Juj and Hunter, I have to be a depression advocate at this moment. Self isolation is a symptom of depression and not a personal choice. It’s something that is uncontrollable and you can’t simply tell yourself or force yourself to go spend time with other people. Depression is a complicated disorder and it’s much more than a lot of the stereotypes lead on. I love love love y’all’s channel and I am a huge supporter - but just felt a need to educate on a very sensitive topic. What Hunter said in this video can come off as toxic positivity. Love you both so much!
Social anxiety and depression are two different things. They weren’t talking about depression. Not everyone that isolates themselves or is an introvert has depression.
Full disclosure I went profoundly deaf in one ear a month ago. The forced adaptation to everything it has changed has been challenging but your message about community really resonated with me. I’m going to meet with other deaf individuals and find myself having social anxiety for the first time in my life. Thanks for being beautiful people 🥰
I turned 31 a couple months ago & have felt a natural shift in my mind & heart. My priorities have changed, outlook on life, and a pull to change my life and change my habits. I stopped watching TH-cam 2 months ago so I didn't even know you guys were M.I.A. and now when I clicked on ur vids and see you guys have felt a shift too in your lives I'm like yessss I love when others get busy focusing on themselves and it motivates me even more❤
I suppose lack of boundaries can lead to burnout and too many boundaries can shut a person down. We are all masters of our own fate. Glad to see you two back again and the lovely Booker he's a sweetheart.
The car conversations are always prime and I couldn’t agree more Julia about people connecting. We were created full of love by god to share it with one another and grow through the ups and downs. Love how the house is coming along❤️
I love the topics around social anxiety, extrovert/introvert tendencies, etc. I find it so interesting to hear other peoples experience, struggles, perspectives on those topics. I would say I grew up very introverted but as I’ve gotten older, I learned how to be more social and more comfortable in social settings. I would describe myself as an ambivert (yes, it’s a thing lol) one who has both introverted and extroverted personality traits
Came back to an old vlog to see how y’all were before the baby! Things can change quickly in a year. Loved the talks and energy here. It’s cool to see how far you guys have come
The car ride chronicles! That talk was such a real one!! We went through a tough growth period. But it was absolutely necessary for us to to become stronger together!! Love that y’all shared this message 💯
My boyfriend has been struggling with social anxiety and depression. He does exactly what you described, pushes everyone away. Sometimes he isolates himself from me. We’ve been together 3 yrs and he’s finally opening up. Your conversation in the beginning of the vlog was good for him to hear. Thank you.
“Anxiety // social anxiety is the devil at work “ Ugh I have never related to a topic more! Community is so important while the devil wants you to think you’re by yourself, isolated, and alone. God wants us to love each other one at a time. Relationships are so important, platonic and non. I loved this and you guys.
My mom and I have a ministry which is all about your SHAPE. We work on your Spiritual gifts, Heart, Ability, Personality, and Experiences in life. One of the major misconceptions is about introvert/extrovert. It isn’t about how social you are, it’s how you recharge. Do you feel energy from being around a big group, or do you feel drained? You can be a very “social” person and yet need to recharge by being alone. Where a true extrovert would be energized by social situations. There are scales too, an introvert might not be the same as another introvert. It’s really quite fascinating!
Joyous seeing the self-actualization journey as a couple, Renegotiate the laundry chore. Send out the linens and towels, the flats, Julia's time is more valuable than doing all the laundry.
You'll probably catch hell for putting the plates up before washing them but REST EASY KNOWING YOU'RE NOT ALONE!! 😉 Lady you look so much happier than you did a few weeks ago and I'm so glad you took that time for yourself!!
You are right Julia you Hunter, life is shifting. I noticed that few months back, but I couldn't put my finger on it. You both are such good people. I love the fact that you are feeling the Holy Spirit speaking to you. I love your bedroom as is. It is so cozy. You are doing so good. Proud of you 😊
watching people close to you isolate and shut themselves off from social interaction really resonates with me. It’s so hard to watch because you’re right, we need community and we can all help each other. love listening to you guys because my boyfriend and I have similar spiritual conversations all the time🤍 inspires me to share ours as well because yours can really open peoples eyes up to so much if they’re watching you and struggling!
