When the Narcissist realizes you are NEVER coming back

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 พ.ย. 2024

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  • @gordonfreeman5261
    @gordonfreeman5261 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    They fundamentally fuck your mind. - that is the most perfect description I've heard of this.

  • @kinGsaL1515
    @kinGsaL1515 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The thing about a narc is they will always try to come back eventually. The only way the toxic cycle will ever end is when you make the final decision to drop them for good

  • @grumpeechat
    @grumpeechat ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Mine came back. I wouldnt let him.back in...i cant allow the abuse any longer

  • @chriswalls5831
    @chriswalls5831 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wouldn't go back to any of them friends, family, ex's, etc

  • @markadrianryda-cosmicryda
    @markadrianryda-cosmicryda ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Chosen Ones are forever going to be first choice on the menu for Narcs…

  • @Bxl19
    @Bxl19 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    They gonna pull the crying game part to make you feel sorry for them but being the smart person that you are you will not take them back

    • @AnaPaulinacom
      @AnaPaulinacom ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've worked in the Medical Field and those tears were real. ✨

    • @SurroundedByClowns1926
      @SurroundedByClowns1926 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And when that doesn't work they'll result to projected anger, shaming tactics, the list continues...

    • @kimberleeponce1665
      @kimberleeponce1665 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      amen

  • @ScottWilliams-qj5ho
    @ScottWilliams-qj5ho ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Earn trust over a period of time- someone wants to much too soon, red flags- the best to you chosen ones!

    • @mkwhole
      @mkwhole ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea good point.

  • @guygill7827
    @guygill7827 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I've had narc relationship with a female and she tried to ruin me but I got smart and it backfired in her face.

    • @kimberleeponce1665
      @kimberleeponce1665 ปีที่แล้ว

      hell ya Gill

    • @kisigma1011
      @kisigma1011 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same I been in a group relationship with females all back fired

  • @msouthstaruk
    @msouthstaruk ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Every word you have said is pure facts. You forgot to add that if you have children with a narc,they will make your life an emotional hell and will use your children as weapons. Trust me. It's deep.

  • @VR-jb9hb
    @VR-jb9hb ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Oh so so true.
    The pain & agony they put you through is unspeakable.
    When the fog finally clears, when the confusion goes away, it’s a relief & freedom like none other. The healing takes time.When you finally come out the other side, into the light again..you realize it all made you into a different person, a stronger more loving, wiser person. I was so mad when I finally got free & could see clearly what happened. I was mad at all he took from me. all the time & love he stole. He tried to strip my whole identity away.But things like this happen for a reason. To move you closer to God & closer to a beautiful life with a loving & real compassionate caring person.
    They DO try to come back. They CAN tell when you’re permanently done & it rips them apart. That’s what they get for using & abusing someone who only wanted to love them. They are NOT right.
    They work for the enemy.

    • @kisigma1011
      @kisigma1011 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yup in today world ur fool if u believe in love

    • @VR-jb9hb
      @VR-jb9hb ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kisigma1011 somehow I still do.. believe in love 🤷‍♀️

    • @kaym.h.3583
      @kaym.h.3583 ปีที่แล้ว

      It is really because when you back away from them, they get worse! Gotta stay on top of it

  • @POOFAYMANN
    @POOFAYMANN 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They keep invading my dreams 😂

  • @smustipher
    @smustipher ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When it is DONE. IT IS DONE. Periodt. No more attention, no more energy. NOTHING.

  • @mudnocchio
    @mudnocchio ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Sad man. Like why is it so painful to people just living in harmony with what they have. Baby steps 🎯

  • @SurroundedByClowns1926
    @SurroundedByClowns1926 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The blood in water is a great analogy to sum these filthy animals right up! ☺️☺️🦁🦁

  • @mariebarnes5714
    @mariebarnes5714 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    For your age, you have alot of insight to
    the world! Narcissists seem to be everywhere now a days! Have a Blessed Easter! God Bless!

