As a student in the medical field, im glad I found your channel. I have to be on my best behavior. But so many people have disrespected me. I don’t know how to go about it because retaliation is real. Last week I was told by someone “it’s not like you’re trying to have kids anyway” when it came to radiation safety. Radiation can affect your testicles and it was so out of pocket.
Hi Bianca, Great message. I went through this and dealt with the aftermath of the pain for an entire year. After it all I feel better and understand why they did what they did. Now I just look for the signs and immediately when I spot the signs I now turn the other way. I just don’t put attention to any kind of behaviors that are unworthy of my attention.
That is a skill that you've built, and it takes a lot of courage to do so. It would be easy to keep following our old patterns because it's mindless, comfortable, and PREDICTABLE. Proud of you for analyzing your past decisions and have the awareness to do things differently.
Everyone must follow the rule of the sword. It goes like this: once you reach for the sword of revenge and justice, then you are no longer allowed to not believe in God anymore. This keeps the target on God, which is what he wants. If you are able to channel this energy into achievement, as Bianca describes, then you’re acting out belief in God.
I've been reading your comment for the past 5 minutes. It puzzles me, I have never thought about it that way. So does that mean that God wants us to act out of revenge and justice? Why? I kind of feel bad to admit I want revenge...like it feels wrong for some reason
@@BiancaSt-Georges We are socialized to not seek revenge (for good reason), so we are made to feel guilty for going there by the social conscience. Still, for those who are ready, I would say yes God wants us to go to that dark place. There is no fulfillment with the desire for revenge, but there is that promise for justice. There is a deep reason we desire revenge, but we are to offer up this desire for revenge, have it be filtered through the name of justice, and it will be returned to us. This requires an agreement and relationship with God. To restate, the desire for revenge is right, but it will have to be transformed into a desire for justice in order to find fulfillment. The difference between revenge and justice is that with the latter the one wielding the sword must also face the righteous judge. Without this, you can get captured by the darkness of vengeance and lose the moral high ground. We must always find the moral high ground which requires the judgment of justice.
@@BiancaSt-Georges We are socialized to not seek revenge (for good reason), so we are made to feel guilty by the social conscience. Why is betrayal and the desire for revenge part of the story of the soul? It’s something like how a love story where unification happens - after it looks irreconcilable at one point - is a better movie than a story where there is no adversity.
Gurl im being transparent i gone to court because of a motherf… because I fought him for the disrespect he putted me through the lies etc… and sometimes i have so much rage !!! And always saying to myself I’ll succeed just to prove them all wrong including HIM , I have to always go each one month and half for 2 years to a council for them to check if im not going again in violence and trust me I’ll never let that go until my goal is achieved : in other words : SUCCESS it’s the only shi I got in mind ninght and day ! I’m a student too and people find me savage and don’t look at me in the face and think I’m crazy I don’t care I know who I am and I’m a STAR it’s just a matter of time ! I know I’ll meet the Greats ! Already met them ! I’m quantum JUMPING NOOOW
This has been me AF and it has fueled an anger in me that I’m working through!
Anger can be used as a positive fuel just learn how to harness it…..
As a student in the medical field, im glad I found your channel. I have to be on my best behavior. But so many people have disrespected me. I don’t know how to go about it because retaliation is real. Last week I was told by someone “it’s not like you’re trying to have kids anyway” when it came to radiation safety. Radiation can affect your testicles and it was so out of pocket.
Thank you i will apply this knowledge to my life 💟 💯
Great! Have a nice weekend!
I channel that anger into my kickboxing workouts. Sometimes being the better person is taking care of yourself.
Well fkn said
Thank you for this ❤️🙏🏾
Hi Bianca,
Great message. I went through this and dealt with the aftermath of the pain for an entire year. After it all I feel better and understand why they did what they did. Now I just look for the signs and immediately when I spot the signs I now turn the other way. I just don’t put attention to any kind of behaviors that are unworthy of my attention.
That is a skill that you've built, and it takes a lot of courage to do so. It would be easy to keep following our old patterns because it's mindless, comfortable, and PREDICTABLE. Proud of you for analyzing your past decisions and have the awareness to do things differently.
needed this, thank u angel
So thankful❤ that you give your all for these videos
Thank you for all your encouragement and energy😊
You're welcome. I'm truly so grateful for this comment. It makes it so worth it putting the effort in the vids when I feel like we can relate.
You can forgive to not stay bitter
But you must remember the pain so that you won’t experience it again
Love this vid!❤
Exactly, I don’t want to blindly forgive easily without respecting myself. Thanks for the comment x
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🔥 ❤
Oui, oui, oui mon cheri.😂
Wheres the love button❤
Don't get eaten alive by others.
Girl stop editing & go raw…. Much love
Everyone must follow the rule of the sword. It goes like this: once you reach for the sword of revenge and justice, then you are no longer allowed to not believe in God anymore. This keeps the target on God, which is what he wants.
If you are able to channel this energy into achievement, as Bianca describes, then you’re acting out belief in God.
I've been reading your comment for the past 5 minutes. It puzzles me, I have never thought about it that way. So does that mean that God wants us to act out of revenge and justice? Why? I kind of feel bad to admit I want revenge...like it feels wrong for some reason
@@BiancaSt-Georges
We are socialized to not seek revenge (for good reason), so we are made to feel guilty for going there by the social conscience. Still, for those who are ready, I would say yes God wants us to go to that dark place.
There is no fulfillment with the desire for revenge, but there is that promise for justice. There is a deep reason we desire revenge, but we are to offer up this desire for revenge, have it be filtered through the name of justice, and it will be returned to us. This requires an agreement and relationship with God.
To restate, the desire for revenge is right, but it will have to be transformed into a desire for justice in order to find fulfillment. The difference between revenge and justice is that with the latter the one wielding the sword must also face the righteous judge. Without this, you can get captured by the darkness of vengeance and lose the moral high ground. We must always find the moral high ground which requires the judgment of justice.
@@BiancaSt-Georges
We are socialized to not seek revenge (for good reason), so we are made to feel guilty by the social conscience.
Why is betrayal and the desire for revenge part of the story of the soul? It’s something like how a love story where unification happens - after it looks irreconcilable at one point - is a better movie than a story where there is no adversity.
Gurl im being transparent i gone to court because of a motherf… because I fought him for the disrespect he putted me through the lies etc… and sometimes i have so much rage !!! And always saying to myself I’ll succeed just to prove them all wrong including HIM , I have to always go each one month and half for 2 years to a council for them to check if im not going again in violence and trust me I’ll never let that go until my goal is achieved : in other words : SUCCESS it’s the only shi I got in mind ninght and day ! I’m a student too and people find me savage and don’t look at me in the face and think I’m crazy I don’t care I know who I am and I’m a STAR it’s just a matter of time ! I know I’ll meet the Greats ! Already met them ! I’m quantum JUMPING NOOOW