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  • @samanthascott1533
    @samanthascott1533 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +53

    There is nothing wrong with starting over Kim. My heart broke when you said you have no one here. Those are words that I have uttered myself..

  • @taneishabrown5806
    @taneishabrown5806 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +43

    This is how I prepare for your videos, I get all my house work done, ensure that my son is sleeping, shower and then sit down, eat and relax. There’s no other way to do it and of course, liking the video first as well.

    • @AliciaKim
      @AliciaKim  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Love that! 🤗

  • @mandysingh7670
    @mandysingh7670 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +31

    Hi Kim, I have been following you for a long time, seldom comment. But this post just hit home for me. It took me; after 43 years of marriage to find myself. I was in a very controlling marriage. Girl I am so at peace, as we have been separated 9years now. I love my space & current living status….single & happy. I won’t change this for anything or anyone right now. Your post is very interesting, you are a great content creator, love your videos, keep it up hon, I will always be a constant supporter. Don’t move if you can help it, it doesn’t matter where you go, the memories, good or bad will always be with you. You have done an awesome job with your current living space, I love ur choice of all you have done to make ur apartment look so homey & comfortable. Stay safe, be happy sweet Kim & here’s wishing all that ur heart desires. Love 💕 & blessings

  • @marviav3071
    @marviav3071 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +75

    A man entering a relationship must be a provider. It is your job. However, the female can also help with bills, etc, to make sure the home runs ok. 50/50 no, shouldn't be the standard of the relationship.

  • @cocomint26
    @cocomint26 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +50

    A man’s job is to protect, provide, and problem solve. We as women need to confidently say to men we are not doing 50/50 as a non-negotiable. If a man makes less money then he needs to calculate which bills he is paying in full AND budget to pay for date nights AND do all the handy work things AND put gas in the car, etc. Men need to do their role!

    • @nikkiwowww9299
      @nikkiwowww9299 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      And these men want go 50/50 on bills and the woman do all the housework. That means me a put out more and that nah go work

    • @cocomint26
      @cocomint26 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@nikkiwowww9299 exactly it’s unfair!!!

    • @justbeingoctavia
      @justbeingoctavia 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@nikkiwowww9299when you say it like that!

    • @tahliah6691
      @tahliah6691 วันที่ผ่านมา

      If you love someone you help each other… don’t take advantage of a man or woman….a relationship is about oneness….

    • @nikkiwowww9299
      @nikkiwowww9299 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@tahliah6691 how is making a man handle his role and responsibilities taking advantage? That’s why men no longer act like men because some women won’t make them be men

  • @mykilaughs5768
    @mykilaughs5768 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    You are amazing! You are wise beyond your years! I am particularly blown away by your unruffled ,very authentic demeanor. Your decision to leave things in the hands of the Lord is so admirable. Do just that Kim-angels are watching over you! From one Jamaican to the next-you mek me feel good! You tallawa! You are unstoppable! You go Kim!

  • @user-fd6jx6rw2y
    @user-fd6jx6rw2y 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    I enjoy my own company. I love being at home and cooking and eating with my small family.

  • @sonyabarnes3398
    @sonyabarnes3398 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Silent cousin here Kim!. Always enjoy your vlogs but this one got me writing. Continue to inspire others even in your trials and remember the will of God will never take you where his grace cannot keep you.....go forth God got you, your path is set for greatness. I enjoyed the make up lesson if only i had the skills....Much love x

  • @Sheheart3
    @Sheheart3 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Such wisdom in pinpointing life issues and keeping going in spite of what life brings is amazing and could not be acquired without going through things in life,it’s growth and maturity. You are on it. Thanks for sharing 😊

  • @lindawallace3461
    @lindawallace3461 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    You truly evolving into a beautiful person with grace and humbleness 🙏❤️

  • @Marstoinfinity
    @Marstoinfinity 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    50/50 is a no go. Also I never discussed that with my husband in the beginning, it was just natural, like a woman following their role, just same as man follows his

    • @roshham5129
      @roshham5129 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      50/50 a room mate business, a man should be a provider, I prefer to be alone if that’s the case.

    • @mints5420
      @mints5420 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Exactly, 50/50 is you paying and doing for yourself, so you may as well stay by yourself.

    • @shannaspiritualoasisgrant5252
      @shannaspiritualoasisgrant5252 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      This is it girl

  • @jillianwilloughby8956
    @jillianwilloughby8956 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Kim I also believe so much that self love is the hardest 😢I always struggle with my many imperfections.

