Vegan Love: A Romantic Comedy Short Film about Vegan Dating

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  • @frankmanti9770
    @frankmanti9770 10 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    My gf wasn't vegan when I met her. The key is finding somebody that's empathetic compassionate and open minded. :) everything eventually falls into place if you find the right person.

    • @MrGlitterintheair
      @MrGlitterintheair 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree totally. thank you :)

    •  6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So cute! Also my boyfriend wasn’t vegan when I met him. But he decided to try to be a vegetarian for me and that day we decided to be together. After 1 month he decided to be vegetarian for real hahaha one month later he was vegetarian just at work and vegan at home and 1 month later he became totally vegan after watching earthlings 😂

    • @sarahrdm9917
      @sarahrdm9917 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly! my boyfriend wasn’t vegan at the beginning either but he is a good person and he has a very kind heart so i knew he would go vegan

    • @Yourlovelyfriend23
      @Yourlovelyfriend23 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes!! Then another vegan is born!

  • @kailuabear
    @kailuabear 10 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I loved every delicious moment of this joyously hope filled movie. I have been Vegan for 3 years now, and have experienced everything Alex went through, although I have yet to find that someone special. Being Vegan is the best thing I ever did in my entire life. If I never find that someone special, it is OK. Vegan for life.

    • @MrGlitterintheair
      @MrGlitterintheair 9 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I totally agree. Going 3 ears strong too over here. Very very cool. We are in this for animals. We Vegans should all be united :) I have so much love and respect for all my Vegan people!!!

    • @Rosie-wl7tr
      @Rosie-wl7tr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes!! Almost 2 years, I am 13 and won’t have a partner if they aren’t vegan:)

  • @OrganicNyan
    @OrganicNyan 9 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Sounds weird but I appreciated that the protagonist was male. As a straight, female vegan (and previous veggie) it's often hard to find non-carnivorous males (in general), so finding a male romantic partner with exactly the same dietry views is quite demanding. It was interesting to see it the other way around :)

    • @Rosie-wl7tr
      @Rosie-wl7tr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s so true!

  • @6isbismuth
    @6isbismuth 10 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I feel his pain, finding a vegan partner is such an effort

    • @lioncub2621
      @lioncub2621 10 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      not if you ditch everybody you know and start making life, your life.

    • @sandraritah9525
      @sandraritah9525 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lioncub i dont understand

  • @cathyc6375
    @cathyc6375 10 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I really enjoyed this short film. It was witty and humorous. Hope to see more Vegan films like this.

  • @amirak9248
    @amirak9248 9 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Aw, I really thought he was going to end up with the Russian. I'd rather be with a vegan myself, but if I don't end up with one, I think I'll be okay. Hopefully, he will respect my choices and maybe even try veganism himself, but of course on his own terms.

    • @talksolot
      @talksolot 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Amira K She was way out of his league.

    • @Youtube_user_nhvrxdhn
      @Youtube_user_nhvrxdhn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I just red your comment from 4years ago and i wonder if you could find a vegan or non vegan partner?

  • @MrGlitterintheair
    @MrGlitterintheair 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That's freaking adorable!!!! Any liquid beverage!!!! hahaha, he is Vegan, looks really handsome and cool. I would have totally wanted to get to know him or would have wanted to hang out with this guy

  • @Xilosphere
    @Xilosphere 9 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I often drink liquid beverages because I like fluids.

    • @7kudos
      @7kudos 9 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Novakira Sato Just got a number with that. Used it as a pick up line... xD tty

    • @BirgerLofmanOfficial
      @BirgerLofmanOfficial 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great line! lol :-D

  • @Bayo106
    @Bayo106 9 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    lol thats how i felt when i went to that gallery. haha

  • @Jericho1706
    @Jericho1706 9 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I don't think I could ever settle up with a non-vegan or at least a vegetarian. The chick with the black hair was the worst example of vegan there is - a "trendy" vegan.

    • @keringordon3832
      @keringordon3832 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +Black Snow I meet guys and they say I just eat chicken so I should be okay with it....I feel like saying...I used to be a man but I have a vj now...you should be okay with that...OR..I didnt get convicted of murder so that should be okay with you.