This might be my favorite car chat. It’s so cool hearing your perspective. I’m definitely an extrovert, but I constantly work through social anxiety in new situations or with new friendships. You guys have grown so much 🥺🤍. Proud of you!!
I was about to fall back in isolation again and have been ignoring my friends calls. and I truely Believe God spoke to you via me. May God bless you, prosper you and give you all your heart desires. Keep speaking about the gospel and stay trough to yourselves! Love you guys❤️
Omg, yalls car chat in the beginning of the video really resonated with me. I used to have horrible social anxiety and isolated myself. I would never want to hang out or go do things with friends or family. Well the past few months I really had to step out of my comfort zone and start participating in life. This past weekend my fiancé and I went to a friends Christmas party and we had the best time.In the past I wouldn’t have gone or would have stayed only 1-2 hours. Social anxiety is the devils work. Thanks for the videos, I love yalls content!!
Thank you Hunter for saying that being an introvert isn't a bad thing. I think as a society we prefer extroverted people because they have the tendency to make you feel comfortable and accepted right off the bat, but I hate that this in turn puts introverts in a negative light. I am introverted and have been told so many times- "I thought you were mean when I first met you" or "you are so intimidating at first" when in reality I'm just quiet and have social anxiety 😅. Thankfully my husband is very extroverted and he pushes me to get out of my head about certain social situations.
Please please please if anyone knows what podcast Julia was talking about at 4:01 about people being an essential part of your spiritual journey, let me know! It sounds like an interesting podcast
I am a mental health provider and tell my people everyday they have to spend time with friends and family. I check for isolation on every visit with my patients. I work with young adults. I encourage all my folks to spend time with others either by phone, text, in person.etc. Good job sharing this. I encourage eating right, sleeping right, exercising, spending time with friends and family's and some spiritual/mindfulness endeavor.
Hunter’s gallery wall is soooo sexy!! Also, I think y’alls bedroom is so cozy!! Remember to give yourselves some grace! Decorating and getting the full vision takes time. You guys are killing it. Happy Holidays!!
missed you guys but at the same time totally understand the need for a break, it must be exhausting week after week filming, editing, uploading ... I know I couldn't keep up so the fact this is your first break in soooo long it's truly deserved !! ps: the cheeky look Hunter gave out when he pulled out the infamous water bottle haha
I'm a new subscriber here, your videos popped up on my TH-cam and this was the 1st one I watched. It's kind of wild because the message you were speaking about in the beginning is exactly what I needed to hear. Things work in mysterious ways
Julia! What podcast are you listening to? Sounds very interesting. I can totally relate to the social anxiety as well and have become more extrovert and crave human interaction. Probably because I work from home now and need it more than ever. Keep this conversation going!!
I love this intro so muuuuchhh! I am now currently listening to this artist! what a great Saturday night! thank you for posting even while Julias parents are in town! I appreciate y'all so much
Just love the convos WE have together :) Literally y'all are my besties, we think the same, act the same and like all the same things. LOL Loving the positive vibes, cannot wait for the next vlog!! love you two!!
currently quarantining from my second round of covid over the christmas holiday :( haven't had a "normal" christmas in 2 years. feeling really down and isolated right now, so i really enjoyed this vlog more than you know!! not only is your content always amazing, but i'm in love with the 3 songs you shouted out in your description. I've been vibing to those 3 songs on repeat! thanks for all you guys do
I don't if you will read this comment, but I just wanted to give you guys an idea. I watch the new intro of Lydia Elise Milen vlogs and I don't know why I thought about you ! Like imagine your own style (nashville landscape, vinatage decors, etc) with this kind of intro would be sooo good !!
I loved the Mitchell Gold + Bob Williams chairs in Hunter's office! Literally almost commented in the last video that his office needed some boucle. I think they offered a beautiful contrast with all the dark in there.
Love the introooo so much!! Juliaaaaaa girl....the world "like" is ur favorite lol...i counted "like" 120 times on the car ride..i was the same way...and then i challanged myself to not say it...its a comfort word in our vocabulary....u got this!!!
Hello you two! 👋 New subscriber here and I know it might be an odd question considering it wasn't even something you focused on but where is the white lampshade from that you asked your dog not to touch? I'm super picky about lamp shades so I'm loving it and curious where it's from? Thank you!
