This is your life & your decision, regardless of what we/ or other think, it wont matter as long you two are happy and have learned your lessons. Best wishes to you and your husband!
Tos li peb cov poj niam hmoob pheej ntxub2 cov niag poj nrauj los 90% cov poj nrauj lub hom phiaj yeej yog yuav los txeeb luag tej lub neej ua nkaus2 xwb ne. Poj niam hmoob mas thiaj li tsis txawj sib hlub kiag li ne.
I wished these older Hmong women knew how to love themselves and stop being so obessed with being married and having a husband. Learn to be independent and by yourself. You don't need a man that doesn't love you and disrespects you.
Tus vivncaus aw Txhob tu siab os mog. Luag twb hlub koj tsis txaus luag thiaj muaj dua tus tshiab. Kav liam lam los nyob ua cav lwj sib ib xam tias koj tej me nyuam tseem muaj niam muaj txiv mog. Vam tias koj tus txiv siab yuav nqig lawm es nws yuav tiv rov los hlub koj li yav tav los Tab sis peb yeej paub tias dej txiag paug siab lawm ces yeej txawv yav tas los. Pab koj Tu siab kawg os.
Tus me niam tsev kv qhuas kj zaj neej neeg no .kj lub tswv yim zoo heev neb thiaj rov qab los sib yuav dua kv xav tias tom ntej no neb tsum sib 2 hlub kom nej me nyuam musj niam muaj li luag thiab yus txhob xav lub siab ti 2 mog ua siab loj mog
So true. Hmong people, especially women are so judgmental against a divorced woman. Let us rise above that for we don’t know the real story behind the reasons why the marriage fail. Let us as women support each other and provide encouragement to one another....
Kv li kv siab nqig vim g muaj tus txiv dev Liam ntaw los nyob puas ntsejmuag lawm kj hais g yog, lawm vivncaus, hais li ko ces tsuas yog kj g yog tag peb cov g muaj txiv
yog tseem ua tau neej ces ua mog.yog ua npaum cas los tsis zoo mam nrauj txhob lam sib nrauj ua dog dig.vim yog ntshai zoo li no thiab tsam menyuam txom nyem peb sawv daws thiaj tseem sib uv vim tseem ua tau neeg thiab..es sib uv sib yoog nws mus los tsis txog twg yus mus los tsis txog twg
I want to hear a story about a person leaving their cheating ungrateful partner, found self love, respect, independency, and went to explore the world and make a great impact on the community as a whole. Remain deaf to ignorance judgemental relatives who makes less money. Live life happy and is no one’s slave, is not trying to play the “I’m a victim that is still helping everyone regardless if they treat me like trash, oh please pity me” etc Hmong community needs to hear some uplifting motivating story!
Hmong women need to have more confident and self love. Don't be afraid to be by yourself! Why do you women want to be married and always wanted to have a husband! We women have to love, respect, and take care ourselves first!!!
Sister may this story bad.n good.qhov phem yog nkawd tsis xav tag mam ua kev txhaum.qhov zoo yog nkawd rov muab nkawd lub neej zoo li daim pam uas nkawd muab ntxhua tag mam ziab qhuav mam coj los vov dua tej npam kuj yuav huv lawm.vam tias nkawd yuav txawj kho kom zoo mus lawm xwb.
