For our sins we deserve eternity in hell, but God loves us so much he came as Jesus to pay the price of our sins through living a perfect life for us, his death and his resurrection so we can be forgiven and receive eternal life if we follow and obey him in faith FOR LIFE , Jesus loves u and desires to have a personal relationship with you of love, peace, redemption and obedience ✝️ May Jesus bless you, repent of your sins and turn to Christ before it's too late 🙏🏿❤️😊
@@aalvarez2914 For our sins we deserve eternity in hell, but God loves us so much he came as Jesus to pay the price of our sins through living a perfect life for us, his death and his resurrection so we can be forgiven and receive eternal life if we follow and obey him in faith FOR LIFE , Jesus loves u and desires to have a personal relationship with you of love, peace, redemption and obedience ✝️ May Jesus bless you, repent of your sins and turn to Christ before it's too late 🙏🏿❤️
For our sins we deserve eternity in hell, but God loves us so much he came as Jesus to pay the price of our sins through living a perfect life for us, his death and his resurrection so we can be forgiven and receive eternal life if we follow and obey him in faith FOR LIFE , Jesus loves u and desires to have a personal relationship with you of love, peace, redemption and obedience ✝️ May Jesus bless you, repent of your sins and turn to Christ before it's too late 🙏🏿❤️😊😊
@@iamsherlocked7448 Depends on the type of "personality disorder". For example, the cluster B personality disorders all entail abuse (in reality, they are risk factors because abuse is always a choice, even for people more prone to it) and in includes narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). This personality disorder in particular is about the "damaged sense of self" from early childhood, aka extreme insecurity to the point that the person invents a persona that is better than anyone or has special rights or privileges. He seems to have one of the cluster B disorders, who knows which one. I'm not a doctor, I just read a lot about it.
The way he talked to her in those clips looks like he might be a carbon copy of his father. It seems like he‘s mirroring the behavior he saw at home as a kid and now he’s letting all that anger out on her. Don’t know them personally, obviously, yet it seems too automatic of a reaction. He has to have seen it at home. The typical “Oi Jane, you gettin on mi nerves, oim gonna bash your head through the wall yea cont!“
Abuse is consistent. People don’t change. In relationships/friendships your time, love, care and support for an abusive person won’t change them. Cut your losses, and please move on.
I want to emphasize that I do not condone his abusive behavior in any way My intent is to highlight the importance of addressing mental health issues alongside holding him accountable. With Alex, it's really does seem that he doesn't enjoy his abusive behaviours based on his breakdowns, crying, and constantly explaining how he knows it's wrong. From my experience, abusers in typical abuse cycles often give surface apologies without deeply explaining how and why they know what they did was wrong. Alex's apologies seem different; he's shown genuine remorse and awareness, indicating he's in need of help. Alex has had breakdowns on live streams for years, which clearly shows he's struggling. I believe it's important to address both the behavior and the underlying issues. This doesn't mean he shouldn't face consequences, but it does mean he needs support to get better. He talked about feeling unable to control his emotions, going from one extreme to another, and then feeling guilty. To me, that indicates a deeper struggle rather than just surface level apology’s. My concern is that his frequent breakdowns and expressions of guilt might indicate underlying issues that need addressing to prevent further abusive behavior. Recognising and treating these underlying issues can lead to a more clear and stable apology from Alex. When someone who has caused harm becomes mentally stable and genuinely/clearly apologizes, it can help those affected by their actions feel heard and validated, potentially providing a sense of closure and helping them heal from their experiences. You seem to think that the only way to achieve justice for the people hurt by Alex's unstable and abusive behaviors is by him rotting and being seen as evil. Factually, this is a narrow view of justice. True justice involves not only holding individuals accountable for their actions but also addressing the root causes of their behavior to prevent future harm. Morally, reducing someone to an evil entity ignores the complexity of human behavior and mental health. It's important to recognise that people can be both perpetrators and victims of their own struggles. Justice should encompass accountability, rehabilitation, and the prevention of future abuse. Based on his private voice notes, where he expressed feeling overwhelmed and unable to control his emotions, and his video 'Losing Family' on TH-cam, it's clear he is struggling and needs support. Recognising this isn't about excusing harmful behavior but understanding that he isn't evil and he needs mental help to prevent future harm. I do not agree with the people cyber bullying him, I am not talking about people condemning his actions; I am talking about people leaking his personal phone number, spamming him with threats, and mocking his voice, appearance, and mannerisms. You may argue that he ‘deserves this,’ but I don’t believe two wrongs make a right. A mentally well person does not have hysterical breakdowns on live streams for years. If you argue that he isn’t mentally ill, then explain his consistent public emotional breakdowns. Having frequent public breakdowns is not something that a calculated narcissistic abuser would do either. Research shows that narcissistic abusers typically maintain a facade of control and confidence in public. Pointing out that Alex shows high traits of BPD is not enabling his abuse; it’s identifying a possible cause that needs to be addressed to prevent future harm. He should have received help years ago, and it’s infuriating that he didn’t. So basically what you’re saying is that you will only be happy if everyone thinks that Alex is ‘evil’ and ‘enjoys’ abusing people? Rather than being in reality and seeing that he’s mentally unwell and has high traits of BPD, which by the way, addressing the fact that he exhibits high traits of being mentally unwell can actually help to prevent future harm. Rather than just bullying him to the point that he could quite literally kill himself.. and I don’t think that would bring much comfort or clarity to anyone involved. It seems unfair to ignore his mental health struggles and to act as if he gets a kick out of having abusive traits, especially when he has publicly admitted otherwise while crying on live streams. Ignoring these issues does not contribute to a comprehensive solution and only perpetuates the cycle of harm. You may criticise me for saying that it’s wrong for people to cyber bully Alex, who is evidently mentally unwell, There's a spectrum to bullying, and bullying someone who is already struggling with mental health issues falls within that spectrum. Arguing that he deserves to be bullied/hurt further because he hurt others perpetuates a cycle of harm and does not lead to constructive solutions. Alex's behavior seemed to stem from his mental health struggles rather than calculated malice or enjoyment. If you can't understand what I meant by that, then this conversation is