I was 15 when I was first diagnosed with premature ovarian failure and can relate. It's like greaving for someone you will never meet. Even now at 36 I don't know anyone personally who has it . It's tough but I realised a few years ago it wasn't my fault and not to be embarrassed or ashamed to tell people. Good on her for talking about it, at least theres a lot more advice and support now than there used to be x
@@TrippinOntheStars hi Jess, I understand where you are coming from, it's not something that you hear about often so speaking to people who are going though it are rare. Are you on Instagram?
i don’t like how the parents phrased it. She can still be a mother and they can still grandparents. There is adoption and many other options. Not being able to reproduce doesn’t make you any less a woman
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I'm sure that they were still processing the news and grieving the fact that they won't have biological grandchildren when they said that. In the future, if their daughter wants to adopt, they'll probably be happy with any kids that come that way.
It’s not just about having a child, it’s a hell that your whole body is going through, you feel yourself health wise like 80 years old, body changes tremendously, for a model or athlete it’s over, sports becomes difficult, you just don’t understand
I started going through perimenopause at 32. I'm 35 now when it is at its worst. I'm not post menopausal yet as I have a few more months to go without a period. I feel way too young to be going through this but 15? My heart really goes out to her. I've had my children. She will be able to minister to many of the ladies in her life as the years go on. She will become an expert.
For whoever might see this: Just because someone has it "worse" doesn't mean what you are going through doesn't suck. You're allowed to feel the way you feel about your circumstances, just don't let that stop you from living your life to the fullest.
Im 34 and at 17 they told me i had POF. And that was devastating. Throughout the years and several dissapointing verfications that im not in full blown menopause. I can say that i heard something worse. A fertility specialist told me of course he was a male. He said why am i crying? I replied youre saying i will never have children. He said i wouldnt worry about having children i would starr writing a will if i were you because if you dont take hormone replacement therapy youre going to die very yourng. I ran out of that office and cried for days to come. But i never will stop trying. If there is a god i know he has a solution for women like us.
I love your positive spirit. Ive had the same at 15. Tbh im happy i cant have children. Beeing an adult shows me how hard this life is. I dont want to put a baby in this world to go tru the same life struggles.
I understand you very well🙏🏽 I am from Russia and I have POF since 16. now I am 34. I felt lonely always and feel heartache and suffer and misunderstanding. Now I try.. try to accept, with calmness look for ways. all the will of God . when someone dared to say this, I feel support🙌🏽thanks
Hi! I’m 23 and was diagnosed yesterday… I feel the same way you do, and to be honest, a part of me still has hope that it won’t be that horrifying, because medicine is evolving so fast, and who knows, maybe there will be some progress in this domain as well. It’s so scary though, not gonna lie… I was told that I was basically going to age faster than the other girls my age too, with loads of health problems apparently… that scares me the most at the moment. I’ve already cried my share, but I don’t want to stress out my parents any further. How do you cope with it? And were you told the same thing I was? Ps: if it’s indiscreet you don’t have to tell me ofc! I’m just looking for people that might relate to me to have a discussion, as I genuinely know NO ONE that is dealing with PM… This young girl is 18 now as well, I hope she’s doing fine… it is a truly sad thing to go through, especially at that age!
I went through it at 39, which is still considered early. I feel there is not enough awareness of this. As women, we all know menopause is imminent but we're all expecting perimenopause symptoms to start at least in our mid 40s but here we are. To be part of a menopause support group helps a lot because you get to meet people of all ages going through the same thing.
It is painful to go through something like this. As I am also in the same journey. Still we have many options like adoption or surrogacy. I don’t have kids and I still don’t have any regrets. Very happy God has blessed with a healthy body and mind to achieve lot of things in life. This is not a terminal disease it’s just that you’re not able to conceive. You still have a good life and you can make a lot out of it.
