Was It Worth It? The Woman In Me | Britney Spears Memoir

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  • @andreac4757
    @andreac4757 ปีที่แล้ว +305

    For more context, the book was originally over 400 pages and it was reported Justin's lawyers as well as other people mentioned had a hand in it. The shorter page count was later updated in Amazon. There's a LOT of horrible crimes done to her that have been reported throughout the years not mentioned in this book. This is almost a safe telling of her story for the masses because the people behind the conservatorship are VERY powerful in Hollywood.

    • @RunThroughGridLock
      @RunThroughGridLock 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      That explains a lot, definitely feel a second volume in the future when those subjects can be spoken about in more depth.

    • @bryantrujillo3155
      @bryantrujillo3155 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Yea and I feel like once the people who abused her get convicted she will then maybe be able to tell her whole story.

    • @nicolii7321
      @nicolii7321 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I hope before Brittany dies she tells us absolutely everything, without the fear of being sued.

    • @andreac4757
      @andreac4757 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      @@RunThroughGridLockyou see how news outlets are covering everything from the book and naming everyone she named EXCEPT the people behind her abuse?

    • @bookaholicgameaholicvlogah4191
      @bookaholicgameaholicvlogah4191 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How do you know this ?

  • @notrixamoris3318
    @notrixamoris3318 ปีที่แล้ว +420

    Yeah there is a reason you do not make you kids the bread winner at age 10...seriously her parents really offended me.

    • @billyalarie929
      @billyalarie929 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Not to tone police but “Offense” is the first sentence to the prologue of the depth of feelings this should be giving people. These people are DISGUSTING. The way Britney was treated is appalling.

    • @notrixamoris3318
      @notrixamoris3318 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      ​@@billyalarie929 its beyond disgusting their parents really offended my core. Seriously the parents tried to make another cash cow but the young sister got knocked up so its all on britney to feed her whole family...my lord and the mother have the audacity to make a book about parenting. So happy when that book got pulled..

    • @watcherofwatchers
      @watcherofwatchers ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Of all the takeaways, that one is rather far down my list.

    • @unprocessed_life
      @unprocessed_life 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      tis a southern thing.

  • @Iamso4u
    @Iamso4u ปีที่แล้ว +295

    The “I’m Britney Spears Now” line from her father put a pit in my stomach. I used to think maybe her family was just doing the best they could, but if even half of what she’s written is true, I can understand how hurtful it all was and why she wants to distance herself from them. It was a good read; I just wish it was a little longer. I’m glad though she got to say her piece.

    • @heavenshaffer
      @heavenshaffer ปีที่แล้ว +15

      That line was so disturbing, and scary.

    • @unprocessed_life
      @unprocessed_life 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      um someone doing the best they could dont use lines like that. and her sister called her crazy. her sister, the girl who once grabbed a KNIFE in a sandwich shop and. threatened the employee. btw, TMZ called Jamielynn badass for that. lol.
      fuck Britneys family

    • @yulianstarr
      @yulianstarr 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      She said she’s writing a second volume so who knows. There’s probably a lot she can’t say out of fear of powerful people in the industry. When Michael Jackson spoke out about how he was going to own half of Sony Records after finishing his last tour and album under his contract, he “died” a year later… to me that was very suspicious.

    • @alyssajones4368
      @alyssajones4368 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@yulianstarrExactly. Same with Prince too.

  • @igormehello
    @igormehello ปีที่แล้ว +420

    What really schocked me is when she talked about how a lot of male celebs go on to become addicts, criminals and no one really tries to do anything nor take anything away from them. They hurt themselves and others and live without consequences. Meanwhile she lost her kids, right to vote, drive, get married, control her finances, was sterialized, forced to take medication that pretty much made her numb the entire day. So so sad. But also a perfect example of how the patriarchy works.

    • @andreac4757
      @andreac4757 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      It's so sad

    • @pnjmary3489
      @pnjmary3489 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      it wasn't just sad, it was evil!

    • @DerekMieles-k9q
      @DerekMieles-k9q 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Patriarchy? Smh No that’s just how evil works. They did the same thing to Elvis Presley until his death. Many Biographies written about his life from
      Different people’s perspective show he was basically a slave and lived no different from what Britney describes her life under the conservatorship. Music industry and Hollywood are just disgusting industries as a whole.

    • @brosie_odonnell_mcbride6926
      @brosie_odonnell_mcbride6926 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’re a complete moron. The fact that she had a conservatorship means she was LOVED while the men were left to die. Are you really making the case that because she’s alive and Chris Farley is dead, he’s somehow MORE privileged than her? This woman was so loved that the people around her knew she needed to be protected or else she would blow through from her millions, overdose, or humiliate herself even more than she already did. The fact that she was protected from all that and the men were left to die proves that this was reverse sexism. I bet Chris Farleys family wakes up and wished every day that he had a conservatorship, maybe then he’d still be alive.

