اھي الله سائين سدائين سندس فضل ڪرم احسان توھان مٿان وسائيندو رھي امين جزاڪم الله خير والسلام عليڪم و رحمت الله و برڪاتہ (Sindhi language)
I told my fiance about my past relationship, he agreed to marry me but on one condition that only if I bleed on my wedding night then only our relation is going to be continued otherwise not, I am virgin but really afraid that what would I do if i didn't bleed my life will be ruined please help me plssssssss
Are you kidding me ? Why would you marry such a boy like that ? He is not a man. I mean I cant believe you would even consider it after what he said. He’s literally threatening you. He doesn’t even have the right to ask if you’re a virgin or not let alone demand for you to bleed ? I mean it’s not even common for women to bleed. I feel so sorry for you. Leave him. You can do better. He’s not a man. He should be marrying you for you, not if you bleed or not. So if you don’t bleed then he gets to take your virginity AND LEAVE YOU ? Must be a joke wth
@@armish357yes you can, stand up for yourself and tell someone in your family what he said. Embarrass him, make it explicit. He should be ashamed. Have some respect for yourself. When he said that to you in the first place you should’ve stood up for yourself and said “and what if I don’t, do you even know how a woman’s body works ?, bleeding does not mean virginity. And you Islamically cannot ask a woman if she’s a virgin or not”
thanks jesus for your channel. I am so nervous for my wedding night in 21 days. I will get my period unfortunely on my wedding night. I google it it says its okey to have sex during your period but my question is : it is healthy to have first time for sex while having a period ? if not What do i do on the first night ?? I am so nervous. Btw I have never used tampon.
I'm glad you're finding my channel beneficial. I'm a Muslim and we believe that a woman shouldn't have penetrative sex when she's on her period. So it depends on the religion you follow (I assume you're Christian). You don't have to have sex straight away on your wedding night. I have another video on my channel called SEX WITHOUT PENETRATION and I recently released a video called FIRST TIME SEX FOR MEN (where I give tips to the man)
@@amirahzaky i am a girl not a man. In general speaking, having sex during the period would it cause infections? Is it okey if i dont do it on the first night?
It is healthy to have sex while you are having your period. It is up to you whether you want to do it or not since it can be messy and if your periods hurt, it might not feel good.
I had the worst experience having sex the first time. I cried nd cried nd my husband went on nd on whole night through. Next day i could not even walk. Wish i knew this. For me first month was dreadful. I also did not date at all so he was a stranger to me.
Women need patience in marriage life that's something is new and that need time to be get used to it. Being a best wife is the key to win Jannah. Having sex with your husband is important and it is his right you need to give him like he gives your rights.
I am so sorry that you went through this sister! This is not the sunnah of our prophet, the husband should try to understand his wife and be nice and soft not rough and / or forcing himself on her I hope that you are okay now
@@LouisaSB-nt1et i divorced him after 8 years Alhamdullilah then got married to a wonderful man that valued me and treated me like a queen. He passed away, may Allah grant him Jannahtul firdaus, Aameen
m v woried mam...i got married 1 month before...nd i hv not yet done intercourse becz of fear ...i did a lot try but i failed evrytim...kindly sugest me some medication ..counseling has not ended my fear ...plz help me ..plz
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I am an unmarried virgin, and penetrative sex is a big deal for me, because I don't want to let a man inside my body then 6 months later find out he is the wrong man for me. I think there should be a period of just dating, romancing and courtship after marriage and before sex, because Muslims are not allowed to date before marriage. Whether it's two months or six, just living with a person under the same roof, eating with them, arguing with them, travelling etc, will tell you more about your partner than you were able to know before marriage. And then after living with them for some time when you are 100% sure that this is the one, then go ahead and have sex. Or break up with mutual respect. What really boggles my mind is people fall in love, get married, have multiple children then years later decide they are with the wrong person.
Well, it makes u uncomfortable talking about this with your parents. It's weird. I'm 18 years old guy and I feel all nervous when my parents brings up this topic.
yeah and i feel like they should educated their sons and daughters about such an important thing, it's kinda sad people still think that this topic is taboo
Thanks for watching! What fears or worries do you have about your wedding night and first-time sex? Let me know below!
im worried that he doesnt like the way my vagina looks because its dark and hairy. even when i shave it looks and feels kind of rough. im also scared we're gonna have really bad sex
@@sarakhan1573 I completely understand. It's important to remember that Allah created your vagina and your vulva. Allah creates things beautifully therefore your vagina and vulva are beautiful. We need to value Allah's opinion of our vulva more highly than the opinion of a human. When you say you're scared that you're going to have really bad sex, what do you mean? Are you afraid it will hurt? Or are you afraid that you won't enjoy sex?
