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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 พ.ย. 2023
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Sometimes, i’d feel bad for doing all these things because some people consider that being a “pick me girl “. You’ve honestly helped me get more confident and more proud of myself. Thank you.
people actually consider those things being a pick me? society has truly lost common sense...
Bro me too! Now I know what a actual pick me is And she has made me more confident
omg same
Just be happy to have one of you beautiful woman
@@wintvibesYes they truly does 😂I was recently in same deliemma bcoz I remembered how I told people that I don't like to wear makeup and I have never played with dolls but only video games nd other stuff as I have 2 brothers then I felt like but I never look down on anyone why should I be ashamed!
I hate that women denigrate other women. They crush their spirit.
Me to
Agreed!
meanwhile my mom and aunts rn: "im still body shaming her "
Exactly. We should be supporting each other.
✨Girl power✨
@@basil_awan3OMG SAME 😭😭
I once got called a pick me by a 5th grader for having *bangs.* *BANGS.*
Wtf- that fifth grader called like more than half of the female population a ‘pick me’ 💀
I am in the 9th grade and I have bangs because it is the only hairstyle that suits me 😊😂
@@GenshinGanyu. LOL
Samee. I was also called a “pick me” by other girls for freaking TALKING to guys???!! Like tf?
@@sukidrawsandeditsfr and that guy is my cousin 💀💀
Remember, "dogs bark when they Don't know the person."
They also bark when they see a demon and ghost
All animals are too good, some people sometimes though are.. they are a little yikes
“she just does sports for attention! she’s trying too hard 🙄”
now THAT’S a pick me
Keep rolling your eyes until you see how your brain is small💀
@@WONDRHOYbruh 😂😂😂
What's tomboy
Yall are missing the point shes saying people that say that are pick me😅😅😅
@@AyaT-ky1jgA tomboy is a girl that has hobbies or interests that men typically have, for example, a girl who likes wearing more "boy-ish" clothing or likes playing video games.
“We support women,not bitches”
“We support men,not assholes”
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Absolutely 💯
facts
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Agreed 👍
There’s a girl name Eris in my home room and she is a pick me. She turned everyone against me and whispers secrets about me for wearing pink- she hangs out with boys and dyes her hair. And she has a voice that no one wants to hear and everybody somehow likes her. That’s a real problem. But just because you were boy clothes or have friends that are boys you aren’t a pick me. Putting down other girls is called a pick me, literally.
That genuinely sounds terrible I’m so sorry😢
I was friends with someone, who would complement someone and as soon as they walk away say something like “who would wear that it’s so ugly” she would constantly put over people down
Omg this is so Regina George
Wait is she Regina George
@@35abhiratiroy8f7 no 😭
Girly is just insecure.
@@fairiesarefair yh she probably is
Love you don’t let anyone discourage you from doing anything you do
love youuu
@ClaraDao I love how when people pointed out in another video that you might be insinuating that everyone who does these things is a pick-me, instead of getting mad you chose to clarify it with this video. Thanks! It shows you really do try to understand and improve
@@ClaraDaoi love you
@@ClaraDaoI'm having a hard time being friends with girls, being friends with guys is easier for me. Does that mean I'm a pick me?😢
@@ClaraDaothank youuu!
I was always confused,cs I kinda felt like a pick me for not wearing make up,and wearing baggy clothes,....So this helpd me!💗
my classmates called me a pick me for doing nothing but just be friends with a guy... And they called me cringe but i already stop... I definitely did nothing but just be myself
Be friends with people who make you happy, no matter what gender they are.
Call her cringe back for being so invested in you and who you’re friends with. You deserve to be friends with whoever you want.. I’m sorry you’re being picked on. You’re not a pick me for being yourself.
That's called they were hating on you for being someone who the guy would pick 😂. There's a huge difference between attention seeking women (the pick me's) vs a woman just being herself.
Jealous girls idk atp
same here, they fr just calling me a pick me jst bc I make friends with boys, I also make friends with girls
I dont get it why r they calling me a pick me, the fact that the girl who called me a pick me, is rlly seeking attention from the boys, she literally flirting with many boys in my class, like girl get a mirror.
