Shawn Mendes: Shifting From Self to Service | The Man Enough Podcast
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HOSTS: Justin Baldoni, Liz Plank, and Jamey Heath
Shawn Mendes: Shifting From Self to Service
What happens when we are too concerned with being perceived as the “good guy” that we forget we are human? Award winning singer-songwriter Shawn Mendes shares experiences from his childhood, career and current relationship that have shaped his ideas of masculinity, privilege, and service. With wisdom beyond his years and a calmness that is contagious, Shawn’s vulnerability gives us permission to open up in our own lives and reframe what it means to be human by moving beyond the good guy/bad guy binary.
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Let’s pray for Shawn Mendes, I feel that God is really tugging at his heart. “I tell you that in the same way there will be more rejoicing in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who do not need to repent.”
Luke 15:7 NIV
I agree, like when he was saying how he started crying when he saw people worshipping really showed that.
Totally agree!
Amen 🙏🏼
Shawn, that feeling is the Holy Spirit. Jesus is calling you home.
amen, let’s pray for him! 🤍
Amén.
yesss👏🏼👏🏼💛
What makes you assume he’s not home? We’re all home as far as Jesus says. 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
Amen!!!!
This is EVERYTHING we needed- Shawn's SUCH an honest person, so much respect so much love for him!!!!
Yesss! Hes an amazing example for everyone it even helped me with depression somehow. It made me realize more things. So grateful to have people like this on earth that actually care and are authentic, loving and positive. He’s a very pure and old soul.
Well, whit Camila is a shit
@@julietaperdomo1424 that’s not true cause camila is a good soul and mature as well and really down to earth considering the actions she’s taken for years already. She isn’t her past. The way everyone who worked with her said how amazing she and her family is isn’t surprising. Both are mature and amazing that’s why they’re together.
@@julietaperdomo1424 I don't understand how such hateful people like you can be listening to such wholesome, self-actualizing stuff like this podcast
@@JuliaJiggs ikr.
People being problematic about the podcast and im actually proud of how Camila is able to verbalize her frustrations and how Shawn listen to her and understand it! Communication is the key to any relationship and the podcast is not about that at all, is about him dealing with it.
Exactly this. They’re incredibly mature and you can tell their souls are old. The things they talked about impact my life so greatly also cause in my surroundings we communicate a lot and it’s probably on of the only things that helped me stay alive and especially with my mental illness now with grief and trauma. Communication helps so much for many. I could acknowledge my feelings and cry to remove pain and also to reduce suffering in the long run from bottling up. They really get it. Been a fan since 2015 and I’m so proud of their growth and maturity. We all need more people like them
Exactly but just bc he’s famous people it’s so quick to judge
I agree with you! The most interesting is watching the people who are criticizing something that has already happened, is incredible to see how in the video he is talking about really shocking topics and we only look at something that they as mature people and couples have already solved, it distresses me to see how we are beings unable to empathize.
@@karlacortes9201 ikr especially that part about men being sexual subjects and women being sexual objects...as someone who was introduced to porn at too early an age like Justin, and who has had similar experiences with the "male gaze" like Liz, that is such an important topic in today's society and the fact that ALL of that got glossed over what the kids on the internet PERCEIVED as abusive (I cant even believe I'm typing this out) is truly terrifying, if you think about it in the context of what the world is headed towards in terms of empathy and sympathy.
Yes communication is key .
36:46 is where he talks about Maverick City
Thank you!
Thanks!!
Thanks!
Thank you😁
Thank youuuu!!!!!!!!!!
Couples are always going to have conflicts. S raising his voice isn’t abusive or toxic and is quite normal, but it’s also perfectly appropriate for Camila to call out the aggressive tone and ask him to talk to her in a more constructive way. Communication is important! -
That doesn’t make C controlling or manipulative or mean she’s making him feel evil. People are already manipulating his words to pass judgment on both S and C. Normalize discussing needs and conflicts in a calm way so that both partners can learn and grow.
THIS!
People need to quit acting like they don’t know how it is to be in a serious relationship and how communication is important so Camila telling him not to yell at her is exactly what to do then he knows what she doesn’t like and corrects it.
@@sylviaregino1140 exactly this. Lack of communication leads to misunderstandings and conflict. Just communicating and telling the truth can avoid so much negativity. It really has helped me all my life to communicate and I’m glad more people get it and can communicate as well :)❤️
@@bi.fruitsalad exactly glad it’s helped you❤️
“I’m a better person today because of the uncomfortable conversations i had yesterday”
The Holy Spirit is tugging at your heart!