Koj rov qab lawm los tsis ua cas os vim nws twb Pom dej dag lawm Ntaj nws yuav hloov os es ua li koj hais yus mus ub ib tug txaus ib nta xwb ntshe tseem yuav Nyiaj tshaj qhov rov mus ub yus tus es rov mus hlub yus cov os es qhov ntawd yeej yog qhov yog lawm mog
Tus sister yeej yog li kj tus txiv qhia kj nws twb txaus siab hlub kj ua zoo rau kj cas kj xyaum ua li nws ua es kj tsis xyuam kj kawm ua ces ntev mus nws yuav lem ntawd kj mus ntag vim tiam 21 no txiv neej liam2 lawv nyiam ua li dev li npua xwb os nawb hehe
Viv ncaus aw koj mas muaj hmoo heev li os es koj tus txiv thiaj li yuav koj rov qab os. Tsheem nws tseem yuav koj ces kav tsij yuav kiag xwb, thiab kav tsij uv yog tseem uv tau nawb, tamsim no txiv tsaug heev li os
Khuv xim ua luaj li tseem ho nrauj ua dab si na cov tsi khuv xim ma yeej tsi nco li nawb xa tia tom ntej yuav zoo tom ntej yeej ts cuaj li yus tu txiv nawb
Tus viv ncaws aw kuv yeej xav li koj xav thiab os yog nws tseem hlub cov menuyuam thiab ces kawg uv xwb os tsuav kom cov menyuam muaj niam muaj txiv xwb os tus sab nraum xyov nws muaj ib pab menyuam thiab xyov puas npaum tus qub thiab os cov menyuam yog 2 leeg li ntshe yuav zoo dua os yog uv tus tshiab ces xum uv tus qub xwb os...
Peb hmoob cas yuav ntshaw kom muaj meej mom ua luaj. Txawm muaj meej mom npaum cas los yeej tsis tau ib tug nom ib tug tswv qhov twg ua. Muaj meej mom los yog niag txiv xuaj ua luaj ces tsis txog twg. Txhob xav tias mus tom tej es tib neeg tej tsa tes nuv yus ces yog luag hwm hwm yus no mog. Thaum yus nyob ntawv ces luag tsa tes nuv yus. Thaum yus ploj kiag ntawm luag ib sab lawm ces luag ham tsis sib ntxhis pes daws xwb mos. Kuv pom thiab hnov los lawm ntau os. Hmoob mas yog ib co neeg hais ncauj lus phem tshaj plaws xwb os.
ua cas yuav ntshaw yaim pim yaim qau ua hnub ua hmo xwb na 3 hmoob aw?zaj neej neeg sib nrauj sib tso twg los vim yog tib nqi tsis sib yaim xwb es thaum ub 3 hmoob twb tsis kam nkag qab hlua ziab khaub ncaws twb tsis kam poj niam hla 3 txiv neej taub hau nev cas tiam no tsuas saib txoj kev sib yàim no muaj nuj nqis ua luaj yog vim li cas lawm tiag 3 hmoob ?
Kuv ntseeg tias tsis yog koj ruam es rov los ub nawb. Qhov no vim peb yog Hmoob peb xav rau peb lub neej rau peb tej mi rub mi nyuam vim peb tsis Pom txoj hmoo tsam Tom ntej tseem yuav yog qhov Nyiaj thiab qhov tu siab tshaj ces ua li koj lub siab xav yeej tsis txhaum leej twg os tus viv ncaus
Tus me niam tsev aw, yog txawj xav npaum li koj ko es cas ho tsis xav txhij xav txhua ua ntej los lus “Nrauj”! Neb khub txij nkawm ko ces yeej ruam ib yam nkaus! Mloog mas yog koj muab koj lub hwj chim txo qis heev lawm! Kuv xav mas kom cov Poj nrauj yuav tsum zoo siab rau koj lub npe Poj nrauj vim tias koj tsuas tshem tus neeg phem tawm hauv koj lub neej xwb nav! Thov kom tsis txhob ruam, ruam nawb!!
Peb cov niam tsev hmoob txhob ruam ruam.os peb nyob meka teb tsis yog nyob nplog teb os txhob ntseeg ntseeg peb tus txiv tag tag os peb yuav tau ceev faj lub neej tom ntej vim.peb yug me nyuam coob coob rau lawb thaum kawg peb lub cev laus lawm lawv tsis pom yus zoo lawm lawv thiaj li hloov siab mus tham dua tus tshiab vim.koj xav ua lub neej zoo lo koj tus txiv yog tus rhuav ne txhob yug yug me nyuam coob tsam tsis pom yus zoo os tos peb cov niam tsev hmoob tau kev txom nyem tshaj lo vim.peb yug me nyuam ntau tus thiab peb cov txiv lo pib liam.tuaj lawm peb yuav tau hlub peb tus kheej txhob tso tso siab rau pev cov txiv dev liam no mog tsam txog kawg ua kab mob os tus niam tsev
Tus niam tsev koj ruam dhau ne tos koj tus txiv hloov siab na cas ntse koj tsis pub 100 pov cas koj yuav ntseeg koj tus txiv ko ua luaj na tos koj paub ces luag ua txua yam hloov tag os pab koj tu siab tom koj tso siab dhau ne txhob ruam txog qhov luag nyiag pob nyiaj koj tsis paub txog vim.koj tsis saib xyuas nyiaj li ne
oh my god. if u still gonna dwell on the past; y u divorce first place. khuv xim npaum koj ntshaw meej mom li koj es cas tsis lam hu ua niam loj nas tus niam tsev ruam...