    • @StarryNightxx
      @StarryNightxx 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Insane to think about. Looking at Kanye for instance as comparison it really shows the drastic difference. He's been willingly off his meds and nobody has intervened or done anything about that lol.

  • @itsmedreeeam
    @itsmedreeeam ปีที่แล้ว +226

    For people who like audiobooks, it's read by the actress Michelle WIlliams and she did a phenomenal job (she'll probably win a Grammy for it).

    • @kaiju_k5042
      @kaiju_k5042 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Im listening to the audiobook right now on Scribd and it's very good, I didn't realize it was THAT Michelle Williams until yesterday because she sounds so much like Britney reading the story haha!

    • @tsumetaiii934
      @tsumetaiii934 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I hope she does win a Grammy for her narration. "Aww yeah, Fo shiz fo shiz" can't be beaten

    • @kaiju_k5042
      @kaiju_k5042 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@tsumetaiii934 Haha that was so well done, had me laughing.

    • @nelsiegeografo9185
      @nelsiegeografo9185 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I'm in it rght now. I always forget it's Michelle Williams narrating because she emulated Britney's voice flawlessly.

    • @user-yy9bc7sn5v
      @user-yy9bc7sn5v 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ❤❤

  • @Thegirlnamedsomthing
    @Thegirlnamedsomthing ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Hearing about this story always makes me want to cry. The fact that adult, mentally able people can have their agency and free will stripped away by someone legally. It's no less than modern slavery. When a world famous superstar struggled so much to break free from a conservatorship, consider a laymen being abused in the same way and their chance of escape.

  • @joshquests
    @joshquests 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    im surprised by how many themes this book has tackled: mental health, fame, greed, family, the double standards, young love, etc. def one of the best books i've read this year. there are lots of gut wrenching moments that made my heart ached for her and i got almost teary eyed. the fact that its real life made it even more devastating, shes had a horrifying life and makes u think if the heavy price of fame is even that worth it. people around her be taken advantage of her. i cannot believe how strong she is, i dont know if i can be that strong. im glad she didnt give up or thought about suicide as a way out. im glad shes free and happy now.

  • @shefalid2197
    @shefalid2197 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    Does anyone remember the music video Justin Timberlake made, with the main girl looking exactly like Britney and HEAVILY implying she was cheating and he was an innocent victim? People grabbed on to that narrative and used it to feel ok to treat her dismissively and like garbage. Nobody looked out for her, and I can’t imagine a PR team around a star as big as Britney letting that happen now.

    • @kc87557
      @kc87557 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Cry me a river - Justin Timberlake. That’s the song

    • @shanareilly6649
      @shanareilly6649 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah because I'm old enough. I was a teenager when this was going down. It's so sad to know what was really happening..... jt is a rotten little brat. 10 years later he put out another song related to it. "What goes around comes back around" and I was like bro that was a decade ago you're really beating a dead horse" that's what was really fishy to me when I knew nothing.

    • @mixanderfigueroa3999
      @mixanderfigueroa3999 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Finally, someone here who gets it. At this point, it really does not matter who cheated first. Justin is NO victim and he himself had a record of cheating before this even happened. Justin did what he did out of pure spite and to make himself look innocent in the process. Britney would never do what he did. Obviously Britney herself isn’t perfect. But she would never cross that line. I still can’t forgive Justin because to this day he doesn’t seem truly remorseful for anything he’s done, to both her and Janet. He has NO SHAME. It would be different if they had just broken up. He took it to another level.

  • @A78cts23
    @A78cts23 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    I'd truly lose my mind if my children were taken from me and my alcoholic piece of sh*t father was in charge of my entire life. I hope this book is part of her continued healing

    • @brosie_odonnell_mcbride6926
      @brosie_odonnell_mcbride6926 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank god you’re not a severely mentally ill Crystal meth addict! Because that’s who get their kids takes away

  • @jkpiowa
    @jkpiowa ปีที่แล้ว +139

    I'm excited to read this, mostly because Britney was such a prominent figure during my adolescence. I also love that we have these women (Britney, Pamela Anderson, etc.) that were exploited during the 90s/2000s that are taking back the narrative and taking back their voice.

    • @stilgen16
      @stilgen16 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Also Jennette McCurdy

    • @jkpiowa
      @jkpiowa ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@stilgen16 Yes! Her memoir was also amazing.

    • @radikl_ed
      @radikl_ed 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@jkpiowa and she actually wrote it too

  • @riverAmazonNZ
    @riverAmazonNZ 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    There’s a clip from a documentary (during the conservatorship, before the Free Britney movement I think) where the interviewer asks Britney, “do you think you’ll still be doing this when you’re 40, 50?”
    And in the second before she answers, in her eyes there is a look of desperation or even horror at the thought of the years and years ahead of her. But she smiles weakly and says, “I hope so. But maybe just doing nothing, that would be good too.”

    • @Hallmark44
      @Hallmark44 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I just really worry about her. I have strong intuition about these things, and I REALLY hope to be wrong. I just want her to live a long, happy, stress-free life (her boys as well.)

