Miranda July on Strangers

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  • LECTURE @THE SCHOOL OF LIFE: You can tell a lot about someone you don't know from the contents of their wallet. There's also a lot that you can't tell. Filmmaker, artist and writer Miranda July comes to The School of Life and tells us more.
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  • @loneraven2896
    @loneraven2896 11 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    why do i love her so much?

    • @MrUndersolo
      @MrUndersolo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hey, she’s mine...!

  • @finnianwilliamson
    @finnianwilliamson 9 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    So amazing and inspiring. These are life-changing videos...

  • @1991stacy
    @1991stacy 9 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    This is hard to watch because of the over the top and unfitting audience laugher.

    • @ayebraine
      @ayebraine 9 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      potatowitheyes Think that this was happening while the audience followed Miranda July's instructions, and touched a complete stranger. Everyone was feeling nervous, but earnest, I think all of that was kinda nervous laughter, not "safe and condescending" laughter.

    • @AnnieeBubble
      @AnnieeBubble 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      potatowitheyes perhaps it was staged to bring light to the 'annoying laughing man on a table' bit ?

    • @TodKopfstein
      @TodKopfstein 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yeah, that was a strangely sustained response. and i dont know why it irked me. but it did.

  • @rebeccanascimento8234
    @rebeccanascimento8234 9 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Just amazing!

  • @Liz-sc3np
    @Liz-sc3np 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I like how the cringe this lecture gives off match succinctly the awkwardness of meeting strangers, at least for me. People have such fantastic live stories.

  • @shep9194
    @shep9194 8 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Miranda is extremely cute

  • @Melinda_Sue
    @Melinda_Sue 10 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    lovely.

  • @RykerBaloun
    @RykerBaloun 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I worked on one of your movies as a toddler lol

  • @Genny-Zee
    @Genny-Zee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Imagine going to an auction only to win tweezers

  • @malenkaradi3397
    @malenkaradi3397 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    oh, I feel really like a stranger...

  • @twilightlover2443
    @twilightlover2443 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Damn sup jarvis

  • @estebansteverincon7117
    @estebansteverincon7117 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Getting Portlanders to interact with a stranger is like trying to get water out of a rock.

  • @clariceabreu10
    @clariceabreu10 10 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    what´s wrong with people these days?? why do they/you need to laugh like this? can´t people just listen?? not everything needs to be a stand up show, you know? you can see how uncomfortable she is in the beginning because the audience just won´t shut up and listen.
    she is so great.

    • @echopathy
      @echopathy 9 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      i suspect she's in tune with that type of audience reflex. she seems to have a bit of vaudevillian sentiment and delivery - which is a selling point. especially toward people who might otherwise avoid awkward or difficult subjects. real stories and feelings are a hard message to sell. humor and beauty helps. the crux ascends beyond the nervous behavior of the masses. this show makes me well up inside. it's perfect in all its awkward laughter. blah blah blah :-)

    • @joonks7373
      @joonks7373 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      All the people in the room were nervous/uncomfortable and for many people just talking to someone they don't know (a 'stranger') is a challenge. For these people touching and holding a 'stranger' is scary, nerve racking and unknown. Some people struggle to express any feelings at all, even to the ones they love and or know best.....Of course this can seem silly. Laughter is a way of expressing nervous energy. I suggest the majority of the audience were laughing for these reasons and not out of disrespect or an inability to listen.

    • @joonks7373
      @joonks7373 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Isn't it nice how we have come together to try and open up our minds, sharing different perspectives.

    • @lurelurche
      @lurelurche 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      She is funny, I think at some point was funny and then just couldn't stop.

  • @aarond9563
    @aarond9563 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is so much better and different from what I expected

  • @shayvanchris
    @shayvanchris 11 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    my life is crap but miranda july (and john green) always put a smile on my face

    • @RedRumble14
      @RedRumble14 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Are you alive

  • @niory
    @niory 9 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This was heart warming !
    only 10 thousand pound will turn my life upside down now and will help me but I know people that are in despaired need for only 500 pound !

  • @davasmith4532
    @davasmith4532 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is so brillant and hilarious.
    Mj is a genuis and a comic genuis.

  • @Genny-Zee
    @Genny-Zee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I remember a similar thing at Lilly Singh’s show where she asks us to introduce ourselves and shake the person’s hand in front of us. Should be more common practice in today’s world! Miranda July is an inspiring, insightful, humourous person whom I could chat with about stuff for hours. Kajillionaire was excellent.

  • @Hiphop101ize
    @Hiphop101ize 9 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    what is this, this is weird?

  • @yoooyoyooo
    @yoooyoyooo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I would go to this kind of a event.

  • @brianodell8454
    @brianodell8454 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    One of the best sermons I've ever experienced... and I've heard a lot in churches, believe me!