I'm going through 38 and my mom is normal at 50 and I can't have children and that's the most important to me and I'm so sorry you are going through this it's no words how much women we go through
I'm 43. I was diagnosed with POF in my early 20's. I was upfront with my husband (now 49) before we got married about my inability to have biological children. We have both had to grieve the loss. We considered adoption and opted against it. Now reality is setting in that we will be old together with no one to help us. There is a lot of new research pointing towards POI being caused by autoimmune disorders. For anyone diagnosed who is still young, there is hope. Don't give up! Have your doctors look at thyroid and pituitary gland.
Im was 19 when i was diagnosed im now 35, it has been a very bumpy road and i wish i knew more about it when i was younger, there needs to be more information given as its becoming alot more herd of these days My heart goes out to all the people who have gone through this
@@Couchpotatoplayyea of course. Im very sorry to hear you are also going through this very unfortunate situation . Is there anything in particular you would like to talk about?
Poor girl, I'm 51, and had my last period about two weeks before my 50th birthday. I got my first period when I was 11 and a half years old, and I've always seen it for me personally as one of the worst things in my life. I'm kind of an adult child, and never really had much of a desire to have children. For the most part the hormones that flooded my body at puberty, and have been with me for the past almost 40 years have pretty much brought me nothing but misery for almost half of my life. If it could ever have been be possible I would have gladly traded places with this young lady, I would have gladly traded my fertility for her early menopause. It's been a year, and a half since my last cycle, I now feel happier, and more like my true self again.
It’s not only about having kids being fertile, if it’s only that it’s one thing to accept, but it’s horrible when your skin your hair gets dry, when your joints in pain and they lose flexibility and bones gets fragile, when you develop heart problems and you can barely workout 🏋️♀️ anymore, I had to leave the gym I couldn’t workout as I used to,my heart rate was going up to 190 I almost had a stroke and heart attack, my skin got thin and sluggish, hair is ugly dry, my thin waist is gone, i had a nice body now my buttocks is thinner and quads are flabby, but the stomach instead got fat and waist, I had people asking me if I’m pregnant because when they saw my body in the past and now it’s such a huge difference, people just think oh you’re just depressed stop complaining you’re young, it’s horrible on top of all the things that’s happened no one can even understand what you’re going through, night sweat and not sleep it’s just a small part of it. So I hope you understand it’s not just about not be able to have kids, and also i would mention losing desire for intimacy totally going to end your relationship
I can relate dear, because I'm going through the same thing but didn't detect it earlier and I've gone through it and give years later I got to know when I visited a private hospital, as I'm typing this, my uterus is small and I can't get pregnant and my egg count is 0.010.0 honestly, no one understands how you feel than you alone.
My gf'a birthday was yesterday Monday and the worst gift she could ever get was early menopause... she just turned 20 and she is the love of my life... and im scared of losing her 🥺🥺 We met online May 2021 and from that day she's been so special for me and is just eveything for me... for me to hear those news from her broke me down so bad that as I'm typing this my eyes are watering and i just feel so bad for my love... I feel depressed and don't want to lose her at a young age 😭😭😭
You girls shouldn’t just give up and accept this, it’s being caused by things in our environment. I even think it may be being done on purpose to stop babies being born. Your parents need to research it and they may have to spend money from their own pocket to get you treated and go to another country to see a endocrinologist and fertility doctor. They have caused men’s sperm counts to go way down too which they have to be very high to make a baby or like my granddaughter was made in a Petri dish under a microscope with one sperm injected with a tiny needle into the egg, allowed to divide for several days and then implanted. I had to give my daughter shots everyday in her bottom and she took hormone pills.
First you need a complete endocrine study and your pituitary gland looked at. You can be kept on birth control pills and if you have no eggs you can get donor eggs to have a baby in the future. Your life isn’t over but with your country’s socialized medicine they probably won’t pay for treatment. Maybe you will have to pay yourself. My daughter had high testosterone and no periods which leads to endometrial cancer, she was super strong, her hair was falling out and she would have increased risk of heart attack and no babies. She takes birth control pills to normalize everything and with fertility doctors she has a baby girl. Good luck, don’t give up!