As someone who has studied MBTI for years, most likely what happened isn't that you became an extravert. It's that you developed your second cognitive function, which exhibits extraverted tendencies if you are dominantly an introvert. It's definitely normal to develop your second function as you get older!
The anxiety conversation hit home going through postpartum has somehow made me isolate myself and you guys having this convo just motivated me to work on this. 💞
Amen! I’m right there with you. It’s difficult to try and navigate life as a new parent. I had my baby 6 months ago and I’m still struggling to have a life outside of baby. But awareness is the first step. ❤️ I’m with you girl
@@cyndicopeland4113 it’s definitely tough!!!! I agree awareness is the first step! Second step find solutions. I’m sending you a lot of positive vibes, love and peace!!! You got this! We got this! Mamas unite!
I’m gonna have to be on Julia’s side on that car ride chronicle about boundaries and finding peace and love in pleasing others. My husband is the same.
YES WE ALL BROTHERS AND SISTERS FOR SURE! The Devil comes to kill steal and destroy that is HIS ONLY job! It is our job to recognize it had seek discernment over everything.
Se live in Central Florida and around this time my husband’s allergies 🤧 kick hiss butt! He was fine when we first moved here but now there are back! I feel for you ❤️
Juj and Hunter, I have to be a depression advocate at this moment. Self isolation is a symptom of depression and not a personal choice. It’s something that is uncontrollable and you can’t simply tell yourself or force yourself to go spend time with other people. Depression is a complicated disorder and it’s much more than a lot of the stereotypes lead on. I love love love y’all’s channel and I am a huge supporter - but just felt a need to educate on a very sensitive topic. What Hunter said in this video can come off as toxic positivity. Love you both so much!
I completely agree with you on that . It’s always been my family’s way to tell if I’m just down in the dumps or heading into depression territory.
Social anxiety and depression are two different things. They weren’t talking about depression. Not everyone that isolates themselves or is an introvert has depression.
Full disclosure I went profoundly deaf in one ear a month ago. The forced adaptation to everything it has changed has been challenging but your message about community really resonated with me. I’m going to meet with other deaf individuals and find myself having social anxiety for the first time in my life. Thanks for being beautiful people 🥰
I swear this was a message from the Lord through you all! Love y’all so much
I turned 31 a couple months ago & have felt a natural shift in my mind & heart. My priorities have changed, outlook on life, and a pull to change my life and change my habits. I stopped watching TH-cam 2 months ago so I didn't even know you guys were M.I.A. and now when I clicked on ur vids and see you guys have felt a shift too in your lives I'm like yessss I love when others get busy focusing on themselves and it motivates me even more❤
I suppose lack of boundaries can lead to burnout and too many boundaries can shut a person down. We are all masters of our own fate. Glad to see you two back again and the lovely Booker he's a sweetheart.
The car conversations are always prime and I couldn’t agree more Julia about people connecting. We were created full of love by god to share it with one another and grow through the ups and downs. Love how the house is coming along❤️
“Isolation is the devil at work”~Julia H. Yes Julia I felt everything you said, what an aha! moment.🙌🏾🙏🏾
I love the topics around social anxiety, extrovert/introvert tendencies, etc. I find it so interesting to hear other peoples experience, struggles, perspectives on those topics. I would say I grew up very introverted but as I’ve gotten older, I learned how to be more social and more comfortable in social settings. I would describe myself as an ambivert (yes, it’s a thing lol) one who has both introverted and extroverted personality traits
Came back to an old vlog to see how y’all were before the baby! Things can change quickly in a year. Loved the talks and energy here. It’s cool to see how far you guys have come
The car ride chronicles! That talk was such a real one!! We went through a tough growth period. But it was absolutely necessary for us to to become stronger together!! Love that y’all shared this message 💯
My boyfriend has been struggling with social anxiety and depression. He does exactly what you described, pushes everyone away. Sometimes he isolates himself from me. We’ve been together 3 yrs and he’s finally opening up. Your conversation in the beginning of the vlog was good for him to hear. Thank you.
but for real… this journey you’re on is truly inspiring me to get more in touch with myself and to put my mental health first.