There was a girl, who called me "a pick me" for hanging out with a group of guys. She assumed that I crave for their attention.
I stared at her. And said: "I can't love people as romantical partners and it ruined a few of my previous relationships. If you love one of my male friends - go on, pick any of them, I don't mind."
She got extremely embarrassed in a matter of seconds. We're on good terms now.
oh!
being an aromantic ace hanging out with a group of guys:
My friend talked to me about how she felt like a pick-me girl because she mentioned that she was on a diet and didn't have dessert with some other friends. I was heartbroken that just because she didn't feel confident in herself and wanted to be thinner caused her to think people would dislike her. Thanks for making this video, because I feel like a lot of girls are called pick-me girls for genuinely thinking they're ugly or stupid.
Men and women have different definitions of a pick me girl. The irony is that the female version is pretty pick me.
exactly, so many people will call a girl a pick me for no reason
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shout out to all the genuine girls girls 💕
I once smacked my guy friends back and the girls just looked at me and they were just waiting for me to give a smug look 😭
Tysm for this video Clara❤, I’ve always been called a pick me for wearing “boy” clothes and roughhousing, OR knowing stuff about building or cars, that I knew bc my dad taught me!?, and people would say “Ohhhh ur a pick me bc u don’t wear makeup!” so I would show them I’m wearing makeup and then they would be like “Ugh, ur using makeup?, it’s not good 4 women🙄” like- what😀, but once again tysm for this vid❤
I love how Clara reads the comments on her shorts on pick me girls. Lots of people who are tomboys were worried they were pick mes. Clara is so nice for responding by making a video reassuring them❤❤
This is so great that someone recognizes the difference! I was called a pick me for the longest time, just being a tomboy❤️❤️
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Yess❤
Aww For me I also been called pick me just because I play with boys 😊
I'm so grateful thay Clara really made me feel better cause half of my classmates think am a "pick me"
Same, a girl in my class calls me a pick me whenever she sees me and basically hates me when I haven’t done anything to her
There is also a difference between egotistic girls and pick Me’s 👍
'You're not a nerd just because you're study and reading:)'
Thank you Clara, I really needed to hear this because I've always been called pick me by other people for liking masculine things and having male friends
I love all my girlies, I would never insult them for the things they enjoy ❤
that is sweet
that's the annoying thing that happens when people overuse and end up misusing terms. i genuinely am interested in women (romantically), and always am a girl's girl. but the fact that i have more guy friends than girl friends, the fact that i tend to say i don't like wearing dresses, etc. but i also have a naturally very high pitched voice. many people call me a pick me simply because of those things, wth?
@@bingbong6323 Same here, I am also LGBT (aromantic asexual) and it seems like most of us got called pick me's by other people
Exactly, you're so understanding.😊
to be honest I hate when I was looking like a boy and accidentally blurted it out, my friend that day called me a pick me
This made me so comfortable knowing even if I’m not a complete tomboy, im still called pick me. But Clara made me so happy about myself- Love u Clara❤️ my role model💖✨
Dont listen to them other little girls that be hating
I agree, once I commented under a video: "I'm not a pick me because I don't wear makeup, I just hate the feeling of it" and another person commented: "Yes you are"
@@chiaracirillo8662 oof. i've never tried makeup since it'd make my acne worse, so just be grateful you can even wear it
@@chiaracirillo8662I get that, I wish the makeup that isn’t gross feeling on the skin was cheaper and could be found in stores instead of just online :(
@@Savannah-qb4bbOMG SAMMMEEE it makes my eczema rlly bad even though I'd love to wear it!! Cant:/
Thank you for this Clara. Everyone always calls me pick me when I want to just be me- the kind of girl who just happens to want to play basketball instead of volleyball. I really needed to hear this. I love your channel- you have helped so so so many people
I gotta send this to my friend. Came up to me in school one day and asked me this question and I couldn’t explain the difference fully but this would explain it to her
As someone who is a tomboy and doesn’t feel comfortable in dresses and makeup getting a wolfcut has made me gain my confidence and up I avoid male friends because it’s the only way I can think of avoiding being called “pick me”. I’ve only got 1 male friend 💀
Don't avoid them, feel free to lake friends not based on gender ❤
don't let society limit your friendships! I'm a tomboy too and I've got equal proportion of male and female friends
I can't be friends with girls. Idk just they dont like me, and I dont like them. For me every girl in school its danger cause everyone is like impostor
Not wearing makeup doesn't make you a tomboy-
@@HenrySimmons1225 she said she's a tomboy AND doesn't like makeup. Not that she's a tomboy BECAUSE she doesn't like makeup. Two mutually different things
Tbh some people would probably think I’m a pick me because I don’t go around complimenting people. I don’t mean it bad or anything, I just have trouble approaching people even without a compliment. I usually talk as less as possible, probably due to my social anxiety.