Many of these biological disturbances are epigenetic in nature. The reality is that our environment is wildly toxic while possessing vitamin and mineral deficiencies that disturb natural functions of development.
I feel like the only one who has no thoughts on children never have and i always said i think ill just adopt and give a child a new family. The only thing is now trying to get bloody hrt when im suffering with seriously bad hot flushes its not quick enough im melting here !!! 😂😂😂😅😅😅😅
I was 15 when I was first diagnosed with premature ovarian failure and can relate. It's like greaving for someone you will never meet. Even now at 36 I don't know anyone personally who has it . It's tough but I realised a few years ago it wasn't my fault and not to be embarrassed or ashamed to tell people. Good on her for talking about it, at least theres a lot more advice and support now than there used to be x
Hey I think we should talk. I went through it at 15 and I'm 32 now and I've never known anyone else that has had this happen.
@@TrippinOntheStars hi Jess, I understand where you are coming from, it's not something that you hear about often so speaking to people who are going though it are rare. Are you on Instagram?
@@TrippinOntheStars I thought it may be better to DM than TH-cam
Got diagnosed with POF a little over a year ago at 25! 👋🏻
@@TrippinOntheStars me too :-)
i don’t like how the parents phrased it. She can still be a mother and they can still grandparents. There is adoption and many other options. Not being able to reproduce doesn’t make you any less a woman
I promise you satisfaction and total disappearance thanks to a natural treatment if you still continue to live it. We have many examples of witnesses. Contact us on WhatsApp +22 965 235 720 for information
@@docteurproduitspharmacopee8195 👎🏻
I'm sure that they were still processing the news and grieving the fact that they won't have biological grandchildren when they said that. In the future, if their daughter wants to adopt, they'll probably be happy with any kids that come that way.
It’s not just about having a child, it’s a hell that your whole body is going through, you feel yourself health wise like 80 years old, body changes tremendously, for a model or athlete it’s over, sports becomes difficult, you just don’t understand
Literally my first thought adoption.
I started going through perimenopause at 32. I'm 35 now when it is at its worst. I'm not post menopausal yet as I have a few more months to go without a period. I feel way too young to be going through this but 15? My heart really goes out to her. I've had my children. She will be able to minister to many of the ladies in her life as the years go on. She will become an expert.
So I’m not the only one, it’s a horrible thing to go through I had it at 14
For whoever might see this: Just because someone has it "worse" doesn't mean what you are going through doesn't suck. You're allowed to feel the way you feel about your circumstances, just don't let that stop you from living your life to the fullest.
Im 34 and at 17 they told me i had POF. And that was devastating. Throughout the years and several dissapointing verfications that im not in full blown menopause. I can say that i heard something worse. A fertility specialist told me of course he was a male. He said why am i crying? I replied youre saying i will never have children. He said i wouldnt worry about having children i would starr writing a will if i were you because if you dont take hormone replacement therapy youre going to die very yourng. I ran out of that office and cried for days to come. But i never will stop trying. If there is a god i know he has a solution for women like us.
I love your positive spirit. Ive had the same at 15. Tbh im happy i cant have children. Beeing an adult shows me how hard this life is. I dont want to put a baby in this world to go tru the same life struggles.
May Allah help you too dear,,same case is with me,I'm now 35 ,,its hard really hard but yeah we can't lose hope....
Yes sister stay strong am very sorry I pray for you Allah, almighty god bless you with kids and loving kids ameen
I’m so sorry that’s heartbreaking 💔 never heard of such an uncompassionate doctor
I understand you very well🙏🏽 I am from Russia and I have POF since 16. now I am 34. I felt lonely always and feel heartache and suffer and misunderstanding. Now I try.. try to accept, with calmness look for ways. all the will of God . when someone dared to say this, I feel support🙌🏽thanks
Watching this balling my eyes out bc I was diagnosed at 16 and I’m 18 and All I ever wanted was to have kids and it hurts
Hi! I’m 23 and was diagnosed yesterday… I feel the same way you do, and to be honest, a part of me still has hope that it won’t be that horrifying, because medicine is evolving so fast, and who knows, maybe there will be some progress in this domain as well.