“Anxiety // social anxiety is the devil at work “
Ugh I have never related to a topic more! Community is so important while the devil wants you to think you’re by yourself, isolated, and alone. God wants us to love each other one at a time. Relationships are so important, platonic and non. I loved this and you guys.
Omg this car chat! Such a real one. Go off juj, we love a mental health/spiritual queen!! 🤎
My mom and I have a ministry which is all about your SHAPE. We work on your Spiritual gifts, Heart, Ability, Personality, and Experiences in life. One of the major misconceptions is about introvert/extrovert. It isn’t about how social you are, it’s how you recharge. Do you feel energy from being around a big group, or do you feel drained? You can be a very “social” person and yet need to recharge by being alone. Where a true extrovert would be energized by social situations. There are scales too, an introvert might not be the same as another introvert. It’s really quite fascinating!
Right on Julia! Social anxiety is the devil at work, we all have authority over him it says in Bible. Love you guys opening up♥️ Amen♥️
Julia where is your sweatshirt from when you’re putting the plates away?!
YES! I was wondering the same!?
Joyous seeing the self-actualization journey as a couple, Renegotiate the laundry chore. Send out the linens and towels, the flats, Julia's time is more valuable than doing all the laundry.
You'll probably catch hell for putting the plates up before washing them but REST EASY KNOWING YOU'RE NOT ALONE!! 😉 Lady you look so much happier than you did a few weeks ago and I'm so glad you took that time for yourself!!
Cancel culture ..
You are right Julia you Hunter, life is shifting. I noticed that few months back, but I couldn't put my finger on it. You both are such good people. I love the fact that you are feeling the Holy Spirit speaking to you.
I love your bedroom as is. It is so cozy. You are doing so good. Proud of you 😊
watching people close to you isolate and shut themselves off from social interaction really resonates with me. It’s so hard to watch because you’re right, we need community and we can all help each other. love listening to you guys because my boyfriend and I have similar spiritual conversations all the time🤍 inspires me to share ours as well because yours can really open peoples eyes up to so much if they’re watching you and struggling!
If you don’t already love Juj & Hunter, Hunter will make you fall in love with them with these intros 😭♥️ Love this new one!
This might be my favorite car chat. It’s so cool hearing your perspective. I’m definitely an extrovert, but I constantly work through social anxiety in new situations or with new friendships. You guys have grown so much 🥺🤍. Proud of you!!
I was about to fall back in isolation again and have been ignoring my friends calls. and I truely Believe God spoke to you via me. May God bless you, prosper you and give you all your heart desires. Keep speaking about the gospel and stay trough to yourselves! Love you guys❤️
Omg, yalls car chat in the beginning of the video really resonated with me. I used to have horrible social anxiety and isolated myself. I would never want to hang out or go do things with friends or family. Well the past few months I really had to step out of my comfort zone and start participating in life. This past weekend my fiancé and I went to a friends Christmas party and we had the best time.In the past I wouldn’t have gone or would have stayed only 1-2 hours. Social anxiety is the devils work. Thanks for the videos, I love yalls content!!
I literally put my tree up a week before christmas. I also felt super anxious this year for whatever reason, don’t think you guys are alone.
I looked at my mood board for 2021 and realized that I had Julia on it. I couldn’t remember what she represented but now I know. Embracing growth 🤍✨
Thank you Hunter for saying that being an introvert isn't a bad thing. I think as a society we prefer extroverted people because they have the tendency to make you feel comfortable and accepted right off the bat, but I hate that this in turn puts introverts in a negative light. I am introverted and have been told so many times- "I thought you were mean when I first met you" or "you are so intimidating at first" when in reality I'm just quiet and have social anxiety 😅. Thankfully my husband is very extroverted and he pushes me to get out of my head about certain social situations.
Please please please if anyone knows what podcast Julia was talking about at 4:01 about people being an essential part of your spiritual journey, let me know! It sounds like an interesting podcast
Wow Hunters office looks so good! Can’t wait to see the finished project! Always love your home decor! Merry Christmas to you, Hunter and Booker! ❤️
I am a mental health provider and tell my people everyday they have to spend time with friends and family. I check for isolation on every visit with my patients. I work with young adults. I encourage all my folks to spend time with others either by phone, text, in person.etc. Good job sharing this. I encourage eating right, sleeping right, exercising, spending time with friends and family's and some spiritual/mindfulness endeavor.