  • @oana-mariauliu5828
    @oana-mariauliu5828 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    I really don't understand why everyone thought she was losing it because she shaved her head. It's just a thing that feels liberating and she needed it. She just needed acknowledging she was her own person.

    • @TheEowyn22
      @TheEowyn22 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She didn’t just shave her head. She went into a rage and attacked with an umbrella. Now I can’t imagine the constant attention from paparazzi, and believe I would go a bit bonkers, too. But anyone who follows her insta can see she is not really well. She doesn’t seem to have ever really gotten the help she’s needed.

    • @portgasdann3389
      @portgasdann3389 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      View of papz and Hollywood was so different back then ig as well as view on mental health

    • @doxasophosmoros
      @doxasophosmoros 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Britney shaved her head to avoid a drug test. She was a meth addict read the court documents.

    • @doxasophosmoros
      @doxasophosmoros 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @roxybarone she was not allowed BECAUSE she abused them. Are you that niave to not understand how the court system works? Lol... why have no other famous rich Female singers have their kids taken away..? Cause Britney is insane. There's no conspiracy. She's washed up and makes no money for anyone. She's not worth any kind of "conspiracy" when she's worthless.. the drug addiction to speed made her worthless and unable to work with. Britney is a drug addict. She was not trafficked she was put under supervision because she's a meth head abd has Paranoid psychosis. After she tried to drown her son in the bath tub and failed a drug test she lost custody abd was NEEDED to be helped. She's not a reliable narrator BECAUSE SHE HAS DELUSIONS. DER. she also lies for manipulative gain, as is typical with narcissists like her. “Defendant Spears immediately ran back towards her house screaming ‘Preston,’” the document revealed. “She entered the residence through two French doors on the north side. Plaintiff exited the pool house, hearing Sean Preston screaming in terror and pain, and saw Defendant Spears at least twice savagely hitting the small child with Plaintiff’s belt. Plaintiff was shocked, horrified and deeply disturbed by the incident.”
      -- FACTS.
      Plus heres 4 different articles.. Tony barreto an ex bodyguard (not the one she assaulted) saw her frequently doing coke.
      The pop star is at the Promises Malibu drug and alcohol rehabilitation center in Southern California, battling an undisclosed addiction. Her ex, Kevin Federline, reportedly visited her on the weekend with their young sons.
      Here's another article..
      According to the newspaper, Alexander claims he once had a drug-fueled threesome with Spears and a female dancer and that he had trouble keeping up with her drug use. He says Spears almost had a fatal overdose on pure ecstasy, while they partied in a Las Vegas nightclub.
      "We used ecstasy at night to party and cocaine during the day to stay awake," Alexander said. "Then we would take downers like Valium or Vicodin to come down and rest … She definitely had a problem with drugs when we were together and that was three years ago."
      Alexander says things got scary when the singer ended up passed out in a shower, lifeless. I took her into the bathroom and threw her in the shower," he said. "She was unconscious. She tripped and fell. I was trying to hold her up and speak to her. She wasn't moving … I remember looking down at her all crumpled in the tub with the water coming down. She looked so white and lifeless. I thought she was dead
      .'"Britney Spears' first husband says he witnessed the singer abusing cocaine and nearly overdosing on ecstasy three years ago, according to excerpts of an interview printed in the New York Daily.
      Video taken shortly before Spears checked into rehab for a third time is an example of how the pop star has been trapped in a downward spiral.
      Another article from 2011...
      William Spears also told Britain's The Sun newspaper she went “buck-wild” when she turned 18, snorting cocaine on her birthday.
      “She has tried just about everything - cocaine, crystal meth, ecstasy," he added.
      “I’m not just a family friend or someone who claims to know them. I was there every day, working with them. I have seen all the terrible things happen.”
      He revealed Britney began smoking marijuana at age 14 - but "it got worse when she got famous and she found out that people would do what she wanted them to".
      “She is a ruthless little thing, make no mistake. Nobody controls her. She bosses everyone around her," he said.
      He continued: “The drugs and the alcohol helped her cope with the pressure - helped her to escape from reality.
      “We thought maybe getting married and having kids would help her settle down but it was quite the opposite.”
      William believes Britney's demise was inevitable.
      “Britney is in an unstable state of mind now and there is nothing anyone can do about it. She is not listening to anybody," he said.
      “She has fired all the people around her who cared because she simply doesn’t want people to tell her to stop doing the things she is doing.
      “If people think she has reached the bottom, they are very wrong. Suicide is the bottom line for Britney.”
      Britney Spears didn’t shave her head in a fit of rage - she did it so there would be no way to trace her drug use, a lawyer for her former manager claimed in court.
      Joseph Schleimer opened Sam Lutfi’s libel case against Spears’ parents and conservators by showing dramatic photos of the pop superstar with a shaved head and striking an SUV with an umbrella.
      Schleimer suggested to the LA jury that Spears was afraid a judge would order a test of her hair.
      If drugs were found, the judge could take away her two sons and give custody to ex-husband Kevin Federline.
      Schleimer claimed Lutfi tried to save the meth-addled Spears from a mental breakdown but lost control - and was blamed for her being hospitalized and placed under a court-ordered conservator.
      “My client was made a scapegoat for drug abuse and erratic behavior of Britney Spears,” Schleimer said in his opening remarks Thursday.
      she was also sued for harrasment and lost in 2011: "Flores is suing Spears's conservators, her father, Jamie Spears, and her lawyer, Andrew Wallet, for an unspecified amount for "psychological damage, anxiety, depression and insomnia" Flores suffered because of "repeated unwanted sexual advances" by Spears.
      In the original complaint filed last September and obtained by TMZ, Flores, who was often assigned to Spears' home, claims the singer repeatedly and intentionally exposed herself in front of him. On one occasion, he alleges, Spears, wearing a white lace see-through dress, dropped her cigarette lighter on the floor, bent over to get it and "thereby exposed her uncovered genitals." Flores claims he felt "shock and disgust."
      On another occasion, Flores says he entered Spears bedroom and found her "completely nude." After an awkward silence in which Spears stood naked in front of Flores, he asked her if she needed anything and she replied two bottles of 7 Up, the lawsuit reads.
      Flores alleges that the pop star engaged in several sexual acts, including intercourse, in front of him. Moreover, he claims that Spears was "loudly having sexual intercourse" while her two young sons, Jayden and Sean, were in the same hotel suite.