I think in general I'm not confident about my body (I have pcos), I'm worried my future husband might not find me attractive in bed and be grossed out.
Also, that I hear a lot of men are either clueless about women's health in general, or many are selfish and only think about their own pleasure and desires.
@@sakuraqueen1734 thank you for sharing this. I agree with you that men need to be better informed. We need to start with ourselves in accepting ourselves and loving our body first before we can expect someone else to accept us and love us. When you start to get to know a potential spouse, this is something you can talk about (your body and pcos)
Asalamu alaikum sister , before getting married, how can I ask him about his “size” appropriately ?
This popped on my feed and even though I’m a 53 year old grandmother married 30 years, I watched out of curiosity. I found myself so impressed, and wishing I had someone like you to talk with when I was younger. Great video!
Edit: I just saw you also have videos for men! Perfect!
Thank you! I really appreciate your kind comment ❤️❤️❤️
Assalamu Alaykum, I’d like to first say this video was exactly what young girls need! Parents almost to never educate us on these things, I really appreciated you making this video! I would also like to mention that I was taught it is forbidden to insert any form of plastic/metal item in the virginal canal. I cannot recall what sheikh mentioned this but thought it was important to mention.
@SharkAttack out of pocket
Really I agree with you !! @Sara
I appreciate ur work.....not to exaggerate things is the beauty of Islam
Being told that it is okay to look at yourself down there, touch yourself and learn about your anatomy in general is so freeing. I did not realise how hesitant I was to think about these things, and the first time has actually worried me mainly because I’m told most Muslim men don’t consider foreplay or preparing their partners. May Allah reward you for this video and the work you do.
Not all Muslim men are the same. Before you get married, it's important to have a conversation with your potential spouse about this. Looking at yourself down there is a great first step to start becoming more in tune with your sexuality
Masturbation is haram for both men and women
Yes... Customer also does with whore... Bcoz they consider whore their property just to be used for sex... Same in islam.. Women are not more than baby producing machine used only for sex..
@@mxxz3900 Not sure why you choose to say anything about masturbation at all in regards to this comment.
Really.? I don't believe we live in the same century
I wonder why I am watching this after 10 years of marriage 😅
Good luck virgins!
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
Pretend that you're a virgin and follow these tips. Just for novelty 😂
😂😂😂
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I am a very new Revert, 83 years old, and while I was not a Muslim growing up, it was not a time when girls were prepared for knowing their own bodies, let alone sex. I am so glad to know that my young sisters will have the benefit of the information you're providing and can look forward to fulfilling sex lives. I hope young Muslim men will also have such opportunities.
I love that you’re a new revert mashaAllah. May Allah bless your journey abundantly Ameen! Thank you for your kind comment! ❤❤❤
Very Glad to know that you’re reverted Muslim mashaAllah. May Almighty Allah bless you in this life and hereafter.
Can I know where are you from?
This is the content we need.
thank you!
Im virgin 23 yers old ..learn much here from ur advice tnx..from London
I need u
Good
Thanks a lot for sharing that, it is a great knowledge for me as man before getting married, as our wedding is two weeks from now.
You are doing a great service for muslim sisters. And brothers indirectly.
Late to your video but you got sister vibes all over ya. Great informative video and although I'm a guy, it's always a good thing to gain some perspective and information from a mature woman teaching other women important things I believe should be and is CRITICAL to know. May Allah bless you and your hubby for a long, real and successful marriage. Ameen
May Allah ﷻ reward you for sharing this information.
Maybe Muhammad didn't tell.
Especially discussing everything with my husband in advance will really help.
Well done sister! It's very important side to talk about it! How to start happy life together! So much love from Canada 🇨🇦
Respect! , for, your explanation for this crucial act of continuation of the life! High professionell und within a highs ethics!
Underrated channel, deserves more views :)
Thank you!
Honest girl ;) Not a shallow shitshow
I needed to really hear this. Thank you so much...very informative.
I'm so pleased! What parts of the video did you find informative?
funny thing is that you say that women doesn't know where is their vagina, its lips.. any body can believe this? but men very well knew exactly where it is..
@@kumark719 she's right. not all women know abt ths
Thank you so much for the video.
It is really helpful. I ashamed to touch myself under there and even look my own anatomy. I also thought hymen is kind of wall, not an elastic one.