  • @PunishmentMusic
    @PunishmentMusic ปีที่แล้ว +3

    always on the money

  • @goldenlion1995
    @goldenlion1995 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Imagine so called family and friends who don’t have good vibes themselves complaining about negativity when you try to open up but then complain if you never keep in touch with them as if you’re supposed to entertain them like a clown.

  • @NXRTHGVNG
    @NXRTHGVNG ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Big facts brother, we have to go thru it to learn

  • @FlowerEmpress
    @FlowerEmpress ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Truth! God Bless.
    Not my choice. But I wish everyone success and well being.
    What's proper and True.

  • @andrewsamuel1732
    @andrewsamuel1732 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are not lying

  • @hologramcard1175
    @hologramcard1175 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    yes, you can not think straight with them, they come in your head like they are your owners, extremely dangerous people, avoid at any cost!

    • @VR-jb9hb
      @VR-jb9hb ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true they are extremely dangerous some of the worst ones even capable of murder
      They’re controlled by the enemy

    • @kisigma1011
      @kisigma1011 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@VR-jb9hb very true gotta stay clear

  • @kimberleeponce1665
    @kimberleeponce1665 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    we appreciate ya for being willing to discuss the not so pretty topics...you're offering the world tools and perspectives ...your words sustain us through the pain and hate from the enemy.......God bless you and your pinky and this channel

  • @SurroundedByClowns1926
    @SurroundedByClowns1926 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They even avoid their own family after they know deep down they royally screwed up with you without admitting it by holding themselves accountable/responsible in other words they're strictly off the grid because they know their game is up! 😂😂🦁🦁

    • @eslavedmanga3849
      @eslavedmanga3849 วันที่ผ่านมา

      So true Chickens always come home to Roost.

  • @beamtweez1210
    @beamtweez1210 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Happy Easter 🐣 Bro

  • @joytotheworld7019
    @joytotheworld7019 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Terry for your insight and for following the journey. I am grateful for your openness. Yes I can go from Surviving to Thriving because for years I have lived like that and and fully healed from that by training my mind to have the serenity to accept the things i can not change, courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to know the difference.

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't let anyone get in my head ! I make money not you !

  • @IAMLovedJewelsforJesus
    @IAMLovedJewelsforJesus ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Im afraid I might be a narcisist 😭 everyboby leaves me 🥲

    • @crystalmorgan9118
      @crystalmorgan9118 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sonya you wouldn't say that if you were a nark because narcissistic people never take responsibility or admit who they are

    • @kisigma1011
      @kisigma1011 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​​​@@crystalmorgan9118 deadass they dont admit to who they are at least I did in the past but with good intentions not to hurt others

    • @IAMLovedJewelsforJesus
      @IAMLovedJewelsforJesus ปีที่แล้ว

      @@crystalmorgan9118 thanks

    • @Lusitano1
      @Lusitano1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In fact i have seen multiple narcs admitting they are. Some of them also have TH-cam channels and identify themsevles as diagnosed narcs lol my ex fwb, she said she can be narcisistic sometimes. So yeah, some of them know who they are, and what they are doing.

    • @kimberleeponce1665
      @kimberleeponce1665 ปีที่แล้ว

      refer to this in prayer and ask God to bring clarity, he cares and loves and adores you and wants you to come to him for any worry that you may have

  • @victoriablackwell97
    @victoriablackwell97 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yup right on Terry😁🤔🤔😘

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Don't ruin my beautiful family

  • @XxDerxyXx
    @XxDerxyXx ปีที่แล้ว

    17:07 somthing ill never forget that my aunt tells me when i recall my mistakes, man. Thank you terry joel, peace and blessings.

  • @johnjennings9693
    @johnjennings9693 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so right seeing it all now in hindsight thank you,

  • @benjamin734
    @benjamin734 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👊 I AIN'T playN.