unproductive. For example, his frequent emotional breakdowns on live streams and expressions of self-hatred indicate a person in distress rather than someone who takes pleasure in their abusive actions. Even if Alex has a mental illness (or multiple), this does not make his behavior okay or excusable. Mental illness can explain why someone behaves a certain way, but it does not absolve them of responsibility. For instance, people with mental health disorders may experience intense emotional swings and have difficulties in relationships, but they are still accountable for their actions and must seek treatment to manage their symptoms. The National Institute of Mental Health states that with proper treatment, individuals with mental health disorders can lead stable and fulfilling lives. Recognising his mental health struggles is about understanding the root cause and ensuring he gets the help he needs to prevent further harm, not about excusing his abusive behavior. I have stated all of my points clearly. If you still believe all the points you have already made, then I don't see the point of going around in circles. It seems we have fundamentally different views on how to address this situation, and further discussion may not be productive.
its the power trip, hes a little scrawny boy and the moment he gets power over another person or thing he abuses them because he knows they cant do anything back. absoloutly horrible
I want to emphasize that I do not condone his abusive behavior in any way My intent is to highlight the importance of addressing mental health issues alongside holding him accountable. With Alex, it's really does seem that he doesn't enjoy his abusive behaviours based on his breakdowns, crying, and constantly explaining how he knows it's wrong. From my experience, abusers in typical abuse cycles often give surface apologies without deeply explaining how and why they know what they did was wrong. Alex's apologies seem different; he's shown genuine remorse and awareness, indicating he's in need of help. Alex has had breakdowns on live streams for years, which clearly shows he's struggling. I believe it's important to address both the behavior and the underlying issues. This doesn't mean he shouldn't face consequences, but it does mean he needs support to get better. He talked about feeling unable to control his emotions, going from one extreme to another, and then feeling guilty. To me, that indicates a deeper struggle rather than just surface level apology’s. My concern is that his frequent breakdowns and expressions of guilt might indicate underlying issues that need addressing to prevent further abusive behavior. Recognising and treating these underlying issues can lead to a more clear and stable apology from Alex. When someone who has caused harm becomes mentally stable and genuinely/clearly apologizes, it can help those affected by their actions feel heard and validated, potentially providing a sense of closure and helping them heal from their experiences. You seem to think that the only way to achieve justice for the people hurt by Alex's unstable and abusive behaviors is by him rotting and being seen as evil. Factually, this is a narrow view of justice. True justice involves not only holding individuals accountable for their actions but also addressing the root causes of their behavior to prevent future harm. Morally, reducing someone to an evil entity ignores the complexity of human behavior and mental health. It's important to recognise that people can be both perpetrators and victims of their own struggles. Justice should encompass accountability, rehabilitation, and the prevention of future abuse. Based on his private voice notes, where he expressed feeling overwhelmed and unable to control his emotions, and his video 'Losing Family' on TH-cam, it's clear he is struggling and needs support. Recognising this isn't about excusing harmful behavior but understanding that he isn't evil and he needs mental help to prevent future harm. I do not agree with the people cyber bullying him, I am not talking about people condemning his actions; I am talking about people leaking his personal phone number, spamming him with threats, and mocking his voice, appearance, and mannerisms. You may argue that he ‘deserves this,’ but I don’t believe two wrongs make a right. A mentally well person does not have hysterical breakdowns on live streams for years. If you argue that he isn’t mentally ill, then explain his consistent public emotional breakdowns. Having frequent public breakdowns is not something that a calculated narcissistic abuser would do either. Research shows that narcissistic abusers typically maintain a facade of control and confidence in public. Pointing out that Alex shows high traits of BPD is not enabling his abuse; it’s identifying a possible cause that needs to be addressed to prevent future harm. He should have received help years ago, and it’s infuriating that he didn’t. So basically what you’re saying is that you will only be happy if everyone thinks that Alex is ‘evil’ and ‘enjoys’ abusing people? Rather than being in reality and seeing that he’s mentally unwell and has high traits of BPD, which by the way, addressing the fact that he exhibits high traits of being mentally unwell can actually help to prevent future harm. Rather than just bullying him to the point that he could quite literally kill himself.. and I don’t think that would bring much comfort or clarity to anyone involved. It seems unfair to ignore his mental health struggles and to act as if he gets a kick out of having abusive traits, especially when he has publicly admitted otherwise while crying on live streams. Ignoring these issues does not contribute to a comprehensive solution and only perpetuates the cycle of harm. You may criticise me for saying that it’s wrong for people to cyber bully Alex, who is evidently mentally unwell, There's a spectrum to bullying, and bullying someone who is already struggling with mental health issues falls within that spectrum. Arguing that he deserves to be bullied/hurt further because he hurt others perpetuates a cycle of harm and does not lead to constructive solutions. Alex's behavior seemed to stem from his mental health struggles rather than calculated malice or enjoyment. If you can't understand what I meant by that, then this conversation is unproductive. For example, his frequent emotional breakdowns on live streams and expressions of self-hatred indicate a person in distress rather than someone who takes pleasure in their abusive actions. Even if Alex has a mental illness (or multiple), this does not make his behavior okay or excusable. Mental illness can explain why someone behaves a certain way, but it does not absolve them of responsibility. For instance, people with mental health disorders may experience intense emotional swings and have difficulties in relationships, but they are still accountable for their actions and must seek treatment to manage their symptoms. The National Institute of Mental Health states that with proper treatment, individuals with mental health disorders can lead stable and fulfilling lives. Recognising his mental health struggles is about understanding the root cause and ensuring he gets the help he needs to prevent further harm, not about excusing his abusive behavior. I have stated all of my points clearly. If you still believe all the points you have already made, then I don't see the point of going around in circles. It seems we have fundamentally different views on how to address this situation, and further discussion may not be productive.