    • @Sinikkastudio
      @Sinikkastudio 9 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      +Black Snow No no no. MY future husband needs to be vegan. No question about that!

    • @Coffee-Comrade
      @Coffee-Comrade 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Black Snow No way, an apologist is way worse than a trender.

    • @YourMajesty143
      @YourMajesty143 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Kerin Gordon LMAO ahhhhh that made my day :D

    • @veganariel541
      @veganariel541 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      to be honest i would prefer an omi to a veggie. i really do not want to hear baby chicks at not killed in the egg industry for the rest of my life at least omis are honest about why they eat animal products.

  • @joevegankc3086
    @joevegankc3086 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so painfully true.

  • @arthideiva1313
    @arthideiva1313 9 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Love liquid beverages. Hilarious!

  • @veganwriter9021
    @veganwriter9021 10 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I really liked this, funny and true to life in a lot of ways!

  • @Smiles5s5s
    @Smiles5s5s 10 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    so the girl sees herself as having a role that revolves around the main character - a guy? So even if she cast herself in a movie, she'd be a sidekick whose only purpose is to be there for someone else.. that's great. I myself love imagining my life being all about someone else and having no aspirations of my own, so I can totally relate
    The end was pretty sad. What does "what's in his heart, not in his head" even mean? I assume heart = feelings and head = thoughts (which doesn't really make sense bc all feelings come from your brain, but whatever, let's go with that). And then we see the Alex getting her number even though she isn't vegan, so it looks like the movie approves of her / what she said. But why?
    Why should you go with what you feel over what you think? It's not like if you go with "what's in your head" it can't make you happy. It's not like feelings and logic are separate. I'd argue that if more people "went with what's in their head" instead of "what's in their heart" we'd have a lot less bullshit going on in the world because ppl would be basing their beliefs / actions on reasons and not feelings. (more ppl might even be vegan bc they won't have the excuse of "i pay to kill animals because eating their flesh FEELS good"). If the message of the movie is to go with what you feel instead of what you think, it kind of ruins the whole movie for me. Esp since this deals with veganism and the most frequently used argument is pretty much "idc about animals, it FEELS good to ME and what I feel is all that matters". I guess I just expected a movie about a vegan character to have a better message than "just follow your heart man, look at how cute this girl is! She laughed! That's so adorable ^_^ ... remember how you wanted to find someone who shares your morals? Fuck that, cute face > morals. yolo"
    Only part of the movie I liked: that voicemail he left the Russian girl. That was super cute!

    • @Spoonwood
      @Spoonwood 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "And then we see the Alex getting her number even though she isn't vegan, so it looks like the movie approves of her / what she said. But why?"
      She's the waitress. She serves him food while he pays her money. She can satisfy his dietary needs, while he can pay her.
      " Why should you go with what you feel over what you think?"
      In context, do you think it's appropriate to ask someone else for their number when she's busy has other customers orders to fulfill or other work duties, or would you need to feel like you didn't care about any of that in order to ask a food server out?

  • @greenpeach20
    @greenpeach20 10 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Vegan Love? No, that's crap, we'll think of something else. VEGAN LOVE. had me in stiches

  • @sineaddoyle9117
    @sineaddoyle9117 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love it! I find it difficult to find movies etc that make me laugh! Loved every minute! Fantastic acting too 😊 Congratulations on making such a great film 💚 I'm a mostly Raw Vegan one whole year now woo hoo 😊😊

  • @mydogchild8640
    @mydogchild8640 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's pretty funny, I really enjoyed.
    Thank you, I'll be looking forward more films on the liquids subject

  • @princefancybum4605
    @princefancybum4605 8 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Vegan pick up line:
    You: Me and you would be soya good together
    Them: -throws up-
    You: you could've let me down more lentily.
    Them: -throws up some more-
    You: I sorry for being so quorny
    Done.

  • @danathevegan2926
    @danathevegan2926 10 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I laughed so hard after he said "liquid beverage" omg lol

  • @paulaslife3781
    @paulaslife3781 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My heart says I'm being called to be a vegan activist. That's my burning passion right now. So I must follow that road. Hopefully I will meet people throughout my journey that will again touch my heart and soul. One door closes another door opens. Guys you can be a vegan activist even one day a week ☝️

  • @socraticproblem86
    @socraticproblem86 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was touched in the end.