Loved the art gallery in Hunters office and moving couch to the wall looks great.
Hunter’s gallery wall is soooo sexy!! Also, I think y’alls bedroom is so cozy!!
Remember to give yourselves some grace! Decorating and getting the full vision takes time. You guys are killing it. Happy Holidays!!
missed you guys but at the same time totally understand the need for a break, it must be exhausting week after week filming, editing, uploading ... I know I couldn't keep up so the fact this is your first break in soooo long it's truly deserved !! ps: the cheeky look Hunter gave out when he pulled out the infamous water bottle haha
I'm a new subscriber here, your videos popped up on my TH-cam and this was the 1st one I watched. It's kind of wild because the message you were speaking about in the beginning is exactly what I needed to hear. Things work in mysterious ways
Love the light up branches in the vase!
Love you guys! Continuously impressed and obsessed with your decor ideas
Julia! What podcast are you listening to? Sounds very interesting. I can totally relate to the social anxiety as well and have become more extrovert and crave human interaction. Probably because I work from home now and need it more than ever. Keep this conversation going!!
Yes, I’d also like to know the podcast you were listening to.
I can FEEL the energy & life shift happening for you guys right now. I love this for you. It’s beautiful & inspiring to watch 😍
5:21-5:33 hit hard soooo true Julia hit it on the nail
this was SUCH a good vlog!!! thankful to be included in y’all’s life even during this busy season. i hope having your family there is so sweet🥺🤍
I love this intro so muuuuchhh! I am now currently listening to this artist! what a great Saturday night! thank you for posting even while Julias parents are in town! I appreciate y'all so much
Who is it? 🎶
ELOISE UTAH REMIX. THE last video they posted has all the details
Happy you enjoyed a much needed break❤️ Merry Christmas
Hi Hunter and Julia! I hope you have a Great Christmas!! Please post the link for the gold dinning room fixture! 🙏🎅
Missed u guys sm!!! Long term subscriber here and this vlog felt like home in the best way
“Social anxiety is the devil at work.” You better PREACH Julia!! ❤️
Gallery wall looks amazing!!
love your outfit in this vlog!!! are there any links anywhere?
Just love the convos WE have together :) Literally y'all are my besties, we think the same, act the same and like all the same things. LOL Loving the positive vibes, cannot wait for the next vlog!! love you two!!
Omggg that dresser !!! It’s so beautiful! I remember you wanting to get one, you did a good job choosing this one. So pretty
currently quarantining from my second round of covid over the christmas holiday :( haven't had a "normal" christmas in 2 years. feeling really down and isolated right now, so i really enjoyed this vlog more than you know!! not only is your content always amazing, but i'm in love with the 3 songs you shouted out in your description. I've been vibing to those 3 songs on repeat! thanks for all you guys do
Hunters office looks SO good!
I don't if you will read this comment, but I just wanted to give you guys an idea.
I watch the new intro of Lydia Elise Milen vlogs and I don't know why I thought about you !
Like imagine your own style (nashville landscape, vinatage decors, etc) with this kind of intro would be sooo good !!
My favorite TH-cam couple! ❤️
Ugh love the song
Currently watching on my big tv all cozied up in the living room drinking my coffee ❤️
Car ride to the gym was perfect. True colors of real relationships 💕
I loved the Mitchell Gold + Bob Williams chairs in Hunter's office! Literally almost commented in the last video that his office needed some boucle. I think they offered a beautiful contrast with all the dark in there.
Where did you get the vase from?
Love the introooo so much!! Juliaaaaaa girl....the world "like" is ur favorite lol...i counted "like" 120 times on the car ride..i was the same way...and then i challanged myself to not say it...its a comfort word in our vocabulary....u got this!!!
I actually had to fast forward that entire car ride 😂 I just couldn’t listen 🥺
@@Sarah__x3 i tried the best i could...but i miss them lol and i love their car rides talk
Hello you two! 👋 New subscriber here and I know it might be an odd question considering it wasn't even something you focused on but where is the white lampshade from that you asked your dog not to touch? I'm super picky about lamp shades so I'm loving it and curious where it's from? Thank you!