  • @ThePeaceFrog722
    @ThePeaceFrog722 10 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    is that...jarvis cocker 0:21

    • @candleshiningred
      @candleshiningred 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      yep, i mean...if not, it's it's double!

    • @bquandary
      @bquandary 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      YES!

  • @tomgeorgearts
    @tomgeorgearts 8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I've felt for a while that the school of life is aimed at an exclusively middle-class audience and this just confirms it. Bidding over £100 for a pair of tweezers may be fun if £100 is loose change to you, but to anyone else it looks a bit tasteless. What does this show actually teach us about the need to open up to strangers? What efforts is SOL trying to reach the people who are most in need of liberation? I'm talking about those who have not had a decent education, who are struggling to makes ends meet. So many other kinds of suffering flow from economic stress. Alain de Botton was born into a very rich family and is steeped in academia, if he is serious about improving society he should be attempting to make his considerable wisdom 'trickle down' more.

    • @lurelurche
      @lurelurche 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      For us middle-class is hard to put money on perspective sometimes, Alain does, he talks meritocracy, he's helping us middle-class feel less trapped and more emotionally prepared to get out of our silly sorrows and actually be kind and see options and creating community.
      If you can't reflect on this exercise or feel something new It's on you, keep criticizing because it's easy and free.

    • @acdb-4145
      @acdb-4145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He does put out a lot of content for free. And you can't judge the entite SOL on a single lecture. Remember that people speak from experience, and if they've only had a middle-class experience, that is all they know. I like SOL and a lot of their lectures, but I don't agree with everything they say. Philosophy is for everyone, though admittedly, not everyone has ready access to libraries/classes/other ppl to talk to about philosophy.

  • @fufuberry23
    @fufuberry23 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Miranda July is so good at asking questions
    what a talent.

  • @nias3202
    @nias3202 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wonderful! So much vulnerability and strength at the same time. Thank you ❤

  • @coughdrop01
    @coughdrop01 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    this is delightful

  • @joonks7373
    @joonks7373 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Maybe so.. I didnt get that from it.... Sn obnoxious crowd would have talked continually amomgst themselves and or walked out. An obnoxious crowd or imdividual would so either no interest or disdain. We interpreted their reactions and participation differently, that is all.... I currently still feel the same about it, but i have not watched since my first comment, maybe my interpretation of the events would change if i watched again...

  • @muha2762
    @muha2762 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    nice

  • @SERGE_Tech
    @SERGE_Tech 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    first time I saw her me you and everybody we know movie dang she was awesome.

  • @AntonSlavik
    @AntonSlavik 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How do people not _get_ this? Maybe they need to loosen their expectations?

  • @suki3275
    @suki3275 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I found this talk to be mostly uncomfortable. I understand that it is rude to laugh but Im not sure how she didnt anticipate some nervous clammor after instructing the entire audience to touch each other. She didnt adapt to their responses or relate to possibly turn that into a memorable, funny, moment, she just sat uncomfortably and passive agressively told them to stop. Im saying she didnt really allow herself comfortable control of the audience. So she put a lot of distracting things in the talk - like the touching. Then when she interviewed I couldnt stop uncomfortably looking at the spinning tweezers. Meh

    • @metacarpitan
      @metacarpitan 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i got the same feeling, very umconfortable talk.

    • @coreycox2345
      @coreycox2345 8 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I have thought, of her other work that I am familiar with, that she deliberately creates discomfort and unfamiliarity. She then uses it to show humanity. Some of her characters are so lovely.

  • @lorenapereira4432
    @lorenapereira4432 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    0:21 - spotted jarvis cocker!

  • @joshn2564
    @joshn2564 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sure being at the event is best, watching it online is challenging without some stranger holding my arm loses meaning.

  • @christophlohnherr
    @christophlohnherr 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is that Jarvis Cocker in the audience (the one that gets hugged in the intro)?

  • @ChrisOrillia
    @ChrisOrillia 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's "talking to humans," the board game--something only valuable as some kind of anti-fascist social experiment. The sustaining bit--a pure mass cringe--was unsettling, even disturbing. It would have served her right, but it's lucky someone didn't get punched. I don't give a shit why, some people don't like being touched. She knows they can't express refusal in time--it's a crowd--and doesn't care if she upsets someone really sensitive, or creates annoying peer pressure disputes--all to no end.

  • @shhhman1
    @shhhman1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    does she have an earpiece in her ear? sounds like it

  • @sedeslav
    @sedeslav 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Cute...KAWAIII! ...and shy...and cute just for that!

  • @hardercorky
    @hardercorky 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hermoso

  • @adampickard9880
    @adampickard9880 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    despite how negative the audience hating is, I really appreciate how British it is

  • @tryVUK
    @tryVUK 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jeez, is this in Norway?