    • @schizoagnostic4577
      @schizoagnostic4577 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      idk where did someone touch you, but you should defo report that to your nearest police station!

  • @DioniteGaming
    @DioniteGaming 10 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Good work! Can't wait to see the next one =)

  • @MirekSasek
    @MirekSasek 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That music is brilliant, natural acting. Nice one.

  • @VgirlFilms
    @VgirlFilms 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That was cool :) I smiled the whole time, giggled lots and even cacked a bit...make more make more :D

  • @BirgerLofmanOfficial
    @BirgerLofmanOfficial 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Very good, and amusing! I never knew there were dating sites for vegans... Maybe I should try it. Anyone know a good one? Pls let me know folks! I live in Gothenburg, Sweden but go on short tours in Norway frequently ( I´m a musician) and love to travel in England and Europe, so it doesn´t have to be a site with Swedish girls only.

  • @annainglese2373
    @annainglese2373 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So cute... I've met my vegan prince, but now we're not together anymore...this made me forget my pain and smile. Great film!

  • @philipkubisz5751
    @philipkubisz5751 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very well done, I dig this style and message!

  • @teasquare
    @teasquare 10 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Does anyone have any experience with finding a vegan partner? Any tips?

    • @sandimitanichta6454
      @sandimitanichta6454 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Go to vegan events... or vegan websites... what could go wrong? (according to the film) ;)
      No, maybe don't find, let yourself be found :)

  • @vgnfab
    @vgnfab 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for that :-) I dated only vegans for many years and am now marrying a girl that's been vegan since the day we got together.

  • @Apollo440
    @Apollo440 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for the film. It deserves a full 1.5 hour version!

  • @Xilosphere
    @Xilosphere 9 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Every guy types the impulsive insult when girls talk about new guys… Then it gets deleted and replaced with passive aggressiveness. lol

    • @7kudos
      @7kudos 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Novakira Sato That's why Julian Blanc is the awesome with dating advice, self esteem, control, wisdom, and emotions.
      By the way I love your logo!

  • @AlexPtl8
    @AlexPtl8 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I reallyy liked it! It was well made! good job !

  • @kscoffman3256
    @kscoffman3256 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Very funny, witty short film. Loved the acting. But the ending? Damnit. Huge disappointment. I could never, ever, ever, ever be with someone who had no regard for sentient life. Respect all. It's that way or no way, mofos.

    • @option-sh9yd
      @option-sh9yd 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Something sentient does not get its value from that. Many humans or rare cases have been born without the ability to feel any pain and that in no way does it diminish their instrincis worth. Pain is not recipe for value in life its has a purpose to let a girl know who is born without pain to get her hand of the stove because she cant feel it.

  • @LizMariesFashion
    @LizMariesFashion 9 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    hahah would you like a liquid beverage or some solid food

  • @ilikecake48
    @ilikecake48 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I found this really touching :)

  • @karmicherbalist8386
    @karmicherbalist8386 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Become a vegan activist and ye shall find a love :D

  • @SparklingGems
    @SparklingGems 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent film!!!

  • @ekaterinamadjarova794
    @ekaterinamadjarova794 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great work! I just had a fruitsalat watching your shortfilm.

  • @RxxxQueen
    @RxxxQueen 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Pffftt I'm still going to look to only date vegans when I'm ready to date again ;)

  • @NoEggCraig
    @NoEggCraig 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I really liked this! It was well put together and well acted, well done!

  • @laryrumiantzeff
    @laryrumiantzeff 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow. I remember watching this film when it had just come out, in a conference about veganism, in Rio.

  • @misslesliepink
    @misslesliepink 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Vegan single here! :) Greetings from Yogyakarta, Indonesia. I'm a new subbie, VeganFilmMaker^^

  • @tammieupton7253
    @tammieupton7253 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really liked this, though I was sad it was over so soon. More nice films please but in the future a little longer ...give us someting to savour

  • @MrGlitterintheair
    @MrGlitterintheair 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What the hell?!!!! Chickpeas are from a chicken!!!! lol Oh GOD!