I really learn a lot from this video. May Allah blessed you.
Ameen! Check out my free 90min training called Fearless Painless first-time sex here: www.amirahzaky.com/fearless-painless-first-time
Jazak allah sis, thank you soo much for giving such opning our eys and mind throuh your amazing vedioes i think women used to have pain around intercorse and some of them thinks that after child birth it my go away and some of them still having pain,, soo gratfull and thanks to allah that I've found the realistic informations befor geting marrige may allah grant you jannah,
Thank you
Thank you so much miss I am a teen and I know this time will come for me too that's why I cheeked out this video really I am quite nervous
You're welcome. I completely understand. What did you learn from this video?
Don't be nervous I'm a unmarried virgin boy and i think not all boy just want to achieve the body of her wife i think there are many of them want to achieve the heart & unconditional love of her wife in my openion creating emotional sentimantal bond with wife is more important then romance & s** these secondry things in my opinion i will surely follow it when I will get married so don't be nervous not all boys are same. Becz some boys are also emotional I know some are bad but not 🚫 all are same i can surely say there many boys who treat her wife in a respectful manner make her feel a queen 👑 😊
JazakaAllah sister for keeping us informed!
Wa iyaki dear sister
Nice information
Is it right?
My God 😮
Thank you for starting this channel, I love the advice 🙃
You're very welcome. Thank you for your kind comment. I'd love to know, what tips did you find helpful from my video?
I have gained much knowledge regarding first night intercourse. Stay blessed.
Thanks for your video, it's very educational.
It has given me all the tips I need and cleared all the fears I have about this particular day,my wedding night.
Great video ! An eye opener ! Qualifies to be a gynaecologist as well ! All these info unheard and labelled taboo in previous generations ! Jazak Allah Kharain!
Gonna get marry soon, 11 june.. Huhh glad watch this video
thanks for your video. Shame on all negative comments if there any. this sister is helping muslims.
I find the comments disingenuous because it's mostly men making them. I'm not surprised at all that men are completely against the idea of women following this sisters advice because of how it might negatively impact them. Then they throw in "it's unislamic" which is also disingenuous since the vast majority of these men are engaged in haram relationships with non muslim women before they get married to their "virgin muslim wives". It's all laughable. Until someone provides actual sources for why this is not permissible, especially if it's not done for self pleasure, then I rest my case. These men have some audacity
Such an insightful video! Thanks so much for all your efforts to educate us on sex and related matters Amirah! I don't know how you do it but you discuss this in a manner that doesn't make it feel awkward at all. I love how you have these discussion in a calm, respectful and open manner. You say what needs to be said while at the same time ensuring your audience feels great about and empowered by the content. I definitely feel more empowered to have these discussions with my future spouse and my future kids In Shaa Allah. JazakAllah 🙂
Thank you! I love your comment so much! I really appreciate you taking the time to watch the video and leave a comment. I’m so glad you found it beneficial alhamdulillah ❤️
Excellent video for unawares of young virgins. No shame ...congrats.!!
Great tips! Thanks for sharing.
Thank you so much! Really incredible videos mashaAllāh
You're very welcome sister! What did you learn from this video?
Thank you for sharing these advice very helpful and to the point often time the topic of sex has a stigma to it and people tend not to talk about am just nervous about everything
You're welcome, it's my pleasure. What did you learn from the video?
Great Lady, very well articulated!
100% correct very perfect and learning process ❤
This sounds soo wrong, let people just do the normal way which humans have been doing for centuries. I would not be comfortable sticking anything up there, it doesn’t sound right both morally and islamically
Thanks you for sharing this video ❤
I wish I knew this before I got married. I didn’t have sex on my wedding night and we had a rocky beginning of marriage. My husband didn’t know how to please me and we always kept brushing sex off. I have vaginismus. Almost a year in our marriage and we are having trouble. Please make dua for us 😢. Wish I knew of this information before
isnt vaginismus curable?
Vaginismus is curable. Pls see Gp and be referred to a sex councillor. I suffered from it and counseling cured it. I really advise u sis. Please dont waste time.
Go see a doctor!
As salaamu alaikum warahmatullah dear sister love this video am so happy to have found something very important as I am planning to get married soon and am nervous about first time intimacy...thank you so so much for the information ❤️
could u plz guide me with some tips..because even mine marriage is near
alhamdulillah!
Thanks you so much for your information ❤
Your video are completely different.. So nice
Very educational 👏
Super amazing! Thank you so much.