  • @alib180
    @alib180 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    I always want to see you in person just to give you a hug & tell you how much I enjoy your videos ❤

  • @NicholeDunkley
    @NicholeDunkley 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I enjoy being by myself cooking new recipes and no man to piss me off

  • @right7082
    @right7082 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Kim, I love how intelligent you are. Great video.❤

  • @pattreac3429
    @pattreac3429 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    Blessings ❤🙏. Your setbacks are for Strength and to pave the path for new. Where there's New Wine there's new freedom.

  • @mandaskitchen91
    @mandaskitchen91 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Kim i enjoyed this chit chat and my heart melts when u say u have no one there..just know that the big up crew will always be here with u❤

  • @michellemcintosh9219
    @michellemcintosh9219 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    You go girl let nothing stop you , you are still young children can come later on in your life. Get your footing continue to be strong and trust God 💯 he got your back ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @lyndaclarke9279
    @lyndaclarke9279 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I agree with u 💯 Kim I don't believe in the 50/50 I'm on your side the way u explained it.

  • @GenuinelyMarie
    @GenuinelyMarie 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Good to see you, Kim. Im so glad that you're doing so much better. Keep moving forward. God Bless!!❤

  • @ky8084
    @ky8084 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Well said Kim...very valid points shared with us .Thank you and continue to be YOU.

  • @camillenorris8151
    @camillenorris8151 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I totally enjoy this video kim. Continue to shine queen. Nuff love!🙏🏾❤️

  • @erinbarrow4819
    @erinbarrow4819 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Blessings kim you're looking amazing don't let no one steal your joy

  • @nyashawilliams4668
    @nyashawilliams4668 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

    You look fresh and stress free single life is more healthier more wild no lie.

    • @AliciaKim
      @AliciaKim  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Thank you!

    • @milandbennett3465
      @milandbennett3465 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Ikr...she looks so much better physically

  • @libertadnybiasanchez-diaz7221
    @libertadnybiasanchez-diaz7221 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    such a powerful vd, thank you for sharing your personal stuff, truly an inspiration, I am thankful I found this channel

  • @delvorinebowman4734
    @delvorinebowman4734 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Kim, I really enjoyed this video. Very inspiring words of encouragement. Being in a relationship for some years and you and your partner break up is very hard. You just need to accept the fact, find yourself and move on. It also makes you wiser.

  • @genuinetoya
    @genuinetoya 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Kim, you are glowing ✨️ no matter what continue to hold up your head and be strong😍 God is with you❤

    • @AliciaKim
      @AliciaKim  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Thank you!!

  • @Boldnbeauty40
    @Boldnbeauty40 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Kim I really enjoyed this video! Thanks for being so transparent ❤ Love you girl , may God continue to bless you !! Big up ! Big up 🎉

  • @happyphillylove8759
    @happyphillylove8759 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You're looking rejuvenated. You're wise beyond your years .. As it relates to sharing the bills a discussion needs to have before payment time .. my husband and I do well together, what he lacks I got and what I lacks he got .. Kim , greatness awaits you ❤❤

  • @mangoseedfaith5430
    @mangoseedfaith5430 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I really enjoyed this video. Very awesome and uplifting words of encouragement. Especially the part about loving and accepting yourself. Thanks for always sharing even in times when its tough. I hope u feel the prayers of the big up grew. I truly do pray for you. God has already TURNED IT AROUND FOR YOU❤❤

  • @SylviaH62
    @SylviaH62 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Love the makeup! Well done! Continue to take care of yourself with Gods help.

  • @nadinerutherford7931
    @nadinerutherford7931 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    U are such a strong woman!!!!
    U are not alone with the starting over my dear.

  • @KaydeanChannel
    @KaydeanChannel 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Hey Kim! Happy to get this chit chat video. Enjoy watching your videos alot sis!

  • @delvorinebowman4734
    @delvorinebowman4734 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Kim, thanks for this inspiring and informative video. Thanks for the tips ❤❤❤

  • @robertaphillip2084
    @robertaphillip2084 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Alicia I must say that you have the skills of a therapist! So much of what you said resonated with me! Thanks for reminding us to love ourselves! Blessings ❤❤❤❤❤ keep doing you!

  • @IamSash
    @IamSash 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’m so proud of you & I love how peace looks on you ♥️

  • @kayon5434
    @kayon5434 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I really appreciate you're videos kim. Continue doing you

  • @originalenglish6738
    @originalenglish6738 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow what a wonderful segment you need to give yourself more credit you have got it together keep doing you God has got you....looking forward to your videos

  • @SetApartToPray
    @SetApartToPray 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Brilliant words of wisdom, Alecia!

  • @nataliemorgan-chambers8818
    @nataliemorgan-chambers8818 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hey Kim happy to see you in this mindset ànd spirit. Love you girl God got you. Sending you love and good wishes❤❤❤❤

  • @SharonWilliams-bm5qh
    @SharonWilliams-bm5qh 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Kim you’re so bless, keep taking care of yourself. Blessings and keep focusing on God.