Wow this is should be so lucky! tus pojniam hmoob no zoo tshaj!
Grass not always greener on the other side....
This is your life & your decision, regardless of what we/ or other think, it wont matter as long you two are happy and have learned your lessons. Best wishes to you and your husband!
Tos li peb cov poj niam hmoob pheej ntxub2 cov niag poj nrauj los 90% cov poj nrauj lub hom phiaj yeej yog yuav los txeeb luag tej lub neej ua nkaus2 xwb ne. Poj niam hmoob mas thiaj li tsis txawj sib hlub kiag li ne.
I wished these older Hmong women knew how to love themselves and stop being so obessed with being married and having a husband. Learn to be independent and by yourself. You don't need a man that doesn't love you and disrespects you.
No kidding!
Easier said than done. Have you experienced a 30 year marriage where your husband finally cheats on you when you’re 50? Bye 👋🏽
G nyiam mloog kj zaj no
Tham tau zoo hả
Koj ua yog kawg os tus ne niam tsev pab neb zoo siab rov los sib hlub lawm os
Tshuav nws ris siab lawm ces zoo lawm os me koj niam lawm .koj ua yog lawm os koj niam aw.!!
Oh li lo muam
Tus vivncaus aw Txhob tu siab os mog. Luag twb hlub koj tsis txaus luag thiaj muaj dua tus tshiab. Kav liam lam los nyob ua cav lwj sib ib xam tias koj tej me nyuam tseem muaj niam muaj txiv mog. Vam tias koj tus txiv siab yuav nqig lawm es nws yuav tiv rov los hlub koj li yav tav los Tab sis peb yeej paub tias dej txiag paug siab lawm ces yeej txawv yav tas los.
Pab koj Tu siab kawg os.
Rov qab sib yuav los yeej yog qhov zoo.
Tus me niam tsev kv qhuas kj zaj neej neeg no .kj lub tswv yim zoo heev neb thiaj rov qab los sib yuav dua kv xav tias tom ntej no neb tsum sib 2 hlub kom nej me nyuam musj niam muaj li luag thiab yus txhob xav lub siab ti 2 mog ua siab loj mog
Lub meej mom dev txhob ntshaw. Love yourself and respect yourself. Enjoy your single life, it is ok to be single and do not settle for just anyone.
Zoo kawg rov yuav tus qub zoo tshaj os
So true. Hmong people, especially women are so judgmental against a divorced woman. Let us rise above that for we don’t know the real story behind the reasons why the marriage fail. Let us as women support each other and provide encouragement to one another....
Nej phaum laus noj npaj nauj dhau lawm os tos tej niag txiv pheej hloov siab , yam yog cawv tau yus lub neej ces ua xwb mas tus niam tsev aw
Sister aw, koj rov qab mus yuav koj tus txiv los yeej zoo kawg. Zoo has nws tseem khuv xim koj es ho rov kam yuav koj os.
Mi vi ncaus tsis muaj tus txiv lawm los yus nyob yus os mog muaj txiv los yog ua phem li koj tus ces yuav ua yus tuag xwb os koj rob hlub koj zoo dua
Yog! Pom dej dag siab nqis rov los sib yuav los zoo mog kav tsij sib hlub..nrog koj zoo siab..