    • @hellokittycutie2003
      @hellokittycutie2003 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      @@TheEowyn22Yet if you read the book she literally explains why she uses ig the way she does. And yea if folks think you’re crazy no matter what you do…fuck it, be weird and heal! It’s particularly gross to say she’s not well because her behavior doesn’t align with what you find normal especially after someone literally had their agency stolen by being called crazy.

  • @katemoon1594
    @katemoon1594 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I remember one of my favorite songs of Britney's growing up was *"Lucky."* It was a song I would sing to myself when I felt lonely & ignored. I'm so sad to think of it now hearing what she has gone through. I am so glad she finally has her freedom. 🌟

    • @jfqzx
      @jfqzx ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same, that song was relatable when I felt alone.

  • @Vera_wondergirl
    @Vera_wondergirl ปีที่แล้ว +98

    Thank you for tactful and neutral review of this book. Britney is undoubtedly a victim of an industry. I hope she will find peace and happiness

    • @karlc2869
      @karlc2869 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don't worry, she will. I mean, LiLo and Paris got happiness again. Britney will too.

  • @mixanderfigueroa3999
    @mixanderfigueroa3999 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’m glad I found this video because I’m tired of seeing people online attacking this poor woman just for sharing her full story with this book. Britney herself even said she isn’t trying to piss anyone off and she just wants people to know the truth about what she’s been through. Any criticism the people who exploited and mistreated her are getting, it’s well-deserved. Obviously Britney is not a perfect woman but she never deserved any of this. I know there’s thousands of people going through way worse in this world, but the way she was treated was unacceptable. All she wants is for people to know the truth about everything. She deserves to be heard and not be criticized for it.

  • @deannascorner8112
    @deannascorner8112 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I found it enjoyable and as you said very raw. I listened to the audiobook (Michelle Williams does a phenomenal job) and then I went out and bought a hard copy. I’m reading it again to see anything I may have missed when listening. I’m surprised there weren’t any pictures in the book, but then with how much she’s been under a microscope I don’t blame her for not adding any. I cried when I heard about her fighting to see her babies and feeling so alone and full of grief. The head shaving was infamous and was plastered all over magazine covers and I’m ashamed to say as at that time I ate it all up. I’m glad she has a voice after 13 years of being silenced. I couldn’t imagine surviving that - she has a strength I’m in awe of. I hope she finds peace and joy in her life and love for herself.

  • @oliwai1
    @oliwai1 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Just finished it 5 minutes ago. As a big Britney fan and being knowledgeable in Free Britney movement this book still shook me to the core

  • @Wouter_K
    @Wouter_K ปีที่แล้ว +50

    OMG, I almost cried from just the general story beats you gave. What a horrible story this is. Thanks for bringing attention to it.

  • @CrowMacnas
    @CrowMacnas ปีที่แล้ว +26

    "A man named Kevin"

    • @LilyIglesias
      @LilyIglesias 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Some ppl (me included) call him "K-fungus"

  • @jackwalters3928
    @jackwalters3928 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Her dad sounds like some kind of Devil. And then you still have people to this day saying that he was right and she deserved it all.

  • @SAVYWRITESBOOKS
    @SAVYWRITESBOOKS ปีที่แล้ว +46

    your analysis, especially of the beginning of the book, is spot on. it was cool to hear a neutral review. britney's dad needs to be in prison.