It’s so scary though, not gonna lie… I was told that I was basically going to age faster than the other girls my age too, with loads of health problems apparently… that scares me the most at the moment.
I’ve already cried my share, but I don’t want to stress out my parents any further. How do you cope with it? And were you told the same thing I was?
Ps: if it’s indiscreet you don’t have to tell me ofc! I’m just looking for people that might relate to me to have a discussion, as I genuinely know NO ONE that is dealing with PM…
This young girl is 18 now as well, I hope she’s doing fine… it is a truly sad thing to go through, especially at that age!
@@milia.4153 was diagnosed with Premenopause around same time 3 months ago I'm 18 how's it going for you?
@@rinfay321what was your first symptoms?
I went through it at 39, which is still considered early. I feel there is not enough awareness of this. As women, we all know menopause is imminent but we're all expecting perimenopause symptoms to start at least in our mid 40s but here we are. To be part of a menopause support group helps a lot because you get to meet people of all ages going through the same thing.
That's a lot for a teenager to experience.
Hey Annabelle!! I was 19 when I was diagnosed 😊 Itll be okay, just make sure you take your meds.
It is painful to go through something like this. As I am also in the same journey. Still we have many options like adoption or surrogacy. I don’t have kids and I still don’t have any regrets. Very happy God has blessed with a healthy body and mind to achieve lot of things in life. This is not a terminal disease it’s just that you’re not able to conceive. You still have a good life and you can make a lot out of it.
I'm going through 38 and my mom is normal at 50 and I can't have children and that's the most important to me and I'm so sorry you are going through this it's no words how much women we go through
I'm 43. I was diagnosed with POF in my early 20's. I was upfront with my husband (now 49) before we got married about my inability to have biological children. We have both had to grieve the loss. We considered adoption and opted against it. Now reality is setting in that we will be old together with no one to help us. There is a lot of new research pointing towards POI being caused by autoimmune disorders. For anyone diagnosed who is still young, there is hope. Don't give up! Have your doctors look at thyroid and pituitary gland.
Im was 19 when i was diagnosed im now 35, it has been a very bumpy road and i wish i knew more about it when i was younger, there needs to be more information given as its becoming alot more herd of these days
My heart goes out to all the people who have gone through this
Wow. I am also 35 and was diagnosed at 19
Hey can we talk I am 21 and I am also diagnosed with it .. I don’t know what to do
@@Couchpotatoplayyea of course. Im very sorry to hear you are also going through this very unfortunate situation . Is there anything in particular you would like to talk about?
@@wheatstonebridgeI know it's alot more common now these days....how was your journey through it all ?
@@teresazimmermann7983 can you please share your Instagram so I can text ?
Poor thing she is so young…
My heart is broken.
You can be a mom via egg donation or adoption. I’m a mother thanks to egg donation. It’s not the end of the world. Best of luck.
Not everyone wants that.
Poor girl, I'm 51, and had my last period about two weeks before my 50th birthday. I got my first period when I was 11 and a half years old, and I've always seen it for me personally as one of the worst things in my life. I'm kind of an adult child, and never really had much of a desire to have children. For the most part the hormones that flooded my body at puberty, and have been with me for the past almost 40 years have pretty much brought me nothing but misery for almost half of my life. If it could ever have been be possible I would have gladly traded places with this young lady, I would have gladly traded my fertility for her early menopause. It's been a year, and a half since my last cycle, I now feel happier, and more like my true self again.