  • @samanthamichelle2094
    @samanthamichelle2094 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Super cute film ^____^

  • @papaloca345
    @papaloca345 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Cool movie, man!

  • @angelinlove
    @angelinlove 11 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    well done, is hard to find a vegan bf that match :/

  • @sherolanglin363
    @sherolanglin363 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That was so funny!!

  • @darkshadows5335
    @darkshadows5335 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is awesome.

  • @MrGlitterintheair
    @MrGlitterintheair 9 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The ending was messed up. Did not like it cause he couldn't find any Vegans, he went with her. I don't know. He was rushing, maybe he needed to be more patient. but the whole video was pretty nice.

  • @kerryfirehorse
    @kerryfirehorse 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great film but I would definitely go with my head regarding a vegan partner. Imagine kissing someone who just ate a bacon sarnie???

  • @galvestonvegan405
    @galvestonvegan405 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Enjoyed your film! Great job

  • @coconutsugar3175
    @coconutsugar3175 10 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    this is so cute

  • @Hellothere-go3ty
    @Hellothere-go3ty 10 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    lol the story of my life!

  • @notarein
    @notarein 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is a casual film on vegan dating, it doesn’t really have any facts and is just for fun. That is a bit unusual for vegan media and we should have more of it haha. I think the film makes a bit of a lax stance on veganism though when the audience for this would have to be vegans anyway. I am not sure I like the main message and I can’t make much out of it. It is a pretty short film and not much happens so it’s hard to comment, it definitely feels like skit rather than something that could realistically help you. It has a bit of a relatable side with how openly silly the characters are and you can easily see their flaws.

  • @HealthyGroceryGirl
    @HealthyGroceryGirl 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video was so awesome! So funny and well made!

  • @HUAHUATO
    @HUAHUATO 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Is this a real documentary or a short film? They look like they are acting, I mean it captures emotion too perfectly to be just a documentary

  • @ninjanerdstudent6937
    @ninjanerdstudent6937 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    At 12:00 , it just dawned on me that the guy holding the camera was his best friend. At the beginning, I thought that guy was his dad. He looks too old to be a best friend. This is a weird film. Why am I watching this?

  • @Beek4L
    @Beek4L 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    story of my life

  • @VanAlh
    @VanAlh 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Go vegan!! 💗💗

  • @makeapennycry
    @makeapennycry 10 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    really cute!

  • @TheSUPERHAPPY1
    @TheSUPERHAPPY1 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Anymore videos going to be added to this channel? :)

  • @gyrate4
    @gyrate4 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brilliant!

  • @birminghamabigail6891
    @birminghamabigail6891 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was into several vegans but they never wanted a relationship with me.

  • @Karmeet23
    @Karmeet23 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That was awesome :D i wish he hooked up with the russian though :(

  • @leehellam9719
    @leehellam9719 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Who's the chap playing Alex and is he in anything else?

  • @amandasroad9887
    @amandasroad9887 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi, I loved your short film. Could I use 10 minutes of it for the final project of my audiovisual translation master? I will be translating it into Spanish, dub it, put subtitles and also for blind and deaf people.

  • @CitrianSnailBY
    @CitrianSnailBY 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Neat.
    Although I sure prefer finding someone who is already Vegan, if she isn't yet but willing to consider it, it may be fine, too.

  • @oceanluv88
    @oceanluv88 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    this was great!

  • @iwonka
    @iwonka 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent :)

  • @joyfulvegan
    @joyfulvegan 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love it. :) :)

  • @kingfarang6814
    @kingfarang6814 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why is the filmmaker's audio sound professional, but the dude at the laptop sounds like he was recorded with a cellphone?

  • @monkeyyd
    @monkeyyd 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I mean yeah it would be much easier if my boyfriend was vegan too but I love him. I think it's stupid to intentionally search for a vegan partner. Love is love, and isn't it good to show nonvegans whats really going on?

    • @sandimitanichta6454
      @sandimitanichta6454 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, vegans should only date non-vegans to make a change. Though it sounds missionary, it's kinda right :)

    • @singdancing8
      @singdancing8 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Each one teach one!