Same. If you are not putting down other people of the same gender as you to make yourself look better and receive attention then you are not a pick me.
However take any chance to lift someone up who you fell comfortable talking to. I’m good at complimenting my friends or people online but not so much with people who I see in person but don’t know very well. I’ve been trying to work on that. It’s scary but it feels good to make someone else happy.
Ngl im a tomboy, but my friends at school likes to calling me pick me pick me pick me 💀
I really needed this. I have been calekd a pick me for YEARS because of my relationship with boys, and people wont stop making romours abt crushes, boys and me, and I am so happy soembody finally notices how not all girls and tomboys are pick me's.
Thank you for saying this,I’m so tired of tomboyish girls getting called pick mes for no reason 😭
She makes me feel so confident and loved🥹 Love you clara. Always and forever.
I love, I genuinely love giving people compliments in the hallway, people, I don't know because I know I always feel so happy when I get a compliment from a stranger, because it doesn't happen very often, and I love giving other people that joy
This makes me so comfortable all because i have alot of friends who are boys and i usually wear tomboy clothes and i always play video games. Thank you clara this has made me really happy about myself ❤️
Litterally me
I have the same thing happen to me but I’m more friends with other females
same literally 13 boy best friends and 7 girl best friends and nothings wrong with it
@@zioyuu__ same
@@BlueberrysAndStrawberrys154 woah you have alot of friends
Thank you so much for this video
love you 💙🦋
Do whatever makes you happy gurl! Don’t let others get to you
Im a very friendly person other than to people who don't like me for whatever reason. I have she friends, he friends, they friends, slightly older, slightly younger, whatever. While a lot of my friends are female, i do have a lot of male friends.
Idk if people consider me a pick me, but even if they do, idc.
Honestly this girl inspires me a lot and she’s probably one of my favorite people and she has such a beautiful soul and she’s so beautiful aswell and I love her confidence so much💛💛
I constantly get called a pick me girl. I have lots of guy friends, even a boyfriend. Yes, I have friends that are girls too, but I have more guy friends. There was this one dumb girl named Jackie and she called me a pick me for getting mad at my brother for calling me a nickname I hate and apparently saying “ugh.” I was cutting myself for years, but when I met my boyfriend I got so much better. He honestly saved me. I dress kind of tomboy-ish sometimes. I dress girly sometimes. But I’m not a pick me. And all my friends can agree on that. I don’t like too much attention, I only like attention from the ones I love the most. There’s this girl in my class who is an actual pick me, she tries to talk to every single boy in class and rolls her eye at every girl that she talks to- like bro???
I’m glad you found someone who helped you get through that.
Hey that’s awesome you’re in a great place.
I’d like to politely point out the whole point of the video is saying, “pick me” is viewing other women as competiton. Not about being tomboy or girly or how many boys someone talks to.
Pick me is someone who can’t be friends with their own gender.
I hope that helps.