As someone who has studied MBTI for years, most likely what happened isn't that you became an extravert. It's that you developed your second cognitive function, which exhibits extraverted tendencies if you are dominantly an introvert. It's definitely normal to develop your second function as you get older!
Where did you get the lighted branches for your entry?
Good for you guys taking a break i missed ya but new you were doin summn worthwhile🥰
The anxiety conversation hit home going through postpartum has somehow made me isolate myself and you guys having this convo just motivated me to work on this. 💞
I’m in the exact same boat! Postpartum has also thrown my hormones off like crazy. Sending you love 💗
@@tiaratran Thank you sending you love and positive vibes as well! I hope you and your family have a wonderful holiday!! 🤍
Amen! I’m right there with you. It’s difficult to try and navigate life as a new parent. I had my baby 6 months ago and I’m still struggling to have a life outside of baby. But awareness is the first step. ❤️ I’m with you girl
@@cyndicopeland4113 it’s definitely tough!!!! I agree awareness is the first step! Second step find solutions. I’m sending you a lot of positive vibes, love and peace!!! You got this! We got this! Mamas unite!
That tree is gorgeous! I loved how you decorated it last year. Where is you artwork for over your bed from the last house?
I’m gonna have to be on Julia’s side on that car ride chronicle about boundaries and finding peace and love in pleasing others. My husband is the same.
I love ❤️ it too Hunter... The gallery wall above the couch. Looks fire 🔥
I’ve been missing Havens videos before bed
I’m digging your color palette in your bedroom! Very soothing 👍
Thank you for sharing. Your home is so beautiful. The tree is gorgeous! Love the car convo. 🎄🎅
Julia, what brand of watch are you wearing? I love it. Looked on “like to know it” but don’t see it. Thanks in advance! 💕❤️💕
Rolex!
@@JuliaHunterHavens, Thank you!!!
YES WE ALL BROTHERS AND SISTERS FOR SURE! The Devil comes to kill steal and destroy that is HIS ONLY job! It is our job to recognize it had seek discernment over everything.
Missed you guys and I understand life gets in the way. Hiring help will be great for you guys!!’
Don’t wait for the World to change. Change it yourself.
100% ❤️❤️
Id love to know the podcast Julia was talking about! I really struggle with the same past fears she talks about.
Where’s the rug in Julia’s office from?
“It’s December 12th… I’m pissed” 😂😂 love the gallery wall hunter I think it looks great
Where is the dresser in the bedroom from?
WHERE is the tree from?? Its gorgeous
What was the podcast you listened to? I'd love to hear!
Wash everything before using ;)
Se live in Central Florida and around this time my husband’s allergies 🤧 kick hiss butt!
He was fine when we first moved here but now there are back! I feel for you ❤️
Have a wonderful Christmas time with family 🎅🏻🎄
Hunters gallery wall looks amazing!!!
Beautiful decor 🎄Merry Christmas 🎅. Your sweatshirt is so cute here.
Miss you guys. I'm glad you guys are back. Great job on the house so far. Keep up great work.
Where is the cute gold lamp that you moved from your office from? 😍
That bedding the way it is, perfection!! The chairs make it super white lol
Yeahhhhh Julia I am so glad your coming out of your shell. I pray you can start responding to us viewers.
We do our best! We always appreciate your support.
The gallery wall turned out great! Where did you get your office chairs in both rooms?
Binge watching your channel 💕
I LOVE the chairs in y’alls bedroom!
Hunter: “I do Julia a lot…in the evenings”
Julia: “okay…😳”
Aww! This intro song gets me all the time! I adore y’all both! Welcome back! You have been missed! Glad you took a break! 🙋🏻♀️❤️
Merry Christmas ‼️Thanks for sharing your journey decorating your home ❤️
Soooooo pretty and cozy Christmas!
Happy Holidays! Looking forward to you guys getting some help, to ease some of your workload. & I love the house updates.
❤ 🎄❄
we love y’all so much 💗💗💗💗
Absolutely love this intro song!!! 🤩
What podcast are you referring to!? I’d love to check it out!