Eupdpresents vv different in men to women only p.d specialists can recognise and diagnose it and other pd's but id defo agree with bpd dated a guy with it v explosive but not evil& did mean apologies but its was a v rocky relationship tthat for sure extreemly overly jealous & possessive almost severed his hand off slitting his wr!sts
@@Maudi010he’s ABUSIVE. WHY are we trying to diagnose ABUSIVE PEOPLE. HE. IS. ABSUSIVE. you guys need to STOP STIGMATIZING PERSONALITY DISORDERS AND ANY OTHER DISORDERS.
It’s so painful watching friends in toxic abusive relationships continue to return to their terrible partner. I don’t know how these terrible “men” convince these ladies to stay with them. These guys literally have 0 redeeming qualities.
@@Leo_machados yes it is true women can be abusive and in those situations men often are afraid to tell anyone they are being abused out of fear of looking weak. Abuse to anyone is tragic and I hope anyone in an abusive relationship can get out of it safely.
Always sucks as someone who’s not been in a relationship and would give literally anything to be in one to see dudes being abusive a holes to their girlfriends/partners…
My man, you got this. Get down the gym, start a martial art get in shape, focus on your career and build yourself up. The positive confidence you will have from developing yourself and becoming the best version of yourself. You won't struggle with a relationship after you build yourself up. Be strong brother 💪
good guys finish last mate.. Confidence and being detached is a recipe for success. Don't sweat it too much, I never got good at talking to women till my early 20s.
Don't listen to the above. Good guys may lose the battle but will win the war. Wait for someone you can truly be yourself with, share a mutual respect and grow together. No rush at all bro keep growing as a person and it will come. Taking bad advice and going into an interaction with a preset agenda is a horrible idea and will only attract a similar type of person!
@nandos3000 exactly! Nail on the head mate. I'm a 28 year old, it's taken me a long ass time to figure out what i am and I'm still learning. What helped me the most was exercise, good diet and consistency. Being fit and healthy will change your entire life for the better. I struggled with mental health and addiction my entire teen years and early 20s T total now. Don't give up hope there is always a light at the end of the tunnel
Wait for your time. If you focus on getting into a relationship you'll pick the wrong people. Don't listen to things that worked for other people. Do your own thing and be *yourself*.
I used to watch him years ago but stopped just bc I didn't like the vibe or just his channel just changed but now seeing this I cringe with how I ever watched him
Narcissism you meant? I am diagnosed one with ASPD and schizoid by age 26 back then. The guy show traits of narcissism, insecurity by analyzing him. I can read my own breed and he isn’t one….Sociopath: cold, indifferent, callous, uncaring, unblinking predatory eyes, intimidating, misanthropic, lack of empathy, limited empathy for the people they seems to care about, avoid people, against the law, don’t follow society rules, don’t care attitude about people feelings. Narcissists: insecure, toxic, drama, blank stare, attention seeking individuals who like to be in the spotlight and want to admired by people, gaslight, charming, draining your energy overall. Narcissists: fragile ego problems, insecurity. Sociopaths: don’t care attitude, misanthropic. PS: There you go I summarize ASPD and narcissism.
I was wondering why memeulous and Jack manafold stopped doing videos with him. In memeulous’s “we watch” series it’s always the same people minus Alex now. I was wondering where he went. Wow, I didn’t think Alex was capable of this but I’ve been proven wrong. Maybe this is why the Eboys never lasted. Will, James and George probably got tired of him
For our sins we deserve eternity in hell, but God loves us so much he came as Jesus to pay the price of our sins through living a perfect life for us, his death and his resurrection so we can be forgiven and receive eternal life if we follow and obey him in faith FOR LIFE , Jesus loves u and desires to have a personal relationship with you of love, peace, redemption and obedience ✝️ May Jesus bless you, repent of your sins and turn to Christ before it's too late 🙏🏿❤️❤❤❤
I'm surprised he hasn't lol. For someone who says he doesn't like drama that's all I know Charlie from lmao. Like all I ever see of him is when he makes a video addressing either drama he's involved in or commenting on someone elses drama and people flocking to it like he has the final word 🤣
no literally that’s the first thing i was thinking when i saw this. Kind of sensationalized the situation. if it was just the alex graphic - sure. but the Alice one is just no.
ngl never expected him, now watching his old vids with memeulouse and the other make me ill, damn you never know what a person is hiding behind him after the camera stops rolling.