    • @wild_gypsy_rose
      @wild_gypsy_rose ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He is dying right now, so there is no need for prison. Karma has come.

  • @angelasrd6706
    @angelasrd6706 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I haven't read the book yet. But back when the Free Britney movement was getting strong, I had invested many hours researching the legality of the situation. It is astounding that something like this can happen to someone, but it's even more frightening to realise that if someone like her that's so famous and so influencial can be taken advantage by the legal system due to her mental illness, just what the hell happens to regular people that need help? Also her father is a horrible horrible human being.

  • @schizoidahole
    @schizoidahole ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Okay, I was thinking about reading it, now I’m definitely reading it. I’m so happy Britney is in a better place in her life now.

  • @Fred2303
    @Fred2303 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I couldn't put the book down because I found it really interesting to learn about the story from her point of view. Before I read the book I only knew what the media made out of it back then.
    Also, I love how much self-reflection is in this book. You can really tell that she is trying to work through her trauma and heal.

  • @thebookfiend
    @thebookfiend 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    "He's a musician too" is the kindest possible way to describe Kevin federline

  • @thelitnerd
    @thelitnerd 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This was really cool to see someone who was really neutral react to this book and sympathize with her struggles. Britney is such a sweetheart.

  • @xtieburn
    @xtieburn ปีที่แล้ว +43

    The depressing thing about this outside of the personal story is that the entire US system of conservatorship is and perhaps always has been badly broken. While guardianship of some form is essential its current implementation is rife with abusive, with no real idea of just how many cases just like Britneys are going on as we type. In just one report they found hundreds of cases of abuse and millions of dollars stolen, almost always from the elderly and infirm who are never given much in the way of media attention.
    There have been a bunch of efforts to change it across the US but progress has evidently been slow and the one bill that Im aware of showing up in the capitol appeared to just fall through once 'Free Britney' fell out of the lime light.

    • @portgasdann3389
      @portgasdann3389 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yeah, that's what really strikes me too when I heard the news. When you exist in a space filled with PWD and neurodivergent I forgot the laws irl still has so much to catch on.

  • @shanandobson4009
    @shanandobson4009 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    it is such a horrific situation she was basically a slave for her father and the people he got to collaborate in the conservatorship. it's absolutely insane to think about how mental health is such a big thing these days yet she was put up for everyone to laugh at the decline of her mental state, and it really was such a short time ago even going back in the internet archives where everyone laughed at that one dude who went viral for posting the leave Britney alone vid.

  • @johnallisonalexander6505
    @johnallisonalexander6505 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I have no intention of reading her book, but I was aware of some of the issues you described as I consume a lot of news and these pop culture events are hard to avoid, even if you don’t really want to follow them. I will say that I really enjoyed your analysis of the book and appreciate the way you tackled the sensitive issue.

  • @jurajvivana5827
    @jurajvivana5827 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just finished reading the book and I LOVE IT❤😢

  • @20maxilo
    @20maxilo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    wow u did a great job.. I actually enjoyed how you explained it

  • @siddharthnaagar7028
    @siddharthnaagar7028 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    People love to paint Britney as a cautionary tale but what she has endured and survived is heartbreaking and inspirational, she shows us what a real strong woman she is, which the media and everybody will never credit her for but I legitimately hope, this is the beginning of a happy, peaceful and tranquil life for Britney, as Stan it hurts but I hope she stays away from this nasty business as far as possible, like she has chosen to

  • @jonasquinn7977
    @jonasquinn7977 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It’s insane how someone can be such a massive figure in the public consciousness yet have nobody know what’s happening behind the scenes

  • @Sunzu49
    @Sunzu49 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I actually teared up when you read the passage about how much the FreeBritney movement meant to her!🥺

  • @whatsupmara
    @whatsupmara 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    just hearing you read those quotes is heartbreaking and made me tear up. noone should have to go through that.

  • @cocokai9661
    @cocokai9661 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I always knew the whole conservatorship was BS. I've seen other conservatorships and people who actually require one would never be able to hold down a job. Let alone hold down a residency in Vegas and go on world tours! I never could believe that her father was getting away with keeping her under one all those years. And who, if they cared about their daughters fragile mental health, would put that daughter on a Vegas stage night after night. Vegas doesn't scream rest and healing! How could any judge allow this to go on for so long?!!!

    • @redvelvetgirl
      @redvelvetgirl 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They were likely paid off. The probate court in Cali is a whole system that benefits the judges and lawyers. The case is still open (most recent hearing was on Halloween) and the court is still allowing her dad to drain her money and abuse her by constantly filing motions, moving deposition dates and then asking the court to make her pay for his lawyers while doing all this.

    • @kolaoshun6298
      @kolaoshun6298 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’ll tell you how: money.

  • @daninosaurus
    @daninosaurus วันที่ผ่านมา

    For how little you knew about her, you got one of the best insights into her story.

  • @AashishVashisth
    @AashishVashisth ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I remember the free Britany moment and supported it but did not know all these things in detail.