Christ is LOVE. Christ is HOME.
He wants you. Seek Him!
He isn't far.
I love the contrast between your profile pic and comment haha
As a 17 year old white straight man, I am so lucky to be able to listen to such relatable humans. Much love to you 4
Thank you. We're honored to have you in our audience. Please share this with other peers and men/boys in your life that will benefit from this as well.
@badgalpal are you sick, or what the hell is going on with you? Respect please!
@@WeAreManEnough it’s no easy task, however it’s something I do. Sharing topics like these to my peers can leave me feeling insecure as sometimes I feel there judgment by the way they respond. However that very thing is apart of my mission of embracing who I am and what I want to become.
@@timmygreene155 We hear you loud and clear on that. There's a really powerful part of this week's episode where they talk about how hard it is for men to share and confront each other about things like this. Just the fact that you are thinking about it and have the desire is wonderful. You are enough, Timmy.
@@WeAreManEnough much love to you. Feeling enough takes others to tell you that you are. Being able to have outside validation from others allows the brain to connect its self doubt thoughts to its real encounters of positivity. This is asking a lot, however I’d love to come on even if it’s just a short private conversation with just one of you about my experience. Much love
Shawn's not just a talented singer, he's a good human❤️
Shawn was mocking Britney's mental health
@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 No
@@ezequielavanti809 Yes there's literally a video of him mocking Britney
@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 ffs he was 15!! We all joke around when we're that young and he's grown up now and knows better! So please stop with all this hate
@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 stop pls. This is so irrelevant to who he is now. People mature and change and he’s clearly better now.
I cried when he talked about God and maverick city 😭🥺, let’s pray for him
Shawn's innocence, vulnerability, and kindness really resonates in this conversation. And he gains another level of my respect for that. Also, the general idea of the podcast is so good because it evolves around topics not limited to men alone. Thank you so much for this.
Thank you! So glad this is resonating with you.
Yeah
@@WeAreManEnough I want shawn mendes I’m in love with him if you can give his contact information I would really appreciate it thank you so much
@@WeAreManEnough love you 😘 Shawnie
Shawnie is single now and I want him
I'm literally speechless rn, the honesty and vulnerability in this room is astonishing! all four of them are so amazingly beautiful and kind! i'm so glad I've seen this podcast! It literally resonated with me and i loved every minute of it.
Omg he almost didnt WANNA do it but im glad he did
yes its lovely and that attitude from everyone will improve the world
@@yyg4632 That's so true
Yep!!
Yes
When he said "Look at the black girls and let them know you see them" I promise you that I started crying. Thank you both from the bottom of my heart. Feels good.
Where was this?
@@user-qv1wo7td1q 1:09:00
Same I felt so good when he said that
@@mimiqueen3459 om, the month. We have a look forward to seeing you all the time and
Thank you! That was so beautiful 🤍🌼
this is WHY ive been such a big fan of shawn for over 4 years, he never fails to amaze me and wow me with his words and compassion, just everything he does makes me so proud
Well said!!,this truly shows that #mendesarmy is so much more than just a group of fans.Every person in this army who has experienced his journey from "handwritten" to "wonder" has got the extreme blessing of watching him grow into the person he has become today n his feelings for Camila and how they both had feelings for each other but always respected each other's decision n yes,as you said i couldn't be more prouder of both of 'em!
N i'll always be thankful to this army for being so supportive and so damn loving!!!!
Its not about raising your voice, everyone has their days, its about being open for a conversation, is about him giving her space to say “ hey don’t need to get angry, tell me whats going on” .
Its about respect, you can raise your voice but the respect has always to be there!
Periodt
time stamp pls?
@@duda-ie7qo the first time he says he yelled at her was around the 24-25 minutes, and the second one about the yogurt about 1:00:00 or 1:07:00 idr
@@lightsmutual9129 tks bestie
This is truly amazing.
29:20 Shawn is literally expressing Matthew chapter 16 verse 25, "For whoever wills to save his life will lose it and whoever will lose his life for me will find it.”
Focusing on something bigger than yourself seems to be the answer to finding life and being okay.
30:04 Shawn sees that self-righteousness (being good at being the good guy) can and usually leads to manipulative behavior. So it's not just about "being good."
Proverbs chapter 30 verse 12 "There are those who are clean in their own eyes but are not washed of their filth." (The filth being sinful nature or that "inner darkness" that everyone has.)
30:12 the lady says the solution is to get rid of the ideas of "good guy" and "bad guy" and everyone should just be themselves.