  • @ClarenceAllen-ul3ip
    @ClarenceAllen-ul3ip ปีที่แล้ว

    I LOVE YOU SO MUCH & I HAVE ALWAYS UNDERSTOOD WHY,,,, BUT IT IS STILL SO MYSTERIOUSLY AMAZING TO ME &!!!!!!MY DAILY OH 💩 I'M ALIVE-AGAIN-REALITY

  • @poeticjustice6046
    @poeticjustice6046 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    People move on in life. But yes they will think of us of people like u and me for ever n

    • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
      @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan ปีที่แล้ว

      I move on much much much better life than those what so ever losers

  • @SurroundedByClowns1926
    @SurroundedByClowns1926 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    High look how cute i am, I can be the best for you that eye brow raise you gave as if to say you what! GTFOH 😂😂🦁🦁

  • @ryansvlogsandvideos953
    @ryansvlogsandvideos953 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Going be such good video some for family's and friends my brothers and sisters ❤ you deavers peace not there BS behaviour 👊🙏🤝 much love my brothers and sisters you deavers happiness

  • @ClarenceAllen-ul3ip
    @ClarenceAllen-ul3ip ปีที่แล้ว

    I CAN'T WAIT TO SIT (U&I) & JUST CONGRATULATE, YESSSSSSS, OURSELVES FOR LIVING UP🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 & DOING THE IMPOSSIBLE

  • @ledi-bideereflections4081
    @ledi-bideereflections4081 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! I didn't know or learn about Narcissism, till my mother passed away. And, I was 40. Must have been living in a cocoon?..so to speak. No body I knew, talked about it. I wasn't aware of the label. I just knew there was nasty people in this world. Since, then the horrid truth has burnt me.

    • @VR-jb9hb
      @VR-jb9hb ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww but better to learn late than never at all. Some people go through life not understanding what is happening to them. So even though the truth is soooo painful it is also what sets us free.The deception is crazy.They make you believe it’s something wrong with YOU when actually it’s them. They brainwash. Personally I’m not big on labeling it really. To me..these “narcissists” are simply evil people used by the devil to hurt others. But sometimes it can help to put a name on it, helps when coming to terms with it I think. And im sure you’ve noticed,these people all act alike & use the same or very similar tactics. Because They all have the same demon working through them to mentally & emotionally destroy people of God, especially those with a high calling & purpose
      At least you’re aware now & know the signs to watch for
      Some of us seem to be magnets for them. But we are armed with the truth.

  • @ClarenceAllen-ul3ip
    @ClarenceAllen-ul3ip ปีที่แล้ว

    YOOOOOO-OH!!!!!!!

    • @chriswalls5831
      @chriswalls5831 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Why would you wanna go back?

  • @CryptoCryp103rd
    @CryptoCryp103rd ปีที่แล้ว +1

    banger after banger 🔥

  • @alys1948
    @alys1948 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks man I needed to hear this ! 👍💪

  • @restlessnosleep
    @restlessnosleep ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Haven’t watched you in a couple months but you’re glowin bro! 💪 not to say you weren’t before but skin lookin clean

  • @bluewaters11
    @bluewaters11 ปีที่แล้ว

    You all listen to so many people that are not real TIs.carry on. ☹️

  • @matthewlogan4267
    @matthewlogan4267 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sometimes the most beautiful exotic animal is the most posionus in nature. this is also true and can be implemented in a real life situation with pretty wemon.