  • @musicf3b
    @musicf3b ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This settings is so wholesome and calming

  • @MsMestrella
    @MsMestrella ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I don't follow Britney Spears, but this book has been on my feed in a number of sites, and now hearing your take on it, I might give it a read too. -- thank you for doing this!! I love your content! always!!

  • @Melanie-jy2nw
    @Melanie-jy2nw ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Saved your video for once I've finished reading the book! Love listening to your analysis so I'm looking forward to this one!

  • @cathychase663
    @cathychase663 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She had a ghost writer. SAM lunsky. But he honored her voice. Was a great read

  • @Freakgirl1985
    @Freakgirl1985 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I finished the audio yesterday and it was great! I was never a Britney fan but I think I am now. I would never have had the strength to get through what she had to go through..over and over again! But her voice is bad so I was thankful for Michelle Williams, who did indeed a great job. 5/5 stars for me

  • @deejaysee
    @deejaysee 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    IM0 Their whole plan was to get her fans against her because even she knew that she pretty much ruled the pop world. It was literally heartbreak, after heartbreak, after heartbreak for her throughout her life. They wanted every smidge of control and it makes me so grateful for mine because I feel I wouldn’t be able to be as strong & as hopeful as she’s been through out those 15 years. She’s been through some shiiiiiiiit, dude. And I hope all her fans from back then, like myself, are now coming together to support her the best way we can..🙏🏼❤

  • @TheMagdalenaBB
    @TheMagdalenaBB ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I've heard some snippets of the audiobook. Michelle Williams does a great job.

  • @barbarasusej
    @barbarasusej 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I was in middle school too and I remember all the headlines, I'm ashamed I believed everything and she was this crazy uncontrolled woman to me. When I learned about the conservartorship I thought it was the best for her, but then It became so dark and shaddy... I learned a lot throught the Free Britney movement, I was disgusted of how she had been painted back then, now I'm happy she's telling her truth today and now I'm not that gullible to the prense anymore.

  • @rebelbelle1388
    @rebelbelle1388 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Britney is about the same age as me, so I grew up watching her on MTV, listening to her on the radio, and buying all the teen magazines with her plastered on the cover, as well as hearing about all the scandals as they happened. I'm definitely going to be picking up this memoir of hers. I'm so glad she's finally able to tell her side of the story. Thanks for giving a bit of insight on it!

  • @billyalarie929
    @billyalarie929 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I’ve never been a big fan of her music but I want to buy this to support her.
    I wish there was a more direct way of doing this.

    • @Evens27
      @Evens27 ปีที่แล้ว

      Support in what way?

    • @Evens27
      @Evens27 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@britneynicolewrites You're just kidding... Right?

    • @Evens27
      @Evens27 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@britneynicolewrites OK! Uh... Why?

    • @merlinsclaw
      @merlinsclaw ปีที่แล้ว

      This is surely satire?

    • @redvelvetgirl
      @redvelvetgirl 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think defending her against people who simply claim she’s “bonkers” or “nuts” would be the best thing you can do for her. 💕

  • @steveschritz1823
    @steveschritz1823 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Omg how horrible. Why isn’t her father in jail for his abuse and imprisonment of her.

  • @KierTheScrivener
    @KierTheScrivener ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I wasn't sure if I was going to read it. So I appercriate your thoughts and review

  • @RunThroughGridLock
    @RunThroughGridLock 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It would be interesting to see a second volume in the future where she could answer some of those questions we have. Overall really great listen.

  • @pookiroo
    @pookiroo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I was always on Britney's side. I just liked her personality, her music & her beauty. I mean she is as sweet as can be, so I always loved her. It didn't take a rocket scientist to figure out what was really going on & the evil doers surrounding her. Again, everyone can see her sweet nature. It just emanates. Praying 4 u Brittany. U r just a person like everyone else. So I can pray 4 u as I can pray 4 anyone else. And for the record I don't care if u gain weight, still love u & glad u r standing up 4 yourself & will still love your music - u don't have to be all about sex - just sing what "u" want.

  • @sraven1994
    @sraven1994 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for sharing this story.

  • @sagekay
    @sagekay 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    As someone who is such a big fan of her, I could really tell how this was written in her voice. I just really admire her as a person, and how she spoke about the positive people in her life, and even the people who hurt her. I don't remember a time without Britney Spears being a household name, and how she was painted in the press was atrocious. I remember seeing magazines and paparazzi videos of her being swarmed, and I used to wonder how that was even legal. And then one day she just.... disappeared from the media, and started pushing out stuff we could tell wasn't.... her. So when I read "I am Britney Spears now" I was so angry. Because as a fan, we're not stupid, we noticed this stuff. I am so so happy she is free now.