But Shawn knows the truth deep down (30:20), that there is a big piece of darkness in us, which the bible calls "sin" or "sinful nature"
30:33 the solution is not to ignore the darkness in us (even by prayer or meditation or religion) Because it will only get stronger.
The solution, as Justin baldoni puts it, is to live in the "higher nature" or "in the spirit".
Galatians 5:16 "But I say, walk by the Spirit , and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh."
But this is the crucial piece that they are missing...
We can't do it on our own.
I think Shawn realizes this.
No one has been able to live as the good guy all the time and it's exhausting to try to find the balance.
There is good news though.
Someone came to kill that inner darkness, that sinful nature, that lower nature.
He lived his entire life in the spirit.
He never surrendered to the darkness.
He gives us the power to do the same if we put our trust in Him.
He literally gives us His Spirit and a promise to never leave us.
He took all of our darkness, all of our sin, all of our evil and destroyed it. He can take yours too.
His name is Jesus.
Shawn, you are soooo close to the truth. It's crazy how God is revealing truth to your heart. I'll be praying for you 🙏🏼
Just a Huge Thxx for This info///
🥰🥰
GOD BLESS YOU FOR THIS NATALIE🙏🏿🙏🏿
Mmm yes amen!!
This 🙌
Ok but Jamey Heath is an AMAZING host. he is always calm and respectful to Shawn but he also doesn't let him get away without addressing a hard question AND calls him out. Ex: "ok but did you say sorry for yelling at her or did you make that moment about your own fear" and THAT is what led Shawn to being even MORE vulnerable and honest in his answer. Just wow. I wish all interviewers/hosts were like him
Jamey is my new favorite person. The closing with Shawn, the way he did that was so beautiful, showed wisdom.
I thought Shawn was already vulnerable, specially in the armchair podcast but NO! He's going so deep and honest and im so so SO proud of him! Such a nice guy, he's big but never let the fame and gold get to him, i have so much respect for him and will always do! About the materialistic things, he's SO true about it! Every word he utters is so honest and true!!!!!! ❤❤❤
@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 he was 17 when he did that. Humans make mistakes
@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 his past does not define himself
@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 he literally say that if "he was gay it's okay" this seems homophobic?? Omg, you're so crazy
@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 no
@badgalpal And he on the podcast with Dax Shepard clarified the rumors of his sexuality, saying that he is not gay, and that if he were, it would be fine, he has nothing against gays, and also said that he felt angry that he They called him "gay" because there were people close to him who were from the LGBT community and still did not come out of the closet, in short, he is not homophobic, and his past does not define him as a person.
He's so wise for his age. so inspiring
Ikr! An old soul ❤️
Where do I find a man with Shawn’s and Justin’s mentality and maturity
he called himself out on his wrongs and that is so healthy and hard to do
haters be like "sHaWn Is TrAsH" but then proceeds to watch an hour podcast of him just to search for flaws. y'all don't even understand a single word he said, you just focus on the flaw he did that he ALREADY reflected on. come on guys get a life. stop obsessing over someone's faults for once in your life. that's pathetic. just focus on making yourself a better person babe. hatred is ugly.
Thank you. Beautifully said.
@@WeAreManEnough no problem i love everything about this podcast!
So true, glad you said this. People really point fingers so much. Hatred definitely is ugly
i really love him, shawn is literally the person more honest, human and kind in the planet. my babe we love you😭
But he was mocking Britney's spears mental health now karma he is suffering the same
But he was mocking Britney's spears mental health now karma he is suffering the same
Shawn was mocking Britney's spears mental health now karma he is suffering the same
@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 I would like receipts
@@roshnigupta9914 There's a video of him mocking Britney
I just can't believe how wise he is and that's not because he's always right it's because he knows he can't be always right and is ready to accept that. He has attained more wisdom and enlightenment that I ever will.
Literally
Shawn is super Honest and kind, his voice even when he talk is the most beautiful that i hear ♡
Well said!!
But he was mocking Britney's spears mental health now karma he is suffering the same
@Clara But he was mocking Britney's spears mental health now karma he is suffering the same
But he was mocking Britney's spears mental health now karma he is suffering the same
@Clara But he was mocking Britney's spears mental health now karma he is suffering the same
And this is why Shawn is my inspiration. Even if he has all that privilege and success he knows what to stand for and he's always so truthful and showing his vulnerability with us, which makes me feel so much better, because sometimes I feel like show our vulnerability is bad. So the way Shawn show us that it's ok to be vulnerable, to have anxiety, to be wrong and that than someone will correct us, is so important and he really has helped me with growing up and my insecurities.