Koj lub Siab luv dhau lawm koj thiaj rhuav koj lub Neej koj puas Pa tias koj tab Tom yuam kev lawm os
Kv li kv siab nqig vim g muaj tus txiv dev Liam ntaw los nyob puas ntsejmuag lawm kj hais g yog, lawm vivncaus, hais li ko ces tsuas yog kj g yog tag peb cov g muaj txiv
Txoj kev txij nkawm yuav tsum tau sib yoog lub neej thiaj tsis puas. Yog koj tus txij nkawm taij kom koj hloov yuav tsum xyaum li yam nws nyiam thiab.
yog tseem ua tau neej ces ua mog.yog ua npaum cas los tsis zoo mam nrauj txhob lam sib nrauj ua dog dig.vim yog ntshai zoo li no thiab tsam menyuam txom nyem peb sawv daws thiaj tseem sib uv vim tseem ua tau neeg thiab..es sib uv sib yoog nws mus los tsis txog twg yus mus los tsis txog twg
I want to hear a story about a person leaving their cheating ungrateful partner, found self love, respect, independency, and went to explore the world and make a great impact on the community as a whole. Remain deaf to ignorance judgemental relatives who makes less money. Live life happy and is no one’s slave, is not trying to play the “I’m a victim that is still helping everyone regardless if they treat me like trash, oh please pity me” etc Hmong community needs to hear some uplifting motivating story!
Lol. Same here. I want to hear those motivational stories like you said too.
Tos cov txiv neej no lawv hais tias peb niam yog siab qev no uas yog lawm
Hmong women need to have more confident and self love. Don't be afraid to be by yourself! Why do you women want to be married and always wanted to have a husband! We women have to love, respect, and take care ourselves first!!!
Sister may this story bad.n good.qhov phem yog nkawd tsis xav tag mam ua kev txhaum.qhov zoo yog nkawd rov muab nkawd lub neej zoo li daim pam uas nkawd muab ntxhua tag mam ziab qhuav mam coj los vov dua tej npam kuj yuav huv lawm.vam tias nkawd yuav txawj kho kom zoo mus lawm xwb.
Peb ua lub neej nyob;
1. Yog yus niam thiab yus txiv,
2. Education/Kev kawm ntaub kawm ntawv,
3. Money/Nyiaj txiag,
4. Tus txij nkawm/Kev sib hlub,
5. Leadership/Kev coj thiab Meej Mom,
6. Vaj lug kub twb teev tseg hais tias Vaj Tswv yeej zam txim tau rau txhua2 tus uas tau ua yuam thiab txaum,
7. Ua cas koj ho zam txim tsis tau rau tus neeg koj hlub!
Zaj neej nes no hais lau zoo nawb xav kom kov niam lsev ua lib zoo xa. Ov yj mob khim heev
Yog yuav mus ua luag niam yau ces rov los ua niam loj zoo dua ho..
Kuv los kuv yeej ua li koj thiab os tus me niam laus
Better to be alone then be with someone who treats you miserable everyday!!!
Koj rov qab lawm los tsis ua cas os vim nws twb Pom dej dag lawm Ntaj nws yuav hloov os es ua li koj hais yus mus ub ib tug txaus ib nta xwb ntshe tseem yuav Nyiaj tshaj qhov rov mus ub yus tus es rov mus hlub yus cov os es qhov ntawd yeej yog qhov yog lawm mog
Tus sister yeej yog li kj tus txiv qhia kj nws twb txaus siab hlub kj ua zoo rau kj cas kj xyaum ua li nws ua es kj tsis xyuam kj kawm ua ces ntev mus nws yuav lem ntawd kj mus ntag vim tiam 21 no txiv neej liam2 lawv nyiam ua li dev li npua xwb os nawb hehe
Yog lawm os tus me niam laus aw vim yus yug me nyuam yus laus lawm zuj zum tiag22 li tus siab 6 yus yog poj niam yug me nyuam o.
Viv ncaus aw koj mas muaj hmoo heev li os es koj tus txiv thiaj li yuav koj rov qab os. Tsheem nws tseem yuav koj ces kav tsij yuav kiag xwb, thiab kav tsij uv yog tseem uv tau nawb, tamsim no txiv tsaug heev li os
Meej mom g yg us muaj. Yg lwm tug muab 6 us. Poj niam txiv neej los ib yam.