Thats how my dad use to stay, abusive narcissistic, big ego uncontrollable anger. But i slowly forgave him he's dead now and i always remember thr bad things he did even if i had a good time he would threaten me or bring something up that im not comfortable about and always blame me for something i didnt mean to do and being passively-aggressive. I still find it hard to forgive him but god is helping me i just wanted him to be a father he was overly strict all the time one time he even call me a b@#&. I just hope noone goes through what i went thru. 😢😢😢
What he's saying is registering as a threat but it's so hard to take him serious when he sounds like Urkel with a sinus infection. Like I get how Alice would feel threatened don't get me wrong, he's an abusive prick no doubt about it and I see now why they say abusers pick their victims based on who is less likely to do anything about it because god is it hard to imagine him acting the same way with someone that could actually punt him across the room
He's not even good looking I think she got with him due to his influence and position and it just so happened those two things had already gone to his head and made him an awful abusive person which she suffered for. Nobody should ever raise a hand to their partner, there is no excuse. It's disgusting and cowardly.
What’s there prove he clearly did it the voice chats the texts the shit that happened in the past even if he was telling the truth which he’s not his whole career would be ruined it’s a lose lose situation for him atleast
4:14 honestly as someone that has had MANY MANY girls try to cry for sympathy about being abused at the most awkward moments ever, i am with alex on this one little thing. Who on planet earth wants to GO ON VACATION and spend that vacation trying to comfort this bird with a broken wing. Ive had horrible stuff happen to me and i would never expect someone else to want to sit around making me feel better about it. People are WAY TOO COMFORTABLE TRAMA DUMPING
@@filipkolasny908 ik both you can't lie and say in order to date a toxic person u gotta have sum type of toxicity in u cause toxic people act toxic all the time so how are u going let toxic person ask u out and say yes without being toxic yourself
@@DaveRuf-q6v Extremely dumb argument. Believe it or not people can *lie* and pretend to be not toxic. Something Alex clearly did as you can even see from his persona in his videos contrasted to his private one. Ever heard of Ted Bundy? He was a murderer and got with women constantly so does that mean that all of them were murderers? Nope, he was just able to lie and manipulate. Another aspect is how Alice wants to leave him, if she really were toxic to the same extent, she'd likely stay with him, something that I myself have witnessed happen in my own past friendship groups. Third of all, there's evidence in the form of screenshots in how she is clearly not as toxic as him if even toxic at all, so you'd have to actively deny all of that evidence.
@@DaveRuf-q6v And lastly, there is no excuse for physical abuse as well as literal threats that are on video, in which she is also clearly on the defensive. So you'd actively have to deny all of this to say what you said, which is essentially an illogical hunch. So once again, not nearly to the same extent, if at any.
It's impressive to see how such a little twerp can be so aggressive
For our sins we deserve eternity in hell, but God loves us so much he came as Jesus to pay the price of our sins through living a perfect life for us, his death and his resurrection so we can be forgiven and receive eternal life if we follow and obey him in faith FOR LIFE , Jesus loves u and desires to have a personal relationship with you of love, peace, redemption and obedience ✝️ May Jesus bless you, repent of your sins and turn to Christ before it's too late 🙏🏿❤️😊
He would never act that way to a fully grown man, at least not to his face..
@@aalvarez2914 For our sins we deserve eternity in hell, but God loves us so much he came as Jesus to pay the price of our sins through living a perfect life for us, his death and his resurrection so we can be forgiven and receive eternal life if we follow and obey him in faith FOR LIFE , Jesus loves u and desires to have a personal relationship with you of love, peace, redemption and obedience ✝️ May Jesus bless you, repent of your sins and turn to Christ before it's too late 🙏🏿❤️
Dude is literally very insecure.
I think the word youre looking for is "abusive"
Insecurity doesn't cause abuse
For our sins we deserve eternity in hell, but God loves us so much he came as Jesus to pay the price of our sins through living a perfect life for us, his death and his resurrection so we can be forgiven and receive eternal life if we follow and obey him in faith FOR LIFE , Jesus loves u and desires to have a personal relationship with you of love, peace, redemption and obedience ✝️ May Jesus bless you, repent of your sins and turn to Christ before it's too late 🙏🏿❤️😊😊
@@iamsherlocked7448girl what… 💀 what’s a bully? An insecure person who abuses ppl
@@iamsherlocked7448 Depends on the type of "personality disorder". For example, the cluster B personality disorders all entail abuse (in reality, they are risk factors because abuse is always a choice, even for people more prone to it) and in includes narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). This personality disorder in particular is about the "damaged sense of self" from early childhood, aka extreme insecurity to the point that the person invents a persona that is better than anyone or has special rights or privileges. He seems to have one of the cluster B disorders, who knows which one. I'm not a doctor, I just read a lot about it.
The way he talked to her in those clips looks like he might be a carbon copy of his father. It seems like he‘s mirroring the behavior he saw at home as a kid and now he’s letting all that anger out on her.
Don’t know them personally, obviously, yet it seems too automatic of a reaction. He has to have seen it at home.
The typical “Oi Jane, you gettin on mi nerves, oim gonna bash your head through the wall yea cont!“
Abuse is consistent. People don’t change. In relationships/friendships your time, love, care and support for an abusive person won’t change them. Cut your losses, and please move on.