  • @mitchellmiller6035
    @mitchellmiller6035 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hey Kim nice hearing your thoughts you are so well spoken 🙏🏾❤ keep on doing the do❤

  • @Nakiyta223
    @Nakiyta223 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I love the lip combo

  • @jacquelineboykins602
    @jacquelineboykins602 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Keep doing the good work hon..you're so encouraging.

  • @pamelathomas6502
    @pamelathomas6502 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Girl , well said, done. Continue being yourself, loving yourself and taking care of yourself.❤

  • @cherryhenry4111
    @cherryhenry4111 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Looking good Kim.

  • @whitneygiddings6669
    @whitneygiddings6669 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I enjoyed this video the most! Thanks Kim❤

  • @mekaparchment9983
    @mekaparchment9983 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love how u answer your questions ❤❤❤

  • @RR-yi8qg
    @RR-yi8qg 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    21:13 this is it! I find that walking has helped tremendously with my fitness lifestyle. I was working out since 2020 and in the latter part of last year and earlier this year, I just could not find it in me to do the same thing everyday again. I realize that I like variety so I’ve been going on walks, doing Pilates, HIIT classes etc. just switching it up and breaking routine

  • @JacquelineStewart-zq4qc
    @JacquelineStewart-zq4qc 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Kim you can be a motivational speaker❤

  • @raquelf3627
    @raquelf3627 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    You are doing great Kim. Love your story. I love Florida and no family here, I move here because there is a lot do here, beach’s, restaurants, warm weather, cruise port, international airport, quick trip to Jamaica. I see that you were seeking church you can try New Life Fellowship center in Sunrise. Love your vlog

  • @Tamara_YT
    @Tamara_YT วันที่ผ่านมา

    The self love section is real, and yes it is very hard. Come to Orlando girl! Here by myself as well.

  • @shaunawalters3340
    @shaunawalters3340 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Loved your video, very informative and encouraging..love make-up ❤

  • @sashagayegray4225
    @sashagayegray4225 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Super intelligent Kim

  • @donalynappleton9427
    @donalynappleton9427 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Looking nice as always Kim, I love you so much.❤❤

  • @ingareid8680
    @ingareid8680 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Happy Monday and New Month's Blessings Kim and the Big up crew❤ Big up, Big up.

  • @barbarahylton1869
    @barbarahylton1869 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Well said Kim You will be fine

  • @andricamills7702
    @andricamills7702 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Excited for this one Kim 🎉❤, really wanted to ask you to do a weight loss vid so I'm glad to see it here❤❤❤

  • @joywallace6514
    @joywallace6514 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Kim you are so smart answering the questions .No one is perfect just keep taking care of your health you are going to be fine ♥️♥️

  • @audreyscookingandlifestyle7874
    @audreyscookingandlifestyle7874 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Kim, i love this video so much. This is what i am trying to do. I gave myself to my husband and kids and forgot about me and what i love, i am taking care of me now and forever.

  • @welcome8791
    @welcome8791 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love this vlog Kim, looking like sweet 16. God is able 🙏🏾💕

  • @jillianwilloughby8956
    @jillianwilloughby8956 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I agree with your thoughts on the 50 ×50 share in a relationship . I will contribute but expect the man to shoulder most of the responsibilities 😊

  • @deanamelvin1936
    @deanamelvin1936 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Everything happen for a reason some of the Q & A answers I can hear you choking up a little not too much I know there’s much more to come from you. ❤❤❤❤

  • @hazelmiles2363
    @hazelmiles2363 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Hi Kim always a pleasure watching your video and i do enjoy it am 64 and that 50 /50 thing not going to work with mi just like watching you
    Nuff blessings and love ❤️ 😍 💖 to you

    • @AliciaKim
      @AliciaKim  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      🤣🤗

  • @KarenWilson-bk4nr
    @KarenWilson-bk4nr วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are inspiring!

  • @jenniferhaynes8625
    @jenniferhaynes8625 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Always love seeing you❤

    • @AliciaKim
      @AliciaKim  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Big upppp

  • @altheadehaney5362
    @altheadehaney5362 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Baby girl I’m here like a proud aunty, I love your growth, I love your journey, I love the person that you’re becoming and I’m so, so proud of you. Love you 😘.

  • @gisellelittle5898
    @gisellelittle5898 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bless up kim , nice to see u .. we just had a hurricane passing Trinidad 🇹🇹

  • @mscarlenek
    @mscarlenek 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This was a therapy session. 🎉Gwaan do di do @Alicia Kim

  • @nyashawilliams4668
    @nyashawilliams4668 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Amen I like that getting more closer to god yes sister Alicia Kim.