This is the biggest issue with Hmong women of the older generation. They need self love, confidence, Independence and gosh move on women!!
Txiv tsev zoo. Nej yuav laj nrhiav tau os cov niam tsev lim liam.
Zaum no ces yuav tau xyaum noj nqaij nyoos thiab yiam ice cream kom keej2 nawb es lub neej thiaj tsis puas ntxiv lawm os
Tsisv tshob ntshaw meej mom oz mog thov nug yusblub siab seb yuav ua cas swb.
Best of luck!
Self love. Why you regret such life?
Yuav uv cas Tsis uv thaum Tsis nrauj
She's a good woman
Nrauj lawm ces txhob khuv xim, nyob los koj tseem yuav mob stroke thiab
Hmoob txoj keV ntshaw meej mom os lol
yog leej twg los yeej mob siab os
Thaum yuav nrauj twb tsis muaj neeg yuam neb nev...zoo li neb ces yog dev lawm xwb...nyob deb lawv taw tes nyob ze ces lawv taw ncauj lawm los mas
Rov qab los koj tuav kuv saib , kuv ntxi koj xyuas ces neb happy happy mus tas ib tiam xwb las mas.
U shuldnt divorce first place if u knew u cant live without him. Ntshaw lub meej mom heev dhau kavtsi uv li koj hais tiag xwb.
Khuv xim ua luaj li tseem ho nrauj ua dab si na cov tsi khuv xim ma yeej tsi nco li nawb xa tia tom ntej yuav zoo tom ntej yeej ts cuaj li yus tu txiv nawb
ua cas niam no es nej yuav xyaum noj thiab yaim xwb los cas na
You look very beautiful with & without makeup on sister
Tus viv ncaws aw kuv yeej xav li koj xav thiab os yog nws tseem hlub cov menuyuam thiab ces kawg uv xwb os tsuav kom cov menyuam muaj niam muaj txiv xwb os tus sab nraum xyov nws muaj ib pab menyuam thiab xyov puas npaum tus qub thiab os cov menyuam yog 2 leeg li ntshe yuav zoo dua os yog uv tus tshiab ces xum uv tus qub xwb os...
Peb hmoob cas yuav ntshaw kom muaj meej mom ua luaj. Txawm muaj meej mom npaum cas los yeej tsis tau ib tug nom ib tug tswv qhov twg ua. Muaj meej mom los yog niag txiv xuaj ua luaj ces tsis txog twg. Txhob xav tias mus tom tej es tib neeg tej tsa tes nuv yus ces yog luag hwm hwm yus no mog. Thaum yus nyob ntawv ces luag tsa tes nuv yus. Thaum yus ploj kiag ntawm luag ib sab lawm ces luag ham tsis sib ntxhis pes daws xwb mos. Kuv pom thiab hnov los lawm ntau os. Hmoob mas yog ib co neeg hais ncauj lus phem tshaj plaws xwb os.
Niam laus koj puas kam tso zaj muaj npe tias"tsis muaj koj lub ntiaj teb kuv tsis muaj nqis" dua lawm os vim kuv nyiam heev
Yog kab nteg qe tsis txog li koj ces rov yuav los ma..
Zaj no cia pojniam hmoob coj mus xav seb tim leej twg hahahhah
ua cas yuav ntshaw yaim pim yaim qau ua hnub ua hmo xwb na 3 hmoob aw?zaj neej neeg sib nrauj sib tso twg los vim yog tib nqi tsis sib yaim xwb es thaum ub 3 hmoob twb tsis kam nkag qab hlua ziab khaub ncaws twb tsis kam poj niam hla 3 txiv neej taub hau nev cas tiam no tsuas saib txoj kev sib yàim no muaj nuj nqis ua luaj yog vim li cas lawm tiag 3 hmoob ?
This lady needs to have more self confidence.