I want to emphasize that I do not condone his abusive behavior in any way My intent is to highlight the importance of addressing mental health issues alongside holding him accountable. With Alex, it's really does seem that he doesn't enjoy his abusive behaviours based on his breakdowns, crying, and constantly explaining how he knows it's wrong. From my experience, abusers in typical abuse cycles often give surface apologies without deeply explaining how and why they know what they did was wrong. Alex's apologies seem different; he's shown genuine remorse and awareness, indicating he's in need of help. Alex has had breakdowns on live streams for years, which clearly shows he's struggling. I believe it's important to address both the behavior and the underlying issues. This doesn't mean he shouldn't face consequences, but it does mean he needs support to get better. He talked about feeling unable to control his emotions, going from one extreme to another, and then feeling guilty. To me, that indicates a deeper struggle rather than just surface level apology’s. My concern is that his frequent breakdowns and expressions of guilt might indicate underlying issues that need addressing to prevent further abusive behavior. Recognising and treating these underlying issues can lead to a more clear and stable apology from Alex. When someone who has caused harm becomes mentally stable and genuinely/clearly apologizes, it can help those affected by their actions feel heard and validated, potentially providing a sense of closure and helping them heal from their experiences.
You seem to think that the only way to achieve justice for the people hurt by Alex's unstable and abusive behaviors is by him rotting and being seen as evil. Factually, this is a narrow view of justice. True justice involves not only holding individuals accountable for their actions but also addressing the root causes of their behavior to prevent future harm. Morally, reducing someone to an evil entity ignores the complexity of human behavior and mental health. It's important to recognise that people can be both perpetrators and victims of their own struggles. Justice should encompass accountability, rehabilitation, and the prevention of future abuse. Based on his private voice notes, where he expressed feeling overwhelmed and unable to control his emotions, and his video 'Losing Family' on TH-cam, it's clear he is struggling and needs support. Recognising this isn't about excusing harmful behavior but understanding that he isn't evil and he needs mental help to prevent future harm. I do not agree with the people cyber bullying him, I am not talking about people condemning his actions; I am talking about people leaking his personal phone number, spamming him with threats, and mocking his voice, appearance, and mannerisms. You may argue that he ‘deserves this,’ but I don’t believe two wrongs make a right. A mentally well person does not have hysterical breakdowns on live streams for years. If you argue that he isn’t mentally ill, then explain his consistent public emotional breakdowns. Having frequent public breakdowns is not something that a calculated narcissistic abuser would do either. Research shows that narcissistic abusers typically maintain a facade of control and confidence in public. Pointing out that Alex shows high traits of BPD is not enabling his abuse; it’s identifying a possible cause that needs to be addressed to prevent future harm. He should have received help years ago, and it’s infuriating that he didn’t. So basically what you’re saying is that you will only be happy if everyone thinks that Alex is ‘evil’ and ‘enjoys’ abusing people? Rather than being in reality and seeing that he’s mentally unwell and has high traits of BPD, which by the way, addressing the fact that he exhibits high traits of being mentally unwell can actually help to prevent future harm. Rather than just bullying him to the point that he could quite literally kill himself.. and I don’t think that would bring much comfort or clarity to anyone involved. It seems unfair to ignore his mental health struggles and to act as if he gets a kick out of having abusive traits, especially when he has publicly admitted otherwise while crying on live streams. Ignoring these issues does not contribute to a comprehensive solution and only perpetuates the cycle of harm. You may criticise me for saying that it’s wrong for people to cyber bully Alex, who is evidently mentally unwell, There's a spectrum to bullying, and bullying someone who is already struggling with mental health issues falls within that spectrum. Arguing that he deserves to be bullied/hurt further because he hurt others perpetuates a cycle of harm and does not lead to constructive solutions. Alex's behavior seemed to stem from his mental health struggles rather than calculated malice or enjoyment. If you can't understand what I meant by that, then this conversation is unproductive. For example, his frequent emotional breakdowns on live streams and expressions of self-hatred indicate a person in distress rather than someone who takes pleasure in their abusive actions. Even if Alex has a mental illness (or multiple), this does not make his behavior okay or excusable. Mental illness can explain why someone behaves a certain way, but it does not absolve them of responsibility. For instance, people with mental health disorders may experience intense emotional swings and have difficulties in relationships, but they are still accountable for their actions and must seek treatment to manage their symptoms. The National Institute of Mental Health states that with proper treatment, individuals with mental health disorders can lead stable and fulfilling lives. Recognising his mental health struggles is about understanding the root cause and ensuring he gets the help he needs to prevent further harm, not about excusing his abusive behavior.
I have stated all of my points clearly. If you still believe all the points you have already made, then I don't see the point of going around in circles. It seems we have fundamentally different views on how to address this situation, and further discussion may not be productive.
As someone who has been stuck in an abusive friendship before twice I thank you because they don't change they only manipulate you to come back
its the power trip, hes a little scrawny boy and the moment he gets power over another person or thing he abuses them because he knows they cant do anything back. absoloutly horrible
This Alex guy sounds like a Gaslighter so damn bad!!! I'll pray for all his victims.