Competition in eachother or in leu of men
Thank you so much for saying this! A lot of girls I know would call me a pick me just because I would always show up wearing baggy clothes (it was usually pajamas💀) and no makeup, and most of my friends were guys. but that’s just cuz I’m tired asf, and all the girls were so mean-like-😭
Thank you so much, this girl in my class bullies me because I hang out with boys, she puts other girls down and never complements any one. She has a crush on one of my guy friends and I am competition to her so she puts me down even though i dont like them. So thanks Clara, also she calls me a Pick me when shes the only pick me. I told her to research the definition so she will figure out shes the only pick me. Shes honestly a toxic b, but shes the least of my worries ❤❤
Thank you so much, because i do a lot of these things i always thought i was a pick me
Thank you , I don’t wear make up and I play video games but I am NOT a pick me girl, I’m friends with many girls and boys and I don’t see girls as competition. I love you Clara thank you for making me feel more comfortable and confident about my body ❤❤❤
God, I needed these words, I am the typical girl who grew up surrounded by boys (my cousins and brother) so I tend to be more fond of "masculine" things, and since women tend to put you down, I have come to think that boys may be best friends than some girls (Still most of my friends are girls), but I always see that girls like me are called "pick me" and it makes me a little sad to see how other girls (mostly my friends) talk about things like makeup and I don't understand a word they say, so thank you, it made me feel so much better 💓
I relate to this whole paragraph lol
Relate too
Just ignore it honestly. Men and women have different definitions of what a pick me is, and the female definition is actually quite pick me lmao.
As a tomboy I can agree with all of these
Even on TH-cam in tomboy dressing videos you can still find comments that will say ohh wearing boyish clothes such a pick me and I am not like other girls behavior , this is so common
And you're not a pick me if you like pink, you're not a pick me if you like playing football and you're not a pick me if you like the way you look.
i’m so glad you pointed this out! pick me is a personality/mind set not a certain aesthetic. love you always Clara💞💓
THANKS YOU FOR SAYING THESE!!! all my friends call me a pick me and I was soooo freaking angry and sad with them!! I will send them this vid now.
Omg this is so true so one of my “friends” that i am now not friends with called my best friend a pick me even though my best friend compliments,doesn’t seek for attention,and doesn’t really have that much male friends
I feel so bad and my confidence is so low this days because at school when i answer at a question and trust me i swear at my life that im not trying to get attention when the teachers ask and i answer they keep calling me a pick me i play basketball and they call me a pick me or when i ralk with a guy they call me pick me i cant handel the way they look at me and laugh im struggling
Thank you for the reassurance ❤️
I’m always really scared of my actions because I’m afraid of being seen as a pick me when in reality I’m just trying to live my life
Thank you so much for this Clara. I’ve been called a pick-me girl so much before because I’m a girl and don’t wear makeup because I like to be natural. But that’s just me, it just kinda feels right- 😭 Tysm for this video i feel way better
Same, but people at school call me trans or a boy because i look like one. I have a broad jawline that make it look that way.
People at my school make fun of me, even though I was born a girl and stayed a girl, I have never once stated that I was trans or liked girls.
Most assume I am a boy because of the way I dress. I go with hoodies because they are comfortable. I have curly short hair and I dont like sports. I like running or cross country, I am interested in makeup, unfortunately I'm not confident enough to wear it yet.
Some girls at school are trying to convince other girls at school that I'm a lesbian when I just try to be nice. 😢
Because of that bullies have been purposly telling others to stay away.
Its so embarrassing. I just want everyone to know I'm a girl and let it stay that way.
@@adanna_sunshie homophobic or super gay, i hate that we all stereotype what’s for guys or girls and what’s considered “gay” or not. take for example people getting mad over harry styles wearing a dress because he’s not “gay enough” to wear it. like, why do we have to attach that to just an article of clothing? it’s so contradictory when you say “clothes have no gender” one minute, and then go shit on people on twitter for looking too masculine or feminine.
and also, please don’t let those people get into your head.
(i feel like i’m not using the best wording while typing this so take it with a grain of salt)
This actually makes me feel better about myself for being a gamer, and wearing hoodies all the time
My best friend tried to befriend a new girl, was super sweet to her. Few days ago the new girl and some guys sat in our row for church service. Shes always loud and apparently is even when shes trying to whisper because my friend clearly heard her say "You're going to make me sit next to HER?"
That girl does not realize nobody likes her at our youth group, she a pick me and we all see it expect for two other pick me girls, the only one who really tried to be her friend she was rude to. I almost fought her.