Shawn was mocking Britney's mental health
@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 just stop. You know that’s not the type of person he actually is. You’re legit not helping anyone rn. The podcast is tho.
@@bi.fruitsalad this person it’s commenting this everywhere, it’s shows how they doesn’t have anything to do
A Quick Verse for those who are struggling in any way, “ So do not fear for I am with you do not be dismayed for I am your God I will strengthen you and help you I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” ( Isaiah 41:10) Turn to God and Jesus now and accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior believe in your heart and confess with your mouth that he died then was resurrected three days later by God they want to be close to you, please ask for repentance and read your bible daily! Much love! 💓 ( Clarification that I’m not trying to force anything upon you )
Amen 🙏🏼
I’m already a Christian but this really touched me! Thank you ❤️ God is so good
That last part from Jamey hit. As a Black girl who has been a fan of Shawn’s for years, that part really hit.
YES! the whole interview has so many powerful moments, but that one had me sobbing. That, was huge.
I came to the comments specifically to mention what Jamey did there. Thank you for commenting on that.
Same that part just blew my mind
I was like maybe I could be the black girl that happens to
Its so surreal
Time stamp?
1:09:00 as a black girl this directly goes to my heart !!!
Same girl I felt that
I was scrolling the comments to see if anyone had commented on that part of the conversation. That touched me in a way I wouldn't have expected, much respect and love to that man for saying that.
You beautiful black goddesses ❤️❤️❤️😇
It’s amazing to see a person especially a celebrity whose childhood he was raised to have the beliefs of an atheist, independently allow the idea of god into his life! There is just so much good that comes from god it almost makes me emotional! I hope he continues to peruse this way of thinking🙏❤️(I’m a Christian)
❣such a blessing eh.
"how does something that i've felt my hole life feel like fanatic and not science and not the truth feel like home?". Shawn this really is Jesus calling you!
I was sorta confused when he said this, can you paraphrase or explain what he meant in that sentence, please?
@@BeautyWithCheri he was talking about a song from a church choir (I guess?) anyways a song about the scriptures and Jesus' message. and he said this, so he felt ""home"".
@@BeautyWithCheri what he meant is that while listening to Maverick City there is this peace that comes while crying and realizing how much God has done for you. It's the peace that you can't find anywhere else so that's why he said it's like he's "home". I can relate to what he's talking about. Just repent and ask for forgiveness my sister, you're in my prayers❤
@@tamerab3124 thank you so much for that.. im a believer in Christ myself && I was in awe when he mentioned Maverick City. ❤
@@BeautyWithCheri me too dear I love them so much they have helped me a lot
Shawn raising his voice at Camila isnt toxic or bad or anything. Everyone has their moments, he's a human, he can be angry sometimes, i really love the fact that he accepts his ego, mistakes and learns from them, corrects them and moves on! Proud of camila for telling him and letting him know she's hurting cause that's exactly what she should be doing and it makes their relationship so much healthier. So much respect for this little guy ❤
Agree totally
The fact that Liz had to go thru all of that at SUCH A YOUNG AGE
amazing podcast. sometimes i can't believe shawn is 22. the man is so wise
But he was mocking Britney's spears mental health now karma he is suffering the same
@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 6th time. You have a sorry life bro
@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 beatch try to leave your house sometimes
I wish more interviews to famous people would be like this one right here, about values and motivations, who they really are, they have so much experience to share with us as they are living life in an accelerated rhythm. I love watching this better than what designer made their clothes, details on their personal relationships or sexual comments. Btw I'm not a religious person, but great job people!
Agreed! This was such a beautiful and refreshing conversation to listen to.
Good answer
Great conversation. I would love to see Camila Cabello on your podcast since she initially introduced Shawn to your book and she is so insightful. I think Liz and Camila are both incredibly strong women who can bring their own perspective to this discussion.
i’m in awe of his absolute honesty and vulnerability and how he’s using his voice to push for change. love this.
Shawn was mocking Britney's mental health
🖤🥀 ..... “She’s completely all in or nothing.she really teaches me that if we have 1 life,we might as well be all in when you’re in love with someone"
"She’s so patient with me especially when I’m stressed...It’s amazing. It’s like a movie”
" I'm in a relationship where my girlfriend is like we're gonna get in bed and you're gonna put your head on my chest and cry into my chest and tell me how you feel cause if you don't do that you're gonna be asshole ... "
Shawn abt camila
So beautiful ❤️
Very beautiful 🤩
He So poring and dramatic and for what , PLZ she needs to dumb him inste 💀
Remeber when He was shaking in like stress, and fear bcz Camila asked for a banana at the sushi place .