You're welcome!
Amazing video.
Thanks for sharing
Hi amirah,
Can you tell us how FGM would affect this experience for girls who’ve had it done?
Thank God I haven’t suffered anything to do with it and haven’t had it!!
Assalamu aalaikum, I really appreciate on your youtube channel, you are one of the best online Teaching get pleasure thanks
wa alaikum asalam, thank you
Just a note, not to dismiss idea that one doesn't need to consummate the marriage on the wedding night, it is sunnah to consummate the marriage on the wedding night.
Great video even after 26 years of marriage..and i wasn't Virgin before marriage too i enjoyed my girl friends life before deciding to get serious/ marriage
I feel anxious just watching the video
Hey, you are doing a great job. Keep making such videos. Also please talk about birth controls.
Why a muslim women asking for birth control it un Islamic for Muslim women. Children are blessings of Allah.
JazakaAllah sister
Wa iyaki sis
Hi Amirah beauty! 1st I love u! I ask you some thing dear Amirah! are you tested your first tested???
Love you sissy❤ thanks
Hope this one is meant for medics only ...more of anatomy such as hymen and Majora's and minoras
After doing COVID test and getting something inserted in my nose and it’s painful I’m scared of getting married 😂
That little thin thing they swap your nose it pain imagine down there 🙈
Unwanted imagination.
Nice lecture...
Am feeling nervous, don't know how it's going to feel
this is quite interesting kudos
Some idiots feel ashamed of talking about these necessarily things but don't feel ashamed of having outside marriage relationship..
Thank you for sharing
You're welcome, thank you for watching. What did you find helpful in the video?
Good video
Wonderful
Thank you
Your words correct👌
alhamdulillah
Salam sis, Ik this is a weird qs, but what did you wear?
Don't try any toys.. It will only destroy your marriage life. You will regret later
no sex due to vaginismus can do the same.
Really??
Bro plz reply me help
dilators are not "toys." You're not a woman, so you would not understand how hard it us. Men don't feel any pain during sex, but there's a higher chance that women can feel pain for any sort of insertion
What about men?
Where did you get your dilators sister x
Hope and her
Are you from Malaysia sister ?
Lotus flower poses , 👍 let she sit and do the works. 😊 She won't hurt. For real.
I don’t know how anyone can be comfortable with getting completely naked in the dark with someone they might not even know for long enough
Which position is the best
I wish I would have seen this long b4 17 years
5:30 umm it does in most cases
No it doesn’t. The hymen has nothing got to do with sexual activity. Some women don’t even have it. And it can break any time for whatever reason. It’s not related to virginity. You can never prove if someone is a virgin or not, it’s impossible lol
Just want to say thanks
my pleasure!
My biggest fear
How am i am going to know if my wife knows this all,
And how will i tell her
Im shy
And what would she think of me
😣
❤Amira❤best information i like.very handsome look smart and beautjful.j love you.thanks❤👌🏻💋👍🙏
السلام عليڪم و رحمت الله و برڪاتہ ماشاءالله ادي توھان بھتر سمجھاھيو اھي الله سائين سدائين سندس فضل ڪرم احسان توھان مٿان وسائيندو رھي امين جزاڪم الله خير والسلام عليڪم و رحمت الله و برڪاتہ
(Sindhi language)
You didn't mention any hadith or aayah
In this era, most of people dont do first time
I told my fiance about my past relationship, he agreed to marry me but on one condition that only if I bleed on my wedding night then only our relation is going to be continued otherwise not, I am virgin but really afraid that what would I do if i didn't bleed my life will be ruined please help me plssssssss
Are you kidding me ? Why would you marry such a boy like that ? He is not a man. I mean I cant believe you would even consider it after what he said. He’s literally threatening you. He doesn’t even have the right to ask if you’re a virgin or not let alone demand for you to bleed ? I mean it’s not even common for women to bleed. I feel so sorry for you. Leave him. You can do better. He’s not a man. He should be marrying you for you, not if you bleed or not. So if you don’t bleed then he gets to take your virginity AND LEAVE YOU ? Must be a joke wth
@@S-ds1br Dates are fixed, It's my family's decision I can't do anything !!
@@armish357yes you can, stand up for yourself and tell someone in your family what he said. Embarrass him, make it explicit. He should be ashamed. Have some respect for yourself. When he said that to you in the first place you should’ve stood up for yourself and said “and what if I don’t, do you even know how a woman’s body works ?, bleeding does not mean virginity. And you Islamically cannot ask a woman if she’s a virgin or not”
Say no
Achi malumat de di bahan ne.