My friend was ready to cry, she was so so hurt
That one girl on webtoon :
*COUGH * RASHTA *COUGH*SUMIN
YES I LOVE MARRY MY HUSBAND
SAME
That girl is SOOO annoying! Like, girl, just shut up already! Nobody cares!
i think you mean trashta
REALLL
we should support pick me, cuz they are like that because of being traumatized by society. they behave terribly but need support.
Good point. It can be difficult though. I want to help but it hurts my mental health trying to do that.
Traumatized is a bit of a stretch. Most pick-mes just have poor self esteem and put down other women to feel better about themselves. But for the most part I agree
@@mochaismilk it's also about injuries, but you are right
No wtf? U want girls to put down other girls and wanna support the true pick me girls?
@@mochaismilklmao…. So where do you think they developed those coping mechanisms and low self esteem? Even if they are negative they have been created through trauma. Maybe a woman abused them. Maybe women bullied them. Maybe they were always compared to other women in a negative manner. Traumatized is not a stretch. Trauma is literally the culprit.
As a women I to was and am like this and let me tell you it was a pain in the ass, people will always call be gay or a boy in school and girls did have a crush on me. That’s when people would spread rumors about me saying I would date those girls or that I was lying about my personality. I lost “friends” and it fucking sucked and I still get messed like this in middle school. It doesn’t matter if you are a tomboy, play video games or if you like the same gender none of that matters, what matters is you and that is final.
Love men and women the way they are💙
I always got jealous and tell myself that I'm bad and stuff so I'm a pick me girl?? I don't wanna be pick me girl😭
I honestly really needed this, whenever i see a vid with a pick me girl saying they dont wear makeup i feel like a pick me and i constantly try to explain to myself that im not a pick me for not wearing make up i really loved this and it helped me be more happy with being myself
Dont listen to others opinion. If you are a good person with good intentions then dont worry for a second with others opinions.
Personally, I almost never wear makeup except for theatre. Part of the reason is because I have no clue where my makeup is, but it's mostly because I don't think to or see the point of it. If I'm being totally honest, it has nothing to do with how every girl is beautiful and should be proud of their natural appearance. I am very self-conscious at times about how I look. It's because if you give me art supplies (which makeup more or less is, just for your face) I am going to want to mess around and experiment with it. Eyeshadow and lipstick you can do that with. The other stuff? Not so much.
i know a pick me girl. she starts “fake fights” with our teacher on the dumbest things and always ends up being the only one wrong. she texted my friend and called her living head ache. she also does soooo much for attention and always puts others down. she’s the worst and most annoying kid in my class.
show this to the whole internet
Good to know that I’m not a pick me 😅
I have genuine friendships with guys and girls and I give my friends and other people compliment (and mean it) all the time. I don’t tear anyone down and I’m always trying to be kind to everyone around me.
Okay but why are TOMBOYS just so sweet because most of my friends are and they are always like “HEY you mess with my girls you go through me!” And they are like the soldiers for woman
Thank you for this! When the term “pick me girl” first started gaining traction, a lot of girls that aren’t really feminine, have “boyish” interests, and have guy friends were immediately labeled as such. As one of those girls, it just seemed like we were being picked on for being different (again). You aren’t a “pick me girl” because of how you look or because of your interests or because of the gender of your friends. You’re a “pick me girl” if you put other women down so you can get male approval, plan and simple.
this woman is the inspiration this generation needs. Thank you for helping me build confidence in myself.
I actually have a best friend who is a boy in my first period class! He has the same interests as me. We have a genuine friendship!
I remember when I was called a pick me by an actual pick me. I made friends with a nice boy, and the girl joined. She said "That missy needs to leave" And brought me down, and she made herself look better in front of him. Then they called me a pick me, so did the boy because the girl made me look bad. It felt so bad, but I'm glad i dumped them. I developed androphobia ever since then and I distance myself from boys.
Tbh I don't like being friends with guys not that i dont wanna be a pick me or called one its just like that in my relgion. If a girl is a pick me we dont call her that, we call her a "hoe/bitch". Pick me's also get spanked in my relgion.
I have a lot of guy and girl friends (also in between) and I also don’t like wearing that much dresses or skirts and sometimes I just wonder if I do it for attention but this helped me, thank you :D🫶
I used to be called a pick me for doing all that but the person who called me that got karma now half the whole school doesn’t like her because of me she always wanted big attention when I had it then called me spoiled, pick me, annoying, and centre of attention now she has caused so much damage to me I’ll never be mentally fine.