  • @jax426nd
    @jax426nd 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I work with people that have guardianships/conservatorships put in place and this is why I hate when families take on that role. Not saying she did or did not need it back in 2007 when it was put in place, but having a family member take that role rarely ends well. It usually goes one of two ways: 1) family takes absolute advantage of the person (as in Britney's case) or 2) family doesn't want to make the necessary decisions and be the "bad guy." In both cases, the person suffers. For whatever my opinion is worth, the position should always be held by a 3rd party and there should be a lot more regulations over implementing and duration of a conservatorship.

  • @Ozgipsy
    @Ozgipsy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yes, I’m going to read this one also. Very intrigued by this kids life.

  • @intrvrtdpyrldblog6568
    @intrvrtdpyrldblog6568 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    as a ghost writer and freelance editor.. i think books that are quick to read.. and raw , simple, unpolished.. staying true to the person's voice makes great book.. i think britney is a natural writer... As basic rule.. write not to impress but to express that what makes great writers relatable.. yes .. the book is readable... indeed... So why wouldnt you read a book that is readable
    Just my opinion..
    Also .. you done a great review! thank you! You're enjoyable to listen to and not dragging...Cheers! ✨😊

  • @BostonChattanooga
    @BostonChattanooga ปีที่แล้ว +5

    “FO SHIZ FO SHIZ” lives rent free in my head now.

    • @TheMagdalenaBB
      @TheMagdalenaBB ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I never knew Michelle Williams was so funny!

  • @SnakeAndTurtleQigong
    @SnakeAndTurtleQigong ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m very happy I read it, even lacking much knowledge of her before. Interesting perspective to hear!

  • @selispeks
    @selispeks 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Her story is so heartbreaking

  • @christina_1313
    @christina_1313 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for your insight - I was really curious about this book!

  • @Glokta4
    @Glokta4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Like you, I knew nothing about what was going on with her life. It's terrible how she has been pushed around the entire time.

  • @light-wolfred741
    @light-wolfred741 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Goodness that all just sounds wild. Never knew even half of the stuff that went on behind the scenes. Hopefully doing the book gave her some closure.

  • @fatimasajid1026
    @fatimasajid1026 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I didn't know anything about Brittany Spears before this.. but now I can relate to her

  • @user-yy9bc7sn5v
    @user-yy9bc7sn5v 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much for reviwing this book ❤❤

  • @keturahspencer
    @keturahspencer 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm not a fan either, but I decided to read it because I thought she'd have something interesting to say. I personally liked the unpolished aspect. It feels more natural.

  • @battlereadyminis171
    @battlereadyminis171 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the shots in videos are really good now. they were great before too btw.

  • @Zoeexpx
    @Zoeexpx ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Great video, I am interested in reading about Britney's life story. Feel like some of the trauma she has dealt with is kinda same to me, with a sense of toxicity and controlling from others at young age.

  • @christinapowell1072
    @christinapowell1072 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This convinced me to read it ... Off topic, can you do a tutorial on hiw you do your hair? Its gorg

  • @karenjobim5794
    @karenjobim5794 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for your neutral review. As someone who lived through Britney's career and admired her work, listening to her version of the story was hard. I'm still baffled by her parent's behaviour, with the patriarchy and the challenges she had to endure. I'm glad she told us her story and that she's in a better place now. I often had to stop the audiobook to digest what I was reading. I teared up, and it was an uncomfortable reading at times. The writing is not the best, but Michelle did a great job.

  • @michellej5616
    @michellej5616 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm Generation X, so while many were listening to Britney Spears, I was still listening to grunge bands and found group dancing and
    "boy bands" very weird and very pink. Thanks for the book review; I might give it a go because what would interest me isn't Britney, the singer, but Britney, the person.

  • @emicaptain3186
    @emicaptain3186 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The fact that her parents have been controlling her since she was a child is heartbreaking

  • @oana-mariauliu5828
    @oana-mariauliu5828 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't really love her music, but I care for her as a person. It's her right to make things clear.

  • @Zeet1
    @Zeet1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was a great video

  • @jackiesliterarycorner
    @jackiesliterarycorner ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had her cds and enjoyed listening to her music. I knew about some of these things, because my mom subscribed to People Magazine and we'd watch Enews. I feel bad for her, but wasn't active like her fans. I'm interested in both her memoir and Paris Hilton's, though.

  • @karlc2869
    @karlc2869 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The media owes Britney, LiLo, Amanda, Paris, etc. apologies.

  • @JamesSamuels-bd6jk
    @JamesSamuels-bd6jk 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I've been thinking whilst doing errands today. A "trigger warning" might (very well) have been useful!

  • @akellerhouse83
    @akellerhouse83 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I was thinking about reading this book. I'm about the same age as Brittney, and I saw a lot of this stuff play out in the media back then. I'm not a fan of hers, but I did support the Free Brittney movement. I guess it wouldn't be a big time investment since it's so short. I'm just not sure if I care that much... 😬

    • @redvelvetgirl
      @redvelvetgirl 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The audiobook is on TH-cam. 💜

    • @akellerhouse83
      @akellerhouse83 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@redvelvetgirl hey thanks!