Thanks
thanks jesus for your channel. I am so nervous for my wedding night in 21 days. I will get my period unfortunely on my wedding night. I google it it says its okey to have sex during your period but my question is : it is healthy to have first time for sex while having a period ? if not What do i do on the first night ?? I am so nervous. Btw I have never used tampon.
I'm glad you're finding my channel beneficial. I'm a Muslim and we believe that a woman shouldn't have penetrative sex when she's on her period. So it depends on the religion you follow (I assume you're Christian). You don't have to have sex straight away on your wedding night. I have another video on my channel called SEX WITHOUT PENETRATION and I recently released a video called FIRST TIME SEX FOR MEN (where I give tips to the man)
@@amirahzaky i am a girl not a man. In general speaking, having sex during the period would it cause infections? Is it okey if i dont do it on the first night?
@@mothernature5237 absolutely, you don't have to have sex on the wedding night.
It is healthy to have sex while you are having your period. It is up to you whether you want to do it or not since it can be messy and if your periods hurt, it might not feel good.
Nice video
I feel awkward watching the entire video 🤣
In this period, every body tries to preech to people whether she or he has knowledge about islam or not
Just try to get to earn money
Jazaka Allahu khairan
Wa iyaki dear sister
Hello sister, one question, isn't condom haram in Islam?
Off topic but you kinda sound like Kate Middleton
I had the worst experience having sex the first time. I cried nd cried nd my husband went on nd on whole night through. Next day i could not even walk. Wish i knew this. For me first month was dreadful. I also did not date at all so he was a stranger to me.
Women need patience in marriage life that's something is new and that need time to be get used to it. Being a best wife is the key to win Jannah. Having sex with your husband is important and it is his right you need to give him like he gives your rights.
I am so sorry that you went through this sister! This is not the sunnah of our prophet, the husband should try to understand his wife and be nice and soft not rough and / or forcing himself on her
I hope that you are okay now
@@LouisaSB-nt1et i divorced him after 8 years Alhamdullilah then got married to a wonderful man that valued me and treated me like a queen. He passed away, may Allah grant him Jannahtul firdaus, Aameen
@@fazeelabhyat8845 ElhamduliLAh that Allah gave you someone that treated your heart kindly. May Allah give him jannatul firdaws الله يرحمه🤲🏼🤲🏼
@@LouisaSB-nt1et But women never ever think that from husband's perspective.
m v woried mam...i got married 1 month before...nd i hv not yet done intercourse becz of fear ...i did a lot try but i failed evrytim...kindly sugest me some medication ..counseling has not ended my fear ...plz help me ..plz
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I am an unmarried virgin, and penetrative sex is a big deal for me, because I don't want to let a man inside my body then 6 months later find out he is the wrong man for me. I think there should be a period of just dating, romancing and courtship after marriage and before sex, because Muslims are not allowed to date before marriage. Whether it's two months or six, just living with a person under the same roof, eating with them, arguing with them, travelling etc, will tell you more about your partner than you were able to know before marriage. And then after living with them for some time when you are 100% sure that this is the one, then go ahead and have sex. Or break up with mutual respect. What really boggles my mind is people fall in love, get married, have multiple children then years later decide they are with the wrong person.
Im 27 and im still a Virgin im so scared to do it
Asslm
Want to ask something
Its just annyoing that muslim parents aint talking to their kids about it.0
Well, it makes u uncomfortable talking about this with your parents. It's weird. I'm 18 years old guy and I feel all nervous when my parents brings up this topic.
yeah and i feel like they should educated their sons and daughters about such an important thing, it's kinda sad people still think that this topic is taboo
Not only Muslim parents
thank u so much
You're welcome, what did you learn from this video?
Even Muslims stated to have this conversation when Allah has clearly said these things should be kept private unbelievable toba seri😂😂😂😂
Kindly start studying islam from screech
@@Faizan-al-Islam-bin-Furqan jeee I have😉
Education is not haram, disclosing your own intimate relations are.
@S-ds1br wats left 🤣might aswell 🤔 tell us the rest too🙄
@@Suefeena how do you think your parents made you😂😂
I’m 33 and I’m doing it with my stepsister
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What is foreplay
This is very late but for anyone else wondering, sexual intimacy before penetration. Eg, kissing, cuddling, licking etc. to get into the mood
Don’t display yourself as it can cause harm such as evil eye and we aren’t supposed to in general.
Wt to do if sex is painful??