  • @clauderoy6300
    @clauderoy6300 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Could Some one explain what was the moral of this movie. I speak french mainly and I'm not sure that I got it at the end. Is it that the girl lied the first time and she's vegan or is it that he like says "forget it, I'm gonna get a girlfriend even if she's not vegan". Could some one help please :P Thank you !

    • @KanezaMac
      @KanezaMac 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      She's not vegan.

    • @carlosmspk
      @carlosmspk 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      the message isn't "forget it, I'm gonna get a girlfriend even if she's not vegan" it is "Vegan or not, love is what matters" this put in a cliché way...

  • @likemoon83
    @likemoon83 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    10:49 :))) awesome

  • @bonbonchich79
    @bonbonchich79 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    wtf. where is that vegan girl from the begining? :P
    still...nice short flick!

  • @jackson08ny
    @jackson08ny 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hilarious!

  • @pupolozano
    @pupolozano 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Meh wasnt bad... ... when the next episode PLEASE :))))

  • @voyance4elle
    @voyance4elle 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    nice one :)

  • @SKazclaw
    @SKazclaw 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    that was nice

  • @GioiaFede
    @GioiaFede 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice

  • @zenah3524
    @zenah3524 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    hilarious xD and the Russian chick was never going to happen lol, dream on xD

  • @schizoagnostic4577
    @schizoagnostic4577 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    20 yrs old and vegan, and i've still haven't got any *vegan girlfriend ! thats depressing !

    • @gabrielasoria2515
      @gabrielasoria2515 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Similar situation

    • @schizoagnostic4577
      @schizoagnostic4577 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gabriela Soria so, you looking for a veggy girlfriend too? :D if only you were looking for a boyfriend, though .that would be much better for my purpose! :/

    • @gabrielasoria2515
      @gabrielasoria2515 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahaha, I wasn't talking of the gender but of the situation :) can you even believe that I don't have veggie friends?

    • @schizoagnostic4577
      @schizoagnostic4577 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      where are you from? Spain? oh yeah, i can surely believe you then, if your folks like their meatballs in their spagetti bolognaise too much, to be vegans. have you been vegan all your life? we should probably get to know each other in this case..

  • @viedmaedi
    @viedmaedi 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Why didn't he find a vagan girlfriend? THIS MOVIE SUCKS

    • @franciababies
      @franciababies 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      maybe hanging around with him, she'll start to see why veg is best :)

  • @donkeytime4263
    @donkeytime4263 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Haha channel 4 with Cathy newmen?

  • @SallyAnn191
    @SallyAnn191 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Vegan love it.

  • @gjul221
    @gjul221 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    For my fellow vegans, please check out the new short I just wrote and acted in: FunnyOrDie.com/m/a3tn

  • @sampurnadas3810
    @sampurnadas3810 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    What pen.we have mobiles nowadays.lol

  • @KnittedColor
    @KnittedColor 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    There's vegan dating sites?? Oh snap.

  • @Tuirapanui
    @Tuirapanui 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    SO ANNOYING AND DULL!!! And that's because I'm a vegan...Why does he have to be so DULL?!?

  • @bee2453
    @bee2453 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    opposites dont attract thats a lie

  • @nagevaaa8199
    @nagevaaa8199 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    hahaha lol!

  • @BornLyppi
    @BornLyppi 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He didn't wash his hands properly. No soap!!! 😳

  • @Plumbermark
    @Plumbermark 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'll be his girlfriend mmmmm

  • @shahilagh
    @shahilagh 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    too much of saying the word 'vegan' can produce resistance.

    • @marcusaurelius5837
      @marcusaurelius5837 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ***** vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan vegan
      Bring it on!

  • @Sarchasm66
    @Sarchasm66 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Crap! A true vegan will never seriously date a non-vegan.

  • @adriannathegreat9890
    @adriannathegreat9890 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    How stupid is it that we will not date someone based on their diet? I've been vegan for 7 years and my boyfriend, whom I've dated for 4 years is not. He's healthy and that's all I'm concerned about. Some ppl just need to get over themselves.

    • @option-sh9yd
      @option-sh9yd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think its harder to start a relationship with someone with different interest than to be in a relationship already and have to deal with changes with ones partner through time because your already in the boat. Maybe your right, some people are just to focused on their beliefs