    • @AliciaKim
      @AliciaKim  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yess

  • @faithevans5428
    @faithevans5428 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Kim I really enjoyed this Episode. I am so very proud of you. God bless you my dear.

  • @mureenporter9981
    @mureenporter9981 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Keep the faith, you look well.Take it easy in deciding your next move.Pray i wish you well.

  • @IngaSTV
    @IngaSTV 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love the Q&A

  • @sharonp9462
    @sharonp9462 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Here Kim , happy to see you❤

  • @marionrobinson2014
    @marionrobinson2014 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Continue to keep your head high you are beautiful indeed

  • @Bubbles-fw2ps
    @Bubbles-fw2ps 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Kim, I agree with you on the 50/50 .Also “ Time heals all wounds” and “there is a time and season for everything “ I am glad to see you rising above your situation, and loving yourself. You are worth nothing but the best…Blessings , ❤️

  • @AngelaBrown-zo1by
    @AngelaBrown-zo1by 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Kim what ever u go thrue God is with u all the way🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

  • @beverlyrose4517
    @beverlyrose4517 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Blessing kim

  • @ceeforyourself
    @ceeforyourself 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love listening to you because somehow you always speak life into me in some small or major way. Letting go is the key lesson I've learnt too recently! I pray for you all the time love 😘 also, if you were starting YT NOW what would you do?

  • @leoniefearon2501
    @leoniefearon2501 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Very pretty intelligent and positive kim❤

  • @denisedean2446
    @denisedean2446 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are young and have a bright future. Enjoy getting to know yourself.

  • @godsgifttoman5769
    @godsgifttoman5769 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love this girl so much ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @priscillaanderson6059
    @priscillaanderson6059 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Kim I kw you dnt really give me a tumb up but do not be afraid to start over you are young just 34 so dnt be afraid to started over fear is the problem in human being life if you need to started over go ahead and do so

  • @aziboo
    @aziboo 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Good job with the weight loss Kim

  • @user-kp7fc8ne2y
    @user-kp7fc8ne2y 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Kim have found the peace that God gives 🎉🎉🎉🎉so happy for you

  • @qudetteclarke8644
    @qudetteclarke8644 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks for the motivation Kim
    I'm different

  • @kingdomtalkwithmichelle3356
    @kingdomtalkwithmichelle3356 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Keep shining Queen ❤❤❤❤You are loved .

  • @shellyanne7
    @shellyanne7 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey Kim, good to see you Boo, enjoyed this GRWM chitchat, you are looking Gargeous and makeup look so pretty ❤❤

  • @jenf9272
    @jenf9272 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I have enjoyed this Q&A very much Kim. Keep loving and caring for yourself girl. You are beautiful. 💝🥳🥳🥳

  • @user-kj6gu8hm3s
    @user-kj6gu8hm3s 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey kim right deh suh love u the maturity is awesome .We praying for each othet im so happy and proud of u god love us all stay bless one love be safe. ❤

  • @charmainepowell-lynch5463
    @charmainepowell-lynch5463 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love you 💕 Kim you motivate me so much.i think I need to learn to do my makeup you stay bless 😊

  • @ChrissyM5585
    @ChrissyM5585 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Kim darling!!!! Love yuh mi girl❤❤❤

  • @serenity2977
    @serenity2977 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Enjoyed the chat💕

  • @hendriettadiko6452
    @hendriettadiko6452 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love you beautiful lady ❤ May God continue to bless and protect you 💕🙏 You are awesome honey 🇿🇦

  • @sherriannjordan169
    @sherriannjordan169 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Blessings Kim ❤

  • @jacquelineboykins602
    @jacquelineboykins602 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love you Kim

  • @Crissyjswayvlogs
    @Crissyjswayvlogs 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Enjoyed this video❤

  • @Softgirlera24
    @Softgirlera24 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love u girl❤ you have always had a special place in my heart❤ This is only a phase in life. Learn all you can as painful as the lessons are. You will get thru it

  • @Altheauniquely
    @Altheauniquely วันที่ผ่านมา

    Self love ❤

  • @clairehall8518
    @clairehall8518 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You are doing well carry on as you are, for meeting people yes like the person said part time job, or voluntary work with elderly people. Florida is a lonely place if planning to move check out parts of the USA that is slightly more popular with people coming out more. Not sure if your mom works but if not perhaps she could come up and spend a few weeks with you and you go shopping together, places, do mother and daughter things, take your time and do what you are doing. Think one step at a time take it day by day, no rush, five years is a bit too far ahead. Think long and hard.