It’s not only about having kids being fertile, if it’s only that it’s one thing to accept, but it’s horrible when your skin your hair gets dry, when your joints in pain and they lose flexibility and bones gets fragile, when you develop heart problems and you can barely workout 🏋️♀️ anymore, I had to leave the gym I couldn’t workout as I used to,my heart rate was going up to 190 I almost had a stroke and heart attack, my skin got thin and sluggish, hair is ugly dry, my thin waist is gone, i had a nice body now my buttocks is thinner and quads are flabby, but the stomach instead got fat and waist, I had people asking me if I’m pregnant because when they saw my body in the past and now it’s such a huge difference, people just think oh you’re just depressed stop complaining you’re young, it’s horrible on top of all the things that’s happened no one can even understand what you’re going through, night sweat and not sleep it’s just a small part of it. So I hope you understand it’s not just about not be able to have kids, and also i would mention losing desire for intimacy totally going to end your relationship
@@saida817 r u on hrt ?
@@appyLippy no
I can relate dear, because I'm going through the same thing but didn't detect it earlier and I've gone through it and give years later I got to know when I visited a private hospital, as I'm typing this, my uterus is small and I can't get pregnant and my egg count is 0.010.0 honestly, no one understands how you feel than you alone.
You are very strong girl...Always keep that courage to face anything comes in front of you....❤️❤️
@@snehavermani5696 thanks dear, I'm glad for the encouragement
My gf'a birthday was yesterday Monday and the worst gift she could ever get was early menopause... she just turned 20 and she is the love of my life... and im scared of losing her 🥺🥺
We met online May 2021 and from that day she's been so special for me and is just eveything for me... for me to hear those news from her broke me down so bad that as I'm typing this my eyes are watering and i just feel so bad for my love...
I feel depressed and don't want to lose her at a young age 😭😭😭
This is just tragedy, it’s suffering to live like that, relationships become very difficult, I’m speechless it hurts so bad
Mike, you'll have to mentally age 50 years and pretend to be a granddad.
You're so cute hang in there go to the doc with her and she gets hormones who will save her
Maybe its best that you leave her, so she can find a man that actually loves her for her.
You girls shouldn’t just give up and accept this, it’s being caused by things in our environment. I even think it may be being done on purpose to stop babies being born. Your parents need to research it and they may have to spend money from their own pocket to get you treated and go to another country to see a endocrinologist and fertility doctor. They have caused men’s sperm counts to go way down too which they have to be very high to make a baby or like my granddaughter was made in a Petri dish under a microscope with one sperm injected with a tiny needle into the egg, allowed to divide for several days and then implanted. I had to give my daughter shots everyday in her bottom and she took hormone pills.
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I agree. It's good to see people awake.
@@maidservantofgod X2
I was 34 now at 49 I’m still going through it and it’s really hard and lonely ❤
First you need a complete endocrine study and your pituitary gland looked at. You can be kept on birth control pills and if you have no eggs you can get donor eggs to have a baby in the future. Your life isn’t over but with your country’s socialized medicine they probably won’t pay for treatment. Maybe you will have to pay yourself. My daughter had high testosterone and no periods which leads to endometrial cancer, she was super strong, her hair was falling out and she would have increased risk of heart attack and no babies. She takes birth control pills to normalize everything and with fertility doctors she has a baby girl. Good luck, don’t give up!
I had this to from around her age mine started at 16 to 18
She is so pretty though ❤️
DHEA + heavy metal removal + iodine + b-vitamins
Can you please explain further?
Does it help??
Many of these biological disturbances are epigenetic in nature. The reality is that our environment is wildly toxic while possessing vitamin and mineral deficiencies that disturb natural functions of development.
I m 39 . I have started to menopause. Im so scared..
Were u drugged with GHB… i was drugged after leaving Starbucks at 12:43 pm and was put into immediate and sudden and permanent menopausal
I was 20 😢
Is this problem has any surgical treatment
No only hormonal treatment
Nope
I also face this pvlm
I feel like the only one who has no thoughts on children never have and i always said i think ill just adopt and give a child a new family. The only thing is now trying to get bloody hrt when im suffering with seriously bad hot flushes its not quick enough im melting here !!! 😂😂😂😅😅😅😅
Can we create a group on Instagram and meet each other?
There's a group on Facebook with a lot of members
Group name
Name of the group?