I want to emphasize that I do not condone his abusive behavior in any way My intent is to highlight the importance of addressing mental health issues alongside holding him accountable. With Alex, it's really does seem that he doesn't enjoy his abusive behaviours based on his breakdowns, crying, and constantly explaining how he knows it's wrong. From my experience, abusers in typical abuse cycles often give surface apologies without deeply explaining how and why they know what they did was wrong. Alex's apologies seem different; he's shown genuine remorse and awareness, indicating he's in need of help. Alex has had breakdowns on live streams for years, which clearly shows he's struggling. I believe it's important to address both the behavior and the underlying issues. This doesn't mean he shouldn't face consequences, but it does mean he needs support to get better. He talked about feeling unable to control his emotions, going from one extreme to another, and then feeling guilty. To me, that indicates a deeper struggle rather than just surface level apology’s. My concern is that his frequent breakdowns and expressions of guilt might indicate underlying issues that need addressing to prevent further abusive behavior. Recognising and treating these underlying issues can lead to a more clear and stable apology from Alex. When someone who has caused harm becomes mentally stable and genuinely/clearly apologizes, it can help those affected by their actions feel heard and validated, potentially providing a sense of closure and helping them heal from their experiences.
You seem to think that the only way to achieve justice for the people hurt by Alex's unstable and abusive behaviors is by him rotting and being seen as evil. Factually, this is a narrow view of justice. True justice involves not only holding individuals accountable for their actions but also addressing the root causes of their behavior to prevent future harm. Morally, reducing someone to an evil entity ignores the complexity of human behavior and mental health. It's important to recognise that people can be both perpetrators and victims of their own struggles. Justice should encompass accountability, rehabilitation, and the prevention of future abuse. Based on his private voice notes, where he expressed feeling overwhelmed and unable to control his emotions, and his video 'Losing Family' on TH-cam, it's clear he is struggling and needs support. Recognising this isn't about excusing harmful behavior but understanding that he isn't evil and he needs mental help to prevent future harm. I do not agree with the people cyber bullying him, I am not talking about people condemning his actions; I am talking about people leaking his personal phone number, spamming him with threats, and mocking his voice, appearance, and mannerisms. You may argue that he ‘deserves this,’ but I don’t believe two wrongs make a right. A mentally well person does not have hysterical breakdowns on live streams for years. If you argue that he isn’t mentally ill, then explain his consistent public emotional breakdowns. Having frequent public breakdowns is not something that a calculated narcissistic abuser would do either. Research shows that narcissistic abusers typically maintain a facade of control and confidence in public. Pointing out that Alex shows high traits of BPD is not enabling his abuse; it’s identifying a possible cause that needs to be addressed to prevent future harm. He should have received help years ago, and it’s infuriating that he didn’t. So basically what you’re saying is that you will only be happy if everyone thinks that Alex is ‘evil’ and ‘enjoys’ abusing people? Rather than being in reality and seeing that he’s mentally unwell and has high traits of BPD, which by the way, addressing the fact that he exhibits high traits of being mentally unwell can actually help to prevent future harm. Rather than just bullying him to the point that he could quite literally kill himself.. and I don’t think that would bring much comfort or clarity to anyone involved. It seems unfair to ignore his mental health struggles and to act as if he gets a kick out of having abusive traits, especially when he has publicly admitted otherwise while crying on live streams. Ignoring these issues does not contribute to a comprehensive solution and only perpetuates the cycle of harm. You may criticise me for saying that it’s wrong for people to cyber bully Alex, who is evidently mentally unwell, There's a spectrum to bullying, and bullying someone who is already struggling with mental health issues falls within that spectrum. Arguing that he deserves to be bullied/hurt further because he hurt others perpetuates a cycle of harm and does not lead to constructive solutions. Alex's behavior seemed to stem from his mental health struggles rather than calculated malice or enjoyment. If you can't understand what I meant by that, then this conversation is unproductive. For example, his frequent emotional breakdowns on live streams and expressions of self-hatred indicate a person in distress rather than someone who takes pleasure in their abusive actions. Even if Alex has a mental illness (or multiple), this does not make his behavior okay or excusable. Mental illness can explain why someone behaves a certain way, but it does not absolve them of responsibility. For instance, people with mental health disorders may experience intense emotional swings and have difficulties in relationships, but they are still accountable for their actions and must seek treatment to manage their symptoms. The National Institute of Mental Health states that with proper treatment, individuals with mental health disorders can lead stable and fulfilling lives. Recognising his mental health struggles is about understanding the root cause and ensuring he gets the help he needs to prevent further harm, not about excusing his abusive behavior.
I have stated all of my points clearly. If you still believe all the points you have already made, then I don't see the point of going around in circles. It seems we have fundamentally different views on how to address this situation, and further discussion may not be productive.
not sociopath or psychopath... but for sure checks multiple criteria for narcissism!
narcissist and bipolar
@@kaiishkaiish that or bpd for sure! but ofc, just a lot of characteristics that I saw, not excusing or diagnosing!
Eupdpresents vv different in men to women only p.d specialists can recognise and diagnose it and other pd's but id defo agree with bpd dated a guy with it v explosive but not evil& did mean apologies but its was a v rocky relationship tthat for sure extreemly overly jealous & possessive almost severed his hand off slitting his
wr!sts
@@Maudi010he’s ABUSIVE. WHY are we trying to diagnose ABUSIVE PEOPLE. HE. IS. ABSUSIVE. you guys need to STOP STIGMATIZING PERSONALITY DISORDERS AND ANY OTHER DISORDERS.