Kuv ntseeg tias tsis yog koj ruam es rov los ub nawb. Qhov no vim peb yog Hmoob peb xav rau peb lub neej rau peb tej mi rub mi nyuam vim peb tsis Pom txoj hmoo tsam Tom ntej tseem yuav yog qhov Nyiaj thiab qhov tu siab tshaj ces ua li koj lub siab xav yeej tsis txhaum leej twg os tus viv ncaus
Vidncaus aw, zoo phem los yus tus txiv & yog cov menyuam txiv ua siab uv mog. Lub neej tiam 21 no, txivneej tsawg2 lawm. Cov txiv phem coob, cov zoo tsawg. Ua 1 siab nyob tuav nws lub neej & cov menyuam ntshe lub neej zoo dua.
yog koj rov qab yuav koj tus txiv ces koj kuj zoo siab hlo ua rau koj tus txiv qhov nws tshaw2 lawm puas yog? twb tsi nyuaj kiag puas yog naj?
Haha. Your husband deserve it. He gave you the chance to cheat on him Legally.
Yog tseem khuv xim puam ko ces g tag nrauj li mas
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Yeah, he gonna cheat on you again because he know you are too stupid to move on.
Koj niag txiv neb ces sib phim xwb nws mus yuav ib tug los tsis yom thawj koj tsis uv koj muab nrauj tag koj mus tham2 hluas nraug los tsis tom thawj. Neb ces ntshe yog hom niam txiv es koj xav mis aim tus sab nraug in zaug kuv xav mus aim tus sab nrauv ib zaug kom ob leeg txaus siab tag mam rov los nyob uake thiaj nyob taus xwb. Tab sis nco ntsoov txiv neej hmoob lawv tsis zam txim yooj yim rau poj niam hmoob. Lwm hnub nws tsis xav yuav koj ces nws rov tsuav qub lus rau kuv tib yus ces yus kawg rov swb dua.
Tus me niam tsev aw, yog txawj xav npaum li koj ko es cas ho tsis xav txhij xav txhua ua ntej los lus “Nrauj”! Neb khub txij nkawm ko ces yeej ruam ib yam nkaus! Mloog mas yog koj muab koj lub hwj chim txo qis heev lawm! Kuv xav mas kom cov Poj nrauj yuav tsum zoo siab rau koj lub npe Poj nrauj vim tias koj tsuas tshem tus neeg phem tawm hauv koj lub neej xwb nav! Thov kom tsis txhob ruam, ruam nawb!!
Peb cov niam tsev hmoob txhob ruam ruam.os peb nyob meka teb tsis yog nyob nplog teb os txhob ntseeg ntseeg peb tus txiv tag tag os peb yuav tau ceev faj lub neej tom ntej vim.peb yug me nyuam coob coob rau lawb thaum kawg peb lub cev laus lawm lawv tsis pom yus zoo lawm lawv thiaj li hloov siab mus tham dua tus tshiab vim.koj xav ua lub neej zoo lo koj tus txiv yog tus rhuav ne txhob yug yug me nyuam coob tsam tsis pom yus zoo os tos peb cov niam tsev hmoob tau kev txom nyem tshaj lo vim.peb yug me nyuam ntau tus thiab peb cov txiv lo pib liam.tuaj lawm peb yuav tau hlub peb tus kheej txhob tso tso siab rau pev cov txiv dev liam no mog tsam txog kawg ua kab mob os tus niam tsev
Tus niam tsev koj ruam dhau ne tos koj tus txiv hloov siab na cas ntse koj tsis pub 100 pov cas koj yuav ntseeg koj tus txiv ko ua luaj na tos koj paub ces luag ua txua yam hloov tag os pab koj tu siab tom koj tso siab dhau ne txhob ruam txog qhov luag nyiag pob nyiaj koj tsis paub txog vim.koj tsis saib xyuas nyiaj li ne
TUS VIVCNAUS AW NROG KOJ ZOO SIAB HAIS TIAS ROV QAB PIB DUA LUB NEEJ TSHIAB NROG TUS ME TXIV QUB MOG VIM NEB MUAJ IB PAB ME NYUAM UA KE LAWM NAWB...
oh my god. if u still gonna dwell on the past; y u divorce first place. khuv xim npaum koj ntshaw meej mom li koj es cas tsis lam hu ua niam loj nas tus niam tsev ruam...