    • @kisigma1011
      @kisigma1011 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Also handsome men too double edged sword

    • @matthewlogan4267
      @matthewlogan4267 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kisigma1011 yup 💯💯 that's facts too

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Those seagulls can eat others leftovers suck others bloods ! I am a pitbull not a wounded kezer

  • @ClarenceAllen-ul3ip
    @ClarenceAllen-ul3ip ปีที่แล้ว

    BUT GOD DON'T PLAY ABOUT US, NO ONE CAN HARM US, GOD SHOWED THEM EVERY TIME, NOT MY ANNOITED SO WE HAD TO BE THAT DISCIPLINED INDIVIDUAL WE WERE BLESSED TO BE & CHOSE EVERY MINUTE IN EVERY DAY TO BE

  • @MrMuis06
    @MrMuis06 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    9 times out of 10, these narcs have little to no relationship with the Most High

  • @CaiMackenzie-tw9tg
    @CaiMackenzie-tw9tg ปีที่แล้ว

    💯✌️out Narc😂

  • @victoriablackwell97
    @victoriablackwell97 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ever watched MM and Pinks new music video

  • @victoriablackwell97
    @victoriablackwell97 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love u

  • @kbstrong429
    @kbstrong429 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel nothing Do Not Lie GDmit All

  • @Deemarsproduction92
    @Deemarsproduction92 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ad_sawyer
    @ad_sawyer ปีที่แล้ว

    My brother in-law has been married to my sister for 13 years with four children..…. Fool has no idea he married a malignant narcissist. 😬 I let his mother know via social media in case he falls on his face.

  • @angelperkin2861
    @angelperkin2861 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🤣🤣🤣

  • @AnaPaulinacom
    @AnaPaulinacom ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ⛸️❄️⛸️✨

  • @SurroundedByClowns1926
    @SurroundedByClowns1926 ปีที่แล้ว

    They're forever trying to pursue me after everything they put me through they even try to fake narc smile me thinking it'll win me over because I can't tell what they're upto nor planning is it the funny thing is they think they're fooling me when in actuality they're my audience I'm making a joke out of them hence why they rage quit within my presence sometimes hoping it'll get under my skin and provoke me into giving them a reaction alot of these narcs when I'm around them are also wearing masks of desperation, sadness, hurt, grief the list continues some will even go to desperate lengths in being fake nice/good which I no longer fall victim to I tried warning these kindergartens GOD/JESUS CHRIST are very real and not one bad deed they choose to inflict upon myself will go left unnoticed nor unpunished ☺️☺️🦁🦁

  • @sylviamjames
    @sylviamjames ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can’t touch this, two sides of the coin. Is all

  • @french2572
    @french2572 ปีที่แล้ว

    My Godmother is a Christian narcissist and it is terrible....

  • @stefanvandentroost6892
    @stefanvandentroost6892 ปีที่แล้ว

    💯

  • @Yeshuaschild93
    @Yeshuaschild93 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are you a TI ? I experience v2k any advice

  • @kevinhanley6462
    @kevinhanley6462 ปีที่แล้ว

    😇

  • @2dazetake
    @2dazetake ปีที่แล้ว

    Heard of one friends girl friend who literally stood on her head to get pregnant, after they would have sex, eventually she did but her friend end up cheating p😮

  • @Heather-ds7ll
    @Heather-ds7ll ปีที่แล้ว

    More TALk 👄 O WELL !!

  • @jman9806
    @jman9806 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    can a nark be your own father?

    • @benjamin734
      @benjamin734 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yea

    • @jman9806
      @jman9806 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@benjamin734 called the cops on me today after suffering from ptsd in the basement of his home after 10 years together 2 children she went and had two more with him after saying two was too much for her, two narcs one my ex and one my father two attacks at once

    • @benjamin734
      @benjamin734 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jman9806 sucks don't tell no one else they just think ur crazy, and do not tell ur Daddyo he's a narc or ur x. dk but they way u worded was like he smashed it too so idk what to say about the rest of ur situation besides, stay frosty, and get out of it,. Sounds like u might have to move to a land far far away, with a long drive way, a backyard & back304, I AIN'T playN, stay strong 👊.KID

    • @Candy_Fitness
      @Candy_Fitness ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes

    • @crystalmorgan9118
      @crystalmorgan9118 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My nark is my own mother

  • @johndonaldson8297
    @johndonaldson8297 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm truly blessed to not have certain people in my life anymore God removes people for a reason 💫💚🐍⛎