My best friend is the definition of a pick me… it gets so annoying. And then one day I told her I have a crush on someone in our class… the next day she says she has a crush on him too(she obviously didn’t before I told her) and now whenever she sees him she is like “ahhh omg he is so hotttt” or “omg in English class he ✨looked✨ at me” like no the whole class was looking at u bc u we’re presenting smh…. 😭😭😭
Why is this so true? My school(like some girls in my class) NEVER says anything about it 😢
This made me feel comfortable.
A lot of people call me a pick me, except I’m a girly girl who is always in support of other girls. I love uplifting others, seeing someone become confident is something that always makes me happy. But people still call me a pick me and I don’t understand why?
Cuz people are jealous of you and your personality, probably
I think if you change your whole personality your a pick me not if you like masculine things
because people don’t know what a pick me is and they’re dumb.
@@illuminaticonfirmed1389hi o just wanted to ask if you are replying to @someone.fromsomwhere
@@HarryPotterandmaraundersThat literally makes no sense... a pick me is someone who puts down other women for sake of male validation/just to be "different"! Having a sense of style is fine and doesn't correlate unless you're putting others down!
This was a much needed video for everyone to understand that a girl can't be called a pick me for her genuine choices to not wear make-up or play video games etc. A pick me gorl is ANY girl that puts a woman down for attention
Thank you for this. I grew up with two brothers so I was used to play video games and kinda act like a tomboy. Also, being the youngest child (and pretty short) I was kinda used to being babied. So while I was in junior high, I would only hang out with the boys (they even called me dude). I did have a crush on one of them, so honestly I sometimes think I was kind of a pick me. I mean I wasn't forcing myself to act like "one of the boys", it was really natural, but still - I did take advantage of this status and thought it was cool not to be like "the other girls". Even tho I was young I'm kind of ashamed now because the boys eventually got sick of it and even rejected me at some point (we got reconciliated after tho). But I never tried to put other women down. I guess I did have stereotypes about the girls around me - but I would not try to make them look bad or anything, ESPECIALLY after I got humbled. So this video really helps me to accept my tomboy personality and realise the line between pick me and just tomboy.
Clara has made my life better
I love to see people talking and pointing out the differences between a tomboy and a pick me thank you 💖💖💖
This info has helped me, my friend often says im a pick me girl, just because i say i make friends with boys more then my own gender and when i snap and keep telling him im not one he goes like "ok geez calm down bru😒" like, sometimes it takes me down without him realizing, you may be thinking im overeacting but im someone who's sensible and i was bullied non-stop for a whole year and im still recovering from that in some parts, thats what i hate ppl and sometimes my own friends, they hurt me without realising and even in some parts think its funny until they realise its not
One time on yt i said i had a boy bestie thats kinda like my sibling at thins point cuz of how genuine and wholesome our friendship is, and someone called me a pick me. Every day i wonder "can i truly be a pick me?"
ive felt like a pick me girl for the longest time now and this has made me feel so much better
I have trouble complimenting other people. It's not because I don't want to or think they're not worthy of it, it's because I just can't. my love language just isn't words of affirmation. My love language is physical touch. I hug my friends, don't tell them their shoes are cute (sometimes I do). I do compliment people but I feel like it doesn't do anything or they don't appreciate it when I do.
This is so true for me as well- I also just have a really hard time with words when talking to people including friend(partly because I’m neurodivergent) so i rarely compliment people but I show my platonic love for them in other ways.
This was a very important message you spread throughout the video... Thank you!!💯👏🔝🤩
I used to be a pick me, because I was having a hard time getting along with my older sister and we were fighting... But now that we grew into adults, we started to appreciate and care for each other more!! We had each other and this boosted our confidence to get along with guys as well!
im so happy u made this cus im very much in between "tomboy" and "girly girl" so i do a lot of things "pick me"s do. it makes me self conscious
Yes absolutely true, ty for this!!