Most narcissists are sociopaths look it up
It’s so painful watching friends in toxic abusive relationships continue to return to their terrible partner. I don’t know how these terrible “men” convince these ladies to stay with them. These guys literally have 0 redeeming qualities.
Women can be abusive too tho never forget that
@@Leo_machados
Johnny Depp v Amber heard comes to mind
@@Leo_machados yes it is true women can be abusive and in those situations men often are afraid to tell anyone they are being abused out of fear of looking weak. Abuse to anyone is tragic and I hope anyone in an abusive relationship can get out of it safely.
shouldve been cancelled years ago
Legit
I legit couldn’t agree more, his dhar man videos say it all
Alex is quite the insecure little goblin
Always sucks as someone who’s not been in a relationship and would give literally anything to be in one to see dudes being abusive a holes to their girlfriends/partners…
My man, you got this. Get down the gym, start a martial art get in shape, focus on your career and build yourself up. The positive confidence you will have from developing yourself and becoming the best version of yourself. You won't struggle with a relationship after you build yourself up. Be strong brother 💪
good guys finish last mate..
Confidence and being detached is a recipe for success.
Don't sweat it too much, I never got good at talking to women till my early 20s.
Don't listen to the above. Good guys may lose the battle but will win the war. Wait for someone you can truly be yourself with, share a mutual respect and grow together. No rush at all bro keep growing as a person and it will come. Taking bad advice and going into an interaction with a preset agenda is a horrible idea and will only attract a similar type of person!
@nandos3000 exactly! Nail on the head mate. I'm a 28 year old, it's taken me a long ass time to figure out what i am and I'm still learning.
What helped me the most was exercise, good diet and consistency.
Being fit and healthy will change your entire life for the better. I struggled with mental health and addiction my entire teen years and early 20s T total now. Don't give up hope there is always a light at the end of the tunnel
Wait for your time. If you focus on getting into a relationship you'll pick the wrong people. Don't listen to things that worked for other people. Do your own thing and be *yourself*.
I know it’s a serious situation but when Alex is crying in that voice note he sounds like Morrissey from the smiths
😂
I used to watch him years ago but stopped just bc I didn't like the vibe or just his channel just changed but now seeing this I cringe with how I ever watched him
Narcissism you meant? I am diagnosed one with ASPD and schizoid by age 26 back then. The guy show traits of narcissism, insecurity by analyzing him. I can read my own breed and he isn’t one….Sociopath: cold, indifferent, callous, uncaring, unblinking predatory eyes, intimidating, misanthropic, lack of empathy, limited empathy for the people they seems to care about, avoid people, against the law, don’t follow society rules, don’t care attitude about people feelings. Narcissists: insecure, toxic, drama, blank stare, attention seeking individuals who like to be in the spotlight and want to admired by people, gaslight, charming, draining your energy overall. Narcissists: fragile ego problems, insecurity. Sociopaths: don’t care attitude, misanthropic. PS: There you go I summarize ASPD and narcissism.
I was wondering why memeulous and Jack manafold stopped doing videos with him.
In memeulous’s “we watch” series it’s always the same people minus Alex now. I was wondering where he went.
Wow, I didn’t think Alex was capable of this but I’ve been proven wrong. Maybe this is why the Eboys never lasted. Will, James and George probably got tired of him
as someone who used to watch a lot of memeulous
WHY CANT THE PEOPLE I GREW UP WITH JUST BE NORMAL RHAGAGHAAGAHAGGH
@@bailoutexists I feel you, the dharr man videos were the best videos from George and Alex. I guess we won’t get another dharr man video ever again
WTF is that „haircut“ of him at 4:34? That alone should be a Warning sign
Once charlie does a video on this, alex is done for
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I'm surprised he hasn't lol. For someone who says he doesn't like drama that's all I know Charlie from lmao. Like all I ever see of him is when he makes a video addressing either drama he's involved in or commenting on someone elses drama and people flocking to it like he has the final word 🤣
isn’t that the guy that was friends with memeulous
Literally a sociopath.
Not a sociopath, definitely narcissistic BPD though
Abysmal thumbnail, good video.
no literally that’s the first thing i was thinking when i saw this. Kind of sensationalized the situation. if it was just the alex graphic - sure. but the Alice one is just no.
You either die a hero or live long enough to see yourself become a shitty TH-cam drama thumbnail with a cartoon filter over it
82 pages long?? Were they together for 75 years??!!!
Bro needs a hiding
Nah, let's expose him for all the shits he pulled and shame him for it.
How tf he pull a goth girl 🥲
She probably wanted him for the boost to twitch
Accurate @@marcusclarke5628
As opposed to the bright side of a TH-cam sociopath
I actually had to tap out on this one. I've known people like this.
this is very sad i feel very bad for this person i cant imagine how that feels
The loudest is normally virtue signaling
Wow I actually thought he was just a completely normal dude, I never would of thought he would do these things
ngl never expected him, now watching his old vids with memeulouse and the other make me ill, damn you never know what a person is hiding behind him after the camera stops rolling.
Hope to continue seeing more content from ya very great commentary
why did he record himself being ab*sive and vile with his girlfriend tho @ 3:20
How did he even pull someone that fine
Bro is a abusive Kevin Mcallister from home alone
his GF was so gorgeous and that freak abused her.. i really cant see how can someone be so negative towards someone so pretty?