What minute please
1:14:27 "I want him to win, I want him to win because he'll allow other people to win." Epic.
1:01:03
When he is talking about the detachment from the material things he says that not everybody can stop working. Man. That was straight to the point. Detachment doesn’t mean stop working but having a stronger reason to do so. It means that you’re working not because you want to have things from people but change people’s lives in a way. It means service. The point is where you put your heart on.
I have never cried from listening to a podcast... Every single being here is just beautiful, so much kindness and genuine love. I'm so grateful that God guided me here... I often wonder where can I find genuine people with genuine interest in the world and empowering others, this is it... Loved Loved this episode.
Thank's for this!!
Lit ! Thank you so much 🙏
The wisest 22 year old...just glad he exists to show the world a fresh perspective. A new "new."
this episode was everything, thank you !
This hit home for me. Thank you so much!!!!!
this is awesome thank u soooooooo much Shawn I needed to hear that!
He needs to be set free from alot of things, god is calling him for so much more
The vulnerability, the acceptance, the honesty, the bravery in the room is astonishing and holds so much power and gives men and boys so much power. The kindness in Shawn’s voice and gentleness in the way he talks about his struggles channels so much power and bravery. I love that they are doing this and “liberating” men.
🤣
Yes
I love Shawn soooo muchhh
thank for this!!!! we are so proud of you shawn! you are man that know this things
I loved this - his sheer openness is a force to be reckoned with.
Congratulations on the launch of this beautiful show! Deeply enjoyed this conversation!! Big love to you all!
I love this so so much.
that’s so beautiful! thank you for this❤️
Feeling super bless and grateful to have someone to look up to who is such an amazing role model! I could listen to shawn talk all day 🙏🏼☺️
WOW. prayers for shawn and for him to keep representing light and love in his platform!! sooo proud
This is amazing 😻
This was amazing to listen to!
You're all so incredibly articulate, and address all of the tough topics with so much grace and peace
I LOVE YOU SHAWNNNNNN
LORD I needed hear this podcast! THANK YOU
thanks for this! I love Shawn with all my heart🤍
This is incredible 🙌🏼✨
Remember this transparency heals and that we serve a mighty God.
This came up in my recommendations and I felt compelled to watch. I’m glad I did.
This was so good!
love it so much the authenticity is tremendous...
it's truly incredible to see a group of men to set themselves apart and recognize their privilege. thank you for starting the change that i as a woman have been wanting to see my entire life.
But he was mocking Britney's spears mental health now karma he is suffering the same
But he was mocking Britney's spears mental health now karma he is suffering the same
@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 You again. This the 4th time you saying the same thing dude.
@@reenashanbhag9701 They want to f him they are obsessed about him they are psychopaths
@@reenashanbhag9701 it's not normal to be delusional in love with a celebrity
Thank you so so much for that episode!!!!
Love you Shawnnn💘
Beautiful interview...so proud of Shawn
This was so beautiful ❤️
I love every second of this.
This is beautiful. I really enjoyed this🔥
I LOVE TO HEAR SHAWN, ALWAYS TRY TO BE A BETTER HUMAN, I CHOSE MY IDOL VERY WELL ♡
I love the way every single one of them speak and carry themselves
Loved this conversation! Incredible! ❤👏🏻👏🏻
He's so amazing 😭
Being man enough is to say “I’m sorry”. Great convo. Shawn is wiser than his years
wow, I am so deeply touched and inspired. Shawn is so humble and true, thank you for your vulnerability !
I can’t put in to words how much I needed to hear this
thank u for this
shawn is such an amazing human .
cant explain wht in feeling rn, but its feels so happy , thats just it.thank u ofc for guesting my fave shawn.ily!!
So wise and awesome young man very amazed by Shawn ❤️
wow im left speechless. such a great episode
I loved this and Shawn’s thoughts soo much. Important conversations. ❤️
everything about shawn is so pure and perfect
I love this podcast!! Thank you for sharing 💜💜💜
Be the change you wish to see ♥️♥️♥️ love love love This!!!
He's so incredibly wise for his age , this was so inspiring and educational , thank you.
I saw someone posted a clip of this on TikTok and had come check it out glad I did. And I love how Shawn opened up and be honest with all us.
i love shawn soo much!!
simply perfection
One of my favorite people in the world so true 😃
This conversation lit my heart on fire! I feel so connected to everyone at this table and this discussion
Such an amazing interview
Yes💕