  • @JayGTheAwkwardBookworm
    @JayGTheAwkwardBookworm ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need to read this 😭

  • @I_am_milan
    @I_am_milan 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What a story.

  • @spiderleenie
    @spiderleenie 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    One of the most disgusting things about the conservatorship is how apparently Britney "needed it," but was well enough to tour and perform in Las Vegas night after night? Makes no sense, and it's easy to spot out the abuse with this alone! Even if someone thinks that Britney needs the conservatorship, I still can't fathom defending her father and thinking he was acting out of her best interests.
    I'm not even a Britney "stan" or anything like that, but I have always felt a tremendous amount of sympathy for her. Yeah, the knife video was weird ... But I think that if I lived the life that she has, I'd probably seem a little "off," too.

  • @HinekoAkahi
    @HinekoAkahi ปีที่แล้ว

    Just watching this review nearly made me cry - definitely not a book I should be reading in public I think.

  • @hikari62k
    @hikari62k 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I remember hearing people say her shimmering bikini at a concert was inappropriate. that people called her an idiot for dumping Justin and marrying that loser Kevin Federline who was a nobody and took everything from her. Then she finally shaved her head. Things pretty much went downhill for her after that break up with Justin. Justin was getting back a her through his songs like, 'Cry me a river'.

  • @sierrabookishlife
    @sierrabookishlife ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I Hope you do another video for the remaining
    I don’t wanna read it but I’ll list to you breaking it up.

  • @banaa9463
    @banaa9463 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am interested! Thanks for the vlog/review

  • @LilyIglesias
    @LilyIglesias 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I read it in just one week and i had mixed emotions reading it. A mix of shock, disgust and wanting to cry 💔😭 I'm a big fan, so there were parts really tough to read.

  • @AshtheViking
    @AshtheViking ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Black Mirror did an excellent episode based on the Free Britney conservatorship (feat Miley Cyrus) Season 5 episode 3.

  • @filippyknow
    @filippyknow 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Finally Britney is free

  • @adilrehman7346
    @adilrehman7346 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm currently reading it ❤

  • @tammybeaudry3435
    @tammybeaudry3435 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She had post-natal depression. It's quite common after having a baby. You throw in a divorce with a man who doesn't let you see your children and it's a mixture for bad things.

  • @JamesSamuels-bd6jk
    @JamesSamuels-bd6jk 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Haven't read it. Heard of the book. Lots of disbelief. Lots of anger... so thank you for that🤬😡😤! I dont have you on my feed to make my world this dark! LOL... thank God for ths gym! Definitely going to do more than I was going to do today! I have been getting into Britneys music more so over the last year. Scream anbd shout was one of the ones that made me think she is more than just a sad messed up bimbo! More than just someone who shaved her head and doesn't know what way is up in her life! now I am rethinkoing justin. this is much more than i meant to write. As someone who has been to a mental health ward in 2020 scream and shout (song) was played regularly whilst doing exercise! Never really really thought about the link between her shit and playing that song. Suffice it to say... Britney speaks to me and many i am sure. I get the free Britney movement and I am all for it. This book review was almost worse than watching the movie about Amy Winehouse! Not being fasccious now... Thanks (in a weird way) for this video. I dont follow your gaming stuff, but, the reading thus.... well... this.... Great video. Great journey in thise 23 minutes. Didn't think i would watch the whole thing! I was on the toilet LOL... It was an absolute shit show of a random click from my feed. just 1 per cent of her life was those 23 minutes! FUCK 🙏

  • @uhuhuh1966
    @uhuhuh1966 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I read this book so dang fast lol

  • @boogsassy1
    @boogsassy1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have debated on buying the book. Now she posted about having a make out session with Ben Affleck. Oh boy the drama never ends. 😳

  • @SchulzEricT
    @SchulzEricT 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Did she take the title of her memoir from Tobias Funke?

  • @angiehinson2615
    @angiehinson2615 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am lost with her running back to the same people who hurt her.

  • @sereno2468
    @sereno2468 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Honestly, I don't know how she's still alive. I wouldn't have had the mental strength she had, I would've committed su****e years ago! She's a very strong woman and I can't wait to read it.

    • @redvelvetgirl
      @redvelvetgirl 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I felt the same way! How can one person endure all of that?

  • @riosunlimited7413
    @riosunlimited7413 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is a great vid

  • @strawberrylime33
    @strawberrylime33 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Britney went thru too much from her family. And her dad is shit for making every decision for her. I just wish that when i admit to not being a fan of britney's music/voice, people didn't brand me a witch for not worshipping her.

  • @gowonfan12
    @gowonfan12 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If you are interested in reading more memoirs, I really really really truly recommend "The Meaning of Mariah Carey" by the singer herself. Phenomenal!

  • @miyayume_eclectic_dream
    @miyayume_eclectic_dream ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Probably you answered this question but why did you read this book? As you stated you are neutral about your knowlage and interest in Britney.