Thats how my dad use to stay, abusive narcissistic, big ego uncontrollable anger. But i slowly forgave him he's dead now and i always remember thr bad things he did even if i had a good time he would threaten me or bring something up that im not comfortable about and always blame me for something i didnt mean to do and being passively-aggressive. I still find it hard to forgive him but god is helping me i just wanted him to be a father he was overly strict all the time one time he even call me a b@#&. I just hope noone goes through what i went thru. 😢😢😢
And all this time I thought every girl has a loser detector built-in.
Hes trying to assert dominance. Hes very insecure and uses violence to cope. Its sad to see.
The thing that scares me the most is that people can’t see how slimey and snakey this guy is… You can’t tell? Just listen to him/ look at him
4:24 “I have no fond memories with you!”
6:34: “I love you, and I miss you… HUMMMMMMMMMMM!”
Lol he was always the “weakeset linkv”
I was a fan of his for many years I am glad to say I’m not. subscribed to him anymore and will avoid his content he’s done
love your stuff bro!
7:44 i think something could age as horribley as all that
straight up immature with relationships. don't worry, he'll learn, one way or another. life has it's ways of teaching people.
We are talking about the same 'Internet sensation' aren't we?
What he's saying is registering as a threat but it's so hard to take him serious when he sounds like Urkel with a sinus infection. Like I get how Alice would feel threatened don't get me wrong, he's an abusive prick no doubt about it and I see now why they say abusers pick their victims based on who is less likely to do anything about it because god is it hard to imagine him acting the same way with someone that could actually punt him across the room
Alex looks like a goblin
Im like psychic when it comes to psychos and crazy people, I always knew something was up with that twig! Dont know what that says about me... 😵💫
Why is your Tyson Fury video age restricted now?
I've hated this twat way before any of this came out, I'm so glad he's being exposed for who he is, I hope his victim gets justice
6:32 LMAOOO
Not the n word to a white girl 😂😂
It's wild how bri'ish he looks
Am I the only one who thinks Alice’s mum was wrong she knew Alice was getting beat and never told the police
He reminds me of Alex from A Clockwork Orange
what editing software do you use?
Wtf is wrong with all these influencers
Wait, youtube sociopaths are BAD people?
..."i'msmallalex😢"
Didn’t know about this guy until now. Dude looks like this and acts like that??? 😂😂😂
poor slazo bro tf
He used berate people
He's not even good looking I think she got with him due to his influence and position and it just so happened those two things had already gone to his head and made him an awful abusive person which she suffered for. Nobody should ever raise a hand to their partner, there is no excuse. It's disgusting and cowardly.
But she was emotionally abused 12:12
Sounds exactly like my ex hahah shit
Gollum take that eboy wig off
What’s there prove he clearly did it the voice chats the texts the shit that happened in the past even if he was telling the truth which he’s not his whole career would be ruined it’s a lose lose situation for him atleast
Someone tell Alice I can make her happy 😭
tf up with bros forehead
I would say he was narcissist and Bpd
SunnyVJr
Sunny2v?
he hasn't lost enough subscribers
Wtf is that thumbnail 😂
Not a real man
4:14 honestly as someone that has had MANY MANY girls try to cry for sympathy about being abused at the most awkward moments ever, i am with alex on this one little thing. Who on planet earth wants to GO ON VACATION and spend that vacation trying to comfort this bird with a broken wing. Ive had horrible stuff happen to me and i would never expect someone else to want to sit around making me feel better about it. People are WAY TOO COMFORTABLE TRAMA DUMPING
Then set a boundary and talk about it, not berate the other person for it. You people need to learn how to be in a relationship.
Too late bro
Damn Alex is BASED!!!
Unfunny
35 mins ago is arousing
both are toxic people
Not nearly to the same extent.
@@filipkolasny908 ik both you can't lie and say in order to date a toxic person u gotta have sum type of toxicity in u cause toxic people act toxic all the time so how are u going let toxic person ask u out and say yes without being toxic yourself
@@DaveRuf-q6v Extremely dumb argument. Believe it or not people can *lie* and pretend to be not toxic. Something Alex clearly did as you can even see from his persona in his videos contrasted to his private one. Ever heard of Ted Bundy? He was a murderer and got with women constantly so does that mean that all of them were murderers? Nope, he was just able to lie and manipulate. Another aspect is how Alice wants to leave him, if she really were toxic to the same extent, she'd likely stay with him, something that I myself have witnessed happen in my own past friendship groups. Third of all, there's evidence in the form of screenshots in how she is clearly not as toxic as him if even toxic at all, so you'd have to actively deny all of that evidence.
@@DaveRuf-q6v And lastly, there is no excuse for physical abuse as well as literal threats that are on video, in which she is also clearly on the defensive. So you'd actively have to deny all of this to say what you said, which is essentially an illogical hunch. So once again, not nearly to the same extent, if at any.
@@filipkolasny908 youll never know buddy you must havent seen trauma alright
I have the same relationship but the other way around
You need to change your behavior.
Wait-
HUH?
then get out of it
@@campar1043 u need to read it again
wow hes trash
i like this video and i didnt even watch it yet
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This is gossip & non of MY BUSINESS!
Early asl 😭😭
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She was him for the fame anyway
We dont care. This be all people even this channel owner on the low prolly. She just stayed for getting clout n throw him down. Boring
Just cause your dad beat your mom doesn't mean it happened in every household
Grow up and learn to be a person.
Your so sigma for saying that 🤡
Thats pretty funny lol
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