I honestly think ppl should be themselves after all ur living for urself and ppl who just judge ppl like that is just not good, be urself and be genuine and nice to ppl after all we are all human and we have more in common than we think. Thanks clara for this video it truly means a lot!
I actually got called "pick me" today for doing such things like being a tomboy and everything so u really made my day Clara not everything but most of the things ❤❤😊
I guarantee this channel is a safe spot for you ❤
LITERALLLLYYYYY
Like I don't wear makeup or fancy clothes on a regular basis just because I'm lazy lol, but I *love* complimenting my girlfriends on their fashion skills! and I'll let them put makeup on me in class or wtv cuz it's a fun bonding experience! and when I *do* put more effort into how I look, it's usually for a special occasion or something, and I *love* going all out then.
It's a case-by-case basis guys. I know people who wear Gucci dresses every day and I know people who's entire wardrobe consists of hoodies.
And you wanna know something?
They all *rock* their looks 😘
So if anyone's bothered to read this far... 😅
Rock your look too, boo! Wear what makes *you* feel good, and that confidence will show ♡
there was a girl in my school that kept calling me “pick me” for literally just being lesbian.
Oh my god. 😂 Imagine just existing as a lesbian and someone goes up to you and says “Oh you’re such a pick me! You just want attention.” Well not from you, Sarah.
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STORY TIME!!!
My “ Friend” is a pick me she always says rude things to me to make me down and even admitted to it once in science class. Our class had an essay due and me my friend who I’m gonna call “B” and “A” B is my bestie A is the pick me. Well we had an essay and B did amazing she got a 90 I got a 70-80 and A got a 60 she got her results before me and she said “Oh no!! I hope you did bad so that my test score can be better” I was shocked when A said that. anther time this happened I had got a new haircut and everyone loved it but Ofcourse A didn’t she kept saying how I looked “bigger” with it and that I looked like Ron weisley from Harry Potter. She always hangs out with some boy she likes even though she’s been rejected many times.
I have an older sister, and she had some friends over and they were talking to me and she kept talking about embarrassing stuff I’ve done and I just had to laugh through the pain.
People call me a pick me because I do these things. This really relives me because I was really trying to be someone Im not❤
This is so right, one time when I was in school i got into a school for people that more smart and when i said that to her she said that i cheated and make fun of me
Don’t let anyone tell u what u can and can’t do it’s not healthy❤
I’ve been called a pick me online and offline. Online, it’s me hanging out with my VR Chat friends, who are almost all male. And offline because of my interests. I wish people actually knew what a pick me was…
I used to hate drama now I love it
You are literally my idol for being this much strong against mean comments.❤Lovee youuu so much clara dear!!!(even god doesn't know how much😂😂)
Thanks! You taught me what my parents couldn't teach me. 😊
I was arguing with someone on roblox (ofc), and after she finally walked away she called me and my friend a pick me when all we were doing was actually humbling her, she then kept gossiping to us to her friend (aka dog)
Okay a lot of the time I wear masc clothes (but still wear a little makeup), play sports, and most of my friends are guys, but I still love giving compliments to other girls, wearing dresses, art and makeup, and of course have many close female friends. I would never put someone down just for what they like.
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There are two kinds of pick me:
“I’m one of the boys, ew, I don’t wear makeup”
And
“Im so short and tiny, Josh can you help me reach this shelf”
Tbh even those aren't really pick mes, they would be, however if for example the first one insult or thinks less of women who actually like dressing up. Or if the second one thinks tall girls are not desirable
The first one isn't pick me.
Imagine a 3rd type of pick me girl.
@@Hd-m99 it def is, had that fase myself
@@fruity_goblin7965 this pick me culture is another idealogy to suppress different girls and people who stand against fakeness in women relationship and lable all of these girls as pick me!
This rose especially after this Andrew Tate wave (which I personally dislike) that made many people dislike these kind of behaviors.
Bro I get called a pick me all the time bc of this like I’m a normal girl and I love wearing baggy clothes and hate wearing makeup like that’s jst me and I’m friends w guys bc I jst relate to them more and same for girls
Growing up, my family and I used to joke as a sort of compiment. I've only just realized that it doesn't work like that so I'm slowly getting better at trying to give compliments 😅